Are Personal Trainers Cheaters? | The Mojo in the Morning Show

Rachel just found out she's pregnant, she also found female lifting gloves and an elastic in her husband's gym bag. Is he cheating, or is it just a "business relationship?"
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[@thornyrose1235]

Sending your client flowers over your pregnant GF is a huge red flag. Also, regarding the callers who said it was good that he was giving away free flowers to a client vs paying for them - flowers for a client can be written off as a business expense or expensed directly to the business. No one does that in the gym business as far as I'm aware so yeah it is a weird thing that Raquelle should be concerned about.

[@paulapuckett-potoczak7735]

BS i would not like my husband sending flowers to another woman for any reason.

[@lkb-il8iy]

Me either. Sorry but Idc how good of a job someone is doing or how bad a situation is. That’s how affairs usually start. And how would her significant other feel if she’s sending flowers or gifts to one of her male clients?

[@whitneyschaabholtz3873]

ROSES=I LOVE YOU YOU DONT SEND ROSES TO A FRIEND

[@awenmaingque7487]

i may be too late to comment this, but i dont send flowers to people who i am not emotionally connected with. i mean i get that the client made a progress, whatever the background story was, like if she was 400 pounds and went to 125, i still won't send flowers. instead, i will share the story to my partner because the achievement / progress of the client, is also mine and nothing in this world can beat the happiness of sharing this achievement than the person you love. its all about prioritizing people in your life.

[@lkb-il8iy]

Even if nothing physical has happened it’s still emotional cheating. That’s how affairs start. And won’t his other clients feel some kind of way knowing that he’s biased toward the one who’s supposedly making good progress?🤔

[@MLIrons]

I don't even think he's emotionally cheating. I have been that guy and I have seen other people give nice little gifts to congratulate people for the hard work they do. Here are somethings I also notice too. A lot of these women are expecting roses from men who normally would not send them flowers. Has ever occurred to listeners that maybe, the woman really isn't a flower wanting woman and so, maybe their attentive man would not waste money or a free gift of flowers on his woman because she wasn't into them? One last thing...What if she already knows he is that kind of guy, but with having pregnancy brain and emotions is being hypersensitive and needy (not in an bad way, but in a way that many men would not really pick up on because we can't get pregnant)? Terry might just be one of those lovable idiots who doesn't pick up on these things and maybe just needs to have a calm sit down and the two talk about what it is Rachel needs right now and him doing what he can to take into account her state? Especially if this is his first child and he is just learning how to cope with that?

[@lkb-il8iy]

@@MLIrons Hormones or not it’s still not a good feeling to have. I understand you want to give people the benefit of the doubt but his significant other deserves roses more than anyone. She’s about to bring life into this world. I’m sorry but it’s only a matter of time before he goes too far with this client

[@MLIrons]

@@lkb-il8iy: I'm not giving the benefit of anything. I alike everyone else. Someone who is listening to what two people are saying on the radio. With no TRUE knowledge about the people involved or their relationship. All I said is that from life experiences, I know exactly where he is coming from nothing more nothing less. And I am sure he is going to make the naysayers look silly predicting he is going to do something wrong.

[@lkb-il8iy]

@@MLIrons Well everyone has different life experiences. People these days have hidden agendas. Ijs 🤷‍♀️

[@MLIrons]

@@lkb-il8iy: Human beings in all of time have had hidden agendas, for good or for ill. This is not new under the sun. And that does not excuse us to judge or accuse others, especially if we don't know if our thoughts are true or not. And just remember, the people who got y'all mad at him are the people who REFUSED to let his "No." be "No." his emotionally gf and the radio hosts. Here is the thing about men like him (I should know, I am like him), don't pressure us into things or you may regret our reactions. We may comply, just not in the way you desire.

[@mariademers3111]

Who sends red roses to a client? Red roses =love

[@carololech3493]

He’s stuttering too much to be telling the truth, he’s lying

[@paulapuckett-potoczak7735]

Oh MOJO, come on ....seriously 😮

[@smidgelette]

Dear men. Please do not give flowers to a non family member (woman) unless you want them to think you’re interested. Especially not to a client… ever. If you send to a female friend and you’re in a couple, send from both of you. Sheesh… you shouldn’t really have to point it out really but there you go…

[@Lyratheowl]

My first bf was a trainer he wasn’t like legit but he got people and he ended up finding people and left me for someone he met in the gym.

[@marshelleplymale6437]

For a client send a plant. Roses mean something to women. Intimate. Men don't appreciate how women try to find value in themselves with their fella. Particularly a woman that is feeling vulnerable about themselves and their relationship

[@darthkreep5744]

There is NO WAY he should be sending ANYONE but his pregnant GF!!! There is NO EXCUSE for sending them to ANYONE but his GF!!! He is a total POS cheater

[@MLIrons]

Na. I get it. Especially if you are dealing with a client who lacks esteem and self-confident. I can see and have seen people do that. I have done that in the past myself.

