Are Black Women The Most Difficult To Serve?

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[@quentinwilliams6354]

Those sisters just didn't want to pay. If they aren't satisfied, then why is she still eating?

[@codybarry8204]

Aint no sisters to me. Trash.

[@powwow1968]

They were broke

[@rafaelmartell6918]

Who in your family taught your sisters to act this way? And why aren't you like your sister's.

[@Lonewolf-UP_Acts2.38]

​@@powwow1968 Hell yes they were broke, and also they should be banned from all public restaurants and other places similar.

[@lepoetress]

That kills me when people do that and they always wanna cry to the manager that the server was rude, but they were rude to staff BEFORE you had an issue with the food. We had Shrimp and Grits on our menu. The lady ordered it, but was upset that there was an egg on it, which the menu CLEARLY stated egg came with it. We had to take it back and off the check. Today, I had a teen order PLAIN pancakes, but was perplexed that she didn't get powdered sugar on them. I told her when you specifically said PLAIN, that's how we serve it. I don't know why people do that. If you say "I want it plain", WHY would YOU think we'd serve it with powdered sugar when that is NOT what you asked for?

[@brownbagtarot34]

" You eat the steak, you pay for the steak." ~ Judge Judy

[@destinydaniel4896]

YESSSS HAHAHA love Judge Judy

[@dgeneeknapp3168]

Ah! Don't pee on Judy's foot and tell her it's raining. 😂

[@hggtg]

I saw that 1 it was a good one and it's true🤔

[@tayboogie1115]

Aaaah this is exactly what I was thinking!!

[@tayboogie1115]

Aaaah this is exactly what I was thinking!!

[@frekitheravenous516]

Worst customers/Worst workers. Ashamed of nothing & offended by everything.

[@Wilomite]

Facts!

[@khristionlouvatin6874]

😂🤣

[@teegrowl5186]

Damn you hit the lotto on this 1

[@danawashington755]

More than certain your implications indicate the wrong ethnicity!

[@Wilomite]

@@danawashington755 Nope. They pretty much nailed it.

[@BIGEARL1948GAMING]

I’m married to a BW that is absolutely amazing, but even she admits that BW are the worst today. I absolutely DREAD providing services to BW!

[@chokochat]

As a black woman, its these types that give us a bad reputation. I agree 💯

[@pheadrawalker6406]

AMEN!

[@brianmoore3063]

My entire life. Women on both sides my family included.

[@ventriced7608]

I do get annoyed when I see this type of comment. Women like this don’t give us a bad name unless you accept that the actions of others is a reflection of you. As a black woman I do not accept their actions as my reflection and encourage you to do the same and correct it when you hear others saying that this makes us look bad whatever the situation may be. We have to stop generalizing ourselves and taking on the actions of others. Other races don’t do that on the level that we do so yes those women look bad trying to scam a meal but in no way does that make me look bad just because we are the same race

[@lumedeon8471]

White women don’t say the widely documented Karens give them a bad name. They don’t think the trailer trash and meth heads give them a bad name. What’s different? Whites men aren’t insecure and mentally off enough to bash white women for a living.

[@Alien-fu3lb]

Trust me!!!! When I was a server in school I ain’t gonna lie I hated taking tables with them especially with more than one black women. I just know they about to start something

[@merriemelodies7830]

Their whole intention from the start was to eat free.

[@WomenSense1]

White people do the same thing if not more!

[@propanepiff3506]

Absolutely super scum bitches

[@WomenSense1]

@@propanepiff3506 are you a server?

[@carolm798]

This is shameful! Another unsatisfied Bonehead moment.....

[@mikenelson8377]

@@carolm798 the comment isn’t wrong, Sistah! 🤣

[@hiwottamirat571]

Sis I am black and in the service industry !! It’s 100% true !! Some times they don’t even come to enjoy !! Just to give us hard time

[@MrMcmovez]

Why do you think that most of them act like this across the board

[@chilliecheesecake]

​@@MrMcmovezSociety rewards them for it.

[@MrMcmovez]

@@chilliecheesecake so the million dollar question is why are these bowling balls so fucking angry?

[@92martymar]

👏🏾

[@chilliecheesecake]

@@MrMcmovez That's not a million dollar question, any more than "why does a chimp throw its feces?" is a million dollar question. They do it because they're shit and they will always be shit.

[@Brian_1800]

I was a bartender when I was younger and black female customers were very difficult to deal with.

[@luos2000purple]

Cold part is they attacking her for telling a truth too many of us know and have observed.

[@janetamcmaster2498]

She is telling the truth and I’m a black women and I see how they act when I go out true facts

[@natalia7930]

Ignorance, no raising for "some" or "most"

[@aisha48476]

I love when racist expose themselves on public forums🙂

[@diodelvino3048]

Its cause theyre comfortable with being nasty like theyve been so the truth makes them mad uncomfortable and theyll say anything to dismiss it so they can feel comfy again. Hood black women got some of th worst attitudes. I dont give af if it makes me an "uncle tom"

[@truthfactors9958]

Yes especially if you work in Public Service.

[@sillycaveman7832]

If the food isn't great, i don't refuse to pay, i just don't come back to eat there.

[@sharontyler1130]

Exactly

[@ballershanelle]

I want eat it. Remake or refund. I dont play that anymore with 8 dollar cold hamburgers.

[@hotdrumchick]

Right! ! And I warn others about it (not in a mean way, though).

[@hotdrumchick]

@@ballershanelle I wouldn’t do remake. No telling what they’d put in it.

[@seanlawson4492]

True!

[@jgreg1661]

If I take a woman out and she's mean, unpolite ect...I know it's the last time we are going out.

[@sisterelleissachar2112]

My BW customers are the Worst! I deal with them all day, everyday on the phone at my job. They are the reason why I'm going back to school just so I don't have to deal with them anymore!

[@tiffanyhall9256]

That's a gotdamn shame. Welp, you gotta do what you gotta do.

[@supreme_vida]

Exactly leave em dusty alone.

[@gakota]

Sapphires that wake up mad about nothing, just causing drama, get the passport and leave the drama queens to the Simps.

[@teegrowl5186]

So why is it so hard for women to understand our plight

[@djdarkphador]

@@teegrowl5186 Exactly

[@abelaberdeen3757]

"I'm not gonna be able to pay for this." Honey, you "weren't able" to pay for it when you walked in.

