Androphobia | Alex & Lokelani Wilson

[@1ysav]

this was an amazing message. something that scares me about people is how judge mental people can be and how i’m afraid of judgement.

[@SweetKristen]

You are not alone.

[@the1andonlycarson669]

me too

[@e.hgodisgood947]

Don't be afraid.🙏🏿

[@jrmartinez1354]

God gave you a sound mind and of power and self control 2 Timothy 1:7 in Jesus name amen ❤❤

[@thebestofus677]

@@jrmartinez1354im writing this one down and I’m always going to remember this thank you 🙏

[@omphilematsaung9768]

I just had a gossip session with some friends earlier and the lord put a thought in my head to cover my ears and refuse to take part in it but i didnt listen. I asked for forgiveness and after i found this video by the good grace of God.❤

[@rebecailas6320]

You can also just walk out of the room when people try to gossip. While it may be difficult for some people to understand, most people will respect you more people you value honesty and integrity instead of talking behind people’s backs.What many people don’t realize is that gossiping leads to hell. It’s in the Bible. I’m glad you felt God’s conviction because many “Christians” gossip for years and never find a problem with it. This is a huge red flag🚩 The book of Proverbs says “Bad company curropts God morals.” Even listening to gossip is a sin. Why? Because a person cannot gossip to themselves they need someone to gossip to. So by you exiting the room or covering your eyes, it does not allow the negative lies of the enemy to enter your heart to cause you to judge a person created in the image of God. This is why it’s important to have the Holy Spirit! Whoth the Holy Spirit, we can experience God on a deeper more intimate level.

[@uglypie670]

I'm an overthinker and it often leads to me apologizing for everything because I don't want to offend people because I'm afraid of how they may have taken what I said in a different way than intended. Thank you for the message as always.

[@natpak9466]

I know that what scares me about people is because I overthink alot of what they might think. I overthink so much that its paralyzing in a sense of how much anxiety I build over something simple and I don’t end up doing the things that I need to do because of fear of people. Thank you for this message♥️ I needed to hear it. God bless you all!

[@evasccl7846]

I cannot wait to listen and learn!! Notification on, I am in the UK and do NOT want to miss what God has for me to learn today, specially because I have been asking myself if i have fear of people... it is not right and there seems to be something i am not seeing or understanding... I prayed about it this whole week, and now BOOM! here you are with this title!! God is good, covers ALL our needs. Our God is Great!! God bless you 🤗 I love you ❤

[@logandelorme5588]

W may never speak with each other in person in reality so I'd Like to take the time to say Thank you for the declaration of Faith and support of your faith to believe in Jesus Christ Amen. Have a wonderful day knowing your inspiration was read and Valued by someone from around the world as I'm from Canada and I too have experienced this Through the Channel of Amen and many others who preach the word of Christ. Thank you and God bless

[@xavierthomas5835]

Amen and amen. So many times, I've received what I was looking for without even looking for it.

[@ahl8229]

Amen!:-) God bless you Eva!

[@iamspeaking6686]

Glorious Sunday~I know longer fear people, although I have in the past. I tried really hard here to figure (after listen) what frightens me. There is so much peace when you know Christ. I used to be one of the scariest people other people knew. Having been sheltered most of this life by parents, siblings and friends. This sermon today was so uplifting and very insightful. Doing our family prayer call earlier today it covered so much of what was spoken here and I know that is the Holy Spirit working on our behalf. My God I thank You for the many lessons gained from how You are leading me, have Your away and not my will I pray in the blessed holy name of Abba-Amen Amen and Amen. “I will go out and be the church.”

[@xavierthomas5835]

Amen and amen. I will go out and be the church. Jesus makes fear disappear in every area. Im.glad to see you living free, beloved. May God continue his great work in you.

