Kuv Tsis Zoo Nkauj Vim Koj Tsis Zoo Li Luag Tus Txiv. 5/24/21

[@nkaujhouathao8285]

I don't understand woman like this...why stay with someone that sees no value in you? Yes...love yourself. Change yourself and then leave that trash behind.

[@maipha8560]

My thought exactly. Her story just goes to show how much of a loser she is. She's giving him more opportunities to oppress her. 😡😡

[@paajvaaj8659]

One reason, she stay with pain because she still love him with all her heart. One reason is because she love her children. She don't want her children to feel parentsless. One reason she stay with pain because she love her husband more than anything else...

[@brucehawj3306]

Ib co dev yeej tsi xyawm zoo. Zoo siab rau koj os. Yuav tsum ncoqa Hlub yus tus kheej.

[@baovang6691]

Once you start loving yourself. They'll love you. Always love yourself first.

[@bluewhisper5008]

Agree 100%!!! Learned it the hard way.

[@DsDs-sb1xb]

I9o

[@MissPeachie]

Sounds like this woman is probably in her late 40’s-50’s, so she never heard of self-love. Women in her generation were taught to put her man before herself.

[@maipha8560]

...and know your worth.

[@duabntxoovang2974]

Koj ua tau zoo heev li os niam tsev cov txiv neej yeej lim hiam li koj os tus niam tsev pab koj zoo siab os

[@ouradventuresnspecialmoments]

I'm sorry, if my hubby won't love me for who I am - physically, I wouldn't change myself for him! Not worth it!!! Change yourself for yourself...not for someone else to Love you!!! Love Yourself!!!

[@msyngseer5560]

I agree! Enhance yourself for yourself. Why would you do it for someone who treats you like garbage? Honestly, some of these people need to learn self respect and self worth.

[@nengyang209]

I agreed with you but why do some women change themself after a break up and not during the relationship?

[@tushlub1465]

Up o0

[@nkaujhmoobntximhlub9740]

Agree 100%

[@bluewhisper5008]

@@nengyang209 agree! They all say why change for the husband but then go and change after divorce. Lol. I don't understand either.

[@maykerlo7026]

It's just an excuse for him to cheat. Love yourself and look good for yourself. Don't ever change yourself for someone especially a cheater. Should have left him before you went to all that changes. He's not even worth any of your time.

[@pangher8903]

Agree with you. Beauty is from the inside out.

[@thaopaolee3848]

Kk

[@82Brightstar]

Koj hais Lus seev dhau lawm os Tsis zoo mloog li lawm

[@solomoua5520]

I heard a similar story like that one from Maiv🤔🤔🤔 I hate husband and wife that think their wife/husband are ugly after years of marriage and go cheat. If you love someone she remain the same as you first meet her or him. He is just a cheater nothing to do how you look now or before. I bet if you go find another man he will crying and begging u...

[@jynvue8179]

Same mine calls me ugly fat and ugly everyday. It use to get to me but now I love to learn to love myself

[@miahart8932]

If he is only with her for her looks, then what’s going to happen in 10 years? Even plastic surgery will not last forever.

[@maipha8560]

That's right! Such a dumb excuse. Not sure what she's trying to accomplish by telling this dumb story.

[@thewendylo89]

Self love is the most important thing in life. I understand being a mother isn't easy but always give yourself 1 hour to look good for yourself.

[@nkaujhouathao8285]

She tries so hard to sound like she stood her ground.....yet she went back to her trash husband. Smfh, No one can force you back......this is America. Can't respect you, if you can't respect yourself.

[@maipha8560]

She's such a bad example for all women, even worst example for her 8 children to learn.

[@maryly09]

This! ❤

[@youakong9716]

Nej cov niam txiv no mas cas yuav qias ua luaj su siab tshaj plaws

[@anythingeverythingchannel8641]

You should do it for herself, not for anyone

[@kaher9238]

I will not go fix myself to stay with a cheating husband. If I go fix myself, I’m leaving his ass 😂

[@foreveryouandme8733]

Right

[@maipha8560]

Amen!! 🙏🙏 My exact thought.

[@iavang2069]

Yes sis

[@ceceliathoj2200]

Tus txiv neej kom siab Phem dhau lawm os. Make your self better is nothing wrong with it.

[@hlubyang4072]

Thov tswv ntuj foom koob hmoov zoo rau koj kom noj qab nyob zoo txhob muaj zaum 2 es tu txiv yuav rov nrauj koj dua....cov neeg es nyob lub neej zoo li koj lub hnov ntau ntau lawm thaum zoo ces tu txiv rov hlub hlub tab sis yog thaum phem ces tu txiv xa mus rau cov chaw tu neeg lawm xwb...

