oversharing about my life like we're on facetime

[@adkari]

i love when people open up about their struggles. especially youtubers like you. to a casual watcher like me, it always seemed like you have your life together and are living happily, no problems. it's very refreshing to see that people struggle and that it's okay to struggle. i'm sure you'll find yourself in your own time and figure out stuff you need to. i love your content and i'm wishing you all the luck and sending love

[@hanoontheweb]

There's nothing wrong with wanting to be a mother. You speak of it with so much passion, honestly, go for it! You'll be a great mom!❤️

[@bookswmadi]

It's literally biological for women to want to be mothers. So it makes sense that she wants to be one. It's crazy how social media and today's society are trying to convince women otherwise

[@cocoa_cake]

@@bookswmadiliterally what? some women dont want to be moms, stop trying to push it onto people

[@bookswmadi]

@cocoa_cake it's our biological response. It makes more sense for women to want to be moms than to not want to be moms.

[@nymeriaable]

@@bookswmadi People often don't want things that "biologically make sense". Also people don't always act in a "biologically logical" way.

[@azraaltnsoy4466]

I started crying while watching this video. I have never commented on anything on youtube but i feel like this video is the most deserving video ever. My struggles are not even near to yours but knowing that most of the people doubt their selves and feel not happy time to time kind of fixed something inside me. Thank you for sharing your feelings this openly, i could never.

[@melaniie310]

i've been a silent subscriber for many years now but felt like i needed to step out of that for a second here. i cannot put into words how thankful i am that you decided to share all this! it can't be easy to be so open so publicly and i really admire you for that. we're the same age and i relate to a lot of topics you talked about, it felt like a hug to hear all this and be reminded that none of us are alone in our struggles. especially coming from someone who has always been inspiring to me, having this context makes me view you as even more inspiring now. i wish you all the best in figuring everything out, and i have no doubt that you will 🫶🏼

[@NurBhs]

girl you have no ideaaa how this vd made my day . i literally feel like we're BESTIES . Also anna you're doing amazing love you have no idea how much im proud of you and how much faith i have in youu . YOU ARE THE PERSON THAT MOTIVATE ME THE MOST ISTG . i wish i could let you see yourself through my eyes... im 100% confidente that youre going to fall in love with what You 're seeing

[@shrutkirtisaklani6397]

You could try having a podcast cuz would love to hear more of you talking 🤍 felt so genuine and pure, its funny cuz i remember seeing ur videos and feeling like wished i looked like that. Sending lots of love.

[@filonarafinja]

Social media detox is so real. I involuntarily didn’t have access to TikTok for two months last year and although I didn’t like that in the end, it was definitely something new

[@Liza_horbunova]

This is one of the most honest things I’ve watched in a while. Thank you for your vulnerability ❤

[@salwamh2942]

Watching this video and hearing you speak so negatively about yourself was really shocking to me. I've been watching you for years now (ever since high school and im almost done with uni now ), and I've always had such a girl crush on you! Your videos have been a huge source of inspiration for me. I'm also 23, so I relate to so many things you shared about body image, relationships, and more. I really appreciate your honesty , it’s a reminder that everyone, especially women, struggles with these things. Nonetheless, I truly hope you can overcome these challenges soon, and I’m looking forward to your videos in 2025! 💖

[@Totorooooooooo]

you should make this into a series 😭💗

[@filonarafinja]

I love listening to you

[@MalakBouarar]

Girl!! eating healthy is for having a strong healthy and happy body , so you don't get sick easily and live a longer life with your loved ones ❤

[@Just.Med.13]

Girl from the way you speak about it, you're the kind of person who should absolutely be a mum

[@ozgedalebroux]

You’re an amazing person, Anna! I can see that good things are coming for you! 🩷

[@ghostt4634]

you shouldn’t ever be ashamed of yourself, you are so inspiring and well in touch with your inner self and that’s enough without other people’s opinions. 💛💛

[@susiem.2068]

Hi Anna, thank you for opening up. I had noticed that you felt increasingly shy and became more secretive with your life and thoughts these last two years. I am glad you opened up because you're not the first to go through these experiences and you'll come out the other way. It's just part of growing up, and it will get better. Stay courageous and be kind and well-meaning to yourself. May the Lord bless you. :)❤❤❤

[@mmurniece7090]

The short friendship heartbreak is soo real.

