You whould of listening to your Father. His words are golden.
@yiachang46222 жыл бұрын
I don’t understand why all the ladies with cheating spouse always referring to the past when “our life was good and we love each other so much”. Wake up to the present, the past is in the past, you can’t bring it back. Move on, he doesn’t love you anymore. I feel sad and heart broken for this wife. I hope you find the courage to move on and love yourself more than him.
@vangyang41182 жыл бұрын
It’s the good memories..
@yiachang46222 жыл бұрын
@@vangyang4118 zoo li es thiab li ua raug ib cov txiv Hmoob tsis muaj hnub nqes tsuj thiab tsim txom
@liawelee42702 жыл бұрын
First of all our parents teach us that when you think about divorce think about why u marry each other in the first places. That is why most lady think like that it was put into their minds like that, so don't blame them.
@Nkaujhmoolis2 жыл бұрын
When a guy just disappeared without any explanation for that many days that said a lot about how he feels about you. How disrespectful to you, your kids and family to put everyone in agony pain for not knowing what happened. I’m just can not believe you let him back in your life to torture you further. Cas koj thiaj txawj ruam dua ntais. Peb hmoob cov niam tsev Yuav tau hlub thiab pab yus tus kheej.
@KS-uq9bc2 жыл бұрын
Yeej muaj ib hom neeg siab dev siab tsiaj siab nyoos zoo li zaj neej neeg no
@KashYang2 жыл бұрын
NASSSSSSSSSSS!
@hlixyooj81792 жыл бұрын
I only listened to your story because I thought you gave May this story with an important lesson to learn. How very wrong I was. You need to love yourself and leave this toxic man. Stop with your regrets and do something about it!
@Duefant2 жыл бұрын
Ikr? she need to move on
@c.lee-soulisak3272 жыл бұрын
Same here! I thought the same and that's why I listened to it. Wasted..that was time I will never get back.
@paulyang33852 жыл бұрын
Most annoying story ever. Why is it that this woman is so desperate for her ex? Learn to love yourself.
@pasaiy.85782 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you.
@leejmuam12 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the comment. No need to listen 🤣. Some women just doesn't understand that when someone don't love you anymore, you move on, and value yourself.
@amyvang60742 жыл бұрын
Vim koj tsis hlub koj, nws thiaj tsis hlub koj
@truyng2 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't have let him back into my life.
@PpPp-gm1uw2 жыл бұрын
Cas tus niam .tsev no lub neej tu siab ib yam li kuv lub thiab os niam ntsuab teev
@NkaujSua-TxujVaj2 жыл бұрын
This lady is very crazy!
@pajthao48132 жыл бұрын
Yog tshaj plaws pog no vwm lawm
@junemoua76672 жыл бұрын
Sister, don't waste any more time on this jerk husband of yours, he's not worth it. Move on and find happiness somewhere else it's not necessarily that you need a man to be happy in life.
@genalor47952 жыл бұрын
The fool here is nobody else but you, lady. You definitely don't love yourself. Don't force him to love you anymore. I hope you will find the courage to leave this toxic guy and find happiness.
@ky30792 жыл бұрын
Wow this is heart breaking. So what is his side of the story? You shouldn't stay with him anymore. Love yourself, move on, leave him or tell him to leave.
@goldeneagle23942 жыл бұрын
mloog mas npau taws kawg. tabsis muab ua tib zoo xav, cas yuav ntxim hlub ua luaj thiab os tus me niam tais aw. thaum nrauj tsis tau tau ces yog tseem hlub os. luag muab yus tsim txaus ces hnub ntawd luag ciaj huab tais los yus tsis k lawm..
May you learn to love yourself. May you know that you are worthy. May you know that you are beautiful. You don't need this man.
@bounxiong57142 жыл бұрын
This is a high blood pressure story.!!! Sad!
