If it was me, this is what I would do: file for divorce, get a retraining order, change the locks, move all my money, install cameras everywhere, lock up my house and book a month long vacation.
@lovetoplaywithyou35304 күн бұрын
Hopefully she will be strong and do it. Her husband is trying to use her to come back and take all their money and fly back to Laos. Hopefully she is not stupid
@krystalyeu7994 күн бұрын
yog kawg, and don’t forget to get spouse support because he cheat & already married to that mistress! make sure you get half of his Social Security & 401K, so you can leave a happy life!
@nickiengiayang4 күн бұрын
Don’t take him back! All those other ladies that are taking your husband’s side- they better pray they never have to go through what you went through.
@kayvang31483 күн бұрын
Agree
@MissPeachie4 күн бұрын
I have a feeling you are not going to listen to everyone’s advice to not take him back because you are debating it. Why even ask? You know the answer. My 2 cents: if you take him back, he will do it again. Once a cheater always a cheater. Nws lub siab tsis tuag rau koj lawm.
@leeyang93274 күн бұрын
Tus txiv zoo li ko tsis txhob yuav lawm, Koj rov yuav nws ces tus kab mob yuav rov los noj koj ib tog zujzus mog. Move on.
@BUTTERFLY75ful4 күн бұрын
Agreed
@maryly094 күн бұрын
She's not gonna listen to us. She will take him back and blame it on her families and his relatives for forcing her when it's really still her own decision bc deep down she still loves him and wants him. Typical hmong woman. I hope she proves me wrong.
@kppc44444 күн бұрын
Totally agreed. She know her answer already. His action doesn’t need second chance.
@allisonvang60674 күн бұрын
You are absolutely correct. She's old enough to know what needs to be done. Why ask for advise at this state?
@lisvaj73754 күн бұрын
Take care of yourself and love yourself. Do what makes you happy. Dont bring stress back into your life.
@SuabNkaujStudio244 күн бұрын
Tso tseg zoo dua mog Tus mi niam Laus kuv twb zam txim ob zaug zaum peb nws tseem ntse tshaj qub xwb qub neeg qub siab mog, qhia rau nws tias tsis muaj nws yus yeej tsis tuag yog nws rov los nrog koj nyob koj haj yam yuav tuag sai nawb mog, kav tsij kho Kom yus zoo nkauj nyob kaj siab lug xwb zoo dua os
@nhialee15504 күн бұрын
Don't need to bring stroke into yourself. Love yourself. Just sit back and watch when it's their turn. B happy.
@lindayaj13332 күн бұрын
The fact that this lady is asking for our opinion on what she should do….shes taking him back. When you’re really done with someone you don’t need to ask no one else.
@nkaujmoobleegКүн бұрын
True true!!!
@kanetoews77474 күн бұрын
Sister aws, you don’t need to wait until he’s back in this country to place a protective order. Don’t take him back. He disrespected you so bad. Love yourself
@MelMXiong4 күн бұрын
Do what your heart tells you to do. Yog nws hlub koj ces txawm koj yuav rog yuav yuag los nws yeej hlub koj os. Yus tus txij nkawm yog hnub twg nws nce tau txaj nrog lwm tus pw ua niam txiv lawm ces tsi tas yuav nug leej twg thiab tsi tas tos leej twg qhia lis yus tus kheej yeej paub zoo lawm hais tias yog nws tsi hlub yus lawm nws thiaj nce tau txaj nrog lwm tus pw. Nws twb muab koj rho tawm hauv nws lub siab los lawm ntev os sister aw tsi txhob nkim koj lub sijhawm qhib koj lub siab rau nws rov los tsim lawm os. Vim peb pojniam siab muag2 thiab siab zoo2 hlub2 lawv es peb thiaj raug tsim tag los rov raug tsim duab mas. Just love yourself and show your value to others that you are worth more than what you look. Hope you have the best of health and happiness ahead of you.
