Lub Neej Nyob Hauv Kev Vim Tau Phem Niam Tsev. 11/12/2024

[@MissPeachie]

I’m glad you divorce her the right way instead of cheating on her. Proud that you found your worth and sent her back to her clan. 👏 I am a woman and I wouldn’t be able to put up with someone like her either.

[@lisvaj7375]

Definitely a story many people can relate to having a non-supportive spouse. I know a lot of deadbeat spouses and people stay! Glad you let go and start over again. Everyone deserves happiness.

[@kaoxiong6148]

Darn…! If my ever says that to me, that will be the last time she’ll see me…! Kids will grow up, bro…! Get rid of her and move on like your parents said…😩!

[@nayang3397]

Yog yog yog

[@isabellexiong227]

Aw kuv muaj ib tus nyab zoo li zaj dab neeg no thiab llos tseem deeb fab kis thiab ntxhim ntxhub tiag2

[@isabellexiong227]

Koj m'as yog txiv neej kawg

[@maivue284]

He may not like her as a niam tsev but sounds like he sure loves her as a niam dev for him that’s why he keeps hanging on. Sorry but not sorry… lol

[@christinabthao8825]

Cov poj niam thiab txiv neej coj zoo li no ma thiaj txawj dhuav siab os...yus tsis yog neeg hais lus phem ma lawv cem phem npaum cas lo yus yeej nrhiav tsis tau ib lo lus phem lo hais li zoo kawg os me nus aw koj nrauj nws lawm...tiam si feem coob cov txiv neej ces nyiam thiab hlub cov poj niam zoo li koj tus xwb os ho cov poj niam uas fwm2 tus txiv ces lawv twb saib tsis muaj nqi os

[@TaAt-iu3ty]

Yog kawg

[@melisavang4106]

Aub yau! Zoo li nej cov txiv neej twb nyiam2 cov poj niam zoo li no los sav. Ua cas tseem hais thiab lau.

[@MaivNtxuamNtxuaj-jp2vo]

Yog

[@Tsheejkoobsingle]

tsi hais poj niam lo txiv neej leej twg lo yeej xav tau lub neej zoo thb kaj sb xbo

[@159nightangel]

The people bashing this guy must be related to the wife. Stop judging until you walk in his shoes.

[@ตูนลี-ษ7น]

Zoo li kuv poj niam kiag...nrauj los txob nrauj zoo dua ne?nyuab siab kawg

[@dejntshiabhawj8224]

Lawv aw!! Cas peb cov niam tsev ua khwv22 los tau tus txiv phem Ho cov txiv tsev khwv22 los tau tus poj niam Phem thiab os

[@Cheenoux]

Kwv tij, koj zaj no mas yog nkaus kuv zaj thiab. Niam nkauj txhav qaib thiab nraug txhav noog tsis txhais tias yuav zoo. Yus yog neeg zoo lawm ces, yeej yuav tau qhov zoo. Nrog koj zoo siab ua koj tawm ntawm lub neej ua raug yus tus txij nkawm tsim txom.

[@charlielee3399]

Always stay away from high maintenance woman.

[@payang3701]

Nej tsis tau ntsib tus poj niam siab zoo xwb os Tseem Tsuav ib co poj niam siab zoo zoo

[@Tsheejkoobsingle]

ntshe g tshuav lm o

[@roseanimetor8157]

You are still with her because she is pretty. That is a wrong priority.

[@thailao6863]

Sounds like my life too 😥 ib los 2 los kom tuag that's their favorite word

[@2009SUJU]

It's common this happens to women, but dont forget these things can happen to men too. Abuse goes both ways, its just more common in men doing it to women.

[@xavieryang3348]

Yog lawm os brother.

[@deldoe2398]

Life is just NOT FAIR for some of us. Good people ALWAYS end up with the BAD ones. 😢 I feel your pains and sadness 😢.

