Lub nwj Siab Nrog Casino. 1/12/2022

[@Love98fire]

Such a good story thanks for sharing. I’m happy you are able to turn your life around.

[@lisvaj7375]

Addiction is addiction no matter what kind of addiction you have. People have to hit rock bottom to change. Addiction is giving up that one thing for everything. You have to choose. I’m glad you overcame your addiction.

[@emilyherr5352]

She's brave to share her story. Glad she learned from it

[@txoojtvang9947]

Never ever learned not long she will going back

[@tiaxiong1872]

She's yog ib niag pog liam ces koj lub neej ces kawg ua maum dev liam

[@shshu507]

ก๋วยเตี๋ยว

[@cofisher5708]

A great story. I am glad you're able to admit and tell the story about your life. Gambling is a hard habit to break and ruins marriages and friendship.

[@MissPeachie]

I am glad you found help before you end up in the streets. It is very easy to fall into an addiction, especially gambling. Self-control is very difficult and you have to be mentally strong to fight those temptations. Thanks for being brave to tell your story of addiction. I know there are many gambling addicts that are not willing to admit their addiction but kudos to you.

[@Loves_GodSR]

I am so glad you shared your story. May your story give hope to those addicted to gambling.

[@teardrop662]

Thank u for sharing ur story with us. This addiction is very common but I’m surprised not many has shared their struggles & how they overcame the addiction w/ us. God bless u & ur family!

[@anng2142]

I’m so proud of you for overcoming this battle. Thank you sharing your story and instilling hope for those who are still struggling with an addiction. You are resilient and courageous. You should be very proud of yourself.

[@nancyvang8009]

I agree with you..

[@โซลาวโซ้ง]

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[@choyuen968]

Cov txiv neej uas muab cov niam txwb quav yeeb thiab quav txiaj ces tuag zoo dua.

[@waatchdogs6184]

Aww so happy you found your way out of misery. An addiction is easy to become but is never easy to get out of. It's sad the ones who got you into it can't be there to lift you out instead let you suffer. Life is more peaceful when you stay away from these addictions. Happy for you sister

[@angelyang8262]

Proud of you sister I'm glad you got help

[@YajMorey81]

I’m glad you found help and turned your life around.

[@cneyxiong55]

I don’t know that people can get this addicted to casino. Glad you realized it and changed to be a better person sister. Thank you for three lesson.

[@chenglee5329]

Haaaaa tu dab casino funny kawg tab si zaj neej neeg noo heev li ua kev kawm rau sawv daw nyiam zaj no kawg ua tsaug koj share pub sawv daw mloog nawb tu niam tsev

[@monkeybanana9269]

Hmong people's popular advice for the wife to always follow the husband's footstep no matter what he does even in the wrong is stupid. I would suggest that whenever your spouse is practicing a lifestyle going downhill and refusing to better themself, best leave them. Better to save yourself than get yourself engaged in a horrible addiction with them. Sad. Very very sad for this lady.

[@kevkawmkevpaub6189]

I think you are exaggerating. Your comments always contain biases and misleading. Traditionally, Hmong encourage the wives to follow their husbands in a positive ways for the most part. However, this is the 21st century and if anyone still cling to the old way of life or old thinking, that person is simply an ignorant.

[@monkeybanana9269]

@@justpeaceful6844 : My family is the same way. We omitted those clauses you stated out too because they are absurd and nonsensical.

[@monkeybanana9269]

@@kevkawmkevpaub6189 : I never said Hmong discouraged their daughters or wives from doing the right thing. You may say whatever you want about me, I do not care nor am offended one bit because my stance still stands in this. Even if you disagree and are in denial, it doesn't change the fact that there is a broken system in Hmong culture and Hmong society (though changed somewhat), there are still a lot of prejudices and stigma. Otherwise, why would there be so many men and women coming forward speaking out over and over again about certain unfair treatment and practices?

