Why You Care So Much

[@denisemay757]

"If you wouldn't let a stranger into your house in fear of invading your privacy, why would you let them into your head; the most private place of all?" damn.

[@Pazaluz]

“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.” -Bernard M. Baruch

[@Novastar.SaberCombat]

There is only one major concern people should worry about. When you're about to cross beyond the void veil... Reflect carefully. "Before I start, I must see my end. Destination known, my mind's journey now begins. Upon my chariot, heart and soul's fate revealed. In time, all points converge, hope's strength resteeled. But to earn final peace at the universe's endless refrain, we must see all in nothingness... before we start again." --Diamond Dragons (Armageddon's Ballad) 🐲✨🐲✨🐲✨

[@honor9lite1337]

​What's that? @@Novastar.SaberCombat

[@Espeon766]

Wtf people always told me Dr. Seuss said this jesus

[@TheDramacist]

Nah, that was Homer Simpson - pilot episode

[@DanielEngsvang]

When people turn around looking at something you do but you don't mind at all because you naturally Always have a good intent with everything you do and you Know it nothing can really "touch you" the same way as before with regards to "Insults", "rude people", "Arrogant people" and so on as you actually understands them Much much better than they understand You(or others for that matter) as it "clearly seems" you can rest assured that nothing is wrong with you, you are simply just an "Original" of sorts that Outgrew your mental "Auto-pilot", naturally and stubbornly insisting on thinking for YOURSELF instead of blindly following others(the rest of the blind people) as you simply can't even wrap your HEAD around what they are actually doing many times. So every time one steps out in the world and interact with people one can be sure to set a "good example" for others(Not motivated by Narcissism of course), so next time someone stares at you for some reason just remind yourself that you are once again setting a Good example and these are invaluable and can not be helped. That was all for today i think. Wish you the best of all things always and forever, or until you get bored of it of course. 😘🥰😗🤭🤫😇

[@anyama2914]

Life is rough, it’s lonely out there when you don’t think the same as the people around you. But there is always someone out there to connect with, it just takes effort and time.

[@vg__7349]

Fortunate to find this channel where there is no drama, rubbish talks.....only deep talks , philosophy and out of box thinking and content ❤..

[@Novastar.SaberCombat]

Exactly. The only thing that matters is the one humanity seems to be the least concerned about. It's embarrassing, too. So... when you're about to cross beyond the void veil... Reflect carefully. "Before I start, I must see my end. Destination known, my mind's journey now begins. Upon my chariot, heart and soul's fate revealed. In time, all points converge, hope's strength resteeled. But to earn final peace at the universe's endless refrain, we must see all in nothingness... before we start again." --Diamond Dragons (Armageddon's Ballad) 🐲✨🐲✨🐲✨

[@solarcabin]

Groucho Marx said it best" I would never belong to a club that would have me as a member." The idea that you have to fit in or be ostracized starts at childhood and within families. Until you are 18 in America you are expected to follow the standards of your parents, community and laws. It is why so many teens rebel and I was one of them. As an adult you can shrug off those social pressures if you want but you have to be strong enough to not care what other people think. It took me until my 30s to finally not care.

[@beerex7483]

Bravo, young man! It took WAY too long for this old man to get where you are. I applaud your courage. Godspeed!

[@IndestructibleMandelbrot]

Hey there old man ^^ Do you have any advice for a not-so-young man, who wants to walk that path as well? I always struggle to actually take something actionable out of these vids... I guess "just do it"? Would appreciate you sharing your wisdom! No pressure tho ofc.

[@gameaddictgonewild777]

My mind is the strongest when i am alone. But i am always searching for verification for my believes in society from people who dont know

[@juliansmith5591]

This video hit way harder than it had to. Bravo 🎉 sir pure craftsmanship

[@Ltulrich]

Quite possibly, the best video I've ever watched on KZbin.

[@thesirmrdylandylan6221]

this makes me want to never look at social media again other than to talk to people and youtube that i specifically search, this video was terrifying and terrifically done at the same time, amazing watch.