[@sandly5831]

People will only treat you as how you let them. If you let anyone treat you worthless you become worthless in their eyes. Value yourself and love yourself above all others.

[@phoebelor1173]

Tus poj niam coj li ko mus tsawg tus txiv neej los yeej tsi txog twg li os

[@kayvang3148]

Wow! Tus txiv tsev ua cas koj lub neej zoo nkaus li kuv lub thiab os….😢 nrog koj zoo siab uas koj ho tau lub neej zoo lawm os. Ua zoo yeej yuav ntsib tus zoo ces koj Yog ib tug o…👏👏👏

[@yinglor8962]

Brother koj zaj neej neeg zoo li kuv zaj tsis txawv li os..hom poj niam zoo li no mas tsis txawj xav thiab tsis txawj hais ib lo lus zoo rau leej twg li os Kwv tij

[@ZeVang-h1v]

This guy is trying to blame on his wife, man! If your wife isn’t good enough then you won’t settle with her for that many years 😂

[@heryang9506]

You have a good wife You probably don't learn I said this I had learned the same way

[@kayvang3148]

Actually, I believe in this story for real cuz my husband was the same to me. I’m Uber driver as well!

[@nraugzoovwj9638]

Nrog koj tu siab kawg, peb ua txwjnkawm nyob yog thaum luag coj liko ces yog luag tsis pom yus zoo lawm mog. Yus ces tas nqi rau nws lawm. 1 tejzaum nws yeej tsis hlub koj tiag nws thiaj coj liko thiaj tsis xav pab lus zoo thiaj tsis hnov. 2 nws yeej muaj lub siab phem xav tau qhov phem, coj phem tus dab phem nrog nraim nws yob nws lub siab pom qhov phem ntawm koj xwb ces lub neej thiaj tsis zoo.. Cia nyias mam rov nrhiav dua es cia nws ho tau tus tshiab seb ho zoo npaum licas.. thaum yus tsis muaj qhov zoo lawm koj khwv tuag lod nws tsis pom lawm mog....txhob tu siab tas2 mam nrhiab dua nawd...

[@maivang8361]

I love my husband so much I can’t imagine life without him. My high school sweetheart ❤ Our marriage isn’t perfect but I wouldn’t trade him for anything in this world. I feel so sad for this Txiv tsev. He deserves all the love there is. I’m happy you found your soul mate brother.

[@zoolikuv]

Story to hear you went through so much. I hope you can heal.

[@HhioiKojij]

Niam ntsuab tem cas kv lub neeg zoo li lub kj tham ntawm kj os tu siab tsaj os kv yuav nrauj lawm os kv tus poj niam na

[@yerxiong7661]

Txiv neej hmoob ces nyiam los nrauj peb cov pojniam rau yav laus vim laus xav tau tus mos xwb os Yog phem2 li koj haus ces koj yeej nrauj thaum hluas lawm mas

[@atlatlmobile9511]

Tus siab koj zaj dab neeg os tus nus

[@tengher6111]

"CONGRATULATIONS TO YOU." WELCOME TO THE FAMILY OF MEN WITH A NEW WIFE. CHERISH YOUR NEW WIFE AND LIVE ON. 💪

[@aimeelor1351]

Tej tug poj niam uas cem yus phem tag npaum li koj tus qub poj niam ko ces tsis tsim nyog yuav yuav lawm os tus txiv tsev aw...

[@KendrickVang]

Eb..... Cas kuv lub neej nim zoo nkaus li koj lub thiab. Lub neej no tu siab ua luaj, yog li sab nrauv puas tseem tshuav ib tug txiv tsev zoo2 li koj lawm thiab.

[@kongmengsuavllee8387]

Yog mas, cov neeg uas tau lub neej uas zoo li koj lub ntawm no yeej muaj muaj kawg. Tiam sis ua li koj thaum saum no yog uv xwb vim muaj tej me tub me nyiam es thiaj sib uv xwb os, kuv tus kheej los yeej zoo tub yam li koj thiab os. Tiam sis kuv tus mas ho tsis zoo nkauj es ho yuav tsim nyob uv na. Txhob tu siab thiab mog ua ib zaug neeg xwb mam npaj li koj ntawm ko ces zoo lawm os nawb.

