Ariana Grande's MESSY divorce...(Ethan Slater drama)

[@siobhan8298]

I feel so terrible for Lilly Jay - becoming a new mom can be a really scary and overwhelming time but then to be betrayed and humiliated in such a public way by the one person who was meant to stand by her on top of all that? I'm devastated for her and her child. She doesn't deserve this.

[@winning3329]

This is why many women fear marriage and having children. This man was her high school sweetheart and he did her dirty.

[@daishad5957]

Not to mention they are high school sweet hearts. That’s a HUGE heartbreak that she has to push through while becoming a new mom. I can’t imagine the pain she’s feeling right now.

[@gabifgt]

the fact that lily jay is stunning and is heartbroken over this thumb looking man.......... sis deserves so much better.

[@angel-fk6rn]

i agree 🥺💕

[@FionaJayy]

Fear men🙌🙌

[@stayrigo]

the fact that people are so easily ready to throw away a 10 year relationship for someone they just met is crazy to me

[@sugarplum2467]

I think that makes the most sense, actually. They were high school sweethearts..never ever dating anyone aside for your first boyfriend/girlfriend is super stunting and limiting emotionally. I would think that Ethan was ready for something new, a more adult relationship for a while and Ariana just happened to offer it. Would have happened regardless Ariana is not some superhuman temptress esp. with her current face. 10 years is a long ass time for a relationship.

[@AD-jq7ow]

Fame and money…

[@TheGamer2001]

Typical males for you.

[@Alice45894]

​@@sugarplum2467with her current face? As in the way too much plastic surgery uncanny valley face

[@bocolatebhipbookie]

yeahh that's just how men are. i used to consider myself bi but i exclusively date women now because of how awful cis men were to me. a lot of women are very self centered and shitty but they tend to form stronger attachments than men from my experience and have a harder time throwing something away just for a lil eye candy or action.

[@Ashxcam]

It’s the man’s responsibility to not cheat on his wife. But also, if a woman knows the man is married. Why pursue him?

[@angel-fk6rn]

she hung out with his wife and held their baby 🥺 went over for dinner, drinks, etc apparently all the time. that’s super hurtful and i can’t defend ari on that

[@dalishrogue3621]

I mean, yeah don’t pursue a married person but she never made a promise to the other person to be in a committed realtionship. She’s just a trashy person but he’s radioactive waste. He stepped out of their marriage. It shouldn’t be the other woman’s problem that he can stay loyal

[@Porolux]

@@dalishrogue3621yea but she held their baby…. They’re both vile

[@dalishrogue3621]

@@Porolux Full on, Ariana is def queen of the trash people, but I don't think she should be getting the same/harshser treatment than the husband. She didn't vow to love and hold the wife til death do they part. I just don't like it when people frame it as Arianna being the worst person between the two because of what happened to the wife. He's the one who let her in

[@saundradavis]

Ariana is also married! Separated doesn't equal divorced! If you're married by law, you should not be dating other people, period! If you want to date other people, that's when you make sure you divorce.

[@glndreamer]

Divorcing your husband for a guy who looks like a wax figure 👎 Leaving your wife and mother of your child for a celebrity who will get bored and cast you aside in 6 months tops 👎 They are both the problem

[@sugarplum2467]

The husband also looked like a wax figure though.

[@mariluciasantossilva8352]

​@@sugarplum2467Dalton?? No way sweetie.

[@moniecekim3198]

Wax figure?😭😭😭

[@BigdaddyBris]

Wax figure 🤣🤣🤣

[@akshrupeetkaur3070]

Lmfao yea

[@orpa9464]

Ariana is clearly incapable of being alone and constantly needs validation from taken men. It probably boosts her confidence to know that men would leave their partners for her. Disgusting behaviour honestly

[@gabifgt]

and loves to preach about feminism and female empowerment.

[@Blue_Azure101]

She needs to work things out with her dad

[@yukinaaaa283]

Money can’t buy self-security. It’s clear she needs men in order to feel valid and also all that plastic surgery tells all. she’s a pick me.

