【Apple】My husband abandoned me 14 years ago. Now he wants me to give his mistress my kidney?!?!

[@Native-Kitty]

To say that Phoebe is a doormat is an understatement. She was willing to jeopardize her life, her relationship with her sister and daughter over some dude that never gave a crap about her or his kid. Have several seats and get a clue lady!!!

[@Ladywizard]

She should have blocked him after her first refusal and him not accepting it

[@SifGreyfang]

Sabrina has more sense than her mom

[@ThePirateprincess23]

Joe had no right to call himself Sabrina's dad when he left her before she could get to know him nor did he have any right to ask his ex wife for her kidney. He even tried the "Do it for my kids" card (which I do feel sorry ONLY for the kids since they are 6 years old and are going to grow up without a mom). I'm glad that Sabrina went all Elle Woods to defend her mom.

[@tipr.999]

This story made me irrationally angry.

[@michaelgbrl22]

This ex-wife in this story is too soft.

[@BelleDede01]

Sorry, but I'm on Sabrina's side. Why should she see a deadbeat father, who abandoned his family for his side-chick. Mommy's too soft on that, even though I understand her viewpoint to not dish the deadbeat to her daughter about her father. BTW, why didn't she take child support to at least be held accountable as the bio father. That's the least he could have done. Stingy a-hole.

[@rosemcdonald3766]

Why entertain ex-husband. requesting help for his partner, do not answer his calls at all.

[@scrabt8592]

With cancer patients, hospitals won't transplant a new organ until the patient has been totally clear for three years; if there is any disease anywhere in the body, they won't even think about it Source: me (and my consultant), a kidney cancer patient now counting down to the three year mark 🎉

[@moogie42069]

Harvard law is for grad students... not freshmen. She's going to Harvard with PLANS to go to Harvard Law.

[@whistlerwind7422]

Pick, pick, pick.

[@lindahill7315]

No child support? Why dont these people take these deadbeat father to court? Can be jailed. Like that gabby.

[@sherrygrobaski7615]

It's not always that easy. My sister's ex fled the state, and got a job that paid him mostly under the table. His "check" showed $50 a week. He was ordered to pay $12.50 a month, for three kids. When she tried telling the courts he made much more, but it was under the table she was told she would have to prove it. And with him being 4 states away, pretty much impossible. The judge told her she could hire a private detective to follow him. Yeah, like a single mother with three young kids can afford to hire a private detective to track someone 4 states away. Judge just told her it wasn't their job to prove it and all they could go by was the $50 checks..

[@thecajunphoenix]

@@sherrygrobaski7615 That judge is a disgrace to the bench and probably sides with the deadbeat parents instead. Encourage your sister to dox the crap out of her deadbeat ex's refusal to pay child support on social media and dox that disgrace to the bench as well. Don't redact one single thing since it is the truth.

[@Tsmoke1414]

You don’t take the bar exam the first year of law school , that is after you graduate law school

[@rachaeladams61]

"SHE BELONGS TO ME", the way the daughter says that chills me, it makes her sound possessive of her mother.

[@IncuBB]

Nah. It's more like she declares that this is her mother. And she will not let anyone hurt her.

[@whistlerwind7422]

Under the circumstances, don't you think she has that right?

[@rachaeladams61]

@whistlerwind7422 I know but the sterness in her voice just scared me

[@ninaross211]

STILL HAVE. TIME TO. SUE 4. BACK. CHILD SUPPORT !!! DONT HAVE TO. TELL YOUR DAUGHTER !! HE OWES YOU !! NOT YOUR DAUGHTER’. YOU ALREADY TOOK CARE OF YOUR OWN. DAUGHTER

[@darkamora5123]

Actually child support is literally for the support of the child. Either of them could pursue him for unpaid child support. Probably what the daughter had in mind when she threatened them. Her mom was a doormat, she'd never have done it, and her daughter would likely tell her to pamper herself with it. She wouldn't actually want anything from her uselesspgenetic donor.

[@johnpierce1251]

Anyone can be a father but it takes someone special to be a dad

[@trishc3099]

Most of the channels doing this kind of thing have pretty much the same worn out plots over and over, but this one has some new, interesting stuff. I'm really enjoying it.

[@rebeccaanderson8365]

Screw guilt!

[@ninaross211]

KARMA !! MIGHT BE LATE !! BUT ALWAYS ON TIME !! GOTCHA !!

[@BIGBLOCK5022006]

Joe must be desperate for an appointment at Beltone since he seems to be hard of hearing after he was repeatedly told no about donating a kidney.

[@richardbassett9367]

I agree with you on that

[@natalieschannel7675]

Why didn’t she just tell him “Look Jerk.. I almost died in a car accident AND I have a rare blood type..So I’m NOT donating my kidney!”

[@deborahdebiak2293]

Metastatic CA ? No transplant…

[@Mamacat1357]

Right? According to the National Library of Medicine,to even be considered "for patients with localized cancer and treated with curative approaches, we suggest a waiting period of no more than 2 years; for those with regionally spread cancer and who are cured from the disease, a waiting period of no more than 5 years may be considered. For patients with metastatic cancers and who are in remission for more than 5 years after curative treatment, transplantation may be contemplated if there is no evidence of disease recurrence." Loren is not suitable at all.

[@Ladywizard]

especially when they only gave her 5 more years with transplant talk about bandaid on broken leg

[@sherrygrobaski7615]

Wait...it went from a liver to a kidney?

