Apostle Femi Lazarus Shares the secret of his happy Home
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@uduakobongekpo94858 ай бұрын
Who else is grateful for the internet? That's how we would have missed these truths.
@OpeyemiBright-q4p9 ай бұрын
I asked my mother why did you stay? Is it because of me? And she said you’re one of the reasons but the main reason is God She said children can be frustrating too they are human I can’t run away from you guys because I want peace of mind. What’s keeping me is because of what God has told me concerning this marriage and his word never fails Peace of mind is not affordable it’s in God
@EruvwuObuaya8 ай бұрын
I agree with her.
@Lolade77 ай бұрын
We need to start teaching boys too. A marriage needs both the man and woman. Burden of marriage should not be on the woman’s shoulders alone.
@samuelonyeke86047 ай бұрын
You can start that..
@mimieedwin7 ай бұрын
Exactly! It's always about the girl child and many poorly raised boys, then they become grown men that won't treat their wives right. Men should be thought to be good husbands, and marriage will be much sweeter.
@ElohoTed-tx8hs7 ай бұрын
Exactly God bless you cos I was going to comment same
@Dorindameghan7 ай бұрын
You’ve said it all
@mrscollinsg.e85647 ай бұрын
Yes
@veritasa.m16215 ай бұрын
My mother stayed because of us. Beaten by her brothers in law. Cheated n countless times by my father. Pastor my mother is my father's only legally married wife. But she stayed and received disrespect from the countless women my father brought after her. Yet she took in all the children. My mom was emotionally tortured. But she stayed...but she developed a heart condition. Has gone thru many surgeries. This is a very sensitive topic and truly every relationship is diff depending on why people went into it in the first place. My dad eventually died regretting all he did but my mom is never the same. She wasn't even allowed to work. But society saw my family as a great one but we had our inner battles. My mother is a hero...I pray God sustains her and my my daddy rest in peace
@oluwayemioguntimehin1309 ай бұрын
If God has blessed you with a mother who stayed, don't let her die before you appreciate such a mother.
@ibidunolawuyi27346 ай бұрын
Thanks Pastor for the advice, but only he who wears the shoe knows where it hurts.
@abigailgreatness83557 ай бұрын
My mother stayed through the emotional abuse and cheating of my father. She later died and I wish she had left to be alive for us. My father also died 2yrs after. My mum was holding the family together spiritually, life has never been the same without her. Miss her
@annieogodo27247 ай бұрын
Oh dear , sorry for your loss.
@NnajichiomaCythia.-qf5du7 ай бұрын
😢😢God help us
@chiomaokoro50377 ай бұрын
It is well my dear 💓
@gloriouseimunjeze37976 ай бұрын
Hugsssss. May the Holy Spirit console you in the way only He can.
@innocentemmanuel25955 ай бұрын
Apostle Femi Lazarus changed my perception about who a true man has to be in a relationship. The wisdom is made practicable and simple. Last year December I remember watching his sermons almost every day. You are a blessing Sir. Thank you.
@marieakogo734010 ай бұрын
Yes,this pastor is young but full of wisdom! May God lead him down till the End.
@thebrandveesax9 ай бұрын
The wisdom he carries is way too heavy for his body to bear 😭😭😭…
@lola26599 ай бұрын
How old is he? If he’s over 40 then he’s not young.
@toluwanimiomole52998 ай бұрын
Amen
@albertjoseph80068 ай бұрын
Amen 🔥
@namimindyaw12018 ай бұрын
No he does not. He’s just like all those psychopaths who blame victims first acting. Why is he not addressing the things HUSBANDS do to their wives? Are those things a show of strength or honour. He’s a liar and is wicked to women. He talks about women with their own money, who are these women and what fraction of his congregation is made up of these women? I’m not saying don’t address women who do what he claims but most women leave for far more tragic reasons and yes simply ignored this. Typical selfish African man!!