[@lindyloohoo]

@@Blue_Azure101not her dad, at least imo, dan schnieder probs did this to her

[@HelenaYaslin]

cry

[@constanzanavarro821]

I had a female friend that got involved with a guy in a really serious relationship. She always had excuses for it like “oh we didn’t have sex until they were separated” but c’mon, he had a whole family, also with a NEW BORN and he was texting you and meeting you and buying you presents? like that’s actually being unfaithful.I believed my friend was just being naive but when she stayed with him despise all the damage he did to his actual girlfriend I was out of there, I don’t need to be involved with these type of people. It’s nasty behavior, I don’t want to see it. My heart will always go to the woman getting cheated on

[@kookie687]

It hurts isn't...when people you know do disgusting shit.

[@britischenadligen3760]

How can one even be in love with a married guy who's willing to cheat... idk if he's the hottest guy alive, just the "idc about my family as long as I can hit" mentality makes any man from a 10 to a neanderthal to me. Yikes

[@mongdc]

The funny thing here is that she’ll get tired of him sooner than later, I’ll give it a few months. She doesn’t feel like she lost a thing, but he lost an amazing amazing woman, he lost the opportunity to be his husband and to be part of the beautiful family he had. Lily will eventually get back on her feet and I’m sure he’ll regret that forever. I’m not near perfection but I’m very very disgusted by this.

[@summerthebeagle]

That’s what I feel like too

[@no-thanks]

She needs the man to be utterly obsessed with her for her to stay with them I think ?? Like once the relationship is too comfortable and once he isn’t willing to drop everything for her is when there is a problem ? But girl maybe if you’d 😊stopped dating cheaters…

[@lizknives]

i’m so worried for her bc she’s prolly still going thru postpartum and all this is just heavy burdening on her

[@mikichan8561]

​@@no-thanksYou do realize shes also accountable for ruining a family right?

[@Missmalefique]

​@@no-thanksBRUH. He is married and has a little kid

[@virajsoni4303]

Lost all respect for Ariana. And Ethan being a typical man leaving his family for a hot meaningless fling

[@munmunil]

typical man 😭😭😭 new fear now 😭

[@aspireistoinspirebeforewee3519]

No he’s a piece of trash but you just hold Ariana to a higher standard because she’s a women

[@cheeryberrie]

Trust no men, litteraly dont

[@NcK_146]

​@munmunil Oh please both men and women are equally guilty for leaving their partners for " something better ". This nature is human nature not just a trait of one gender.

[@aspireistoinspirebeforewee3519]

@@NcK_146 that’s not human nature this isn’t normal

[@jeng8401]

There is something off about Ariana and her relationships. She just toys with people until she gets bored of them and finds the next shiny new toy. I think Ethan has made a huge mistake throwing away his family for her. It won't last as long as he thinks it will. But to be fair, he must be thrilled he actually found a woman shorter than him.

[@Mimi-hn6iv]

At first, I thought you were going to be defending him, but way to go with that scalding hot burn 😂

[@yupyummie7815]

Loooooooooooool

[@rewdskwid]

I think she purposefully goes for unconventially attractive guys because she thinks she's giving out charity.

[@Maria.9094]

​@rewdskwid or she feels more secure with less attractive guys, thinking they will worship her and she'll always have the upper hand in the relationship.

[@mar1nn998]

Νot all men like short women and not all men want short women. I know A LOT of men who wish they could date a tall woman but they can't lol

[@lizzymartinez2078]

I’m sorry to say this because I know that this is really going to bother a lot of people, but there is no way Ariana and Ethan are completely innocent in all of this. I think it’s pretty clear that both of them were not separated when they decided to start their relationship and frankly I find that so disgusting from both of their parts. They’re both just as wrong for what they did. However, in Ariana’s case there’s a lot more to it than that. She willingly got involved with a man who was not only married, but had a family of his own already. You Ariana Grande fans can hate me all you want, but there’s no excuse for what she did. She destroyed a family. Plain and simple. What she did was awful because not only is she a total home wrecker, but she willingly did this to another woman’s marriage and family. I truly hope Lily-Jay can move on from this. She doesn’t deserve what they did to her.

