Approaching Women

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[@Weathers20]

Know what’s crazy bro it’s the same thing here in Chicago I’m 32 but I learned at 20 how this game goes not being thirsty and being honest is the win frfr it’s chess not checkers plant the seeds and keep it pushing

[@tavarruslawson4980]

Facts brother I definitely learned early and quick

[@gmglilrodd]

I’m from da go too & they choosy asl too that’s why u gotta play yo cards right

[@NESGTorro]

These Chicago girls going 🤣🤣 just be cool

[@FordFitness334]

@@NESGTorro in Champaign they going too especially when u ain’t thirsty

[@chrishil8609]

I’m from the go to and y’all ain’t wrong. At the end of the day do you

[@blackdollars718]

Bro I move and think the same way...its mental wit these chicks like I always say...its mind games but ima master

[@richandunemployed]

Once guys start understanding that, life is way easier with women lol

[@bagley232]

As an OG I co-sign a lot of what this brother dropped. Best game I was given about approaching women was that a rejection meant “not right now” there has been numerous times where a woman that “rejected” me, I eventually kicked it with. One 🔑 he dropped was not to be thirsty another from me is you can’t take rejection personal.

[@kencruz3394]

Never saw this jawn but it popped up on my feed after being subscribed for some months. 2 minutes in and I had to hit the like already homie. Love this take always been my game to fall back and let a woman chase what she wants, not settle for what chases her.

[@MoMo-ud9ui]

I needed this one 💯I’m going through this right now

[@tringo2081]

The tables will always turn! Keep going King!!

[@sipdanation]

He is so right I do it all the time it is about psychology 💯 Stop chasing them and let them chase you. I swear you will get a better response from women. 💯

[@luhbreezy7474]

fellas i’m still applying this knowledge i’m about to give but you can avoid majority of problems with approaching women by NOT approaching and applying pimp principles. let the women chose up on YOU, look for the signals and go from there 💯

[@richandunemployed]

That’s a fendi fact ! 🔥🔥✊🏾✊🏾

[@thenewjord50]

How pimp principles work

[@GHOST-cr2je]

So basically pursuing the women that choose me

[@larunitup]

💎

[@brittneyhailey]

Man I stopped approaching men as date. But I’m friendly and we can talk friends. But I’d say notice folks patterns and environment can affect personality. At church or quiet setting makes difference

[@MrNanah38]

No one knows the secret to females, Solomon was the wisest man and he couldn't figure them out. Its all timing luck and energy of the universe. Women are complex creatures.

[@prizenshine443]

Bra their regular people you gaf too much

[@markharrison9567]

What you mean he didn’t figure them out he had over 700 wife and like 1,000 concubines. What did it said? That made you to conclude he didn’t figure them out. It said in Ecclesiastes?

[@tekfury2690]

I agree 100% with you, I'm so done done chasing women. I have all the qualities that most women are constantly complaining that they want in a man yet, I can't find a good woman to save my life. Smdh!!!

[@prizenshine443]

Stop looking for her only then she’ll find you

[@kencruz3394]

Might just be ugly homie 💔

[@YoThrash]

@@kencruz3394 😂😂

[@brittneyhailey]

Where do you go to seek women? At networking events, church,

[@zay__00]

I agree… keep leveling up and if they so happen to come back around then you then get to choose whether they’re good enough or not.

[@nardop3634]

Bruh if every man had this mentality the world would be how it should lol… I don’t understand why so many guys be so quick to give a woman attention!!!! Niggas ain’t playa no more tho. Good shi bro

[@jamaaltrashass]

tuning in from Atlanta 💯

[@Breeze2423]

I appreciate your level of honesty...I appreciate that you continually work on yourself, I appreciate your level of self awareness, I appreciate the way you speak, I appreciate the fact that you take others into consideration, I appreciate that you give others opportunity to express their truth and tell their stories, i appreciate you sharing your views and stories...I appreciate your delivery and finesse...

