Appalachian Man interview-Elmer

Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Elmer aka "Wabco", an Appalachian man living in Leslie County, Kentucky.
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[@MarlenaNicolexo]

Elmer is my dad. That trailer he lives in has only been there a few months. Our old home place house was there. It was over 100+years old. I lived there until 2011. Then the black mold and to many holes took over. It basically rotted. My dad is a hard worker, he has chronic diabetes. My momma his wife passed away by his side suddenly back in 2009 from a massive heart attack. She was only 39. He hasn't been himself since. I love my little daddy, he sure has tons of stories to tell. God if only you had the time he'd talk your head off.

[@thematriarchy2075]

Hi! Thank you for that bit of info. Can you please tell him that we love him! A good person is easy to spot. Lots of love to you and your dad from Amsterdam, the Netherlands 💕💛✌🏼

[@MarlenaNicolexo]

@@thematriarchy2075 Absolutely. This will make his day. 🥰

[@thematriarchy2075]

@@MarlenaNicolexo That's what we need. 🥰

[@eddiem5997]

I would love to burn a fat J with your pops and listen to some of his stories 🔥

[@eddiem5997]

What’s the story with his nickname Wabco?

[@MarlenaNicolexo]

R.I.P My daddy Elmer. March 15th. 2023. Took his last breath at 2:13pm with us holding him. 😢 He talked about fishing all the way to the end.

[@Unkle_Billz]

I'm sorry to hear that. My condolences.

[@nathanwoodard1136]

God bless you guys. Sorry to hear.

[@daniellekettels3065]

I'm sorry. Thank you for update.

[@lesliechambers8801]

So sorry for your loss

[@baleighmorey1626]

So sorry for your loss Marlena. He sounded like a wonderful and honest man and good daddy. I appreciate getting to hear from him and you. Prayers for you and your loved ones to find peace.

[@silversteele6624]

"Whats the most important lesson youve learned in your life?" "Trust in God." "Are you a religious man?" "No, but I believe in God." That may be the greatest and truest thing Ive ever heard anyone say..

[@curiousgeorge555]

@@UCIh6M_WOwVVVlLG1D8zNpdQ, the reason I think his statement is so profound is because God is the very center of reality, He is relationship, He is truth, He is life, He is the way, He is. He is not a religion.

[@jeffreypetree7163]

John 3:16. BELIEVE ☝ IN JESUS AMEN

[@profilen5181]

@@jeffreypetree7163 I put my trust in Satan

[@jeffreypetree7163]

@@profilen5181 satan has no friends . Your going to go to Hell for eternity burning . 🔥 . How foolish .

[@MrDuneedon]

@@jeffreypetree7163 *You're.

[@MotherOfWolves1313]

This man is what we call “salt of the Earth”. He’s good people.

[@lorettamackey2893]

Good people

[@mosey1980]

Pride of the country.. much love!

[@lynncain9416]

Good Ole Boy , probably do anything to help someone out , Bless his heart

[@thehammer6675]

Hes a damn good man, I like him

[@gangoffour6690]

I'd like to visit down there but I don't want to have to squeal like a pig !

[@MarlenaNicolexo]

To all the people who are rudely commenting. He doesn't owe you an explanation of his disabilities, but I'll enlighten y'all a little. Since this video. Elmer has had several strokes, he's been in the hospital 80% of the time since this video and before this video. He can't walk alone, he can't grip things. He has chronic disabilities that started at a very young age of around 35. I watched my daddy go from being a big able bodied man that would carry me every where as a child to a small feeble man who is very very sick. Back in 2009 My mom passed away suddenly from a massive heart attack in my dads arms. He worked on her (CPR) for well over an hour before the ambulance got to us. 2 years later my dad and his Girl Friend were driving down the highway on a beautiful sunny day 2 days after my wedding and a tree fell and hit his car leaving his girl friend dead and him severely injured. He spent 2+ weeks in the TN Hospital which was several hours away from home. That left him with a small brain injury. Now he forgets things. He has NEVER been to FL he only dreams to go. He worked his entire life until he was laid off due to his illnesses. He doesn't go on vacations. He has been on 1 to SC in his entire life. 55 Years. He saved for well over a year to go with a group of family that split the bill. Don't judge my daddy because you don't know his life. His story. His disabilities. The way its looking right now, he isn't going to be with us much longer. I'll be damn if I tell him anything about you rude ass people. But the ones who are commenting nice things, I do tell him. He smiles and says thank you each time. ♥♥

[@Ty-ye8rd]

Only because it’s the internet, and you never know what to believe. Do you have any sort of verification this is your dad? If so, I’d like to send some support. I saw you had Venmo and an online store

[@MarlenaNicolexo]

@@Ty-ye8rd He is 100% my dad. I not only have videos and pictures, but he is on my birth certificate. But I don't need to prove anything. He doesn't need support. I got him. ;-) Srry not meaning to sound rude.

[@MarlenaNicolexo]

@@Ty-ye8rd I don't have a venmo...

[@Destroyer-lv5eb]

Sending love to you and your family from Texas. Much respect ❤️🤗

[@rachelthomas5993]

@@MarlenaNicolexo men like this wouldn’t take “support” anyways. they just make it work until their last days!! but I’d love to send a little $ to a go fund me or something to get you and your daddy to Florida!! & I’m sure others would too.. how cool would that be? He reminds me of my dad. I wish I could take him..