[@monkeybanana9269]

@UCB121H756VzEd8ZHwNjRZlA : Positive about what? Positive about a radical and bs practice? Of course it's shameful. You can love it all you want and sweep it under the rug like some but even elders I spoke to (unrelated and related including my father and grandfather), many also hate some of the stuff in Hmong culture because they seen the injustices in it not just in regards to gender inequality. I don't need to get explicit what they are when they're already well known. You can write me back or not, I do not care. I am done here and my point made already. Offended or not, it's yours and anybody else's choice. I am not the only one feeling ashamed. Many others feel the same way.

[@kevkawmkevpaub6189]

@@monkeybanana9269. Go back to read your first sentence and think for a minute to see if you know how devastating what you said is. You don't seem to understand the value of being a Hmoob woman or a woman in general. What you said is completely disgraceful and disrespectful to your own kind, and some time this kind of disgrace and disrespect end up in the court with some ignorant women. Therefore, today we have many divorced cases of Hmong women trashing not only their husbands but the entire Hmoob men in court (I wonder what other Hmoob men did to these women). Fortunately, I happened to take the stand to defend Hmong men and their society in one case, and it was immature and embarrassing. But with my testimony and the evidences I provided to the court, the judge finally tossed all the nasty shit the wife accused Hmong men out. This often happens because some of our women are toxic, brainless and ignorant. If you are not happy with your race, you are free to move on and join another race. You have the freedom to choose No, I don't simply accuse you of anything I want nor am I trying to offend you in any way. I'm simply talking about what you said, and what you said is exactly the world view of the many ignorant Hmong women have regarding to hmong men and Hmong culture. I personally think every Hmong person, men or women, should be appreciated for being a Hmoob. And being a Hmoob means you should protect the Hmong, it's culture and society. No, Hmoob culture and society are not perfect, and I stand against many mistreatments and practices that we have. There are many things need to be changed, and some are in the process of changing now. You can't expect the entire culture and society to change overnight. However, you should know that there is not a perfect culture or society in this world. Anyone who thinks that the mainstream society and culture in this country is perfect is simply an ignorant. Even the legal system in this country is broken and imperfect.

[@emilyxiong4270]

Addictions are number 1 life destroyers. Only one self can stop the addiction.

[@ChuHer90]

Tsi muaj neeg ntuag tau yus tus kheej yus thiaj ntuag tau yus xwb

[@bosscha5710]

So happy for u sister and thanks for sharing

[@keith23615]

thanks for sharing your Casino story 👍

[@nkaujhmoobusa2116]

Casino addictive is very horrible terrible sick can make you go broken, broken, broken, broken Addiction.

[@zhangthor912]

Been there done that, very similar for most gamblers. Best thing is never start.

[@cindyskenderovic6806]

Don't let money control you but you control the money 💯 in order to stay on top of everything.

[@nilytaka]

This story reminds me of one of my family members; my job on weekend is babysitting when the parents were at casino .

[@panghouathao4723]

Why do I feel like I heard the last two stories already?

[@ashton8878]

Nope, they’re new.

[@daovang7148]

Koj hais yog kawg

[@maovue4406]

Sister, thanks for sharing your story. Addiction can happen to anyone. I am sorry to hear that you lived that lifestyle for so long. I hope your future will be better.

[@hmoobqabteb7943]

Npaj nawb, 3 rov qab mus hmo no nawb!

[@ableab2907]

🤣🤣

[@jessicayang5522]

Be a gambler u will be broke no matter what

[@leek-te5dx]