[@kenhiett5266]

This video is so spot on to my way of thinking that it's almost as if another me created it. I'm not always in agreement with your take on things, but this one hit dead center in the bullseye about subject matter I think about frequently.

[@Leto85]

03:50 I think that literarily aging was the cure that made me care less of what others would think of me. I remember that when I was younger I confused the whole concept with stopping what others would think of you would be selfish because it would mean stop caring about them. I was wrong there. And that makes a difference.

[@susansmiles2630]

I love your uniquely calm, pragmatic voice and simple way of presenting profoundly deep insights on this insanely irrational thing called Life., while sharing personal vulnerability. I so appreciate your thoughtful work that reminds us all that we all share the same vulnerabilities. Thank you so very much for the beauty you bring to the world.

[@Candy-v8u]

As my first subscription I thought I would say something. I find your content interesting and I am thankful you decided to make content. I enjoy listening to you. Keep up the good work 😊

[@seyoch]

I'm from the pre-mobile generation and sometimes have no idea where my phone is for half a day without thinking about it. Thank god I learned to be able to live without a mobile phone or social media.

[@MosesIssachar]

15:06 I have never heard anyone else mention this, and these thoughts came into my mind a few months back, possibly over a year ago, for the first time in my life. It's refreshing to hear.

[@sophiaisabelle027]

This channel never disappoints. New philosophical concepts help in broadening our own minds and perceptions.

[@Coco-yv4pc]

"dive head first into the void and when you emerge on the other side you'll find nothing, but that future will be clear and bright a guiding light into a better yet fleeting life" - 1:16:14 this really hit hard for me, and instead of having my life just "be" it made me realize you should use your life as a guide, something that in the face of darkness will light the way for you, but it can only be as bright as you let it be.

[@dion_derelle]

I really appreciate these videos you drop here it’s really what I’m more interested in. I hope you can make audiobooks so that my phone doesn’t keep dying everyday due to listening to you till I sleep, I hope I’m not the only one that needs this. This type of information you drop here is what I’d love to spend money just to get. Thanks again.

[@SnappyWasHere]

I think holding down part of yourself due to group pressure may be a good thing to prevent trauma in your own life but I don’t think I would want to stray as far if I felt I had the support of a group. We feel the pressure of a group but not of the safety and comfort of a group.

[@savuttaja4208]

Um what a sigma

[@Findmy_Way-Home]

I’ve been feeling exactly like this. This pressure (on top of life in general) to be whatever the group wants you to be but they’re hands off at the same time. There’s no real support just identity. You identify with the group and that’s it. Even if you look out for them, it won’t be reciprocated. I’m done being apart of “communities” especially here in the US. It’s a bunch of cults (politics, religion, cultures, corporate, etc) and predators preying on any and every “weakness”.

[@noahlapuz3853]

The protagonist slash creator took the figurative words out of my meta-mouth! 💜🙏💎

[@honey_wink]

Thank you for explaining this so well, I could never put into words what I dealt with for a while. I just felt empty and alone, I felt unreal and scared of the world. It sucked, I’m doing better everyday tho since I been putting in the work ⭐️

[@Doctortobbee]

“ The idea is to delay gratification for as long as possible and be comfortable with being uncomfortable “

[@zephyr-chan4410]

Watched this video while precariously peeling off my acrylics in the middle of the night, pretty fulfilling and refreshing to find a video that explains thought about life the same way i do; ironically the point of this video

[@jamesrgoes]

This video is exactly why I continue to watch KZbin and support and promote it where I can...like Public Television I grew up with and from which I learned so much...so is YT.😊

[@Leto85]

14:39 'The only thing that is certain are thoughts.' This begs for me the question: Do I think I think or am I actually thinking?

[@KeyoHaze]

I like to believe I'm a deep thinker. I also enjoy having my own reality, thoughts and beliefs challenged. It's the only way we grow as a species and as individuals. As such, I much appreciate your videos. Each video challenges me to think in a different way, and about things in different ways. Thank you very much

[@LMV123]

The view to like ratio is crazy.