[@rickjarvis5954]

If the country goes to shit, no electricity, food shortage, fuel shortage ,economic collapse. Guess who is going to survive just fine. This man will.

[@justdeeznuts]

Of the country goes under we couldn't hardly tell here. They ain't nothing here to start with

[@Oldwhiteguy]

How so, he’ll lose his welfare?

[@thekatt...]

Rick Jarvis agreed. 💯💯💯

[@dp6970]

Yep and I’ll be heading over there to hang out with Elmer when that happens! 😁

[@flanigan_a-go-go]

Slab city baby

[@rootsm3]

These people have zero arrogance or ego about them. Truly amazing.

[@karencalifano6132]

I agree 100%!! Yet the so called "poor" minorities living in places like NYC and LA are such a bunch of entitled "victims" getting tons of handouts, living in subsidized housing, getting SNAP, yet they're wearing $300 sneakers, $300 headphones, $1500 I Phones, $500 Gucci belts and shades, Gucci slides, living off the fat of the land, yet they bitch and complain about systematic racism being the reason they can't get ahead in life!!!!! The dem politicians love them and feel sorry for them, yet they make fun of the poor white people and call them white trash, low lives, etc. So not right and so ignorant on the part of the left & the elites.

[@bobjhonson1963]

im from eastern ky. honestly its hard to have a ego when your enviroment will humble you evertime you look around.

[@510heart510]

@@karencalifano6132 you went on a complete tangent from what OC was saying…

[@qazy477]

You dont know that 🤡

[@lifelongbachelor3651]

@@karencalifano6132 yep. they've been real prominent in the streets recently, too.

[@quintonlloyd2393]

I grew up in the Appalachian foothills. When people ask me about my heritage I proudly tell them " I'm Appalachian" People like Elmer are just one of the reasons I'm proud of my heritage and to be a Kentuckian.

[@ryanstroud7645]

I am an Appalachian man And I like Elmer..... He ain’t dumb. He has manners. He has worked hard and Ive known many like him. God bless you Elmer

[@abuddyofmine2524]

What state

[@kimle190]

U have internet out there?

[@ryanstroud7645]

A Buddy of Mine Kentucky

[@ryanstroud7645]

Kim Le 🙄

[@thornyturtleranch6152]

Any of you all want to make a new friend I'm interested in comming buy and collecting a couple black locust trees for some wood working dreams. Let me know. I'm from Atlanta but I moved 6 years ago to the swamp in louisiana, literally, to work on retirement plans and dreams. Retirement maybe in 6 or 7 years.

[@YourMom-bl1dr]

This guy was my next door neighbor for years. He’s a good man. Never fooled with drugs and was an honest man. I remember one time I broke down and he pulled me home. He wouldn’t steal off you and would give you the shirt off his back. He’ll always be a friend of ours! God bless you wabco... that’s his cb name btw.

[@YourMom-bl1dr]

@Janet McWilliams smoking dope isn’t bad lol and everyone has their problem he was always good to the people around him

[@8DEHART]

Janet McWilliams dope and liquor aint part of the 10 commandments Janet, geeze

[@davidcrystal8886]

Janet, get a life. This is a good man. You have no right to judge him.

[@danielspoon6262]

The name “Janet” has always rode on the coattails of the name “Karen”.

[@danielspoon6262]

@Janet McWilliams, apparently your country also doesn’t have teachers that teach proper punctuation either but regardless, MOST countries do have homelessness and especially crack/meth (which usually comes hand in hand), so, exactly, which country do you live in, Karen...I mean, Janet?

[@kathryngrubb1597]

What a kind, sweet man. I’m from Appalachia as well, and I’ve been around people like him all of my life. We are the forgotten people, but we take care of our own and ask for nothing.

[@seven1384]

Well mannered, hard working, humble, and gracious, son of Kentucky. God bless you sir.

[@keithwilkinson6761]

Elmer sounds and talks like a man with more than a ninth grade education. He is pleasant and polite and carries himself well in a conversation. He even removed his hat for the interview. GOD bless this mountain man and his way of life!

[@ahutch3835]

Class isn't taught in school.

[@yuuuhhhh707]

Schooling has nothing to do with education anymore it’s more about memory retention

[@lonnieclemens8028]

I noticed that he was very polite and not rude. Thank you for expressing your opinion Keith.

[@forevr_disturbd]

You cant buy class...its raised in ya! Bless this sweet man

[@goodjohnhunting]

Well said!

[@BillyBats773]

The man even took his hat off for the interview. A true gentleman. With not just his words but also with his demeanor

[@brittneyberry9435]

I noticed that, too. 💙

[@clare5687]

Nothin better than a gentleman. A southern one at that.

[@Teresia12]

So true

[@williamfrance856]

We are raised this way. No excuses.

[@bqrre]

Beautiful

[@Justin7939]

I really like how he paused and really thought when he asked him what the most important lesson in life was. You could tell he really was searching for a real answer and not going for some cliche or rushed answer. Thats what he genuinely thinks.

[@beaumillion6222]

When he said “no place like home” I couldn’t help but smile 😊

[@ShinyFlakesShinyFlakes]

“I’ve got a wife, but she lives in another home, and I live here.” He really misses his wife 😢I think he is referring to his wife in Heaven

[@custerranch]

His daughter said in another comment that he and his new wife aren't close. So they live separately.

[@barbarawarren9645]

♥️

[@barbarawarren9645]

The daughter said her Mom, his wife died at 39 from a heart attack.