[@gjgy4794]

Tu txiv tsev aw koj zaj neej neeg koj hai tau yog tiag2 li o

[@chuacu5838]

lub neeg zoo li no mas dhuav siab tiag cas nim muaj ib cov poj niam zoo muaj ib co txiv zoo li cas ntuj tsis tsim cov zoo li no los sib yuav

[@mfnfmfwm]

I understand you brother. Good for you! A marriage takes both to work.

[@payang3701]

Yog poj niam phem npaum no mas tsis tsim nyog yuav lawm Peb ua neeg nyob mas yog niam txiv tsis txawj sib hlub mas tu siab tiag tiag Thiab tsis tsim nyog sib yuav

[@MsVang-x4e]

Lub neej tsis sib hlub mas lwj siab kawg

[@kaciewanh1986]

Thaub, tim koj hlub nws dhau tshaj koj tus kheej. Cia nws nyob dawb siv nyiaj ywjsiab, cia nws ua txhua yam raws siab nyiam thaum pib los lawm. Nws thiaj saib tsis taus koj, tsuj tuag nthi vim nws yog hom siab limhiam tubnkeeg. Tsis hais pojniam txivneej thaum pib lub neej sib qhia, sib yoog, sib pab mas thiaj siv tau.

[@KiaLor-jw6yp]

Nrog koj tus siab os tu me brother aws leej twg tsi ntsib ce yeej paub lub neej es koj khwv ciaj khwv tuag los luag tsi hlub yus li os.

[@meegarden3462]

You should feel proud of yourself for being a good man.

[@khouher2585]

Brother aw ua cas koj lub neej zoo li kuv lub thiab os tu tu siab rau luj neej no kawg

[@suabqabzibva9181]

😭😭😭😭😭 ib qho ob qho lo luag xav kom yus tuag xwb tu siab kawg , tiam no es Yus tsis phim luag ces Ua ib siab mog Kuv li twb Ua ib siab tau 10 lub xyoo no lawm moh 😭😭😭😭

[@mlee6150]

I think the husband is partly to blame.

[@khamyang5128]

How so?

[@2009SUJU]

Yeah how so?

[@mlee6150]

Her laziness could very well be due to him. He thought she was too pretty and in order to keep her happy, he catered to her needs/wants. And who knows if he’s telling the whole truth. There’s 3 sides to this story- His, hers, and the truth.

[@suevue414]

Tau tus neeg lim hiam xyob lub neej kom pluag ces txawm tos txog hnub tuag los yeej pauv tsis tau ntxov nrauj ntxov zoo yog yuav ces ua neej xiav tias ntag nawb

[@hlubdag]

Nej cov txiv neej nyiam cov li no xwb 😅😅peb muaj ib tug niam tij zoo li hai no

[@kaciewanh1986]

Yog niam nkauj txhavqaib, nraug txhavnoog zoo2 ces yeej tsis muaj pojnrauj yawgnrauj.

[@tublojleebfaabkis1900]

ua tib neeg nyob yog coj li no ces poj niam txiv neej los kawg kob huam kawg pluag yuav caum tsis cuag luag li ov mog hmoob, zoo niam tsev zoo txiv tsev ceeb ceeb laj nrhiav tau ov mog,

[@PhoneManee-j2f]

Xav kom yu ntsib tu txiv neej nrog yu sib pab lhwv li no xb o

[@tsuaherxiong]

You should pay for a RACING class driving in the snow

[@mouachongchue1295]

Ntshe kuv yuav raws koj qab lau thaub aw

[@huntermoua4536]

Yah brother you support let her go

[@pajthao4813]

Tus pojniam txiv neej los xij yog cem ib qho ob qho los cem tuag li tuag xwb ces tsis tas yuav los tau os mog koj thiaj yuav ntev npaum ko xwb

[@yangby2k1]

You let her do this in the beginning of your marriage that's why you doing 2 jobs to support her.