[@LebohangMmihi]

No human is perfect, but this couple gives me a little hope. Working with your wife like this must be awsome.😊❤

[@starkurosu2179]

What scares me about people...Honestly rejection and assault..Thank you for making this video..I need to focus on Christ Thank you and God bless your family. I would love to be friends with you guys. I can't wait to see more of my brothers and sisters in Christ❤

[@amenpodcast]

You are so welcome

[@BiancaVie]

I struggle with fear of ppl and I overthink a lot… that was sooo good God already got tomorrow and to ask ourselves who cares…. I have to check myself about my fear of judgement from ppl and God had to really work on me when it comes to “people pleasing”… something as simple as reminding ourselves who cares and remembering God already has tomorrow …Amen ❤❤❤

[@laszlotorok472]

I've been wondering how I could lose this fear of people, fear of judgement from people, and I watched quite a few videos about it too but listening to this podcast kind of put things in perspective for me And I feel relief right now and I am feeling peace, so I thank you very much for making this podcast, and to anyone who is reading this comment or even if you didn't read it God bless you!

[@AustinLeeDurham]

❤ love you guys. Over past 2 years y’all been more friends/family to me than my own. I appreciate you guys as vessels for God!

[@isaactalks4769]

God bless you My brother

[@jessiesoftpaws]

Every one of your messages is a blessing to so many people! Praise God for your work.

[@livingdream2336]

Thank you for this, it has opened my eyes to a different perspective. I spoke to a couple of friends today, after a month apart and it felt nice. Although I was scared, it was nice. What I fear about people are the encounters with them, I love people, but mostly from a distance. I fear speaking to people and not knowing how they would process what I’ve said. I fear the awkward silences and the pressure to keep a conversation going.

[@nasoswrld]

I was literally just talking with a friend about this very topic, God is so good. I cannot wait for this to drop.

[@xavierthomas5835]

Amen.

[@marlenerose9435]

I can’t wait for this to drop, I battle with this for years.

[@xavierthomas5835]

The battle is over beloved. He that's is for you is against those who are against you. Just believe, and your fear will be defeated forever.

[@marlenerose9435]

@@xavierthomas5835 Amen.🙏🏾

[@gabrielamariela]

A few years ago I was diagnosed with social phobia and since then I've had so much progress, Christ really helped me so much (and still does) with my fears. Unfortunately I still have lots of them but this message was such a blessing that I might rewatch all over again. Thank you so much for your time, you truly speak from the Spirits guidance. And I think what I fear the most about people is rejection, and also thefts. But yeah, this is a long journey but I'm happy that He is with me, truly and completely. Let's all of us go out and be the Church. Amen.

[@daniella6920]

I feel like you were speaking directly to me. Thank you for posting this episode and thank God for this podcast.

[@logandelorme5588]

What scares me about people is for being mis understood for my Life changing rededication to Jesus Christ Amen 🙏. From Rig Pig and Biker to a Lone Wolf in Jesus Christ Amen 🙏. It's a lonely at times. When family abandons and leaves. Well already I have Jesus Christ Amen

[@ramel-qy4rc]

I fear being alone and hated by the world and judged or mistreated. It’s stupid and God cares and thinks about me more than anything else, and doesn’t ever want to mistreat me but lead me in His love and affection and direction. I’m sorry for how I treat You God. May I fear You and nothing else in Your Name Jesus my God amen.

[@lex8799]

Thank you

[@fabiancache77]

The Lord is so intentional. I felt lead to delete my instagram because of this very thing. You put to words what the Lord placed on my heart. God Bless you both and your ministry.

[@deneselivingston3725]

Amen!! I needed to hear this message Glory to God!

[@xavierthomas5835]

Glory to the Most High God

[@JeremiahRC5464]

Very good. Thank you for this blessing. I needed to hear this. I need to hear it again. God bless you

[@NewCreationInChrist896]

Amen, always pray and trust in God’s sovereign will and power. Proverbs 3:5-6 Proverbs 16:7

[@marcuscsmith8808]

God bless both of you. What a great message today. Love conquers all fear. We all need to love are self more. Jesus will do the rest . Amen 🙏.