[@patriciap8564]

The daughter did reply to a comment saying his wife died in 2009 but he has a new wife but they arent close and he would rather be by himself so he lives alone.

[@Greggg57]

Or, where-ever.

[@spankythemud]

I seriously can't get over how humble and genuine he is.. the man is three kinds of gold..

[@monyet1358]

I love him so much and I only watched an eleven minute video. I want an update!

[@rebeccascott8404]

Most all mountain people are humble and genuine and hardly ever complain. Wonderful honest hard working people.

[@MarkRiley12]

It's how most of us are here in the Appalachians. It's what makes this place even greater. I love living in West Virginia. I've lived in quite a few places but always find myself coming back. Like Elmer said, there's just no place like this area. I know he's from Kentucky but it's exactly the same here.

[@barryadcox2710]

Thats the way the majority of country folk are. Yet most of the country look down on them. I guess because they sound different. I'm from the country as well. Not as pure as this fella but he and I are a lot alike

[@kyleott1082]

I'd like to shake that man's hand, and have a talk. Don't meet to many people like that anymore 😕

[@mindmyown1]

This man has been blessed with a rich spirit. He’s kind, he’s smart, he works hard and he is loved. Please all you amazing folks of the Appalachians, protect this man at any and all costs…and love him . He’s a special one.

[@lindamorgan2678]

Agreed

[@cherylcooper1885]

Amen!!

[@blairbrownie1223]

I loved when he whipped that pistol right out of his pocket, just like a man pulls out an Ace comb. This dude is a BOSS

[@terryharl7949]

Elmer is richer than many of us. He is humble, loves God and doesn’t need a lot. Wish we could all get back to a simple life. God bless you Elmer!

[@johnbutler6430]

True

[@johnathanreynolds7008]

Elmer lives off foodstamps and the government...better hope Trump don't take it

[@cameronr7223]

@@johnathanreynolds7008 shut up you simp

[@scoobyroorogers]

So very true and may God bless you Terry.

[@terryharl7949]

@@johnathanreynolds7008 He is disabled. Just like me. Hope it never happens to you. It’s not a choice nor a luxury.

[@brycehelton8141]

I lived right beside this man right here for many years growing up. He was a great neighbor always looking out for you and your place that you lived. Such a kind hearted person and a joy to talk to. He had some very fascinating stories to tell. He had a million of them too. This right here folks is a great man. One of the hardest workers I know. He goes by his CB handle Wabco. I’ve known him for many years. A great person right here! God bless you Wabco!

[@jonathanwiggins5366]

You can tell right off he's a kind hearted soul. God bless

[@octaviogomora7884]

He's a prime example of humanity in its pure form. We all want a peaceful and quiet life. Even if life throws us a bear or two.

[@bricksbydp]

Really appreciate this wonderful film and all that went into making it. God bless this man.

[@jennicase]

I love those old days when people would just sit around and tell stories.

[@sharksport01]

Get his stories!

[@Uaarkson]

I feel like this man could survive from start to finish of The Walking Dead. This is an American hero

[@bentucker3728]

I’m originally from WV. I joined the Navy and traveled the world. I came back home to WV after ten years and became an RN. The people that comment negatively about this man or the area he is from are just ignorant to the situation. I guarantee his heart is bigger and more giving than 90% of the people I have met all over the world. That is why I came back home. Going to college and having money does not make anyone intelligent nor is it a measure of a person’s worth. These are my people and I love them.

[@pattyoxley1887]

Well said!

[@jaycuzman625]

Yes

[@christinajohnson8986]

‘Are you a religious man?’ “No, but I believe in God.” Love that answer

[@TEM14411]

I am kindly backslid. Bless him. My Nana always said kindly.

[@bosslady3063]

Christina Johnson He said that he back slid. I am from there and know that my family that goes to Holiness and Church of God churches believe that even if you believe in God and Christianity and not saved, that means that they believe that they will go to hell. If you are saved and currently going to church, you will go to Heaven. He said that he used to go to church, but not currently (back slid). Not sure if he believes this way, but that is what my family believes anyway.

[@TEM14411]

@@bosslady3063 I have never heard tell of that. I have heard many a person say it and they mean they are out of alignment with God. You cannot speak on someone's personal belief about their eternal destination. I speak this in love. That's between them and God. You may think it means that. I dont. And I live Appalachia and attend church.

[@bosslady3063]

ESD You are right, I shouldn’t say that is what he means. I’m sorry about that. That is just the way that my family believes. Sorry for the confusion . I will edit it to say that.

[@TEM14411]

@@bosslady3063 you have no reason sorry. We are both walking in love. I have had to learn to choose my words carefully. Everyone has a valid contribution and there is room at the table for all of us. Jesus Christ taught us that. Thank you for receiving my words. Sending love and blessings to you.

[@tabithasaylor5943]

Ol’ Wobco! I love this man dearly. He is my husband’s Uncle. It sounds so strange hearing him called Elmer lol He’s always been Uncle Wob, Big Wob (his son is called Little Wob) or Wobco. He’s a real good feller, kind hearted and a heard worker. We all love him dearly. Glad to see him on here, he describes mountain life so well. There ain’t no other place I’d want to call home. He’s had a hard life and went through a lot, but I’ve only ever heard him be positive and kind. Great interview!

