Are you angry with your parents: A talk with children: |Prof Dr Javed Iqbal)

Parenting skills also includes guidelines for children. Prof Dr Javed Iqbal talks to the children who have complains against parents.

[@CallMeProfessor_]

Kids who are humiliated and criticized all the time become enemies of themselves in adulthood.. And its worse than anything that could happen to anybody

[@zulekhaaltaf6652]

True. True true

[@shanzakhan3377]

Balkal

[@monurajput5608]

Yes . And it's own relatives and school bullies who do that. These kids later become socially awkward and can't stand up for themselves. But they have been bullied and neglected.

[@shaistajanjua2557]

With respect Sir, kuch parents asay bhi haen, jin ki negligence ki wajha say un kay bachoo ki zindagian barbad ho gaen .Sabass hay asay bachoo par jo phir bhi apnay parents ki is leya kidmad kratay haen qun kay ya Allah ka hukum hay.

[@junaidkhan9162]

Shaista Janjua sae kaha

[@minasyed8199]

Very true please pray for me mera bchpn Jawani or ZINDGI bhi barbad hogai 😭

[@shaistajanjua2557]

Behan boht majboor hoon ,boht si baaten share nahi kar sakti. Magar maray dard ko mahsoos to kraen.Allah khar kray ga.

[@shaistajanjua2557]

Bus Allah say ummed lagen. Yah sab log olad hi ko bura boltay , jan joo logo nay aap par jota utta hota hay. Aap Allah kay hawalay kar daen, woh kabhi na kabhi zaroor nawazay ga. Allah Pak nay aap ko jo kuch deya hay ,us par sukar ada kraen. Jo nahi mila woh qismat may tha hi nahi ,is ley us ko sochnay ki zarort nahi hay.

[@minasyed8199]

@@shaistajanjua2557 mei mehsoos kr skti hn q k har roz qayamtein Tori jati hn mujh pr ACHA WAQT ayega ye sunty or kehty life nikl hi gai Aj bhi dard mei hi hon.. Bs mere liye b boht dua kre GA Wesy b ramzan agya h

[@dr.catssicknotes7556]

Ya Allah , Please give my parents a longer life. I still want them to look at me in the peak of my dreams and I want to show them that their sacrifices are worth it. Ameen .

[@thezjj]

اللھم آمین یارب العالمین

[@AbdulRahman-ei6xi]

Ameen

[@ZubairKhan-wd9rw]

ڈاکٹر صاحب اللّٰہ تعالٰی آپ کو صحت والی لمبی عمر عطا فرمائے آمین یارب العالمین

[@javedlagari8583]

Professor shb ap ki sari baten kitabi hain , ye bht detailed topic hai ap apni soch se byan kr k farig ho gay hain, ap mehrbani farma k apni baten jaib main rakhen ...

[@mrswaseem5459]

Sir your voice is so affective and convencing my heart ... Allah bless you

[@Kiran-vx8dv1vq3j]

I respect you sirf that in such a good way you described the obedience for parents....hats off for you❤

[@rasheedshervani]

Very painful nights and days by thinking all along about the arrogance and disrespect......May Allah swt bless the offspring to follow the straight path Ameen

[@abdulhai93]

Sometimes parents they are not setting a good example for the children. Like parents constantly humiliating each other in front of their kids. It creates a mental streas for kids

[@khaulamustafa8582]

Exactly. I've been suffering this for years and it has affected my mental health alot

[@mahamdilshad3727]

@@khaulamustafa8582 me tooo alot I even dont know how I treat it

[@khaulamustafa8582]

@Fakhira Parveen Ameen JazakAllah

[@khaulamustafa8582]

@@mahamdilshad3727 Exactly, no one listens. There nothing we can do about it. I had an emotional meltdown last month and I had to see a psychiatrist. The only thing I can do is pray. And I hope that Allah will help me.