[@sillycanadiangoose4865]

Exactly. It’s a totally different story if the girl has no idea that the guy had a family cuz he lies, but in this case Ariana 100% knew he was married and had a baby since there’s literally proof of her liking his ig pics with his wife/baby and even meeting with them all. This is all while she was married herself!! Complete lack of morals and values of both sides. I may like her music and her vocals but she seems like a horrible and disgusting person for doing what’s being said.

[@Tania-fx4uz]

It was his wife and kid though not Ariana's. I'm not saying she's guilt-free in all of this because she's 100% not but to say she's more guilty than him in all of this because he was married and had a child doesn't really make sense. He was the one who let his wife and kids down the most. Imo once a guy starts cheating, who he chooses to do it with doesn't really matter much. It was Ariana this time and it could have just as easily been someone else. He's just as much a homewrecker as she is. He's just as guilty as she is. He destroyed his own family. If he chose to remain faithful all we would see if Ariana acting a clown and nothing else. And if you ask me a stranger's betrayal doesn't hurt nearly as much when it's someone you love doing the betraying.

[@sillycanadiangoose4865]

@@Tania-fx4uz she still knew that he had a baby and wife tho all while she’s married . Stop making excuses for shitty behaviour. Also I never said she’s more to blame, if you read what I wrote properly I said complete lack of morals and values on both sides. This is about Ariana because I’ve actually supported her music/acting career so obviously I’m gonna be more prone to talking about her than this guy who I didn’t know existed until last week lol.

[@sillycanadiangoose4865]

@@Tania-fx4uz I’m talking about Ariana tho, and she’s still to blame no matter how you put it 🤷‍♀️

[@laurelis.]

​@@Tania-fx4uzYes you are right. But it is a pattern for Ariana Grande. She has always gotten into relationships with taken men. Big Sean, Mac Miller, Pete Davidson, Nathan Sykes... even her ex-husband Dalton Gomez. And now Ethan Slater. All of them left their girlfriends/fiancees/wifes to be with Ariana Grande.

[@markramos1216]

When James Charles said in 2018 that Ariana Grande was the rudest celebrity he ever met, maybe he was onto something, but this is just another case of “right message, wrong messenger.”

[@teencrisis4750]

FRRRR

[@ioanzatui]

Right? It sucks that someone had tried bringing her behaviors up, but he was ignored due to his shit poor reputation (which was rightfully earned). I just wish someone else, a person people actually liked/trust, had been the one to speak up because it might’ve been taken more seriously.

[@ajlinasaljunovic5081]

gabi said it tooooooooo

[@meganmiller4950]

After that donut licking incident, I’ve looked at Ariana differently. If she hadn’t been famous, she would’ve most likely faced criminal charges. She made disparaging comments about Americans and America, yet she wouldn’t be as successful without them. Her and Jane Fonda are cut from the same cloth

[@jeng8401]

I watched her Brother Frankie on Big Brother and he is the most smug, entitled spoiled man . He was cringe and their Maternal Grandparents were rich so he and Ariana were mostly raised by them. I believe they have different Fathers. He even refused to leave the show when his Grandfather died so he can get air time. THE MAN THAT RAISED HIM DIED! They both chose to take their Mother's maiden name. Which Frankie claimed he changed the pronunciation as Italian Grande. To make them sound more exotic and cooler. They are both Jewish on their Mother's side. So it should be pronounced like Grand. I don't think either of them have any clue what a normal life is.

[@Lee_Rins]

Those who justify her behaviour, because she has self-esteem and independence problems, must understand that psychological problems can explain but do not excuse people's actions

[@thinair7671]

👏👏👏👏

[@noodlearms8408]

I don’t get why anyone would want to date someone who just got divorced from a decade long marriage with a new baby. To just hop to a new person so quickly is not only disrespectful to the ex wife and new mother, but also not a good way to start a new relationship

[@msk-qp6fn]

If anything it's a testament to HIS character and foolishness

[@munchems]

@@msk-qp6fnit’s both

[@mongdc]

I honestly think she doesn’t care a bit, as someone else commented she needs the validation that guys would leave their partners and family in this case for her. In her twisted mind is a confidence boost.

