If we're not following culture, then we'll Love the way He Loves, and encourage folks to come to Christ AS THEY ARE. It's SO sad that we can say that the church house doesn't encourage folks to judge to a degree, but it does, and that line of thinking turns folks away. Our motive should be His Love, and that can NEVER be merely placed in a building, and left there. We ain't perfect, but God's Love should affect our entire being. God sent His Son in human form to lay His life down for ALL of us, not just folks that have a chance to go to church on Sundays.