Vim Wb Tsis Muaj Contract. 8/5/23

[@qaibphoojywglee7124]

Cas txaus tu siab ua luaj li os!!!!! Tus me kwv ruam qauj aw!!!!!

[@deldoe2398]

I learned the hard way, too with my in laws, our youngest brother. We had not spoken in 7 years. Our loving relationships ended. Sad😢 NEVER do business with your family because evilness and greediness will arise.

[@carriexyooj488]

I thought I was alone in this world going through the similar situation. Greatest lesson learned, never do business with family. Some siblings are so entitled.

[@myyearmouanoutoua6908]

Now..koj kawm tiav lawm mas Kwv tij neej tsas ..nkauj muam viv ncau never ua luam ua kes

[@7stars2love]

I agree tus neeg zoo mas yeej yog neeg npam nkaus xwb, ua zoo tau phem ces li no tiag lawv😢

[@mavang8366]

Koj tus niam ntxawm mam li them koj rau lwm tiam tiag2 li os me brother aw, ua siab loj mog.

[@yunothoj]

A degree does not represent someone's character and ethics. Mixing family and business is not the business regardless if there is or is not a contract involved.

[@user-bw9ro3jz4v]

Sometimes you can trust your siblings, just not outsiders who married within the family. Never work with friends or family. Your brother cannot control his wife. Thats all.

[@MissPeachie]

I agree. Sounds like his brother really tried to pay him back.

[@maisuavang8666]

Tim neb 2 niam txiv xwb os, ua taj laj twb tau nyiaj ntau los tseem xav kom tau ntau tshaj thiab tsis xav nyob saib taj laj ne, thiab txhob rau txim heev2 rau koj tus kwv tim koj ua ntej.

[@yl7495]

Tim yus xwb vim yus siab hlob hlob xav tau ntau

[@maithor8427]

Tus txiv tsev aws txhob tu siab os, twb tuaj nyob mes kas teb lawm es Cas koj tseem hais li nyob tim ub xwb nam.

[@TubTxheebCaaj]

Tos txiv neej tua poj niam los phem npaum no tiag. Neb los yeej xav tau ntau thiab xwb tsis txhob tu siab.

[@nengthao8318]

Tej neej neeg no mas meem txom neeg kawg li. Vim yus txoj kev ruam tshaj tus ruam. Yus ua neeg siab hlob tab sis yus kav tub nkeeg yus tso siab rau lwm tus dhau lawm xwb.

[@MissPeachie]

Dang, the sister-in-law definitely got her masters degree in scamming! I wonder if she got through school by cheating. She is from the street, which is why she is smart. People like her are dangerous to be associated with. Stay away from her or your identity will be next.

[@missysmart8620]

People like this sil doesn’t know her place so yes she gets what she wants so stay away is a good idea.

[@tublojleebfaabkis1900]

peb ua tib neeg nyob mas zoo li no, 1..thaum peb tsis tau muaj poj mas peb sib sib hlub kawg li ov mog nco nroov 2..thaum peb sawv daws muaj poj niam tas ces peb tsis siv haum muaj kev cov nyom txhua txhua yam li lawm, 3..thaum peb niam txiv tuag tas kwv tij tawg tas tsis sib hlub tas nyias mus nyias li lawm ov nco nroov tseg,

[@kevkawmkevpaub6189]

Do not put all your trust to anyone, even your spouse. Education doesn't make a person faithful and trustworthy.

[@YuYu-xl1tx]

Foom kiaj xwb twb tsi hlub yus es hlub nes ab tsi nas

[@maiher5334]

Muaj nyiaj ntau dhau lawm es tsis nco qab hlub yus tej nyiaj lawm thiaj cia luag tus sab nrauv tuav yus li nyiaj.

[@itsmaichee]

Why is it always the Nyabs that ruin the family over money when it comes to businesses lol. Smh.

[@Eva-mf5ii]

You should not assume that all educated individuals are unethical and only taught to do things under the table. You should only speak about your situation and don't advise others when not all of what you stated is the truth.

[@xayxiong1061]

Exactly!

