Are You Really Over Him

"I love Jason but I know deep in my core that he does not love me he only needs me because i am supporting him financially. I still want to believe that he loves me but is it still wise to stay or move on?"
Gherry
God created you paying attention to the detail of every fiber of your being. You are beautifully, fearfuly and wonderfully created. Even if you are broken, you will still be beautifully broken if you allow God to do the mending and allow him to heal you from where it hurts the most.
You have cried enough and you have been hurt enough. It’s time to let go of the pen you have been holding on for so long. It’s time to let God take over from here. Even if it seems like it will not work out, you can stand in faith with assurance knowing that God has already written the final chapter of your story.
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[@mylamiranda3519]

Lahat ng nag comment dito batang 90's😊 hello sa inyo👋 sarap bumalik sa nakaraan noh😁

[@analynmercado9712]

True! Those were the days...

[@cristinaadaza7598]

Agree!! Hello hello!! 😁

[@simplyninch7992]

Hello hello hello!!!

[@DearJoeDMango]

Thank you for all your encouraging comments to our letter sender. I am in contact with her and she's still having hard time letting go. Madaling pakinggan pero mahirap daw gawin. Let's continue to pray for her. God bless you all.

[@myraavila5356]

yesss its true DJ Joe kahit ang salitang move on madaling sabihin pero mahirap gawin But u have to accept d fact step by step magiging din ang pg move on im sure magagawa din ni sender un lahat nman ng sugat kusa gumagaling 🥰🙏🙏

[@neils6431]

welcome back joe

[@MommyShineDiaries]

I miss love notes. Nakapakinig ulit ako ng Love notes at narinig ko bosses ni Joe❤️

[@joangomez7574]

gusto ko ibahagi din karanasan ko pero di ko alam paano isususlat

[@shedabu2723]

I miss Love Notes and the music ❤️❤️❤️

[@monami4830]

The person who give us so much happiness is also the one giving you so much pain...

[@monamie8406]

That is so true.

[@bv5551]

Your voice and love notes brought so much childhood memories❤❤😢

[@DearJoeDMango]

I'll be answering comments on our DearJoe KZbin channel on the first hour from 8-9 pm

[@jayemm14able]

Thank you joe... Miss this show!

[@MjFelicity]

Listening to you brings back a lot of memories, sir Joe. ❤️❤️❤️

[@edennobleza2082]

Na miss ko talaga to kuya Olan. Learned a lot from you. ☺️

[@DearJoeDMango]

@@edennobleza2082 Thank you Eden:) . Hope all your family are well:)

[@elmeribarra9966]

Sometimes people have this fantasy that they love playing in their minds that things might change, a miracle might happen. While sometimes this happens, for me the true miracle is to accept reality and ask God not to change the other guy but to change you that you might accept what is real and to do yourself a favour because God wants us to be happy without being abused by another person in the process. Thanks Joe for this wonderful episode of Love Notes.

[@tingalvez2622]

I think we need to remember before getting into a relationship is the golden rule which is, “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” Karma is real. Hold onto God in these times....

[@tingalvez2622]

God created you paying attention to the detail of every fiber of your being. You are beautifully, fearfully, and wonderfully created. Even if you are broken, you will still be beautifully broken if you allow God to do the mending and allow Him to heal you from where it hurts the most. You have cried enough and you have been hurt enough. It’s time to let go of the pen you have been holding on to for so long. It’s time to let God take over from here. Even if it seems like it will not work out, you can stand in faith with assurance knowing that God has already written the final chapter of your story. - VERY WELL SAID JOE! GOD BLESS

[@gladish1103]

"You're worth and value do not defined how people treat you and think about you" #knowyourworth

[@joangomez7574]

namiss ko makinig nito laginko inaabangan to noong bata pa ako 1995 may movie nito. sana magkaroon ulit sa tv

[@DearJoeDMango]

🙏

[@BenchongDy]

Wow... just wow... After all this time, Joe is still as charismatic, yet calm as he ever was. Joe's brevity is astonishing.

[@DearJoeDMango]

Thank you Joel for your kind words and encouragement. Much appreciated 🙏

[@tingalvez2622]

I miss the music/songs playing after reading the letters. Hope you can consider this Joe in your next videos. God bless!

[@DearJoeDMango]

Thank you Tin. I'm still working on licensing rights for music:")

[@tingalvez2622]

@@DearJoeDMango Glad to hear that. Praying for this! :) God bless always Joe.