[@kueyang1949]

Love yourself first.. and plus men don’t like good girl men love bad girls now days..

[@hoangthiphuonganh4061]

Niam hlaug koj haij neev neeg taug tug saib heev Li os kuv nuj koj haij ma tug tug saib heev Li koj lub Pb hu li cag

[@MV-ct6nj]

Not every marriage is successful under the knife!.

[@dgcj9549]

Zoo zoo

[@pkcyang2910]

Tus me niam laus aw koj tus txiv rov hlub koj vim koj mus txua koj tus kheej xwb tsis yog kev hlub li os. Muaj ib hnub twg koj laus zog muaj mob tuaj nws yeej yuav rov ua phem rau koj vim mws tsis yog hlub koj ho nws nyiam qhov koj mus txua tau koj lub cev zoo2 nkauj tuaj xwb. Tsis kav li os. Tus txiv hlub koj mas koj laus li cas zoo li cas los nws yeej tsis ntxeev siab rau koj thiaj yog tus neeg hlub koj os.

[@miahart8932]

Koj hais yog lawm. Kuv pab ntshai tsam lwm hnub nws laus ces tus txiv phem no yuav rov tsis hlub nws. Es yuav kho li cas ntxiv kom tau kev hlub.

[@pkcyang2910]

@@miahart8932 yog mas

[@kreanakristinachannel1438]

Very nice story

[@cheexiong1634]

Love urself lady

[@autumnlossij-muas1490]

Self-love and self-care is something that peb cov poj niam Hmoob 45+ tseem tsis tau paub los ua vim peb muaj lawv cov txiv dev no hlub dhau lawm. Yuav tau hloov tig los hlub yus tus kheej ib txhia thiab. Txhob muaj lawv hlub tas2 thiab.

[@mlee6150]

These women talk so tough but at the end they continue to let their cheating husbands rule and control them. And telling women to go fix themselves for their cheating husbands is the worst advice you can give someone.

[@hudsonyang8882]

Wrong, what else would you tell them? To ua siab ntev? To divorce?

[@emilyyang6956]

I totally agree with u. If u fix urself do it for urself and leave that cheating dog. He already showed u that when ur sick or if time gets tough he’s dashing for the door. Idk why some women do this to themselves. That’s why most men don’t have respect for us women

[@mlee6150]

@@hudsonyang8882 She already ua siab ntev by fixing herself.

[@MissPeachie]

Agree! But sadly, so many women have the mentality that they must do everything to keep their man. I know this woman is going to tell her daughters to do the same, which is sad.

[@maipha8560]

@@MissPeachie that's why she's a horrible example for her 8 children. 🤬🤬

[@hlubhlubkojncokojxwb7051]

zoo

[@youathao9087]

😦

[@hl6615]

I don’t understand why our hmoob poj niam yuav duam txog qhov kho yus tus kheej rau tus txiv dev kom nws nhro yus nyob. Duam ualuaj poj niam hmoob

[@minecraftboy2676]

If you love yourself you should not change your looks just to impress someone who does not love you anymore. The things you did, sister, are right. If he loves you no matter how you look like. You should just divorced him once he started to cheat on you instead of changing yourself.

[@maipha8560]

Yep, change for yourself and find your own happiness. Close that door and throw the key away.

[@callaflower233]

I have no respect for this lady. I will never go through any type of surgery just so that someone else wilk like me. Nor will I never let anyone treat me like this.

[@lisvaj7375]

This is why women need to be smarter about their money! Take care of themselves and spend money on themselves. I’ll be damn if I can’t spend my own hard earn money.

[@thedark-_-lord8285]

My question is ....how do u love a man again when he was a cheater for over 10 yrs? Thats 10 yrs of torture ! What if he does it again than what? I don’t forgive a cheater like that easily!

[@kaovang2628]

Sound like my husband

[@tubntsuagtsab105]

Yog kawg kuv los kuj yog li tus niam tsev no hais thiab tiag kuv los tsis zoo nkauj thiab mas tu siab kawg li os

[@j.a8739]

This woman is not strong enough but it’s hard to start over and who knows if the next guy will love her. She made to right choice in my opinion.

[@benylobenylo9269]

Hahhhh

[@minecraftboy2676]

We women should just do like the men does to us, divorce them once you know they are cheating. You think they would give us women a second chance. We have to stop being afraid of being by ourselves and with the kids. We are stronger than they are. We just have to love ourselves first. We can not let anyone decided for us.