[@sadiaazam9638]

@@khaulamustafa8582 same here...doctors referred me to a psychiatrist but i am very hesitant...dil nai ker raha

[@atharrauf52]

My parents were unable to understand or may be communicate to my problems , they had an idealistic approach towards me ... And I wasn't able to communicate to them in the worst of my times ... But they are still the gem of my life , God bless them with greaterhealth and dignity. Ameen

[@iceandgrimstudio6831]

،😅😅

[@areebajameel3468]

Ye maa baap ki hi ghalati hoti hai k wo bachon ko communicate krna nhi sikhaty maa baap bs ignore krty hn bachon ko

[@AbdulRahman-ei6xi]

Ameen

[@faizagill5986]

U must be right dr sab, lemme share my story shortly with you. Many apny waldain say bachpan say suna hai k mery paida hony py wo khush nhi thy q k unko beta chahiay tha.. matric tak to mjy cheson ki zyda smj nhi thi, sirf itna pta tha k many kuch aisa krna hai jis say mery parents ko proud feel ho, hmesha extraordinary student rhi hun, 9th class main mery parents ny mjy bht force kia k main arts k subject rakhun, so that BA kron or usk bad wo meri shadi kr dain, many zabardasti science subjects rakhy, jb mery choty bhai matric tak pohanchy mery waldain chahty thy k wo science subjects rakhyn q k arts ka to zamana hi nhi.. zabardasti dono ko unki marzi k khilaf science rakhwai.. fsc main again mery parents mjy fa k liay force krty rhy, jb k mery bhai fa krna chahty thy dono ko zabardasti fsc k liay zor daity rhy, dono ko achy or mehengy waly college main dakhil karwaya jb k mjy kha gia, pas ka jo college hai agr to wahan say parh sakti ho theek hai wrna parhai chor do... Khair story short krti hun.. ro dho k fsc ho gai meri med main admission nhi mila meri mother working lady thin, unhon ny mera private med college main admission krwa dia.. is sary arsay main mery walid wo wahid insan thy jinhon ny mjy degrade kia or hmesha mjy let down kia.. graduation ho gai to mjy khi job nhi krny di, kisi na kisi bahany ghr hi bithay rakha.. mny socha theek hai agr mn css ki tyari krti hun, 2 saal to mny u hi ghr mn guzar diay css ki tyari ki, mera 1st attempt mn clear nhi hua.. dosri attempt mjy kbi dainy hi nhi di... Bus hmesha ghr k maslon ka hawala daity rhy k yh ho jay to phir mr laina etc etc.. ab main 26 ki hun main apni zindagi ko peechy daikhti hun to sochti hun mery hath main kia hai, apni zindagi k itny saal kia many dhoky main guzar diay.. ab wo chahty hain k main unki marzi say shadi kr lun or achi achi housewife ban k baqi ki zindagi guzar dun.. muj say meri kitabain chen li hain jo meri wahid dost thi.. Dosri side py mery bhai hain.. dono ko wo dr engineer bnana chahty thy, aik matric pas hai dosay ny ro dho k BA kia hai.. mjy mery walid khty hain tumary hath isliay kuch nhi hai q k tum walidain ki nafarman ho, yh nhi samajty k unki wja say jo itny saal many zehni azait main guzary hain or abhi b guzar rhi hun... Kal ko agr mn in say door ho jati hun ya in say in say apna relation limited kr daiti hun (jo k mn kron gi) to yh khain gy beti ko parhaya tbhi wo chor gai Sawal mera sirf yh hai hum har jga sunty hain walidain ko uff na kro unki baat say inkaar na kro, kia waldain ko pochny wala koi nhi? Kia Allah b hum bachon ko saza day ga? I hope ap mera comment parh k response zaroor dain gy

[@shahabbas3547]

اللہ آپکو لمبی زندگی خوشیاں دیں امین

[@hasham8826]

Sir u r a great man ap n bohat acha topic chose kiya ha.we want more & more videos for kids.Thanks alot

[@rabnawazjam6648]

Sir ji absolutely right..... Is poori video mn , me ye samjhta rha k ap sirf aor sirf mery upper bat kr the he....... Sir ji you are great, Allah Pak AP ko salamat rkhy

[@InvataDinViataRO]

ماشاءاللہ۔۔اللہ پاک عافیت اور ایمان و عمل والی زندگی نصیب فرمائے

[@thezjj]

اللھم آمین یارب العالمین

[@anwarshaikh5814]

علامہ اقبال نے جب شکوہ لکھا تھا تب کافی عرصہ ٹک چہ میگویاں ھو رھی تھی مگر جواب شکوہ لکھ کر مطمئن کر دیا ٹھیک اسی طرح آپ نے اولاد کو میسیج دے کر والدین کو مطمئن کیا ابوسفیان

[@easystudy2247]

Yes.. Aur bht si gltfehmyan bhi door gae mery.. Thanks a alot.. Now I feel relax

[@rukhsanas2276]

Jazak Allahu khair verey beneficial talk

[@durmal3875]

Ya Allah plz give a longer life's to my parents. Brilliant advise 👍

[@azharmaitla8287]

Ameenn Suma Ameen

[@RQStudio786]

Masha Allah ap ki guftago bukhat achi hoti hai

[@mubashshirnajmi9185]

بہت بہت شکریہ جناب!