@phengher15424 күн бұрын
Please be smart, move on with your life. You are beautiful Please don't take him back. I support you one hundred 💯. Fixed yourself and move on with a better man, someone that will love you for who you are. You are very strong woman
@JRxwb49 минут бұрын
Kuv koom siab nrog koj os tus Niam tsev aws 👍👍👏👏 tso nws mus nws es hlub koj tus kheej xwb os mog. Don’t take him back but maintain you own health and stay healthy for yourself. Forget about him because he is no longer Good for you anymore. 👍👍👏👏👏 He will get his karma and his life will only go down from here. Forget all those bad mouth ladies that didn’t support you, they will get their turn. Best wishes and Good luck to you 🍀 🙏
@lusntiajteb3 күн бұрын
Koj yuav tau zoo siab ua nws tsaug ua tam sim nov koj yuag zoo nkauj lawm tab si 100% txhob yuav tu txiv siab phem lim hiam li koj tu txiv nws tsis tsim nyog lo yog koj tu txiv mus ntxiv lawm tu niam tsev Kav tsij kho koj kom txhob muaj mob thiab mus khwv nyiaj siv rau yam muaj nqe thiab hlub koj cov me nyuam xwb mog
@windylee0453 күн бұрын
Txhob yuav lawm mog viv ncau. Yuav los yeej tsis zoo qhov twg tuaj. Txhob lob nrhab rau yus lub tob haus nwb mog. Hlub yus tus kheej os.
@cheuxiong91864 күн бұрын
Don't take him back. Koj nyob koj ib leeg will be more happy do not listen to your husband side they not your life😊
@maiherlee64974 күн бұрын
Nyob ib leeg zoo dua , txhob yuav txiv dev los ua txiv tsev , tus hlub koj tsaj ces yog koj niam thiab txiv thiab koj cov me nyuam, tso nws mus nawb mog hlub koj tus kheej kom noj qab nyob zoo lawm xwb os
@ktsuyaj4 күн бұрын
If you are my mom, sister, I tell you….do not take him back. And that’s not right for the others to blame on you. Tus niam laus, Txhob txais tos nws rov qab !
@meexiong99614 күн бұрын
Txhob khuv xim niag ntsej muag txiv quav dev li ntawd....cias nws tuag tim nplog teb nawb ....
@mrsalbenwamengvang17333 күн бұрын
Peb cov Niamtsev viv ncaus tus laus tus hluas uas ntxim 2 hlub aw .... txawj sib hlub kawg li lawm lauj .....tabsis tshuav me ntsis thiab os ......yog peb txhob txwv tau txhob tham lawv cov txiv, txhob ua Niam yau ces peb thiaj sib hlub tiag os mog ....
@moogsuabnkauj14433 күн бұрын
Tus yov hlub koj. Tiag koj txawm yov zoo li cas lo luag yeej hlub koj mog.... txoj ke tsis yog koj tho. Yog nws tho cia nws mus koj txhob mus lawm mog...
@xionglee81924 күн бұрын
Muab nws nrauj kiag mus zoo Dua nawb. Vim nws ua Tau peb cov txiv neeg poob peev tag lawn nas!
@xailor803 күн бұрын
It sounds like you’re in a tough situation. Remember, your happiness and well-being are important! Life has so much more to offer, and you have many wonderful years ahead of you. Focus on finding joy and fulfillment in those years, and try not to dwell on regrets. You know what’s best for you-trust yourself!
@BB011384 күн бұрын
Lady, you are doing all the right things avoiding him and taking care of your health. Do not go back. Remember why he cheated on you. And you are doing so much better without him!
@zaubab40234 күн бұрын
Don't worry about those women who tell you to take your husband back or talk bad about you because they don't live your life. Just wait until their husband does it to them then they'll know how it feels like.
@wildnorthchannel1014 күн бұрын
Don’t go back to him live alone you’ll be much happier Put yourself first, love yourself and take care yourself screw the rest.
@corathoj30163 күн бұрын
No, done is done. Cheater always cheater! Take care of yourself and your health. He don’t deserve your love . They always want to guilt trip you. If you take him back, u don’t need to come tell your story.