[@TheStandardofTruthPodcast]

That is the real issue. FACTS!!!

[@bernardwilliams7740]

🤣🤣🤣

[@mad123210]

Facts I was about to say that 😂 factttt

[@boogb6766]

and steady eating the shit. id bet my next paycheck that her own cooking doesn't even come close.

[@billbixby5508]

So immediately remove the food from the table.

[@HeavyK.]

I have lost a few friends from this behavior in restaurants. I just can't break bread with someone that treats the service like crap. And I worked at Red Lobster, so I did my time.

[@pj3770]

I know what you mean.

[@Garbeaux.]

Seriously. It really shows a person’s true character.

[@QueenVashhh]

I don’t care if the services was terrible there is a way to go about things and being downright nasty is not the way. I feel for this women as a server

[@bluebellcrushedvelvet]

Correction: you have not *lost* you have *DITCHED* some friends!!

[@jillybeangaming]

I worked at bennigan's for a couple years, and I feel ya.

[@terriewoodley5503]

I am a black woman and I must agree with her. That's why I dnt go out to eat with my mom. Thas how she acts.

[@terrencemcphail5782]

damm lol

[@blackqueen5201]

Honestly it comes from the mothers

[@newmann54]

Yo momma is somewhere shaking her head at this comment...😂😂😂

[@menob6701]

“ What’s wrong with your wings?.. those Bones look like Marble” IM WEAK😭😭💀💀🎯💯

[@cjarmour7288]

😂😂😅😅😅😅

[@grandadjunior1340]

As your eating the food 😂😂😂

[@moneymikeslickwill8749]

Bro I didn’t catch it till now

[@Timtation06]

These are the same type of chick that yell about men bein broke if they're not taken to a 5-star elegant restaurant on a 1st date!😤

[@lavanderwilliams111]

Maybe that's why I didn't get many 2nd dates.

[@gmunden1]

Don't spend your hard-earned money on these horrible creatures.

[@alejandrosanchez6457]

​@@lavanderwilliams111there for the streets

[@cecemac159]

Dont even deserve it. Learn how to act. dont embarrass that men. I never seen a blk man complain about a damn thing in public to be honest. In my whole life

[@elliottexile9453]

​@@lavanderwilliams111 Oh Oh Really Really Now 2nd Date I Thought They're Goes On the Street On The 2nd Day So The 1st Day Going On The 1st Date Just Like What @TimothyWhitfield Say Those !!_?_!!

[@dels2360]

I had my nieces one summer and noticed how they were ready to attack anyone who looked at them at the market. They were disoriented by how polite and friendly I was to literally everyone. They seemed to marvel how people were ready to help me at an instant. When we left I told them respect and manners mixed with honey will get all the bees working.

[@jonj402]

🎯

[@Butterfly21423]

Exactly 💯

[@1ORiiON]

👑💯

[@neilnewton4427]

FACTS!!!

[@MW-no8vq]

You don't even need honey. Just be normal and not act out.

[@shouldershrug9582]

As a BW, I approve of this message.

[@Loveispainj]

Yall are the worse bm aren't just saying this the world is tired of bw.. the world would be much more peaceful if bw had there own country I've come to the conclusion that bw are the achiels Hill to the world its a shame

[@veche7959]

When I hear black receptionist I immediately hang up.

[@ryancambell5585]

Same lol it’s like 100% of the time you know it’s not going to work out 😆 I hang up also like I need to get a white person on the phone.

[@brucepower3429]

Lol you made my day with this comment 😂

[@keirons5098]

@@ryancambell5585why white though there are other races?

[@rosa2098]

So true. I call back to until I get someone else. They are guaranteed to be unhelpful and rude.

[@brianmeen2158]

lol god damn that’s harsh but hilarious

[@midnight.amethyst]

This happened to me once at Denny's. I was with some cousins and they ate half of the food before they decide to complain. ImLike, really arguing at DENNY'S like it was supposed to be a five-star meal. I paid, left a tip, & waited for them in the car. People work hard...treat people with kindness💜

[@deautrs79]

Sad, I’m sorry you had to deal with this

[@lavanderwilliams111]

As long as YOU were cordial and civilized towards the staff, you don't have anything to worry about, because they know that you conducted yourself in a polite manner. Piece of advice: If you really have to go anywhere with your cousins in the future, do exactly what you did again, and apologize for their misconduct. I will guarantee you that the next time you go there by yourself, you will treated with the utmost of kindness. ( the same thing you went through, I did myself with a date after the club)

[@joes.8500]

(if it was available, I'd bet they stole the tip)

[@user-tm4my4jb6d]

My friends And I were at a restaurant and when we were leaving they decided to undertip the waitress because of a I think she didn't refill their water quickly enough. They believe that under tipping someone was how you taught them how to be better at their job. I said oh but how is she know why she was being undertipped or even that she was being undertipped. You never complained You smiled in her face the entire time I didn't even know She wasn't feeling the water glasses up fast enough. You had a Coke. And you had something else. So we left I took my cash cuz I'm the poor friend up to where she was by the bar and I handed her the difference and I told her sweetie they undertipped you because you didn't feel the water glasses up fast enough but I thought you should know since you did tell us that you were a new waiter here's the difference of your tip. And I walked away. It was so embarrassed they were like oh my God I can't believe you just did that. You You so crazy oh my God you're so wild. And I was thinking that you know I'm your low class country cousin. I can't even believe you brought me out to this fancy restaurant. Lol

[@deltazero7012]

If it was good enough to eat, it's good enough to pay for. Like if there is something wrong and the manager decides to comp your meal that's one thing, but to specifically ask to not pay is ludicrous. The only time it's acceptable to refuse payment is if the food is inedible.

[@stephaniecrumpton2133]

I am a 41 year old black female. I grew up in the a rural country area. My mother and Gran parents taught me manners saying please and thank you, yes ma'am no ma'am no sir yes sir, good morning, hello , look at them when they are speaking to you. I was raised in the 80's around the older generation they didn't take no mess from you. You don't get in grown ups conversations. The point I'm trying to make is all black females aren't raised to act Getto and speak loudly and fight in public. Some of us are taught honor and respect of others time and feelings.

[@lizi1115]

Same! Thank you 🙏🏾

[@portiawhite7132]

Amen! Same here!! I have seen plenty of others be very nasty and don’t tip !