[@marifemontero3791]

Yes, I agree ..i miss the songs playing after reading the letters..

[@marladedios28]

Yes me too!

[@vickyquitlong-talatala4882]

Nothing can change her decision because she is blinded by this "love". Only you, Jerry can stop your pain. Mauubos ka nyan, pero sana wag mong hayaang masimot ka. Praying that you'll finally have the courage to let go.

[@quotes.lyrics.movies]

Ang sarap talaga ng feeling, pati feelings nostalgia. Ang sarap talaga mainlove

[@catherinegonzaga9192]

Thank you Joe❤️

[@tingalvez2622]

Wish ko everyday nalang yung show mo..i love to hear your episodes everyday :)

[@angielynlaylay6934]

Lage ko pinapakinggan mga love notes mo

[@lettyfaustinorio8231]

So excited for this..

[@jampanx414]

Will tune in and I can’t wait ♥️😍💓

[@angielynlaylay6934]

Nung teenager pa lang lang ako fan mo na ako..natatandaan ko pa bumibili pa ako nung tape na joe d mango..d pa uso ang youtube

[@super3ric]

Thank you for bringing back lovenotes sir joe! I’m an avid fan since 1996❤️

[@juliusfuragganan7366]

Congrats Joe! Avid fan here way back in the 90s. Hello schoolmate. RMHS Cubao

[@DearJoeDMango]

Thanks Julius!

[@graceaguinaga3756]

Pastor Joe thanks for another episode of Dear Joe.I really loved the maturity, sincerity and depth of your advice.God bless you and your family even more.An avid fan from Milan.😊

[@jaybeegon5397]

Couldn’t help being just nostalgic right now. So digging this since my HS era, plus the dreamsounds playlist to end segment on Wave 89.1 is so insane. More of this please.

[@DearMsG]

I now had a face of you Joe. I bought a tape from one of yoru love songs compilation. You inspired to write

[@DearJoeDMango]

Glad to hear that❤️

[@cherryblossom1290]

I am a certified avid fan ever since, i automatically subscribe coz i know i this will be good. its comforting hearing you again joe & it brings back a lot of memories.

[@aissers6840]

Your voice is a gift, Joe🧡

[@DearJoeDMango]

Oh thank you Ai:)

[@berarl]

Can’t wait for this! Avid fan here Dear Joe dmango!

[@marieblanch6487]

Glad to see you again Joe.. Huge fan here,watching from Cebu.Godbless Joe!

[@mariafetesta4147]

Dear Joe, am a fan since your Magic 89.9 days 💜

[@cindycastro3694]

Tito Joe! Catching up on your episodes and this may not be similar to mine, but it sure hit an arrow. =( It is really easier said than done, but in time we all need to muster the courage to do what we think we can't. Thank you for the enlightening advices and thank you even more for being back doing this! Take care and hugs to you and the family!

[@DearJoeDMango]

Thank you Cindy:)

[@wilmaferrer1040]

God bless u Gherry🙏

[@LORDDRAGON1k]

as usual sir you have given the right advise. all the best to the letter sender

[@angiedoguiles6640]

Its good to hear your voice again Joe❤

[@DearJoeDMango]

Thank you Angie:)

[@mheio]

Sana ung music kagaya ng dati nkakadala ng emotion lalo anyway thank u Joe 💖

[@DearJoeDMango]

Meron Na❤️

[@laurenceroberttampushalpin3652]

God bless joe, congrats s channel mo. I was listening to you in my teens together with my family. Even my father. May their soul be blessed. Yes Joe naubos n sila. It aad

[@jampanx414]

These 1st 2 episodes really strikes my heart, though not the same situation. Excellent advive Sir Joe! More power! Until your next episode of Love notes 😍👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 God bless!♥️

[@ei6127]

Ang galing talaga mag advise, i hope to hear more of u sir joe!

[@julieannielyn3967]

I love this show

[@maryannpaz9781]

Joe thank u to hear and watching u here in KZbin, im so happy really bcoz i dont need to borrow a radio way back when i m in highschool just to listening. to you in the radio. Now i can watch anytime now thank u for good adviser.

[@annegra8203]

Really you make me happy thank u. Im glad now it easy to reach even im not in Philippine. Oh my thank God they invented this kind of social media. Bcoz i know way back when u in 89.9 its hard to call u in the phone. But now wow u can reply easily reply . Good luck Jo in ur new place here in YourTube Channel.