[@alakazam25yearsago8]

What ya toes smellin like thooo girl, I appreciate them funky feet

[@IvanTheSaint]

He ain’t lying. I didn’t know why when i was younger the chicks i wasn’t really taking toi seriously were the main ones throwing it at me it’s crazy

[@DaddyWarBucks]

Bro Right I set back like this all the time it works

[@greathieghts3314]

Just ran across this podcast lit asf 🔥 bro what sign are you because this exactly how I think and so 😂💯 always keep it playa

[@gamworldworldwide673]

Proven psychology that has worked for years ....same mindset💯

[@manifestingmillions8939]

Nice topic my brother

[@mjjacks2092]

Dope video !!! But that jacket on some playa shit🧥 raw asf 🔥

[@TheRealManChannel]

You can't lead if you are "chasing"

[@robertlubin3040]

Talk that TALK ‼️

[@money.making.mitchell]

Chasing women is a sucker move, they will put themselves in your way

[@Uglyface5590]

I can’t wait to meet this guy

[@tonrickharris7730]

thanks for the game

[@user-sf9jy4sh7n]

you should do a videos dedicated to choosing signals

[@smokeybackwoods3607]

I actually like harsh rejection Atleast she being honest with herself jus move on its the fake number giving women that i dont like if you not interested jus say that

[@wakamanrashid]

Real Gems dropped!

[@jprestovevo9NE]

this fit clean G'

[@makeendsmeetx5512]

Story of my life always been fly n fresh never pressed!

[@CarterKidd123]

I understand your POV and the men in the comments POV. I think that it comes down to self worth and true value. Most women aren't just rejecting you to be rude or hurt your feelings, sometimes we just aren't interested or we may be in relationship. They issue comes in when you as a man are feeling entitled to an explanation as to why a woman isn't interested in you. Rejection can trigger trauma and that is understood for me personally so points were made. I do think the misconception is that women don't get rejected or women are always being approached.

[@POPINTHETAPE]

All facts! I’ve naturally never been the guy to chase women. You know how many guys chased them everyday. Its been a few exceptions to where I felt I had to because the woman was attractive and seemed to match my speed. I work in a plant, so guys are racing to chase the newest woman that comes in. Me, I fall back, play my role and just like that they become curious. I’m not trying to be the loudest in the room or talk about what I have, none of what most guys do around women. It amazes me that in 2022, guys are still on the chase like crazy and haven’t figured it out.

[@outahfoolsway7604]

You must be I’m Michigan (Detroit)

[@bmbkg4266]

💯💯

[@altondickens4277]

It’s the same In Louisiana too.

[@kadeemjpearce2525]

My guy that jacket where’d you get that at king?

[@beed3410]

Well said rich but don't give up our game.

[@thewraith5471]

I already knew where he was going with this soon as he said PATIENCE

[@CocoaDollface]

Omg!! Thank you for stating that about alpha males LoL it needed to be said. FINALLY!

[@kmoney9268]

Bro you broke this down for the young men perfectly...much respect 💪

[@dustinpercell6900]

Factz.

[@flyNsmoove]

Well said cuz

[@sethuser1731]

It's the same here in New Jersey

[@kingceltheladiesman]

Ok I like this bro this one came off hella solid on Heavenly Father P

[@dadaday98]

Free game ladies

[@ryanlaingmvp3191]

Your are what you put out everything for the taking . We are the prize . We bless to have many women . Till the end come we the king

[@michaelbryant4648]

gave out straight game I needed this fuckin one telling me to stay on my gym shit and keep doing me

[@stevend.loveii7132]

I'm not gonna lie I love the podcast I do a lot of what he says I just need to be more consistent about it. But us as men need to step it up for thinking this is eye opening information. Somebody gotta say it though salute G

[@thewavechef]

Factually. This is GAME 101.