[@ghazalaakhtar9118]

Zaberdast 👍 Bohat hi acha samjhaya bachon ko. Thank you 🙏 so much

[@muhammadamin-nr4si]

Oooooh thank u so much sir muje ESA lagta h k aap ki sari videos mere li hi hn

[@mahnoormujtaba908]

May Allah bless all the parents in the world with a happy and healthy life . Sir you explained the situation so efficiently. May Allah bless you. 😊♥️

[@AbdulRahman-ei6xi]

Ameen

[@sajidniazi9697]

Sir ..AP ki baton se itna ptaa chlaa ha.keh bchon ki koi izat ni hai..unki toheen ho to wo sbr krty rhay.self reppect ni..ek individuals k sary faisly parents ne krne hen to phr robots behtr hen insan se

[@chemza.556]

Jazakallah... Allah Aap Khush wa Khurram Rakhe... Love from INDIA,

[@mohdghufran6374]

اللہ رب العزت ہم سب کو اس راستے پے چلنے کی تو فیق دے ،جس سے ہمارے والدین راضی ہو جا ئیں اور جنت میں جا نے کے راستے آسان ہو جائے

[@umermushtaq6477]

MashaAllah sir Very Good guideline.

[@rozenabutt5456]

Allah's Blessed

[@c4chemistry118]

اسلام علیکم ڈاکٹر صاحب ما شاءاللہ آپ کی گفتگو بڑی موثر لگی ۔

[@muzammilrajput7369]

Mashallah

[@mindiq3640]

I really liked professor Dr Javed Iqbal videos...

[@azizullahmobilink]

Your very good men sir . Your conservation beautifully .

[@nishatmullick5931]

Thank you Sir to guide.

[@tazeenmazhar6664]

Bahut Bahut shukriya sir aap ne is video se meri pareshni duer ker de Allah aap ko lumbi umer de sehat ke saat ameen

[@rashidajabeen7309]

Sir you are absolutly right.

[@smartlifequeen]

Ya Allah pak hum sab ko man bap ka ahtraam karny ki tofeeq ata farma

[@PARWAAZ]

Great sir ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@ubsmenu7630]

Ma Shaa Allah very intellectual personality 👍🏻

[@ghualmhaider3527]

very good job sir

[@sariabutt7819]

MASHALLAH GREAT

[@manofatima3384]

Totally agreed sir ... Bilkul thikk kha Apny

[@Magicvideos979]

Sir me ne boht koch ap ke videos se seka jis k lye I m thank full Allah app ko khosh rakhe

[@motivationalspeaker3092]

Amazing video ♥️

[@nuzhatkhan3530]

Thanks thanks thanks Allah bless you.

[@brandedwomenclothes5673]

You are awesome. Pakistan needs to have more people like u. May god reward you a lot

[@بدلتاپاکستان]

جزاکم اللہ خیر۔ آپ نے ہمارے دل کی بات کی۔

[@mohammadzubair9350]

Thanks for giving right information

[@nimramunir3364]

Thanks sir ap k lectures sun k bhut sa masail hal ho jaty h thank u so much sir Allah pak ap sehat dy isy trha hmy guide krty rahe Ameen

[@kaleemullah5254]

Very rightly pointed out by some people that you show one side of the coin..... That was what I also noticed while watching one of your videos..... With due respect, considering you as a motivational speaker, I have following suggestions for you :- 1. Select and speak on a topic in a wholesome manner 2. Don't be afraid wrt length of your videos..... In my opinion it should be min of 15 min 3. Tons of books in English are available on topics those our respected motivational speakers are dilating upon..... But since our people either don't understand or have left reading books so all folks prefer social media to gain wisdom.... 4. What is missing in those books is relevance to our culture and social norms.... So it would be a wise thing not to communicate the English stuff in Urdu but to correlate the theory with our practical day to day examples.... 5. The above stated would only be possible if you choose to be a professional counselor as it would add on to your knowledge which is actually the "street knowledge" ....which is actually needed to be conveyed to the people to give a spark towards the right direction.... 6. Sir, I think that you have enough of spark in yourself but on screen it is not fair enough to move the youngsters .....so may be you like to get tips from a professional media producer.... 7. In the end.... I would say a job well done overall..... With Good Luck.....