[@JanieBgrand]

Ohhhh I know that! Seems like only the squeaky wheel gets the grease. These ABWs are making a mockery of most!

[@catherinemccright1256]

Of course that's true, just as all white women weren't raised with money or a silver spoon or Abercrombie and Fitch, wonder if anyone understands that

[@michelecherek5392]

I agree. But I was raised in Milwaukee, WI and still here (46 y/o). I think it's a breakdown somewhere. Where we had hometraining, within about 8-10 years under me, I've seen some RUDE-ASS BIOTCHES, like they are better than u, and are just plain TRASH females. One of us represents our entire ethnicity, and they are an ENTIRE EMBARRASSMENT to the rest of us... SHAME ON IT ALL!!

[@breatonchick]

I worked in the restaurant biz for twenty years, and I agree with her.

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

I walk out of restaurants if there are too many black women and I am black. I used to avoid train cars with black women too when I used to take the Metro North to New York from CT.

[@brudderstyles3479]

Yeah i sadly agree, but Those jamaican/carribean chicks are bad too😂

[@Hombre_Astuto]

Wow this is alarming. I hate to say it but I noticed it as well. There are hood black men but I think they stay in the house or on the corner while all these hood black chiks like to go out a lot😂😂😂. Was in red lobster with my family and had to move because these three black chiks was talking all loud about how they have sex. My kids 10 and 7 had to hear all that. SMH.

[@jaccblikky8977]

I feel bad for you. I was a busser for a year and had to meet 2 servers in the parking lot for tip out and put hands on em.

[@janicesykes1281]

I'm a black woman and I approve this video!!!!

[@BlkLeatherWhtLace]

As a BW I agree dealing with other black women is intolerable at times, the nastiest group of women I've dealt with on a consistent basis. I've had rude interactions with women from other races BUT none more consistent and reliable than the conflict and attitude from BW...ridiculous how hype they are over nothing most times

[@brandonfitzgerald1457]

I'm sorry you went through that but you haven't seen intolerable until you have seen a Karen not get what she wants

[@modest_timing45]

​@@brandonfitzgerald1457 yes a Karen is the worst, but understand those are normally one woman and tend to be rare. Where as the case for these women is more common and can become Karen level but times the size of the group. Just sad.😮‍💨

[@YungJay216]

You know what’s crazy I’m 31 and my mother , grandma & great grandmother god bless her soul has said this my entire life but with much more profanity lol. If black men said this we hate our mama, or I’m black so I can’t say that .

[@wanmangeng5957]

As a black man, I support THIS message wholeheartedly!!

[@angelwestbrook716]

When I got my 1st job this happened so...... yea no more service jobs.

[@bkwidow8132]

She said it wasn’t of quality. I’m sorry she eating it like it was delicious. I love the waiters response “ As your eating “ We have to do better.

[@garybalranald6323]

The Rock in Get Shorty 2.

[@freshgotbeatz8594]

Factsss

[@maibalzitch4086]

He should have cleared the table at that thot's last demand. No food no meal, get out.

[@extremeresponsibility4325]

Ghetto women do ghetto things. They are for recreation use only, just don't make children with them.

[@am1nana]

Even the crown on the bone was lookin sweet .u can see how she's chewing up the cartilage tip. N that's not good?? That was a shy exposure of black folks loving chicken in the cheapest way

[@tsam3676]

The sisterhood being exposed is such a great thing to see

[@Wormanatti]

As a black man who is so pro black woman. I have to admit though my worst experiences in service have been black women.

[@deenajones9019]

You’re not pro black women if you made that comment. Unbelievable! Unless you are some omniscient being who can record every single interaction black women have had at a restaurant, your assumption is incorrect. Speak as if you have common sense.

[@zaworld1997]

@@deenajones9019 literally just made his point but ig 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@drewshell619]

When they complain and don't want to pay for it don't let them finish eating take their plates.

[@chromacorvus9651]

No you let them finish, call the cops on them because now they have to deal with you and the cops and they don't have the mental capacity to deal with it, eventually they will spit money ou

[@matthewk6731]

Just try and take the food back. They want to eat it all And not have to pay for it.

[@spicerack73]

Just my opinion: These restaurants do not want any bad publicity. We now live in fear of "cancel culture"...no one wants to seem racist, homophobic or insensitive about someone's mental health. Your company would rather you take the "L" and comp the meal, than be right and end up on the news, Instagram or WorldStar.

[@ravarga4631]

Tell them they have to pay for the service and for whatever they ate, if it is not what they expected dont eat it.

[@otisjenkinsjr.3556]

​@@chromacorvus9651 never call the cops to a bar or restaurant if you can avoid it

[@archiefair750]

Bruh, they treat non black better than their own. It's crazy

[@makizobenz2404]

Especially white men

[@tajdyer2803]

Both of you are preaching!!❤

[@mister_delight]

It’s called self-hate

[@MAMSMB]

As an ex family beauty supply owner we served black brothers and sisters for almost 20years, I confirm what that lady was preaching.

[@siya9Karib]

Damn, smh

[@specialk5340]

Jesus beauty supply shops are the fucking worse as a kid my mom would always bring me along, and every single time I went in there’s always a black woman acting a fool, being loud, or trying to steal something.

[@paulwarner5674]

As a white hairdresser dealing mainly with white clients I can assure you it's not about skin tone. It's about people trying to get something for nothing.And finding fault when it doesn't exist. I'm sure they go from salon to salon getting haircuts etc then refuse to pay..

[@clinttorres2508]

Bullshit, coward...

[@ladyseason2565]

Thank you customer service work sucks most time but the few good ones make it up for me.

[@jasmineburgess9029]

Thank you for saying this. Some people are just sad

[@laureltaft7262]

I've seen what white women do in a nail salon, it's disgusting and embarrassing.

[@clinttorres2508]

@@laureltaft7262 lol..like what..pick their nose🤣

[@jmoto1983]

They’re not even on a date and they’re still trying to get a free meal off of a guy!!

[@TheResse561]

I bet they didn’t even tip☹️

[@bhing1483]

​@@TheResse561 why tip when you can whine and dash? 🤣

[@kelvincarter5848]

this is why I don't DATE , want to be in NO SERIOUS RELATIONSHIPS or MARRY a F'ING BW bcuz U can NEVER satisfy their BLACK ASSES , ENUFF SAID

[@extremeresponsibility4325]

Ghetto women do ghetto things. They are for recreation use only, just don't make children with them.