[@maipha8560]

We need to stand our ground and mean business. That's the only way to stop this cheating business. Hmong men won't even look at you twice if you cheated.

[@palee2858]

Yes we woman always need to fix yourself... confidents!!

[@Hmongchanne9219]

Sister don't blend your kids. You need to take care yourself.

[@Itsmaihappyplace]

This woman she didn't learn anything 🤣😂 for now her hasband gets what he wanted but toward the end he's not going to take care of her either. Feel so sorry for this kind of woman that talk the talk and can't walk the walk.

[@Tingkwm69]

😀😀😀👍👍👍

[@pierresiong206]

Txaus luag dhau lawm os

[@colleenchan9872]

Nrog koj zoo siab uas koj niag txiv dev siab lim hiam ko rov yuav es neb sib hais lub sib nkag siab os!

[@MySunshine71]

Don't be soo proud and happy that you "fixed" yourself cause down the road you'll suffer the consequences of the surgeries. I heard not all plastic surgeries have a happy ending

[@akulathao4654]

Lady!! You should've told your brother to mind his business when you gonna divorce your husband! When your husband wanna divorce you, where is your brother? What do he do or say? nothing!!!

[@maryly09]

She still wants her husband. That's why she went back with him. Don't blame the brother. He's just that lithle push she needs.

[@minecraftboy2676]

This story kind of piss me off the way this lady has to change herself in order to get her husband's love and turn around to come back into their marriage that is NOT love and respect at all. No wonder men like her husband looking down cheating and disrespecting women. After all that she still take him back, and not only that but her f*cking brother forced her to go back. All I see is the men are always stand together, that is what we women have to, even after all the abuses. We women have to change that. A cheater will always will be!!!

[@hmoobliscalifornia714]

My..my...my, how have the tables turned. Why was the husband so quick to get back together. Ua cas tsis cia kuv use 1st ne...😆

[@vajpoobtsim9653]

Tus niam hluas aw, vim koj tsi hlub koj tus kheej xwb os. Yog koj hlub koj tus kheej ces koj tus txiv yeej hlub koj xwb os mog. Koj tseem hluas hluas thiab nyuam qhuav muaj 8 tus menyuas xwb os mog. Kav tsij tu koj tu kheev txhua lub sij hawm xwb ces koj tus txiv yeej yuav rov tig rov los hlub koj xwb os mog. Nrog koj zoo siab qhov koj tus txiv rov los hlub koj os mos. Tabsi tu siab qhov koj tus txiv twb mus ua lwj ua liam tau ntau ntau lub xyoo lawm es mam rov los hlub koj os. Yog kuv ces kuv tsi yuav kuv tus txiv rov qab lawm yog nws ua siab phem li koj tus rau koj os.

[@madamtokyo1]

Omg this story is annoying. If he wanted to divorce her and he saw her and decided to change his mind....forget it. She should have not take his txiv dev ass. Should have divorce him asap.

[@hollylee9769]

Ua tib tug poj niam nyob es cas tsis npaj yus tus kheej thiab es tsuas yog save zog sib ua qhib plab yug me tas zog xwb cov niag poj niam ruam tsis muaj hlwb kawg luaj....ua neeg nyob yuav tsum siv lub hlwb thiab os ntuj aw!!!!

[@kaciewanh1986]

Peb cov pojniam Hmoob uas 1 txwm nyoo txivneej ces thiaj raug tsimtxom lub siab & cev nqaij tawv tas lub neej. Tus pojniam twg heev hlo lawv ho nyob taus2 tsa tes thov thiab xwb.

[@TMoua79]

LOL....so funny.

[@nkaujhmoob86jual72]

There are some txiv neej hmoob too prideful

[@HavzoovLife]

This kind of story is really irritating me. She is happy that she has won the battle but what she didn’t realize is that she has lost the war. One day she will have to go through it again.

[@maivue8756]

Agreed! She changed herself for someone who is worthless. He didnt even care to take care of her and only care after she recover, that is not love.

[@maipha8560]

Yep and by then she's going to be kicking her own @$$ for not leaving that douchebag. Won't be surprised if he find other excuses to cheat and leave her again.

[@KingOfThePirates101]

It's only human nature to crave for conflicts.

[@suelo617]

Nej coj poj niam qhov txiv neej ntshaw yog ntu nruab nrab na cas nej ho tsis hlais nqaij puab kom loj thiab qhov txiv neej pheej xawb2 yog qhov ntawv na tsis yog txiv taub ntoos os

[@sombunman5551]

Gaib gua lig neb sawv ntxov lawd heev tiag Cia Kom mus maj !

