Are Luxury Bags for PLUS SIZE People? || Autumn Beckman

[@michelesalter9564]

This was great and I love how you inserted the message throughout the video that no one else’s opinion matters. I don’t think of you as plus size, I think of you as smart, relatable, funny and beautiful. I always crack up when you and Yota reference each other in videos. I don’t notice the glare on your glasses, I’m paying attention to what you are saying, but I appreciate that you are always aware of the little details to have a quality video.

[@AutumnBeckman]

Thank you so much. I wish everyone saw others that way instead of just their exterior, especially when they expect you to fit a mold that most people will never fit. :)

[@AutumnBeckman]

Hey, everyone! Thanks so much for all the positive feedback so far. I've never done a video quite like this and I appreciate the support. :) Please let me know if you think of any other video ideas that you'd like to see along these lines.

[@reneeeriksen6337]

Yes do a video about growing up with weight issues. Love your videos.

[@AutumnBeckman]

I think I'll do that. Thank you. :) Have a great day.

[@laurelldockall2399]

Yes, please do. I’m 63 and curvy and have never felt good in my own skin. At one time I would have never been seen without makeup. Now. Ehhhh. No matter, since going grey I’m invisible and loving every minute. It’s like being the invisible man. No one even cares you are around and will talk about anything. Makes people watching so much better. But I do love my bags. 💕

[@karenyates6797]

Autumn, I'm glad you're the positive and curious fashion on a budget u-tuber who speaks out forthrightly about things that really count. Self-esteem and self-image are so important and not letting others judge you by appearance is profound. Our inner beauty is what shines forth in the end and how we treat others is what counts! Keep up the great videos!!!

[@karenyates6797]

What a great idea, David! Bravo and I second the motion!!!

[@murielleaendekerk4601]

I'm petite and tiny and people often say my bags are too big for my frame. But I just love big totes from time to time and this will never change!

[@birdwellbrown5391]

Nice! Love the message. I'm about a mile and a half tall, so I relate to this - especially to the crossbody strap issues. I'm so glad big bags are making their ways back onto people's shoulders.

[@soniapb7456]

Well done Autumn, a wonderful message wonderfully stated.

[@dianemessina2964]

I like your positive attitude about your body image and size, you are a joy to watch and I love your confidence.

[@pammesser862]

LOL. Your glasses comment cracks me up. You present an uplifting view. I appreciate your videos.

[@LynneCunningham101010]

Tote bags with handle drops that are too short is something I always look out for. The Neverfull is a great bag but would be perfect for me if only the strap drop was just a few inches longer, especially with a winter coat.

[@calicoquilter4472]

Amen! The "elbow test"! Can you put the bag on your shoulder one-handed? Otherwise, pass.

[@deniseleaps]

Thank you Autumn for doing this video. As a plus size women I avoid small bags. My bags are oversized but it’s a preference for me. But, this video proves that smaller ones are ok for me too. I have started adding medium sized bags to my collection. I collect Artisan handmade woven bags from Guatemala. They tend to be slouchy so it helps. I can also wear them as a backpack.

[@YotaStyle]

GREAT video Weirdo!!! LOL Love that Gucci with the old school stripe!!!!

[@lennettestewart5759]

Hey Autumn great video!! I am a larger lady and I have always loved Large handbags. 👍👍👜👛🎒

[@kaki_karei]

You are beautiful! And your YT is excellent.

[@mklarson2980]

Great video, helpful and interesting as always! I really enjoy when you share your bag collection and your life outlook. You're inspiring, beautiful, and I love your witty ways, especially when you and Yota or Gwenny tease each other.

[@agentbagreviews]

I LOVE your message! ALL bags look beautiful on every single body type, man and woman 🙌🙌🙌

[@AutumnBeckman]

Thank you. I agree.

[@lisatsen1556]

Your observation about the structured/hard bag is lighting up that bulb in my brain! Almost every plus size bag "guide" that I'd come across talks about how great a structured bag is for us however I find myself going for more soft/floppy bags and I didn't know why. Now that you'd pointed out how the stiff bags add to our girth, I finally get it!!! Thanks lots Autumn!

[@Celia-gq4yq]

I really enjoyed watching this. Very informative.❤

[@missjanet111]

Makes so much sense especially for us gals with honkers of size. Cheeky and animated Autumn was really cracking me up.

