Vim Kuv Lub Siab Phem. 9/27/2021

[@mouavang3371]

It's so sad sister, he dies from loneliness and heart broken. you're so much like my wife. You don't know how much you hurt him.

[@suexiong537]

She only cried because she realized that she got nothing in her name...

[@melady.x7468]

Lol sad life then

[@johnjohnson7522]

She's so much like your wife then you should should let her go and don't hold her because it's going to kill you. There are hundred thousands of Hmong women out there and find one who loves and likes you brother because you're man! 10/2/2021

[@niamvamvue9806]

Yog kawg, koj yeej siab phem tiag nawb, koj twb tsis hlub nws es ua cas koj ho lav yuav nws es nkim nws lub neej. Koj tsis sawm tau nws es koj thiaj plam nws lawm.

[@mickyyang6338]

Maybe his first wife knows that you don’t have the heart to love him so she came back for him… it’s ok niam laus, you weren’t happy with him when he was alive so don’t miss him when he’s gone with his first wife now… sad story but happy that he’s in a better place now, and good luck to you niam laus 🙂😢 let this be a lesson for you and everyone to not take the people that loves us for granted 😭

[@Taumliab]

Sniff I'd cried. You didn't deserve this man. 😔 he gave you his heart and he received nothing from you. You finally realized it and it's too late.

[@lindavang5350]

We need allot of good men Ike this story. Love only comes once in a life time.

[@yinglor8962]

Vuag ib tug poj niam zoo li koj xyov puas txawj quaj as...tuag lawm mam hlub mas thiaj li yog koj ntag lau...liam li koj ces cia rau luag kaus thiab luag tsim nawb mog

[@pahouaxiong6142]

Txhob tus siab koj txoj hmoov tsis sawm tau tus hlub.

[@ouradventuresnspecialmoments]

You don't deserve Happiness then...True, he's older than you, but he truly loved you! You're not perfect either...You're a divorcee with Kids...You're not better than him in any way.

[@nkaujmoon]

What’s wrong with being a divorcee with kids? I’m not standing up for this lady but you make it seem like there is something wrong being a divorcee.

[@ouradventuresnspecialmoments]

@@nkaujmoon:There's nothing wrong with being a Divorcee...Don't take it the wrong way! What I'm saying is that why did this lady set her standards so high? She's not perfect either! She should've accepted her older husband & his love instead of judging him & making him feel like she was better than him!

[@ThePrincessWorrior]

@@ouradventuresnspecialmoments No, she didn’t have to. What she needed to do was not marry him to begin with and get out to live her own life instead of living with her parents and brother. Hmoob people don’t want divorcees back at their homes, let alone 4 more bodies to take their space and mouths to feed.

[@pajthao4813]

Yeej meem uv tus koj hlub2 thiaj tsim nyog qhov koj tsim ib tug neeg hlub2 koj tuag kus vim txoj kev tu siab

[@Loves_GodSR]

I'm sorry for your loss. He still gave you his love for 7 years. Don't know what you have till its gone.

[@nraughmoobsiabzoochannel1896]

Tu siab kawg li

[@Karena312]

I can’t imagining marrying someone I don’t even like and have to sleep with that person every day. It’s easy for us to judged her and call her evil. She should have treat him better but loving him will really take time.

[@sthawj]

It’s very easy to call her evil because if that’s how she felt then why marry him. She could’ve said no but she wanted to use him for the stability of her own kids and herself plus the happiness of her father. Now that he’s gone and she can’t reap the benefits she’s regretting it

[@trullieyeah2687]

Agreed. I can't love someone I don't like. For that reason, I choose to be alone so no one is hurt.

[@tonglee8682]

Are you single?

[@LoloLolo-ff9hk]

Well..shes old enough, she had gone thru a marriage b4 why make him suffer for her gain...indeed shes stupid n evil... if shes in laos, i will try to understand her but shes not so evil come evil do.thats all

[@trullieyeah2687]

@@tonglee8682 yes and I'm content with being single...

[@Llis3322]

Very sad.. I can't stand people who marry people they KNOW FORSURE they do not like and cannot love 😡 You did not have to marry him. You could have just ran away or find a place of your own to live. Being a poj nrauj don't mean you become homeless. You need to be able to take care of yourself at all times whether you have a husband or not.