[@beeyushon9788]

Always love n trust yourself more than anything. U will not be surprised 4 any circumstances in life.

[@beevang7967]

Leejtwg tau txiv qia dub ces yeej tsis zoo nkauj os cov me niam tsev aws. Leejtwg tau lub neej no mas tu siab tsis txawj tag. Ceeb laj ua neej txog hnub quas ntxa os hmoob.

[@thaevang5369]

Tus Niam tsev hmoob muaj 1 lo lus tias zeeg no yog yus zeeg lawm yeej meem tsuj koj niag txiv dev ko tsuj kom nplaig ntsw av kiag xwb los mas.

[@jkmmoua9321]

Cov pojniam ruam es yug mesnyuam coob coob tsis take care yus tus kheej mas ruam tiag li os. Nco hlub koj tus kheej thiaj, thaum hluas zoo li cas yuav tsum tau tu yus tus kheej txhua lub sijhawm rov rau yus.

[@MsBliaYang]

That’s what I always tell ppl.

[@kevinlee2791]

Nrog koj zoo siab tias koj rov zam txim rau koj tus txiv. Yog koj nrauj kiag koj tus txiv mus Yuav duas tus tshiab los xyov lub neej tseem yuav zoo li cas. Yog nws rov los hlub koj lawm ces kav tshij ua siab hlub nws zoo duas. Peb ua neej rau peb tej me nyuam tsis yog ua rau yus tus kheej os mog. Neb kav tsij rov sib sib hlub zoo dua os nawb.

[@Loves_GodSR]

You should do what makes YOU happy. Don't do it for a cheating husband.

[@niamntxoovtswbxyoojchannel2454]

Tus txiv neej zoo tsis tas kom cev yiag cuag thaum hluas nkauj nws thiaj hlub thiam nyiam koj yog li koj phais tas plab me nws rov hlub lwm hnub koj mob laug nws rog tsis hlub thiab tu koj lawm

[@godness7770]

Image may work for you but as for others, image is not enough.

[@wichaiwichai1339]

L

[@user-vz5bf2oe2y]

muab cov qub casette rau thaub noj mas lod

[@denamoua7262]

Nrauj pov tseg tsis sib hlub lawm yuav mus los tsis vam meej txhob ntshai ua poj nrauj

[@magicalunicorn5853]

When love is only surface, it is this story. A deep love that endures - isn’t immature as this, rather it’s calm looks beyond externals. It’s attracted by qualities and its devotion is real and abiding.

[@juliesiong1351]

Zoo siab rau koj nawb tiam ib tug txiv siab plem li ntawv ces kuv nrauj tus txiv siab plem lawm nawb

[@isabellentxawm6773]

I'm sorry to break your bubbles lady, but if your husband only wants you for your beauty what happens when you old and wrinkly? Txoj kev hlub uas koj tus txiv muab rau koj nyob ntiav ntiav xwb tsis yog nyob tob tob. Yog hnab twg koj laus thiab txoom tuaj ntshe nws yuav rov qab muab koj tso tseg dua mog. Yes, beauty comes with the package when it comes to loving someone, but that should not be on the top of the list. Love runs deeper than skin. For it to be true love, one should love you from the inside out. Man will use any excuse when they want to cheat so don't give in and change so they will love you because that's not love.

[@น้องณิชากะพี่ป๋อ]

:)

[@MissPeachie]

Ughhhhhhh...... this woman! I guess her only purpose in life is to love her cheating husband. That is beyond sad! She’s a bad role model for her daughters by showing them that keeping a man is more important than self-love.

[@NiamTxawjXav]

Tus sister, nrog koj zoo siab tias hnub no neb rov sib2 hlub lawm nawb. Yog li cov tsis ua plastic surgery thiab phem2 li kuv no es yuav ua li cas mas. Thov kom txhob taug koj txoj kev nawb vim tias yog nws hlub kuv rau qhov zoo nkauj xwb ces kuv tsis kam yuav nws thiab.

[@sombunman5551]

Phab ej me aw kuv Mas ghuas koj dhau lwm tus li os

[@hlubyang4072]

Koj niag txiv siab phem npaum li ko es tseem ua mis thiab yuav yog noj qab nyob zoo nawb yog nyob phem ces nws haj yam tsis tu koj ntag...ua lwm yam kom zoo nkauj tau tab sis qhov zoo txhob ua mis

[@beelee1928]

Tau txiv lajb kawg ntxhiab kev lajb xwb tsi k koj kev zoo os ...khov kj Tus kheeg xwb nawb ...qub need qub siab, tsi ntxeev lawv nawb ...npaj nawb yog lawv ntxeev ces ntxeev kiag nawb

[@Daebi_mama]

Yog koj hloov koj lub cev rau ib tug txiv dev Kom nws hlub koj ces koj ruam. Yus yuav tsum hlub yus tus kheej es txhob saib yus qiv tshaj tej txiv neej hmoob no. Koj ruam koj thiaj li ua li no es tseem ntuas lawm tus niam tsev Kom laws hloov laws tus kheej rau ib tug txiv dev thiab? Pog ruam.

