Annoying Things ESTPs Say and Do

[@Sidekick_Snowman]

IME as an INTP, ESTPs were definitely my biggest bullies. I've also had a few "savior" ESTPs who took me under their wing. Healthy ESTPs are really awesome!

[@Sidekick_Snowman]

And I've 100% experienced that passivity your mention @13:12

[@danielcherry4675]

ESTP bullying is beat-you-down-to build-you-up. Doing it for your own good the proverbial have a cup of concrete and harden up

[@tcggggg]

Ive been both sad to say. Elementary school I was definitely a bully. In high school I 180d and made it a point to include “quieter” types in my friend group. But I think its hard to tell where trauma impacts a personality compared to what the essence of someone really is

[@VipulSingh-00033]

Any type can be a bully or not ,, I don't know my type yet and maybe i was never even bullied but I had serious super serious frictions with ESFJs , ISFJs , INTPs and ENTPs as well ....ENTJs are portrayed as bullies and Villains but I always bonded with them with ease....INTPs are portrayed as Nerds and ESFJs as Social beings but I always had SERIOUS FRICTIONS with them

[@caadam87]

As an ESTP woman, I have to bite my tongue really hard around anyone who likes telling sexist/racist jokes, I find that humor so unattractive and unintelligent lol. But I love stupid humor, dry humor, and what I describe as kid humor. Like, one of my favorite kid jokes is, "Why don't dinosaurs have any friends? ...Because they're all dead." It's so innocent and obvious, but is also strangely dark - I love it so so much, I cackle every time I think of it. I have a work friend who, when I make stupid jokes, just says with a super dry tone, "You're so funny," and then walks away in silence. They're one of my favorite people and I think THEY are so funny~ I'm just a clown 🤡 No surprise there. Also was a total Kaitlin Bennett type when my mental health was in the crapper. We all have dark days...

[@ericstephenson145]

Mmmm, people have become very sensitive. Too fragile.

[@DeyonOttervenBur]

@@ericstephenson145 Even if they are not internally, it is like they are taught to be offended at certaing things. I've seen people literally acting offended and then actually getting offended because they acted so and persuaded themselves. I'm facepalming so hard at this.

[@monimoobag246]

That sweet, I’m ESTP female and don’t mind any joke, even if it is racist or sexist. In my head jokes are just jokes 🤷‍♀️

[@pigslave3]

hello, fellow man here. WE ARE TEASING YOU WOMEN!!! us men love you, we truly do.......

[@pigslave3]

@@monimoobag246 yep, you get it. love, love is the key.......

[@h0ph1p13]

Annoying things INTJs do: "Posting videos on how all types can be annoying" :D :D :D

[@AlexisKingsley]

😂

[@jjjjjmeksjaj]

😂😂

[@Whatever-xu3np]

the passive agressive part is more like Fi, what you describe is selective inattention. Which they avoid the unpleasant aspects of a problem or person

[@tnic3255]

I have a lot of estp in my life, my older brother to start and I always felt in his shadow. He didn’t do well in school like me, however, who gets attention for that in the world. Haha. He could become an expert at any sport he picked up and really shined, very quick to make friends, very socially engaged and if they decide to do something, they just do it! Yes, snobby about brands like esfp and if you want to know what is in now, like today, look to them. They can be very socially opportunistic and show offy, amp it up when insecure, yes. So “out there.” You rarely have to question what is in their heads. They are not subtle or mysterious. Many are sevens and eights on enneagram, so that adds something. Emma chamberlain is my favorite celebrity estp!

[@tnic3255]

Oh my gosh yes, live with a shoe in their mouth! My mom friend cracks me up what she will say to her kids, even. Soooo honest…they could be verbally abusive on the bad side but hilarious on the upside.

[@garrettijohnson]

Yes that's awesome! And Emma Chamberlain is hilarious

[@wanwan3864]

Me (estp) When i was younger maybe even now my sister (intj) hated me because im not doing anything special but i would get more attention and shes like valedictorian in school and stuff she definetly would get attention but for some reason shes jealous of me because she thinks our parents and everyone treat me better and she thinks shes not appreciated enough and im over appreciated it really sucks to hear that

[@barrydworak]

WRT to moral objections to jokes, ESTPs are pushing back at the very idea that one would have a "moral" objection to a joke, any joke, due to eggs very nature of humor. If you have to walk on eggshells, humor is totally dead.

[@shaneaverystarr]

Entertaining and insightful video. Your examples and stories helped solidify in my mind that this isn't my type. Thanks for the great work!

[@tnic3255]

Ok I cannot help but comment again, interesting that Estp is Garrett’s favorite type, I have a weird relationship to them, drawn to them but they drove me crazy too and as lead Ne, the commitment to the sensory is really hard for me. I had two mom friends at one time, estp and isfp, and while I did more with the estp, we were both very active, the isfp was my safe resting place friend. We could talk for hours when we got together, she was so emotionally honest, which I loved. But I could never tell how Much she wanted to work me into her FiNi life. So then we drifted bc I am not the best at proactively pursuing others either. The estp is and just stuck. I see on social media my isfp bff is an estp! She would talk about how this person drove her crazy, but the estp was very very sensorily engaged and would Pull the isfp out of her shell and get her Se going. My best reliably safe resting place friends are my longtime infp and infj friends. I’m either entp or enfp.

