answering tmi GIRL TALK questions you’re too scared to ask your mom

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[@dear._sky]

why is the idea of purple cake so appealing to me rn...

[@jasminele]

RIGHT!! I WAS LIKE... this cake MUST be purple

[@amyv9312]

it’s bee. It’s 7am and you made me hungryy🤭😭

[@cinnaslut9940]

try ube cake! its literally amazing and its purple

[@cinnamonroll96]

Purple cake reminds me of lazy town tbh 🙈🙈

[@anxiousrambling3558]

Ube cake 👌

[@NiaG34]

A Virgin has entered the chat

[@Uloveeverglow]

Lol

[@kenmasugarbaby1946]

same lmao

[@lissy3336]

I see we’re all kpop fans

[@robbin2046]

B like that

[@robbin2046]

@@lissy3336 callen us out 😔

[@bunniekicksb4lls]

When you don’t have to wear headphones because no one in your family speaks/understands English😗✌️

[@butteredbananas1394]

Omg 😂

[@shesjisooshesokay1948]

Literally me rn

[@clairewoodland8472]

That’s what they want you to think 🤭

[@mimimarinho5268]

Love that lol

[@ryuzakl]

I'm jealous

[@jasminetea7068]

jazzy is the wise older sister we all didn't know we needed until now

[@jasminele]

THATS SO NICE THANK U

[@evlynnnnnn]

She really is ♡

[@bioppys]

I should be old enough to know this, and I sound like an 8 year old rn, but what's flicking the bean?

[@breadpitt02]

YOW u post the same thing on every video like this HAHAHAHAHAHA

[@materialgirl1585]

@@bioppys im 17 and sometimes i wish i had a sister

[@leak.9822]

you look soooo frickin good with that lip stick

[@jasminele]

AWW thank u!!

[@Katy-sf5cb]

I love your profile picture. It’s my 2 favorite things in one

[@valeriatapia3970]

i love your profile pic, sott is a masterpiece

[@leak.9822]

i couldn't agree more with both of you

[@lijahabby7134]

ok wait she’s wearing ashley’s earrings!! i can’t, i love that support

[@jasminele]

PERIODD when that brand contacted me i was like... I NEED ASHLEYS EARRINGS theyre so gorgeous

[@lijahabby7134]

jazzy le yesss they are i’m so glad that you’re doing girl talk videos too bc she doesn’t do them that much and they’re very long awaited. they are obviously amazing when she does them but she also just started posting less too, so less girl talk videos for noww

[@abby8295]

jazzy le can u send me a link to the brand?? ive never heard of her

[@essieemahone]

@@abby8295 hi, it's "en route jewelry" if i that can help🤗

[@abby8295]

Essiee Mahone thank you sooo much

[@cocodgfm.]

*me closing my legs more and more after each question*

[@dairatrevino998]

Omg I thought I was the only one😭

[@lostar781]

LMAO SAME

[@kuuii123_]

Same

[@keikemo11]

ME RN LMAO

[@alyssa5936]

omg a stay hi ahaha

[@gailebondoc1360]

this will probably be burried in the comment section but i just wanted to say that i love these kinds of videos? for me personally it's not only because it's really cool to discuss taboo subjects like this, but it's also because i don't have a big sisterly figure to talk to about these things. i am the youngest in my family with two older brothers and i remember feeling really lonely at times when i had to learn a lot of this stuff on my own. videos of this type give me a bit of hope for younger girls, especially since i want to be that big sister type that i wanted when i was younger. sorry this was all over the place, but thank you for reading!! edit: oh jeez i did not expect this to get a lot of likes, this is the first time this has ever happened to me, wow. well, i'm glad y'all can relate! please stay safe during this time, and stay home!!!!! edit #2: lmao i forgot about this comment i made,,, i feel like i should tell yall that im actually transmasc now. all of this still applies of course, but just to note: im transmasc.

[@skullychubs3723]

Same, like my sister is a sexual so she doesnt have that desire so I cant really talk to her and I dont have any other sisters.

[@skiiservice]

same except i’m an only child 😔✊

[@sammyrl16]

Gaile Bondoc I feel the same way. I don’t have sisters. i’m also the youngest and have two older brothers.

[@_nkbzk_6010]

Girl, I feel exactly the same. I'm the younger sibling and I have two older brothers. And I feel kinda weird to talk to my mom about that stuff (I know, not the right thing to do, but I guess sometimes my parents feel like I'm still a kid or something, even though I'm 18 years old). Those videos are so helpful

[@squiddyhasnotoes]

i am the older sister sooooo same

[@marsisbad3134]

will never take comments for granted again

[@jasminele]

LITERALLYYYY

[@marsisbad3134]

jazzy le omg u responded 🥺🥺

[@CocoDay]

*jazzy is younger than me but i STILL be needing her as my wise older sis*

[@jasminele]

lmaoooooo

[@lostar781]

Mood

[@blueday4035]

How old is she?