[@heatherwarner865]

This girl sounds just like my oldest, who is also protective of me, especially after my divorce.

[@foodieyumiko5593]

I'm mad annoyed Sabrina had more guts in her left pinky than her mom did in her entire body😒

[@ninaross211]

I.T. COMPANY ?? DAMN ! FATHER IS. NEVER EVER. HURT 4. MONEY 💴. NEVER EVER

[@Mama_of_a_dragon]

So many questions. Why didnt the wife sue for alimony and child support, she couldnt be that much of a doormat surely. Did the 2nd wife have cancer or problems with her kidneys? How on earth did she afford to send the kid to Harvard, did she get a scholarship or something? And why not get the kid to work? The whole thing makes no sense.

[@sophietremblay3795]

Yo the daughter is a badasss

[@sherrystearns7259]

You must leave this man and the family and never look back into contact you years later get a restraining order

[@savannahbergen4984]

Their in a hospital but are going to go to the hospital? Make it mke sense

[@BecauseWhyNot660]

So the other woman is the daughter's brother-in-laws' mother? I think he meant half-brothers' mother.🙄 Huge difference.

[@unicornjennie]

Pheobe, stop being a doormat, you should have gotten child support from the beginning. Sabrina's right her sperm donor is just that a sperm donor. Joe abandones you and your daughter then has the gall to ask you to jeopardize YOUR LIFE donating a kidney to HIS mistress. WTF do you have any pride or dignity Phoebe? Grow a pair, tell Joe HELL NO, btw how stupid is he his boys are Sabrina's half-brothers. Trying to lie to your daughter are you dumb? Why are trying to call Joe's mistress your friend?

[@sherrygrobaski7615]

Umm... Why couldnt she get a blood transfusion because she has RH- blood! Blood banks have all types of blood, except for maybe some extreamly rare types on hand.

[@darkamora5123]

Right. A-, which is what they claimed IS rare at 6% of the population...though they can also get O - (7%). However they MIGHT have misspoke and meant to say Rh Null blood (Golden Blood). There are fewer than 100 people in the entire world with it, and they can only get blood from each other. Just for the sake of the math that's roughly only 0.000000609% of the world population that has it. The issue is that it makes the Rh Null people susceptible to a LOT of diseases and they tend to have severe health issues because of it.

[@clukecluke8316]

This family is screwed up. Poor kid.

[@sorryNOTsorry11]

What the hell is with the creepy guy staring and smoking god knows what !!! It’s gross ,,,,,

[@happybakergirl1292]

"Our daughter’s brother-in-laws’ mom." Um, nooooo!!!!!! Your children by your 2nd wife are your daughter’s _stepbrothers. Your 2nd wife is your daughter’s _stepmother. What the heck. Where do these people get the nerve to ask the people they’ve wronged for more of a piece of them, an actual physical piece on top of all they’ve already robbed them of??? I think the entitled twits should suck it up and accept the hand life’s given them the same way they said their victims should. 17:20

[@whistlerwind7422]

Half brothers

[@happybakergirl1292]

@ Thanks. Half, not step re the brothers. I’m usually trying to nail my thoughts down so they’re coherent when I write the comment, but I know I might not get the bull’s-eye all the way. It doesn’t help when I’m hopping mad and want to shake somebody hoping it'll knock a screw back in place

[@joybernard7359]

What does the temperature have to do with studying? This is spose to take place in the US where most buildings have central heating. Guess you should have checked that.

[@sharonburton4846]

Just how entitled do the ex husband and his new wife think they are?? Jayyysuuusss and Sabrina has more sense then her mum ..

[@BecauseWhyNot660]

🎉 No dice! Sorry! Not sorry!😅

[@kalikeleka]

these stories get dumber and dumber everyday

[@galepotter4801]

He is Mental.

[@nco_gets_it]

because her blood was rare? Did this happen in 1124?

[@Mamacat1357]

Yeah, I had questions about the blood type statement also.

[@instigatedeye5941]

I saw the kidney bullish and clicked off, not again, this story is too overused

[@Faraklin]

Was a large part of the story missing around the 9 minute mark or was this plot just more weird than usual

[@DarkKirby8976]

Mmmmmm All I can say is that Sabrina's a unique kind of woman but she's still cool

[@bryzcrochet]

Who taught this child that only Christian’s are good? Horrid.

[@bryzcrochet]

I really don’t like the daughter. Part of it is the voice because it is usually used for a mean/entitled girl. Additionally her tone and words are pretty snotty.

[@SandraBagans]

I'm sorry but he would be paying child support even if I have to go to court for it!! He wanted my kidney for his bimbo pay up the back child support

[@pamelacharbonneau3115]

Stupid Joe.

[@darkamora5123]

Right? "I'll support you for a year..." umm no. Figure with all her jobs she makes 60 grand a year. So tell him 100 grand a year for each of the fourteen years of child support you missed...and then I'll take the compatibility test. Tell the doctor they are trying to coerce you into donating despite your own situation..."We're sorry to report she is not a good match" walk away with no guilt at all.

[@SandraBagans]

@darkamora5123 absolutely!! Sounds like a plan

[@ninaross211]

ONLY ONE YEAR !! JUST 4. NERVE TO CALL !! START THE. LAWSUIT. PROCESS !! PLEASE 🙏 PLEASE 🙏 PLEASE 🙏 PLEASE 🙏.