[archive] Personality Assessment Role Play for ASMR

Hiya, sexy Sasquatches and sizzling sirens! This was a fun role play for me to make. Apologies for the outrageous background noise from my laptop fan. I actually used a bunch of noise reduction on the sound in this vid, but it's still a little loud.
The premise of this video is that you are coming into my center to participate in a research study that is analyzing a new form of personality assessment.
Here are the responses to the cards that I actually wrote out if you feel like reading them.
Train tracks card:
Okay so, hmmm. This is two best friends embarking on a journey together. They decided that they have had enough with the life that they are living and decided to just up and leave together. The scenery in the picture makes it hard to place exactly where in time it is, so I'm just gonna say that it's present day. It's present day, but they are trying to do away with their modern, average, boring lives and go on an adventure together. They only have the clothes on their backs and their friendship and are planning on walking along the train tracks until they figure out the next part of their adventure. [What are they thinking and feeling?] One of the guys, the one closer to the middle of the tracks- his mind is racing. He's pretending to pay attention to what his friend is saying, but he can't stop thinking about how terrifying this is even though it's also thrilling. He's worried about how people at home will react to his sudden disappearance and at this point is starting to reconsider their adventure. He resolves to follow through, however and doesn't turn around. The other guy is just happy to finally be spending real quality time with his best friend. [Where are they 5 years from now?] They are back in their normal day to day grind, but I don't think that they mind. They went through a change during this adventure that has lasted with them until this day. I don't think that the trip lasted long. Maybe they never really had a chance, but they learned something about themselves and something about each other that they now keep with them in every moment.
Window Staring Card:
Okay, so this woman has just finished meeting with a group of people. She had a gathering of some type. I think it was maybe her birthday, yeah her birthday party. She just turned 25 and now the weight of everything is just starting to hit her. She had a good time at the party, but was just about at her peak before people finally started leaving. This photo was taken after she had just broken down for a little bit. She wasn't really sure why, but it all became too much. Though she was surrounded by people who loved her, she felt very alone in the crowd and this is her sitting alone by the window in her apartment just trying to make sense of her feelings. [and what did she come to?] She came to the realization that she has been on autopilot. That years have slipped by and it's almost like she's waking up from a coma and not feeling completely oriented. Things are bright and loud and she just can't quite get her footing. She is longing for something to long for. I dunno.
Girl in doorway card:
This woman is standing in the entry way of a building where someone is getting married. It's funny, it kind of bring that one song to mind by the goo goo dolls, iris. "And I don't want the world to see me, cause I don't think that they'd understand." I think that she is getting some air and hiding out while come things blow over inside. There is something different about her that she is afraid of revealing to all of the other guests if she spends too much time in the thick of it, you know? [what happened before?] So right before this, she is inside dancing around with everybody and she just feels like she has a build up of tension. She feels as though there is something about her that is at risk of being revealed. She doesn't feel that she should have to hide this aspect of herself, but feels required to in this situation. She steps outside when she feels like she is starting to act strangely. [what happens after?] She sees a friend of hers that is sort of like her rock. She runs to him and gives him a hug and suddenly feels grounded, like everything was actually okay and that it's okay to be different AND a part of everyone else at the same time. She is able to go back inside without anything bad happening and people hardly even noticed she was outside. [feeling?] In this moment she feels like she doesn't want to be seen as a fraud, that she has been working so hard for a certain thing and that part of herself is at risk of breaking before everyone's eyes.

[@HeatherFeatherASMR]

This felt natural. It felt like you weren't acting at all, especially when you were discussing the responses. You took a drink, you chuckled, you thought things out, your hand movements, etc---little things that made this feel really authentic. I've always been impressed by your role plays (because you obviously know what you're doing, and you cover subject matter that isn't in other ASMR videos)---but this one felt warm too...disarming? Yup I am going with disarming. Great vid.

[@fondofU89]

You're one polite psychologist, duff. This is thoroughly relaxing.

[@duffthepsych]

+Bruce Topple Haha thanks, friend!

[@robsemicolon]

No idea why, but the gum makes this about 3000% better

[@persgodiva]

Oh goodness, this was wonderful on so many levels :D I know people have commented on it before, but the gender thing was an awesome thing to ask for, I wish Doctors in real life did that more often too! Anyways, this was highly enjoyable, thank you so much!