[@NowIsTheTime.]

They might be on a date bro. Don't be fooled by, that's my home girl mess. They be having relations these days! Gotta peep the signs. In real life of course.

[@Lovergirlstudiio]

Waitress for 6 months here, in the south at that and this has been my experience! It’s disgusting.

[@ryanwhite7969]

She is NOT lying. Preach baby girl preach.

[@joebaby1975]

Many years ago, I had a west African friend who did traditional African hairstyles with braids and things. She was sooooooooo talented. I came to her shop one day to say hello and she was in tears. She explain to me that she came here for a better life and to make more money than she would where she was from. She proceeded to say that “my African sisters and brothers here don’t understand that everyone’s head is shaped differently and sometimes the patterns don’t quite match the photos they bring. apparently at least three times a week someone would demand to get her work for free or discounted and she even provided the hair. She told me that no matter how hard she tried she could never make them happy and she couldn’t wait to go back home. I think about her very often and wonder how she’s doing now.

[@dgeneeknapp3168]

I'm white and can tell you and your friend, that a LOT of women have EXTREMELY unrealistic standards and desired outcomes. I've watched women ask for hairstyles they didn't have anywhere NEARLY enough hair to accomplish. As an RN, I've experienced female patients equally as ridiculous. Ocasionally men can be pretty stupid...but not nearly as often as women. I can take care of and get along with the most crotchety old men, but cranky brawds?? 🙄😝.

[@abigailherrington9146]

God that's sad. I hope she's happier.

[@notrend204]

Africans and Black Americans are very different. One African lady I went to school with and she worked with my mom told my mom, Black Americans are just like the white Americans in her opinion😮 I realized that makes since actually.

[@eggrolll]

​@@notrend204yup...african american women are just spoiled rotten. But cry about oppression

[@shellytempleful]

These females get fake phony hair they can't even please themselves what makes them think that somebody else can please them.

[@mylifeinrealtime4271]

As a black woman, it's so upsetting that I have to gamble every time I go in a restaurant because this is the perception of me. I was taught and believe to this day you do not disrespect or act a fool to the people who are preparing and handling your food.

[@patricialoney8919]

Yes, you don't want to have anything added to your food.

[@Nicelybesttakenadvanteof]

Well try be a racist hun

[@isaacdebeila8085]

When you in countries that follow the tip system, tipping the waiter before your order will help you out a lot, learned that from a racist waiter when I was at a sales event, I learned about his work when he felt too comfortable lol.. Dude out of nowhere just said " might not like your skin colour but them black folks in my area pay good money on tips, can't put nothing in their food or we lose a good tipper" So I practiced it I give my tips in halves, I ask it the waiter who giving me food is the one who will wait on me and start from giving the tip of they are, the expectation of me giving more let's them serve better too

[@CWHolleman]

@@isaacdebeila8085 Sure..

[@jeremiahv3355]

You don't have to act a fool to resolve a issue when the service as bad.

[@prettyboy1970]

When I call a company and a sista answers the phone, I just hang up and call back to get another agent. It's just not worth the aggravation to deal with them.

[@ryancambell5585]

Same lol 😆

[@drakecarter1780]

I've been in customer service for 10 years. Every. Single. Black female customer i ever had was difficult and or threatening.

[@fredwilkins4644]

Homegirl is literally picking the meat off the bone saying its not the quality i wanted. lmao

[@lorrainenelson6982]

😒Guess she needed Extra meat on those bones 🤦🏾‍♀️..she's F O S!

[@oprahwilliams8752]

There's a line that's perfect here "if your broke then just say that"

[@detoriasmith6146]

Stay home

[@iaminevitable936]

You're*

[@Noah-bi4ll]

@@iaminevitable936 you must be one of them BW who can't admit they are garbage

[@passthecollectionplate]

@@iaminevitable936 Don’t be THAT guy

[@KymTube]

Absolutely Facts! You can Not please their ass! On no level! I said on no level!!!! Wife! Co Worker! sister! No way!!!!

[@tredagrate3686]

Real talk...

[@daniticasimmons]

She's not lying 🤷🏾‍♀️ from my experience as a business owner my worst customers are black like me🤦🏾‍♀️ and I was completely shocked and heartbroken

[@ms.und3rst00d6]

I feel you sis. I used to be a waitress in the most upscale restaurants and no one wanted to wait on them because of their nasty attitudes, bossy and aggressive manner and cheap tips. The truth is the truth! 😂😂😂

[@zee_lolaj7382]

Facts👌🏿

[@portiawhite7132]

May be truth to some of this, but I have always witnessed people running over themselves to serve other races and they leave a dollar or 2, and sometimes nothing. Is that discussed?

[@BigFamemoneystains32]

​@@portiawhite7132 Based on your comment. Its not about the Tip its about the difficulty of the customer. People want respect and cooperation over money. We as black women have to do better!!

[@mlledj22]

​@Portia White while you may get cheap tips from other races, you don't get that same attitude. There is nothing worse than being treated like crap, and ran around on top of not making money.

[@ms.und3rst00d6]

@@mlledj22 That is the truth!

[@TheSlb1984]

She’s eating what looks like chicken nuggets and French fries off the kids menu…what level of quality was she expecting 🤔.

[@xero81]

lmao

[@willmolina7395]

🤣🤣

[@camillerobinson6645]

Right! Embarrassing

[@Michael-yx5qx]

They have mastered the art of complaining. Then they get mad when the black guys want to date other people. It's crazy I know all black females not like that it's unfortunate the ones that do make others look bad.

[@CardioRoyalty]

Ask any waiter or waitress they RUN from a table of black women...first thing you gonna have to do is break the bill down 6 ways.

[@tomare6479]

There is a lot of housing instability and stress in black women’s lives. The stress is infectious. And they decided to keep the kids and placate ho culture. They couldve done one but they did both.

[@raybandz1109]

Well…. They do love their ho culture

[@Hjaelteomslag]

Always do the two bite callback! Problem solved!

[@Royalone08]

Facts they also are rude. I was a server before

[@gioluvs1893]

I thought it was just me. They are the worst customers. I'm like all other races treat me good. Black males are good customers but black women hate my fuckin guts! Like what is about me? I guess I can finally let that go seeing as how they do it to everyone, including other black women.