[@triciarosales5496]

Miss listening to you ❤ thank you for creating an youtube 😍

[@cherrielougumale1488]

Eto na talaga un eh!💖

[@simplyninch7992]

You voice... walang kupas.. super miss it!! So glad you are back ❤❤❤

[@noelibay5302]

Thanks, Joe....i am glad you comeback. more power to you. It brings back all the memories..

[@cristinaadaza7598]

Lakas maka throwback , dear joe, sobrang woooh!! The best kapa din.. 🥰

[@kathrinamarcos1700]

Sobrang nakakatulong po yung mga advise mo Sir Joe ❤️

[@christinesadorra2565]

I am so excited!! I miss lovenotes!!! Thank you for this!

[@DearJoeDMango]

Thanks and welcome Christine:)

[@gipetillabialasj4343]

alam mo Joe,paulit ulit ko itong pinapakinggan, God, sobrang amaze kasi ako kung paano mo naiisip ang mga pinagsasasabi mo(payo mo).words of wisdom indeed grabe.sana mabuhay ka pa ng matagal na masaya.

[@DearJoeDMango]

Praise God for the wisdom Gi:)

[@AlingGlo]

Praying for you, Gherry... Tama, ipahinga mo muna ang puso mo. Joe d mango is really back!

[@lenggaym4234]

Love to hear your voice again Joe :) avid fan mo.kami magkkapatid ( 4 sisters) stay safe God bless

[@elbereth9121]

This is long overdue! Where have you been Joe! You deserve a lot of views and a successful KZbin Channel!!

[@mionettemaurice1561]

Let's keep sharing this channel. He deserves more subscribers and views.

[@DearJoeDMango]

Thank you Mionette. Much appreciated!

[@liziearguel6515]

Learn to love and respect yourself. It will be tough especially you seemed to look happiness outside yourself. You need time and space away from romantic relationships. Walk towards God and hear Him. He will definitely heal and make you whole again. Be strong honey.

[@dianarossflores7378]

Always looking forward for every episode just like old times.. hindi nakakasawa makinig sau Joe.. thank you 💞💞💞

[@sunshinemariesanchez159]

Better to leave him magtira ka ng respeto sa sarili mo. Learn and move forward. Love yourself

[@jerikamoreno1946]

I learned from my sister recently that love notes is here again! It has been a big part of my childhood being a batang 90’s myself. Love you, Joe from Northern Territory to ACT 🇦🇺🇵🇭

[@DearJoeDMango]

Thank you Jerika. Please spread the word around.

[@wendyiniego1351]

your voice joe reminds me of my younger years.God bless you and thanks for bringing us back Love notes

[@DearJoeDMango]

Thank you Wendy🙏

[@anne3890]

I miss you Joe and lovenotes❤️❤️❤️

[@jehanjao7055]

Best to grow up na po. Stop making relationships that will leave you empty. Choose to grow, choose to move on. Love yourself, value yourself, and most of all consider building good and quality relationship with God. God is love. Let go, and move on na po.

[@jayemm14able]

Hays love.... We are hoping for the best for the letter sender. Love is love. Hugs joe

[@rosasr0ses]

Wow nice hearing your voice again! Parang 90’s ulit.

[@stevemarlowilson635]

Welcome back lovenotes, i really miss ur love notes sir

[@AmihanStories]

Tama si Joe, focus ka muna sa sarili mo. Pati na rin sa mga anak mo. Magpahinga ka muna sa love.

[@jingasuncion125]

I am soooo happy that you've Joe..I am your avid fan of your's since u've started in philippines..god bless po

[@DearJoeDMango]

Thank you Jing for your loyal support. Please tell your friends about the channel too:)

[@rubybalintos760]

Nice to hear your voice again Feeling young again. Naalala ko pa sinusulat ko pa Ang mga stories and payo mo at ni share ko pa sa mga friends ko. God bless you always sir joe

[@DearJoeDMango]

Thank you Ruby for your encouragement:)

[@maymagbanua6833]

Feeling college ulit ang peg. I'm still hooked with lovenotes... I really love your advices. Keep it up Joe... God bless!