[@tabithasaylor5943]

*Hard worker, not heard worker lol

[@berlingolingoful]

I like his face; and his voice is so nice. He has such a calm demeanor. Great beard, too :)

[@angelahensley5998]

Yes thats right! Ole Wobco! He is a good man and long time friend of my extended family.

[@albish6260]

He looks old in his age. You can tell he’s had a hard long life. I appreciate his soul

[@ethanfoster4949]

This is my favorite interview. We don’t get a lot of representation in Appalachia. I’m happy to see him on here. Thanks for coming to our part of the country.

[@mgal6234]

I don’t know why people feel sorry for these folks, because many of them seem a lot happier than most of the people I know.

[@666blindrider]

Very true.

[@apcadd80]

So true! My family has always been dirt poor and my in-laws are well off. After seeing the difference in happiness and kindness I know money won’t make you happy. If anything it causes more problems. Even my in-laws can see a difference in our families and wonder at this. They lived for a bit on our family land where my parents and siblings live due to a fire destroying their home and they will tell you how much they enjoyed being there. We all shared big family meals together and get togethers were all we did was enjoy each other’s company. I am glad I know these truths..money doesn’t make you happy, happiness comes from who you are inside.

[@SphereX253]

I think it’s because, traditionally, he doesn’t seem happy. I’m trying to reconcile why, seemingly, such a happy man seems so melancholy and destitute.

[@mgal6234]

@@iksroizdnak For sure...I did say many of these people, not all. I know a lot of people who are financially stable and completely miserable.

[@iksroizdnak]

@@mgal6234 exactly. I wish I had learned how they're happy. I'd like to be that way.

[@ethanhoward389]

As a man from the leslie, perry, knott, county area, i want to thank you for doing this with respect, and treating elmer with dignity. People arent usually that kind when they visit us with a camera. And thank you too elmer.

[@RHAK47]

I must say I have a lot of respect for you guys out there. I’ve ran out to those past/present coal mining towns hauling materials for rigging companies from Louisville. Doesn’t really matter, but I’m black and never felt more welcomed than I did in the mountains. Real good people that way

[@bye92]

@@RHAK47 if only the world could read your comment. It would change people's views on the mountain people

[@PositiveLeigh]

This man has a pure and kind soul that just radiates 🥰

[@Jake-cv2mc]

the way he lights up when asked about his friends is nothing short of tear jerking.

[@franksflytraps]

im fascinated with these Appalachian people stories.

[@lindsaycordova91]

I am too! I’ve lived in Kentucky my whole life and don’t venture to Eastern Kentucky ever. I live in Louisville and it seems like a whole other world compared to most of the state.

[@coolkittymama1977]

I live in the Appalachian region too and these people are very interesting for sure. Mountain folks are just different. They're not all hillbillies, but you don't have to look far to find some. Honestly, they can be some of the nicest people and they can get very creative. Hang around some of these cats and you can learn so much you never knew before. I absolutely love it here!!

[@ottelisezipporah-isadora8070]

I am, too.

[@lamusiquedeflute]

I love your work Mark! These videos from Appalachia are fascinating! We are learning about an America population that so little of us know of thanks to you! If it fits into your artistic vision, it would be so great to see more videos from this region. Best wishes from Paris, France!

[@gilliecline]

Same!!!

[@tortugabob]

The Scot[ch]-Irish people of Appalachian are a fiercely independent people. This man is a prime example. At Valley Forge when his army was freezing and hungry George Washington said and I quote: “If all else fails, I will retreat up the valley of Virginia, plant my flag on the Blue Ridge, rally around the Scot[ch]-Irish of that region and make my last stand for liberty amongst a people who will never submit to British tyranny whilst there is a man left to draw a trigger.” That says it all.

[@roddymcniven8734]

Hi, being a Scot myself I’d just like to point out that scotch is a drink, the Sots Irish is the correct terminology, but yeah, hardy folks. Peace 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

[@tortugabob]

@@roddymcniven8734 In the USA we would say Scotch-Irish but I see your point. I'll edit it. I'm assuming that the second time you typed 'Scot' you didn't mean to type ''Sot'. In the USA the word 'sot' would mean a drunk. Thank you.

[@roddymcniven8734]

@@tortugabob haha, I never even noticed. I might have had a beer 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

[@onenoodles]

Bit of Brit bashing never goes amiss ... happy top gloss over the 'slave' abude though ... classic

[@tortugabob]

@@onenoodles Speak the Queen's English and we might be able to understand "happy top gloss over the 'slave abude though ..... classic."

[@clairejacobson5117]

"I'm a by myself person" Elmer is the cutest and most prideful person

[@JP-in-OH]

This is a tough place to live and a rough life. But this man is genuinely happy. He’s honest, humble, hard-working, god fearing and respectful. People can learn so much from this man. I’m sorry about the loss of your wife. God bless you.

[@littleteethkeith]

Here’s what I love about mountain people. They all say I don’t mess with anyone and nobody messes with me.

[@SweWince]

Still they all seem to get messed with

[@terri6342]

Love, truth, loyalty, backing up your word, standing tall, being there in tines of trouble, that's the life. 😇💯💘👍

[@Peopleofthesun386]

@@terri6342 You dont need to live in the mountain to learn that

[@terri6342]

@@Peopleofthesun386 true. Never said different. Just respecting the life that was depicted

[@usaisnojoke]

The way it should be everywhere.