@triaxiong98352 жыл бұрын
tso nws mus, tshob rau txim rau koj lub siab. when you love him, let him go and find his happiness. your will come to you when it your time. don't hold on to something that you know it not going anywhere. Free yourself and him. if you still love him, them find him a lover and left him, your that love you will come.
Txiv neeg tham rau tus Poj niam no lawm lo. Let him go and don’t allow him to come back!! Love yourself and Kick him to the curb!! Not only guy can be evil to us, it’s your right to do the same to him now!!
@NkaujSeeThojUaNyabKevDeb2 жыл бұрын
ib tug txiv mu ntsiag to tshe yuav tu siab heev
@whatever46222 жыл бұрын
Ruam tiag2
@semicharmedlife2 жыл бұрын
Gone girl.
@amazinggrace81362 жыл бұрын
You need better friends and family who actually love you enough to tell you to leave. What are you waiting for 🤷🏻♂️
@tinatang86492 жыл бұрын
Tus poj niam no mas tsis paub tu siab li , tos tus txiv yuav tsum tau dag loj li loj thiaj dim nws
@kaciewanh19862 жыл бұрын
Txhob nkim koj lub neej sijhawm dhau mus rau tus neeg siab dub nciab zais puag hauv qhov quav tsis tshwm saum ntsej muag. Hlub koj tus kheej, txhob cia nws tsim2 koj mob laug tag. Nco ntsoov tias koj niam/txiv tseem hlub & khuvxim koj heev. Neeg limhiam cia lwm tus mam los tsim nws kom siav tshuav tu los tsis tuag.
@xuethao31082 жыл бұрын
May xiam hlwb tag li lawm thiab os
@junemoua76672 жыл бұрын
Haha you noticed too, I was like hey isn't this the lady's story when she switches to the husband.
@baothao17282 жыл бұрын
Mloog tej zaj li no mas ua rau ntshav siab heev li os. Tus niam tsev txhob xav tias koj yuav muab nws khuam tseg no naj nws tsis tau mus xwb hnub twg nws yuav mus ces nws mus kiag lawm nawb. Koj cia li hlub koj tus kheej xwb txhob tos nws txoj kev hlub lawm nawb. Yog tseem txob22 es xav tau txiv neej lub xub ntiag ces mus tus tshiab xwb txhob nyob nrog niag txiv dev vwm ko lawm nws ua tsis tau ib siab los hlub koj lawm nawb faib kiag cia nws mus ua neeg nyob qab Choj xwb zoo dua nawb. Hlub koj tus kheej thiab lauj niam tais aw! Hnub no tsis yog thaum ub thaum i lawm os!!!
@shounathao86972 жыл бұрын
Wow… speechless to this story…
@abaoabao26952 жыл бұрын
ua ib tug poj niam ces poob peev li poob peev xwb os mog tus niam tais aw
@junelove38392 жыл бұрын
When she said, her husband went missing...i was like her husband left her. No men just disappear into thin air. She thinks her husband love her and trust him 100% what a slap in the face.
@yogkuv72182 жыл бұрын
Ua cas yuav nkim koj 10 lub yeem rau koj tus txiv ntxeev siab ntxeev po
@Nkaujhlivaaj2 жыл бұрын
I feel u have sister... I'm in ur situations right now. it's hard to leave bc u are living in the past and only think about the good times... it's also shocking and hard to accept when it's all so sudden... people say u are crazy and dumb but they not in ur shoe so they will never understand. I tried leaving my husband many time but I couldn't either bc I still love him... maybe bc I love him more then I love myself. when I left... I feel like dying, so I came back to save myself from dying... my husband use to love me alot too, but suddenly it became a toxic and mentally abuse relationship
@zoualee48072 жыл бұрын
So sorry. My heart aches for you and the sister of the story. You right. Noone understands if they are not in your shoes. So devastating. I would want so much answers. 😔😔
@magicalunicorn58532 жыл бұрын
Leave sister. Move onto the future. Find yourself and love yourself. He doesn’t love you.