[@QaibT]

Tus muam aw...koj txoj hmoov zoo kawg. Koj tus txiv thiaj li tuag lawm vim koj twb g xav hlub nws kojj twb xav2 kom nws tuag ne

[@PeebZeej31]

Cas koj lub siab yuav tawv ua luaj, peb poj niam mas, yog tus txiv ua zoo thiab hlub hlub peb xwb ces peb yeej siab muag tig los hlub nws lawm nav, koj yeej tawv thiab phem nrhau lawm os, txhob nroo nroo txog nws lawm tsam nws tsis kaj siab os.

[@nkaujlugchannel]

Yog lawm. Peb ces ntshaw tus txiv zoo zoo li no xwb cas pog no es tsis tsim nyog tau nws li.

[@TheHlubforever]

Yog kawg yom! Txhob nroo nroo nawj. Koj nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb

[@meeyang8411]

A father who loves his daughter would not force her to marry a man who is as old as her father knowing the big age difference will likely cause a rough marriage as well as the likelihood of the daughter becoming an early window. Second, the daughter do not have to agree to the marriage knowing you do not and will not love the man. Sad that this man was being taken advantage of and died with broken heart.

[@ahuaahua8137]

Ca tu siab ualuaj os mloog zaj no kua muag ntw si xwbo

[@nkaujhmoobmovie719]

Zoo mloog thiab tu siab tshaj

[@myyearmouanoutoua6908]

Txhob Tus Siab o Tus me Viv ncau ..vim Tia's koj txiv lawv yuam koj yuav xwb ce yeej zoo Li o mog

[@nkaujkubxiong2164]

hai tau ru siab heev li o

[@mlee6150]

Have you thought of why your first husband cheat and left you? Maybe you’re not a good woman. I felt so bad for your 2nd husband.

[@Nkauj_hmong_Muas]

Es llll

[@maipha8560]

Me too, I felt like he did try his best to make her happy and perhaps she can give him her heart but nope she just used him for her benefits.

[@meqabzib]

Yog nws tseem muaj sia nyob koj yeej tsis hlub cia nws ncaim koj mus koj mam nco nws thiaj muaj nqes mog

[@bluexiong3492]

Poj niam tsis sawm zoo ces zoo li koj los mam tau tu siab zoo g yauv es yuav tau tu phem es tiag li ho koj os.

[@kaxiong3318]

You never know how much that loved❤️ one means until he/she is gone. All is left is remorse and sadness with many regrets.

[@daimntawvncigtebchawsnqats504]

Lig dhau lawm os..pab koj tu siab

[@jackieyunan4899]

Yuav poj nrauj los ua niam tsev ces yeej lwj siab li no nawb cov kwv tij hmoob aw...

[@shounathao8697]

Cas peb cov ntshaw ntshaw cov Txiv hlub hlub peb li no los tsis tau. Ho cov tau cov Txiv hlub hlub li no los ho saib tsis muaj nuj nqis. Cas yuav tu siab rau txoj hmoo Ua Lauj.

[@maivpaxiongandjulie9721]

Koj lub neeg tu siab tshaj plwas li so niam luas aww 😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣

[@Hmong911]

Zoo kawg koj paub lawm tiag tus txiv neej ntawd koj tseem yuav tsim koj kom txog hnub koj tuag kiag poj dab siab phem

[@ພພດດ-ບ9ນ]

ua cas kuv mloog zaj neej neeg no cas kuv yuav pab hlub tus txiv neej no ua luaj li tus poj niam siab phem li koj ces tom ntej no koj yuav ntib tus tsim koj lawm xwb thiab os

[@iforgotmyscreenname1]

Life Lesson: If you're a 30-40 year old divorcee with kid(s), don't look for a good looking man. Instead, look for someone who will love you more than you love him. After all, you're coming in with baggage (kids from another man). He's gonna have to take care of you and those kids. Good looking man have plenty of women to chose from, he's just gonna use you and abuse you until the money is gone, and then he move on to the next woman.