[@hejniol]

loved this video, so real. i feel like a have some similar problems since ive been moving countries for the past few years all the time as well (to study) and it comes with all this - no place, no longterm relationships, hard to build a routine, it is a very strange life for sure

[@little_scuid]

We need more videos like this ❤‍🩹

[@VirginiaAnneLang]

I feel like you spoke directly to my heart with this video ❤️ thank you for sharing, you are someone I so admire and even though I am 26, I really connect and I am learning so much from you

[@katyakarat]

I’ve been traveling for the last 6 months and I relate to so many things you’re talking about. I would say with friendships you can at least connect online and keep in touch so even if you leave, you can still be in touch and I’ve made a lot of friends like this along the way. But when it comes to romantic relationships, I would say its definitely much harder to keep if you’re leaving and hard to find a serious person since most guys are in their exploration phase. But thank you so much for sharing your thoughts, sending loveeeee❤

[@MalakBouarar]

Don't ever talk or think like that , you're way more loved and admired than you think. You're such a beautiful, kind soul ❤

[@ArteTreml]

literally never write a comment, even though I've been watching your channel for about 3 years now. just wanted to say that I as 24yo myself can totaly relay to sooo many things you've said in this video about relationships, friends, moving countries. big thanks for being so open about your struggles💛💛

[@filonarafinja]

Seeing you struggle with the same things I’ve been struggling with for half a year (and seeing you say that it gets better) is so helpful because you are still a kind of idol to me (more like a big sister).

[@КаролинаСотникова-г4п]

Love seeing you updating a video 1 day agoo lesgoo

[@AnchalSoni-j6c]

8:40 spot on... That's literally how i feel

[@anastasiatom9147]

So relatable, girl. Ahh it's honestly so frustrating when you're everywhere and it's great, it's an amazing experience and I guess I wouldn't have wanted it any other way, but when that feeling of not belonging fully anywhere kicks in... Shit can get reaaal lonely. Might be a bit selfish of me but I'm just glad to know there's somebody out there on the other side of the world that has lived through similar situations as me. I guess it partly liberates of this heavy burden of being an outsider wherever you go. Anywayzzzz, wishing you best of luck on your journey!! You'll be a great mom.

[@kiraptrsn]

Thanks for being do vulnerable, sending you a big hug ❤

[@Gift-Quest]

So glad you're feeling better Anna, we'll always stick around and always love watching you

[@melisabese6982]

I loved this video please do more like this, i found it so relatiable when u talked about u feeling like no where is your home i have the same dilemma

[@eleonorabruno1943]

About finding a place to call home: It's like relationships, only a few cases are love at first sight, in most cases you need more time and effort. If Spain feels good to you maybe it can become your home in the future. Also, I believe that what makes a place feel like home varies for every person. For example, to me having local community and friends is the most important aspect, rather than the place itself. Maybe it's helpful to ask yourself what matters to you the most :)

[@ellyse26]

I genuinely feel like were besties in my head, everything you mention in this is so relatable on a deeper level and I feel like you are so good with the way you word the things you're going through. If you ever made a podcast I would watch it all the way! This video was actually just so nice to watch/listen to? idk if nice is the right word, but its just like refreshing and touching to know that I'm not the only one who's struggled through similar experiences. It feels nice to have someone who I can understand and relate to, and that might be a bit selfish of me. I have been watching your vids for a while now and you're one of my fav content creators, you've been someone I look up to and just a big inspiration. I never comment on videos but this one was just so touching and personal. I am so thankful that you have been vulnerable and opened up on here, I understand how hard that is especially on such a big platform, we all love and support you so much and I know you'll get through these challenges. Sending lots of love💕

[@veronicaisabelhap]

I relate to so so so many things you said... I feel like you're my big sister❤

[@warisha.i]

I can relate to you on so many things. yess social detox works wonder and stay strong anna thanks for opening up. All girls look up to you so much

[@Meriemsun]

Love uu💗💗💓

[@woannabe]