[@hyd842]

God Bless You

[@mylittleworld793]

ThnQ sir

[@allbirdschannel1214]

Sir y are great ..may Allah bless you more ameen ☺️

[@MMERAJ-kp3tl]

جزاك الله خير و شكراً

[@SherKhan-lh8uc]

Nice sir its can chage our socity

[@mohdrafeeq6325]

Superb sir, you are great.

[@shehlaahmed7332]

Kya baat hay bilkul sahi but sometimes parents can make a wrong choice for their children life partner specially their son

[@AlviSultan]

I think parents make more mistakes about their daughters' marriages than their sons. Daughters are more submissive than sons in this regard.

[@shehlaahmed7332]

Sultan Mahmood Alvi To be honest everybody has different experiences but now a days girls don’t listen to their parents where as sons r more obedient

[@munizasheikh9779]

Yes bikul sahi baat k bachon ko patents se kabhi koi baat nahi chupani chaye or parents ko bhi apni trbiyat pr itna yaqeen hona chaye k unka bacha kabhi ghlt kaam nahi krega baqi allah ki mdd k beghair koi kuch nahi krskta neki bhi nahi thanks apne ye vedio bnai aj kl ik trend chlgya he k parents ki trbiyat ki jae bs bacho ko madr pidr azad chor diya jae

[@videowalisrkar574]

cool contant bro jis ko ye video achi lahi wo like kere

[@serat-e-mustaqeem7618]

Kamal MA SHA ALLAH

[@beautyever_after7765]

Thnk u sir may ny b iss video k liya comment kiya tha ..mjhye iss vodeo ka he intzar tha.🙂

[@AlviSultan]

Your wish has come true Shanzay, thank your lucky stars!

[@sonymultivision6143]

Ma my bhi comment kia tha last month, I'm happy today 🙂

[@onlyeffectivethingsforyoua6822]

Masha Allah beautiful topic Allah Pak humay hedayat de ameen 👍🌟💐

[@ghualmhaider3527]

i like it sir

[@marvelleousmarvelleous8306]

i appreciate you sir.

[@mubashshirnajmi9185]

Thank you sir

[@hafizmateenaslamaslam6131]

بہت پیارا بیان فرمایا آپ نے ۔ اللہ پاک جزائے خیر دے بچے باپ کی بات کو اہمیت نہیں دیتے جبکہ باپ ان کے لئیے آنے والے وقت میں آسانیوں کا معاملہ چاہتا ہے اور بچے فرمانبردار اور نیک بھی ہوں۔ اس کے سلسلے میں آپ جب لاہور میں کوئی پروگرام کریں تو ہم بھی بچوں کے ساتھ شامل ہوں ۔ ایسے وقت کآ انتظار رہے گا

[@rajanbisht3735]

Very true sir you are great sir 🙏🙏🙏🌹🌹🌹

[@thepoetry7063]

I love you Dr sb

[@abdullahkashif8505]

Impressed....

[@rhythmoflife6767]

Great

[@masumabanoo231]

Shukuriya sir 👍👍👍👍👍

[@tabassumr.17]

Assalam Alaikum sir..Jazak Allahu khair..once again u have guided us all .so well . May Allah keep u in his rahmat and protection. AAMEEN .U r a true mentor.

[@mianraza6263]

Jab waldain koi baat suna hi na chahen to communicate kia kerna ha. They think that their children are fool. Parents should understand that children also have a mind in their head and they can think. They always try to impose illogical things and don't want to listen and understand the real problems that their children are facing.

[@tarrazaq1132]

Har insan ko Allah k samne apna jawab Dena he. Ap Allah, rasool sallallahu alaihi wasallam k agla at ko seekh kar un pe chalna shru kar den or isko choren k Maan baap kya kar rhe hen. Sabr se sab kuch bardasht karen or khud ko ache se acha develop karen. Akhir ek din Allah ap pe rehem zarur farmae ge. Ameen summa ameen

[@zeeshangour11]

Thanks a lot

[@DaniyalKhan-gh2nz]

Wow sir 👍 👍👍

[@syedmoiz3411]

Allah Apku Jazaye khaire de

[@kashifqutab6820]

Excellent 👍

[@intesabahmad6883]

very good speach

[@mahnooraminkhan7894]

Great Motivational speaker

[@sabadoc3543]

Sir.. U really address the core issues our generation is having

[@skindoctorbelleza8267]

Masha Allah sir.

[@sumairakhanam8513]

May ALLAH swt bestow his blessings upon you.

