【Apple】I got pushed into the lake by my SIL at my wedding. My groom took her side, AGAIN. Bye creep!

[@melissakerber8287]

This creepy brother-sister duo is putting up red flags all over the place. I would have ended the engagement long before the wedding. Oscar doesn’t know how to treat a woman other than his sister. The amount of gaslighting going on here is sickening.

[@dymonddavis7847]

Oscar stood by his sister instead of his wife even though she dumpes the debt onto to him. Ava made the right choice on dumping this loser.

[@joancampbell1377]

Definately😅

[@DrownedInExile]

I approve of OP unblocking her ex just to gloat! There's a time and place for petty, he earned it!

[@LoveOnTheInsidex3]

Just got to that part and I agree 😂

[@elarafae3887]

I just started so I'm begging for the timestamp for a rewind loop 🤩

[@Mehp2]

Yes but she lol’s a little too much at the end. She practically ends every other text with lol.

[@hankpeterschmidt8626]

25:50

[@KCohere33]

The only way it’s acceptable to keep referring to your sister as cute is if she is five years old, lol. What Oscar was doing was creepy.

[@carolroberts4614]

I never had a brother, but I thought it weird! They're both grown up, and he calls her adorable and cute? Shouldn't they be insulting each other? That's what British siblings do, anyway!

[@DCD762]

Finally someone that agrees with me 😊

[@carolroberts4614]

It's getting worse! It has to be just the two of them at the cinema together?

[@therealmaizing5328]

@@carolroberts4614 Not only that, one of the first things he says is that he can't stop thinking about his sister. That was super creepy.

[@moonimaalam1127]

I have an older brother who calls me dumbface from when I was a pre teen. No brother refers to their sisters this way.

[@horrorfanjess29]

all the gaslighting and lack of empathy from Oscar really pisses me off Ava did the right thing dumping that loser!

[@johnpatricklim4509]

Dude has some sick fantasy with his sister....maybe that's why he defended her instead of the ex-wife....but karma strikes back....

[@joancampbell1377]

Serves him right his loss😅😅

[@journijones3253]

Oscar: You need to calm down! Everyone: That is the WORST THING to say to a woman, especially if someone you know does something to ruin one of the biggest days of her life!

[@joancampbell1377]

He's just a sick idiot his sister ewill always control his life to keep him close weird relationship😅😅

[@ewilliamson488]

I know right?

[@jaclynsanture6643]

Op should have said 'Too bad you and your sil can't Photoshop your ugly personilaities, and I Wish I can go back in time, and Stop myself From Meeting You!'

[@evabaucham9684]

I confess that I have never calmed down when being told to do so when I am angry. If anything, it only made me angrier.

[@dragonfliesnh4204]

You're soooo right! Is it the same thing when my ex-husband told me that I was cute when I was angry? Yes, it did made me even more furious than I was before! I know for sure that it would not be a person's best interest if they told me to calm down. LOL

[@anthonystevens6346]

The way Oscar talks about Erica is very disturbing. I'm not sure but I don't think that that family tree has any branches!

[@alisonelliott5117]

It's a wreath

[@absolutelyridiculous6743]

​@@alisonelliott5117These two comments are the BEST zingers!! 👌 😂

[@georgiegal6745]

Maury says "The tests say that you are 101.99% related"....

[@rachelginter3616]

Yep ! Sounds like their family tree doesn't fork..😂😂😂

[@reasbey]

Dear lord that’s funny. I think you’re 100% right.

[@MaryanneN_]

He can't stop thinking about his sister? Huh? Run away, OP!

[@joancampbell1377]

Definately red flags everwhere😢

[@rollothecat2010]

Like incestuous red flags. (Explicitly speaking.)

[@barbarajoyce6424]

@@joancampbell1377 that's not red flags that's red curtains and bed linen

[@lynnedunne6190]

A marriage not consummated can be annulled.

[@Ladywizard]

and why send in th4e marriage license BEFORE the officiant has certified the marriage

[@dragonfliesnh4204]

@@Ladywizard Because in some places and countries you have to send it in first or you're not married. The process is different from country to country, including with in the country itself if they also have local laws/processes. Where I live, you have to get the marriage license first at the local town or city hall or you aren't married. It doesn't matter if you have a wedding or not.

[@nuri00ko]

Wow this guy has romantic feelings for his own little sister, and this sister is romantically involved with her brother, that he’ll run over his own plans with fiancé’s and her feelings, and she’ll do anything to ruin the fiancés life. It’s clear as day that that these two siblings are obsessed with each other, and would push anyone away.