[@kpopietrashtxt8859]

Blue Day shes 19

[@justpeache.5274]

Edit: LAST EDIT, THERE HAS BEEN RESEARCH DONE ON THE LINK BETWEEN BREAST CANCER AND HIDING PHONES IN YOUR BRA AND THEY FOUND NOTHING, SO IT SHOULD BE FINE :) Pro’s of a small chest: - Looks good in shirts with text on them - No sweaty under-boob - Easier to work out in gym without wearing sports bra - More variety of cute bras Pro’s of a big chest: - More to love - Depending on the size, you can hide objects in your cleavage - Looks good in v-necks - You float in water better (this happens to my mom all the time lol)

[@ivy8132]

honestly.. i’ve never thought of HIDING things so.. thank you

[@kazutoraaa4134]

My sister hids her phone money and cards

[@lovemesomemoss4260]

god i thought you meant completely nude when you said without sports bras christ

[@justpeache.5274]

love me some moss HAHA

[@zaniyanewsome8243]

Lol I would hide money in my bra if I can't find my wallet. Downside of it is having back problems. 😂😂😂

[@frownyfacekyo3396]

I’m so scared of losing my virginity because of the pain, like I’m known to have a pretty high tolerance for pain. But I feel like losing my v is gonna be like so much to handle like I don’t think I’ll be able to handle that.

[@pnu1915]

so am i. like i know that once it happens it will be fine after that, but i'm still really scared.

[@alicialay166]

Same! If you don't wanna wait and see until your first time, you can always try putting in a tampon, it has the same principle, so it'll work. You can tell it works when you feel a stretch down there and you either bleed or are in pain (it is not as painful as people make it seem, but it is amplified by the shock of something new!) Good luck!

[@sammy_winchesterxxspookyna8748]

It doesn’t always hurt, my first time was painless. If you’re worried about it you tense your muscles which makes it more difficult. You have to stay calm, make sure you’re fully aroused and finger yourself before. Hopefully whoever you have your first time with will make it an enjoyable experience for you.

[@eileenmarie1652]

It depends on how tight your vagina is, as weird as that sounds. Some people are looser than others. It’s simply the way that your body is made. It won’t always be that way, but after a few months/years of not having sex, it will hurt the same as the first time.

[@sammy_winchesterxxspookyna8748]

Eileen Marie It doesn’t permanently stretch.

[@jettwashed]

thank you for providing the information my catholic education didn't

[@jimena.the.swiftie]

AMEN SIS

[@MuhammadImran-ln4fz]

Hi😚😚❤❤

[@eatingcookieswithpeanutbutter]

relatable comment 🥺

[@sheena5006]

LMFAO MEEE

[@shayb.1059]

elizabeth ashley About what??? That sounds disgusting

[@isabellavuong]

i love the hand gestures she’s making during this video lol

[@jasminele]

Isabella Vuong LMAO I TALK WOTH MY HANDS

[@tyna3778]

lmao as soon as i read that she did the funniest thing

[@oliviab3453]

that you know of....

[@TheMadisonZone]

Jazzy trying not to get demonitized for a whole 11 minutes.

[@mungaifamily7980]

The remaining 2 seconds: *am I a joke to you?*

[@dizzycherry6475]

I really don't think she should get demonitized. Not all of us get TMI girl talks. Not all girl friend groups are comfy with these topics... So we need a big sis to give us some girl talk!

[@moonilagooni]

me, a child of very catholic parents watching this: 👁👄👁

[@user-qv6fg1zr6y]

idk, I’m Christian but my parents never really cared what I watched as a kid, they educated me of what was wrong and right which is a bit fRICKed up but

[@balsam4161]

i live in a very strict household and was never taught about periods. my mom sort of assumed i knew everything about it.so i just googled it.lmao

[@PyroGirl-kz2ik]

Ahhh but you have someone who made a contract with a demon as your pfp

[@lol42069.]

@@balsam4161 same!

[@cococoffee2305]

Yup

[@jaclynsalinas3041]

you totally give off mom friend vibes, i love it sm

[@jasminele]

hahahahah i love that for me

[@wonlvvr2405]

im so scared for when i loose my v card it just wont go in bc i cant even fit 2 fingers up there....

[@ohitzmara]

girl when i did, i had no idea how LMAO it just does its so scary

[@larabarbatowolf1335]

im not qualified to even comment, but if it worries you a bit too much, look into vaginismus (:

[@peachgirl8327]

It’ll fit, honestly role play is extremely important too though

[@peachgirl8327]

Also lube!! Buy water based lube

[@st-marlene]

Peach Girl i think you mean foreplay?