@maihouavue64402 жыл бұрын
Smh stubborn Hmong woman. Such a sad and agony life story. Why not let him go and find your own happiness? So to take revenge for the pain and sorrow.. U rather torture each other and wasting all your life in pain and sorrow? May u be in peace.
@maikiaxiong98882 жыл бұрын
Cas txiv neej tag lawm los cas nas tus neeg siab phem npaum li ko nas
@rhiavang23332 жыл бұрын
😭😭 🥺😩
@วีรยุทธแซ่ย่าง-ฟ9ธ2 жыл бұрын
ชีวิตเหมือนกันเลย
@yx68892 жыл бұрын
Girl! Ghosts do not ride around in cars with other women!
@maryly092 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@nyiamnkawgsaiv97482 жыл бұрын
Once they eat out, they’ll continue to do so.
@mysskaychang95362 жыл бұрын
I 10000 agree to y all the comments. I once been there and done that b4. How did I move on. I honestly learned the hard way around. Life lessons for this lady who is sharing her story on the real. Yes sis lady move on forward and love your damn self regardless he doesn't love care for you any longer. It's fucking all lies bullshit same old thing enough is enough. Lady you ain't strong enough to put your damn feet down.
@MyConfessions2 жыл бұрын
Ua cas koj tseem niaj hnub nyob rau niag dev liam txwv tsim nad lod? Be a strong woman! You dont need a man who treats you like that!! Muab kiag lub tsev muag los hloov cov doorknob, sau nws tej khoom thiab khaubncaws rau nraum zoo es nrauj nws kiag los mas. Nws yeej tsis los lawm os...niag dev li ntawd nas.
@jorvang14202 жыл бұрын
Yog nws nyob los cia nws nyob nws ho nws ho tsis kam nyob los thaub ntiag nws mus os yus nyob yus kaj siab dua es muaj tus tshiab los yus mam tham tus tshiab rau nws ntsia thiab os me viv ncaj aw…
@pahouamoua80542 жыл бұрын
Tus niam tsev koj twb tsis txawj hlub koj tus kheej li as, koj pheej tos kom koj tus txiv hlub koj xwb ne, ces nws kuj tsim koj xwb.
@pajthao48132 жыл бұрын
Thov thiab lau cov me vivncaus txiv neej tsis hlub yus lawm thov tso lawv kev es yus nyob yus txhob phoov2 txhob thaiv2 lawv kev vim luag tsis hlub yus lawm ris siab thiab ma cas yuav tsis paub muaj siab ntsws xav li los cas yus yeej muaj nqi thiab na tseem muaj tus ntshaw2 yus tos nroov yus thiab ho txhob nkim sijhawm rau tus neeg uas luag dhuav yus lawm
@ax57172 жыл бұрын
What a waste of sacrificing!! Know your worth woman!
@tiachang77482 жыл бұрын
Oh gosh too much headache
@maivlis11202 жыл бұрын
Yog kuv tus txij nkawm es nyob2 cia li ploj qab ntais lawm ntsiag moo to ua rau yus nyuab2 siab es thaum kawg paub tias nws mus raws lwm tus xwb ces kuv twb muab lawb lawm os tus me niam tais los yog viv ncaus aw. Cas koj thiaj tseem txais nws rov qab los rau koj lub neej ua dab tsi os
@kaoxiong61482 жыл бұрын
Hlub ntxov hlub rov…I don’t understand that a woman will waste her time with a man like that…😩🤠???
@tsismuajhunbncaim2 жыл бұрын
Don’t blame the devil, just his evil heart. How could he treats you nice because you don’t even love or respect yourself. We as women need to love ourselves. He is not a king. I don’t understand you sister
@5tuglis5732 жыл бұрын
I kept waiting for your "WAKE UP" moment, but there's none. Tos nws tsis hlub koj lawm los vim yog koj twb tsis hlub koj tus kheej lawm nes.