Sister. Let me tell you this first of all I am so proud of you for finding it within yourself to turn yourself your life around. You knew who you were you always did but you had to find your true self again. The Hmong culture especially parents always say if your inlaws steal you learn to steal, if they gamble you learn to gamble, if they gossip you learn to gossip, if they kill you learn to kill okay, if they drink you drink. You my sister fell into this trap. You did it to fit in to get along to save your marriage by showing interest in your ex-husband family. In the end, you ruined yourself and did your inlaws have your back. So who had your back. Right your own brothers and sisters okay. To all my Hmong sisters please live your life for you and your kids and if your husband stear you to become someone you were not and or want to be stand your ground leave if you need to. If you did, you would have left that rotten marriage and probably be the winner in all of that mess. Your heart still has hope dreams and beliefs. You still remembered who you were and that was what got you out of an addiction. You did not let your cheating ex and broke life lead you six feet under. You see you lived for your kids and that speaks of a good but broken and healed mother. Sending 💘 to you as you should never speak again of shame and embarrassment again okay. You have no shame to bear on your shoulder you end up on the wrong side facing a terrible addiction that spiraled out of control because of your ex and family. Yups addiction is that easy to fall into. You have a voice and I'm glad you spoke out and loud. Bless you sister okay from one sister right here to you stand tall and live your life in loving arms and around family that loves and support you. 2022 for you okay.

[@mayalee2400]

Wow, you tell it exactly what everyone's going through in a gambler's mind...proud of you, I heard my mother says, that she knows someone in her area that he kill himself, because he use all his children's income tax money to gamble all night and lost it all,, lost everything, when he came home ,he just shoot himself..what a shame, he didn't know about getting the help,so he die..I'm glad you shared your story,for everyone, for those that need help, but don't know how to get it,or too shy to ask for help....proud of you,thanks for sharing...

[@onebadasian]

Before you all bash gamblers, you have to be in their shoe. Its very addictive, just like a drug. If ur not going there as a past time, it ruin your life. I love going there, but spend $200-300 once in awhile. I know how addictive it can be if ur a full blown addict. There is help.

[@khouanchaythao469]

Good story. Thanks

[@shenavang789]

Thanks for sharing your story sis. 💕

[@douayang2163]

Tuag lau !!! Tus niam tsev Sayao lau!! Txiav txim siab tig los ua niam tsev Sony lau!!!

[@traywaybby]

He pushed you into the pit and crawled out and never help u back up.. 🤦‍♀️

[@johnnylor8998]

This story is so funny lol. I hate the casino and this just made my day

[@mickyyang6338]

It is sad that at the beginning they influenced you to gamble and now at the end they abandon you instead of trying to help you… so you will have to help yourself now… sorry for what you went through but also proud of you for getting out of the hell hole… some people have to hit rock bottom to know that they have a problem, good job sis

[@noulongyang4555]

I don't think that her in laws including her husband can help her because they are a bad combination. She should thank her ex husband for leaving her, left her with no choice but to stop gambling.

[@suabyalei8421]

I wear the same shoes except have not divorce but I'm to point divorced then i think is my fault. So now I'm lecture myself and not going. My life is getting better and buy good house now. Never forget how casino destroyed us.

[@MySunshine71]

addicted for 25 years and sober for 2 years now

[@moobxaavvaammeej5725]

You went through a college of psychology. Proud of you sister it's good that you woke up of your bad dream.

[@hlubvimkoj4320]

May vang you should send donations money to help some of this story sender? bc they’re the one keeps helping you promote your KZbin channel and we are the one keep view your channel, too!…let’s see the view agree with me?…Thank you.

[@yd2819]

Lol no need to donate to them bc they wi end up donating to the casino. If May is to donate , do it where is reasonable

[@houavang5596]

Yes, I am in the same boat with you, but not to the point to loose everything but I learn from losing so much money not take me anywhere so I decided not to go anymore and so glad that I be able to stop otherwise I probably seek help already too

[@gaonoogvaj5398]

You have to control yourself for play...because ghost make you addicted to gambling...you have to think it not real...fake...no winner..lose all your money's

[@nhialor7959]

Thank you

[@svaaj9415]

Neej quav txiaj ces kawg zoo li ntawm ko Las as

[@Demonslayerfannumber1]

It ok sister everyone make mistakes..txoj kev quav casino yeej mus ntau yeej quav tiag tiag.

