[Apple] My husband didn't want to spend money on my mother surgery and even disappear at her funeral

[@kentjensen4939]

Why did she marry him in the first place? He must have pulled the ultimate bait and switch; he sounds like a full narcissist.

[@jaclynsanture6643]

He is a narasstic, Maria should have Never dated, let alone 'marry' the abuvie pond scam in the first place. Now he can grow old and alone until he dies from drinking so much

[@gitajuwita25]

The wife is saying 'heartless' so many times and yet keep asking stuff from the husband 😅

[@lindasavelle1731]

Doormat. Even listening to the wife is painful. She's so servile it's sickening. Up until, of course, the unbelievable turnaround at the end. Blah.

[@RobertSmith-xp4wi]

She should send her chat history to his moms

[@cherylharris8539]

Not likely to have any kind of effect on this douche, ever.

[@jaclynsanture6643]

Yes, she really should do so, his mom needs to call him by his full name.

[@chariesmith]

yikes I don't like that kind of man who shows disrespects by not attending the funeral of my parents especially my mom. that's a red flag for me at if were op I'm gonna divorce my stupid husband at no respect for me as a wife and for his late mother in-law I don't that kind of man in my life at all.

[@OrangeReddits]

A marriage should be based on mutual and family respect by both husband and wife.

[@jaclynsanture6643]

This sexist male person, reminds me of a pond scam, who was 'married' to my aunt, my dad's sister, the guy used harassment and emetion abuse on young women, he thought it was funny, when it wasn't

[@colleenosullivan857]

Andrew is financially and emotionally abusive. What a disgusting piece of work

[@jaclynsanture6643]

He basically murdered Op's mom, and yes he is abusive

[@annmariesim1405]

one thing i hate the most is people who look down on others like they are some dream catch they are the truly worthless ones with their holier than thou attitude they may be good looking but they are truly ugly underneath

[@jaclynsanture6643]

Sexist, abusive men who talk down to others will get no where in life. Op should have said when the dirtbag said all of the things to her about her mom and being a shittly person and said frimly while she held a large cast pan 'You Never will speak to me in that tone or use harassment on another woman again, sign the papers and Get out of my life, for good, I just called the police, they will be here any minture.' The dude pales, tries to say something, but Maria glares at him, the police get to the house, knock, Op lets them in, points out her abuser, the asstet Andew, he is goes to a no nonsese trail, the jury and jugde find Andrew guilty of everything, the judge threws the book at him, Andrew is taken to prison, where he has a new big roommate.. yall know the rest

[@agiles6483]

How in the hell do women marry men like this without realizing they are unreasonable and potentially abusive.

[@loudelk99]

This guy is begging for Karma and it's going to hit him hard sooner or later.

[@jaclynsanture6643]

It will, he keeps drinking alot..

[@tasiashiraori]

Another "Me-Alpha" Beta-Male use "Obey or Divorce" card, only to backfire right at his face

[@lindadiedrich3162]

How many times does she have to say it's my mother's funeral. 12 or 15 times..

[@susanhansen1290]

He married her because he wanted an unpaid housekeeper and servant. He's more concerned with his fresh meals on time and a business meeting than the "sentimental nonsense" that is his wifes mothers' funeral.

[@ellenbacon]

Thank you for that, I agree! Yet I have the same situation 😮it’s not easy especially when a person has to ask for groceries money, and get yelled at or calling names, controlling toads! When a woman takes care of the house, cooking, baking and making sure things are done, and she doesn’t even get a thank you once in awhile, stinks😮well! They will get there’s karma isn’t nice when it’s on the other foot 😅

[@OrangeReddits]

I'm so sorry to hear that you're having the same situation. I think your children will be very happy to have a devoted mother like you.

[@trulalarkin6343]

You need to leave him honey it's not something you want to keep exposing your children to this stuff and I know being a single mom is tough but it can be done because I did it.

[@freespirit3891]

​@@trulalarkin6343success to you both in the future.

[@teresafinch7790]

Inhuman man and inhuman society that cares about money more than life.

[@OrangeReddits]

It's really a sad fact.

[@lexiburrows8127]

I don't get the 'This is MY money' business. It is the HOUSE-HOLD'S money. Where I am from, it is/was traditionally the Husband's job to work and the Wife to run the house-hold. This means that the Husband hands his entire pay-packet over to his Wife. She is the one that deals with all the house-hold expenses. After everything is calculated and taken into consideration, the Wife gives her Husband 'pocket-money.' This is the way it works. If any man does NOT do that - rare - he is despised by the women and looked down upon by the men as not being quite masculine.