@hlubibtxhisher1447Күн бұрын
Niam lau aw kj tu txiv ce zoo li kv tu thiab os,g kk li lm os yog hnub twg kj g zoo nkauj ce nw yuav muab kjpob tseg dua,qub dev qub ntxhiab os nw yeej g hlub kj lm os😊
@WhoAmIy93 күн бұрын
thaub aw..koj yuav tau zaum laub sai2 lau viv ncaus aw kuv mloog mas kuv nim hlub2 koj heev li o
@ThevoidPart4 күн бұрын
Los kuv mam hlub koj os. That old man no good
@Ch-fb4 күн бұрын
Kev lwj siab mj lawm g zam los tau lawm os dev yeej noj kam dev tawb quav zam tas los yeej yuav ua txuas ntxiv mus yog pem li ko lawm ces tso tseg zoo dua os niam laus aw
@kaliaxiong99623 күн бұрын
Yog hnub twg koj tsis cia lwm tus txiav txim siab rau koj lub neej lawm thiaj yog koj mob txaus tu siab txaus os niam tais. Hos yog hnub twg koj tseem los nug peb li no ces yog koj tseem siab muag rau nws txawm peb qhia koj los ib hnub twg koj yeej yuam kev dua!
Yes don’t take him back. You work so hard to get to where you are today. Let the background music talk! You do you girl!! Thanks to him you realize how much you are worth!
@pajdibvajj98834 күн бұрын
Love yourself, kav tsij txav Deb ntawm tus neeg no, cov neeg no.
@koryang64893 күн бұрын
Txhob yuav lawm yuav zoo dua os me niam laus aw😢
@chuesmith27144 күн бұрын
Think about it sister, if you were in his shoes he will not take you back. You deserve better, don't let him fool you. I would not take him back. He's a selfish person and didn't care how he hurted you. Do self-love and self-care, focus on your own happiness and move on with your life. Your husband does not deserve you. Love yourself first. I'm so sorry that you had to go through this pain. I wish you the best. ❤️
@JongYang-hj1qr4 күн бұрын
Tsis yuav zoo dua os nws twb saib tsis taus koj. Yog nws hlub koj tiag ces txawm koj yuav zoo licas los nws yeej hlub koj nawb
@zouaher77323 күн бұрын
Txhob yuav zoo dua os sister awd neeg qub siab qub xwb os mog.
@pajdawb683 күн бұрын
Now that you free….love yourself more ❤
@xeevnploojxyooj23764 күн бұрын
Sister, love yourself and being yourself ok. Don't let the chattering men like your husband back home ok. Stop stopping ok.
@lukemoua90273 күн бұрын
Ua nws tsaug , tab si cia nyias nyob nyias, vim yus mob txaus lawm. Qhov zoo ces pab koj tus kheej kom yuag thiab nyob zoo.
@chilee83074 күн бұрын
Yes. Don't let him back
@quiyi31074 күн бұрын
No matter koj rog los yuag. Yog nws yuav hlub koj ces nws yeej hlub koj xwb. Tsis need nws ua siab phem rau koj pom thiab paub nws siab tag e nws mus tsis taus lawm tso nws ho rov tig los yuav koj no ntshe mus lawm os sister. Hlub koj tus kheej li nws hlub nws. Koj thiaj muaj nqi ok.
@charlielee33994 күн бұрын
Good job lady! Don’t make the mistake again and take him back.
@MartinaVang-u8t4 күн бұрын
Don't let toxicity back into your life...focus on self love....
@seeyang59513 күн бұрын
At 60 years old. No need him grandma. Nothing good left. Live your best life.
@susbcusthao71513 күн бұрын
Love should not be based on beauty. Why let everyone blame you for his actions? We eat, we will gain weight again unless we are able to follow restrictive diet. Taking him back may not be a good idea. Wish you the best of luck sis.
@moogsuabnkauj14433 күн бұрын
Me viv ncaus . Kuv hais koj nawb mog. Luag tham yus tus txiv yus twb mob txaus nkaus txog theem li koj lawm.. ez yog hnub twg koj kho tau zoo zoo nkauj es nrauj ncuas txoj ke mus tham luag tus txij nkawm nawb mog... laus nraug. Yawg nrauj. Yawg ntsuag. Nraug mos ab. Cov tsis muaj khub li tham nawb mog.... es nco qab ntsoov txhob tham luag tug nawb mog...
@Maiangelthao4 күн бұрын
Love your self first…be smart and who care what other people say.