[@duffthepsych]

Pers Godiva well thank you for the feedback!

[@TheUncleBaron]

Pers Godiva dislikes don't show up on comments anymore

[@LyingSecret]

"Sexual orientation?" "Straight" "Race?" "Yeah I'll do anything ;D" "Not what I meant" "Oh.....sorry, assumed it was part of the same question"

[@jacoman52]

Looking and thinking about the elements of the pictures that moved me was really therapeutic. Great video!

[@TheMetallicSharpie]

I haven't watched asmr for like, a month, to get the tingles back, and I missed these videos so muchhhhhhhhhhhhhh

[@emmychum2121]

this is one of the most realistic asmr role plays i've ever watched

[@ASMRByDesign]

"Everything has happened so quickly and yet you haven't felt present in that moment." You just hit one of what I perceive as my biggest issues when it comes to actually living the life I want to. I live in a perpetual state of nostalgic reverie because I feel like my childhood ended very abruptly due to some life events. I loved this video, Robert. I really hope you do more of these as a series if they are fun for you to make. You came off so naturally and relaxed the hell out of me!

[@sydneyx5708]

I love this asmr, so unintentional. thank you so much for giving me such restful nights

[@jessicaperez5670]

OMG throwback to one of my fav asmr vids ... back to those first tingles. I can't believe Years have gone by 🌸💕

[@HazyPinkSky]

Soo I'm not all that much of a commenter on ASMR videos, but sometimes I really just feel the need to speak on how incredibly helpful these videos can be, and I'm so grateful for you in particular! The effort you put in to this RP is really astounding, especially when you realize that as an ASMRtist you are mostly just doing the internet multiple favors w/o getting anything in return. So here's me saying that you are a very gracious and lovely person, and I really appreciate all that you do! xx

[@TheNitram8]

This was amazing and keeps reminding me that youtube can be a fantastic place full of nice people creating smart and surprising content. Its weird but i feel like videos show better what sharing is that most of "real life" interactions! Anyways, thanks a lot!

[@LadyOfMetal_666]

Great video for a start. I rather enjoyed this. Unfortunately for myself, I was watching this on the screen of my iPhone, so the images weren't as clear as they would have been on a computer. What concerned me was my story for the last image. To me, it looked like a little girl standing in the doorway of an abandoned house that was haunted. Her father always warned her about the place and told her to never enter the premises. One day, the girl was walking home alone, when she heard whispers coming from inside the house, she walked into the doorway (where the photo was taken) and sees two white eyes glowing back at her. Needless to say, she disappears and is never found again. The fact that I came up with that moments before going to bed actually scares and worries me. I like the answers you read back. I might just pretend they were mine all along. Thank you for the video though :)

[@duffthepsych]

BleedForMetal69 Your response means that there is a piece of you that you have been placing off limits for fear of being consumed by it. Bring it into the light. :-p

[@Redmax86]

Your videos are always well done and fun to watch. But most of all your personality makes it all work. Thanks, Robert.

[@PsychicOracle]

It was cool how seriousface you were for this, no awkward pauses or anything

[@Giraffeliftsweights]

I think it's awesome that you can take something that you are obviously really comfortable with, and turn it into a really authentic feeling video. Awesome job, as always! :) thanks for uploading!

[@FTliaM]

Thanks for asking "self identifying gender!" That's rad, and super appreciated:)

[@duffthepsych]

Liam Bennett you know i'm all about dat spectrum

[@duffthepsych]

hahaha

[@TheUncleBaron]

Liam Bennett That's fucking stupid, there is only two genders, and you only identify with the one you are born with.

[@duffthepsych]

Thanks so much!! I definitely tried to make it feel realistic.

[@averiefuller]

I think you might be my favorite person ever.

[@duffthepsych]

Averie Fuller score.

[@duffthepsych]

Oh I'm so happy you decided to start making them! I don't think I've had the chance to check out your videos yet, but I'll be sure to stop by later on tonight!

[@MrDockss]

Just wanted to say a proper thanks for inspiring me to make these videos!

[@RIPKanyeWest]

See, this is why you're a great content creator: you actually take time out of your day to respond to your viewers, even the ones who make silly comments like myself. Much respect man.

[@duffthepsych]

Thank you very very much! I'm glad you enjoyed.