[@nicolew8777]

*jazzy talking about tampons, menstrual cups and all that period jazz* i think i'll just stay with pads. (honestly scared of tampons so like if y'all could drop some tips-*

[@juliahnarose3385]

Nicole W If you want to, just TRY them! Honestly, I don’t feel them at all when I’m using them and it shouldn’t hurt. I started using them on my like 4th period bc of how heavy it was and it didn’t hurt (11 year old me would be shocked)

[@priyanka3855]

Don't worry girl im also scared❤️

[@caitlin2143]

same i’m way too scared

[@audreyspidermonkey]

Tampons are actually wayyyy more comfortable than pads and if they're in correctly it feels like there's nothing even in there. No reason to be scared, just don't leave them in longer than 4-6 hours (I think?)😊

[@ilovemusicssooomuch283]

tampons cant get stuck in you--

[@squidwardtentacles4234]

diva cups are phenomenal, I highly recommend trying it. Once you get the hang of it, you can leave it in for up to 12 hours and it’s so freeing. It’s like you’re not even on your period the entire day bc you don’t have to worry about it. It’s also very eco friendly and saves you money bc one cup can last for 10yrs.

[@butteredbananas1394]

I didn't know squidward had a coochie

[@janah5617]

agree!

[@hdisvzuqlnfp2721]

Yes but it's plastic?

[@adaraa_ce]

@@hdisvzuqlnfp2721 actually, most menstrual cups are made of medical grade silicone, totally safe to stick up in your hoo haa!

[@Littlemilkdud]

I want to get one but Im so scared of spilling blood all over my hand💀

[@GabriellaWhitedH]

Also ur so aesthetically pleasing

[@ikramrafi6481]

Yes she is 😍

[@karinaheredia504]

OMG I LOVEEE UR CHANNEL!!! ❤️❤️

[@chicken3691]

This actually helped me a lot because I don’t have an older girl to ask these types of questions to

[@jasminele]

yay im so happy!!!

[@EvelynRose33]

About tampons: You do not need to wear tampons if they are uncomfortable to wear for you! I know that's usually what people use so it seems like the only option but I use pads. I was born with imperforate hymen so my hymen was sealed shut and I had to get it surgically opened. No tampons I use are comfortable no matter what size/brand/type. Do what makes you comfortable! Pads are totally acceptable to wear too. I don't know if anyone needed this but I wish I heard this when I first got my period.

[@karina_martinez420]

Oh I was always told you wear pads when you first start but its been a couple of years since I have and I still wear pads and I'm too afraid to even look at tampons let alone use one my mom doesn't care what I use but I was always told that

[@lilchimchim8400]

Thank you so much because I hate tampons and will never have the courage to thrust one inside lmfao.

[@TL-qz8ip]

My mom passed when I was 8 and I don’t have siblings. This really help :)) (P.S. I’m a trans guy but this is still great advice)

[@Amelia-wn4zh]

Us trans guys have to stick together

[@ilyadamiaw]

Bless you💕

[@cowboylikeana]

ayyy transmasc buds

[@puppy_gutz3600]

Ayeee transmasc squad

[@Rizzalert69]

aaaaa fellow transmascs 🥳🥳

[@marellatumambing7438]

to the people who want purple cake: get some ube cake !! it’s so good :D

[@jasminele]

OH YES WE LOVE HER

[@Totoro1612]

OMG YES I WAS GONNA SAY UBE CAKE TOO so gooooood

[@tiffany1414]

Is it bad that i only know about this because of Steven Universe?

[@anteye5199]

now I want to try it but I have celiac disease :'))

[@heartsmiu]

I was gonna say this 😂🇵🇭

[@joelyb7501]

she’s so pretty!!!!!! edit: omg she replied 🤭😁

[@jasminele]

aw thank u pretty girl :')

[@soapbubbl_4119]

Ahh Melanie Martinez stans are everywhere

[@quiquiquinn]

Gillian Murphy it’s truly beautiful righttt

[@obnoxiousviner6777]

Oh my lord all these comments about people’s first times hurting making me feel scared

[@covitross]

sammeee

[@ilyadamiaw]

Me too🥺

[@newkidontheblock8662]

Same ;-;

[@leslieromero9489]

It’s fine thoo!!! It isn’t as bad as it seems 😭 my first time I had to try 2 times, ofc it was uncomfortable but it’s normal!!

[@elysia4824]

ughh im way too scared about losing my v card. im severely insecure and the queefing would literally make me even more embarrassed even if it is something to laugh about lmao.

[@moonbathed]

bruh same😳 like I cant see putting myself in that situation😂😂

[@elysia4824]

@@chloebreagan5193 well i also want my first time to be sensual and passionate so i dont think i could do it in the shower lol

[@bambisday3395]

same i think i would die in that moment

[@silent_cipher9308]

For your first time do it with someone you trust and someone who you can laugh with! Sex is supposed to be fun and enjoyable! It's kind if awkward for the first time. (Like the first time with anything new) but after that you good!

[@happymistakes4439]

I'm doing math homework rn and it's rlly tearing my soul apart to be constantly getting questions wrong.

[@Natalia-qu7yy]

happy mistakes I relate so much. You’re not alone😂🌱

[@happymistakes4439]

Thank you Natalia😂💗

[@dollpartprincess]

same 🥺

[@mysha1833]

happy mistakes it’s ok sis, we’re all like that😂 you’ll probs improve dw

[@dreamingofthemoon]

Mee

[@no.1cl1ffjumpingqueen]

we all needed this rn 😌

[@jasminele]

hehhe i hope u enjoyyyy

[@oc-originalcomics2301]

Her teeth are brighter than my future

[@-moonwoo-8918]

God, that's sad.. but funny at the same time...