@dnharry888 ай бұрын
"We don't know men through annoucement , we know them through sacrifice"
@kathleenibeh63098 ай бұрын
Mehhhhhhhn that was powerful
@khaylebs6 ай бұрын
The forms of strength that make you numb is a bad strength. Apostle Femi Lazarus
@theodorauchendu8157 ай бұрын
Thank you Lord for I am that woman who has chosen to stay in my marriage just for my children. I have reasons to opt out but I do not want to expose my children to the hazards of a broken home. My prayer is to see them become men and women and influence.Lord please keep me alive to witness their successes and victories and to see my fourth generation. I also ask for the grace to pull through because I am almost losing it. Thank you God and God bless you Apostle
@Dorindameghan7 ай бұрын
But it’s not that easy oo hmmmm
@ziiefe57986 ай бұрын
His grace is sufficient....
@skill-academi4 ай бұрын
Keep praying ooo, so that you don't end up raising broken children, who thinks that abuse is a way of life. Who thinks they can't stand up for themselves in the face of abuse. I was 18, he was almost beating me to death and my 2 year old son screamed mummy in tears from the door, that was the time i knew it was over. I didn't want to raise a son like my ex husband, I left with my son, and I am glad i am raising a boy with soft spot and cocience.
@ayobamiolupeka13306 күн бұрын
God bless you exceedingly ma
@kayodemichael39516 ай бұрын
I thank God my mum didn't stay the reason im alive today ile olorogun ile ogun God Pls bless me to bless my mom more than im doing now that woman deserves the whole world.
@oluwafunmilayosorunke3788 ай бұрын
Wonderful teaching sir, but i will like you to define stress in this situation? Is constant cheating, domestic violence, laziness etc on the part of the man just stress? Should women lose themselves because they became mothers? This is not trivialise your teaching, i will just really like to know.
@ElohoTed-tx8hs7 ай бұрын
My mom stayed because of us she died before 55 she was hypertensive lt generated to diabetes omo Pastor Fm i love you you so much. Men shouldnt stress the women. Some other women stayed because they didnt have the financial capabilities. But we should start training the men too come on. Strong message thkugh!
@Dorindameghan7 ай бұрын
There’s something abt dis pastor that I cannot put my finger on . He is so full of divine wisdom that’s all I can say
@chikaokiyi67808 ай бұрын
My mother did stay but she took us along and that was the best decision our lives. Up until now my father is worse! My mom till took care of the three of my siblings. I am a lawyer and my other siblings are doing okay. All these years, I never saw my mom talk it ill of my father till date. He still comes around my father I mean but he is still the same.
@AtalkwithRichi7 ай бұрын
God bless her
@rebeccaattah65448 ай бұрын
My mother refused to remarry because of us Thank you so much Mummy 💞 you're the real hero 💕😘.
@ebunoluwaaiyegbayo60654 ай бұрын
So much loaded in just 15mins. God bless you Pastor Lazarus
@elormkankan1028 ай бұрын
May GOD lift Pastor Femi UP till he reaches perfection... What a blessing for this generation!
@beckyraji90847 ай бұрын
Amen
@Zionprincess4 ай бұрын
I hate divorce but if my mum ever decide to leave, I will support her with my full chest. I have seen what she pass through and will never want her to stay because of us.
@beckyabbey95166 ай бұрын
You said it sir...a man should be the Head not the headache
@anastasiaogomaka37178 ай бұрын
Women learn to choose right. Choose according to the standard/word of God. when you do no matter what happens you can look back to God and say, God I chose this man as your word directed, help me stay while you work on him, or change him from within. No marriage rooted in Christ will ever fail, no matter the trails, God will sustain it. We have all failed when it comes to living as children of God, men and women alike. We need to run back to God for the right prescription.
@ribaker8228 ай бұрын
I love it when an African religious leaders have the good sense to not only instruct women who are often soft targets in churches, and also instructs men honestly. We need to move away from the overly patriarchal culture in Africa. More grace. May we have the grace to heed.
@faithjoseph71296 ай бұрын
This man is so full of wisdom, am still strongly because my mum couldn't stay and she died alongside and life has never be joyful with me as it's supposed if my mother would have stayed 😭😭😭
@iyabowaledaudu6 ай бұрын
Receive the comfort of the Holy Spirit
@onozarecomfort95668 ай бұрын
My mum lived and died for us his children. May her gentle soul rest in peace.
@NatashaShapolaMwamba-ny9vy8 ай бұрын
I highly confirm what Pastor Is saying to be emotionally numb as a woman is deadly, it takes away the very essence of what God created us to be nurturers and so much more. Truly blessed to have this wisdom.