[@AutumnBeckman]

Thank you. :)

[@melissamarie450]

Also, this was SO HELPFUL!!! Thank you!!

[@seagreen2034]

This was very helpful. Love the idea of adding a longer strap to the Delightful & making it a crossbody.

[@_Shawne]

Amazing video with a great message, thank you!

[@massarassa]

“No one else’s opinion of you matters” - my new affirmation!!!!!!

[@robertapower5380]

Great video Autumn. Totally agree 👏💝

[@StyledByGwenny]

Such a great video for us curvy girls! 🙌🏼

[@AutumnBeckman]

Thank you. :) You always show great confidence when modeling your bags and new outfits. One of the many things I love about you. :)

[@StyledByGwenny]

@@AutumnBeckman You're allowed to call me what I am: an idiot with a camera! 😂

[@AutumnBeckman]

Hardly!

[@robinpitkin3244]

Hi great ideas. I am short so straps can be to long. I had a LV Delightful.I got a big idea and sold it so I could buy a Grateful. I never liked it so I sold that one too. Delightful'second hand are more than what I purchased it for originally. I am glad hobos are coming back in style. My favorites are older Prada's. The deer leather is so soft and subtle.

[@roachums123]

Loved this video! It helped to see you wear so many different bags too.

[@AutumnBeckman]

I'm glad that was helpful. Thank you. :)

[@janmauro282]

Hi Autumn! What a wonderful vid!!!! You hit the nail on the head, it doesn't matter what other people think about you, or what you wear as long as you love it!!! True, true, true!!! Love that colour of blue on you! You are beautiful inside and out! Your purse collection is fabulous!! Thank you, more vids like this one please.💕☺️🇨🇦

[@sheritee7328]

Autumn you are a beautiful person who is beautiful inside and out!!😃❤️

[@mothermoon3873]

Thanks Autumn that was very nice of you to say what you did . I’m now in my 60s being plus size and struggled my whole life with weight and insecurity. It’s taking me all this time to finally realize to be happy with my self and wish I had earlier in life . Anyway yes I think a video on weight struggle would be helpful to many . You are a truly beautiful person ❤️💕❤️💕

[@AutumnBeckman]

Thank you so much. I still struggle with it but not nearly as much as I did growing up...mentally, I mean. I'm not so hard on myself anymore.

[@marjiegirl]

Great video I am 5'8 and a size 16 I find some brands like Coach put frustratingly short straps on their cross body bags. I am always looking for ones with detachable straps so I can swap them out. Brands like Vera Bradley and Kipling seem to do a better job of taking all body shapes into account. Vera actually includes an extender in their slings and bum bags.

[@calicoquilter4472]

Vintage Coach bags generally had longer straps. I find this to be an issue also on current designs. I'm almost your height but a little rounder / heavier.

[@corikay]

YESSSS!!! Perfectly said and demonstrated! As I have gotten older my body has changed a lot!…but my taste in handbags hasn’t! I’m still wearing and loving all of mine, regardless of size! Thanks for delivering this special message!!!🤗💖

[@dawnlovescouture2644]

Oh, I can relate!!! All women’s bodies change with age, it’s unavoidable. All we can do is go with it!

[@janec8971]

Love this video. Wear and enjoy what you want, size does not matter!!

[@Elizabeth_lowkeyluxuries]

Enjoyed the video, very helpful. I find the Tory Burch Kira chevron (the largest one) works great on my frame. I'm 5'7", 50-41-50 and 1x for reference. The chain is adjustable so I can wear that one crossbody. I struggle with the handle drops on most handbags if I want to wear it on my shoulder.

[@claricemcghee9625]

Thanks for making this video Autumn! I’ve been looking for a video like this for some time. 🙌🏽

[@CoquetFleur]

Also saw an IG video recently about a plus size woman who had their Chanel purse chain lengthend by a professional leather worker. It’s your stuff some do whatever you want to it to make it work for you. That Chanel doesn’t offer different chain lengths for their popular styles is a disgrace on itself. When I pay new car money for a bag - why can’t I customize anything about it??

[@AutumnBeckman]

Great idea. I know there are dupes with the same chain. I wonder how close to the original that extension chain was or if the cobbler replaced it completely. Yes, they should be customizable.