[@sarafarrell4696]

I just wanna say, this was a great message, really spoke to me.. ive suffered with severe social anxiety disorder since i was 5, and experienced years of verbal and emotional abuse from my husband so I still have that trauma and those memories come to my mind but since September 2023 ive been truly trying to live for Jesus and He has been convicting me and strengthening me and i believe this fear of people is the next thing that needs to go.. i have always been a sensitive person, i feel other people's emotions so strongly and i think that might be something that scares me about people is not only the physical pain they can inflict but the emotional pain as well.. but im going to pray to God to help me with this and to change my perspective to focus on serving Him only!

[@FEELTHETRILL]

Absolutely love you guys. Mississippi sends their love and prayers! I listen to y’all everyday going to work. Such an encouraging start to the day. Y’all have such a fervent love for each other and Christ. It’s infectious!

[@fritzbarbour5402]

Love from Jackson!

[@xavierthomas5835]

Love from Di'Iberville.

[@JHudgins6]

Thank you Jesus for this wonderful message. Definitely an eye opener on how I can be afraid of people sometimes. Scared of the thoughts of what they think about me, if I am doing the right thing according to them. I’ve always been the person to be shaped to what others think of me. But being saved over a year ago I have been telling myself who cares? I’m doing it for God and that’s all tht matters. I still struggle at times but the more I learn about God through is word and character I am able to tell myself who cares and go for it if it brings God glory. Thank you Alex and Lokelani for all the knowledge you share to others. God using you both to bring clarity and breaking thinks down to where others can understand. I pray the Lord restores both of your health. In Jesus Name amen.

[@xavierthomas5835]

Amen. I was once much the same. Jesus did a whole number on that though. He showed me how nobody was there when I became saved. Not in a malicious manner, but it really gives you clarity to realize that when everyone forsook you, God was still with you. When noone wants to listen to you, about ANYTHING, God will listen to you. He was THERE. That's enough for me to count HIM worthy of my fear.

[@sabrinaartlife3766]

Excellent!

[@MalikEvegan]

thank you

[@user-op7es5mc6f]

I agree that what others think scares me, but this message helps me realize that pleasing others is not God’s work. God's work is looking and following him. I have remembered pleasing others is not essential; it is about pleasing / fearing God. Making sure I have a relationship with him, not people.

[@andrewluna1978]

Amen

[@thr3e0709]

God Bless To All Souls.

[@derlisfabian888]

Praise God. Thanks a lot for this message. definitely hit home! Oh Lord Jesus, help us to stay focused on you and surrender our fears to You. Amen 🙏🏼

[@thr3e0709]

I also struggle with overthinking and fear of people.

[@GhanaianLove]

Lokelani's responses during after the Amen always resonate with me.

[@rieridiaries]

Oh God bless you and your family this is such a blessing and a powerful message from God. Hallelujah, we're changing💌

[@semicharmedasmr]

Another amazing video.. thank you!

[@Junixr3]

Amen 🙏🏾

[@eyezy1879]

Is crazy how the Word of god always talking to me at the perfect timing!!!!Amen

[@lovinglife4962]

🙋🏽‍♀️I’m Soooooo thankful for you both letting our Heavenly Father use you both to pour into us with your prayers and messages 🙌🏽🙏🏽🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🫶🏽💯. I truly appreciate and received this message 🥹💓✌🏽

[@semicharmedasmr]

I like how you said to ask yourself who cares and it immediately made me think of god cuz even tho we have people in our lives that can care the one who truly cares about us is God so much that he knows the number of hairs on our heads.. I know I can't say I even care enough to try to know something like that

[@alicia_nicole444]

Thank you, Alex for being honest about where you are right now. You have been sharing more lately. I pray that your cup is filled back up with what you need 🙏🏾.

[@miguelm1117]

i feel like alot of times what you are preaching is made specifically to reach me... like this for example.. yesterday this idea of the fear of people came to my mind.. i get the conviction to serve God but don't know where to start.. thanks for your message !

[@GodisallIneedPlantsareallIeat]

Thank you for speaking on this topic. I need to stop worrying about bringing up praying and Christ with my kids when my unbelieving parents are around us. All that matters is what Christ/God thinks.