[@phajej-khedub]

Yog yus Mus ua los es nws tsis take care yus es nws tseem khiav li ko ces kuv zoo los kuv tsis yuav nws thiab tsis pub nws tshwv yus lawm os

[@MaivvwjThoj]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@ninalee4483]

If a man loves you just for your beauty, he's the wrong guy for you.

[@muaaxit4267]

Cag eg Ob zaj dab neeg thoọ ib yam og 😂😂😂

[@hlubkojforever1901]

Tu poj niam no ruam tiag tiag li os. I hate these kind of stories. He cheated and she still did everything for him. What a loser.

[@jiaxiong8991]

I know right? Pathetic!

[@cneyxiong55]

Self love is the key words!

[@asdpoqwer3727]

Cov niag txiv dev ruam npab noj, txhob ua li tus txiv tsev no nawb. Poj niam yuav zoo nkauj ces yog yus xwb hos. Qhov twg tsis zoo ces coj mus kho xwb. Yus yog tus uas yuav nrhiav tus Dr. kom zoo tshaaj plaws thia safe rau yus poj niam. Lub cev kho tau, lub siab nrhiav tas diaj teb tsis muaj nawb. Qhov zoo tshaj ces txhob muaj menyuam ntau tshaj li ob tug. Menyuam tiam no, lawv tsis tus koj lawm nawb. Kav tsij npaj mus nyob tsev laus xwb.

[@denamoua7262]

Hlubkoj tus kheej txhob k nws cia poh laib los tsim nws.nws siab phem xwb

[@nlifexiong5497]

Mloog cov poj niam es pheej nug nuj neb mas meem txom tshaj

[@ginamoua9989]

Dont go telling people “now we are so in love” no you aint. If you didnt change ur looks he wouldnt even love you. He loves your look get it right women.

[@tweetiebird100]

What planet earth are you living in? Why have 8 kids? Wth??

[@maoxiong4242]

Niam Tais awd es puas muaj Kab caws mas

[@yuxianlee1185]

Ua cas Tsis lawb pob tseg lo phem li ntawv na. Nkag yog yu me nyiam .

[@thoojsiabkoomplawv590]

Tab si txhob xav txog qhov nw ua xwb xav txog ces khib thb mob siab heev g xv hai lus zoo li os niam lau yg kawg txiv neej nyiam cov pojnm zoo nkauj xb kawg kv ces rau kj txhai khaus kiag yuav tsum muaj ib hnub kv ua kom tau li kj 55555

[@yuxianlee1185]

😂 mloog lus ces Lawv hais tias ruam no heev heev Lawv thaij hais nce no Lawv thiaj hlub nawb

[@stevestevens6157]

Please do not change yourself for your cheating husband...do it for your self only....be happy for yourself....i disagree with this lady's story....nothing wrong with divorcing a cheating husband when we are in america....

[@tongxiong1161]

tus niam tsev tos koj tus txiv ho hais li rau koj los tsis yog coj koj tus kheej mus txua os koj yuav tsum tu kom koj tsw qab ntxiag kho plaub khov kho txhob ua2 lauj vaub hnav ris tsho kom cub xub ntxiag tha makeup kom ok xwb txhob tha over lawm thiab nyob li no ces txiv neej zoo siab xwb os qhov nws chim vim koj txua txhua yam ntawm koj lawm ne

[@masaelee8989]

Yus tsis zooluwm es nws niam zoo zoo nrau ntag

[@douayang2163]

Zaj no zoo tiag tuag vim neej tsis tawg hahaha tshaj plaws love you both.

[@maithao9644]

Men like these are trash. I know someone like this n he went marry a lady whose pretty in his eyes... Beauty is eye of the beholder. God created us all to be beautiful so love yourself and be confident.

[@ntxawvthoj5771]

Why are us Hmong women so gullible? He only comes back to you because you have a better body now. What happens when you are older and your body starts to loose up again? Sad how we are willing to be the doormat and allow the husband to walk all over us.

[@leefamily6061]

The jerk husband in this story deserves a good slap..someone slap him. What a jerk always finding a reason to cheat. You should have left him good luck to you