[@joancampbell1377]

Sick pair😅😅

[@C1984_FR]

I got that impression a minute in. The way he talked about his sister was vomit inducing.

[@dizzycrab]

Incest alert! 😮

[@arlie3334]

There relationship I do believe is illegal at least inmoral

[@raystapp4001]

Sounds like a plot from Game Of Thrones with the Lanister family.

[@tammyminder833]

Oscar is truly in love with his sister and not in a brotherly way just Despicable and disgusting and creepy

[@Donna-tk8dv]

Incest, without the sex. Creepy😮😅😮...

[@michaelgum97]

Oscar: You're just a stranger! Did he really just say that to his supposed *wife*??

[@beckyeisenhuth497]

Ten minutes in: Oscar is weird. He's just odd and his sis in no better. Run Ava, run!!

[@lindageorge8209]

Good thing there's a fast forward button, as well as a speed selection. Double time is so much more fun!

[@steveroe6771]

Not even 10 minutes in and Oscar is basically dating his own sister, and going to see a rom-com with your own sister is just creepy, especially if you're already seeing someone.

[@irenecunningham9782]

How do you “accidently” push someone in a lake?🙄

[@JayAshBranAudioScripts]

She tripped? 🤣

[@taylorslade8080]

Nudged into her?

[@brendanboomhour7606]

You do it on purpose, and proclaim it an accident, that's how

[@ladylunaginaofgames40]

Dude supports horrible sister over his own wife. *Sister dumps debt on Brother and tried to ghost him* Honestly, he should of seen it coming

[@freespirit3891]

Should have, but was too unrationally blind to see what was going on. Glad his parents did, but wish they would have spoken up sooner.

[@lindageorge8209]

Yes, he should have seen it coming...

[@sandramjrd8179]

Red flags were waving so hard a bull could see it from 10 miles away!

[@sakilynn]

I knew Erica would ruin Oscar's life, but I didn't expect her to throw her debt at him! 🤣

[@cazia9]

The entire first exchange, I legit believed that Oscar was dating Erika and Ava was his sister … RED ALERT !!!

[@Brian-ov5gi]

Ava should have dumped Oscar well before the wedding

[@doylewillis9587]

Should have applied for an enrollment

[@Canada-j6r]

They never do in any of the brother obsessed with younger sister stories

[@Canada-j6r]

@@doylewillis9587I think you mean annulment

[@dragonfliesnh4204]

@@Canada-j6r Right?! Some stories also has the roles the other way around and the one who's older also varies. It's a wonderful thing to be close to family members, but there is such a thing as TOO CLOSE! I can't imagine getting married when this is obvious.

[@ire1398]

Show me on this doll where Oscar touched you Erika

[@doloressnowden7681]

I can’t believe Ava didn’t see the red flags with Oscar and his sister, I would have dumped when he kept canceling their dates for his sister, both he and his sister got what they deserved

[@BIGBLOCK5022006]

Oscar: "I think that it's funny that my sister pushed you into a lake." Me: "Let's see if you think it's funny if I pushed your psycho sister into Lake Superior."

[@HaesslichG]

"Have a nice trip!"

[@darkmage9252]

"See you next fall."

[@dulcilass]

Nah, not Lake Superior. Why pollute a body of fresh water. Dump her in the middle if the Pacific. There are some interested sharks there.

[@tammylewis2408]

"Let's see if I can send her to Antarctica where hell freezes over"

[@carolroberts4614]

Push her out on an ice floe to the North Pole!

[@AlexRising_]

Telling someone who was shoved into a lake on their wedding day to calm down is gonna go down as well as baptizing a cat on speed.

[@stephaniewheeler4626]

HAHAHAHA great analogy!!

[@rollothecat2010]

🤣😂🤣😂🤣 I have washed cats (for allergy reasons) and it took at least two adults and at least one gets scratched or bit.

[@AlexRising_]

@@rollothecat2010 I had a cat I had to bathe semi regularly for similar reasons and he was determined to make the phrase “blood bath” very literal

[@dragonfliesnh4204]

As someone who's had many cats, it is difficult to bathe them when it's needed and I can't imagine doing it when it's on anything like speed... Yikes! LOL It's a good thing they rarely need to be bathe unless they have a medical condition or a specific types of cat like hairless ones!

[@ire1398]

I have four cats. They clean each other.

[@dolphindiver7724]

Don’t you love it when the problem always asks what the problem is? 😂

[@sonjafe]

She should have followed her first instinct and dropped him. There is a lesson there ladies and gents.

[@Andrea.S.Alvey12]

Man, Oscar's really got it bad for his sister!