[@yerllor86]

This is true. I have known both kinds of educated people to exist, those that are like what he described, but also those that are not. I think it depends on the person. Those that are like what he said feel entitled, the kind that does 1 thing and expect you to match them 1. Then there are those that understand everyone works hard for their money, or that people have worked hard and made sacrifices to get to where they are and should not be taken advantage of. These are the people that use their education not only to better themselves, but the world too.

[@5tuglis573]

Sometimes, I feel like May rambles on with whatever is in her mind lol. But I do disagree with that statement.

[@kaoxiong6148]

Live and learn…never trust anyone with your money and do business with family members…😩👍🤠!!!

[@thommxiong4461]

Trust no one. Money is always 💯 that breaks relationships apart.

[@nkaujhmoobvaj1491]

No matter how rich someone is, they can never be happy. They always wanna have more.

[@miabhlub63]

Never do business with families. They're the one to con you out of your money.

[@kuvxwb11]

Txoj kev ntshaw nyiaj es khwv huav lab tsis txaus tseem ua xas thiab thawm kawg thiaj pluag.

[@maiaflatebo]

The op could’ve use video footages for proof of theft. Also, they could retrieve receipt records from vendors and point of sale system. How else do you file tax, from those records!

[@seelor-logansgrandpa2938]

Tus tub mloog koj hais qhov tseeb yeej yog koj tus kwv thiab nws tus poj niam nkawv sib koom siab ua kev nyiag koj nyiaj xwb thiab yeej yog tim koj thiab koj tus poj niam neb muab ua yooj yim dhau lawm neb ntseeg neb tus kwv heev ces nws muab lub sij hawm thaum no los nyiag neb nyiaj mas

[@MaiActivitiesAndThings]

Get the cops involved! Stop letting people get away with things.

[@magicalunicorn5853]

Never do business with family members unless it’s their expertise. Don’t mix business and money. Always have lawyers and contracts.

[@jackieyunan4899]

Cov poj niam hmoob es kawm ntawv siab siab ces yeej siab phem li no nawb lawv aw...

[@bchang227]

Niag niam ntxawm ntawv yeej yuav npam xwb xwb los mas! Tsis foom los yuav npam. Foom los yuav npam! Nws noj nej nyiaj npaum cas ces nws yuav npam npaum li ntawv.

[@xayxiong1061]

Yog kawg mas!

[@myadvantures0426]

This story is not about the younger brother’s fault. It’s the money hungry naim ntxaum. Call the cops on her for thief. Press charges for restitution. The brother is honest and he spoke the truth.

[@itsmaichee]

Right, they have it on video? I would’ve pressed charges. He would’ve been okay and probably get custody of the kids because of the crime she committed.

[@yerthoj3573]

Neb txhob cem2 koj tus kwv o neb cem txij tus niam ntxawm xwb nawb vim yeej Tim neb ua tij thiab.

[@panouthao6350]

Money is the root to all evil.

[@neejkhuamsiabkwm8044]

Ua cas cov mes niam butcherler thiab niam master txoj kev Liam qhias neeg lub neej yeej tsis txog qhov twg muaj ib hnub twg ces yuav haw quav ua cas yug khwv noj cas ho tsis mus noj mab noj suav neb foom neb tus mes niam butcherler yeej tsis thaum lub tuj daim av mog kwv tij.

[@khuevang9805]

Ua neeg ces noj leej twg mis ces mloog tus ntawd lus xwb.

[@BeaSong-d3g]

It's your fault for trusting your brother too much. Remember he isnt your brother anymore once he married. They both got degreess....they shouldn't work for u. They got plan to rob u. Why u afraid to curse him and sis in law? Your brother part of his wife's plan. Foom nkawv kom tuag xwb mas. Koj ntshai ua tus dabtsi mas

[@colleenchan9872]

Tiam neej no never ua business uake os! Nyiaj yog sawv daws tus yeeb ncuab xwb os! Kawg muaj lo lus kav liam xwb lau!! Nkawv txawm noj koj cov nyiaj tag los nkawv yeej ua neej tsis kaj siab yuav raug kev npam xwb os!!!