[@Jorda5s]

Goated

[@tsarkiel8471]

Most people’s brains are too fried to get past the first minute 😔

[@rdyxp]

@@tsarkiel8471me rn

[@linkshadow2]

And the comments :(

[@EmilyW.isawakenotwoke]

Don't be afraid of dying. I had an nde 11 years ago during child birth and met God. My take aways to give cliff notes: love is the only way.. God is pure love and light, and he knows every single one of us personally, and you know him too.. you have just forgotten. He loves you with something that love doesn't even come close to describing. There's nothing to compare it to on earth. . Forgiveness is so important, you must find it in your heart . Be kind. To everyone, all the time.. even the tiniest act of kindness can change a person's life. And he told me that we are all one. We are part of him and he is part of us.. you are me, and I am you. Love is catching.. give your love to everyone, always, and we will change the world. 🕊️😇❤️🙏

[@ktbaby5237]

happy we're all here ❤❤❤

[@paulaouton6448]

KZbin keeps pushing trash content videos on my feed. I’ve been following you for a while, yet I had forgotten about your channel, I’m thankful you reappeared on my feed. I needed this. You. Your content. Your mind. Do you have any other channels (blogs, articles, etc.) where you publish?

[@MemesForMiles]

A very deep, philosophical video truly a work of art.

[@jonathanmartinez2904]

Thank you for existing

[@MartinsTalbergs]

Today you found me as an echo, precise work sir.

[@DazzledCat]

Haven‘t watched your videos for a long time. Decided to watch this one and it did something to my heart & mind. Thank you very much.

[@gameaddictgonewild777]

People have so much interest in things that dont matter, so they have so little over for things that do...

[@turtleanton6539]

Indeed🎉

[@desireelevesque634]

I deal with severe depression, anxiety, poor self esteem and imposter syndrome (childhood trauma). I'm leaving a job I've been in for 12 years where I know the expectations and am confident I can achieve them, but I transferred to a new location 9 states away last year and I strongly dislike my (lazy, incompetent) coworkers. I have been invited by some new friends to apply at their workplace and try something new, but I fear that I am not capable of doing that job and I'm going to be a disappointment and a failure and have to find another job. I also fear that I'm not "cool enough" for my new friend group and they'll ostracize me once they get to know me better. It's exhausting to have to try so hard, not only to succeed in general, but to successfully drown out the voices of doubt and insecurity in my head.

We are kindred spirits in terms of our outlook (well i like to think so anyway 😅). You're an inspiration to everyone keep on keeping on!

[@l.y.r.i.x]

I love your content so much. Could you do more content on DEATH and MEMENTO MORI plssss

[@RapidGuy-pq2re]

Watching your videos keeps me conscious

[@BearScowe]

Great video!! I do want us to keep in mind, as far as being ostracized at the workplace..it is not always about poor performance..it’s much more nuanced than that..and it is not always a positive thing or called for.

[@alexbunney9085]

When you said solopsim OCD that was the first time I've heard of that and so many confusing sad things clicked in my life you just gave me so much insight to myself holy damn

[@Survivalguy]

Man we would have been great buddies had we met in our youth. I felt the same way. I didn't know why then, but I was light years away from kids my age. I love your content. Ignore the haters, they are just jealous. It too me 430 years to realize why I was not liked by alpha males. They were intimidated by me little I knew at the time. People don't like feeling stupid. I recently wondered if I might be on the spectrum a little. I never cared what people thought of me. I knew I was fine.

[@shalxnda]

My favorite channel

[@itsokifyourenotok]

"yes, nothing matters, but isn't that a good thing?" like dam

[@nkha23]

In total love with this brain-stimulating channel. I want to see the man behind that voice. I don't know why, but I'm terribly curious

[@paulaouton6448]

Me too, I need to see the face behind these thoughts.

[@Paladoriom]

It's not the eyes that are blind, but the hearts. -Quran 22:46

[@xD-xp6yz]

great video very educational

[@Elatzy]

I recommend reading the book "The subtle art of not giving a f*ck": Very good book.