[@Hikari3.0]

I had a black female friend, invite me to Dennys b4, then when I refused to pay for her meal , she then complained to the manager, she didn't like the food, so the manager didn't want the headache and gave us our meal for free, it was so embarrassing, after that I stopped talking to her

[@iaminevitable936]

You did the right thing. How you invite then expect the invited to pay?? That's just a shitty person and even if you had to pay it was the best investment you could have made to get rid of such a garbage person.

[@livee7]

Our meal for free? Why didn't you pay for yourself at least?

[@Hikari3.0]

@@livee7 I offered to pay for myself but she was just screaming and yelling so much that I just wanted to get out of there

[@annierose5100]

Happened to me.. embarrassed me to death and she didn’t even tip.. so I went back in and found the waitress and tipped her.. this was when my elderly white neighbor took me out to eat. I knew she was kinda sassy but I was not expecting that

[@shareikacobbs910]

As a once server I can say she is not completely wrong.

[@carriebell3566]

Man, listen, I worked in the service industry for a year and this particular time I was having a pretty rough day, so it was a mess. A black woman who was my customer asked me “honey, are you having a bad day?” The proceeded to give me the biggest tip I ever gotten, which was 100% of the the price of her meal!

[@tschickel27]

Thank you for saying this. Some people behave badly. The internet has taught us this. I also tip extremely well.

[@junkyarddog2509]

Doubt it. Your comment was pointless, and the comment you commented on was pointless. It's just another way to dismiss how someone feels and not hold anyone accountable. Everyone knows without thinking, bw's are the most annoying and difficult people to be around.

[@carriebell3566]

@@junkyarddog2509 so it’s yours 😊

[@junkyarddog2509]

@Carrie Bell Thanks. Do you need a hug? I'm a great hugger.

[@carriebell3566]

@@junkyarddog2509 i get hugs all the time. Thanks for the offer though

[@mrcarterfx885]

As a DoorDash driver, BW are my most difficult customers for sure….they’re heavily entitled

[@dswynne]

As a person who deals with BW on the customer service level, I concur.

[@helenaduncan2310]

As a black woman who has worked in the service industry for a good part of my life...this is true!!

[@takietareyes1954]

ditto

[@randomlady5315]

As someone from South Africa it's not true. If a person is rude it will reflect them and not their race.

[@takietareyes1954]

@@randomlady5315 unfortunately, in America, where race has been used to group us by skin color, it is a fact.

[@tyali84]

@@randomlady5315 I am South African too based in the USA. I will tell you that in mannerism a Black woman in SA is way different than a Black woman in the USA. I worked in the service industry in the USA and I found it more challenging dealing with sistas here than back at home. I have nothing but love for my African American women but they do tend to be unnecessarily horrid in most situations. I do advocate for my people across the world but sometimes we have to call each other out.

[@randomlady5315]

@@tyali84 I don't know what to call it. I am a black South African, I don't know if you are black to but I think apartheid did something to some of our subconscious mind. Like black people in the service industry will always try to treat a white person better. Giving them special treatment, helping thrm first at the deli even if the black person was there first, being more sympathetic towards a white person. Slavery in American ended about 400 years ago, black Americans received civil rights I think in 1964,South Africans 1994 so we still young. Besides civil wars in many African country, we were the last to receive freedom. So I think just because we are all black, those factors should be counted including the stereotype about black Americans (angry black woman, black man being criminals and dangerous

[@corettahall4079]

I worked in a small restaurant for like 2yrs and I gotta say that bw were the most difficult people to serve. I was talking to my boss about it one day. She is Italian. She said I'm glad u said it and I didn't have to. Now Ik it's not just me.

[@extremeresponsibility4325]

Ghetto women do ghetto things. They are for recreation use only, just don't make children with them.

[@MrJgmatrix]

@Andrew O'Brien 😂😂😂 they really don’t

[@Jewls1000]

Me too and all my black co workers would be talking ab it too. They would actually get pissed when they got a table of them and go check the hostess stand to make sure it really was their turn. But of course its not all just seems to be alot.

[@redroses309]

I will pay for what I eat. But I will not go back to a restaurant that I don't think has served me quality food.

[@CA-fh5zt]

As a dental assistant I have to say that BW are the most difficult patients, so rude! Always mad and lack of manners

[@ericadudley1045]

I hate going out to eat with my family cause they constantly need stuff at the table or complaining…it’s annoying to keep having the server come to the table for stupid accommodations.

[@gordonlewis2996]

My,,,my,,,my,,,

[@hardwiredtoselfdestruction3401]

even at the drive thru...dont let the staff at the window be a bw and you have your bw in the passenger...ahh fk here we go🙄

[@codybarry8204]

My mother has NEVER worked in service. Trust me, if its not on the menu, she want to talk about it. She says the rudest things, she scoffs. She makes faces....she is SO RUDE that if I have the money *and I go out my way to usually fold up a 20, and find our server on the way out. As she tips like 10% like wtf......really it's embarrassing. Shes white. So embarrassing.

[@tamaraanthony9762]

Had a similar experience recently.

[@Patrickhashxpatty]

As a server we hate it aswell. Ask for everything at once . We got 5 other tables to please and they be taking all of our time making us go in circles. Can I have ketchup. Oh I need extra Mayo. My fork is dirty, can we have extra napkins. This doesn’t taste how I wanted it to. By then I’ve walked in circles around the restaurant 10 times and all my other tables are waiting for me. So I get no tip from the complaining table, and no tip from the other tables I’m ignoring to help the complainers. You learn as a server ya can’t make everyone happy and if they have this vibe off the bat I just don’t give good service. Not giving my time and energy for no tip. Hshs😊

[@Shauna8133]

I worked with the public and that is true. I hate renting from them, I hate going where they are. And I am a black woman! Unprofessional! No matter how much education they have, or church they attend. They have a bad attitude. If you go somewhere like a social program, and they don't like you, they won't help you.

[@92martymar]

Very Unprofessional iss so sad and Yes their level of Education makes no difference for their attitude

[@andrefranklin2346]

Agreed

[@Getcreative784]

Yup. They’re 🗑️

[@starseed2222]

My step mom used to act like this my whole childhood. Always complaining her way out of paying it was so embarrassing to go out to eat with them. She would always make a scene over stupid shit..... Not all black women are like this some of us do have class and RESPECT FOR OTHERS.