[@yoglis9321]

Great story Lear from ur mistake ur husband knew life wasn't going no where he left u got a better life u learned from ur mistake casino is never something good ur story will help others

[@hlubvimkoj4320]

I know this Casino machine Lucky I only play her for $100 xwb first time. After that it’s free playing.

[@bosslady8498]

I’m proud and happy for you, sister! Not a lots of people make it once they in this deep in casino. Please let this be a lesson learned and don’t ever go gamble again. Casino is not good and not worthy.

[@mrshanglily5647]

I gamble too but once a year with the husband. 😂 Those casino machines sure sucks your money 💰 faster than your vacuum cleaner 😂

[@princesst2d2]

Worst advise from Hmong culture for a newlywed immature daughter is "whatever he do you do, if he steal you steal, if he gamble, you gamble". Hmong people need to change this motto..

[@ahuaahua3730]

Kv tus txiv twb tsi twv txiaj tias siv wb yuav lej heev li tias si tsi rawg li thiab kv xav tias cov neeg yuav leej ces zoo li cov neeg twv txiaj kawg

[@baoyang6462]

Viv ncaus aw… zoo siab uas Koj tsum tau casino lawm os mog quav yeeb thiab quav casino ces yeej tib tug leb xwb os mog hlub u tu kheej thiab hlub u cov me nyuam txhob muab tej nyiaj coj mus siv rau yam tsis tseem ceeb li ntawv os .

[@georgeyang2193]

I have a friend who works at the casino fixing the slot machines, most of the slot machines are setup for 70/30 advantage of the casino, only a few slot machines are setup for 50/50 for the gamblers.

[@kavang8417]

Peb txua tus yeej Txawj ua txhaum tiam sis nco tsoov tias kev tig tau rovlos yog tuag ces tag lawm xwb os me vivncaus aw zoo qhov koj tig tau rov qab nawb

[@lanaxiong3379]

All gambling addicts live the same life it’s a shame

[@nkaujzagthaochannel2895]

Cas zoo li khwv nyiaj tsis nyuab li os ntuj aw nyiaj no es khwv nyuab li nyuab xwb os

[@SkyFlower-ug9lm]

Kuv los nyiam casino kawg li. Play nrog nyiaj thiab nyob casino mas nyob 36 hrs los yeej tsis hnov nkees. But yes no money when u like casino

[@ableab2907]

😅yog kawg.

[@suexiong537]

Yog lawm tuag zoo dua...

[@myprecious6751]

Really? That is your only option and answer is to died? So instead of seeking help that can help you, you would rather just died.

[@payang6882]

Kuv twb muaj ib tug viv ncaus dai tuag vim txoj kev coj zoo li koj ntag

[@maipha8560]

Ah sh*t! I work too hard for my money, the casinos has not helped me through my hardship while trying to balance work/life/school. Cried so many nights when it was so difficult, I wouldn't give the casinos a penny of my hard earned money. If my husband was a gambler, I leave his a$$ in a heartbeat. Hell, I wouldn't get myself involved in a life with no future as a gambler. The best lesson you will learn is the one you teach yourself. Also, you need to know your priorities, glad you understood what your priorities are. It's not too late get help and get out of any addiction. Glad to hear you decided that your life and children were worth more than throwing all your money away at the casinos.

[@yingvang1276]

If only this story was in English

[@douayang2163]

Txiv twv txiaj, tham hluas Nkauj, tso qaib sib ncaws, haus dej haus caws, tuag lau!!! Ua neej nyuab siab lawm lau!!!

[@nengyang852]

Wow! Twv txiaj loj tiag tiag 3 hours xwb poob tag $4000

[@dolliilov3144]

I never got the point of gambling 🎰 because people do go broke because of it. I rather buy a lottery ticket for $1 everyday and hope that I win the PowerBall.

[@hmoob-usalauj3934]

Sister, if you can’t beat them, join them. You did great, be obedient to your husband. My dad always Said if you marry a gangster you become a gangster, if you marry a doctor you are a doctor…etc. it’s a loosing game.