[@lkb-il8iy]

@@MLIrons He should at least do it on behalf of the staff even though I doubt that the other staff members know about it

[@MLIrons]

@@lkb-il8iy: I don't think anyone is arguing that he shouldn't have. Even he said it himself, he didn't think about it. And while that is at least a hair raise for me, with lack of evidence he has previously CHEATED, then I am not going to base if he is cheating or not or in the wrong if he honestly made a mistake.

[@lkb-il8iy]

@@MLIrons Of course he didn’t think about it just like he didn’t think about his significant other first

[@MLIrons]

@@lkb-il8iy: 1. How do we know that? How do we know he did not think about her in a place we have no access to; his heart and/or mind? Just because he did not say it, does not mean he did not think it. 2. And again, everything in this world isn't about his gf just like everything in this world is about her bf. So, yes, he and she has every right, and should as decent human beings, think of others than just themselves.

[@robertmason1357]

Maybe nothing has happened yet between the two. But by sending roses he’s breaking a boundary. He’s working on getting her into bed by doing something that comes off as professional but crosses the line of appropriateness.

[@jessicajohnson8378]

Before I got with my boyfriend Michael way before like years ago I would talk to people when I was alone and not getting anything from the one that I was with at the time I never cheated but I always talked to other people when I needed someone to talk to

[@adkinaguirre46]

what?

[@paulapuckett-potoczak7735]

Absolutely Megan

[@teri4220]

They could call ghe client? I'm sorry if my personal trainer sent me flowers. I would think it was so inappropriate! They obviously have more then a professional relationship. But it's her bad too. He made no commitment to you by marriage, but you still decide to allow a pregnancy. Babies don't keep men. If any thing it's will help push a man away. And a majority of men cheat while their women are pregnant....

[@briannahancock1482]

You sound clueless, she didn’t get pregnant to keep him😂 me and my fiancé have been together 14 years and have two kids and don’t plan on getting married. We’re in 2023.

[@lkb-il8iy]

You can always co-parent 🤷‍♀️

[@teri4220]

@briannahancock1482 I did not say she got pregnant to keep him. I said babies don't keep men. My statement is not clueless, 😆 🙃 😂 it's from personal experience of people I've know in these situations. Good for you to have figured away to live together and not be married. To each their own. I've been with my husband 24 years and married 21. I would not have had children with him if he was not willing to marry. We are not roommates 😒 but that is my opinion and you can have yours.

[@MLIrons]

I don't think he's cheating and I think Rachel is having pregnancy brain and emotions. I think Terry needs to be a little more attentive at this stage. Lastly, NO...He is not wrong for wanting to give flowers of encouragement to someone who seems deserving of them. He seems like a good guy. I mean I am assuming that is what attracted Rachel to him in the first place. Don't try and change that in him.

[@briannahancock1482]

No if my boyfriend or husband was sending roses to his client I’d be pissed off. You don’t do that. That’s crossing a work/client boundary.

[@MLIrons]

@@briannahancock1482: You could be pissed off all you want, he shouldn't stop being the kind, compassionate, thoughtful person he is JUST because of your insecurity or immaturity. I am like this guy and yes...I would rather loss a woman than loss who God created me to be. And I hope your husband or boyfriend is the same way. With that out of the way...I DO 100% believe the man and woman should TALK about why she is upset, not the surface anger of "Well that's just inappropriate." But the true hard of the matter before he goes start changing himself. Because I agree, a kind gesture from him can be seen as something else from the receiver's end. Or it could lead to false ideas if the receiver are themselves harboring feelings. Then, by all means, let him know the danger, because that makes much more since then you getting mad over him giving a new hirer FREE flowers. Because believe you me why I say, if I have a woman and knowing how cheap looking free roses are, I would much rather give them to a new hirer or friend and take my time and get my woman something I took time to look at first, pull out the flaws, and make sure she is getting the best looking roses there are.

[@lkb-il8iy]

@@MLIrons But at the same time there are boundaries that you can’t cross. You can be friendly and thoughtful but don’t send romantic roses to them

[@lkb-il8iy]

@@briannahancock1482 Agree 💯. I think this person just too trusting and likes to give people the benefit of the doubt

[@michellephipps6889]

Megan is so beautiful!

[@mariademers3111]

I feel sorry for the baby. His father is lame

[@frenchbluehen]

The card and the situation wasn't too damning, but it almost seems like she sort of trapped him after all these years with the pregnancy and he isn't excited about it. He's going to feel more absent because of it.

[@lkb-il8iy]

Then he should communicate it.

[@lkb-il8iy]

And to play devil’s advocate how do we know that it’s his baby?

[@jessicajohnson8378]

I don't believe that he didn't use protection so there's a baby on the way duh 🙄

[@jessicajohnson8378]

​@@lkb-il8iywow really? 😮

[@lkb-il8iy]

@@jessicajohnson8378You’d be surprised. It may not be true but why else wouldn’t he be excited?