[@elahehmohammadi7685]

Hi Autumn, I enjoy your channel...for many years....LOVE everything about it.. Is it possible let me know information about That strap you use for your Delightful LV. I just need same one..badly. Just wanted to make sure I order the correct item. Thank you

[@VivienneConnolly11]

Great message as always xx

[@AutumnBeckman]

Thank you. :)

[@devincristopher3]

Wear what you love ❤️ life is short🌈🤗❤️🦇🖤

[@karengrimes6843]

Handbags and shoes Always Fit !!😀

[@AutumnBeckman]

Yes!

[@scooter028]

THANK YOU THANK YOU for this empowering message! Absolutely love all your videos, thank you!

[@AutumnBeckman]

Thank YOU so much! Have a great day. :)

[@renaeweidman]

Loved this video! I think its important for plus size women to feel empowered rather than feel like you don't deserve a space on this planet. I heard a motivational speaker say something that has stuck with me for a long time. She said "Somebody else's opinion of you is none of your business!". Autumn, I would love for you to do a clothing video where you style your looks. Before I forget, there is a KZbinr called Joy Amor and her byline is "Beauty is a state of mind not body!" I love that and even bought a shirt with it printed on front. As a larger woman, and someone who has ALWAYS been overweight, self esteem is not one of my strong points. We are told all our lives that our bigger bodies are disgusting and undesirable and we take all that in and it eventually makes you hate your self. Thank you for showing that larger bodies are beautiful too!

[@AutumnBeckman]

Those are fantastic quotes. Thank you for sharing and for your own kind words. :)

[@ladieofmagicful]

Thank you for this video. I’ve been thinking about creating a channel based just on this subject alone because the struggle is real.

[@dianaspencer7232]

One of your best videos!!! We all have a different "dream bag" and that's ok. I wish everyone happiness in 2022. Thank you Amber for all your dedication!!

[@josiegomz2350]

LovE your collection. Home depo has a variety of step stools.

[@ella_encantada]

Love the attitude and I agree. I don’t like Shea’s look prettier videos. Wear what you love!

[@bobibear85]

Hi Autumn! I love your channel! I also happen to have the delightful and I was wondering which strap from dress up your purse do you use? TIA

[@care4557]

Love this video! I love your collection! I wish I could afford a real luxury purses. But I have few marc Jacobs, Coach, and recently been buying a lot of Dooney and Burke

[@susiejenkins5181]

Thanks for this video super inspirational btw do u recommend louis vutton or gucci more

[@jennifergoodwin3290]

🙋😊Thanks Autumn for your wonderful inspiration message on how we don't always have to be prettier, glamourous to looks nice and casual. Wear nice clothes and have a nice handbag that fits into your budget. We need to be comfortable in our own skin and body.

[@calicoquilter4472]

Thanks for an informative look at handbag issues. It does all come down to "if you like it, if it works for you - wear it". Should plus size people wear luxury?? There are still people out there who think plus size people don't deserve luxury goods and want us to be inconspicuous so they don't have to see us. Too bad for them.

[@linzieredden253]

Great video!!❤❤

[@Anntea9699]

I'm very petite. So I can totally relate to your comment about bags and how they always fit (when often, clothing does not). (That may be one reason bags appealed to me at a young age--no alterations, etc. You could always wear/use a bag right away.) Thank you for the message of this video, and encouragement about having a positive body image.

[@lesliecraven3087]

I am a Tallie with shoulders and hips for days. Thank you for embracing bags for all. I like a tiny bag sometimes. and most crossbody never fits right. I only will crossbody with a bag on my back in emergencies. great video

[@jackiebeans2689]

Love this, Autumn!! They all look great!! You’ve got a very enviable bag collection!!💕😺😺😺

[@Shanycole]

Hello Autumn, thanks for representing for the curvy girls.

[@kaylheecarroll3186]

Great tips 👍😁❤️

[@AutumnBeckman]

Thank you. :)

[@kaylheecarroll3186]

@@AutumnBeckman your welcome

[@QueenNanaEva]

You be You! Great message! We must ALL. Hear this! Yes please more videos like this

[@robinalvarado2018]

Thanks for the empowering message and yes I would love to hear your experience growing up a chubby girl. I too grew up a chubby girl and larger than my girl friends ❤️❤️❤️

[@camiscloset2369]

I can do a video on the difficulties of growing up the smallest girl in the group. It goes both ways:) I wear large handbags to work. I probably look silly but I carry a shitload of stuff so I need it. On the weekend I carry small crossbody bags but not because I look better, just because I don't need to schlep a piece of luggage to TJmaxx or CVS, lol.