[@patfenis7644]

If I had a chance to visit the US , I'd rather meet people like him and visit his area than be on a ride with Mickey Mouse ears on .

[@DChristina]

@david frominman - well said!

[@mftepera]

Plenty of real people worth meeting in small town USA.

[@75marklee]

david frominman I would love to meet the people of this area

[@Formerlywarmer]

good plan, I've been all over the world and pretty much every part of the US and the country folk here are the best people in the world.

[@reneweisz9157]

Well, this is the same no matter where you travel too on this planet! People that have barely anything to give will share with you whatever they have and will give you the shirt of their back and welcome you to their home.

[@thecrippledrummer]

I feel like I know him after just a few minutes. He’s what those in the south call a “good ole boy.” A hard worker who doesn’t complain or expect other people to take care of him. Sadly, people like your dad are becoming rarer and rarer.

[@wtfodessa]

Your dad is GOLD. I could listen to him talk about anything.....just seems like a great person that had had a rough life. God Bless him and his family.

[@pbessey]

Whenever I start to feel overwhelmed by the anger, hatred and hostility constantly streaming in the news, especially lately, I'm coming back here to sit down with Elmer, and feel better about the human race.

[@dwightarnold6980]

Vote 4 Trump,!

[@josephtravers777]

When you detach yourself from the 'news', you can feel peace like brother Elmer :)

[@albusandrose]

@@josephtravers777 He is the exact guy that Republicans bitch about scamming on the government. And guess what. Trump wants to stop people like this from collecting disability. So did Paul Ryan, and so does McConnell.

[@sherrycallaway6578]

I like Elmer... seems like a good and honest person living the simple life up in the beautiful mountains with family and friends... Yes...love listening to all the Appalachian stories... so interesting... Thank you!

[@josephwinkler4863]

Meth smoking Neanderthal looks like you’ve called out the devil my friend Actually I’ve never seen any prejudiced in Appalachia people

[@MarlenaNicolexo]

@Meth Smoking Neanderthal #TrailerPark No he is not. He is my daddy and he is a good GOD FEARING man.

[@MarlenaNicolexo]

@Meth Smoking Neanderthal #TrailerPark 🤣 You've been watching to many movies.

[@tracyskitchenandappalachia2954]

@@MarlenaNicolexo amen! ☺️

[@marylougeorge9890]

@@MarlenaNicolexo Sure seems like a good man.😊

[@Wutbuttonshoots]

“Trust in God.” That’s all you need. God bless this man.

[@GodinSpace]

Nah

[@mattplyler12]

What a nice, humble, simple, loving man. Bless him. We need a whole world full of people like him

[@lynnjudd9036]

Yes, we do need more people like Elmer that are well mannered, honest, not a drug addict, and a person who has been a hard worker.

[@mrrlhale]

I’m proud to be from Appalachia. People don’t understand us. What you see is what you get. I loved this video, especially when they asked Elmer if he had any regrets. None - how many people can say that.

[@s.m9241]

Appalachia VA ❤️

[@annwatson4276]

You should be proud ! Strongest and kindest people in this world .

[@michaelirwin5489]

The majority of you are descendants of Ulster Scots (modern day Northern Ireland) but have unfortunately found yourself mixed within the "Irish Diaspora" despite being a separate, albeit a similar ethnic group. So many Presidents have been descendants of Ulster!

[@darksu6947]

@@s.m9241 Me too!

[@darincurtis804]

Why are you making up this pity party. People understand you. Jesus man.

[@100texan2]

These people will survive when the rest of us can’t.

[@agnesmalloy7384]

Amen

[@luxbook]

So true. I say the same thing about the Amish community.

[@luxbook]

100% Texan Are there Amish in TX? Just curious.

[@bmphil3400]

My uncle said one time that if things got bad he would move to Alaska and live off the land. I said. " Do you live off the land now?". He said no.... So I said...." Then how are you going to suddenly start living off the land when it's really bad?"

[@100texan2]

@74 CYCLES if the shoe fits...

[@melissaturner2870]

This man has a heart of gold. Like many Appalachian people he is honest, kind, and just himself. He is what he is. He is not a put on or a show off. I love their hearts and their souls. They will never leave the mountains and hollars because it’s “they’re “ life. He has more treasures than a king. The lord will look upon him and welcome him with open arms into his kingdom ❤️

[@LToddThomas]

What a wonderful voice and kind, calm mannerism. Bless him. I would listen to him for hours.

[@eddiecoyle9152]

*What I like best about the interviews with the Appalachian folks is that they have manners and hardly ever use curse words which is a quality I admire.*

[@fbomb11967]

I have more respect for this man than he will ever know.

[@barbaramuzychka3836]

I just love this man. Just so kind and full of common sense. I believe his two children will always be good people, with a man like that as an example. I wish him joy.

[@dalerobinson3184]

God bless your father. He reminds me of my Grandfather. Who raised me. Country life cant be beat. I have many memories of my child hood. And thay are all good. IM PROUD TO BE FROM THE BACK WOODS OF GEORGIA. WHERE A HANDSHAKE WAS ALL YOU NEEDED. BUT TIMES ARE SO DIFFERENT TO DAY. MISS THEM OLD DAYS. WITH GRANDPA.

[@TammyTellMeTru]

What a gentle soul. I hope his health improves.