[@yingxiong5615]

Yov tuaj tham kom peb cov txiv neej mob hlwb ua ab tsi. Yog yus yeej yog hluas nkauj ces ua ib yam hais thiab mas yov tau ua yawm saub tsaug es tserm ho muaj tej tus txiv neej zoo li no tuaj pab cawm yus txoj kev txom nyem Yov quaj ua ab tsi kom xiam kua muag Vim yus tus kheej yeej lim hiam txaus lawm. Pab tus txiv tsev ntawd tu siab tag tiam

[@evabhmongocadventure9831]

Best no marriage license for someone like this woman

[@seexiong1117]

Ua Cas koj siab phem Ua luaj koj tsim koj tus txiv tu tu siab tuag kiag laum es puas zoo koj siab

[@安娜-r8n]

Cas yuav tu siab ua luaj os yom luag g hlub yus ces ntshe yuav ua ib siab mus os mog 😭😭😭😭

[@yoloohko4336]

Tu2 siab li os

[@victoriavang4152]

This old lady doesn't deserve him. She is curse. Yuav npam koj rau yav laus li laud pog laus aws. Cas ua neeg nyob no es tseem muaj tej poj nrauj xyob txhiaj li thiab. Pab tu siab rau tu me tij laug siab zoo

[@maileevang2103]

Nrog koj tu siab os tus viv ncaus .

[@maipha8560]

Sad that you both suffers heartaches because of the choices you made. If you truly didn't love him and don't want to be with him, should've stood your ground and fought your dad for your own happiness. Don't use any excuses to justify what you did to this man. I get it that you don't love him but if you didn't have to used him to get out of depending on your parents. I'm sure his first wife, although a ghost, she couldn't bare to see someone like you treat the person she love. Glad he's with with woman who loved him wholeheartedly. Good luck to you because there aren't too many good man like your deceased husband anymore.

[@johnjohnson7522]

Life is a drama. There are love, sadness, loneliness. It's very difficult to find a true lover. My wife is 10 years younger, but she had bypass surgery. Later, she had an acute stroke. I've been taking care of her 24/7 for 2 years. It looks like I'm 10 years old after 2 years she was no longer with me. She eventually passed away and I nearly killed myself twice. I'm a widow and it's hard for me to be alone! I love you so much! 10/2/2021

[@sandly5831]

You’re stronger than you know. You have unfinished business in this world, it’s not your time to leave yet. I’m sorry for your loss.

[@ashlyysng9849]

Koj lub siab mas phem tiag2 li koj viv ncaus aw koj txoj hmoo ces tag li ko lawm os mog

[@tuderlee6665]

Uatsaug os tus pojniam siab zoo2 ua koj tsaug ntau2 nawb mog

[@yoloohko4336]

Tu2​siab​li​

[@maivthoj5627]

He is a very respectful husband. But if she ain't got luv for him run

[@MissPeachie]

I blame her father for forcing her to marry someone she didn’t love. I could understand her pain and anger being a Hmong woman. He could have let her go but he didn’t so he’s partially to blame too. She still stayed with him until the end so I give her that. They both were equally unhappy.

[@opmobile253]

ใ​เก​สวัสดี​

[@caaspasvang7427]

Vim nws txiv Tsi xav kom nws txom nyem ntxiv lawm ne

[@Zeb1245]

You got that right.

[@maipha8560]

Her fault 100%. She should've fought her parents for not wanting to marry this man. She basically used him to get out of having to depend on her parents. Mistake only happens once, her first marriage fail, she should've learned from that mistake and not make the same one on her second.

[@magicalunicorn5853]

She could have said NO but she went with it anyways. It’s actually her fault.

[@EasygoingLady]

Thaum tuag lawm mam hlub, thaum mus ua neej tsis zoo lawm mam nco! Neeg lub siab yeej zoo li no. Txhua tus neeg yeej xav tau qhov zoo xwb tsis xav tau qhov phem. She is not to blame. We’re all the same.

[@ntsuabyajchannel5067]

Koj yog ib tug poj niam ua siab phem tshaj nplaws kuv g paub hais koj txoj kev koj siab phem ko li lawm hnub no koj g tas yuav nco g tas yuav xav txog li lawm os mog

[@nkaujhouathao8285]

This is such a sad story. I cried for your 2nd husband. He didn't deserve to be treated like how, you treated him. Man, like him are so hard to find.