@nalaher30222 жыл бұрын
yog koj tsis hlub koj tus kheej ces pab tsis tau koj
Hi lady love yourself first and take good care of yourself please.
@tshajlijhmoob98752 жыл бұрын
Niag poj Hmoob ruam
@happylifexiong65342 жыл бұрын
Lady don't be depressed and stupid you know he left without letting you know why are you ever wanted him back stop acting crazy and move on with your life ok.....
@neejkhuamsiabyang29442 жыл бұрын
Koj zoo paub tsis ntxiv thiab thiaj mus tsis Tau hos koj niag txiv los yeej zoo paub tsis ntxiv luaj twg thiab thiaj mus tsis Tau lawm thiab. Ces lam nyob tsuav 1 week no tseem mag 1.2 teg zoo dua los mas !
@puayang25062 жыл бұрын
Sister, I am in your same shoes but I let him go. Outside there are so many men looking for love and a new life. Go find yours instead of suffering.
@pasaiy.85782 жыл бұрын
The man you are holding on to is not worth it. What kind of man lets his family, his parents, his wife, and children think he's dead? A coward. He's irresponsible too, leaving his job without notice. You should be ashamed of having a husband like that. Once again, Hmong women, have some self-respect and leave worthlless men like this. Leave him today. You don't need any more evidence he doesn't love you. He's annoyed with you, even disgusted. He isn't worth your love. You are better off alone than with him. May you have strength and courage. He's betrayed you so immensely. Just leave him. Love yourself. I'm so annoyed with this story.
@sikamoua67602 жыл бұрын
Geezes. From experience. * love & respect yourself a little more. 🤦🏻♀️
@lnchannel11862 жыл бұрын
Wow Koj tus txiv ces yog tus siab phem tshaj plaws. Kuv Yog Koj ces kuv tsis nyob lawm. Laus los nyias mus nyias. Mus nrhiav Tus Hlub yus os not. Tseem muaj tus zoo tos2 ib tug pojniam siab zoo li koj. Txhob nkim koj lub sij hawm ntxiv rau ib tug neeg li ko lawm
@caaspasvang74272 жыл бұрын
Cas Tsi paub tu siab li es tseem nyob na…..😢😢
@cellanthao76822 жыл бұрын
Yog kg txiv siab phem kavtsij ncaws tawm xb ib pliag tseem ua 6 yus mob stroke thb hlub yus tus kheej zoo dua lawm os
@maivyaj63162 жыл бұрын
Ca koj txoj dab neej yuav zoo nkaud li kuv txoj kev thiab o
@hmongtoyota12 жыл бұрын
Koj hais tias tsis muaj txiv zoo lawm no tub qaug 3 cov neeg zoo no ua siab ncaj 6 peb tus me honey.
@siavang78702 жыл бұрын
Niam tais koj twb tsis hlub koj es nws thiaj saib koj tsis muaj nqis tus txiv kO ces nrauj kOM tag es lwm hnub thiaj tsis tau tu nws los mas txiv neej ces laus lawm nws niag qwv twb tsis ua hauj lwm lawm mus Tom ntej los yeej tsis tau zoo neej ua lawm tshuav txoj kev npam lawm xwb koj yuav tau hlub2 koj xwb nws yeej tsis hlub koj li nawv
@tengher61112 жыл бұрын
All I can say is he's never had the experience or experienced enough love with other women before he married his wife and when he found out how good it is, he's hooked. He sees what's out there and his desires is the only thing that's important. He's been whipped in bed by other women and he'll never stop wanting it. It's sad but it's true.
@amazinggrace81362 жыл бұрын
Naw, how about he stop his bad behavior. Like an addict, he needs help bc it’s harming everyone around him. That’s the amazing thing about being a human being; We don’t have to act on instinct bc we’re not animals and know what’s right from wrong.
@magicalunicorn58532 жыл бұрын
He never really loved her and therefore can betray her.