[@garrettijohnson]

That's cool!

[@LelaBria]

Hi. Bisexual mixed woman ESTP in Canada. Lol. This honestly feels like this is really off base and misunderstanding lol how we function. But I understand the conclusions made too. Also literally sounds like ur often describing specifically trump supporter (likely white male American obviously these people have a very particular set of values lol ) and like from Idaho. Sooo for me it’s like , hey guys, perhaps this is hugely altering the types of estp you meet lol and not reflective of estp in general … anywho. I like ur channel! Just offering some perspective that really potentially changes the conclusions you’re coming to about what manifests to annoy the general public about us 😂 to be clear we are and can be lol 😂 but this feels really off base to me honestly in some ways

[@Rubycella]

I'm Estp-A from Canada but been living in Thailand for the past 5.5 months :)

[@LelaBria]

@@Rubycella wooo lol *highfive

[@Rubycella]

@@LelaBria where are you from in Canada?

[@LelaBria]

@@Rubycella born in tdot proper. But lived all around the gta. If u are from same area or ish : then Currently in sauga. I think I wanna F off and move north tho. Nature and what not. Less traffic lol. Potentially affordable real estate idk. Maybe temporarily to see. Where r u from? My brother was living out west in maniSNOWba for a while lol but he’s “back “ meaning Ottawa he I think kinda hates the gta now. 😹 fun when young. Tiring and expensive but convenient in some ways when old. What’s ur story !

[@ruemontmartre1091]

I enjoyed the intro lmao -infp

[@MyWay173]

BEST INTRO EVERRRR

[@shelleymead5063]

Estp show up as Braham. Loud. Boastful. Unfaithfull. Suspicious. Self aware on the surface. Like wearing certain labels. Yet blind to the kind of person they are. Thats just the negative stuff that I see in them.

[@sidhnaagambedkar5419]

Healthy ESTPs with Good upbringing and Parents have remarkable empathy and they value Justice like anything ,, ESTPs are excellent community builders ....i have bloody saved people from Bullying in College and tried that in School as well ! Not only that ESTPs can be bullied as well ,, I was... a little (although i managed to get the Revenge after 2 years) ...and they are picked upon by Fe Doms ..ESFJs especially! Anytype can be anything God knows how we manifest ...Policemen are ESTPs and they are excellent community builders , Self Sacrifice themselves and Work like Heroes.

[@kokayin8718]

9:59 they’re not rocks, they’re minerals!!!!

[@D33JAYYY]

Actually true enough especially 15:12😭 .. hit the nail on the home ..

[@cingfx9751]

You clearly have a crush for someone who estb

[@onlyxandr]

I never felt so accurately attacked in my life - ESTP male

[@jesuisladym]

I'm not sure if ESTPs have no future plans. All of those I know have a very intense personal goal into the future. If they are healthy I believe to be the case. This is what gives them the motivation to do so much... It's usually towards a big goal in their lives 🤔

[@Defaulted123]

Having a goal like an ideal is not equal to have a 20 years plan that is like a step by step concept. It's more like following a bright star than following a path others forged in front of you. The path is in that case just an Instrument to follow a short period of time. But not all the time. Be adaptable or go under!

[@Rubycella]

I'm assuming we(estps) are on some sort of adhd meds for that one

[@jasssyyy8802]

I am an ESTP guy. I’m 25 years old. You guys are so correct. I mean very very. And I am also very undecided on the woman I wanna be with. Can you guys help me please.

[@whyhedodat3460]

I was going to comment: "I'd be offended if I weren't my type", but then you said it before I got here in time hehehe oh wait I still said it!

[@baaf777]

Good video. I’m a gen X ESTP. Feel free to ask me in case of questions.

[@Beyou0120]

What kind of girls or people estp guy likes? How do you perceive infp's?

[@ashtynnstoddard5576]

I’m an ESTP woman and I feel called out 😅 however I absolutely despise Trump. And I definitely have dark humor and almost never get offended. But I also have morals so any jokes made at the expense of a specific group of people are annoying.

[@hibaanabtawi470]

We enjoyed it yeah

[@typ1344]

Do INFPs please!

[@FlowState]

Hubris city 😂

[@sidhnaagambedkar5419]

Ohh My God this video is so hard to watch ,, so much negative potrayal of ESTPs ! Display of Power like seriously? Ohh yeah when someone breaks to your house you are supposed to make them Tea ?? ...or i am an esfp ??

[@malakashraf2801]

Do istp

[@tonyrose3294]

very good video! id like a sandwich now… 😂

[@hibaanabtawi470]

Hahahha 😂