[@ohlookauniquegmailname8114]

I felt that

[@pitaa-breaddd]

i feel u on a ~~~spritual level~~~

[@ellamei3118]

i'm scared of shaving ya know, down there, because my armpit hairs grow back really fast and get super prickly when i don't shave often enough, and i end up with a lot of razor bumps on my legs so i feel like things could go wrong

[@milkbread5036]

The first time I shaved down there I DID get a lot of bumps and it hurt BUUUT your skin will get used to it the more you do it over time. :) Make sure you're not using a dull razor. Don't press too hard, you'll know the more you do it. Make sure to put moisturizer after you shave down there to prevent rash. If you do have a rash then use 100% aloe vera on your skin.

[@mji8431]

if it's your first time shaving down there just go slow and take your time but _don't_ press too hard. also make sure you use a separate razor from the one you use to shave the rest of your body. it might hurt just a bit because it does feel prickly but the discomfort goes away the more you do it

[@teriyaki_wings]

If you don’t like shaving, there’s other alternatives (such as Nair) just make sure the package says it’s for the bikini area before buying. You might have to do some research and try different things before you figure out what works best for you, but there’s a variety of ways to remove hair down there besides just shaving.

[@icantbelieveyouvedonethis1813]

You really don't need to shave your pubic hair, but if you Really want to, Shave with the grain (in the direction of the hair) Don't use shaving cream Don't press too hard Don't try and make it baby smooth Use a different razor than you use to shave the rest of your body

[@mynamo12]

ella mei You don’t have to. My hair is super coarse and thick, I get ingrown hairs and razor bumps, and it grows out super fast and then it’s just itchy for days. Plus I have a lot of folds and shit, I can’t even reach or properly shave most areas down there. Nair doesn’t even work, and I kept it on long enough to give myself a burn (and I used the one for coarse hair). Solution: trimming. I keep these small, sharp scissors in the bathroom and just trim so the hair doesn’t “hang down,” it’s short enough to be a thin layer but not too short so it’s not itchy, and I can reach all the parts. 😊

[@quiche_lorraine]

Jazzy: I almost cried Me: I cried. A LOT. Tears of joy tho :D Of course it hurt, but I was happy cuz my first time was with someone I love 🥰

[@jasminele]

awwwww yay!

[@anteye5199]

that's so cute... idk???

[@fariajesmin2593]

Aww i found that cute

[@ariiiquintero6794]

i had a mixture of tears of happiness and of pain 😭

[@danaepeters6019]

Same. I cried cause it felt great and hurt but it hurt while doing it with someone I loved and felt safe with.

[@anitakrzeminska3637]

I just love how chill you are while talking about sex related stuff. This gave me a ton of confidence

[@rebeccaastill3293]

"i know so many virgins" why does this sentence make me laugh

[@mady1450]

as the “older sister” of the family and also a shut-in, THANK YOU ! i have nobody to turn to for these kinds of talks and i always get super awkward the few times i tried talking about this kind of stuff. also this actually really helped me?? like i started watching this solely for shits and giggled but i needed this lmao

[@Creatorsan]

I'm also a shut in and I don't like communicating with anyone which makes me seem annoying. Although, should I even consider myself an older sibling since all of my siblings are the same age as me? (I'm not sharing my age) Well, I was the first one out of my mother so I guess it counts.

[@analisab.7467]

We go to the same school and I've actually seen you around but I'm way too shy to say hi!!! From one SDSU student to another, I love your videos 🥺

[@jasminele]

omg pls say hi i dont bite!

[@anyaterese]

wait whaa i live like right by sdsu that’s soo cool✨✨

[@oliviapierce3545]

omg im in highschool planning on going there :)

[@mae434]

Oh my god I enjoyed this video so much! It’s awesome to see people actually talking about sex, or more censored topics, because it helps us shy folks who are embarrassed to ask 😅

[@jasminele]

YAY! that was the whole goal of this video and im so happy it translated!

[@MuhammadImran-ln4fz]

I am alone 💞💞👄💋💏💏❤❤❤❤❤

[@lillipadss]

I’m lesbian lmao glad I don’t have to deal with the whole sex thing

[@janah5617]

i mean-

[@arooshatariq5573]

@@janah5617 lmaoo

[@chloeanne4473]

Still gotta be safe doe u can still get STDs as a fellow member of the lgbtqa+ community

[@lillipadss]

Chloe Anne ofc ✨

[@mochawae8610]

NSFW QUESTION: I mean I’m pan and also a bottom so do you have any tips on how to calm down because if I’m hooking up with a girl and she’s going to use like a strap on .. I’m just really insecure and scared

[@sonicsgirlfriend]

Feels like a bestdressed vid lmao

[@estherthebester]

i was getting those vibes too lol

[@Pedro-pf2xs]

Omg true tho

[@jaylent5121]

3:04 little note stay safe and have fun folks I was like wowwwwww

[@jasminele]

hehhehe i was hoping someone would read it

[@emmapace4516]

Bruh she's just that one friend everyone needs

[@lily5591]

Frr

[@lace9911]

Your first time is not supposed to hurt actually, it’s a very common misconception. It might feel uncomfortable but it shouldn’t actually hurt. Be sure that you wanna have sex, take time for foreplay and USE LUBE if you’re still dry or if it hurts!

