Ua Niam Txiv Nyias Muaj Nyias Account. 9/21/2023

[@maylo8993]

I hope you read these msg! When a man marries a 2nd wife, he already tells you he doesn't love you anymore but just wants to keep you there in case the other lady is a mistake. If he loves you, he will never marry that 2nd wife.

[@kanetoews7747]

💯 agreed with you on this

[@mlee6092]

Only death can liberate the dumb. Too bad the guy lived, so she's still trapped. Had he died, she'd grieve for a few months, realize she can exist without him and move on to have a chance at love. Then, she'd come here to tell a different story about how death liberated her, and be grateful for it. So sad for weak women. They don't even realize their worth or their power.

[@nkaujhmoob86jual72]

She trap herself because she so codependent on a man. I don't feel sorry for her.

[@leek-te5dx]

She is ruam ruam hahhaahahh

[@haivhmoob9133]

Cas yuav tu siab ua luaj li os

[@youavu1433]

There is only one person a man can love, no such thing as loving two women.

[@maryly09]

I agree.

[@bgr4669]

The only person this man loves, is himself. That’s how he’s able to manipulate both women.

[@souavang4162]

Tus sister koj lub neej thiab kuv lub neej ces tu siab ib yam hauv lub ntiaj teb no tsis muaj leej twg yuav paub tu siab li koj thiab kuv Thov kom koj hlub koj tus kheej os mog koj xav hais tias kuv tu siab li koj thiab no

[@maliemay]

Ok good story. Best of luck for you all

[@pyaketyyak7621]

Many of these people who sent their stories to this channel don’t seem to be 100% 😳

[@bosslady8498]

Yes , females like this woman in this story. 😂😅

[@maryly09]

You will be surprised to know not many ppl are 100%, not jus the ppl who submitted their stories. I know, i was shocked too.

[@Springadel7775]

Right? Lol😂

[@maysealee]

Those who listens are not 100 either including me lol 😢

[@payang3701]

Lawv txom txom nyem lawv ntshaw ntshaw koj lub neej li os me viv ncaus aw!!!!

[@mayalor5081]

This man played you. Played so well. You picked this life you have choice. Some women are powerful and some are not. Learn to love yourself.

[@paigeyang2833]

Not to late to leave. Learn to love yourself. If he loves you so much he would never marry someone else. How about you marrying another man and live together so you can always have a foursome without looking elsewhere.

[@ShouaTojsiab]

Sister, love yourself. Your husband doesn’t love you like he once did. If he love you, he would not hurt you by having another woman. He hurt you because you allow him to. Know your worth, don’t wait until you have health problems then he’s going to leave you for his niam yau. This is a toxic relationship. Pls don’t show your children that this kind of relationship is ok, it’s not.

[@zouayang815]

Agreed 💯 %

[@leeperfect20leedoua24]

ຈ້າແທ້ມົ້ງເອີຍ

[@Miababee]

Sis, do yourself a favor and leave. You saved him, now save yourself. That man doesnt love you. No person in this world can be in love with2,3,4,5 people at the same time. Know your worth!

[@maivue8756]

This woman blame others for her husband's cheating by labeling him as "tsis puv 100". But he seems like a smart guy even one with special power to deactivate and activate his heart to his benefit.

[@pajtshiabtsheej1984]

I agree with you. I also think it was easier for her to blame others and her husband "tsis puv pua" , so they could avoid the root issue of their marriage.

[@msmaix808]

I think it's because her husband was the "ruam tshaj" one. So he follows what others do, but he goes over the limit. Oh well, another hmong affair story.

[@MySunshine71]

Lady, have some courage and divorce him already....it's not too late!! If you don't leave you'll end up dead before your husband does. Seem like you wanted to live in a polygamy relationship to begin with that's why you won't leave. What makes you think that he still love you when he has another? He's holding you prisoner because he can't stand seeing you with someone else.

[@ouradventuresnspecialmoments]

True love in a marriage is only 1 love, not a polygamy life kind of love. If you can't live without him, then just go with it!

[@pajhnubhlimas3778]

🎉me viv ncaus aws txog txij koj tus txiv yuav dua ib tug ces yog nws twb tsis hlub koj lawm os. Yog koj es koj thiaj li nyob xwb os.

[@drive8892]

Nej hnov lawm lo, thib no txhob cem2 peb cov txiv neej hmoob lawm nawb. Cov poj niam ruam li tus no thiaj pheej cem tias hmoob txiv neej siab phem. Nws tus txiv gay no twb xaiv lwm tus lawm lo nws tseem yuav thiab, ruam tiag tiag!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Npab nauj tshaj plaws tus poj niam hmoob ruam no!!