[@diannaxiong693]

Hmoob aw cov tib neeg kws siab phem es noj luag tug yeej npam nawb vim twb tuag tag lawm tseem hluas hluas nawb npam tiag tiag li ov...Muaj tseeb tseeb yog leej twg lub npe ces npam tus ntawd kiag ntag ov.

[@BNP-HAWJ]

Smh younger brother’s wife, thsss kind of woman/man deserve to be jail forever

[@ylauj3523]

If you want to keep your family / friends never ever do business together. Remember your wife is a outsider an your husband is a outsider

[@MsPangY]

I Would Never Trust Anyone Not Even Family Members & If Outsiders Is Hard To Trust The Ones Inside Your Family Is Harder To Trust More!! I Have Learn Never To Trust No One, Until They Show You They Have A Good Heart But Until Then Some People Are Different When They Poor & Then Change When They See Money!!! So, It's Also Hard To Trust Your Kids Sometimes Too!! But, Contract Is The Way To Go Unless You Plan On Giving It For Free & Is Too Generous!!!! I Believe Educated People Can Be The Mastermind More Than The Poor Although Poor Do It Too But Sometimes They Too Poor To Fight Back or Have Brains To Steal!! Betcha They Both Plan It ... & Now Living Rich Happily Ever After!! A Family Member Don't Do You Wrong!! He Don't Feel Bad Because He's Using It Too!! That's How You Become Rich Overnight ...

[@maivang448]

Your brother should buy a life ins policy for himself, pay the premium, and have you listed as the beneficiary for the amount they owed you.

[@myprecious6751]

It's always best to never do business with families. Never do any kind of business without contracts, equal footing. Never go on word of mouth. Money makes people change and do evil deeds. Greed...

[@saLLy0608]

He could’ve gotten a loan from the bank to pay back his brother, and work to pay off the bank…

[@maipha8560]

Sounds like this guy finally graduated from business school. Must not be a good investment for him not to trust his brother without contract and agreement. Even opening a bank account requires a contract. Plus, chasing too many rabbits doesn't allow you to truly focus on just what's in focus. I guess it's a lesson learned too late. A great relationship ruined all due to greed.

[@Mai1nOnly]

I feel like they have cameras there’s proof that they could of took it to court 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@lukemoua9027]

Foom rau koj tus niam ntxawm es txhob foom koj tus kwv xwb mas. Kwv tij txhob us luam ua ke ib zaug nawb tus yuav tua koj ces txawm yog tus nyob ze2 koj ntag mas.

[@nkaujntse5196]

Learn to work for you and your wife only. Siblings who thinks they can take care of other family members thinks that they are nice and big hearted people but creates hardships for everyone in the end. Learn to separate family from business. Mus ua teb xa xwb ces yeej muaj teeb meem txhuas2 tsev neeg. It’s always about the outsider but in reality it’s the brother that allows it.

[@PH-ThailanD]

ntuj aw.twb nyob lub teb chawg me kas tseem tsw muaj peev khwv nyiaj tseem mug tub sab nyiaj ua rau tej kwv tij tawg tas tau xyob txhiaj lawm os yom

[@jackstar254]

Never do business with family. I make sure my family has zero effects on my finances.

[@pajthao4813]

Tus ntawm yus ib sab kiag yus twb tsis tau tso siab ntseeg kom tas2 es txhob xav txog tus sab nraud os tsis tim leej twg tim yus ob niam txiv xwb os

[@Jinjinjin88]

It’s always a outsider

[@xyoojmeelauj7355]

Tiag tiag mas.koj tus kwv zov taj laj ces yog koj tus kwv li nawb es nws tsuas them cov peev rau koj xwb...

[@solomoua5520]

Money is the evil. Peoples change fast for…

[@heymaiv]

Contract or not, karma will catch up.

[@caaspasvang7427]

Tsi focus one thing xwb ne fuas nyiaj heev dlau lawm ne, yus tsuas qualify nyiaj li ntawm xwb…..twb muaj taj laj lawm pheej tseem xav tau ntau ne

[@song8906]

No shame at all. Makes me so angry just listening to this sister in law of yours.

[@maryly09]

Please keep the story as story and stop with the lecture.