[@maiyang3959]

Zaj neej neeg no hais tauvtu siab kawg.. Tab sis tu siab qhov hais tias koj lub siab phem lim hiam heev... koj yuav ib tus txiv tau txhua yam koj g yuav kuv pheej ua tus neeg zoo li kos cas thaum in the beginning koj g txhob leeg yuav nws mas tu sister..

[@caaspasvang7427]

Sister koj tus txiv txawm nyob los koj yeej Tsi hlub nws mus zoo dua vim his lovely wife already passed good for him 👋👋

[@nyajloojyaj600]

That's very sad story about life....

[@leelor9411]

Yus txoj kev phem rov los raug yus xwb, zoo kawg poj niam siab phem. Koj tus txiv tuag mus tu siab nrho lawm, koj nyob tom qab yuav lwj siab ntsuav mus kom ntev, ntev laud.

[@phoenixrogue25]

If you didn't love him, you should have loved that he loved your kids like his own. ....I hope your kids loved him at least.

[@pajthao4813]

Yog lwm tiam muaj tiag ntshe nws yuav khiav tiag2 kom dim koj vim koj tsis hlub nws. Nws mus raws tau tus hlub nws lawm nws kaj siab lug

[@hlubvimkoj4320]

Lady you don’t deserve any of his pennies!!! Karma will get you soon!!!😃😃😃

[@dayz9180]

I dont understand why you just can't stay single. That's your karma for being mean to someone that did love you!

[@fuemoua8345]

no matter what, we shall not persuade our kids to get marry someone they don't like it

[@ntsuabyajchannel5067]

Koj yog ib tug poj niam ua siab phem tshaj nplaws yog koj los es koj yuav los tsim neeg li koj xwb g tas los yuav luag kom yus tau chaw tuag li os

[@phaybounmobile4290]

Ruam li koj thiaj g mj neej zoo ua lo ma pog nruam aw

[@flickeringfire7098]

Ua neej nyob twb tsis hlub, yog luag tuag lawm Txhob quaj tsis muaj nujnqis. Cov neeg siab phem li koj nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb.

[@xaileexl]

I think I heard this one before already

[@YangFam-4]

Yup

[@xemoua9651]

Cas peb ua neej Nyob es tau ib yam plam ib yas li ov.😥😥

[@maivpaxiongandjulie9721]

Sad 😭😭😭💔💔💔😭😭😭

[@singkeothao463]

Koj yeej yog ib tug niam siab phem nruab thiab los tsis muaj kev hlub, tsis muaj ib neeg qhua Koj hlo

[@choonvghant7674]

Lub neej yeej tsi “fair”. Tug neej hlub koj tes koj ntsia nwg tsi muaj nqes. Tug koj hlub tes ho tsim koj pauj. Tsi txob tu siab maj mam yog ua lub siab ntev ua qho zoo vim tug zoo koj tub tsi leeg txais. Ov nawv nwg tub yog txiv koj nyiam hab vim yeej muaj txi zoo tsaaj nwg lawm.

[@maylee9743]

You are very evil women.. if you don’t love him you should let him go. Why torture his heart lady. Now is your time to get hurt, what you did to him is doing to you now see how long you can handle that pain. Good luck.

[@chongvang266]

Poj niam tsis Sawm Zoov lub siab teej. Phem

[@colleenchan9872]

Koj mas siab phem siab nyoos heev neeg tsis sawm tau tus zoo ces yog koj lau!

[@yl7495]

You stayed to take advantage of his generosity only because he was good to you and your kids

[@amandaxiong9436]

Kuv mloog mas kuv lub kua muag los kawg li. TOS kuv tsis mus ua neej los vim kuv ntshai Tsam kuv mus yuav tau luag tsis hlub kuv li no os.