[@jasminele]

every bodies are different but i agree w u! i was uneducated & didnt know what the fuck to expect so i just went with it. looking back i wish ppl told me to use lube and get in the mood LOL i was just mostly nervous!!

[@aquaticsteph]

yeah thanks for this comment! when i lost my virginity i was super comfortable and ready so i had no issues with penetration!

[@newkidontheblock8662]

@florielle Lol Yes! Having sex does lead you to pregnancy. But you can have sex without getting pregnant and just for pleasure. That's why people use things like condoms, birth control, and stuff like that to prevent having a baby.

[@purplestars3373]

More advice~ Every vagina is different, every penis is different. Sometimes it takes a bit of time to get used to the fit: if it's difficult or uncomfortable, different positions might be better/easier because of your anatomy! - Stinging after sex might occur because of microtears, which sounds scary but it's completely okay. They're just small cuts/rips in your vagina, such as the entrance, and usually happens when there is too much friction e.g. not enough wetness, use lube!! (this would explain why Jazz said it didn't sting as much peeing after when she used more lube). It usually heals by itself in a couple days if you leave it alone :) - Also, don't feel weird using lube! I used to feel like there was smth wrong if I needed to use it because 'why couldn't I get wet enough on my own' - needing to use lube is okay and normal!!!

[@jasminele]

THANK U 4 THIS!! very helpful!!!

[@lexasketches]

as the youngest in the family, i needed this kind of big sis talk 😳✊🏻♥️✨ ily jazzy! 🌸

[@jasminele]

yay im so happy it was helpful 2 uuuuu

[@Emmy-js1yl]

I guess it's safe to say, I'm gonna be a virgin for life☺️

[@covitross]

LMFAO SAME

[@kaydebathgate9321]

Same here!!!!🥺❤️

[@sweetestaphrodite]

literally same 😀

[@kadenceallen8437]

She is being so HONEST and I’m loving it

[@spiritedaw4y]

Jazz: how many times do you see a purple cake in your life Me: *cries in filipino ube cake*

[@hllokitty412]

you're so cute 😭 the way you talk is so endearing and everything you said is so helpful too

[@jasminele]

aww thank u samiah

[@rowansharp]

that lip color looks so great on you!!!

[@ebola9286]

Funny story about my first period, I was quite a good ballet dancer and had a role in a ballet, I woke up at like 3am and was like “shit my ass so sweaty” but I got up to pee and I was like “shit blood” so I took my mums tampon, put it in and went back to sleep lmao. It wasn’t very hard to put it up there because I was an “adventurous child”

[@fatman6161]

AHSHSHDH

[@T7d534]

💀💀💀

[@viSammy]

as a lesbian it was funny to watch through the straight questions lmao

[@taylorsversion2316]

same

[@thattwizzbluju]

hey, i have a really abusive family, and this really helps, alot of the time were not allowed to talk so being able to kinda talk about this with someone helps. thank you so much.

[@muffinte]

I hope you're situation gets better have a wonderful day and know that you are a great person :)

[@charlidamelios1fan865]

when she said b-cups werent small, thank you

[@mynamo12]

charli damelios #1 fan Right!! I’m so happy she said that, because all my friends with B cups have boobs waaaaaay bigger than mine. I WISH I had B’s.

[@ericazhhu]

ur scaring me with the sex thing and also the comments like why do I wanna put something inside of me if it’s gonna hurt 😭🤧

[@wizzyrd5409]

it really depends on the person. sex obviously feels good or people wouldnt do it, but it can hurt for some people.

[@ariiiquintero6794]

it only hurts the first time or few times, for me it was first few times and the only reason it does is because the guys , thing , is breaking and stretching your hymen, after a few times it will start to feel more pleasurable 💗

[@mee7055]

Guys a tip my Biology teacher gave us at sex education: Ladys if it hurts when you are about to have sex, go to a giynecologist. You might have thicker himen so it will be harder and more painfull to break it. So youll have to do a like a surgery for your himen to be cutted so it wont be hurting like that anymore. GO TO A GINECOLOGIST. Go with your friend, mom or somebldy you trust and ask first or search if its a man or woman. It would get more confortable if is a woman as a gynecologist then if it was a man. At least for me. YOUR HEALTH DOWN THERE MATTERS .

[@sugabongocat]

I'm not questioning the professionalism of a gynecologist but the hymen doesn't 'break' when you have sex for the first time, the hymen goes around your lady part, not covering it like a freshness seal. Here's a good video on it :) kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z5rOiZyjadyYrMU

[@mee7055]

@@sugabongocat it can not break if you have a more flexible hymen. But it does break; unless you have a thicker hymen. That can be a problem.