[@monkeybanana9269]

Horrible advice. Lol. After he got her addicted, he left her. If someone wants to jump off cliff, let them. There's no need to jump with them.

[@ashton8878]

Stop putting the man on the pedestal for all the wrong reasons!

[@cocopha5778]

Tsev neeg liam os

[@jarvaniv4328]

Some Hmong families needs to change how they advise (qhuab ntuas) a newly wed couple, especially the bride. Stop telling the bride to follow whatever the groom's family does, no matter good or bad; such as "if your husband's family works hard, then you work hard; if your husband's family steals, then you steal; if your husband's family is lazy, then you also be lazy." We get the point that the sayings are metaphorical and the bride should adapt to the husband's family, but it leaves a sour taste when people hear those words. In this story, she is basically following the advice from the "mej koob" and her side of the family, yet in the end her family still chastise her for doing what she was told.

[@meeyang8411]

In the 1990’s, Hmong people in my community were bused to casinos every night, each received $20. Many got addicted, families broken, kids turned to gangs, lost everything. Sad watching those who participated.

[@douavue4167]

Ua neej nyob yog Lee twg nraug tus dab xyob txiaj quav txiaj li kos CES thaum kawg yeej kawg tuag thiab ciaj dev tseeb2.

[@chiavue6701]

Wow talk about victim blaming.

[@suelo617]

Casino luag ntse2 luag zov rawv lub koob thaij duab tus neeg qub neeg tshiab luag paub tas koj yog tus tshiab luag yuav tau muab nyiaj los ntxias ntxuav koj lub hlwb kom koj zoo siab txawm koj tau es ho mus tsis tuaj lawm los tsis ua cas hos ho muas tau es kom vwm rau lawm ces koj yuav sau koj lub neej kom tas tuaj rau luag peb yuav ua cad twv yeej na los

[@gaonoogvaj5398]

Even I work 7 day...I don't even have money...I don't go casino

[@maiyangher5320]

Twg txiaj ceg zoo ib yam li quag yeeb xwb lawg

[@missysmart8620]

Koj cias luag ntxias koj nces ntab luag lauj ntais lawm os. Zoo siab you are ok now.

[@douavue4167]

Tus maum dev liam kos CES tuag Los tau lawm liam dhau lawm tsis zoo ua neeg lawm.

[@chasuav]

Ua li cas nej nim muaj nyiaj mus Casino es kuv twb tsis muaj nyiaj yuav noj li os. 😭 😭 😭

[@txhobtxhawjheev8588]

No one teaches you better than yourself. We have no one to blame but ourself. Congrats on your graduation to gambling addiction.

[@colleenchan9872]

Zoo qhov koj tswj tau koj tus kheej tsis muaj xov neeg hlub koj cem koj ntshe koj twb tuag tsis muaj neej or ua neeg tag lawm es nrog koj zoo siab koj tig tau koj tus kheej los ua neeg zoo os!

[@tommyvang8824]

Txoj kev twv txiaj tsis yog ib qho zoo os lawv aw

[@yx6889]

This is a good lesson and it applies to anyone that has any addiction, whether it's the casino or drugs or shopping! Get help and stick with it. Remember that your family is way more important than that "high" from winning/shopping/drugs. I'm glad that you broke out of that cycle of gambling.

[@saykaomee]

My coworker did a research paper for her graduate degree and she can't believe the high percentage of Hmong people who are addicted to gambling. Addictions are real. Get professional help before you are hooked.

[@beevveil2240]

Kuv mus poob $100 xwb es Kuv twb ntshai2 tu siab tag li os niam tais Aw cas koj ho mus poob tag 4 phav es khuv xim tag npauv li os

[@wamengyang5021]

Ob tug ntawv ko ruam dlua lawm os nawb.