[@Rex-13]

I found your channel because of the 731 video that’s insane

[@Rossfaded]

So grateful I stumbled upon your channel, thanks for sharing this greatness with us all

[@marcussassan]

thanks for this

[@Italiaasicily]

Thanks buddy great content!👍

[@nathanaelstucky]

In my experience, the only time I felt solipsism, was when I got mind numbingly high for the first time.

[@Clicklord]

Need this on Spotify

[@youruler11]

I am not who I think I am, I am not who you think I am, I am who I think that you think that I am.

[@iBridgee]

Learning to let go of things beyond our control is the key to inner peace.

[@randopaudi2666]

2.3MILLION SUBS.... I'M HERE FOR A REASON... 0:52 NOT EVEN A MINUTE HERE AND I KNOW this is not a Coincidence ❤❤❤ Thanku New Subscriber ❤❤❤❤

[@paulaouton6448]

“Just be, for a minute or two, without any source of mental stimulation” should be easy, although sounds scary.

[@jacobmalof]

Are you responsible or know who is responsible for “Athene’s Theory of Everything”? That video changed my life. If you see him/her/them, please send my thanks for that film. This channel strikes the same chord and scratches that same itch. This channel/perspective is a real gem, thank you!

[@lsouthern890]

i love this. first video i’ve seen of yours. however i am super high and the flashing visuals weren’t very nice. would appreciate if you could tune that down a bit

[@benyaplon1156]

I love your content so much ❤️

[@ericcarabetta1161]

The secret to being happy is, never make goals for yourself. That way, when/if you fail, you won’t be disappointed and feel like your life is meaningless.

[@Novastar.SaberCombat]

As an award-winning author who has also achieved 12+ medals in competitive saber fencing, and earned several awards for 30+ years of live productions... I don't have a bloody thing to prove to anyone. Especially not to "the internet", lol. 😂 I was working on productions before Netscape even existed, suckahz! I also briefly worked at Netscape, believe it or not (when I was pretty young).

[@arellacamryn5209]

Saitama be like, "Why is my face in your vid?"

[@Colorcrayons]

So what happens if you ARENT re-invited to the group after ostracism? (see: 5:50) Becoming a pariah is just that, and it is often quite unjust, rather than benefiting those who are victimized (real or imagined). Simply because this act also grants social currency to those who initiate it the ostracism. Making the motive to ostracize questionable at the best of times. Thus, it is a tool to rule by fear. The fear of ostracism. Ruling by fear has never had beneficial effects.

[@korban007]

God knows our plan, the work we do preserves us for as long as we want to be here. Our brain needs loads to also be here. Believe in nothing because that’s a choice too. Or have faith that someone will grant us grace. That the life we lived for God to enjoy our story.

[@kenhiett5266]

Your chances of being attacked by a shark go up exponentially if you're an avid surfer in New South Whales, Australia.

[@amensoul1242]

i realy agree whit the starting now i will listen ..

[@Orisitdonald]

23:02 - How is the truth "abusive and offensive"?

[@blueshadow7544]

Incredibly rich content; so glad to have landed here! Can I focus on a detail: where did you take the probability figures from? Because car crash 1/107 to die and motorcycle crash 1/800 to die is very new to me then… motorcycles are safer? According to whom? Thanks!

[@WhateverLibra]

Yeah a lot of those stats sounded like BS. Prob made up or some totally irrelevant math equation spit out those numbers.

[@craigbradshaw5902]

I only trust Siri and GOOGLE. Remember Ask Jeez? Is he still alive? 🥸

[@turtleanton6539]

Indeed🎉

[@SunWhukonn]

I see aperture Saitama Thumbnail I click

[@ManOfWar53654]

As much as I like learning about philosophy, I just can't help but wonder if anything does matter, and, for that sake, I just can't stop but think that there's no point in me living. To anyone reading this, consider not intaking too much philosophy, especially nihilism, if your mind is sensitive to information. Nihilism is one of the most profound concepts I've ever learned about, but it's also been dangerous to my mental health. I've started caring less about things and stopped trying so hard to succeed in life. However, the urge to stay alive is something that I still feel, and, for that matter, I feel the need to try harder. Yet, when nihilistic thoughts meet my pro-life desires, I break down and question so deeply if anything truly matters and whether I should just kill myself.