[@dfaro8453]

My ex wife was like that. Complaining about everything like we were poor and couldn’t pay. I told her one day someone gonna spit on her food. 😅

[@nicole-sg4rh]

Definitely not all black woman are like that some are but most black woman ive known or met are the nicest people ever. Every race has their problems children lol

[@NyssaOwens]

​@@dfaro8453 honestly, someone probably did. It's much more prevalent than anyone realizes, unless you've been a server in the food industry.

[@toolguyslayer1]

I would love to just have a slew of people come to my place and tell me they don't like my food that would be a first it I don't care how ignorant they are survival will instinct will kick in as soon as they take that first butt the force will be strong in that ones palette

[@ivorysteele]

That’s true. Not all black women are like this. I had to put my wife in her place. She was embarrassing me when we went out to eat

[@richardjohnson768]

I hate when they try to decide the waiter doesn’t deserve a tip, when they are not the one paying.

[@beverlygambrell5464]

I was retail management and I’ve worked in manufacturing. I have to agree because almost every time I had a problem and couldn’t talk to the person without attitude, it was a black woman.

[@tcroshon70]

You can do everything right and some will still complain. They just want something for nothing. Cardinal rule of food service:"DON'T PISS OFF THE PEOPLE BRING YOUR FOOD!

[@DE_Impeccable_Man]

You must be a prophet. Lol 💯👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@kristonjones2201]

exactly

[@craigbeats1498]

Preach I be tryna tell em. Unless you want spit in your salad dropped kick around chicken wings put back on your plate you better relax. 🤣😂

[@DE_Impeccable_Man]

@@craigbeats1498 lmao. Playing Frisbee wit you pancakes.

[@craigbeats1498]

@@DE_Impeccable_Man LOL feel me gots to be more careful

[@ymcghee40]

My sister who manages a restaurant is one of the sweetest people I know and she says the exact same thing. We got a rep ladies.

[@Noah-bi4ll]

It's not a reputation, it's worse bc it's real not just based on Statistics

[@stephj9378]

I'm black,in my 70's and I've seen similar attitudes for decades.

[@thecollector6746]

@@Noah-bi4ll

[@downbad2874]

No they have a rep you can not treat other bw a certain one based off women they’ve never met that’s dumb

[@lol-ky7fo]

​@@downbad2874 all of them complain! and what's with the hand clapping?!? annoying af!!

[@soniamartinez4499]

Working in the food industry she’s not lying. The truth is women are the most difficult to deal with.

[@jonnejal6130]

Sad to say. I work at a Hotel and it is true. We get nothing but complaints as soon as black women check in their room. We get solo black brothers travelers and they are super nice about everything.

[@snowvalkyrie]

“It’s not the quality I wanted.” As she ate half the wings and was still eating the wings while she was talking! 🤣😂🤣😂🤣

[@shawniecemcgriff5465]

I was like i know you fucking lieing!🤣🤣🤣

[@Davincicode6]

Looking dumb

[@Derick912]

With her mouth full. The audacity.

[@pistolpackinmama5090]

Exactly, and was still eating them, while complaining about them!

[@Jesslit101]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@tkerce21]

It’s so true y’all. As a black woman myself I’ve seen it time and time again. Going to dinner with friends who bring their friends it happens EVERY TIME! And it’s so embarrassing 🙈

[@thomasmitchell4128]

Imagine if a white person said this. They'd be taken out back and shot. I worked at a restaurant as a server with about 75% black staff plus me and maybe 2 other white people working. When black people would come in the black servers would refuse to wait the tables 100% of the time because they knew it would be some bullshit, and they were right. The high majority of the time they would want their meal comped and 100% of the time they didn't tip. Even when you did your best work serving, they would compliment you and tell you how great you were, but they would never, ever tip. Without fail.

[@sharnicebolling5237]

I agree, I had a friend that did this. I was so embarrassed when she did this, I left the waiter a nice tip. Hence to say, I didn't go to dinner with her again.

[@mikehoncho5360]

@@thomasmitchell4128yeah I feel that, with how common this has become, it’s really not a good look

[@patriciabuffo2036]

That's why 90 percent of the time I'll eat alone.

[@chrisbranch231]

​@@patriciabuffo2036I used to work in the restaurant industry. If a friend sends a 🍽️ plate back 😂 pay for your food 🥝 separately then leave immediately because I know what they are going to do to that new food before it comes back and and trust me you don't want to know 🤮 and if your friend has a sore throat in the next couple of days tell them to not complain about the food in the future just cook your own food at the house 🏘️

[@keishahgjackson8289]

Yes, I have an a server as well part time. I agree, women are by far the most difficult customers. We treat each other so mean 😭 I really don’t understand. When you try to be respectful, give them what they want, still! Some ppl aren’t happy no matter what 🤷🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️😫

[@dedoll7627]

I remember working as a server and being totally embarrassed at the fact that our people act this way. i was afraid to mention it to anyone out of fear they would think i think im better. it was a very terrible experience.

[@satokoratrillbeest8405]

As a black man, sister I understand. Lord, do I understand 😂🤦🏿‍♂️

[@yannicksimok1216]

🤣🤣🤣… Embarrassing…

[@youngblessed115]

She even said “I hope you get chose” like that’s a bad thing 😂😂😂😂 last time I checked that was a good thing

[@Kris-yt3uh]

TRUTH!

[@Roni-Ron]

I’m sooo sorry it’s true!! And in the service industry post office, dmv, state building many times we get the worst service by our own😒

[@TJ-um8ce]

🎯🎯🎯 Don't even get me started on the DMV! 😂🤦🏾‍♂️

[@MzWillsdbeautiful]

Definitely agree with you about them business locations. Experience it firsthand in every one of them. I just can't make sense of it either. Then don't attempt to overlook their demeanor & be a bigger person. It's like them attitudes & services escalate to even more degrading.

[@mahaliamccoy3242]

I find it’s worn like a badge of honor to be disrespectful,loud and uncooperative. I really see this in the below 30 group . It makes it hard for women who are cooperating and are able to make their needs known to get the best dining experience because it’s not about not paying it’s about being willing to compensate for my needs being met . I had service people also judge me by a few only to try to ensure on my return they are able to serve me due to good compensation for good service .