[@PayeeThao-fk6lw]

Koj ua tau yog lawm os

[@shaoxiong4918]

Man, this story hits too close to home. Same issue. Glad I got rid of mine.

[@samlao2489]

Thaub aw ...yog kuv ces khiav ntxov heev lawm os...cov maum dev ko kuv dhuav kawg....hope u find happiness soon...hahaha

[@Mais-p7r]

😊❤

[@caaspasvang7427]

Ua neeg nyob cas tus niam tau tus txiv zoo los niam tsi zoo tus txiv tau poj niam zoo los cas ho tsi ua zoo ne😢😢

[@pazongxiong266]

Tus zoo li koj poj niam tsis tas yuav lawm os yuav los tsis zoo dab tsis thiab pab tsis tau dab tsis os me nus aw

[@ShouaTojsiab]

I’m glad you found a woman who loves and respect you. Your ex does not deserve you.

[@hmongremark2686]

Tus neeg hlub koj tiag tsis lam tau lam hurt koj physically thiab emotionally ib zaug. Poj niam ib txwm yeej depend on txiv neej ntau dua li txiv neej depond on poj niam. Tsim nyog kawg nkaus rau koj muab koj tus poj niam phem no nrauj lawm ntev. Koj ruam dhau lawm ces koj thiaj tseem yuav nws thiab nyob tiv nws tej lus phem cem koj no los txog tav li no thiab.

[@blueberrysmilie1]

Yog tus poj niam los tus txiv phem li niam pog no, ces txhob yuav os.

[@chiliayang5832]

Ua tsaug ntau nawb peb poj nrauj kuj zoo thiab os

[@yeethao9964]

Peb ua neeg nyob ces tsis muaj ib tug twg perfect li es zoo ib qho los yeej muaj ib qho phem. Txhob maj2 qhuas tus zoo thiab ho txhob thuam2 tus phem os tsam muaj ib hnub twg ces qhov tseeb tawm tuaj

[@shengkue3286]

I’m work so hard too , my husband will divorce me !! But I’m not afraid, bc I’m earning income to the family . When he divorce me I’m ok

[@hnubzoovang9217]

Cas tseem muaj tej lub neej tu tu siab thiab os. Kuv xav hais tias ntshe yog peb cov pojniam Hmoob lub neej thiaj tu siab xwb es koj lub neej nim tu siab ib yam li peb thiab, lod?

[@MsVang-x4e]

Ruam li koi ko es thiaj li tseem yuav os ntiaj ten no kuv los week raig ib yam nkaus thiab tsis paub li thiab

[@kaliaxiong9962]

Hlub tus txiv tsev no ua luaj li os...... hais txog txoj kev ib leeg khwv no mas kuv yog ib tug nyob tu me nyuam thiab os tab sis yus yeej hlub yus tus txiv os... yus tsis lam muab nyiaj mus siv ua dog dig tseg them nqi thiab yuav me me noj nkaus xwb yus tu vaj tu tsev ua zaub ua mov tos yus tus txiv. Me nyuam yug kiag puv hli xwb ces yeej pib nrhiav hauj lwm li lawm. Tus poj niam tsis hlub koj ces koj khwv los mag cem tsis khwv los mag cem mus ua loj ua lee siv nyiaj tsis hlub txog tus txiv lub zog li os mog. Yus tus txiv ib leeg khwv xwb yus yeej tsis kav hais ib lo phem rau nws li ov vim nws ib leeg khwv xwb nws twb nyuaj siab txaus lawm.

[@Chinahmoob-b6n]

I often listen to others send you other people's stories, but I can't find anyone to sue my own stories😢

[@inewLao-bs5ip]

tus siab kg li thb o

[@elisely5353]

Es nej cov txiv neej twb nyiam 2 cov pojniam ua zoo 2 nkauj es txawj 2 muab nej kiv saum txaj xwb ne !