[@radomperson7513]

The way he instantly says "no" when asked if he has any regrets put the biggest smile on my face. i wish this man all of the joy in the world. God bless this man

[@suzieq1218]

I just love these Appalachian people. Simple, good, hardworking Americans minding their own business while doing the best they can with what they have. What a breath of fresh air from all goings on in the U.S. today.

[@francisphillips53]

Amen.. Well said.

[@JustinFaiLz]

@@francisphillips53 agreed that was poggers he said it perfectly and I kreygasm'd , and then PepeSmoke

[@patrickkillabrew6207]

This dude isn’t working. He’s living on welfare.

[@dc4457]

@@patrickkillabrew6207 No, he's living on disability. There's a difference. Welfare is for people who could work but either can't find a job or don't want to. Disability is for people who worked at logging and hauling coal until the job broke their bodies and they can't do the work they have the education for.

[@escapetherace1943]

@@dc4457 yup, the man payed his taxes for it too there's a huge difference

[@Bigrudd72]

I’m from eastern Ky and work in the coal mines. Hard place to survive in but we do alright. We work hard and enjoy our lives. If everyone could live a simple life like Elmer, we’d be better off in this world.

[@halwhitlock3431]

Watching this interview gave me hope that there are still some real and genuinely good people out there. Your dad has some things that many folks are missing today: character, honesty and humility. Thank you for sharing this; trust me, your dad has qualities that all men should learn and embrace.

[@sombergirl2886]

Elmer seems like a very good man with a big heart. There needs to be more people like him I wouldn't mind having him as a friend

[@DelaV3]

I live in East TN. Most of these people have nothing but would give you the shirt of their back if you needed it more than them.

[@MarlenaNicolexo]

He would definitely be your friend. He enjoys ppls company.

[@ritajimmie3361]

Yes same @Somber Girl

[@hj6507]

Wow 55... I thought he looked easily 20 years older... a life well lived, beaten by the sun and the weather and hard work. Most of society is so vain, but who can really smile the genuine way Elmer smiles when he speaks of the land that he calls home?

[@jessicaellina3878]

Hey Marley! Late to the party,,, just seen your Dad,s video... l hope he is in good health... read your comments. Your Dad is a star! A pure soul and richer than any billionaire because he has a good heart and never once said a bad word about anyone or anything... you sound like a great family and very close ... so sorry for your past sorrows. Sending you all my very best wishes from the UK!! 💗👍😃

[@MarlenaNicolexo]

Hi. He's not doing very well health wise. Spirit wise hes fabulous. He has to has assistance 24/7 now. Thank you for your kind words.

[@brad6523]

I was surprised when he said he was only 55. You can tell he’s had a lot of years of tough living. Not an ounce of victimhood or regret in him though. We all can a learn from this man.

[@OrdinaryBean]

Of all the interviews you've ever done, Mark, this is my favorite. What a nice man. He knows the value of work. Happy with what he has. Good stuff.

[@anthonytestaforte1692]

This man has God in his heart.

[@abccoy]

It's a blessing to be able to be happy with what you have.

[@ShinyFlakesShinyFlakes]

@Diane Britto Hi Diane, want to go on a date?

[@powderandpaint14]

These are the people who would survive a zombie apocalypse.

[@claytonatkinson865]

Only thing is he might run out of ammo. Lots of old guys like him just keep a box or two and it generally lasts a good while.

[@porschaaaislitty9692]

, your dad is an incredible dad well-mannered when he talks you could sell he's real respectful and he wouldn't harm or soul. Be proud of your dad he did the best he could and raised you well. A very nice man and I'm sorry that is not doing well

[@carlamau4770]

These interviews with folks like your dad are so incredible. I really respect the people like your dad who maintain such a good attitude in spite of how difficult their lives are. He's lucky to have you, and I'm glad you live him so much. Both of you are wonderful. I've really gained an appreciation for appalachian people.

[@jasonfoust8499]

This man has more than some millionaires. He’s actually happy with himself. He is pure and can live off the land

[@johnbutler6430]

This.

[@albusandrose]

I am sure he works hard gardening, hunting, and fishing, but he is not "living off the land" if he is collecting a disability check. And guess what. Republicans want to get rid of disability.

albusandrose guess what; Biden’s policies just put more hardworking blue collar Americans out of work the second day in office. The poor just keep getting poorer thanks to the DNC. Lest we forget, LBJ’s “Great Society” show cased this area of the country. Damn near 60 years later, these people are no better off (actually WORSE off) ... spare us the fear mongering.

[@buttercatz99]

@ Ya, right. More lies. LIke Trump won the election right?

[@americangunslinger2475]

@@buttercatz99 like Biden getting more votes than Obama did?

[@arleatham]

Content with $1100 a month and a trip to Florida or Myrtle beach once a year. These interviews always help me keep things in perspective, teach myself to be more compassionate, and be grateful for what I have. Thank you Mark, for giving us these.

[@illiadmcswain3956]

Yup...there's a lot of us around, not just in the Appalachians, and the factory jobs died, ( thanks, Ronald Regan👍👍...) ...so I learnt construction...had to adapt.

[@nonyabeezwax8693]

Shoot he gets more then me,

[@rhondafernandez1519]

What an amazing man he is! Reminds me of my mom, dad and grandparents! A pure soul with a heart of gold. I would be honored to be able to sit and chat with him for a while.

[@johnnycole7990]

I can close my eyes and listen to him talk and it reminds me of when I was a child..... Makes me feel good.... I've lost touch with that part of myself, that I'm not so proud of.... I think I would be happier with more Good people like that in my life

[@laurafleming597]

He has smiling eyes and a gentle presence.