[@xohugsandkissesxo]

It's a shame you followed your husband's foot steps knowing that the gambling life won't lead you anywhere. You have to watch out for yourself regardless of that hmong saying " you tus txiv zoo li cas, you zoo li nws thiaj lis ua tau ib lub neej ua ke" that's just a bunch of bs. Love yourself first, your kids and put them guys last.

[@todayistheday3161]

Yuav tau ib tsev neeg tsis tsim txhiaj mab nyuaj siab tshaj. But ultimately it’s your decision if you want to be like them or not. Listen to your conscience. This story is a prime example of not doing as others do, even if it’s your husband and in laws!

[@kvang1045]

An eye opener for gamblers. I know its easier said than done but its possible to quit or slow down if a person really have the heart to. Sucks that your husband left you when he was the cause for your addiction. Like they say, if you married a thief, you become a thief, married an alcoholic, you become an alcoholic etc. Glad you turn your life around. Money is hard to come by and you work your butt off for that hard earned money so use it for something that is worth it. The casino doesnt deserve your paycheck.

[@tengyang3604]

Kom nej nco tsoov tias tej niag ka si naus ko muaj dab kasi nau thiab vim yog muaj ib nco neeg quav2 ib yam nej tuag lawm ces tseem xav2 mus es lawv kov tsis tau ces lawv siv nej lub ces play rau lawv es tsis tswj kom tau nej ces kawg kob huam mus li xwb nawb.

[@pnvang2]

So funny how she said “ so desperate going to casino willing to sleep with guys for money but there isn’t anyone willing to pay her to sleep with” 😂

[@nragxyoojchannel7265]

Cov neeg mus twv txiaj mas ruam dhau tsi ris siab li

[@johnbarron4843]

This chick is trouble

[@jouheu9061]

Qhov niag chaw ua casino ntawd muaj dab dag noj dag haus nyob rau hauv loj heev.laiv yog leejtwg raug tus dab no lawm ses feem ntau lub neej kawg Liam xwb nawb mog hmoob tsi xyaum coj zoo aw

[@DsDs-bz1tw]

😁😁😁😁😁🤣

[@yinglor8962]

Tus niam tsev aw..cov neeg txawj mus casino mas nyob ntev ntev luag mam nqa $100 los yog $200 mus ua si lam hlwb xwb..tau los yuav yog poob lawm ces rov los tsev xwb..nov yog tus neeg txawj mus casino nawb

[@chumenglau8167]

Niam ntsuab teev es hnov nom pov xyoo hais li ntawv es kj yog Nkauj hmoob nplog uas yg niam Nkauj mos ab puas yg nab los

[@solomoua5520]

CASINO mean NO so best don’t go 🙏

[@yuglosuahmoobtsisyuamkevya7530]

Tus niam tsev no nws lam muab Liam hais tias nws tus txiv tsev neeg yog cov mus casino no nti nws lub ntsej Muag xwb. Yus yeej yog neeg tsis zoo yeej nyiam qhov phem xwb . Tuag zoo dua os

[@maylee8634]

Yog, kuv xav li thiab. Nyia yeej zoo nyia siab mus tsi muaj leej twg yuam Tau ib leeg twg yog tsi zoo siab mus. Thaum kawg yog zoo ce vim Yu tsi zoo ce tia Tim luag. Qhov tseeb ib tug yuav Liam tsi Tau rau ib tug. kawg ua nyias yuav Tau control nyias tu kheej xwb zoo tiag ce thxob mus zoo tshaj xwb

[@paullee6155]

Sister why you love to gamble. I never play gamble don't know the future.

[@nkaujntse5196]

Why gamble when your bet is more than your hourly pay? This is why I stop going to casinos. Better to not gamble.

[@cal3243]

I know people who are like this and I have no respect for addictive people who has no respect to their children and their lives. Every penny spent at the casino and not on their family.

[@ableab2907]

Understand addictions.

[@wonderwoman8139]

I feel like you keep telling the same stories over and over again. Already heard this one too