Nqa Tau Daim Ntawm Phem Los Ua Neeg. 4/2/23

[@koumoua2980]

Tus niam tais aw nrog koj tu siab heev rau koj txoj kev txom nyem os mog. Tab sis kom nco ntsoov tias sib nrauj tag lawm ces tsis txhob rov qab mus yuav dua zaum ob vim yeej tsis tshuav dab tsi zoo lawm es thiaj nrauj nws thiab tsis txhob cia tej niag kwv tij neej tsa quav dev ntawv yuam koj vim peb nyob mes kas teb lawm es kev pab ntau2 rau yus li os mog.

[@maivntxawmyajtv9824]

😢😭😭😭😭tu siab tshaj plaw li o yog kiag kuv lub neej o me niam laus kj pua kam tham kuv txoj o dab neeg na niam laus

[@ouradventuresnspecialmoments]

When you're married to a Man who is narrow-minded & selfish as this; it's best to let him go! No man should ever make you choose between his Parents or Yours! Best of Luck to you & your future.

[@rhiathao]

Kuv nrog koj zoo siab koj tau nyob kaj siab lawm os. Peb cov txiv neej Hmoob ib feem siab yeej me especially hais txog niam tais yawm txiv. Yeej muaj cov zoo thiab cov siab loj thiaj tiam sis cov ntawv Yog cov tsawg.

[@yeejvam9129]

❤❤❤❤

[@maivntxawmyajtv9824]

txiv neej lub siab o niam laus aw

[@pamthao8955]

Good for you to stand up for your parents and your self your parents will blessing you to have a wonderful life. remember you still have the police 👮‍♀️ on your side Sister this life you make it the way you want (txob muab Liam rau txoj hmoo)

[@hlubtushlubkuv9881]

Zoo kawg ua koj sawv khov kho tsis vau rau moj niag txiv siab phem ntaw. Niag txiv es yog tsis zoo ces muab tso mus mam li nrhiav dua tus zoo. Yus niam yus txiv ces nrhiav tsis tau. Nrog koj zoo siab ua koj tau lub neej kaj siab lug os.

[@vickthao6867]

YES YOU ARE RIGHT.

[@juliehawj3385]

I agree with you about fate or destiny. We just try our best to live and remember to love ourselves first. You showed great bravery to let your husband go and forget about the old tradition that binds us hmong women to abusive/controlling/dead beat men!

[@khamdeeleeoovlis2126]

Pvc

[@yayaya3267]

7

[@vilaos184]

😮

[@maivntxawmyajtv9824]

😭😭😭😭😭

[@maisvwj6763]

Twb tsis tsim nyog koj yuav koj thawj tug txiv zaum ob. Koj zaj neeg tu siab kawg 😢

[@Van-ny9fi]

😢😢😢😢😢Xav nrog Koj naooj ywg

[@chalee7169]

Cov txiv zoo li kov mas nrauj tsawg Tus los nrauj nawj me muam nawj

[@Ibvuag912]

Txhob tus siab os mog, koj yeej muaj hmoos kawg, tau niam thiab txiv hlub yus lawm, tsuas yog niag txiv dev siab phem ntawv xwb muab xws xa dab kiag pov tseg, yus nyob yus xwb twb tsis ua cas os mog.

[@maichang7338]

When your life is at stake don’t look to your relatives to help you. The safe house/womens shelter will get you the help you need. Let the law deal with him.

[@lubpajtsuanyobchawsiabchan8432]

Ib tug txiv neej siab me tiag22

[@kanman4507]

Koj yuav rov thov tuag xwb neeg zoo li kod naj khiav lawm tseem rov los yuav yog xav tuag xwb .....

[@greentortoise4629]

F* the Hmong tradition. This day and age the only relative that has your back is the Red and Blue lights. Put his ass in jail for threatening to un-alive you and restriction order. Take your family and move to a different state.

[@17maukabtsab]

Gee this is like my dad and my mom. 😅 my mom was able to move on so he couldn’t get her back like before.

[@crystalxiong735]

Thaum tau tus txiv zoo li no ces tuag ces fauv li fauv dev xwb.