It's so crazy how deeply I connected with you and with all you said in this video. I looooved how you were vulnerable. It's so good to see people talking about their struggles and being able to connect with it, to be able to see that we are never alone. Let's be kind to ourselves and be brave in life!! I love your content and how you live your life. Be more gentle to yourself please [this is a message for us both :)]. Love you and keep doing what your doing! Love from Brasil

[@laynamiwa]

I love your content, love to watch you grow and evolve, nas specially, love you are sharing more about your struggles. It's a friendly reminder that you have a community that loves you and can count on us. So, I'm also 23, and my birthday was on January 11th and I'm also contemplating life and where I'm at now and where I want to be. As for you, I feel like you will feel at home when you meet your person, doesn't matter where you live. Until then, do the work and be gentle with yourself. Don't rush it, just meet people and have fun. The universe will bring your person when the time is right, and overcoming your struggles will make you a better mom when the time comes. Love, M.

[@aprilsrambles]

birthday buddies!

[@InvincibleMe-s6v]

I discovered your channel in 2020, and ever since, I’ve been obsessed with your content. What really connects me to you is how you openly talk about your struggles in different areas of life and how you’re constantly trying to improve with a solid structure. It’s been such an inspiration for me. We’re also the same age and were pursuing the same degree, which made everything even more relatable. I was having a really bad day today, and last night, I saved your video in "Watch Later" to watch it as soon as i get free time. Watching your video helped so much. It’s hard to explain, but your videos always excite me, and I look forward to them. I really wish we could be friends. It feels a little weird to feel this connected to someone I’ve never met in real life, but I wanted to say it’s 1:30 AM, and I’m typing this because I wanted you to know how much your content means to me. I love how much you inspire me to keep improving and stay motivated i feel weird expressing myself but i really wanted to tell you how much you mean ❤

[@lutauwu6280]

Keep the videos coming Anna 🥹✊🏻 , it’s refreshing to see your favourite content creator talk about things you yourself go through ❤️‍🩹 we’re in this together ✊🏻 + one of my favourite videos that you made (that I can’t find anymore on your channel) was the one where you talked about manifesting your dream partner !!

[@Lunaliiii]

hi anna. just wanted to say you're a gorgeous woman and such a big inspiration to me. I'm very happy you're doing social media and I hope you'll get better mentally

[@astro_irl]

I relate with the binge eating so much sometimes its just so hard to know when to stop especially when someone else does the cooking for you. Thanks for being relatable Anna been subbed since the Leaving cert days!

[@filonarafinja]

I relate to that 2024 talk so much. I destroyed my mental heath that I build up for the last 5 years and it’s only right now getting better.

[@Sonam_Gurmath]

Love it Anya. You are such a beautiful soul and be happy.

[@ameliaroselle]

im a long time silent subscriber who felt compelled to comment today. thank you for being so open and honest and sharing your struggles ❤️ i can assure you that you’re not alone (as evidenced by many of these comments). as someone a little bit older (28), i would like to say that you’re so young and you have SO MUCH TIME. I think when i was 23, I thought people saying something like this was super annoying lol, but as I’ve gotten older, it is one of the things I’ve realized is so true. Life is long. Many people don’t have kids until they are forty. Take time now to figure out what you like in a person and what your own values are. Also, there is so much growth that happens during your 20s. I feel like I didn’t become a real person until I turned 27 - then all my feelings and goals and purposes really crystallized for me in a new way. So use this next decade to allow yourself to grow and evolve. Be kind and patient with yourself and in five years, you will look back on this video amazed at how much you’ve grown and changed ❤️ as someone who felt just like at 23, I promise promise promise that it will work out. You got this!!!!!!!

[@ayushmourya2831]

Thanks for sharing with us 😉

[@joliebunny88]

this felt really raw and unfiltered, loved it! don't be too hard on yourself though, you're still so young! I'm a silent subscriber who is like 10 years older than you and still I feel like in some areas you're more mature than me. I totally get what you're saying about the feedback and validation issue though!