[@AuthorLHollingsworth]

You blessed us with words of encouragement and that's something KZbin is lacking. Again, thank you!

[@kathleenem9207]

I have 2 Coach Cassies and I wear them cross body but it’s very comfortable further behind my hip. Works for me. I pull it around if I need to get into it.

[@sunshine32151]

I was not familiar with DRESS YOUR PURSE.....thanks!!!!

[@AutumnBeckman]

You're welcome!

[@nitanevatia2019]

Wow!!!!!!! That’s what I’ve been saying my entire adult life!!!!! BAGS ALWAYS FIT🥰🥰

[@elainetrof2001]

Great video, and I hope you don’t mind that I mention that October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month. I am a two time survivor and had a mastectomy left the first time so crossbody bags are more comfortable for me. As long as you are healthy, just have those ladies checked. Thank you. WalMart for a small RubberMade step stool.

[@lornahill9092]

You look great in ALL of your handbags! You are a Gem!! Love you! Lorna 🥰

[@sjws89]

I ordered an Alma BB but it was too small for my 5’9 plus size frame, so I exchanged it. It looked like I was carrying a baby purse 😐 I’m awaiting my Alma PM and hoping it’s more suitable to my size. I’d love to enter the pre-loved purse market, but having not seen many of the bags in person with the exception of Speedy’s and Neverfulls, I am now afraid they will be too small on my body. I’d love a Cabas Piano but not sure of the size for my shape. My Alma BB experience has left me questioning what to get.

[@erinnadia0409]

I remember one of my favourite Luxury KZbinr's said she needed to loose weight before buying a Chanel mini and myself and so many other comments said that no human should ever loose weight for a bag! I hope she feels more self love for herself. I'm a little curvy so I sometimes feel strange with mini bags, I also have bigger boobs so some cross body looks strange too but then I remind myself that all bags work for them. It's a bag!

[@beckyrobinson4988]

Autum, they all look great on you! You are beautiful!

[@STMarshall]

Great video. 😊

[@angelagregory2810]

Yes to the video ! And this was awesome!

[@shaunamorgan6750]

Love the video and the positive vibe! 💜 And I absolutely love your LV Turenne. I think it might be on my dream list. 👜 Handbags should make you feel amazing. TFS.

[@dvdmtz79]

Thank you so much for doing this video. I wasn’t always curvy so it took some time to adjust to a different silhouette. Your video would have saved me so much time. But as a cis man I wasn’t placed under a fraction of the scrutiny.

[@ReginaM.0220]

Hi Autumn! That's a great video. I'm fluffy too & appreciate all of your ideas. Since little bags are okay for us apparently, hopefully some little luxury (gift with purchase) cosmetic bags I ordered will work out as clutches or little crossbody bags - if I can attach hardware & straps to them. I was worried about their tiny size, but now feel hopeful. Would love to see you explore that subject. Thanks again for this video - and Happy Halloween!

[@Indiana_Girl757]

Thank you! Try Ikea for their kids step stool. I use it all the time. I am 5 feet and 1 1/2 inches LOL. Enjoyed this video! And would like the weight struggle story (-:

[@dialovescarbs390]

I’m so excited for the video just by the title ! Thank you Autumn

[@AutumnBeckman]

Thank you. :)

[@kathyn1343]

I love your bag collection and your positive, uplifting message in this video. I love bags and shoes for the exact reason you mentioned. They always fit, and if they don’t, it doesn’t make you feel badly about yourself. I don’t have the Cassie but have the Pochette Métis and I haven’t noticed it bouncing when I walk but I wear it more to the side/back.

[@AutumnBeckman]

Thanks for the feedback. Maybe it's just me...maybe I'm extra bouncy. ;D

[@debm8470]

While I have to say that I prefer to 'try a bag on' to see if it looks ok on me, from the opposite perspective, if I am admiring a bag on someone else - I am almost always looking at the bag not the wearer, so size, height, ect does not matter, my eyes are exclusively on the bag. On another note, I would love to hear what you have to say on self-image. In my opinion, how a person is perceived has a lot to do with personality, positivity and confidence vs "looks". However, training yourself to project a confident image is easier said than done. Any words of wisdom would be appreciated!