[@tinalove4324]

Wait but if that's true i dont want surgery!!

[@kawaiimingi9308]

can u drop some links for this for me? I wanna do some research for me to see I can have this happen

[@AtrociousFangirl]

Hyuna'sHoe I agree, however, in rare cases, hymen’s can cover the vagina. It’s called a imperforate hymen, or if it’s mainly covering your vaginal canal with a very small opening left, it’s called a microperforate hymen.

[@repeat101]

I love how Jazzy has been growing with us and changing a bit the theme of the channel to more mature stuff. I feel like she's that cool friend you can talk about everything with! 🦋

[@GabriellaWhitedH]

Can we hangout after corona

[@lissacongiu]

Gabriella Whited oh hi Gabri💗

[@icantbelieveyouvedonethis1813]

Edit: I have been looking at the replies of a lot of comments and oh god people really think you're supposed to break your hymen to have sex guys what the fuck do you think a hymen is? Hi! I'm making this comment since I've been seeing a lot of misconceptions. Here are a few things, but feel free to ask more questions in the replies. • Don't be ashamed when bringing up the possibility of sex toys. • Don't be ashamed to ask about what your partner likes and what you can do to make the experience better. • Herpes isn't that bad. It's essentially junk acne. • Tampons are not for everyone. It may be weird the first time and maybe the second time, but after the third time it shouldn't be weird. It should not be uncomfortable! If it is, try repositioning it. In my experience, they are much more convenient than pads but you may need to get the hang of them. While I'm on the topic of tampons, DO NOT SLEEP WITH THEM IN! Doing so can result in toxic shock syndrome. It's not common, but I wouldn't suggest risking it! • Men can be raped too. • Remember to check in every so often when having sex. When starting and then 5 -10 minutes later is best. • Being wet/hard does not mean they are aroused/ they consent/they want it and vice versa. You need VERBAL consent. • Don't feel pressured to engage in sexual activity with someone. If they are trying to get you to have sex with them instead of respecting you, cut ties with them! • The vagina DOES NOT stretch the more you have sex. A looser vagina does not mean she has had sex or that she is sexually active. It can also be the exact opposite where a tighter vagina doesn't mean she's a virgin. But the more you have sex, the more used to it you get. • Remember to use lube. Not always, but if you can't get wet enough, it can help. You don't need actual lube. You can also use saliva. • Most people are WRONG about how a hymen works. None are alike, but they all work the same way. The hymen is a thin stretchy bit AROUND the vagina. If it covered the vagina entirely, where would the period blood go? It's not a freshness seal, it's a balloon arch. Sometimes it tears during sex if you're not careful, but it can also tear from other activities such as gymnastics. Some people have hymens that cover their entire vagina, but it's incredibly rare and you need surgery to get the extra bits off. The hymen heals, and it is not a built in virginity detector. • It shouldn't hurt when you lose your virginity. It can if you aren't wet enough or if you aren't careful, but it shouldn't hurt more than a paper cut. It might be uncomfortable, but as you do it for longer/more often it becomes more pleasurable. • It is NORMAL to cry during your first time/first few times. It's okay to let it out, just make sure you tell your partner to keep going (only if you want to keep going, duh). If your partner is the one crying, stop and ask if she/they want to continue.

[@cerisemin]

I'm loving these virtual girl talks because I'm currently at a point in my life where I don't have anyone to actually talk with, this is very comforting. Thank you 💕

[@alliyahakari3122]

I WAS NOT READY FOR THE NEW INTRO AAAAHH

[@jasminele]

BHHASDAHJ

[@emfernandez5159]

can you do college tips and tricks? im a junior and i want to be prepared lol

[@jasminele]

i plan to in august!

[@allybautista8578]

“Itty bittie titty committee “ -Jazzy 2020

[@jennielvr3079]

i loved watching this so much especially in quarantine, it's like we're having a sleepover and doing girl talk while eating food and stuff

[@cl0.2_]

i am now scared of intercourse because my pain tolerance is low

[@lily5591]

Yeah ❤️

[@Emmasplaylist100]

Omg where has this KZbin channel been all my life? Bruh you are literally so chill and so funny and so natural and sound really smart and understanding and positive and I love that! The comment section is also so mature which like never happens... I'm so glad this video was suggested!

[@dannasdigitaldiary]

I’m the oldest out of 3, I never knew I needed an older sister

[@pitaa-breaddd]

same lmaoo

[@marli5806]

sameee!