[@asdpoqwer3727]

Tsis yog moov phem yog koj ruam xwb.

[@Crochet2894]

Xav kom peb cov hmoob txhob coj txoj cai yuam neeg no lawm nw yog ib txoj cai ua peb cov poj niam hmoob ntxub tshaj plaws nawb yog nej cov coj noj coj ua siv txoj cai yuam neeg no ntau ce peb cov ntxhais hmoob mu yuav lwm haiv neeg kom tag xwb kom nej cov tub hmoob tsi tau poj niam hmoob yuav ntag nawb 🤬

[@maivpaxiongandjulie9721]

Koj zaj dab neeg hai tau tu saib tshaj li os mi viv n aw 😭😭🤣🤣😭😭🤣🤣😭😭

[@moobxaavvaammeej5725]

Zaj no mas tsim nyog tis lub npe tias "Tiam ntawv ruam los ua neeg " vim twb nyob America na. Cas tseem ua li nyob Lostsuas no. Tebchaws America no kev cai zoo li zoo naj. Tsi txhob tos cia npam xwb mas cov me kwv tij.

[@hmoobvwj6851]

Hope you find your blood sister one day soon.

[@louxiong5757]

Me muam aw yog koj tsis dag es yeej muaj li koj hais tiag mas tsis tsim nyog koj yuav zaum ob li lawm os mog nrog koj tu siab os mog

[@heymaiv]

Think positively. Your adopted parents love you as much as they could. There are children who fallen in same situation and got it worst than you. Your husband: Good job!!!! I would have done the same and leave my husband. Everyone and every case is different. For me, I would love his and my parents evenly. I am in America now, not like how it is back in Laos or Thailand. I would lay it out that my parents don't have anyone but me. I may have to contribute more cares to them and he will have to care for his parents more. However, I will still love his parents. If my husband does not agree, time to divorce. Be an independent strong minded woman. 21st century now in America. I'm so sorry. I wished your children supported you in the beginning. When I was at the bank, I would have told the bank what happened and call the cops.

[@อะไรก็ได้-ข4พ]

😊😊😊😊😊

[@pvp503]

Koj muaj moo kawg!! Cov niam txiv coj yus mus tu thiab hlub muaj tsawg kawg nkaus. Kuv zoo siab tias koj hlub nkawv txog thaum xaus. Koj muaj peev xwm kawg..

[@lifewithbrayden9135]

Koj ua yog lawm! But I hope u find it in your heart to let go of the pass.

[@koslis6833]

Sister you should have his Hmong leader clan sign a paper. If their son killed, you who will go to jail with him.

[@Nkaujhmoolis]

Cas es hais mus hais los tsis make sense li lau

[@TubLaibVaj]

Screw any Hmong family and relatives trying to talk or force you. Not their lives. Hmong women need to learn that no one can fixed a marriage except yourself! Number one reason why women continue to suffer abuse or get killed because always getting forced to go back to a toxic relationship by stupid family and OGs. Smh

[@chaivue4167]

There should be a law…if a kwv tij or neej tsa advocates for a woman to go back to a dangerous marriage and it results in her death, they (kwv tij or neej tsa) can be charged as an accomplice to murder! Will make people think twice about opening their mouths.

[@ลุยใหม่]

Kev tus siab yug Los ua neeg nyob yeej tus siab tas mus li is

[@lisvaj7375]

If I were in your shoes, I would send my husband back too! This is new day and age, we don’t need a spouse.

[@ItsYou2]

You can always find a new husband but koj yuav mus nhria tsi tau ib tug zoo li koj niam thiab txiv.

[@123-d1j6f]

In America, neej tsa is red light green light lawm xwb os. I can't with these old Hmong men who are supposed to be our fathers and brothers suppressing us Hmong women. Good job and good luck, sis.

[@ShouaTojsiab]

Nrog koj tu siab os sister. Koj cov niag neej tsa uas yuam koj rov los yuav koj niag txiv siab phem ntawd mas RUAM tiag tiag! Cas twb muaj txoj cai lij choj es koj tsis muab niag tsov tom ntawd txhom kiag mus nyob tsev laj cuj!! Ua kom nws tau mus nyob kiag tsev tsaus ntuj xwb! Cas koj tseem yuav muab koj tej nyiaj rau niag txiv xyob txhiaj ntawd.