[@michaelf2700]

Agreed! A lot of the stories now r just lecturing & preaching, but they never do what tgey say. I like the old stories where there's a beginning & an end.

[@singkeothao463]

Koj tus kwv no ces yuav ua poj niam qhev mus tag nws lub neej, you should kicked your younger brother out of your family name if I were you

[@saykaomee]

Koj tus kwv thiab nws tus pojniam cas tseem nyiag yus tsev neeg tsis ntshai npam li. Siab phem tiag tiag. Luag tseem tsis foom los yus yeej muaj kev npam.

[@cocopha5778]

😮😮😮😮

[@meganxiong3324]

Txhua yam tim koj xwb vim koj ua neeg nyob tuam ob lub nkoj ces kawg koj poob dej xwb nco ntsoov li thaum twb muaj teem lawm mam paub ces lawv twb muab koj hlwb kaus tas lawm nrog tu siab kawg tsam no luag twb ua neej nplua nuj lawm koj mam ras txog ces lig kawg 6 koj

[@pajlisyaj1716]

Ntuj aw neb Lub Lag Luam twb tau2 nyiaj es vim li cas neb tseem xav tau ntau npaum li cas ntxiv thiab naw xav tau ntau ces thaum kawg tau tsawg xwb thiag,

[@hl6615]

Your brother is faithful for you but your sister in law isn’t your blood line so she can cheat on you regardless how trustworthy she looks. Always remember when they marries they change to the person closes to them not you anymore. Three hundred thousand dollars will take them forever to pay you guys back. This younger brother is a ntsej muag duam xwb. Yuav tus pojlaib tubsab zoo lino tseem xa yuav.

[@kaciewanh1986]

Tus neeg nyiag dag luag nyiaj noj dawb mas tsis nplua nuj taus, tsis tau zoo neej ua. Tsis foom los yeej npam, nws yeej tsis muaj ntsejmuag fim tsevneeg & zejzog.

[@lotusvert7024]

Tus niam ntxawm no yog ibtug tsej muag tuab thiab tsis nco luag tej txiaj ntsig vim nws lub tsej muag muab tawv dev los looj lawm.

[@Seabird0075]

😫😫😫 I really don’t know why do a lot of our Hmong family always borrow and do business with family members. Money and family don’t mixed. This has nothing with being educated or not.

[@maikeryangvang6240]

Ntuj mam li txiav txom rau tus neeg tsis ncaj

[@Gurlhmong]

When the stupid little brother should’ve left the gold digger and save and make more money. Don’t hold onto something that will continue to suck you dry. The brother is at fault- he put his family in harm’s way. He could’ve stepped up to his wife but he didn’t.

[@microbiologist50]

He enjoys the wealth

[@xayxiong1061]

Agreed! Why can’t he go and deposit the money himself? It’s his ideas for betrayed his older brother. Only the older brother can’t do nothing to him. He’s laughing all the way to the bank.

[@mayalor5081]

Neb los nruam dhau qhov ruam thiab mas. Cas ho muab nyiaj rau tus sab rauv handle nw?!?! Toss nyiaj pool los yeej ruam ne.

[@Lotus-og6if]

You ever stop to consider that your brother was the approver and had his wife be the one to take action under his approval. He is the good cop to calm down your anger while the two of them enjoy your money. Yet the whole time you kept using the excuse that he was under the influence of his wife? If he truly cares about the relationship and you, his wife wouldn’t be able to steal esp as you mentioned, she values the relationship with him. You may have to just accept that your brother is a changed man when he saw the green. Else there is something else going on that you failed to disclosed that May had cause to take their end of the share by force.

[@tongher8912]

Es nej cov hmoob ko es tsis muaj neej muaj tsav li los hmoob es nej tsis muaj nplaig ces pub lawd noj dawb xwb mas hmoob ruam

[@qaibhmongvaj]

LoL. These stories is funny ass fawk. Just missing 140k….300k…. No biggie. LoL.