[@mazscsu]

“I’m not paying for this” “No problem. I’ll be taking that plate.”

[@riofacts8283]

Lmao

[@oldtimer5316]

What the f*ck will that do? That 304 still got a free meal!

[@chriscahill1005]

He should have that would have been awesome

[@jayknight139]

and call the police

[@mastercarpenter1970]

I would have called the cops and I would have said she don't have to pay for the chicken but she didn't eat but she going to pay for them damn bones right there

[@sheilasmith5830]

I believe her that’s those BW who can’t say good morning unless you say it first like they carting the weight of the entire world on their shoulders. I see this everyday at work they look so mean and unapproachable. As a BW I really wanna know what’s this tuff look for especially towards other BW.

[@Trish590]

I believe her. Yesterday I was in the nail salon where lots of black women reside. This lady was waiting with her daughter to be served but the attendant served someone before who came after her. I could tell she was about to go off. I turned to her softly and said he honestly probably didn’t realize you were here first. She about to snap and just leave, but I told her to go let him know before he started the other girls service. She put her baby girl down on the chair and went and spoke to him. When she came back for her daughter I asked her if it was resolved and with a calm smile she said yes. Sometimes it’s good to step in and calm things down. She was honestly probably a tired mama.

[@omens3403]

Y’all are terrible baboons

[@Aeryaunne137]

She is 100% NOT exaggerating or lying!-I despise going out to eat with my mother or sister. They are insanely picky and annoying at restaurants. I always wondered if women who were good cooks were like that when they ate out. I am not a cook, so I am usually just thankful someone else is preparing food for me. 🤔

[@karizzmatic84]

As a BW I've never treated servers, especially other BW in an insulting way, and I always over tip even when at a restaurant.

[@Noah-bi4ll]

It's not about BW as servers that is the problem. But white people are not allowed to say things like this or get called Racist by BW and BM so we just tolerate it and try not to get labeled a racist

[@pshughes7838]

As BW. I take exception to this broad sweeping statement. There are horrible customers of EVERY race, but if THIS is the overarching impression of us as BW, what energy is being given to BW when interactions occur? Ijs, let's all GIVE what we want to GET.

[@butterjujunut]

As a black woman, I was a server and bartender for many years and I'd like to say black women are the absolute hardest guests I've ever had to deal with. And usually they don't tip well. Unfortunately. It's a shame and to combat this stereotype I'm very conscious of how I treat service industry people AND I over tip.

[@cowel8734]

There is truth here. My mom is very soft, sweet, older, white Jewish lady and she had her first ever black client at her beauty spa. Right at the start she accused my mom of racism for not having black models which led to lots of complaints and nastiness and eventually the lady say she deserved it for free and said it was shit and shouldn't cost her because of racism which my mom knew was coming. It's a big problem that causes people to not even want to deal with anyone like that. I think calling it out not only stops it but separates you from those types. We all know its not all BW but it does hurt all BW because its hard to approach someone who'll most likely be cruel and call you racist for disagreeing. Its hard to want to risk being humiliated or attacked when its easier to just avoid them and talk with people who won't call me names. I hate that because it really isn't fair to good-natured, loving BW, which is why it needs to be addressed

[@duchessofautumn]

I worked at starbucks this lady is telling the stone cold truth.

[@73beetle19]

My son n law was a Manager of a restaurant. He had a big party of black people that came in and they were eating like that and complaining about their food so he talked to them and he said he would refund their money. Before they left they asked for boxes to take their leftovers out. He said that I’m sorry if the food wasn’t good enough to eat it’s not good enough to take home. He said we don’t have any boxes for you.

[@patortz4531]

The effing nerve, asking for takeout boxes

[@naiij2627]

I’m a black female, I know what you are talking about we are the worse to deal with we complain about everything, when I see to many black males and females in a store I will leave it is sad to say but I agree with you a 100%. This is for black men and women.

[@d.baileyspeaks]

Care to explore why or how to fix it? No

[@enviedeveryday2835]

This is why blk men don’t date y’all cuz y’all treat us worse than the waiter

[@MrArtVein]

​@@d.baileyspeaks can't fix broken people.

[@satinstruthers9794]

This short is about B.W. complaining about everything and that's the reason B.M. leave B.W. but you a B.W. had to put the blame on B.M. too.😒

[@damonewing6007]

You know BW are worse. Stop trying to put black men on on this.

[@PaulDogBaby]

All I’m gonna say is.. I use to be embarrassed going out to eat with my Mom, mother in law, sisters, and sister in law… Every single time they would eat half their food, and send it back. 3-4 dishes later, they still complained about something not being right. It was not their 1st time, so they know the menu. I guess they just like trying new things, but only on your dime

[@chevtheplug4928]

She ain't lying.. Felt the stress from her voice she over it

[@notthejenfrombackthen679]

I know 2 women who, whenever they go out to eat, there is ALWAYS an issue with the food

[@georgemgomez1386]

I'm a manager at a Chipotle and we had a customer come in yesterday I who decided to eat all of their food in the dining room after paying for it then try to get a refund and tell me that it was the wrong order if you know anything about Chipotle you come in and tell the person what you want and they make it in front of you I refuse to give them a refund and I was told how much of a piece of crap I was this video is absolutely correct

[@tanay728]

Did they just walk out of the store eventually ?

[@georgemgomez1386]

@@tanay728 actually they stood in the parking lot for a half hour trying to look like they were going to beat me and my employees up and when I came out there and told him I was calling the cops they finally got in their car and split people are crazy

[@tanay728]

@@georgemgomez1386 omgggggggggg.....people are crazyyyy...SERIOUSLY. It’s really concerning. Those types of people either have nothing going on upstairs or they have the wrong things going on upstairs 🧠 just weird

[@Woody-nc1ru]

Good for you for not refunding them their money..

[@alindsey1013]

That person sounds like garbage.

[@koolestmanalive]

As soon as she said she can't pay for it I would have snatched that plate from her.

[@champureturns227]

Anyone who's saying the sisters ain't the biggest reason we can't come together is a liar

[@supaman8304ify]

What's funny is even if they like everything and you give them top tier service they'll still stiff you... I had a table of black women in the restaurant after we closed one day- I had em laughing, did the whole birthday routine, one of em even gave me their phone number and they wanted me to go party with them later that night.... child when I tell you they left me like 7$ on a 200$ tab, I crumbled that number up so damn fast!