[@cheeher5323]

Hnub poob qhov mam nco mam hlub ces dua toj lawm mog hnub no ma nco mam hlub ces li puas nram kwj ha lawm mog

[@cofisher5708]

What a great story, thank you for sharing. To me, this is a lesson for you to learn as how bad you treated your no-so-likable husband, now someone is treating you the way you mistreated this man. Thos also reminds myself of my life. I am married to a 13 years younger wife than myself and have 2 kids with her, reminds me, my kids and her family how old i am and how ugly i am compared to her ex's. Its sad but i am staying for my kids.

[@jaxieangyang7617]

Poj niam tsis sawm hlub muaj txog yim caum puas xees nrog rau lub siab me siab nqaim ni si thiaj hais tus txiv phem no ntau tsaj cov txiv neej

[@nraughmoobkhosiabxiong7279]

Tus pog no ces cia rau thaub laib mam saib suas kom tsim nyog xwb txhob muab los ua yus tus hlub lawm mog txiv neej hmoob.

[@caaspasvang7427]

Neeg Tsi sawm zoo ces yog li mas

[@tongl274]

The manosphere says that this woman is not done riding the carousel. And, never ever marry a single mother!

[@vangxai3355]

koj tsis hlub ces cia koj txhob tau ib yam dab tsi es koj thiaj paub txoj kev txom nyem yam no mus tom ntej koj thiaj pau ghlub neeg

[@astmanfirebird5574]

Tsis sawm zoo

[@tauzoo5998]

I’m a widow and went back to live with my parents. They forced me to marry someone but I denied it. I can careless how they treat me bc at the end of the day I’m the one suffering not them. Yus muaj ib zaug neej lawm yus yeej ua tau yus ib yig. My parents disowned me now but I don’t care. they’re not the one paying my bills, loving my kids, wiping my tears at the end of the night. I rather live on my own than with people who don’t accept me for who I am or what I’ve been through. Being divorced or a widow isn’t a sin. Peb ua neeg nyob lub neej yeej mus tsis zoo li lub siab xav. Paub hnub no tsis paub tagkis. People who judge and hate widows and divorced people are narrow minded.

[@nkaujhmoobvwj]

Everything is all good until u get sick...thats when u wish u have someone.

[@tauzoo5998]

@@nkaujhmoobvwj that’s true but those who love you will always be there for you. You’ll never understand until you wear the shoe.

[@mayseeyang5953]

That's true.. I felt that her dad was just getting rid of her.. he don't care about what she wants.. still she shouldn't have accepted if she didn't like him but it's not wrong to call her evil---- she said it herself.. that she is "siab phem"..

[@nkaujhmoobvwj]

@@tauzoo5998 I understand very much, I got divorced 2002, I work n lived on my own until 2018 when I met my husband. I got 2 strokes in 2020 n nobody came to see me except my husband. Thank his mama for him n raising a great guy.

[@ThePrincessWorrior]

@@nkaujhmoobvwj There are ambulance, hospital, nursing homes. One phone call alway. If we are too sick to last until one arrive then, it’s time to go.

[@สุเนตรแซ่ยะ]

Kuv lub kua muag yeej los nawj

[@kaciewanh1986]

Pojniam thiaj yuam tau lub siab nyob nrog tus txivneej yus tsis nyiam tsis hlub xwb. Txivneej mas yeej yuam tsis tau lub siab kiag li nawb 😖😩

[@tubhmongxyoojlifestylevide5580]

sov lis lau cov laus uas tseem coj kev cai gub guab yuam tub ntxhai xav kom tej ntxhai cias lis mu khaw hluag lub neej zoo uas ntshaws hluag kub vam hluag nyiaj dhuav tsaj nplaw 🤔🤔🤔🤔💰💰💰💰💸💸💸💸

[@hmoobmama]

First of all, what a dream to find a man that has his own house. And he’s only 14 years older than u! It’s not that much older! Most men now a days are just bums with no house, and tons of debt. Girl, he was your savior but u didn’t appreciate him.

[@charlietsujteev4699]

Los los kua muag os hmoob

[@thestoryofmylife6979]

This is a very sad story. But you can’t force what you don’t feel and you can’t help for what you do feel. I feel sad for both sides. 😢😢

[@touayang1051]

Siab phem ces tau phem xwb los mas.