[@brannonjackson7894]

You bro where you get that jacket That jacket heat

[@Aura_glow]

Damn this is deep. 😅

[@Pj-cg2hw]

He just gave y’all da game

[@tariqueterry5045]

Tables do turn

[@freethugger3175]

Facts

[@Colt19]

🤔 damn bruh.. I’m subscribing

[@harrisonsmith6661]

13.38 spot onnnnn

[@Catfishbellyrae]

Bro look like Allen Iverson but great build king 💯

[@alantraaustin5073]

Whew the times have changed. Can’t imagine ever chasing a man. Ew

[@itsabbymarieb]

Right, not even attracted to a man that wants to be chased. 😬

[@KEDARMUSIQ]

13:45 realest sht here

[@Zoe_plug]

Facts tf🔥🔥🔥

[@amicrazy195]

Real shit

[@kevinmerritts5764]

Woman only noticed you when you become somebody otherwise you just invisible.

[@swirvfly]

true

[@RicardoStvilus]

Stay on your purpose they will magically bump back into you later 💎💯

[@jarodestevenson9001]

Facts!! They Always come back in the picture

[@dariuswray5773]

On god

[@Jerm180]

Facts bro. I they always come back.

[@Deltahairlines82]

On God it’s like that in Atlanta… my city ain’t used to be like that

[@nkosinathisitholejobe551]

My problem with crossing paths “at some point “is that she’d already been damaged. Sexually, and mentally. I don’t want that. 🤝 And you allowing her in, is you basically acknowledging that you had to come last. I’d rather dip and leave.

[@FordFitness334]

Facts

[@PEACEGOD]

I’m fucking with it … shit natural at this point living in the A to carry ourselves like this .. shit outta survival alone this how you gotta play it and move ..dope to hear reassurance being put out to the world . Keep going bro

[@noheartflip]

Moral of the story get your status up ⚔️💔

[@youngbonnetthesavage7316]

Honestly, what do men expect from us? We get approached daily by foul men. You might not be foul yourself but you also have to cut us slack. Women don’t grab men and try talking to them all the time. Men do. We then become standoffish. Naturally

[@Rell_Invests]

That’s real, but understand men are creatures of adaptability. When women set the rules to the game, men can/will figure out how to use those rules to our advantage.

[@Deltahairlines82]

I can gracefully say I’ve defeated the thirst stage… and true enough.. these lil baddies be on my sack

[@blessaries]

How so? Hit me on IG @blessaries

[@FrankAmil]

This is only a western society issues lol… 2/3 of the planet all men don’t have this problem whether they’re poor or rich

[@Iluvlasagna2]

Shit need come Boston mass because they can’t even have a conversation .. but southern yes they can hold one.

[@zee_lolaj7382]

KNEW u were A town👌🏿

[@keem7910]

OG is talking

[@zacharystallworth6373]

Cool content

[@lifestyleswitheric6361]

Rejection is normal but when you aren’t use to it it sucks . I truly hate rude women. Just because we as men try to holla doesn’t mean you have the right to be rude.

[@brittneyhailey]

Wow. Are a lot of women that rude to y’all? That’s messed up. Sorry. They prolly stressed. Id say how was your day? You look like your day been blessed? Just start without commenting on appeal or sex. Hope that helps

[@michaeltheewolf]

Fam if they were confused the messages was not meant for them. You ain’t have to explain! I’m not even giving them the 2nd time around. You didn’t want me for a reason so don’t want me cause you think I leveled up. I want a woman to want me for me. I’m not leading with anything that I can give a woman. I want her to like me for me 1st she can enjoy the benefits of being with me once we establish if you here for what she can get or she is here genuinely for me. A lot of dudes ain’t gonna understand that logic because they looking to buy what they want. It’s always better when you got somebody that wants you not that needs you🤷🏾‍♂️

[@jacquelinejackson5191]

I am Celibate and it's real. Please stop saying that women lie about this. I just turned down a Doctor in my town and he was extremely angry! I am thankful I don't use words to look good, I use them because that is my practice. If men meant any good to the women they are having sex with, this wouldn't be a problem, but if men would be honest about the real deal our black community wouldn't be in the shape its in. This is in reference to the pod cast you had with "Hardly Initiated"

[@IvanTheSaint]

I live in ATL too. He ain’t wrong some of them be rude as hell. But i just keep shooting and i love black women but it mostly be them. I usually don’t run into women being rude or scamming for dates when I’m dealing with other races even here in Atlanta.