[@mhaimanansala9372]

relate much.. nakaya ko, unti unti..one step at a time. dasal lang..😊

[@veeesc5778]

Sir Joe... sobrang nostalgic. Thank you for bringing this back. Inaabangan ko lagi yung Love Notes nung college ako and even bought yung mga LoveNotes pocketbooks :) As for the letter sender. I used to be in her shoes to the point that I destroyed myself. I praise God na kahit sobrang pasaway ko noon, He gave me the strength to finally make that decision na "tama na, sarili ko naman muna. Ok na muna ako sa pagiging single." and true enough, after that "rest" I finally met the man that God had intended for me. Kailangan pala talaga ikaw mismo ay buo na bago ka magbigay sa iba. You cannot keep on giving kung ikaw mismo paubos na and you cannot expect other people to fix you and complete you. God alone can restore and heal what's broken in you. I will continue to pray for Gherry. I hope she gains clarity and know how valuable she is in the eyes of God.

[@dumbost]

I am truly happy to know that i found this video and happy to know that you are back.....i was an avid listener when i was in Philippines..It is nice to see and hear you again. May God bless you more Joe and family. Thank you for the enlightening advice. Please make more videos.

[@rominacruz593]

As always ang galing mo talaga mag advice kuya Joe.. salamat at may channel ka na.. hintayin ko lahat ng episodes mo dito❤ God bless❤

[@DearJoeDMango]

Thank you Romina:)

[@myragutierrez7091]

I really admire Joe the mango so happy thet hes back again 🙏❤️🥰

[@DearJoeDMango]

Thank you Myra:)

[@jccc395]

Like it! 😃 Yes i agree on one of the comment. All the songs you've played after reading love notes, make it more beautiful. More power to you, Joe. Next week ulet. 💞 For sure, si kuya is still listening/watching you if he is still here on earth. (louie c.) Stay safe. God bless. 💞 #lovenotes fanatic (Magic DWTM). 😘

[@chrisgangan8273]

More episode please 💗

[@maferebong1039]

A lot of people lack self love so they go out and find someone to give it to them. I hope you heal from the wounds that caused you so much pain. Healing is a process. Hope you find a support group that would provide you guidance in this journey so you would know that your worth is not defined by how others treat you.

[@aileenereyes1786]

Truth hurts but its true...addicted again to you Joe D Mango...til next week...

[@arlenemacasaet841]

Approve! God is Enough

[@evelynfernando9878]

Waiting

[@aicetaylor8332]

I feel like more than anything, she cant let go not because she loves the guy so much but more of she's afraid to accept na for the 3rd time eh nag fail na naman yung relationship nya, but once she made up her mind and accept whats meant to be, it will be much easier

[@DearJoeDMango]

Thank for your reply Aice:)

[@jemeleeonnagan6452]

I miss you so much Joe, I used to follow your lovenotes, even on your page of lovenotes before I kept reading those letters kahit paulit ulit (kahit hindi ko sure kung page mo nga yun or not 😂😂) nung wala k na sa station kasi namimiss ko yung mga stories,adivse at ang voice mo...Thank you for bringing back the lovenotes. Last night ko lang nalaman na may youtube page ka na, dumaan sa feed ko yung talk/learning video mo sa page ni Francis Kong and pinanonood kita doon. Sobrang nakakatuwa muli ka nagbalik. Thank you so much. Stay safe and God bless.

[@DearJoeDMango]

I'm glad you found this channel Jemelee. Nakakatuwa malaman howovenotes has become a part of your life. Blessed to know that:)

[@lettyfaustinorio8231]

Time to let go..and let God do the mending.. Until next episode. God bless po.

[@chuchaychoing4803]

👏👏👏

[@j.is.for.julia.]

..i dont know why but i was hit straight with your advice 😅

[@jheysaregaspi8286]

When I heard your voice again sa first episode, para akong bumalik ng college days ko ♥️ naalala ko lahat ng ginagawa ko kapag friday 10:15am and replays at 7pm. Your story recorded hanggang advises. Then after, I will play and pause to write all your advises in my notebook. Ang sarap balikan 🥰

[@rosariocruz1895]

I definitely can relate! And ung sasakay din s jeep at sasabihin kay Manong Jeepney driver, pwede po ilipat muna s RX kay Joe D'Mango.. hahah kaya kahti ma traffic papuntang Espana, ok lang matapos ko lng ang LoveNotes =) buo n ang araw ng Friday ko!