[@scoobyroorogers]

People like this are truly "Salt of the earth". A true gentleman , and someone I could talk to for hours. So nice to hear him say "no regrets" Awesome man.

[@misst1586]

Scooby. One of my favorite points too. Just to say no regrets

[@katherinegilmour181]

What would the world be without salt- bland, boring & tasteless- our palate would have no yearning for anything as most isn't appeasing. Can't just eat fruit right? Such a wholesome saying- not many folk can have that said about them can they?

[@Neosapien11]

I'd love to spend a week out there with this guy. I enjoy listening to people's stories, and from what his daughter says in the comment section, he'd have a lot of stories to tell. Seems like a really good person.

[@mickayla9879]

Elmer is so kind hearted such a good soul, he reminds me of my dad he works hard for everything we have even if its not a lot and he couldn’t be happier and more kind hearted

[@seelye1221]

elmer , your the richest man in the world . god bless you .

[@PositiveLeigh]

He truly is! ♥️

[@bassin692]

*I am Appalachia.* My Wife also lives in Heaven. She and I were together 38 years and I look forward to being by her side again. EDIT: *These are my People*

[@phaonthomas6094]

Man is polite, respectful, honest, and considerate. Elmer is good people

[@aggierach03]

I love the sincerity and honesty of this man. He’s so kind and humble and I just adore him

[@JB-hl1qx]

When sht hits the fan .. THESE are the folks you want on your side.

[@roughroosterknifesharpenin5531]

I'm a southern man, I've said for years the people will flood the hills when shit goes bad. And they are

[@JB-hl1qx]

@@roughroosterknifesharpenin5531 you got that right!

[@buttercatz99]

Nope. Poor. Likely racist as hell too.

[@roughroosterknifesharpenin5531]

@@buttercatz99 A ignorant opinion.

[@roughroosterknifesharpenin5531]

@@buttercatz99 Guarantee you're a biden supporter.

[@lifeonsibuyanphilippines7212]

Dude, slow down. ..quit interrupting him and let him answer.

[@tennesseesawmillguy1590]

Right. He talks wayyy to fast for this gig.

[@ventule]

we're southerners, we talk slow. I have no idea why we do.

[@darksu6947]

@@ventule Because we're never in a hurry down here!

[@elaineprice3484]

Mark Laita, the interviewer needs to go back to where he came from, he has no business talking to mountain people.

[@darksu6947]

@@elaineprice3484 that's an odd thing to say. I am a mountain people lol and I don't understand why you feel that way. What makes you say that?

[@megg.6651]

Thank you for doing this interview. I wish more people had this man's attitude and disposition.

[@shepdawg66]

Just found this channel a few days ago and have watched several of these interviews. Elmer is far and away, my favorite. Just a good, solid dude.

[@Ahmed-Osman76]

I'm from Egypt .. I love these country people .. i love people who had tough life and yet they keep working hard and surviving and never give up .. and also remain grateful and humble .. and I love thier accent too . I became addicted to your channel and all the these interviews . You are a good interviewer .

[@rev1910]

Great comment Ahmed, I agree

[@cccCCCccc123ccc]

Ahlan sadiqi. I was born and raised in the south. I lived in Appalachian mountains for many years also. I have many friends in Egypt. The cultures are very similar in many ways.

[@christopherahler4674]

Hello, I wanted to respond to you because I have a friend, a family actually, who are from Cairo and they lived very close to this man in a town called Harlan, KY. The father was a physician named Dr. Samir Guindi. He was educated and medically trained in the UK and moved to Harlan with his wife Laila and their sons Alfi and Sherif in the late 70's. Dr. Guindi is a legend in Harlan. He retired in 2020 at the age of 80. I'm HONORED to know them and consider myself a close friend of the family. I'm from rural east TN and I had the fortune of meeting Alfi at a private school in Knoxville in the mid 80's. We have been friends since age 13 and he just purchased my father's childhood home here in my home town. It's amazing how things happen. Thanks for your kind words about people from Appalachia. They are kind, tough, genuine, and truly amazing people. They ask for nothing and do not complain to anyone. I'm blessed to come from this region and strive to be more like Elmer....genuine, kind, resilient, and humble.

[@Ahmed-Osman76]

@@cccCCCccc123ccc ahlan wa sahlan akhi/sadiquie ..it's nice to know that there are people who lived in Appalachian mountains and know about Egypt .. wish you all the best ... Peace be upon you and all Appalachians 😊

[@Ahmed-Osman76]

@@christopherahler4674 hello .. thanks for your response..nice to know that ..I think Egyptians usually can easily adapt living with other societies ..specially when they are living with nice society and kind people like Appalachians .. seriously it is a dream for me to visit these places .. and get to know thier culture ... God bless you all

[@lawrentw]

I grew up in VA. I can honestly say these are the some of the kindest, hardest working people you will ever meet. They will give you the shirt off of their back, their only shirt. These areas need education, compassion, and understanding. Thank you for this! These folks love the simple life and should be able to live the way they want.

[@drdwgmd14]

Lauren Hope you are beautiful

[@ultrashortbus]

Joined the military in '02 and my first supervisor was from WV; he was a good dude and true leader. Looking back, I don't think I ever met anyone from WV or VA who I didn't like. A couple people from CT needed to be slapped around. The ones from NJ were a bit crazy but I kinda respected them.