[@tracylor5566]

You created this monster… 🤷‍♂️

[@nploojsiabhlubheuly7797]

Puas yog ma, ntshe nyob dhuav tsw xwb os tej zaum koj twb tham tau nws ua ntej lawm os koj thiaj txaus siab tso txhua yam tej ko me me xwb yeej kho tau tab sis Vim koj twb muaj plan ua ntej lawm koj thiaj xum tso txhua yam. Tus tshiab ces yeej zoo siab dua los mas

[@truexiong6348]

Ces cov niam tsev no yuav phem ua luaj li os pab koj tu siab os tu me nus

[@SayYang-ls8yc]

Yog vim dab tsi lub neej no ho tsi ncaj ncees li os cas cov txiv neej hlub poj hniam los mob tus poj hniam hlub tus txiv neej los yeej mob siab yog vim li cas tus muaj txoj kev hlub thiab txoj kev zoo es pheej mob siab xwb hniam ntsuab teev thov pab qhia tias yog vim dab tsi 💔

[@dohcvtecboy]

I know a some of friends like this. And some work 2 jobs and now got a stroke and thier wife left them. Goid thing you left her.

[@amazinggrace8136]

You should have thought about that BEFORE marrying her? You can’t carelessly just marry someone hoping they will change and when they don’t, you complain and leave them.

[@Xovxwm53]

Sav ntsib koj puas tau may vaj

[@DhjkFghj-zz7di]

Koj xyuam xim nawj tus kwv no yog ib tus dev xwb ib tsam nws ho muab koj yuam ua dev nav

[@my3228]

Ntshaw poj niam zoo nkauj xwb ces kav liam xwb..

[@yiachang4622]

Toxic relationship. It’s better both of you go your separate ways

[@ปานิศาแซ่เฮ่อ]

ทำไมฟ้าไม่ส่งคนอย่างเรามาคู่กัน แล้วให้เขาไปคู่กัน คนทำก็ทำแทบตาย คนอยู่ก็ไม่เดือดร้อนอะไรในครอบครัว😢เศร้าใจ😢

[@tusneegzoohlub7724]

Cov pojniam no siv tsis tau os.. I’ve been with my employer for 12yrs.. met my husband months prior to my job and has also been with him since. lol.. anybody who cant keep a job for more than 6 months and continues to quit is pure laziness and not worth the fight.

[@chiayang1329]

Don’t treat her like that if you’re broke leave it liko that women we know if the husband are broke it’s your fault thinking or making yourself looking like a millionair women we doesn’t know if you’re broke or not we only knew what you taught us

[@davidv41680]

My ex wife is the same and worse x10. 😅😅 goodluck to you all. Be careful theres an evil witch on the prowl. She will play victim if you ever meet her. 😂😂😂😂

[@justinvang4013]

Qhov tiag2 yog tim koj ua tsis tau txiv xwb

[@rhiathao]

Zoo siab koj khiav tawm tau ntawm koj qhov comfort zone lawm. Zoo rau qhov koj yog txiv neej es koj muaj niam muaj txiv, muaj kwv tij pab Koj xa Koj tus ex rov qab. Puas muaj hnub niam tais yawm txiv thiab neej tsa pab lawv tus ntxhais xa tus vauv tsis tsheej haj rov qab ne yom?

[@mouavang3371]

Wow! I love to have a wife like yours

[@goldeneagle2394]

this story sounds so one sided! i want the wife's side of the story 😂

[@wahouakha8308]

Ruam los tsis na phooj ywg aw?

[@fuemoua8345]

tso koj tus poj niam mus zoo dua tus poj niam muaj cuj pwm li no tsis zoo

[@hmoobpnw8479]

😂😂koj tsis kam nraug vim nws txawj kiv koj saum txaj xwb.