[@ItsYou2]

Niam Yau peej muaj tshuaj taws rau noj es mob nplaw xwb os...

[@zoolikuv]

Tus neeg ntxeev siab tsis tsim nyog peb yuav nyob txim txom rau nws. Mus kiag kom nws pom tus tov phem nws thiaj khu xim yus hos. Txhob khuv xim.

[@saykaomee]

Lady, you don't need his permission to divorce him. Court will take care of that for you.

[@bliavang2911]

Kuv los twb zoo 1 yam thiab os es txhob tu siab nawb tus nrog yus cov me nyuam nyob xwb thiaj Kaj siab nawb

[@pajpuavcai]

Mloog zaj no ntshav siab tiag2 .

[@beth3626]

Koj tus txiv paub koj lub siab tas nws thiaj li mus yuav tau niam yau los. Nws yeej paub tias koj yeej mus tsis tau ntawd nws. Peb mloog koj zaj neej neeg xwb ces peb yeej paub tias koj yog hom pojniam zoo li cas. Koj tsis paub hlub koj tus kheej koj lub neej thiaj li mus li no. Txawm leejtwg yuav hais li cas los koj yeej ua tsis tau ces yeej meem nyob li ko, tsuas tau lub npe tias lam muaj txiv xwb.

[@jackieyunan4899]

Hmong woman just don't know when to let go and move on..

[@evajmimthoj1128]

CAs koj tsis cia nws tuag mus es thiaj tsis mob siab viv ncaus.

[@lotusvert7024]

Cov poj niam los txeeb luag lub neej ces yog tibco poj dab haus ntshav xwb. Hos tus txiv los yog ibtug tsiaj havzoov xwb. Kuv ntxub tshaj plaws hauv ntiaj teb no.

[@michellevang5411]

Thaum nws pib mus muaj tus sab nrauv, lub ntuj twb rau txim rau nws lawm. Nws yuav tau los nws thiaj yuav tuag. Vajtswv tsuas cia kom nws muaj 1 tug pojniam xwb. Muaj tus 2 yog kev txhaum(sin).

[@Ibvuag912]

No mas thiaj yog tuag rau pojniam ob ceg tiag22

[@gAnyuOhc]

Pog ruam aww - koj tus txiv xav yuav niam yau ces cia nwg tuag kiag xwb mas. Ruam tshaj li os. Nwg tuag kiag ces tau nyiaj life insurance thiab ib tug txiv tshiab xwb! 😂

[@vangyang4118]

Yog!!

[@hlubhmoobkuv6972]

vim tug poj niam hlub tug txiv tshaj tus txiv hlub tus poj niam lawm

[@pacualor2023lor-gs9ds]

Cov neeg mob plawv lawv kho2 siab os

[@MsBL32]

Men want as many women as he can, I don’t understand how you can enable such a life of misery! I know you love him but don’t feel too sorry for him, he will take as many wives after you honey if he can. You are very kind and allow it, but I would rather let him die then marry another woman, it’s the honest truth! My heart is not that big to share my husband.

[@พิมพิดา-บ1ฦ]

น่าเสียใจมากผู้หญิงเราสู้ๆนะ

[@leevang4912]

Peb cov niam tsev yuav tsum xyaum hlub peb tus kheej nawb. Nco ntsoov tias peb tsis nyob rau tias 75 lawm peb nyob rau tiam 21 na😂😂no 2nd wife 😅tsis txhob ruam2 mas 😂

[@nkaujhmoobkevlomzemchannel6220]

Tu poj niam no siab phem tiag2 li okuv twb g tau phem npaum li no o

[@MaiMua-s2r]

Nyb zoo o niam ntsuab teev aw kv yuav ua cas kv thiaj li kaw laib neej neeg tuaj rau kj li o yuav ua li cas kv thiaj li kaw laib ua vis dis aus xa tuaj xb na vim kv ruam2 kv tsi paub ntawv es kv tsi paub li na

[@ABo-hp4lg]

Tu naim loj zoo hv o ca kv tu saib phem hv

[@maitongvue5397]

Yog yuav yuav niam yau no ces xum cia tuag es yus tsuas quaj ib pluag xwb tsis xum cia yuav niam yau es yus mob mus ib txhis nawb tuag zoo dua

[@pkcyang2910]

Nws tsis hlub koj os tus niam tsev ruam aw. Cas yuav ruam tag npaum ko li lau. Ib tug txiv nws hlub yus nws yeej tsis mus muaj tus tshiab na. Luag twb mus muaj tus tshiab es koj tseem ntseeg tej lus dag thiab? Oyo tsis paub hlub koj lawm os vim koj ruam dhau lawm. Cia nws tuag zoo dua li nyob luag hlub lwm tus rau yus ntsia.