[@joancampbell1377]

Yes😮😮

[@segoi11]

So many red flags. Ava even realized it but still let herself be convinced to go through with the wedding. Silly Ava. Took a dunking in a lake to make her finally walk away when she should have long before.

[@ruthdubb3274]

I love it when they throw back what the person said before at them.

[@kwams26]

5 seconds in and I feel like dude is in love with his sister.

[@Renville80]

Ava should have picked up a few copies of Flowers in the Attic and left them at Oscar’s place, her ex in laws’, and sent a copy to Erica to show what she thinks of Oscar and Erica…

[@paulagoeringer9466]

Ugh, I remember that book 🤮 perfect for them 😂

[@Ladywizard]

nah the ex in laws were cool... Dad even gave up his cake slice realizing his daughter accidentally on purpose made Ava wear hers

[@einyv]

Best part since the marriage was official she doesn't have to return the engagement ring if it was worth something, she can sell it off!

[@HaesslichG]

34:45 wow, shame that his folks were decent people who somehow got a pair of monsters. Maybe they didn't say no enough.

[@jadewilliams2398]

Okay if it's the first year of marriage , it's called an annullment Edit: What meant was that they hadn't been married long so instead of her filing for divorce, she should've annulled the marriage instead. Sorry for confusion 😕

[@shawnycoffman]

That's why we don't see them in these stories.

[@TheEmpressReborn]

​@@shawnycoffmanThere was one a few months ago.

[@frankhooper7871]

An annulment and a divorce are different, to be sure, but as divorce papers were filed it was the latter.

[@jenniferfloyd9179]

I think that depends on the state because my friend was married for 6 months her husband cheated on her with her one of her friends, but they had a 2 year old before they got married and she got married when she was pregnant with her second baby, she couldn't get her attorney to go with getting a annulment, she didn't go for alimony or anything like that she just wanted out of that marriage before her second baby arrived so she settled for a no fault divorce it still took a few months before it was finalized but thankfully she was divorced before her second baby came along she didn't have to deal with him or the drama after giving birth to her second baby, what made me mad about him ,is he looked at her and told her to tell his kids that he died that he didn't want no part of them , he told her that he had a new family now and his kids are not part of it , she didn't even take that man for child support, she said what is the point of doing that he can't hold down a job for to long and he is going to go back to jail because he won't grow up, and sure enough she was right,her family and her friends help her out alot and she is happy with some one else now and they are just waiting for the adoption process to be finalized,her new husband wanted to adopt her kids and they are getting ready to have thier first baby of thier own ,I'm so glad she got away from her first husband,I guess she was just young and love is blind, but she is wonderful mother and a great wife and her and her kids are happy, she might have been able to get annulment if she didn't already have his kid or if she wasn't pregnant of the time she was trying get one ,I really don't understand why she couldn't get it done that way but either way she got free of that loser in the end any way

[@ssjineon7032]

Honestly I would have broken up with him when he said he was takeing his sister to the movies and not me. He has a disgustingly weird relationship with his sister.

[@paden1865able]

Another creepy pair of siblings...

[@tammyminder833]

I'm glad that his mom and dad have some common sense

[@Gerilyn2003]

So sick for a brother and sister to be so into each other.

[@rosalinethomas4665]

Ava is the crazy one being with that thing, Oscar.

[@barbaracarpenter1260]

Sounds like an unnatural relationship between siblings.

[@peanutgallery4159]

This is an unhealthy relationship with his sister and the way he blames his girl for everything, she's got everything wrong, misunderstanding, misunderstood, come on dude, you need to marry your sister, creep!

[@joancampbell1377]

There suited for each other two creeps together😅

[@sailorathena17]

Agreed!

[@kurtiskoch880]

He knows that he can't so Ava is a surrogate.

[@dragonfliesnh4204]

@@kurtiskoch880 Actually, in some countries it's legal to marry your half sibling, which is TOTALLY NASTY! It's not legal anywhere to marry a full blooded sibling.

[@jonborchardt5548]

Country lyrics in play here: 🎵Your good girl's gonna go bad🎵 (Tammy Wynette) 🎵Forever's just another word that you hear young lovers say🎵 (Sawyer Brown) 🎵If this is how you act / when you give your heart away / well take it back🎵 (Reba McEntire) 🎵The grass ain't always greener on the other side🎵 (Clay Walker) 🎵It's too late to change her mind / when you're just a memory behind her🎵 (David Lee Murphy)

[@linda-0587]

The way Oscar talks about his sister….”Omg, isn’t she so adorable?! Emeh Gawd, She’s so cute!” I can’t help but have difficulty shaking the feeling that he doesn’t see his sister as a *sister….*

[@ire1398]

If my DH tried to gaslight with me he’d be confused for the rest of the week. I would mess with him so badly, get him to think he missed a deadline for something, hide his computer when he goes to take his class, take one battery out of every controller, etc ad nauseam.