[@nynyhawj1017]

Like the song 'Never know what you got til it's gone"

[@tsabmimchanel3649]

Nyob zoo tu niam lau kv xav nrog kj tham yuav hu tau kj li ca os

[@nkaujhmoobienbien2557]

me niam laus e txawm kj tsis ntiam los ua siab hlub os txuas yg nws thiaj hlub kj xb tus hluag ces lawv yeej tsis hlub kj li os

[@nouthao2896]

Tus niam tsev koj yeej muaj muaj hmoo Tau ib tug zoo zoo txiv tsev kawg NkAUS li tab sis nyob hauv koj lub siab tsis muaj qhov hlub nws tiag pab koj tu siab thiab khuv xim uas koj Tau plam ib tug zoo txiv tsev

[@amyyang624]

People are so quick to judge her. Apparently they don’t know what real evil looks like. She’s no saint but who is? She’s a typical Hmong woman who can’t stand up for herself and the second husband knowing she didn’t love him should’ve let her go. It’s not easy to make yourself love a person. I applaud Hmong women back in the days, which are few, that we’re able to stand up for themselves regardless of being shamed or disowned by family members.

[@yl7495]

No one forced her to marry him. She should have done the right thing and let him go.

[@dahliaxiong4731]

Based on my understanding of this story, she wasn’t like any of those Hmong women back in the days in Laos who couldn’t stand for themselves. She got remarried in USA here and got pressure by her dad. She could still refuse but she decided to marry him for a better place to live so it’s like she was using him. She could’ve said no but she was selfish. She took advantage of him for a shelter because she couldn’t afford one for her own kids. And she also shared a room with her parents sighhh. She used him and blamed him for not having that particular look. She played the victim and blamed the husband. Sighhhh

[@yl7495]

@@dahliaxiong4731 Well said!

[@yl7495]

@ Amy Yang. If she were the “typical” Hmong woman who could not stand for herself, then how did she manage to make the choice to divorce and leave her first husband? She sure stood up for herself enough to leave the bad first husband.

[@huashi06]

@@dahliaxiong4731 well said!👏👏👏

[@kangchang266]

Nws tus mob yog koj tsim nws tuag xwb os yog koj txhob yuav nws tej zaum nws tseem tsis tau tuag os zaum no nws tau nrog nws tus pojniam lawm lau nrog nws zoo siab nwa tau mu ua lub neej kaj siab lug nrog nws tus niam tsev zoo lawm os

[@katrinashong8171]

Don’t play with someone heart if you don’t like them or love. Don’t be cruel because you didn’t like how your ex treated you thats why you divorced him. You torture him for 7 years, Now you have nothing again and now you worried about yourself. You never love him. You are lucky that he cared about you and the child you have together. WHY!!!!!!

[@yiahawj4789]

Neeg tsis sawm zoo ces yog koj

[@choualee3091]

Tu siab tias koj tsis txawj hlub koj tus txiv 2 yog koj hlub nws no tej zaum koj lub neej yuav tsis los kua muag li koj hnub no. Txhob tu siab tej zaum koj hmoov tsis sawm tau zoo thiab os.

[@uaibsiabhlub1655]

neeg Tsis Sawm zoo na ha yog koj

[@pkcyang2910]

Tus viv ncaus aw tsis nyiam ces tsis txhob kam yuav mas. Kuv mas yog kuv tsis nyiam ib tug neeg twg yeej tsis muaj leejtwg yuam tau kuv yuav ib sim neej. Cov neeg yuam yus twb tsis nrog tus ntawv pw ces lawv yeej tsis paub. Ua poj nrauj txhob rov mus nrog niam thiab txiv txiv nyob lawv thiaj tsis yuam yus mas.

[@อยู่ในใจเสมอ-ฃ1ษ]

Siab phem ua luaj li os koj na niam laus aw.. 😭😭😭😭

[@สิริพรรณแซ่โซ้ง]

ฟังแล้วร้องให้หนักมากก

[@bluelyvue4915]

Menkauj hmoob yog luag hais u ces yuav chim rau luag yog u hais u mas thiaj paub mob siab tseem yog u niam u txiv hais los u chim os menkauj hmoob lub no u hais rau u mas thiaj paub