@maggyoshilaja45488 ай бұрын
Word!
@onakoyaomolayo53068 ай бұрын
Pastor Femi is so natural! Let me go and follow you on all social media... I love his interpretation of the word
@irenemoewe50062 ай бұрын
God bless you soooo much sir, learnt a lot from this teaching.
@osamudiamenokoro40238 ай бұрын
What the children sees and experience is very important, some men are abusive today because that's what they saw... A temporary change of environment is important, while the parents go through counselling/healing and possible fixing, if not abusive cycle continues.
@adedunolakamilat-zo2ei8 ай бұрын
You have said the truth.
@thelightstheatre33157 ай бұрын
This is apt; but the sad part is that the one, especially the man who most times is the problem will become hard hearted and not willing to submit to be tutored and corrected. I've found out that the problem in marriage that leads to divorce isn't the magnitude of the problem, but HARDNESS OF HEART. Any 2 persons with malleable hearts surely will succeed in marriage effortlessly
@osamudiamenokoro40237 ай бұрын
@@thelightstheatre3315 so true.
@ugochukwuumoren15318 ай бұрын
A day without listening to this great man is a day I won’t rest✅ Thank you sir for allowing yourself be a beacon of light for us❤️❤️❤️💯❤️🙌🏻
@ladiespanel7 ай бұрын
"You cannot predict foolishness. It comes like a wind. Surround yourself with structures that can keep you sane in case you want to be stupid"
@cynthiaibebuike92286 ай бұрын
That's powerful message A person who is Sting is Sting, and one who is generous will still be generous with little
@osadebamwenosaiyuwu17857 ай бұрын
I am too grateful for my mum, she stayed…And God has used me to bless her, she held it all together ..Thank you Jesus
@estherogechukwu98538 ай бұрын
God help me to pay the price as a Mother.😢
@oluwayemioguntimehin1309 ай бұрын
Thank you my mother for staying and staying with God, e seun ma, e e jeun omo pe in Jesus name, Amen!
@SinmiTumisile5 ай бұрын
Amin n me too🙏🙏
@namimindyaw12018 ай бұрын
Women should be treated right in their marriages. Most African women stay in horrible situations brought on by their HUSBANDS. Deal with the men who do wicked things and stop blaming the victims. This is sad 😢
@devteeable8 ай бұрын
Dnt miss the point
@clementinaagbemava30668 ай бұрын
So true especially emotional abuse , one thing that is ignored by African society but destroying women in marriages. They will say so far as you are not being beaten stay and this is how women full mental hospitals naw
@cloths9698 ай бұрын
Don't be hard to listen, allow your self
@shanicekinyanjui837 ай бұрын
He addresses both men and women not just one.
@chigoziriwodu70947 ай бұрын
He addressed both, but sometimes the best thing to happen to a woman & her children is to leave. My neighbour beat his wife to death a while ago, her 3 children were split (the youngest was only a few months old the oldest 8). If she had left that marriage, maybe she would have still been here and her children would have been better off.
@tpshalom9 ай бұрын
Wao! To God be the glory. This Lazarus has come forth. He is staying and doing God's work and proclaiming the good news. Blessed is the womb who bore you. All glory to God for your life sir.
@BillionaireCEO6 ай бұрын
My mother staying with my father was the worst mistake of her life. My dad is late but the psychological damage on my brothers he left becuase of the way he abused my mother is too much 💔 😢
@adaragold74247 ай бұрын
God bless my mom 😢😢 She is a big inspiration to me ❤❤I keep pushing because of her
@jennyjamuel7 ай бұрын
“The forms of strength that makes you numb emotionally is a bad strength “📍
@damilareemmanuel70639 ай бұрын
I find it so motivating and inspiring listening to this man of God.
@queenofherbs2349 ай бұрын
This is me oh Lord, I am so numb emotionally, not affectionate at all. Help me oh Lord.
@FlorenceBossman8 ай бұрын
His help is available, the Holy Spirit is love, embrace him
@healthybeing50518 ай бұрын
Hmmmm
@thelightstheatre33157 ай бұрын
He enlivens and revives that is dead or dying.... Open up and tell Him to help you, that you can't help yourself.... For His strength is made perfect in your weaknesses. Peace unto you in Jesus name
@thelightstheatre33157 ай бұрын
He enlivens and revives that is dead or dying.... Open up and tell Him to help you, that you can't help yourself.... For His strength is made perfect in your weaknesses. Peace unto you in Jesus name
@lallamabaso49285 ай бұрын
I am the one, that you have showed me favour, Lord. A timely word is like a marriage to me. I am Almighty’s beloved because He has orchestrated everything so that I am listening 👂🏿. Thank you.