[@maiiizongg1643]

Yog kawg thaum yus chim2 ces hais tau 100 tsav yam lus tab sis thaum yuav tuag ho tsis cia kom tuag. Hmoob ces yeej hlub thaum tuag los sis thaum zoo li no. Tab sis yog nyob ciaj cus plaws ces xav txiv muag kom ploj ntais

[@ambervang8074]

Don't feel sorry sister. Its your choice to be hurt. Let the loser go and be happy. I understand we don't wear your shoe but, why be hurt when you have a choice to be happy. He chose you to stay with him at the hospital cuz you will wipe a$$. He know 2nd wife will not. Smh.

[@sengheu1875]

Nkauj hmoob zoo nkauj ntxim hlub cas hnub twg los hnav dub xwb zoo nkauj ntxim hlub ua luaj li hnav kom sexy ntshaj plaw ma los xav pom heev li ok ok

[@akulathao4654]

Stop complaining if you can't leave him.

[@dyte9180]

Why are you still with him? He doesn’t value your love so go find someone who values you! The husband is quite dramatic.

[@ytv1610]

It's people like her who drag women down. Some men don't respect women because her behavior gets stereotyped. He cries wolf, and she stoops so low. She's not done suffering yet. He will be in diapers soon, the 2nd wife will leave, he will tell her that she's his true love, and she'll take care of him. SMH!

[@cealla999]

Some of us women love too much and forgive too easily.

[@michaelf2700]

Why stay & be miserable? If he loves u then he wouldnt have cheated. Yog koj ua taus siab tawv ces muaj nrauj kiag pov khib nyiab xwb los mas.

[@ThePrincessWorrior]

She’s khib nyiab herself

[@MissPeachie]

Misery loves company! Happiness is boring. 🙄

[@pajrosedawb8047]

Go have a boyfriend but don’t divorce him too. He can do it so can you. How you live right now is no different from being divorced. His clogged arteries is his own doing.

[@genuanneli]

Your story made me sad for you too.

[@tusiab83]

Yog kuv tau 1 tug txiv ruam qias neeg li tus txiv neej no kuv xum cia nws tuag mus xwb zoo dua qhov nws nyob tsim kuv

[@jiaxiong8991]

Nyuam ruam nyias xwb os. That’s your life and how you want to live it. If misery is what you want misery is what you get.

[@ShouaTojsiab]

Yog Kuv ces cia nws tuag lawm. Nws twb tsis hlub koj nws thiaj mus muaj dua tus tshiab lawm es yuav hais tau tias nws hlub koj li cas. Txhob thov ib tug neeg tsis hlub koj kom nws hlub koj mog. Plhws koj tob hau thiab hlub koj tus kheej es ua siab swb mam nrhiav dua tshiab txiv neej muaj coob. Txawm nrhiav tsis tau lawm los kav tsij nyob ib leeg yuav zoo dua niaj hnub nyob tiv mob siab. Txoj kev hlub muab rau tus txiv siab coob li no tsis muaj nqi. Muab mus pub rau tus tsim nyog txais. Thaum luag twb mus muaj luag ib tug thiab luag li nyiaj twb tsis muab rau koj lawm es koj puas tsim nyog nyob ris lub npe tias yog txij nkawm?

[@SierraANDcelica]

May, I think it might be interested if you could dress like a Ninja.

[@koualor6556]

Poj niam siab dev

[@elisely5353]

Cov hmoob no tuaj nyob Meskas tebchaws vam meej es tseem pheej yuav niam hlob niam yau tsis vam meej li, cov pojniam hmoob no ruam dhau heev lawm tseem pheej niaj Hnub nyob Lub neej no 😢😢 Yus tsis muaj peev xwm ces tsis tas yuav mob siab li os.

[@DinaMeYoung4797]

Cov niag nkauj fa no ces lawv Ntshaw ntshaw txiv ces lawv yeej tsis paub txaj muaj rau leej twg li os

[@lovetoplaywithyou3530]

I don’t feel bad for you. You don’t love yourself. Just leave the cheater

[@denamoua7262]

Hlub koj tus kheej.ib tuv txiv yuav niam yau lawm.ces hlub rau koj tag. Yog koj nrauj tsis tau ces kawg faib $ thiab koj divorce nws hauv koj lub siab xwb mus xwb.