[@jheysaregaspi8286]

@@rosariocruz1895 its not RX. Its Magic 89.9 TM

[@rosariocruz1895]

@@jheysaregaspi8286 oo nga, I stand corrected, must be the effect ng vaccine shots ko =)))) anyways... thank you! and here we go for Joe D'Mango

[@hanselgretel8563]

@@jheysaregaspi8286 hndi po ba Wave 89.1? sir joe tama po ba?

[@DearJoeDMango]

Hi Hansel . Lovenotes started Sa magic 89.9 nung 1988. Then after 12 years , I became the station manager of wave89.1 and I took Lovenotes with me. So you are both right:) ☺️

[@AlingGlo]

waiting....

[@marivicgonzales4784]

Awwwww

[@jaysilva2672]

watching from new zealand

[@leamorserrano1323]

It's really nice to hear from you again, Im an avid fan Joe D'Mango...Thank you for all the uplifting messages..by the way how can I send messages or tell stories seeking for advice, in private.

[@DearJoeDMango]

Thank you Lea. I would love to hear your story. Please send it to mystory@dearjoetv.

[@morningswithcoffeecup8949]

Hi kuya joe, i was an avid listener of yours when u were still here in the philippines. Great to know your back!!!! Can i have my advice too? Im also mending a broken heart today...😢😢

[@DearJoeDMango]

Yes Avery, you may send your letter to [e-mail]:)

[@ginamagpantay1131]

Hi Joe, i can't believe na sa age kong ito now i'm 54 ay maririnig ko uli ung favorite ko na lovenotes with joe d mango. Naalala ko during my college days inaabangan ko lovenotes every friday pati ung mga music mo na sobrang relate sa heart problems na sineshare mo. God bless Joe i'm your avid fan forever ❤️

[@DearJoeDMango]

Thank you Gina. It's been a while and we have all grown bit older and wiser:)

[@DearJoeDMango]

Thank you Gina:)

[@carmengojar6772]

Start it with self love and care...☺️

[@AuthenticAna]

This applies NOT jst to relationships between men-women or LGBT ... Even those betwn ur OWN fam. Nvr allow them to treat u like u are NOTHING. Your WORTH shldnt come frm others. Stand your ground. VALUE you. TYVM, DJ Joe. 🙂 Enjoy catching up on d episodes... 😊 GBU & ur fam. Ingat, po. 🙏🙌👆😷

[@user-jh3oq4em4y]

❤️❤️❤️

[@glendacantillano548]

I can relay on this...but with the help of our lord ....I escaped this miserable life of mine and now I'm happy with my kids...🙏

[@kathrinedanettealejandro8001]

I hope Gerry realizes that there are still a lot if things in store for her. I hope God warms her heart for I feel her pain and burden. Hope with prayers, she will be able to move on soon.

[@DearJoeDMango]

I know here personally and I really feel for her😔

[@forkidsonly4165]

Manila time or Australia time hope to see you one day. God bless us

[@cristiansarmiento7674]

👍

[@charissakastner1884]

Gherry, it is time to let go

[@myraavila5356]

hi sender Joe has have a point partner muna din ang ngsabi n dkn nya mahal so u have to accept it first masakit peru kelangn mo tnggpin ung totou...u have to wake up to d reality that he did not love u anymore ...mahira ipglaban ang relasyon n wla ng patutunguhn at wla ng feelings at wla k dpt gwen pra ayusin p at ipglaban ung relasyon nu start a new life without him..mskit peru klngn mo gwen pra sa sarili mo khit n msktn kp makakaya mo dn ang laht tiwala lang at samahan mo ng prayers ky god sooner mgiging ok k din 🥰❤️🙏

[@entertainmentspotted]

❤❤🖐

[@DearJoeDMango]

Hi John. Thanks!

[@entertainmentspotted]

@@DearJoeDMango your welcome i love watching your videos.

[@DearJoeDMango]

@@entertainmentspotted Appreciate it John!

[@marieb997]

Dear Joe, please greet me naman on your next video (feeling nakikinig lang ng radio, magic 89.9)☺️, friday magic madness, feeling nostalgic sa voice mo po, fan here🤩☺️

[@analynmercado9712]

Wish you well, Gherry...One thing I miss about love notes are the songs played after Joe has given his advice. Reminiscing...

[@hackiyacki1234]

How about a podcast also Joe?😊I am so glad you're back!Thank you and more power💝

[@analynmercado9712]

Wow, a ❤️ from Joe himself! Good luck and more power! Looking forward to watch more episodes😍