[@maivang448]

I wonder tus niam tais yawm txiv e yuav kom nej nqi tsev hais puas txaj muag ne tias lawv tus ntxhais coj li ko

[@bonher69]

This is no fault of the younger brother with the exception trusting his wife with the deposits (too much money in hand it Makes the heart bad) and siding with his wife when he knows she is the wrong. Forgive the brother for he is p-whipped!

[@leelaiyah789]

Yog koj tsis muaj sij haum saib koj lub business es muab tso rau lwm tus saib es yeej tsis quav ntsej saib ib muag li ces yeej zoo li nov xwb ma.

[@jeff4823]

That brother is weak.. he's not the one wearing the pants.

[@msmaix808]

Not all educated people are mean like this gold digger. She's only did it to you guys because she knew no one would step up to her. Her husband is desperate, and he will crawl back to her no matter what happens. She used his weakness to attack you guys! She may be book smart, but have no heart to think of others! That gold digger knows how to play her cards. If you want to beat her at her game, divorce and cut her off permanently. But your brother doesn't even get his sh*t together, so nothing will change!! I hate disrespectful people like this who have no shame for her/his wrongdoings. Good luck!!!

[@LalaMama-b7h]

Hlawv xyab ntawm hu ntuj hu nteb foom tus niam ntxawm li hiam xwb mas, tseem yuav tsheg nws ua dab tsis

[@youwatchme3631]

Txhua tus neeg yug kiag los es quaj thawj suab ces twb yog Yawmsaub muab ibdaim ntawv npam npog kiag rau nws es nws thiaj quaj tshee nas ntawv. Tsismuaj leejtwg hla dhau kev npam li os

[@bchang227]

I've always said hmong ppl do business very stupid. Contracts, y'all. It's OK brother. There's karma. Let karma take care of them. The question is, are you and your wife willing to forgive them when the time comes?

[@Vance12]

It’s ok, your little brother was your nanny and up front at your door when you need him watch your kids so that you and your wife could live a life too. Even your own kid can screw you over. Sorry that happened to you though.

[@janievee279]

Tus niam ntxawm no tsis ntshais mob plab li los??

[@minili837]

Nej cov proof ces twb yog cov video nej saib nkawv sib ceg ne. Coj mus pem xam ces yeej muaj chaw mus xwb Mas. Pov thawj ntau li ntau Sav. Nej cov koob thaij twb ntes tau ne.

[@SV-xb1rg]

I’m glad you lost money. That’s just the drug money you got lol

[@chaolee606]

That’s embezzlement and you have proof on your camera. If I was you, I take them to court to order them to pay you.

[@franher3748]

There are two lessons within this story. One is when you raise another person’s child and two, doing business with family. Just remember no matter what it is that you decide to do, know your end and be prepared to let go because honestly and loyalty are two very different means.

[@paolee2730]

It's not wrong doing business with families, except there's bad apples. There's bad apples, family or not. The younger brother is a weak POS, like most men these days. Weak men!

[@helenelao8855]

Koj ruam dhau lawm, lig rau neb dhau lawm os

[@youwatchme3631]

Tus ntse noj tus ruam sav nov nas

[@baoyang6565]

I would still curse a spill on them even though his your brother. Hmong ppl usually always loan money or do business without any contract.

[@hlubkojforever1901]

After listening to this story, your brother did not betray you. He did everything he could include letting go of his wife. You need to forgive him. It is not his fault.

[@pengvang5831]

Wtf!

[@Gurlhmong]

It IS his fault. He chose his wife, chose to expose his brother and family to his wife’s toxicity. He knew his wife was stealing and hid it. When you take a spouse’s side- you’re choosing that side. If HE wants that toxicity then just keep it to himself, not his brother and brother’s family.

[@youwatchme3631]

Like I said > Tsis muaj kwvtij, nkauj muam yawmyij, neej tsa dab laug, phoojywg, pojniam menyuam thiab kevhlub los yus Tsis tuag, tiamsis yus Tsis muaj nyiaj ces tuag taus.$ i$ #1

[@hlubkojforever1901]

@@Gurlhmong Not his fault because he agreed to pay it back meaning he knows his wife is wrong. He did not turn a blind eye.

[@nkaujntse5196]

Lol, younger brother as guilty as the wife. He was the accomplice to funds.