[@Jessponcsak]

I love how real your videos seem, absolutely amazing & so relaxing :)

[@junkyenters1]

Wwooaahh. Dude. You are amazing! Honestly, this is a very creative ASMR video-one of the most creative I have come across. And your voice.... OAO *whispers* I love it.

[@HAULholic]

it probably wasnt good to find your channel at 2:30 AM im addicted

[@asmrnovastar]

Soooo creative! I loved it! Thank you for this!

[@duffthepsych]

Thanks! I'm glad you let yourself kick back a bit!

[@patrickwong9814]

i refused to be relaxed by the asmr aspect of this vid bc i wanted to stay awake and learnnn! very useful tbh! thxxxxxx =]

[@johnbass584]

The first photo reminds me of stand by me.

[@duffthepsych]

John Bass Toooootally!!

[@EdwardJamesCastSly]

That was such an interesting experience, I was so into it that I forgot to get relaxed hahaha, but I enjoyed it a lot. My responses were very different from the ones you had, but the whole way in which you go over it is very interesting and very entertaining as well, great job! I watch these kind of vids all the time, and that's a one of a kind!

[@duffthepsych]

I think it's true in some cases that being removed a little bit through the internet affords people more "space" to open up or be authentic.

[@duffthepsych]

Thanks so much! I tried to make it feel real/natural.

[@duffthepsych]

I just heard a collective whisper of "you're not alone"

[@magicpandatime]

I actually love you, you're so talented with Asmr and never cease to amaze me! Wow!

[@duffthepsych]

Oh good to hear!

[@jazzyes1227]

Your videos are perfect after a long day to help me relax thank you!

[@duffthepsych]

It really depends on the context. If I was doing this for a psychotherapy client, then I would definitely bring it up. If it was more exploratory, then I would probably just discuss how it might be playing out in their life without feeling like I need to have a specific label. In most cases, you are required to provide a diagnostic interpretation in a report, so it would definitely be there.

[@toast7580]

I'm a boy, Professor Oak.

[@toast7580]

Was this me, or another Jack Saunders?

[@dorawithoutherweave8328]

Want to be friends?

[@duffthepsych]

Aw thanks a lot! :) that makes me happy to hear.

[@MrDLewis79]

I like your vids, homie. Normally, I can't listen to male asmr, but your vids are quite relaxing. A man's man doing asmr vids. *tipping my hat to you*

[@heevans94]

Still one of the best ASMR videos out there :) xx

[@duffthepsych]

Oh and to your other question. Watching people touch their faces is a huge trigger for me. I think that's why I enjoy makeup application videos and things like that.

[@duffthepsych]

Sorry to hear you didn't like that part so much. Thanks for commenting, though. I do gum chewing every so often because a ton of people have let me know that it's an effective trigger for them.

[@duffthepsych]

Yay! I'm glad the typing worked for somebody! There was plenty of it in this vid, that's for sure. Wow.. you're right about the videos... How the eff did I manage that one?

[@duffthepsych]

No worries, friend!

[@duffthepsych]

You're very welcome! I'm glad it was thought provoking for you :)

[@duffthepsych]

And comments like that make it entirely worth it. Thank you so much.

[@duffthepsych]

Happy to heart that! :)

[@Englishalc]

Incredible talent, and you always seem very prepated, which makes it seem more real. I find all of your recordings to be extremely relaxing. And you... your face... why u no single??!! :( Lol. Jk. But for real... very awesome video!

[@duffthepsych]

Raquel Smith hahaha thank you, Raquel! :D

[@myarmsretreat]

This video gave me the most tingles I think I've ever had, fantastic job! Time for a midday nap now =)

[@jennylargent8578]

Awesome video, very authentic and relaxing, you are the first male asmrtist I can listen to, most just irritate me. This is awe some.

[@duffthepsych]

Welcome home :)

[@duffthepsych]

Thank you very much!!

[@duffthepsych]

That makes me happy to hear! Thank you :) :)

[@duffthepsych]

Hahaha awesome! Thanks for letting me know what worked for you :)

[@shonyshoshony]

I am quite enjoying the background noise from your laptop, so each to their own I suppose. You are also very handsome. Love the shirt and tie :)

[@duffthepsych]

Aww thank you!!! :D

[@duffthepsych]

Thanks for the feedback! Definitely check out some of my other videos if you are interested. I do a variety of different paces w/ whispering and soft speaking.

[@duffthepsych]

Thanks for the awesome feedback, man!