[@sherritalbot3399]

Love all your bags. That Gucci Bordeaux color is now on my wishlist. Thank you Autumn❤️❤️ Your. Collection has grown. Would love to see an updated collection video❤️❤️

[@AutumnBeckman]

Thank you. In person the Gucci bag is more of a dark brown with a red tint. Just fyi. Also, I will post an updated collection video but I do them only once a year in January so it includes Christmas, though (so far) I don't plan to get any new bags for Christmas. ;)

[@melissabill1640]

Have an optical store apply an antirelective coating. Works great.

[@thegoodnightgracie]

Preach Autumn! Thanks for making this video…such an important message.

[@jessicatadlock809]

Already, I like this🎉❣️

[@pamchamberlin6703]

Wow I love this! I’m reading a great book called Anti-Diet by Christy Harrison.

[@danielintheantipodes6741]

I am always interested in a weight video. And you are so right, clothing is not fun at all for people who gobble on too much sugary sweets! LOL! I am not familiar with the US / Houston shopping scene, however, I find myself thinking that a good hardware store should stock a stepladder? Thank you for the video. It was epic!

[@MariaLouiseLovesLuxuries]

What a great video! Love this topic! Yes, 100% do more videos like this! ❣️

[@AutumnBeckman]

Thank you. :)

[@dawnlovescouture2644]

Right on! The person we all need to please the most is ourselves. You are not that big of a person, and those tote straps are not that long for most people to fit in their shoulder without the bag folding. I am not plus sized, but I’m not skinny and I have a large chest and broad shoulders, which makes me look much bigger than I actually am. I can still wear a size medium on the bottom but the top is a different story. Some crossbody bags fit but hit in a really strange place. I have a Mini Evelyne, and the strap is too short for me to wear crossbody without looking like my breasts will swallow it. Same with the Toy LouLou. I just wear them as shoulder bags. I bought strap extenders for the Toy LouLou. I wear bags of all sizes and make adjustments if I need to. And, not to be dramatic, but I survived cancer(so far!) and I’m gonna do whatever I want! 😁

[@DaylesAddiction]

Great video Autumn - I love the overarching message - wear what you love! Some great shapes and adjustments to make the most of your bags too!

[@julesnaraine]

Love this video Autumn 💖💖

[@AutumnBeckman]

Thank you. Have a great day. :)

[@sharoncorrea7594]

Great video

[@debraalleyne1760]

great video!

[@AutumnBeckman]

Thank you. :)

[@maureendesmond5642]

Great points! You are beautiful!

[@AutumnBeckman]

Thank you. :)

[@lindzexposure9347]

Is the link for that person who told you about the bum bag and to say something nice about her in the details? I can’t seem to find it.

[@dianemessina2964]

I would very much enjoy a video of yours addressing womens self image

[@kristagibbons3168]

Thank you for sharing such an important message! Love seeing all of your bags.

[@kathydobson2720]

What a fantastic and important message this video presents. Thank you, Autumn. By the way, I love how modelling the bags in order to talk about them reminded you of which ones you love so much and want to start wearing again. Whenever I clean up my closet, I find I do the same thing: I rediscover some of my own favourite bags and start wearing them again!

[@ladyinpink2654]

I’m petite but I like big bags, I love satchels but most of my bags have a long strap on it, so I’m glad bigger bags are coming back🥰

[@AutumnBeckman]

I'm glad they're coming back, too...not that they ever went away for me!

[@melloveshandbags]

Autumn - if you find the Fendi Baguette to be too small for you, try the Fendi Mama Baguette. Same great style bag in a larger size and, of course, it holds a lot more!

[@AutumnBeckman]

I've been enjoying carrying smaller bags lately, I just need the baguette to have a longer strap so it doesn't disappear behind my arm. ;D

[@alansgail]

You are beautiful Autumn, just as you are! Yes, by all means do a video on this topic. And I agree, no ones opinion on you matters!

[@AutumnBeckman]

Thank you so much! ;)

[@VeronicaCid]

As a plus size woman, I find handbags to be the best fashion accessories as the size doesn’t matter! Having said that, I was told via a comment I’m too big (fat) for certain bags! 🤣 Made laugh cuz I really don’t care! Great video and message. Those videos where you-tubers try to tell other ppl what to wear or how to wear it irk me as well!

[@AutumnBeckman]

Handbags are the best! I'm sorry you've received comments like that. Some people are ignorant jerks.

[@Oceangirl1234]

Sure on the suggestion for a video of you growing up.