[@stevebanner5609]

Good for OP, she got out of that toxicity before she was too involved…

[@annnichols3091]

Love the way that Oscar's icon is a car that looks as if it has a goofy face.

[@paulagoeringer9466]

Fitting since he has all the personality of an oil leak.

[@corvidual]

Anyone else hear the distant sound of banjos every time Oscar talks about his sister?

[@carolroberts4614]

Distant? They were in the room with me!

[@einyv]

Oscar was a walking red flag from the beginning. Anyone if you see this, run.

[@bridgetdebourgh5698]

Good Morning ☀️ Have a wonderful Sunday everyone 👋🤗

[@ajaxjohnson7999]

Good morning, Bridget!! I hope you have a swell Sunday! 👍👍😁😁

[@bridgetdebourgh5698]

@@ajaxjohnson7999 I have the four year old and one of my granddaughter's who came over to show me her puppy. It's good so far. Enjoy your day 👋🤗

[@youmadhuh6375]

Ava saw the blaring red flags and chosed to ignore them. I play second to no one except my kid(s).. I'm not playing second to no in laws or friends.. he clearly rather his sister company than hers.. let him marry his sister hun.. Erica would've got her teeth knocked out pushing me into a lake.. he doesn't have her back now, he's not gonna have it once married.. he's supposed to protect you.

[@angelfire67]

All those red flags and Ava still went ahead and married the jerk. SMH. Sounds like there's something unnatural between Oscar and his sister.

[@lindahill7315]

Good morning, everyone. This is so darn funny. Very entertaining

[@ajaxjohnson7999]

Good Sunday Morning, from Boston!! Have a great end to the weekend! 👍👍👋👋

[@bridgetdebourgh5698]

Good Morning Ajax 👋 Hope your weekend is going good. Have a wonderful Sunday 🤗

[@ajaxjohnson7999]

​@@bridgetdebourgh5698Good Morning, Bridget!! Enjoy the rest of your weekend!! 👍👍😁😁

[@bridgetdebourgh5698]

@@ajaxjohnson7999 👍👋🤗

[@tammyminder833]

Damnnnnnnn just disgusting for a brother and sister to literally be having romantic feelings for each other 🤢🤢🤮🤮

[@simoncampbell3144]

Tea should be made from boiling water to help infuse the tea leaves , boiling water on coffee burns the beans leaving a bitter taste, so really, she loves you 😅

[@agiles6483]

Seven minutes in and I am very uncomfortable with his relationship with his sister. Not to mention how creepy, insincere and even cruel he is to the girlfriend, the creepy laugh and his references about her body just add to it. She should have broke it off before the wedding when she felt uneasy about the marriage.

[@mobranch3678]

I hate when they make these women doormats at the beginning. It's not understanding, it's setting themselves up.

[@Kati_P]

If your SO threatens you with signed divorce papers take them up on their offer before they change their mind.

[@tammyminder833]

Oscar you got played by your lovely sister and now you are stuck with a $40,000 debt 😂😂

[@annecohen8927]

I have a feeling that Erica doesn’t want Ava into her brother’s life. She feels threatened and if she only feels as if she plays the role of an extremely jealous girlfriend, except that she’s just a sister who doesn’t seem to understand that the connection to her brother is like an addiction that she can’t seem to control . If only Oscar and his parents find a man for Erica to start her life with, she might not be so dependent on her brother’s countless affections for her. And of course, Ava and Oscar would have remained together in marriage for the better part of their lives.

[@etiennedevignolles7538]

OP should have called the cops for assault by Erica. And then OP should have sued her on top.

[@crislipmichelle]

Red flag…look how he talks before wedding

[@kelseygeorgia]

...And what were we supposed to come away from that ending with? I’m suddenly reminded of Russel Cane about attention-seeking social updates like “Something terrible has happened! But don’t ask me!”

[@66DoodleGal]

Shove me in a lake, ESPECIALLY on my WEDDING DAY, yeah you’re going to be picking your teeth up off the ground

[@catsncrows]

I've said this about mommy's boys but this is when you order a cheap wedding dress and mail it to their house for their upcoming wedding to the innapropriate relative

[@Mehp2]

Ava giggles a too much. Especially at the end. She practically punctuated her texts with lol.

[@arose92795]

"if you love your sister so much, maybe you should marry her"

[@irenefelix6637]

oscar is in love with her sister.