[@a2dazgod539]

Ignorance is the fruit of all suffering. Don't feel sorry for you lady.

[@victoriavang4152]

Poj ruam xwb os koj na. Nws twb tsis hlub koj lawm na. Cia nws mus nws

[@pasaiy.8578]

I can't listen to these stories anymore. I can't believe there are such weak women out there. Smh! 😡 Lady, go find someone worthy of you!

[@nkaujhmoobvaj1491]

Sister u sound like u love your husband a lot. It’s because we spend so much of our life and shared so much with that person. But, know that there is life outside of that marriage. You can still be happy without him. If a person truly loves you, they would never have another.

[@nengthao8318]

Txiv neej phov siav tuag ces zoo li koj tus txiv ko ntag os tus niam tsev. Nws pheej yuav kom yus uv cia nws ua mob mob yus siab los kom yus cia li ua twj ywm. Yog yus uv tsis taus yus tsis yeem ces nws yuav tuag pheem yus ces kawg cia nws tuag nws raws li nws lub siab hlob xwb. Poj niam tsis yog tsiaj es nws yuav khoo 2 3 tug maum los kaw ib nkuaj nawb. Poj kuj yog neeg thiab yog thaum nws muaj lwm tus lawm yuav tsum nrauj kom tau yus mus kom tu qab tso nws mam yuav tus tshiab txawm yuav zoo tsis zoo los yog nws teeb meem. Ib tug neeg tuam 2 lub nkoj ces thaum nkoj ntab nrog nplaim dej nyias lem nyias ces nws kawg ntshua ceg xwb. Cov poj niam uas twb pom tias luag tseem muaj tus niam tsev no los tseem pheej yuav nkag quj qees mus ua luag niam yau xyov yog xav li cas lawm lau? Txoj cai rau nej ua niam 2 niam 3 nyob qhov twg es cas peb cov poj niam tseem pheej ua niam yau txoj niaj hnub no na?

[@lindayaj1333]

Hmong women, why do you do this to yourself??? Why are we still living in polygamous marriages??

[@maryly09]

We can blame the men all we want, but at some point we gotta take accountability for our actions too.

[@lindayaj1333]

@@maryly09 agreed 💯!

[@judyvang9089]

Kuv hais li kuv qhov kev xav xwb, yog ua ib khub niam txiv es nyias muaj nyias bank account thiab koj txais kuv nyiaj kuv txais koj nyiaj es tseem kom them rov qab ces tsis tas ua niam txiv lawm. Xum nyias mus nyias zoo dua nyob ua ib lub neej lwj siab li neb.

[@hlubhmoobkuv6972]

kuv xav kuj yos thiab tsuas tus poj niam mus tsi taus lawm xwb

[@maximuszone8721]

WTH, your husband has a second wife and your biggest problem is the separated bank account??

[@CouaYang-fw8fq]

Set him free, lady.

[@rhiavang2333]

Txivneej muaj coob os niam lau aw ca koj yuav nyob tiv txoj niag kev lwjsiab nona😢

[@leeperfect20leedoua24]

ເປັນຫຍັງແມ່ຍີງມົ້ງຄືຈ້າແທ້

[@yiatho8830]

Ua cas koj ho tsis hais rau koj tus txiv tias koj hlub hlub nws kawg li tabsis kom cia koj ho mus tham hluas nraug thiab no nws puas kam thiab maj

[@mosvaj1385]

Hoyo zaj no ces raug kiag kuv lawm os

[@pkcyang2910]

Koj muaj niam yau thiab los?

[@koumoua2980]

Ntuj yeej tsim ib tug txiv los yuav ib tug poj niam xwb tab sis Hmoob yog ib haiv neeg xav, tau txhua, txhua tus poj niam hauv lub ntiaj teb no xwb. Ib tug neeg ob peb meem xeeb tub li tus thaub no tsis muaj leej twg ntxias los qhia tau nws tab sis nws siab phem tawm hauv nws lub plawv los. Yog yuav ua ib lub neej saib nws hlub lwm tus poj niam ces yeem cia nws tuag ua ib lub ntxa zoo dua. Nws ua txuj npo pa kom koj muab nyuj hu nws plig, kom koj nyoo nws xwb es cas tseem ua kiag qhov nws xav tau thiab?! Why?????

[@ncouazooxwbya1552]

Thank you, thank you for all the comments that stop me not wasting time for listening to another polygamy stories.