[@OrangeReddits]

But some men do not want to let their wives spend their money, so they only give her a small amount. By the way, I like your place!

[@susanhansen1290]

He lists all the things he needs her to come home to do yet calls her worthless. He doesnt even listen to himself, bigger fool, he.

[@susanhansen1290]

He took a day off for the funeral but didnt go, telling her he had to work. coworkers that were there will hopefully report him for lying.

[@jyvben1520]

well "mandrew" got back to his roots, in a cave all alone ... shouting at the wall

[@mgsporty]

DIVORCE 🎉thank you😊

[@susangamble6888]

Time to think about DIVORCE.

[@Gerilyn2003]

So...she was offered, and accepted a department head, but moved to a new city and found a new job?

[@OrangeReddits]

I think you're misunderstanding some points. First, they worked at the same company and were considered promoted. However, Andrew wanted to ensure it would be him, so he persuaded his wife to resign and become a housewife. Then at her mother's funeral, the CEO knew that she needed money to pay for the surgery, so he offered her to come back to work and she agreed.

[@susanhansen1290]

She is his wife for his convenience. Nothing and no one else matters to him.

[@sophierobinson2738]

Somebody would be getting arsenic in his next cup of tea.

[@jaclynsanture6643]

Yes, Maria should have done so, because Lyle( I changed his name) basically murderd Maria's mom to get her alone, even through he had noting to do with the hit and run, still and all. He used harassment to get her to date him, she must have turned him down over and over again, he should be in prison.

[@savvystarfire6667]

You're an ugly dog!' "Because I live with a son of a bitch!" DUDE even I felt the heat from that burn!! Best come back ever!

[@margueritedavis7172]

They say love is blind. But in this case must have been a little deaf too. She couldn't lean any on him for help of any kind. And who was the selfish one here? Wasn't her. Good to get rid of this AH.

[@susangamble6888]

He never loved you DIVORCE HIM

[@mariantabaksmith6557]

Screw him, hang up and let the hospital charge the card😊

[@donyamcashburn5440]

This man deserves a wife like I was, she deserves a husband like I had. Let him get a good taste of a truly bad wife who would have laid him out cold when he walked in the door after speaking to me like that. I so would hurt him. By God's Grace, I'm a far better person now, Jackie, God rest his soul, never got to see the good that was in me. Even being a better person, this guy would bleed, for sure. Actually, she's an idiot, Jack didn't need that either.

[@lindah3803]

This womans constant begging is irritating. With all the crap hubby was saying to her, it took him ghosting her Moms funeral to wake up.

[@Trillock-hy1cf]

I thought she accepted the posh job offer at the funeral?

[@carriebennett5926]

That one conversation would be the last. He is NOBODY. How about he pay a house keeper, a cook, a personal shopper, a financialist and a concubine. He cant afford all that for sure. Hell he might have been the one responsible for his mothers demise.

[@CharitaWhite-n1o]

Ok he has proven that he doesn't care stop please she can do so much better

[@annecohen8927]

Andrew should be someone who needs to expire because he doesn’t care about his mother in law and his wife, but only himself, his powers and his money. He’s a sad example of a human being without a heart and a brain.

[@ernestinemarr3485]

I would get a damn divorce and get rid of him

[@ellenhage3611]

I don't get why any of the women in these stories got married ; or even stayed married for more that a month.

[@miriamharris-kaplan6997]

This guy is from the Middle Ages but I don’t think they had text then.

[@helenworley5903]

If you don't stop begging this nothing for anything,

[@annnichols3091]

Aw, come on -- Andrew should have become what we used to call a "skid row bum" -- sleeping in alleys and drinking whatever rotgut booze he could get from begging.

[@joannentwistle-cruz1800]

Why did you spend so much Time repeating the same thing over and over. This is boring ....

[@joeydemitro8976]

ANDREW LET HIS EGO GET THE BEST OF HIM TOO AND ANDREW KNOW THAT TOO AND ANDREW IS VERY FUNNY AND A JOKE AND A COWARD TOO AND ANDREW WILL BE EATING THOSE WORDS NOW TOO AND ANDREW YOU WERE WARNED TOO BOY AND ANDREW LISTEN UP AND LISTEN GOOD THERE TOO FRUITCAKE

[@5555522255555]

Where does all these human dinosaurs come from? Leave Them, be the asteroid!