[@jjmm5655]

Well everything matters and everything is connected 😅 welcome to reality.

[@batintheattic7293]

Don't you think, though, that even when we shield ourselves from opinion it still gets through and affects our course? I'm way too sensitive to feedback. And the thing is - most feedback is psychological whim. It is so rare that somebody gives a truly unbiased and honest opinion that hasn't been tainted by what they'd quite like you to do instead. Even when you assure them that you don't want or need opinion - it'll still emerge disguised as something else. Also, it's supposed to be a mark of personal evolution to not have much of an ego (if at all) - but society is merely egos maneuvering against each other. So, if you don't have one you're going to get crushed if you enter the melee. A person can still have intent and ideas in the absence of ego. Sometimes people, who are not at all playing the game, have done amazing things.

[@martinalladin8981]

You are a finite and the universe is infinite. If you take a finite and divide it by an infinite the answer is always one. Meaning, only a single individual exists and everything else is a figment of no one's imagination.

[@davidlee4805]

just saying but some people consider gpt 3.0 AGI, 4o is not even close to being workforce/adoption ready

[@alexandrudrekaru-solo8789]

amazing ending

[@9000ck]

Where is the line between confirmation bias and heuristics? Also; being free thinking and having free speech is all very well, but there are two problems with this on the internet. 1) you can speak your mind and no-one will listen, 2) you speak your mind and you will be listened to only if you have something extreme to say 3) people who say extreme things tend to be wrong - tend to be wrong, but not necessarily 4) which means the internet/ social media if filled with the extreme.

[@missshroom5512]

I wonder sometimes if heaven is so good why then does no one want to go

[@NoOneCaresJSYK]

“We love ourselves more other people but care more about their opinion “ I have the opposite problem. I only care about my opinion, but I hate myself😅 sooo…

[@SkepticShay]

Solipsism is most likely not true. However one doesn't need to believe in solipsism to stop caring too much about other's perceptions and judgements. Nobody's perfect; everybody both makes mistakes and does it correct which applies to making judgements too.

[@zovutnik]

I'd love to put my phone off but I'm working using it mostly lol... Maybe it's time to quit to get a new perspective on things

[@ryer8477]

is this a compilation or a full video

[@KingFriday274]

I love this channel.

[@saitamathecoder1386]

Love the saitama thumbnail.

[@mus3bmo7mmed15]

Is it a repost??

[@mayiflex]

yeah i remember the first 20 minutes

[@ryer8477]

The discord link is down

[@Strik9]

The only judgements i don't like come from court😂

[@WhateverLibra]

I don’t believe the shark stats. In cape cod, there are incidents every year lately.

[@nunya___]

Your channel would be more successful if you formatted it in smaller lessens. Like Dr. Wayne Dyer did in "Change your thoughts, Change you life" (listen to the audiobook) where he Teaches the Tao. (I share it on TheAudiobookBay) I think you over-load people with too much thought/information at once. A short daily lesson to ponder, explore, try-on, live is best ... IMO. Live the Tao.

[@kenhiett5266]

I know balls to bones free will isn't a thing and that's devastating to the idea of a soul or afterlife of any kind.

[@markandrew3102]

Out of control!! Come on now...

[@SubFlow22]

As someone gifted with Asperger's, I appreciate humans but I tend to do better off without them.

[@austing2786]

I’m loving the video, and no judgment if it is because your wonderful script is the highlight of the video, but are the video clips AI generated? Like the ones of people specifically, I was just having a hard time telling if it was or not

[@gabri770]

What a video…!

[@RaVen99991]

real

[@polipob]

real

[@rachelmary_23]

The subtle art of not giving a f*ck came first

[@turul9392]

Press F for Queen Tay

[@lombardi4]

is that saitama i'm seeing?