@nkaujntsaubvaj23203 күн бұрын
Wow wow wow!!! Ua cas cov Niam ntxawm no tsis yog poj niam li ne. Tsis paub tsam lwm hnub lawv cov txiv ua rau lawv no lawv puas tu siab ne. Tsis yuav los ua rau koj mob siab lawm nawb. Tseem tshuav cov txiv neej zoo 2 nyob rau sab nrauv nawb.
@yangyang23714 күн бұрын
Yog kuv ces tsis yuav nws lawm Yog koj yuav ces koj yuav los tu nws thaum nws raum tuag ntag nawb mog
@chaothaochannel4 күн бұрын
No one can make a decision for you. You make your own decision. Follow your heart. Good luck
@phouathao28484 күн бұрын
Niam ntsuab teev tus poj niam nws tus txiv yuav los ntxias nyiaj xwb vim nyiaj tag lawm
@judyvang90894 күн бұрын
Eating 2 eggs, an apple, and a protein bar everyday is not loving yourself. Loving yourself is eating everything but in moderation so you get all the necessary nutrients and vitamins to stay healthy.
@koulor52522 күн бұрын
Lub neej yog yus lub yus txaiv txim siab li cas ces ua li yus xav xwb tsis tas mus mloog leej twg hais vim lawv twb tsis paub yus txoj kev nyuaj siab os tus me viv ncaus
@JSVang4 күн бұрын
Don't go back. What is done can't be undone, but definitely forgive him and move on. Live your lifeoving yourself, and you'll be much happier.
@maiher48483 күн бұрын
😮vuag mus kho kom zoo os
@chiliayang58324 күн бұрын
Koj ua yog lawm os sister kaj tsij mus kho koj tus kheej zoo dua txhob thab nws lawm
@maovang22943 күн бұрын
Tus me viv ncaus aw tus txiv dev zoo koj tus no ces muab tsij rau thoob khib nyiab xwb tsis tas yuav lawm os mog luag twb saib tsis taus yus tsis tas yuav lawm os mog ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@charlielor98774 күн бұрын
Koj tus txiv los, cia 6 koj cov niam hlob niam ntxawm yuav, vim nyiam koj tus txiv tshaj lawv tus
@eiathorthor98674 күн бұрын
Tsi yuav lawm os vim tu txiv zoo li no tsua hlub koj thaum koj zoo xwb yog koj rov yuav ce ib hnub tom ntej no koj rov tsi zoo ce nw tsi hlub koj dua lawm thiab ib tug neeg hlub yus txawm yus zoo li cas lo yeej tsi ua yus mob li
@julievang42153 күн бұрын
Tsis yuav lawm yog tias koj yog neeg yog tias koj yog tsiaj MAs thiaj li yuav xwb ho yog koj yog neeg ces cab caj dab tus Los tsis yuav lawm yog koj yuav yuav ces mus rau tus tshiab lawm xwb MAs thov kom koj muaj yeej nawj
Xav kom zoo2 mog vim yu tu txiv yu yeej nco tiag2 li o
@elisabethrozans48024 күн бұрын
Txhob tos lawm mog kav tsij nrauj Kiag es ua neej nrog koj cov me nyuam los hlub koj tus kheej,koj xav tsis yuam kev Kiag rov los mloog koj tus me ntxhais coj koj mus kho cev kom nws plawv nres Kiag mog yog koj tseem mus nkag nws lub Pob tawb mog me niam tsev yog koj ua tau mas rov hais rau peb paub yuav ua rau peb cov poj muaj nuj nqe ok👏👌🙏thiab zoo siab koj tig thiab xav tau zoo heev no ua tsaug rau koj thiab cov kwv ua yog heev 👏👏👌
@lucyxiong82674 күн бұрын
Time waits for no one. Learn to Love yourself and don't give another minute to someone who don't appreciate u.
@สุชาดาเลาเทาะ4 күн бұрын
Tsis yuav lawm os twb dhau qhov nyuab siab lawm tsis mob siab lawm mus ua zoo nkauj rau yus tus kheej xwb os
@shengthao5584 күн бұрын
Love yourself and move on. If someone loves you, no matter what, they will love you. Once you are old , he will leave you again.