[@kellielee9829]

Yeah I can’t stand stories like this either! Ridiculous how these women are accepting it as a norm. That practice is just a fetish that men have and Hmong people just seem to be living proof of it. Some meskas people do it, but they have an open group in a village to do so. Hmong people need to make their own village for people who are open to polygamy.

[@angelghetto1]

CIA nws tiag Mus zoo dua

[@ktsuyaj]

Sorry- if a man love you, there wouldn’t be a second wife!

[@douayang2163]

As ..!!!… mis..!!..tas phuv.

[@kiab7557]

Another annoying story that I will not listen to. Thanks again to the commenters for your help so I won’t have to waste my time listening to this story. I don’t want to waste my time on stories with dumb people.

[@mymoto2812]

If my spouse has his/ her own account, then I will show the way out of the door.

[@Springadel7775]

This lady is more concerned with $$$ than her husband having a second wife and about his life than her own. You can’t be helped.

[@missysmart8620]

Sorry but no way will I ever accept niam hlob niam yaus. He is welcome to leave. I'll be gladly living without him.

[@hl6615]

Yeej muaj tseeb yog nws tsi puv 100% . Tusiab kawg rau kj nawb tus me niam tsev

[@yeebntshachannel9254]

Ua Neeg nyob es ib tug Neeg hlub yus es Thaum luag txiav txim Siab yuav ib tug lawm CES tsis txhob hais tias hlub2 yus no os dag dhau lawm os lawv aw😮😊

[@jiaxiong8991]

Neeg Ruam thiaj xav li ntawv xwb os

[@hmoobdabneeg7736]

Nyiaj koj yog tus faib ne poj hmoob ruam twb tsis yog koj tus Txiv faib ne

[@lnchannel1186]

How the heck does this shit still happen in this day and age! We’re in America now! I don’t care how old I am, but I’d rather live alone for the rest of my life than to be tied to a cheating ass man. Tuag mus los zoo mas. Txiv dev ces tsis khuv xim li os

[@amyvang6074]

Muaj 1 xwb tsis muaj 2 os vjv ncaus, txiv neej coob heev ces nws mus vim thaum lawv yuav dua 1 tug ntxhais tau hais tias lawv twb tsis hlub koj lawm mog

[@lindayaj1333]

Wait…you feel sorry for your husband bc he threw a tantrum like a spoiled toddler complaining he wants 2 wives and wants to die bc you can’t be 💯 happy?? 😂😂😂

[@isabellentxawm6773]

Poj ruam aw ua li cas tiam no yog tiam 21 lawm es nej tseem xav ua niam hlob niam yau thiab na? Txiv neej ntiaj teb tuag tag lawm es tshuav nws xwb los? Ua cas kuv yuav mob hlwb rau cov neeg ruam no ua luaj

[@genalor4795]

It's called karma. He got what he asked for.

[@menkaujnstses]

Niag ooh hmoob ruam koj thiaj nyob xwb os

[@thedark-_-lord8285]

Oh lord…we live in America. Polygamy was the thing in the past. When a man wants another woman, ur worth is over. You should of walk away. Never love a partner with ur whole life. Only love ur kids ur whole life! To the txiv dev…if you want two wives you must be able to take care both sexually and financially. Omg crazy pple.

[@kangchang266]

Koj tus txiv lam ua txuj npo pas kom koj nyoog nws kom koj nws xwb os koj tsis paub xwb os

[@oraleholmes1263]

Torn between 2 lovers, feeling like a fool, loving both is breaking all the rules lol

[@menaib8426]

😢😢😢

[@maipha8560]

Oh sh*t! Don't be under the illusion that he still loves you when he married a 2nd wife. That train have left the dock. Be on the lookout for chances that you may be poison to death. Should've collected that life insurance policy. Big mistake and bad example for your kids to see.

[@touayang5750]

Amazing story. What a lucky guy bastard.

[@Springadel7775]

😂

[@amykue6635]

It’s call karma honey

[@zoolikuv]

I can't listen to these stories. Done.

[@pajhuablaujchannel3731]

Cas kj yuav ruam ua luaj 😢lawv yuav niam yau lawv yeej tsis hlub yus lawm niag ruam aws...cas kj yuav ntshaw txiv ua luaj thiab na😢

[@maryly09]

Why are you still married to him???

[@xiongvang9584]

This was a waste of story 🙄. Zag no ces tsis need hais lis os. At the end you still gave permission

[@atthao5631]

Tsis xav hnov

[@arinalis3130]

😂 Same!