[@tristan3020]

Tanks for that sermon , God bless you so much more and more

[@NatashaNgwerume]

What scares me about me people is not being liked by they and being alone because i'm unlikable 😭, the fact that i've have made friends from not trying to impress ppl show thats me thinking I am unlikable is a lie from the enemy. Just like Jesus had those who hated, disliked him, he also had his close disciples who cared about tho he was hated by many.

[@Sommerjoy777]

I've never heard this podcast. It's a beautiful thing when the Lord is convicting you of what needs to be addressed in your own heart. My heart is the one I'm speaking of. Stop wasting your talents Sommer. Get back out there and proclaim His name and don't worry if you offend someone. Jesus wants many at His table. Don't I want them at the same table? Do I fear them to the point that I'll let them burn in hell and possibly myself. Take courage! And add that the apostles were up against the leaders and acknowledged it before God in prayer and prayed for boldness and it was so granted that they were right back in the temple proclaiming His name. When asked they said we ought to obey God! ❤

[@ANYTHINGISPOSSIBLEAPRIL]

amen ❤

[@alexvalenty]

you guys are on a roll!!! Loved this message so much. Praying for your fam. you have helped me so much.

[@Jesuschristislordofallforever]

What scares me about people? Not as much after watching this podcast. Who cares 😂Bless you both in Jesus name 🙏 ❤

[@prem1878]

It's such a blessing to find out about ur podcast . Sir Alex making a blessed Preaching and Miss Lokelani hosting makes the Sermon even better ❤

[@TheNowInSeconds]

Jesus Christ loves you!

[@sunitamahi3039]

amen

[@Abbydoe]

Guys, your podcast is soo therapeutic. Like Lani your voice is soothing. Thanks for this ❤

[@akolwol2546]

thank you ths messege just boost my confidance as Iam alone now as a new believer. Glory be to God

[@amirmoore7907]

Don’t give up on your marriage bro❤ God loves you

[@miriamyuji]

I was afraid that people: - knew something I didn't. That they were in the right, and I was in the wrong, because I wasn't good enough. Now, I know Jesus. God makes me in the right. He gives me the knowledge that others may not have. I was afraid that people: - Wouldn't like me. Then I'd be lonely, and sad. Now, I cherish my time alone with the lord. I was afraid that people: - were right about me, and I was wrong about me. That they knew me more than I knew myself. Now, I know that I am who God says I am. I ask him for the answers. I was afraid that people: - would have an impact on my worldly success. Now, I know my worldly success doesn't matter.

[@annikatan378]

Wow. Keep fighting the good fight of faith then

[@wesperados5893]

Our motivation should be His glory Kuz that’s where we find our joy🙌🏽

[@JStarrl4l]

Father God bless Lokalanie and Alex and their beautiful Guam Ilyt and the spiritual Kingdom they have harvested in Your Glory Father! As we are hosts to the flesh we pray for the spirit as we learned from the amazing vessel pastor Alex, Jesus healed the paralyzed man from the inside out and the man was able to walk in his flesh with a healed spirit! So Lord God we pray for immense healing spirituality and physically for all believers families in the body of Christ, and for the ones to be found! We pray for your Love to touch us all as your presence is in our midst! In Jesus’s Name We Pray Amen!

[@rivkaki]

wow this message hit really deep. i'm one to notice social ques and human behaviors so the fear of people has really had an impact on me for years. this video just brought so much clarity to my mind, thank you 🙏

[@marcuscsmith8808]

This is a very good message. God bless you both. Thank you

[@calebspencer7477]

This is a blessing in my life I will be praying for you and your family keep letting God grow your life’s

[@gretam2150]

Rejection, that's what scares me about people.. being rejected

[@teloivi1632]

People's perspectives and opinions about me was and is something that I've always been afraid of. Recently, I've been struggling with my studies and even though I prayed and worked hard to get my grades up, I still failed because my motivation was people's opinions. My fear of failing in my studies is a result of the fear of people and it's gotten to the point where it's almost like my god. It's been something I've been struggling for a long time and even more recently. This message helped me a lot in changing my perspective and getting a start to shifting my focus to God and not people.