[@leejohnson5003]

Great video! My only problem is when you put up the second picture I starting singing "A lonely mother gazing out of her window staring at her that she just can't touch" haha. Weird.

[@duffthepsych]

Thanks! I appreciate it :)

[@duffthepsych]

Thank you! I really appreciate that :)

[@duffthepsych]

This is serious business!

[@duffthepsych]

Thank you very much!

[@DollyWhispers]

Loved it!!

[@FAIRYSPRE]

Fab video, thank you Whispering Guy :)

[@Fab4Sunrises]

ok i don't think anybody thinks this is a big thing or anything but i very much appreciate that you included a question of gender identity in the personal file thing. I know this isn't a real survey or anything i just thought that was a decent thing to include.

[@TheUndeadArmy001]

You should really do another video like this...

[@jackballer27]

Cool video, this was relaxing and a good asmr experience, and you said some things that resounded with me, I feel like I have a lot to think about now. Wow, thankyou for opening my eyes.

[@duffthepsych]

It's a perfect song

[@TheNateNoHate]

I love this!!!

[@happyhoney2000]

back for another appointment XD

[@JacobALibra]

So you lived?

[@amymarsh7142]

Oh shit L

[@pepeja4757]

Asmr does seem like something L would watch while he "investigates cases"

[@duffthepsych]

Thank you very much :)

[@fastASMR]

Well, you are obviously very dedicated ;) I'll put you under pressure now to make an awesome video (even more awesome than your videos usually are - if that's possible) since it's your 100th :P haha jk, anything will be great!

[@jordanelijahmichael1650]

I really love the idea and your voice, but I think slowing down a bit and maybe speaking a little quieter, but I absolutely loved it and hd ease falling asleep!

[@Localcarpenter314]

Robert u r the best youtuber ever! you reply to most or all comments you deserve more subs :)

[@duffthepsych]

Haha thank you so much!

[@_foodwrap_]

This is great. A bit of background noise, but all in all a very nice video. :)

[@duffthepsych]

Awesome!! I'm glad that you got some relief :)

[@asmnotsomuchartist]

Oh my god! This is awesome! But, whenever you took a sip of water, I thought your thumb was a goldfish and I was like, "Gah! He's drinking a goldfish!" That might've been deliriousness talking, but I still kinda freaked. Lol

[@duffthepsych]

Thanks! Yeah there was quite a bit from my laptop in this one. Can't really cut it out, it's just super freakin' loud.

[@leejohnson5003]

Question: Do you benefit from the KZbinRed? I'm considering paying for it bc I listen to ASMR on my phone while I paint (which is how I help pay the bills) and realized my top 3 ASMR-its have purchasable content. I'm basically just trying to make sure I don't pay for things I'm not using meanwhile not paying for things I would use in a way that benefits the actual person not an overhead only.

[@DFCMAD77]

+Lee Griffiths well done on 40 goals this season

[@Birchyyyy]

+Robbo 😂😂

[@AnotherASMR]

KZbin Red can be great for KZbinrs who you like but hate adverts. Better than Adblockers, as they still get revenue as content creators for their viewing time by YTred subscribers.

[@LaurenOstrowskiFenton]

excellent

[@duffthepsych]

Thanks!!

[@girlrock555]

Awesome!

[@duffthepsych]

Yay!! I'm so glad. Sleep well, my friend :)

[@MsMultiawsome]

Awesome video!!!

[@heatheralwayswrites]

This was lovely!

[@duffthepsych]

thank you so much! I really appreciate it :)

[@misslilkev2]

Wonderful!!

[@ellenxo9175]

This really is a great video!! Put me off too sleep haha :-)

[@HAULholic]

I did I fell asleep on this vid Im back for round two, g'night! ;D

[@duffthepsych]

Well out of anyone, I'm not surprised that you would notice authenticity, dear friend. It's kind of your deal. Thanks for the feedback as always. I appreciate your face.

[@duffthepsych]

haha well I'm glad you "engaged" with the content :-p

[@duffthepsych]

Thanks so much :-p

[@XxAlicia11xX]

Usually guy voices aren't my thing but your voice is really relaxing :) and the role play video was different which I liked.

[@duffthepsych]

Totally read that wrong. Thanks!! :D

[@studioactivity]

no homo but i like that hair style dude clean, how do you get it done?