[@sksjaks]

this is just so real, but you're figuring yourself out so that takes time, you've been so inspiring to all of us anna! keep growing 💗💗

[@manale81]

Anna, this is my first time commenting on a youtuve video and i just want to tell you how much i needed to see a video like this. Just like you, i am 23 and i have that "all or nothing" mindset and it's been ruining me mentally since forever. I would always say to myself that if i reach this milestone then i can start living my life and i would isolate myself and ghost my friends so that i can work for my goals in order to regain respect for myself when i reach them. But for the past few years i started developing anxiety symptoms because i really didn't know how to manage everything in my life. Because i'm quite an ambitious person, i want to be in control of everything which brings me to that 0 or 1 pattern and ofc if it's not all perfect then it's 0 and i have to isolate myself to bring it once again to 1 which is very toxic. Recently i had an awakening episode (you can call it a quarter life crisis haha) where i realized that i'm only thinking about the future and im forgetting the most important thing: to live life as it is. And i realized again that most of the things that i used to work towards to didn't even matter and i just was tiring my brain because i believed that i can do it all (if i fail to do one thing then i'm failing) and realizing that made me take a step back and reevaluate all my life which i'm really glad to do. I'm still working on that area in my life; figuring out what's really important and this video just came in the right moment. I hope you see this comment and thank you for this video :)

[@iriscoelho6578]

Girl I would love to be your friend so baaaad, I love this type of yap session I swear 🫶🏼

[@mmurniece7090]

soo realatable, especially the dating part. Also sending love from Latvia:)

[@Ga_bry_e_lle]

Anna, I honestly don't even know where to start and what to say, so here's just some thoughts in random order...😅 This video felt so real and relatable. I'm sorry you went through all that.😓 I'm always amazed by the way you recognise your patterns and "mistakes". I love love love that you feel like your purpose is to be a mother, don't ever feel ashamed about that!❤ It's so beautiful that you want to grow a family! I'm sure you'll find the place to truly call "home". I think we all have some breakdowns more often or once in a while. I'm just trying to take everything day by day. Thank you for opening up to us. I wish you all the best and I hope you're going to find your way soon🫶🏼 Sending you love and peace, Anna❤

[@santiagomendez5255]

Muchas gracias por compartir Anna! Siempre me encanta escucharte y conocer más de ti. Por otro lado, me siento igual que vos en un montón de cosas. Soy de Uruguay y vivo en Londres y me siento igual, vine con mi pareja el año pasado pero descubrí que por distintas razones no es la persona con la que quiero formar una familia y he estado en crisis desde ahí. Cumplí 24 en enero y estoy en una crisis similar, no se donde quiero vivir (me tengo que mudar el año siguiente e ire a algun lugar de europa) y mi objetivo de vida es tener una familia pero no se ni donde empezar.

[@johnguzmandiaz]

It'd be cool to eventually see your Notion goals for 20XX with your Mom Goals included hahahaha

[@niloverra3437]

I think the feeling of home will start on the place where you will grew up your kids and settle down . Remember that feeling home is a feeling and the whole world is home for us you just need to get the feeling

[@mmurniece7090]

So excited to try the social media consumption detox, i didn’t know u can mute people, so thanks

[@knowingitintobeing6888]

my favourite ❤

[@kaths_rockxbye5601]

omg I feel u with food and body image. Im from Poland and I've been skinnier than my family my whole life. Now Im not that skinny and my family doesnt hesitate to remind me how *improved* I look... Eastern europe mindset about food is wild

[@centroid1998]

one time i was watching caroline winkler and she said that she will not be her full version of herself until she is a parent and i felt it so much. Comparison is the theif of joy! I am a natural homemaker myself and that is my same purpose to create, support and build for those around me i love, its hard to think about what youre doing now when you want to fast forward. Thanks for sharing! Ive been debating traveling vs building my farm business for the same reasons. do i work on my goals or do i work on meeting all kinds of people? Glad to know at the end of the day, the same problems plague us all. also with you about the apps, they all suck and at this point i cant even find it ethical. Everyones just projecting and rejecting. I felt like ive been going through a quarter life crisis. If life is the seasons, welcome to your summer. (thinking like that is helping me!) i hope the seeds we both have will make beautiful gardens for ourselves. to me, home is more so about the people than it is the place. My idea of home is where all my people are, meaning that idea can change. Personally i also always saw myself living half abroad, but ive realized i also need my roots where I know my family is. thank you for sharing and I hope maybe this can help you.