@lilipai71092 жыл бұрын
Hai tau zoo heev kv xav kom kj hai ib zaj rau kv o yom
@mouavang33712 жыл бұрын
Xav tias kuv thiaj muaj lub neej lwj siab xwb, ua cas mloog nej tej tseem lwj siab tshaj kuv li lawm thiab. Ua cas peb nyias niam muaj nyias ib txoj kev nyuaj siab tiag os ib tsoom phooj ywg.
@nolanxiong81702 жыл бұрын
Life is short lady, move on. You can’t make someone love you. You’re holding onto nothing.
@solomoua55202 жыл бұрын
Koj yog ib tus pojniam tsib muaj siab ntxwg.
@hmongremark26862 жыл бұрын
Tsis hais poj niam los txiv neej muaj cuab yig tas cia li lam tau lam khiav mus caum lwm tus li no yam tsis muaj leej twg twv raug, nws tus partner thiab nws thiaj paub txog tias vim li cas ib tug thiaj khiav ib tug. Yog nkawv yuav muab piav tawm rau sawv daws paub txog, nws kuj yog ib qho ntiav heev thiab tsis tsim nyog lwm tus paub tab sis tus twg los tsis yeem kho kom sib haum.
@naibvaaj21752 жыл бұрын
There is no moral to this story and this lady didn't learn anything!
@NkaujSee202 жыл бұрын
Tug vivncaug Tiam nua es ua caag cov txiv pheej muab peb cov pojnam tso pov tseg os lawv kuv tug tub tsiv kuv moog tau 7 lub hlis lawm os
@i.h.72682 жыл бұрын
I'm tired of these stories of weak women. This women is in love with the past. She needs to wake up and accept the truth. He doesn't love you anymore. Stop letting him come back and move on already
@fongkhang93602 жыл бұрын
Cov niag txiv zoo li Tus no mas yog tso Tau ces muab laim kiag pov tseg xwb os tab sis vim yog qhov vim lawm es thiaj li ua li koj hais ko mas viv ncaus aw zoo li no neej lwj siab heev CES nyias noj nyias sab nraud es koj mam li tuav nws lub npe xwb vim nws yuav yus thaum mos txog nub no lawm ces cia tos noj nws cov nyiaj poj ntsuam ua ntej yuav tso lub ntiaj teb tseg thiaj li tsim nyog tab sis yuav tau nrhiav kev kaj siab pab koj Tus kheej thiaj li tsis laus thiab tsis tuag ua ntej os
@pangthao90462 жыл бұрын
This is so sad. This lady is holding onto someone who no longer loves her. I hope she learns to love herself and move forward.
@pasaiy.85782 жыл бұрын
I KNOW. He's even annoyed and disgusted with her. She doesn't know it yet, but she's his trash and someone else's treasure.
@souavang91522 жыл бұрын
Move on sister. U better off by yourself. He no longer love you.
@leelee86082 жыл бұрын
Let him go lady. You’re holding onto something that’s not there anymore. Stop living in the past. Love is not there anymore…he even said he don’t love you anymore. Value yourself at a high cost and don’t put yourself to his low level.
@akulathao46542 жыл бұрын
Lady!!! If you love the abuse that much than stop the complaining!!!
@missysmart86202 жыл бұрын
Tus mes vivncaus awb cas koj tus txiv yuav mus siab phem tag npaum os. Just up and leave without no notice. Let him go because he no longer loves you. Love yourself and move on. You have your kids just stay with them. Of course, nws taus nceb tshiab lawm ces nws tsis kam yuav koj lawm os mog. Los lo tsis sov siab lawm nawb.
@bettylee17292 жыл бұрын
Drug addiction.... no way someone would lose that much weight in 1 month. He prob chose to cheat, but she showed him the world of drugs.
@korxiong7922 жыл бұрын
I believe that don't judge the words he or she said but judge how he or she acts. Cov neeg dag nyiam lus dag thiab tsis hais lus tseeb qhov neeg raug dag.