[@pajlisyaj1716]

Ntuj aw 25/30 xwb mas yuav tau txuag tiag2 nawb kuv ib Leeg twb tau 32 los twb txuag tiag2 mas thiaj muaj nyiaj me2 cia xwb 50/60 mas nyuam qhuav txaus noj txuag haus rau rau tej me nyuam siv xwb hos,

[@nrastsubinew5154]

ab yuam law aw ua ca tu txiv neej zoo e ua ca ho g ntsib tu poj niam zoo ho ca tu poj niam zoo ho g ntsib tu txiv neej zoo ne yom law ua ca tu txiv zoo ce pheej ntsib tu niag poj niam phem xwb ho ua ca tu poj niam zoo zoo pheej ntsib tu niag txiv phem xwb e ntshe yua ceeb laj muab lub neej no xau rau qho twg o yuam 😂😂😂

[@Karena312]

Being a stay home mom is different than this lady. If this lady is as bad as what the husband said I would divorce her as well. I don’t understand why some people love using these horrible Hmong words to their spouses.

[@staceywolf1955]

You have a trophy wife. So she is expecting that treatment. You need to find someone who is not putting herself as a priority. There are men out there that has money. They just need a trophy wife like yours to make them happy.

[@phoebelor1173]

Poj niam siab phem tsi sawm zoo kav tsij muab nrauj pov tseg zoo dua os mi nus aws

[@ambervang8074]

If you need to refinance a house for vacation that is not an emergency. That’s it. lol not worth staying in a relationship.

[@phem55]

Tus brother cas koj lub previous neeg yuav zoo nkaus li kuv tus nus lub thiab os…, tsuas yog kuv tus nus uv…uv nws tus pojniam tuag kiag os

[@tvang8]

She wanted you to make money so she can spend and be with her at the same time lol. It was hard for you to leave her so I’m assuming she’s gorgeous I like to see how beautiful this woman is lol

[@hlubkojforever1901]

I feel like your wife isnt that bad like cheating or reckless on casino. You guys just need to address each other to change. You did not put efforts on her to change but went straight to divorce is a really bad idea. You need to make the decision yourself and not letting your mother telling you what to do. I hope you dont regret your decision in the future because life is long and you’re playing with fire.

[@jalynnkat]

lol. He was married to her for over 20+ years, she refused to work, got upset that he’d stay out working hard so she can stay home and look pretty and cheat on him with her ex! Did we listen to the same story?! He ended up remarrying and is much happier. How much does one need to be walked all over on before saying enough is enough?! My man needs to help build my empire, not burn it down! That’s playing with fire! 🤦🏻‍♀️ and he should’ve listened to his mom and divorced long ago!! U must be related to the ex wife if you think it’s his fault for not putting enough effort in helping the wife change! He was too busy working 2-3 jobs so she can stay home and spend all his money!! You’re ridiculous.

[@2009SUJU]

IF you were even listening, he said he didn't listen to his parents when they initially told him to leave her. He made the decision himself after years of emotional abuse from his 1st wife. You know what emotional abuse is?

[@hlubkojforever1901]

@@2009SUJU So he didnt know she talked like that for 20 years??? he all of sudden realized he married her like that after 20 years??? I get it if she is a nice person and after year 19 changed to be mean but she been who she is exactly from the start. Like buying a honda car but blamed why it is a honda car now lol.

[@2009SUJU]

@hlubkojforever1901 He's an og, ogs wait forever for their s/o to change just like the rest of the people sending in their stories, if you haven't noticed. Kids these days won't wait 20 years but ogs will. And will you divorce your spouse if he/she wakes up on day 1 of your 20th anniversary and decided to be mean? I think not. He indeed put alot of hope in his wife so yes, he did try to fix his relationship and it still didn't work.

[@jalynnkat]

@@hlubkojforever1901 🙄 he got fed up with it! Not everyone wants to hlub koj forever 🙄🤣