@shengkue32863 күн бұрын
Listening to your heart do not take him back!. If u take him back u will have more stress!
@MeeXiong-sz1go4 күн бұрын
Zoo kawg kav tsij mus kho kom zoo2 nkauj nawb tabsi txhob yuav koj tus txiv lawm os…
@niamntxoovtswbxyoojchannel24544 күн бұрын
Tej zaum koj yeej rog dhau lawm thiab os lawv thiaj cem koj
@normoua61654 күн бұрын
Tus me niam tsev, hlub koj tus kheej ua ntej uas koj yuav hlub tus neeg uas tsis hlub koj.
@macydruckrey90234 күн бұрын
Listen to your heart. You don't need anyone to give you some advice on what to do in your happy life. Thaum nws yuav tuag es hais lus zoo xwb ces tej lus ntawd tsis yog qhov tseeb. When come to love, you need action not just a sweet words.
@hoavang84714 күн бұрын
Tsis zoo yv lawm os niam laug aw thaum yug dab tuag nws twb tsis hlub yug hnub no yug zoo nkauj tuaj lawm kav tsij hlub yug tus kheej mog yav tag kj quaj txij no mus cia nws quaj kj mog
@fghcvnh74042 күн бұрын
Sib paub siab lawm ce lam nyob xwb siab g sib hwm lawm os
@maileevue8974 күн бұрын
Koj tus txiv ntawm koj ces dag koj xwb mas lawv tsis hlub koj nws dag koj xwb os
@mistyvangel72374 күн бұрын
Listen to your heart. No one can decide for you. If me I let him go. Love yourself first.
@kayvang31483 күн бұрын
Tus viv ncaus, Txhob mloog lawv hais nawb! Koj mloog lawv hais ces yuav mob koj xwb o.txhob yuav lawm nawb. Tus neeg hlub koj yeej tsis yuav tus tshiab nawb. Txog lawv lawv mam paub koj nrhiav tus tshiab zoo dua nawb. Thov koj txhob yuav yuav lawv Yog koj yuav koj yuav khuv xim Kuv cov lus no nawb. Nws mus tsis Txog twg lawm o. Trust me…
@sirikankhongsapthawi39594 күн бұрын
Ntawm kuv mas xav tias tsis yuav yog qhov zoo dua lawm seb koj puas hlub koj tus kheej thaum lawv ua pheem rau koj saib xyuas koj tus kheej kom zoo xwb cov lus hais sab nraum txhob mus khaws los coj los mloog rau siab rau yus xwb..
@lanee16424 күн бұрын
Txhob yuav lawm zoo dua yuav tus tshiab lawm xwb nws blub koj ces koj tseem rog los nws yeej hlub koj os mog tus me viv mcaus
@daleeindee15264 күн бұрын
TU viv ncau aw tso nw mu nw yuav yog qhov zoo Dua os mog teb chaw vam2 Meej lawm yeej meem tso nw mu es mu hlai mu kho Ib ce kom zoo2 nkauj mam li mu nrhiav Dua cov tub hlua lo yog TU Tshiab kom zoo kom thiaj li khib nw nw thiaj mob siab tshaj Koj 10 npaug os mog
@caaspasvang74274 күн бұрын
Ab tsib ua kom zoo koj siab xwb mas nws yog koj lub neej xwb os
@blueberrysmilie14 күн бұрын
Cov txiv phem li no yog poj niam hmoob mekas li khib nyiab lawm xwb. Yog koj muaj siab muaj ntsws ces tus txiv liam npaum no txhob yuav lawm. Tsev neeg ko tsis hlub koj. Yus rog xwb es hais lub rau yus li yus tsis yog neeg. Yog nws yuav koj rau txoj kev zoo nkauj xwb ces tsis yog reason nrov yuav nws lawm nawb. Txoj kev zoo nkauj tsis kav ib leej twg, cov lus ko yog nws dag ntxias koj xwb. For his benefit only. Let him rot.