[@colleenchan9872]

Siab phem dhau cia kom npam npam tuag kiag mas!!

[@maivpaxiongandjulie9721]

Good question sister ❤️❤️

[@orchidyang603]

Sister- koj txoj kev los ua neej nrog koj tus txiv ces txawv tsis deb Kuv txoj kiag os….cov neeg phem ces tswv ntuj yeej tsis tsom kwm li os….Kuv cov tub thiab Kuv los yeej tau faus lawv txiv ib yam li koj thiab….Kuv ces tau ob lub npe….poj nrauj thiab poj ntsuam tabsis yog tib tug txiv xwb…..Kuv ces twb los nyob yuav muaj 20 xyoos no….ntshai lawm….tsis tau mus muaj neej zaum ob li…. Nrog koj zoo siab uas koj dim txoj kev tsim txom lawm os…..

[@JJJJ-ku9ob]

siab phem2 thiaj tuag tsw tau ua neej lawm. zoo kawg tuag lawm tsw tas tha2 li os. coj nyiaj pub poj ntauj kom poj nrauj kom poj nrauj tha

[@DianaNpiblis]

Neeg phem nyob tsis ntev li os

[@cocopha5778]

Nws tuag ces zoo kawg vim siab phem dhau

[@nickiengiayang]

It was such a traumatic experience but instead of being sad - be proud! You stood up for yourself and loved your parents!

[@bliathao5878]

Hais tau txaus ntshai dhau lawm os lawv aw cov txiv neej uas ib qhov ob qhov los npav tua pov tseg xwb naj

[@hmongremark2686]

Koj yog tus txiav txim siab rau koj lub neej nrog koj tus txiv nkaus xwb. Thaum koj thiab koj tus txiv neb txawj ua neej sib hlub, sawv daws cov txheeb ze (including koj niam pog txiv yawg thiab niam tais yawm txiv) kuj muaj chaw vam. Tab sis thaum neb lub neej liam rais mus ua neej txom nyem, lawv tsuas ua ntxoov tes ntsia thiab nyos neb xwb.

[@ILJA-c2q]

Ungrateful and selfish husband.

[@Ashley-qt1eb]

Cas g hu police naw yog nws hem npaum ko na

[@bgr4669]

Some of it could b destiny/fate…but u also have free will. Ur upbringing was something u couldn’t control becuz u depended on other people to raise u. However, u also allowed other people to manipulate u later on in life (whether that be cultural/patriarchal society rules). U should’ve gotten out of that toxic relationship earlier. Plus, after divorcing…u should’ve said hell no to allowing the kids taking on the financial burden to bury him. He said he’d rather give/use his money on whatever he felt like when he was alive, rather than his own kids.

[@meeyang9843]

Yog yus tus txiv xav phem22 li ntawv nws tsis hlub yus nws thiaj tsis xav kam nrog yus hlub yus niam yus txiv li no tsis txhob yuav ua yus tus txiv zoo dua os

[@wisteria4550]

Lawn aw…yog yus hlub tej laus xwb tsis txhaum kiag. Yog kuv hlub kuv txiv niam thiab txiv es nws txiav kuv txoj kev hlub kuv niam, kuv txiv ces kuv lawb nws kiag. Txawm nws tus kheej los nws yeej vam nws cov ntxhais vauv hlub nws thiab na. Ua cas phem ua luaj.

[@maithor8427]

Tus ntxhais aws nom tswv thiaj pab tau xwb mog.

[@chongxiong340]

This story makes me feel like I'm lucky I'm single. This is dangerous life.

[@louxiong5757]

Los tus no hais rau cov mloog naj 10 xuajmoo xwb peb twb mloog niam Ntsuab Teev txo 10 phav leej es cas nej tsis pab niam ntiv tes li kuv mloog yog haum kuv siab lawm kuv yuav tsum tsa ntiv tes ho tus hais thiaj li tuaj zog hais maj kuv yog tus 330 tsa ntiv tes nawb koj ne ?????