@kufrefrank69915 ай бұрын
Thank you sir, You are a blessing to our generation for such a time like this.
@ritacareakum4 ай бұрын
Ohh thank you Jesus 😊
@tolukolade233111 ай бұрын
Real Men are known through sacrifice
@favourmmesoma486 ай бұрын
Amen God please preserve my mother for so I pray in Jesus mighty name Amen 🙏
@monsieurelus_victor770611 ай бұрын
God bless you Sir. Apostle Femi Lazarus and everyone connected to the sphere of light church in Jesus name. Amen
@lizzyalowonle19615 ай бұрын
Thank you man of God for life support message, more anointing sir
@victorychioma30568 ай бұрын
I love you mommy. And promise to make you smile and fulfilled
@abeyhenzo18768 ай бұрын
May God bless this man ,honestly I pray we have many like him he constantly makes me believe in xtianity again .
@MiriamMusa-td4sr6 ай бұрын
That's my pastor... Full of wisdom Much auction to Function sir Our generation needs you sir
@onyiafaithifechukwu21086 ай бұрын
Mum stayed because of the seven of us ,after the fights everyday,bruises everyday 😔 mummy God will keep you for us 🙏
@sporah15 ай бұрын
At the end of the day just do what God says...if stay coz God asked you stay then stay but im sure God wont let u stay in abusive marriage especially if the other person is not willing to go for therapy or make changes. May God grant us wisdom
@beatsbydaraoladokun76905 ай бұрын
Thanks for these words of wisdom. I'm Truly blessed
@Comfort-wellness-016 ай бұрын
Sir your preaching is the very best 💯💯💯💯💯
@princessnaomi59245 ай бұрын
Thank you so much sir. I learned a lot from this teaching.
@idahpatience056 ай бұрын
God will bless you sir,many pastors are preachers but not doers making Christian homes to be a mess
@preservedpreshus306 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for staying MUMMY I kmow you are staying for us You would live ling to enjoy..AMEN
@AtalkwithRichi7 ай бұрын
I have to look for the full message because following this particular message i will say it is better to leave than staying with a husband whose only mission is to frustrate you , abuse you in all area.. Men are not babies they are full grown human being who knows left from right , women are not the ones to always stay for the children sake while the man dont care if the children lives or not . Women should not be guilt trapped in anyway because they choose to leave so they can live... Many women listened to this kind of message about women and are six feet below without their children. Again let me look for the full message.
@modupekalejaiye59818 ай бұрын
Real deep teachings. Thank you sir. More grace more anointing in Jesus name amen..
@princessaigbe59667 ай бұрын
Pastor FM she stayed because of us, but she's no longer the same, hbp, stress, struggle, and more. We are trying so hard to give her the best and her joy back. Only God can do that. Its well, its not always as it seem😢lord have mercy, torture is real, you don't have to be beaten first
@AtalkwithRichi7 ай бұрын
How can God not bless you ?
@princessaigbe59667 ай бұрын
@@AtalkwithRichi my dear... Life is deep talk is cheap... But experience will show you the depth of things. There are stories this mouth cannot say.
@AtalkwithRichi7 ай бұрын
@@princessaigbe5966 please do take care of her . God will restore all that she has lost .
@ansaeffiong6 ай бұрын
May our society raise boys who are ready to become fathers and husbands.
@feliciatemidayo30436 ай бұрын
I feel one must know when to leave… I can relate. The women end up not being the same anymore. It is well
@sporah15 ай бұрын
I also feel,we should open our eyes when choosing..if you see red flags dont ignore,deal with it or just move on
@AlfredFavour-td9gs5 ай бұрын
God give me the strength and courage😢😢😢
@oloruntoyinsumanu84788 ай бұрын
Yes pastor, may the light of God continue to shine upon you in Jesus name Amen
@Dorindameghan7 ай бұрын
No matter wat I won’t stay in an abusive marriage becus of my children . If I try and it doesn’t work out I’ll leave and go with my kids . I’ve seen children doing well becus their mums left . I can’t tolerate such nonsense
@amoahdorcas82097 ай бұрын
GOD bless you very much, Apostle Femi. Keep blessing homes.