@anyachang85633 күн бұрын
Kuv tsis yuav li lawm o....yus rau ces rov yuav xwb...nyob ua laus nkauj lawm xwb khwv nyiaj rau yus tus kheej ua zoo22 nkauj mus ncig ntuj ncig teb xwb yuav yog qhov zoo dua...😢😢😢
@Thojkajsiab-mt4 күн бұрын
Txhob mloog nws cov message es koj tshav thiaj tsis siab. Love yourself sister.
@metublor90964 күн бұрын
G tas yuav lm o txawm kj yuav los tom ntej no yg koj puv dua ces nws rov yuav dua lwm tus xwb mos, nrhiav tus tshiab zoo dua
@chasuav4 күн бұрын
Everyone deserves a second chance. Yog zaum 2 tsis zoo lawm nyias mam mus nyias tsis lig. Koj txawm mus tom ntej los yeej tsis tau tus zoo tshaj nws lawm thiab os. Kav tsij ua siab ntev. Ntev tag los ntev thiab. Uv tsis tuag!
@TmTm-b9v4 күн бұрын
😊😊
@Paj-Ci-LVue4 күн бұрын
Niam Laus, DO NOT take him back, let him go, pay no attention to what other people say, it’s your life, not theirs
@tommyvang15824 күн бұрын
Keeps urself healthy looking good have nothing to do with nrog yus tus txiv tiam tej kwvtij neejtsa phoojywg
@NormanKong3 күн бұрын
Tseem ntshaw ua nom ua Tswv thiaj pheej tiam qhua, peb ib tug pabthas xeem xwb mas heev tshaj luag meskas ib tug congress los Senator.
@TracyLee-z5i4 күн бұрын
Tsis yuav lawm os sister aw. Ua npaum no lawm es pheej tseem yuav nyob tos na. Move on lawm xwb os.
@judyvang90894 күн бұрын
Cas nej xav yuag ua luaj li. Yuag ces yus laus2. Kuv mas tseem xav rog es thiaj li hluas zoo nkauj. Tus txiv tsev zoo hlub koj tiag yeej tsis k txog qhov koj zoo li cas. Ntawd thiaj yog kev hlub tiag.
@maylee20744 күн бұрын
Don’t take him back sister. If you gain weight, he’ll leave you again.
@pajhnubhlimas37783 күн бұрын
Ab cas txiv neej lub siab yuav phem ua luaj ne yom cas tu siab ua luaj os me niam laus😭koj cov niam hlob niam ntxawm siab phem kawg koj nrauj los tau lawm mas yuav yog koj txiav txim siab koj tus kheej xwb os.
@elisabethrozans48024 күн бұрын
Txhob tos lawm mog kav tsij nrauj Kiag es ua neej nrog koj cov me nyuam los hlub koj tus kheej,koj xav tsis yuam kev Kiag rov los mloog koj tus me ntxhais coj koj mus kho cev kom nws plawv nres Kiag mog yog koj tseem mus nkag nws lub Pob tawb mog me niam tsev yog koj ua tau mas rov hais rau peb paub yuav ua rau peb cov poj muaj nuj nqe ok👏👌🙏
@gamerboylogan36554 күн бұрын
tus txiv neej no tsis tsim nyog yuav lawm mog tus me viv ncaus saib yus kom muaj nqis nawb cov kwv tij thiab cov niam tsev twb thuam koj lawm ces muab pov tsheg rau hauv thoob khib nyiab nawb.
@bvang83704 күн бұрын
Exactly. I said the same thing about white rice too. It's full of carbs and will make you overweight. Know why so many Hmong are so overweight... even Hmong Lao are now overweight? Because Hmong eat too much white rice. I don't see Lao or Thai overweight. They prefer sticky rice and eat smaller portions.
@KouYang-g6b4 күн бұрын
txhob yuav nws lawm nws yuav los tsim koj xwb os
@pahouamoua80544 күн бұрын
Kav tsij hloov kj cov pob qhov rooj xwb, es npaj kj daim ntawv nrauj, yeej meem txeeb kom tag txhua yam, thiab kom nws kav tsij yug kj thiab thiaj tsim nyog nawb.
Do what makes you happy, the choice is yours. What he did to you is not unconditional love. He only love you when you’re pretty xwb. He can change is mind anytime. In America, you don’t need a man to be happy. Love yourself first and your children.