[@gdangeldth]

Just the very beginning, when he said “I can’t stop thinking about Erica.” The talks about OTHER creepy guys, apparently he doesn’t think he’s creepy?

[@mamabear918]

Didn’t have to read the comments to know how this would end, the way he talks about Erica..gross. I’m not that close to my siblings. And a week isn’t awhile!!!!! And two weeks away from your fiancée isn’t awhile… RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@petronellatomirotti3126]

The minute Oscar spoke the way he did about his sister in the beginning OP should have run a mile he obviously secretly in love with his own sister!!

[@gottathinkupanewone]

Oscar doesn't NEED a girlfriend. He already has one: Erica.

[@melissawarner6528]

There's something seriously wrong if you're that hung up on your sister and choose her over the person you're dating

[@DCD762]

This infatuation he has for his sister is really really creepy Also, this OP is very simp like

[@heatherboz]

Oscar has a very creepy obsession with his sister and Ava should have ran way before the wedding

[@marymulrooney1334]

My brother and I were never close like that. This story is Kinda creepy.

[@mx9226]

I love it when an MC decides to be petty.

[@dimandmage123]

Morning everyone

[@bridgetdebourgh5698]

Morning and enjoy your Sunday 👋🤗

[@CBMOA]

Sibling complex alert Everyone in the Apple texts that have a good relationship with their siblings: “Oscar’s delusional, there’s no way he could survive while he’s still with the psychopath that he calls his sister” Oscar: … (in total denial) “How dare you” Everyone (again): “Good thing Ava’s away from him”

[@BigRed1968]

Oscar got what he deserved

[@williamhinkle8113]

NCIS Rule of Gibbs. " If you think they're out to get you. They probably are."

[@moonimaalam1127]

Lannisters have send their regards,also Targareyens 😂

[@VickyfrenchFrench]

Ok after the first conversation I would have dumped him.

[@mriddley]

This reminds me of a song *SWEET HOME ALABAMA*

[@glorywr]

Keep the best genes in the family

[@jcarter6213]

Approved by the Habsburgs and ck2 players

[@SleepyNekroma]

From the Very start He's Gaslighting her, that wouldn't have been a good healthy marriage, it would have been a mess and likely abusive ending in divorce either way... Whoo boy Oscar needs some help and so does Erica, serves them both right tho. (Edit: I finnished the video, and really does serve Oscar and Erika right, glad that OP got out of that situation, shame she didn't get out sooner but she did and that's what matters. Funny how Oscar and Erika should get an oscar for how quickly they fell)

[@AlystraKriss]

There are a lot of red flags here Ava… hope you pay attention and ditch this creep Who is sooooo infatuated with his sister that he spends more time “dating” his sister than you!

[@aprilpatel6741]

Anybody else notice that characters names kept changing

[@ladyofthemasque]

Within the first three minutes, dude is talking like he's in love with his own sister. While caring about a sibling is important, I'd start to get rather wary at that point, and consider it a red flag if it continued...which of course it does...

[@colleenosullivan857]

Oscar seems to be in love with his sister

[@andrewthom5]

This was a very good text story. The bride was very witty and smart. Love it!

[@douglasmiller6779]

So many red flags in this relationship in the beginning

[@lynnedunne6190]

None of my brothers put me over their spouses.

[@donnarupert4926]

My brother did, he married the spawn of Satan in August 1990 😢It ruined our relationship. To this day it has NOT recovered 🥺

[@bessievazquez6174]

Erica causes trouble, pushes his new wife into the water, he takes her side, throws the filled out Divorce Papers at Ava, she turns them in, and now that they're officially divorced, he calls it a bad joke and that he didn't really mean it?! Oscar is just really messed up! Divorcing him really was the right choice. This guy's a stupid idiot, saying everything he's serious about is a joke. 😡

[@jesscharles1512]

I would have left him after he chose his sister to go to the movies with.

[@silverhammer7779]

Definitely a lot more going on here than a typical sister/brother relationship. At least Ava saw it for what it was before it got much worse and got out of that dysfunctional mess. Oscar got a healthy dose of karma, courtesy of his beloved sister, and Ava got some long-overdue revenge, too. Sometimes, karma comes from where you'd least expect it.

[@quix66hiya22]

Should’ve gotten annulment, not a divorce.

[@rolfsinkgraven]

Well dear Oscar finaly found out how his sister really was pfft.

[@pamelacharbonneau3115]

Fiance should come before sister.

[@lindageorge8209]

How did Amazon shoulders not self-defend at the wedding?

[@marvimgreene4377]

Ava honey you need to RUN!!! BIG HUGS, from Belinda Greene

[@cynstein]

I would have filed assault charges