[@sa2985]

i literally adore your girl talks so muchhh

[@Noli.Nyeleti]

I love how honest and open you are, we really appreaciate this

[@jasminele]

heheh thats the goal! im so grateful that u liked this

[@ma-br7iq]

ok this is embarrassing as hell, but a question i’m way to embarrassed to ask anyone is how to french kiss? like what do you do with your tongue?? i know you move it around but that’s not specific at all and i really don’t want to be a bad kisser someone please help LMFAO

[@rosiependlebury1685]

one thing someone told me was trying like sticking your tongue in and out like your saying the word olive. it’s hard to explain but if you try it with someone else who doesn’t know u can both try it out together

[@kayleebarlau9594]

basically kiss them and let your tongue explore their mouth, make sure it’s comfortable for both of you

[@BreyerCrazy1413]

As someone who has experienced a very bad French kisser and a very good French kisser, it shouldn’t be aggressive because that can make things sloppy (unless that is something you’re into) If your partner has experience with this they’ll likely guide you and things usually tend to click! It’s a lot easier than it seems. It’s not always going to be perfect either and it’s good to prepare that there will be an awkward kiss or motion every once in awhile but that’s just normal and human. And lastly my final tip is to seal a French kiss with a normal kiss after a couple long, drawn out seconds to avoid just awkwardly tonguing at each other for a period of time. Hope this helped!

[@zzzzophie]

When you first do it it’s kinda confusing but just try and go with their rhythm I guess and like don’t shove your tongue down their throat or anything like that it’s usually just slightly putting your tongue in their mouth? It’s hard to explain but it’s really easy so don’t worry about it

[@danielledebotton5197]

When I first kissed someone I had absolutely no clue what I was doing. But, after literally five seconds you both pick up on each other motions and there’s a sort of Rhythm that you both get into. You kiss differently with different people but try not to use too much saliva (just know that after u kiss a little saliva like on ur mouth is normal lol) and be confident. I normally get so nervous before I kiss someone but then after im like “oh that wasn’t bad at all and was really fun”. Also, there’s a huge difference between kissing someone that you don’t like and are just kissing to kiss vs kissing someone u genuinely like.

[@anjoytwice]

Am I the only one who's a bit more scared 💀 like gee why'd I have to be a girl but also being a girl is fun

[@kayuuii]

I love this video and this comment section! the positive vibes and just the amount of chill is just really nice. as a teenager I feel like it's really hard to bring up these topics especially when you're shy. I definitely think that more people should be educated things like this. this video explained more than any class in school I've personally had lmao. idk theres something that makes me feel happy about everyone supporting each other in the comments aswell. sorry for the random comment but I'm just grateful!

[@eilidhjohnson5694]

For folks in the UK, you can get birth control through your GP, you can go on your own from the age of 12 (I think?) and they have to keep everything confidential :)

[@tinymegazell6060]

weirdly enough, when i told my friends (girls btw) that i used a tampon, they were all disgusted for some reason and it kinda annoyed me.

[@sage73738]

Omg same here

[@quiquiquinn]

Wow what jerks. My friend tells me about that and I don’t use them and I’m very uneducated about it but who’s gonna judge something normal

[@T7d534]

Bruhh

[@simplymekayla-]

I still don’t know where that hole is 😟 i think I’m stupid, one day...one day I will work up enough courage to use a tampon

[@thatonegirl5440]

same I don't even know what it is supposed to look like :c. I am not sure where it is lol

[@M35749]

I’m scared it might get stuck in there 😔

[@dreamingofthemoon]

Same I just can't find it :(

[@maebholeary2734]

Where is she?????

[@ellieyoung8389]

Bruh same,,,, and I'm about to be 18 next week😰💀

[@valeriapacheco2666]

On the birth control thing, you can use Nurx for super cheap to get a prescription if you have health insurance, and even if you don't can still be relatively inexpensive. They can ship your pills/shot/whatever you use to you directly in discreet packaging. If you're already in uni make an appt. on campus with your school clinic! Most schools are super sex positive and want you to be safe (:

[@hslotfan]

omg this was so helpful to me, i don’t know much about sex i’m innocent lol

[@oxin1099]

dude thanks for including the "all genders can watch this", I know it dont seem like a lot but I'm a trans dude and I appreciate it, I was honestly getting a little dysphoric because,,,, body but it made me feel better :)

[@80s_graffiti]

Stay strong we love you you're valid and you can do anything

[@osmodickyourmom3910]

This just got me to the real world lmao low key scared for my first time

[@slxw_bxnny]

i really love your video and i just want to appreciate that you talked so openly because most ppl feel uncomfortable and awkward to talk about these topics YOUR VIDEOS ARE REAL FUN TO WATCH AND I WHOLEHEARTEDLY ENJOY THEM💕💕💕

[@nakyasolomon850]

literally one of my top 5 youtubers 🥺 you dont deserve all that hate and i hope all that comes your way is love! you do you girl and stay safe during these times. luv you! 💗

[@jasminele]

aw thank u nakya :) im pulling thru ily

[@maria6451]

Does she even get hate? Like this is one of the most positive comment section I've seen in a while

[@najmatiibaa5080]

Nakya Solomon why is she getting hate?? She’s so cute and nice😫

[@sn4kebytez]

@@maria6451 she got some hate abt 2 videos ago where people were saying she was copying bestdressed's editing (she wasn't she just took inspiration)

[@beccabronaugh8423]

did i just binge all of your videos in one night? yes. do i regret it? absolutely not

[@cakiekin]

about tampons, i asked my mom about using tampons but she was like "noo,, im scared about you getting sick because of the acidic things in tampons" so like,,, pads gang where you at..?