[@J_No_Cap]

They had no game. They was useless females

[@blaster42008]

Your employer should pay your out of that 200$ meal that only cost 20$ to make.... Restaurants are as bad as cobalt mine owners. 🙄

[@ramonaantone2760]

I would have done the same thing.

[@billgreathouse1913]

You should have gone out with them. Everywhere you went, you should have warned the waiting staff and bar tenders. Their night would have been tornadoe of complaints and slow service.

[@sheilacampbell2521]

​@@blaster42008 have you priced food lately?? Like at GFS or stanz or Ludwig's, then the delivery charge and the fuel surcharge.

[@JessicaSmith-vk5zz]

As a Black woman...This is EMBARRASSING... I'd never do this...🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ I'm so sorry .. Lord..

[@ZoePrevail]

I'm sorry sis but it's true. Yawl good ones better started exposing them now.... before its too late. That "Passport bro" movement is real. My man's just got back from DR.... speaking Spanish and everything... And if they ever try to harm you for speaking the TRUTH..I promise you..a real man..black or white... Will protect you.. yawl have to lead the way , we can't... We know that EVIL playbook by heart now and we memorize the rules...so....Good luck!!! Your going to need if you decide to help 🤞😢😊 PEACE and Jesus loves you ..

[@mcbull5154]

You don't have to apologize for these unapologetically deceitful broke heffas. I took a woman out and she suggested that we could probably get off from paying the bill because the drinks were undoubtedly watered-down. I asked the server to taste the drinks but she trusted me and had them made again. The overall service and food was great but the whole time my date kept harping on the missed opportunity to weasel out on the bill. I told her that what she was trying to do reinforced a stereotype about black people. I left a 40% tip just to let the establishment know that we all aren't like that. Needless to say i never asked her out again.

[@TheRealSagittarius2]

Don’t apologize for their foolishness. Yes it is an embarrassment because all women don’t act like these peasants.

[@lamonthunt8711]

Stay strong and decent Sis

[@arayaday1774]

It’s not just in the service industry it’s in retail as well. I honestly feel bullied most of the time. So I have other coworkers handle those types of situations

[@lesstalk4785]

She allows them to get away with it. They would be arrested PERIODT. They drank the drinks they were complaining about.

[@musaruzvidzo5691]

The moment they said I’m not paying, that’s the point at which I’m snatching the plates away

[@susieq8008]

And calling the po,ice...its theft .

[@nickramey1141]

No that's when u smile and say that's fine ma m u don't have to pay you can work it off.. itl really get her to make a scene due to the fact she probably don't work for her things. Lol

[@harleygreene1345]

While eating the food sayn they are not paying for it, let me get my steal yo.

[@D.SN0W]

As soon as they said that, I’d just grab the plate and walk them out. If you’re not paying, you’re not eating. “I’m sorry the food wasn’t up to your standards. Excuse me while I clear your table.” If they insist on taking the food (they say they don’t enjoy) without payment, that’s theft. Calling the police.

[@rustleup-tf2jt]

Broke asses won't cook or pay for food, but BW will eat up everything 🤣

[@donwan7181]

I'd make them pay and when it's found out they didn't have the money for the food to begin with I'd be calling the cops!

[@Alexis_005]

They want free food all the time, and they are not afraid of the embarrassment. That’s what happens when you have no dignity

[@Lismarie33]

Black women in St. Louis are the most difficult to deal with and the rudest I’ve ever ran a crossed.

[@rizingpho3nix]

She's not lying. These average black women are so entitled.

[@williamwright1281]

I'm 58 years old black male I waited tables from Detroit down to Mississippi and cooked also she ain't never lied I don't care what kind of restaurant I'm working in I was doing seafood restaurants to Waffle House IHOP Steak and Ale I've done four star restaurants some black women can just be a pain in the butt just so they can get a comp on their meal

[@codybarry8204]

I KNOW you can cook!!!! Making me hungry bruh lol

[@tbj4855]

@@codybarry8204 😂😂😂😂

[@kurtsherrick2066]

I was a Manager of a big Hotel. People asked for a AARP discount which is fine. Then they ask for a cheaper room and I always explained that those rooms are discounted because they are by the Vending, Ice Machine and Elevators. Then when they get to Check Out the next morning they complain and are so argumentive while I have a line of Business Men and Women waiting in line and on a schedule. I just give the room to them. Many times they are already booked at one of our other Hotels for the same night they checked out. When they get to the next Hotel we tell them those cheap rooms are are already taken and they are given rooms that they don't have noise. They run that racket every where they go. My son is a Executive Chef so I want to say that you earned my respect for being a cook. It is a very hard job. Thank you for your years serving the public.

[@shadowwolf9909]

One of my aunt's is the same way. White progressive woman. I absolutely hated going out to eat with her at family get togethers because I knew she would always find something to complain about to the wait staff. Side note, we got together as a family for the first time at Christmas in numerous years. She told one of my cousin's son's to take off his hat, and another cousin to take his off. They were annoyed, but did it. I warned my sister when I let them in at the front door of my aunt's apartment building about the hat's. In case my brother in law, and future brother in law were wearing ones. Which of course they were. When my aunt told them to take their hat's off, one of my sisters went off on her lol. Telling her things like this is exactly why people don't want to get together, yet she complains nobody wants to get together anymore. Progressive people, especially women, expecting traditional values from men is text book double standards, and hypocrisy at it's best. Avoid such people in your personal life the best you can. I worked retail for years, I understand you can't avoid them at work, especially in the restaurant industry. P.S. This aunt was a former waitress herself. Which always made it more perplexing to me on how she treated the wait staff.

[@Andrea-yk3sw]

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The restaurant i work at has no problem with calling the police while fixing their 'Problem' ain't no such thing as not paying lol

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I was out with a black female friend some years ago. She complained about everything starting with the placement of the salt and pepper shakers, to the way the napkin was folded, to the size of the plates, to the French fries. Meanwhile, I had no complaints at all. My food was great, the black male waiter was so kind and efficient! I told him right in front of her that I was completely satisfied, and asked him to please not spit in my food. He gave me a knowing chuckle. I left him a big tip. Yes, sometimes we can be extra...