[@dennisjohnson1809]

Amen! Very good sermon thank you guys.

[@solascriptura2871]

Amen! Love y’all.

[@BossdomChronicals]

Love you guys… I put my grief before God. My baby sister passed away Jan 2021 my mom passed away this past Jan, and although I use the first fruits of my day spending time with God. At some point in my day I start to fight the what ifs and the guilt the enemy tries to put on me trying to get me to believe I wasn’t the best daughter the last 3 years of my mom’s life . God continues to show me there was nothing I could do and what I was able to do was honored by him. He called them and I couldn’t control his timing. When they were in the womb their dates and time were set to return to him. When I have those thoughts, instead of feeding my flesh, I try to use that time to glorify him, to honor their time in my life by thinking of a joyous moment I had with them…and remember how amazing it is to know they are literally with the Father😊 .

[@petebarber6778]

May God continue to Bless You & Your Children, and your House Church....so it can help Soul's experience Jesus. Thankyou For This Message....It was awesome.

[@amenpodcast]

Yes, thank you

[@fumes1955]

I don’t know what’s been going on with me, I don’t want be dreadful of people’s rejection, nor do I want to be afraid at all. Every time I feel a compassion for someone and i know Christ wants me to talk to them about him I don’t do it half the time, and when I do i don’t know what to say or do. I feel like God is disappointed with me, and that he dislikes me. I know it’s not true but it’s one of the only things I feel. I don’t like being alone or lonely, i really want to love him and to be able to know he knows and loves me without me doubting, I want to be his and his son and to be known by him but I feel like i’m not doing something right or that I don’t have a healthy fear of God. I want to talk to my family about God and get them to read their bibles since I was raised Christian, but even then i’m more intimidated by talking to them about God than i am others

[@davidbramlett8193]

Timely Word 🙏🏾

[@jewelbailey5712]

What scares me is not being accepted, being looked at as a religious weirdo and not being able to prove what I am saying about Jesus with evidential information and what I am saying is THE truth AKA I am afraid of debating with atheist lol and just really intelligent unbelievers , I'm not good at debating and I'm afraid of running into that one person that I will not be able to prove wrong and end up leaving them thinking that their perspective of God is correct but who cares ! God will speak through me either way and if they choose not to believe the truth I don't have to carry the weight of that because I did my part . Pray for them, love them with their hardened heart but i rather be loyal to God then hard hearted atheist ! who cares! God cares so that's who i will listen to

[@e.hgodisgood947]

Really good 🙏🏿

[@amenpodcast]

Thanks for listening

[@allisonbenn4565]

Wooooo, this blessed me! Thank you for this amazing teaching. God bless you and your family

[@amenpodcast]

Glad it was helpful!

[@letitslime1653]

This is a topic that's been on my mind for some time. I find that I fear those who are easily angered. Where one minute, everything's fine and then the next, they blow up. I do believe that has left me with some anxiety whenever I feel like I'm in those situations and it has definitely left me with some fear. I know it's something I have to stay in prayer about. Thanks for sharing 🙏🏽

[@RoyalRose22-y1p]

I really needed this word right on time. Thank you to both allowing God to use you, thank you for sharing your testimony woman of God 🙏...I can relate with a lot of what Lokealnie said. Help me Father focus on you and the eternal and not on people and the lies that people tell that others may believe ...help me to remember Jesus they lied on you and said you had demons also. Help me to remember Who Cares. And to go 9ut ad be the church ...in Jesus name I pray 🙏 amen

[@ewa_mbu]

This is really an important topic thank you for making this video. and to answer the question, what scares me about people is the things that they are capable of doing that I don't think i am capable of doing, I'm afraid people are mentally stronger than me and I truly don't understand why. I'll talk to God about it, thank you for the amazing question!

[@bliss3174]

Love you both ♥️ Thank you for this, God bless you and your family

[@spiritseed388]

Thank you to both❤ you are a blessing

[@kspades2530]

I want 5 kids too by the grace of God!