[@lawrentw]

@@drdwgmd14 aw. Thank you. That's very kind.

[@lawrentw]

@@ultrashortbus I've lived in several other places and I always come back to VA. It's a beautiful state with wonderful people!

[@tweedjohnny8740]

This was a very touching video. I pray Elmer is doing well and is still at peace.

[@sashly99]

The world needs more good ole country boys like this man! There would be a lot less nonsense!

[@genghiskhan7041]

And a lot less science, engineering, technology, medicine, etc...

[@DavidJONES-ue3ye]

Truth. Nothing wrong with living simple, honest.

[@wandacolburn500]

I Agree, Whole heartedly. If only our legislators had half the character that Elmer has, this country would be in great shape! Also thank you for the interview Elmer. You remind me so much of my late father, from Alabama

[@patriciaanne7932]

Not too many people can say they've lived their life with no regrets. A good, honest man.

[@banditY2K]

The interviewer needs to speak slower and let the subject finish their thought. This ain't Brooklyn dude.

[@Brickcellent]

Agree. So hard to understand what he is saying especially if you aren't American.

[@Alb-fx9hq]

Think you should just be thankfull he is doing these videos for all of you, twats

[@banditY2K]

@@Alb-fx9hq Being a good presenter is part of the package dude. Have you heard of constructive criticism? I guess not.

[@stevenhair3250]

He’s can talk and handle himself don’t go feeling bad for others. That don’t want it.

[@jonahledesma]

@@stevenhair3250 truth

[@corinnetraynor1272]

I love these interviews! It’s nice to see people who aren’t jaded by material possessions or ego !

[@MrCoolguy1988]

The hat in his hands shows the respect this man has for who ever he is talking to. Reminds me of my family. we didnt have much but we had love

[@jacobtait6403]

“Weed is a herb not a drug”. Facts Elmer much love ❤️

[@bman6065]

It's definitely a drug. But if you're whole community is taken by cheap meth, I could see that influencing one's opinion.

[@joshjames582]

@@bman6065 Forrest Gump voice "Maybe...maybe it's both?"

[@bman6065]

@@joshjames582 Forrest Gump applies to everything in life

[@jamesmackes4531]

@@bman6065 How is he in any way worse off if we can demonstrably see that he is living an incredibly wholesome existence with this """""drug""""" included?

[@jamesmackes4531]

@@bman6065 It's definitely not a drug. But if you're entire knowledge on the subject is founded on things dictated to you and fearmongering, I could see that influencing one's opinion.

[@stephaniez.4183]

When asked if he was a religious man, his response was “No, but I believe in God” kind of touched me in the feels. He seems like a very happy, confident, and humble man. He smiled through the entire interview, even removed his hat! Like another poster @terryharl said, he is richer than many of us!

[@JimmyKraktov]

You don`t need a Church to have a connection to your creator.

[@ronpihl3010]

Country needs more people like Elmer in it. We’d be in a better place. Fortunately I haven’t seen anything but kind comments and can’t imagine why one would be critical. Honest, integrity, disciplined, self-sufficient. God bless.

[@kizzer6665]

My father passed away just last year. And this man reminds me so much of my father. It's great knowing people like this still exist. Such a heart warming feeling. Thank you Elmer for being what humanity needs.

[@staceycasta]

I like seeing their homestead, and the surrounding landscape of Appalachia. It's a beautiful place.

[@lobellad3237]

xo Marley I sure do hope you are reading all the loving comments to your sweet daddy, so he knows that in 10 minutes he impacted countless lives and represented Appalachia with grace, humility, dignity and honor. He reminded me of why I am PROUD to be Appalachian.

[@atticuskilby515]

This gentleman is the true example of one who is quite comfortable just being genuine, no facade. He is an inspiration to us all.

[@MrWallybones]

Hey Mark I am very drawn to your interviews because they represent the reality of so many people. It is pure honesty and I really appreciate your work. My Irish mom always told me that life is hard, and boy was she right!

[@cindyfitzgerald4500]

Thank You Mark I love hearing the stories from the Appalachian people.

[@thematriarchy2075]

Hi Cindy😀

[@cindyfitzgerald4500]

Bis vincit qui se vincit Hello to you! I hope you’re day is one of the best ones you’ve had in a long time. I so enjoy reading your comments.

[@thematriarchy2075]

@@cindyfitzgerald4500 Well thank you. I hope you are having a beautiful day, too💕✌🏼

[@justine2520]

Clean around the house and piddle about...sounds like a nice guy.

[@nexttopmodel254]

*Piddle I only know this because my mom says it all the time😅

[@justine2520]

@@albertomedina4294 No I live in Illinois.I used to vacation in the south growing up near rocky mountains. I still find my self wanting to get away its very peaceful in the south and I miss the mountains. I agree the trailer does have potential. My parents live in the same mobil home for many years made many updates to it. The older you get the harder it is to want change. Home is where the heart is.

[@justine2520]

@@nexttopmodel254 My parents southern slang still strong after 50 years. Lol

[@justine2520]

@@albertomedina4294 illinois

[@justine2520]

@@albertomedina4294 no never been to texas.

[@VLADPowder]

This man reminds me of my father a lot, I like hearing him speak it's comforting. RIP Dad

[@simplyantiquated4957]

He just warmed my heart. I really enjoyed getting to hear a little of his story. Blessings and light.