@Theusual_20247 ай бұрын
Thank God for internet and the salvation part it has. I'm highly delivered by this video.
@TaiwoblessingTBBWORLD7 ай бұрын
Sir indeed you are a blessing to I , in so many ways sir ... May God continue to bless and increase you spiritually sir 🙏🙏🙏🙏
@omolarabello17138 ай бұрын
You are a gift to this generation
@ShedrachGyungoun-nc8gt8 ай бұрын
My husband and I have been following your teachings and we are greatly blessed. Love you Sir! More unction in Jesus Name!
@augustaoge7656 ай бұрын
May God continue to keep you till the end sir
@nadiamilk87976 ай бұрын
Thank you sir for this words of wisdom. More grace remain blessed
@josephjane487710 ай бұрын
Why are my just coming across this man of God
@Graceakowee11 ай бұрын
That is the standard. Yes, sir!
@EruvwuObuaya8 ай бұрын
God help us. Thank you for sharing. ❤
@amakaonyia54478 ай бұрын
This pastor is a blessing to us
@debbiedebbie86956 ай бұрын
It is possible for women to successfully raise children with the help of God (of course, there are many reasons why a woman will have to do so alone though).
@SinmiTumisile5 ай бұрын
Thank you 😊
@phantomD3V5 ай бұрын
Not advisable to do so alone....not with boys
@salomeybuabeng62586 ай бұрын
God bless you MOG. Tnx for the mystery revealed
@InimfonEtuk1.-_8 ай бұрын
This man of God is a great teacher of the word of God ,more grace sir to keep doing God's work
@paulmccauleywalter6 ай бұрын
May God keep my mom living long for me 🙏🏾
@abigailfrancis33808 ай бұрын
🙌🙌 thank you pastor .
@BlessedBlessing_888 ай бұрын
You're an amazing gift to us Apostle Femi ❤God continue to strengthen and uphold you and your ministry with His right hand 🙏
@PrincessEvangelist7 ай бұрын
Every Woman’s Grace And Capacity Is Different And On Various Levels
@benjaminmorgan37665 ай бұрын
You are mistaken not knowing the scriptures nor the power of God. Thus you cooking excuses for your mistakes.
@abolajiolalekan82948 ай бұрын
Big shout to my mum, dat woman don try for us 😢😢
@COMFORTOKEWU8 ай бұрын
May God keep you relevant to the end in Jesus name
@Oghenerunor6 ай бұрын
So much wisdom
@stevegodstime6 ай бұрын
God bless you sir
@ifeomatipin47673 ай бұрын
Amen 😊
@Plovekitchen177 ай бұрын
This is powerful and should go viral 🎉
@dorcasbrownson8 ай бұрын
I hear you Sir!!!!!! May God bless and increase you Amen!!!!!!!!!
@JiudiaTech7 ай бұрын
Pastor you are on point.
@FunmiSongs8 ай бұрын
marriage is for better for worse this is not when the man is the worse and make life a hell.i expect the worse should be an outward force and not within.
@NiriWash-di2jp7 ай бұрын
Marriage is for better for worse!!!!! Is it scriptural?
@benjaminmorgan37665 ай бұрын
You are mistaken...not knowing the scriptures thus cooking excuses for your mistakes.
@ngoziobioma47846 ай бұрын
I thank God for pastor Lazarus. Pls who will teach the boys
@yetundefasiku54127 ай бұрын
Thank you sir!
@djantaadjo32136 ай бұрын
I love you pastor
@LightOfGod0019 ай бұрын
God bless you sir 🙇🏻♀️
@loveth.philip14978 ай бұрын
We don’t know men true announcements we know them true sacrifice eph 5:21-22
@amarachukwumaryannonwuzulu81098 ай бұрын
I love this message but please may pastors begins to teach about single mothers that are widows since women cannot raise their kids alone, and you talk about absent father's but about those who lost their fathers.
@QueeniesBackyard8 ай бұрын
They still make wonderful mothers. I think the main thing is having a father figure at home.