[@lache8322]

What if the woman was going through something at the time. I don’t think men should take it so personal. I’m not chasing but I will show interest.

[@thechosenone3768]

Lol…. That’s crazy. All these different men, hollin at all these different females, at all these different times, and all the females going thru something….. that’s crazy.

[@Musicmobiles]

Church!!!!!!

[@MirLuciano464]

Dats a fact

[@CesarChavez-bn6iv]

💯🎯

[@cpow2554]

Social media has changed everything…woman say “take my ig” rather than “take my number “. It’s the younger generation of woman that act like this …I live in ATL too …When your talkin to a grown woman ..this is totally different….you will not get that reaction…these young woman feed off the attention…and they act like every man wants them and that’s not the case

[@russellantjr9278]

Yeah game know game it’s in ya bloodline powder 😂😂 rs tho

[@Drevids216]

🔥

[@K-Fetti]

Ding ding ding Until they learn otherwise they think they’re the most desirable unless they have low-self esteem

[@Kloutkulture]

This nigga can DRESS!!!

[@MrJuiceman97]

I’m striving to be wealthy and unemployed, granny has to chop something

[@mahoganylloyd511]

💯💯

[@timothydavidson5288]

🤜🏾🤛🏾

[@brittneyhailey]

The 3:10 mark I’ll say. Men are the ones that should approach us and I don’t think no one man or woman should be rude to any one. But no need to be sensitive some folks can be aggressive or condescending. Each is own. But let’s go with what you see. Men are visual, maybe change your preferences and approach different type. It’s something for everyone I believe

[@elleblue]

It's funny how long it takes guys to realize that thirst and "broadcasting" about their sexual prowess or experiences is a turnoff. The whole DM story... was that real or fabricated? Because both parties look immature and silly in that story. Enough with the games, we're adults.

[@jasmindavous280]

💯🧠

[@Yunggloryy7]

He remind me of dmx from belly

[@Leah-pf2lp]

😊..

[@cheekslord1222]

Thought o boy was Z money

[@jaymoney5276]

Some men cannot get woman no matter what game they have it real out here pimping ain't easy sometimes it spiritual too or maybe physical appearance have to do with sometimes some women like tall man

[@wetradeoptions]

🎯📈📈📈

[@colorkouture_llc]

I feel like if you wanted them in the first place. Like really wanted to be with them. You will try to get them no matter where you are in your life....because your heart is telling you to do so. What's so scary about this ladies is that you'll give it up because your feel like you messed up or lost your chance. So when the man you want finally grows. Your like damn let me get at him, Don't. But what you need to realize is that people go through their own experiences and they may view life differently or their views on relationships have changed. So now your in a situation where you're submitting and giving it up to a man that don't want you anymore! He's not playing it cool nor is he showing patience, he's just not into you boo! Be careful study your dude. Understand there is a difference and communicate about the hard topics.

[@freyathegoddess222]

Right. Cause a man will always chase what he really wants in life. You want to be the girl he wants. Not one of the several chickens throwing themselves at him that he eventually decides is okay enough, gets to put in low effort for a quick nut. As a man, why would you want a low value woman? Why would you want something that’s easy? These won’t be the women that hold you or energize you. A masculine man is one who accepts challenges in life and knows how to solve problems. It’s attractive asf when they show this in dating. But these new vibe men on they l like men more than they like women.

[@godapparelyoutube]

Maf Maffin

[@Gotkicks205]

Link up with her smash disappear and come back when you want smash again no need be bitter and reject her handle her how she would handle you it’s all a game

[@FordFitness334]

Real shit bro this what I be on.