[@upamasyed]

Oh Anna, so many times I've seen you doing yoga and thought she has a really beautiful physique! Sometimes, i talk to my husband about you that this girl is doing so much at such a young age and so on. And btw, i really enjoyed this video. It can be a series. Take love 💕

[@shrutiyadav7658]

I relate to your embarassment about being vocal about your desire to be a mother.

[@judym5160]

Holaaa, es muy lindo que compartas tus pensamientos con nosotros, siempre veo tus videos cuando necesito motivación, y saber que deep down también enfrentas dificultades como yo significa mucho para mi 🫶 Yo también tengo como objetivo de vida ser mamá! Pero justo como tú, no he hecho nada para conseguir ese objetivo en mis 22 años de vida jajaj hay que ponernos las pilas, amiga 🫡 Also, idk if it's ok for me to write my comments on Spanish, it's my mother tongue 🇲🇽 and since Anna speaks it, I thought it will be fine, but I don't know that the comunity think :00

[@antno_2064]

Good morning ❤

[@yourfavoritepessimisticexi8041]

Have you considered factor, hello fresh, or any other meal delivery service that already has the food prepared? They're literally giving you your meals

[@kathrynbyoutube]

I feel like I have so much to say to that, but I'll just choose one topic to comment on! I watch a lot of Financial Audit, and it would not be helpful to have some of that shouting as an internal monologue! Don't forget that he also often says stuff about wanting better for people just because "they are a human being on this planet" and just because of that they are worth caring about. I fully agree with that, and it applies in all parts of life. Also, for less coarse and more informative financial conversations I like Ramit Sethi.

[@charlotte8659]

What are you running from?

[@vanilyamandalina3164]

İlysm❤❤❤

[@ElinevanderLaan]

A purpose so big wouldn't be placed in your heart if you weren't capable of making it real. X

[@NafishaAjmeri]

You are cute and expressive person actually I don't feel like you are good after all we are not perfect Remember to love yourself first

[@AuroraBorealDas203Noites]

Anna, 💐🫵🏻

[@attiafatima]

Dunshaughlin is best east or west

[@Chachacha6]

She is me I'm her

[@AlicjaChojecka]

Having 2 phones is safe. Keep 2 phones for safety.

[@charlotte8659]

Maybe for you home will be a person.

[@obayaahmed4048]

i don't often comment but i gotta say, even though don't relate to much of what you said i relate to a lot of the emotions you've expressed. i loved watching this and i think you should be really proud of this video cuz it was such a pleasure to watch. take care🤍

[@sfrancies87]

Anna most men your age will not be thinking of having kids. I am having the opposite issues in my 30's most men on dating profiles want kids or already have them and I don't want them. This is the stage of life you are at. Work on what you want/don't want in a relationship first. This can only be done by having a number of (failed) relationships and will help you get to know yourself. Then of course you will want to be financially stable and it seems you are working on that. Most 23 year old's would not make fantastic mother's because you don't have enough life experience.

[@TheOnlyTaps]

🙏🏿🫡

[@mrymmmmmmmm]

Oh hello beautiful

[@AirsoftDaddy]

I told you that you were having a quarter life crisis in the comments of a video about year ago. People in the comments just shitted on me and said I was wrong. Well well well...

[@byebyebae]

Maybe you belong to your family you'll have. Sometimes, places are just places for people like us who wants to build a family of their own.

[@luluha17]

Its really sad that nowadays wanting to be a mother and it being a goal in life is looked down on sometimes. You really don’t have to explain yourself. Unfortunately this is the consequence of TOXIC feminism.

[@niloverra3437]

I think There are a lot of women that are like you and that are looking for a man to settle down and have a family . And i think to do that you should be in the right place at the right time. So to do that probably you should just choose a country where you will probably continue your life in or at least a country that will meet your religion believes and the lifestyle you want and get connections there for a longer time . Think about it and don't forget that there are lot of countries on the world and a lot of men that will match with you 🩷🩷❤️

[@Hyacinth8293]

I don't know where I belong either and its makes me feel less alone to hear other people feel this way too 🥲