@SsSs-gv3bb2 жыл бұрын
Nyob zoo os tuas muam kuv xav xa ib qho neej neeg rau koj pab kuv muab piav es kuv yuav xa li cas rau koj thiaj txog koj os
@ellysavaj56562 жыл бұрын
Can people really be this cold and heartless? To leave and not say a word to your loved ones? To let them worry, wondering what happened to you? Karma is coming to this guy so bad.
@Pajdabtsi2 жыл бұрын
Yus mus tsis taus ces yus yog tus tshuav luag nqi yuav los mus tu luag rau thaum zaum laub es xa quav xa zis tsis tau lawm xwb laud me niam laus.
@dablaugntximntxub23182 жыл бұрын
tus ne niam tsev ruam hlwb rwj aw ib tug txiv zoo li no tsis hlub koj lawm tso nws mus os mog?! hlub koj tus kheej mog ua ntej luag yuav hlub koj… nrog koj tu siab vim koj ruam dhau lawm
@beeyang38743 ай бұрын
Tus me niam tsev kuv xa tias kuv ruam xwb ua cas koj ruam li kuv thiab os los
@thestoryofmylife69792 жыл бұрын
Self respect. Omg peb cov poj niam hmoob mas kuv yeej tsis paub hais li os. You hmoob women thinks that ya doing your kids a favor by forcing your marriage to work, thaum nej tshuav sib tua xwb es, that makes the kids more sad. Stop making excuses. People change ok. That was 30-40 yrs ago. Reality check ok. I’m just me. Strong and independent.
@susanlee73492 жыл бұрын
Sorry sis but what your willing to take on is because you are allowing him to treat you this way!! Stop living a toxic marriage and love yourself.
@ryuhang68242 жыл бұрын
Jesus christ the commercials are annoying every 5 minutes
@ShouaTojsiab2 жыл бұрын
Nyob khuam neb lub sij hawm lawm xwb os tus vivncaus aw. Kav tsij muab nrauj mus es Nrog koj tej me nyuam nyob twj ywm xwb os. Siv koj tej nyiaj mus ncig teb chaws, yuav noj yuav hnav kom zoo es enjoy koj tus kheej kom tsim nyog los ua neeg xwb thiaj tsis yug los xiam tiam os. Thaum luag tsis hlub koj lawm tseev koj muab luag khuam tseg luag yeej tsis hlub koj. Hlub koj tus kheej es ua ib siab txhob sib khi sib tsim vim sij hawm tsis tos lawm. Life is short, live happy.
@pajthao48132 жыл бұрын
Cia li mus yuav ib tug txiv tshiab xwb nws twb tsis nrauj yus nws yuav tau tus tshiab es yus mus thiab xwb os
@yd28192 жыл бұрын
Leave him! Nws tsis yog raug dab os….cheater is always a cheater! Leave now or you will regret more later in life.
@วันชัยสว่างยิ่งเจริญ2 жыл бұрын
Niam tais hnub no kuv lub neeg zoo li koj lub tab sis koj pe tsawg xyoo law os tab si kuv cas 27 xwb ไม่รู้ว่าจะทนได้นานเท่าไร
@bluebluelight59792 жыл бұрын
Why you keep making yourself available for him? He only comes backs because he had no where else to go
@bvang83702 жыл бұрын
The only way to make him love you again is to make yourself beautiful again, which is not impossible with today's makeup and technology. This is what all men want... hot, sexy women. I see him going to Laos to get himself a teen bride in the near future... like most Hmong men are doing these days.
@Eelgnayjules2 жыл бұрын
Idk why these Hmong women still lingers around a cheating husband?! You can’t make him love you when he has fall out of love with you. You need to move on and make yourself happy!
@SVangg2 жыл бұрын
Men ain’t $h!t! Don’t settle for less. This is indeed an upsetting story.
@houavue80382 жыл бұрын
This lady doesn't sound too smart. Lady, stop chasing your husband, he doesn't want you. Move on with your life.