[@cristinagonzalez6946]

💜💜💜beautiful

[@Sarah777c]

Amen 🙏

[@SweetKristen]

Great message you guys, one thing though.....if I'm not mistaken, anthropophobia is the fear of people, androphobia is the fear of MEN.

[@marisantiago6287]

I love this message is beautiful

[@LauraTye-vc4ck]

Wow just found your podcast live it ✝️🙏🇬🇧

[@amenpodcast]

Welcome aboard!

[@vegaleyify]

Thanks!

[@candace4404]

When you said "who cares" I heard it as a double meaning. Who cares as in who cares what people think and WHO cares? God does! Which is all that shouod matter🙏🏾

[@Iammadonna1234]

This was SO encouraging. Thank you

[@funkpr]

I am very thankful for your Bible study/lesson. BTW, I fear rejection. This is, ironically, what lures me to Jesus more than the world. People will disappoint us. Jesus will never disappoint us. He will never leave us or reject us. We are His. The only way we can lose that connection with Him is by denying Him the first place in our life. You did a good job explaining this connection/relationship. God's blessings and peace be yours.

[@scottotf6250]

3:02 well done brother! Fighting not to let the things of God get in the way of the things of God, family first!

[@kookaliciouss]

Needed this one bless you guys ❤

[@kspades2530]

The thing that scares me most about people is rejection. Like rejection from girls I find attractive and I want to talk to because I need to start cuffing for a wife in future.

[@Gods.the.answer]

Amen to all this Death isn't the end my friends. We aren't good people, we lie, blaspheme our own creator, and we dishonour our parents and if God was to judge us by the moral law of the 10 commandments we would be guilty and heading to hell but our God loves us enough to send his Son, Jesus Christ to die on the cross. With this death it was a sacrifice for all of our evil deeds and disobedience. Through his perfection being a sinless man and God in the flesh, he was worthy of taking our punishment. Though faith in this sacrifice for Jesus dying for the removal of sin through his blood and resurrection on the 3rd day defeating death. He purchased our freedom through his blood. He loves you and if you put your faith in Him then you will be saved by the Grace of God. But you need to repent from your old ways. This means to turn away from your sinful desires, change your mind and focus on Jesus. God bless you God wants to spend eternity with you despite what wrong you've done and the hurt you've experienced

[@itzbloux2732]

This is the gospel

[@DaBladePwn]

I wouldnt normally comment an answer to a question like this but it might help someone and also help me out. The last year or so God has been calling me at random moments to pray for strangers. Early on i did it everytime. Then i started to run from it and ignore the holy spirit. Ive ran from it eveytime recently and the more ive run from it the more my fear has grown. Everytime i think God is telling me to pray for someone i get fear and anxiety and internally kick and scream. I feel torn everytime. Honestly im not exactly sure what im afraid of. Im constantly worried im going to come off as a religious nut/look like a fool. So badly i want to convey the truth of Jesus, how Hes helped me in my life and how its more than a religion. But im afraid the interaction will be meaningless and the person i pray for will walk away still believing that anyone who believes in God is a nut. I think my problem has been that it has nothing to do with me. That God will do all the work in them and my ability to convey the truth of Jesus (whether good or bad) cant screw things up because its not based on my ability.

[@user-zd1zm2ys6d]

Amen , this helped a lot 🙏🏼

[@MP16298]

I cant get over how much this was for me...even to the examples given...

[@Mindsetolympics]

subscribed!!!

[@annikatan378]

"When you focus on Christ, you're looking at your own value"... Would the unhealthy fear of God mean trying to earn the love of Christ by trying so hard to understand & know the Word of God?

[@Kvngnate2x]

Sent to me at the perfect time❤

[@YoungSavedAfricanz]

Hey Alex and Loki ,love you guys ministry and I'm always excited to get a notification,when you post. I have a request and that is if you could bring back the "lone"soundtrack by kino which you used for all your other videos,I really miss it. It's just that I was used to hearing it on your videos and I actually thought it was Alex's own song 😅