[@maikiaxiong9888]

Cas siab phem npaum li ko cas koj tseem yuav thiab os

[@gaoshengthao6104]

He's such a bad husband!

[@maimoua105]

Kuv Xav kom koj tus Txiv tuaj saib cov ua sau ntxawv no nawb hais ncaj nraim rau cov neej es nws yuav luag tej Ntxhais es tsis pub luag tus Ntxhais rov hlub luag li koj niag Txiv ko.koj rov ua nws Niam xwb

[@nkaujhmoob9056]

Xa rau kwv tij hos, tseem xa rau neej tsa thiab xwb hahahaha kuv paub tias koj hais yuam kev xwb os

[@douayang2163]

Zaj no txog thaum kawg nws tuag koj kiag li lau !! Poj niam ruam.

[@Nlorbliaya]

Sad!!!

[@jefferythao4243]

He don't love you. It's time to move on

[@heysoniher]

I was proud of you for divorcing him but then you went back? Hmong people need to stop involving relatives in their relationships. It’s only between you and your spouse. Once you divorce him never go back.

[@monkeybanana9269]

That's why within the Hmong community, most people mind their own business. Majority of the time, these women that claim abuse this and that always go back. Even if living in a country like this and they may have the full back up support of their family they still defy to go back.

[@nkaujhmoob86jual72]

Tus txiv dev koj tsis tsim nyog yuav ua txiv lawm. Maybe he desires his mom that way

[@maivpaxiongandjulie9721]

Sad story sister 😭😭😭😭

[@posyajchannel7950]

BBC. Ll

[@EmTsu24]

Why didn’t you go to the police when he first threaten you

[@maipha8560]

A man who truly loves you will also love your parents and your family. You gives some to his family and he gives some to your family. This dude sounds like super selfish and was truly after $$$$. I'm glad you left him eventually but I will never understand that a grown a$$ need to kneel down to the relatives to be back with someone who can and will kill you. That's why we are still continuing to see murder suicide in our community. Relatives who forces the couple back together should be held accountable in the future. Once you leave, let it be and move on.

[@maryly09]

Ua cas zaj no es May lam taus lam hais lawm xwb ne. She's all over the place.

[@minecraftboy2676]

Kudos to you sister for standing up to your husband on taking care of your parents. I wish I dis too when came to my mom(rip) against my husband.

[@baothao1728]

Cas koj twb muab koj niag Txiv dev xa mus rau kwv tij es koj ho tsis faib nyiaj kom ncaj nruab nrab thiab yus yog niam txiv tso nyiaj ua ke lawm ces yuav tau faib ho yog koj ntxov faib ces hauj lwm twb tiav lawm koj twb tsis tau raug yuav zaum ob maj tais aw!😢😢

[@denamoua7262]

Koj rxiv liam dhau.koj tus txiv los cas phem thiab suab phem ua luaj.nrauj pov tseg zoo dua

[@akulathao4654]

Why take care his parent's when he don't give a F about your?

[@judythoj6904]

Niag pojniam Hmoob ruam, ntiajteb txojkev ruam ces sau tagnrho rau pojniam Hmoob. Twb muaj tub ceevxwm, twb muaj nom muaj tswv ua cas tsis mus qhia lawv. Koj mas ruam tshaj tus ruam lawm. Tsis yog tim txojhmoo, tim txoj niag kev ruam xwb. Kuj muab cov niag kwvtij ntawd kaw los pob.

[@sombunman5551]

Hmoob mes kas tseem ruam thiab luag Tua khaws tusg Los?

[@hlubkojforever1901]

what about your sister?

[@paris3478]

Hmoob tej kev cai quav dev ntaw es koj tseem mloog thiab.ruam los ntse os.

[@kangchang266]

Koj ruam zog lawm os sister aw koj niag txiv dev ko nws xav mu nyob nkuaj lawm heev li los koj tseem tsis hlub koj tus kheej thiab thaum nws hais phem koj muab kau rau nom tswv xwb os

[@leelao6832]

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