[@jkmarblecompanypvt-ltd3067]

Thank you so much sir ..

[@GardeningwithAliaKhan]

Best video

[@abdulhaseebazeempanhwar3690]

Jazakallah Sir

[@mohdhasan9360]

Ramzaan mubaark ho sir

[@YasirKhan-vb7sz]

Very well said bahi jan

[@manalaumema4449]

Masha Allah 👍👍

[@jawaidkhan3003]

Sir thanks a lot 👍 mairy zehn main bhi ye hi khayal ata tha k youg generation ki bhi counciling honi chaheye thanks to you

[@serat-e-mustaqeem7618]

End kr diya SIR G

[@seherbhatti4863]

Its not important k parents hmesh hi right hon. sometimes ap wo nai krskte jo parents chahte hn. Thk k sath chalna chaie. Beshak kuch b ho. Parents have to learn also

[@minasyed8199]

Right please pray for me 😢

[@thebluestockingmemo6030]

Please make a video on narcisisst parents ... especially mother/mother in law.

[@motivationalspeaker3092]

Awesome bideo ♥️❤️

[@zamurradjaveed7852]

Assalamu Alaikum Sar aapane Kamal Kar Diya main aapko Salam Karti hun Aur tahe Dil Se aapki shukragujar hun main Riyan ki wala hun Joker mera beta hai usko Samjhane ke liye yeah video bahut kar armed Rahegi Inshallah Baki net ise ke bad baat karungi Inshallah

[@cookingwithchanda6239]

You r right what we should do pls advice me

[@sweetdoll7981]

U r just amazing ur conversation is always superb.Allah bless u with looong life.Stay blessed

[@SunehrayAlfaaz]

جب آپ اپنی سوچ تبدیل کریں گے۔ پھر آپ دیکھیں گے آپ کی پوری زندگی تبدیل ہو جائے گی۔

[@AlviSultan]

You are what you think!

[@nailawarraich7610]

What if your parents dont want to communicate. They never do care. Even if we try to share or communicate anything.

[@dr.catssicknotes7556]

This is the most difficult part but i believe as being a children we can try our best , every possible way to teach them the importance of parenting by showing love , care , huging them often . It is possible they May lack knowledge of care .

[@Fly_high138]

naila warraich same question I am asking. I know some parents they take revenge. And try to ruin their children life. You just save your and your kids life and run off.

[@minasyed8199]

True pray for me they've destroyed me

[@minasyed8199]

@@Fly_high138 😢 pray for me

[@maha-s5u]

Our parents care about others children not their own

[@ZahidKhan-po3di]

zindgi ke sab sa easy kaam achi batain krna

[@IrfanKhan-gm4gw]

Your soo good

[@kehkashabi4872]

Assalamu aalikum sir apki hrr baat bhut hi achi hoti h ....kaash mere papa ki soch bhi apke jaise hoti ..kaash woh bhi apne biwi aur bacho ki izzat krna janty unke liye unka gussa unka attitude unki akad eham h unki family nhi aaj 2 din ho gy h me apne papa k darr se room me bnd hu ab himmat nhi h jalill hone ki. Es liye dil nhi krr rha h unke samne jaane ka choti se baat prr woh humse nafrat krne lgty h ghr se bhar nikal ne ko tyyar ho jaaty h 😭😭😭😭 kbhi pyr se beta yaa beti keh krr nhi bulaya h aaj tk bs gulaam hi smjha h apna mera Roza h aur me 2 din se apne room me bnd hu😭😭😭 mere papa ne mere ghr ko jail bna diya mere liye 😭😭😭 badi behno ne jldi jldi shadiya krli papa ki aadato ki wajha se aur bhai bhar chla gya kamai krne inki aadato ki wajha se 😭😭 meri maaaaa es duniya ki sb se baadi dil wali aurat h jo ayse sohar k sath rh rhi h julm sehne k bad bhi khidmat krti h 😭😭 plz koi solution btaay zindegi ajaab bn gy h 😭😭

[@tarrazaq1132]

Ap ki ammi jab itni achi hen to un ki madad or khidmat kijie. Allah kare ap ki b jaldi shadi ho Jae. Pareshan na Hon balke is mushkil waqt me khud ko behtreen insan banane ki koshish Karen. Allah k Deen ko seekhne or us pe Pura Pura amal karne ki koshish Karen. Allah ap ko in Sha Allah Esa badla dega k pichhle sare gham bhool jaen gi. Mera personal experience he ye