[@covitross]

my friend can't wear tampons because her mom thinks tampons break your hymen like honey if it breaks your hymen you went WAY to far up-

[@morganbennett7782]

Hey Jazzy Just Wanted To Say I Love You And I Feel Honored Everytime You Post A Video ❤️

[@aliciaabdullah]

i thought you said horny oml 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ i think you meant honored lol

[@morganbennett7782]

@@aliciaabdullah OOF

[@reneehess6191]

i just wanna say, not everyone is gonna be in pain their first time. It didn't hurt for me. And you're also not 100% for sure gonna bleed a lot, i did it in my boyfriend's car, and we were fine.

[@athenebrown9963]

You literally just cured my anxiousness tysm

[@shapher4858]

This was one girl talk video that i saw and wasn't bored of the long talks but comfortable

[@PugThug09]

I entered college with such insecurity about my lack of experience but I realized that at least half of the other people had no idea what they were doin hmmm either! Everyone has their own pace, so do what you feel like doing and be safe:)

[@girly8916]

description of the video: wear earphones guys, don't want anyone hearing this 😅 me, whose earphones stopped working a week ago and can't go out to buy another pair cause quarantine: 😐

[@tinalove4324]

Lmao

[@kirisampadian5485]

love how open you can be on this channel

[@jasminele]

hehe thank u kiri!

[@siddhaniparwal9048]

jazzy's literally the best sis u could ever had! i love her sm!!

[@aliciamarie166]

this is like sad but like I had my period 3 times and then I lost it cause I was underweight but now I’m all better and it’s not back and I’m like I doNt fEel liKe a rEal woMan anYmoRee

[@ingridduggan1006]

Alicia Marie Hope you’re doing ok, and of course you’re still a real woman ❤️❤️

[@emmatheswampwitch6526]

Sis your LUCKY (the not having a period part). You don't need your period to be a woman! I understand how it feels like your different and shi and that's totally valid

[@covitross]

@@emmatheswampwitch6526 it can actually be harmful to not have your period for a certain time. if a girl doesn't get her period back after 3 months of not having it, she needs to go to the doctor or theres a chance she can become infertile. the same thing happened to me but i got mine back this month

[@KitKat-xq7fu]

Hey girl, the same happened to me when I struggled with an Ed. I didn't have it for 2 years but now it's back and regular again. Just telling you to tell you it's possible to get it back :)

[@mandieie]

this was actually really helpful, love u jazzy!

[@jasminele]

Amanda YAY IM SO HAPPYYYY

[@bikes26]

you should really make more of these videos, you just make these topic so comfortable to talk about (btw you are always so cute 🥺💫)

[@evafogliatti]

i can’t EXPRESS how much i fucking love that you’re talking so comfortably to us about these subjects✨❤️✨

[@maccychee3858]

Me, a trans boy who is going to (eventually) change my cat to a hot dog: ah intresting

[@yourguyisa3853]

Omfg mood lmfao

[@BlackRose-hm7im]

You can do that?? I didn't know that was a thing- Inform me plz (if your comfortable enough to tell me)

[@icantbelieveyouvedonethis1813]

@@BlackRose-hm7im just search how to get a sex change on KZbin and something should come up. There's a video by epic how to, but I'm not sure what the actual video is called

[@icantbelieveyouvedonethis1813]

@@BlackRose-hm7im nevermind here's the link, it talks about getting a sex change so it might be useful to you kzbin.info/www/bejne/nXuoYouGh7Croas

[@BlackRose-hm7im]

@@icantbelieveyouvedonethis1813 Tysm!

[@spittersarequitters420]

i just love watching jazzy when i got at least 7 assignments due 😌💅🏽 if that’s not self care idk what is luv

[@jean4235]

i absolutely luv ur sit down n talking videos 🥺

[@jasminele]

AW YAY

[@h0undiie]

ive never had an older influence in my life, im the oldest sibling and i have a really bad relationship with my parents :’) thank you so much for this

[@annastephens8189]

These videos are so important for people and young girls particularly that aren't in an environment or friend-situation etc where these conversations are discouraged or don't happen etc! Much love

[@kayleestanley4693]

I've always been pressured to do "it" with my boyfriend and we actually broke up 2 to 3 times bc I wasn't ready :) but yk it is what it is

[@princeloser9487]

I sure hope you mean "ex-boyfriend"... Don't be with someone that doesn't respect your boundaries :"(

[@karensabortionclinic7491]

it isn't what it is. Do you sis and don't let some horny ass guy make you do something you don't wanna do. Remember it's YOUR body. Not his or anyone else's

[@TigequenChan]

@@MuhammadImran-ln4fz stop commenting creepy things, weirdo

[@aquaticsteph]

i’m sorry you’ve felt pressured, just know it’s not okay. your consent is important - if you don’t want to, he needs to understand no is no.

[@kayleestanley4693]

@@karensabortionclinic7491 thank you sm ;(