[@miicaabriil]

This reminds me of the ned fulmer situation 💀

[@boopinmysnoot5093]

My ex started dating someone and we aren’t even divorced. We were together for ten year, got married two years prior to him cheating on me (5 months after the birth of our 3rd child) then I left and it’s been about 6 months and he’s already moved on. Makes me feel like complete garbage

[@kelseyfiona9]

sending love and support to lily & the baby. cheaters are disgusting 🤮

[@osnapitzem]

Girl…. Not you believing a not credible news source you should be calling yourself disgusting 😭

[@colineeeeee]

@@osnapitzem Then why are you here??

[@abbied]

@@sydmyd215How?

[@somewhat9626]

Ariana seems very egotistical, she probably relishes in the fact that she can get men to leave their s.o. It's gives her a sense of power, that shes so pretty, she can have anyone. Sad, eventually, she is going to end up alone and Ethan will be another guy tossed to the side filled with regret for leaving his wife/baby. Sleazy

[@Roaming725]

Yeah I expect him to be replaced before the year ends😅

[@mikichan8561]

Karma is pretty much gonna get at her for doing this shit

[@mar1nn998]

True it's disgusting af

[@shanel4294]

Not even just pretty, she’s talented too. Im not surprised at the ego

[@Mangospicetar]

She looks like a grandma

[@0blivvy8]

That's wild for a woman to have allegations that she was the 'other woman' 5 times! Has she stolen every man she's been with?! When people say something over and over, there may be truth behind it. I tend to believe the victims and having been cheated on multiple times and knowing and hearing many people who went thru the same, it's easy to believe it. Unfortunately, it seems like a lot of people cheat, too many anyway. I feel so bad for Lily, especially being with him for 15 years and having a newborn, and this all being public. She'll probably eventually get bored of him and find someone else's man to steal. She told everyone with her songs, "Thank you, next" & "Break up with your girlfriend, I'm bored".

[@manangupta8843]

It doesn't matter who does it with whom, CHEATING IS NEVER OKAY. I hope his wife is doing better and doesn't question her worth over this scumbag. Also, I just wanna ask everyone, have we ever seen Ariana single for a brief time period? No. She clearly has co-dependency issues she should deal with and not act in this way.

[@lindyloohoo]

It takes two to have a relationship so i completely agree

[@DeeLite220]

Honestly it just showed HIS worth. -0. She’s still a gorgeous woman who was a loving and loyal wife. She can shower this grossness off with one bath. These two however, simply ARE gross and it’s a permanent condition.

[@osnapitzem]

So you know ariana personally? Has she told you this? If not keep your mouth shut

[@Sarahkara1313]

The absolutely insane mental gymnastics people are doing to justify this is CRAZY. Even if they didn’t CHEAT it’s a BRAND new divorce when she SPENT TIME WITH HIS EX AND BABY

[@MDWLRK7]

That.

[@Sarahkara1313]

@@MDWLRK7 especially since his ex came out and was basically like “yeah he fully abandoned me and our kid” LIKE CMON PEOPLE

[@MDWLRK7]

@@Sarahkara1313 I can’t imagine

[@feralsgoose]

Preach

[@kayleesykes2739]

Ariana’s repeatedly shown her character. After the donut incident and the way she “apologized” for costing a man his shop rating I lost all respect for her. She does and says small but disrespectful things so frequently that I can’t help but think it’s her actual personality. Some people just aren’t good people.

[@leenuhh_]

Yeah, I still haven't forgotten about that donut incident. A lot of people brushed it under the rug too smh.

[@beetasty6915]

True ! I don’t want to bring up decade old drama buuuut her just watching Victoria Justice being dragged for “bulling” Ariana whiledoing nothing still icks me ! She waited way to long just to say that it wasn’t Justice,why did she not immediately stand up for her ?

[@srinidhisenthil2352]

What's the donut incident?

[@Dave-cw2mj]

​@srinidhisenthil2352 back in like 2015 she was in a donut shop and her friends dared her to lick one of the donuts on a tray, and she tocuhed on of the donuts with her tongue. Weird for sure, but idk why these people are making it out to be some horrible crime.

[@zanerobbins7604]

The guy with the donut shop lost his rating because you are NOT supposed to have food that is being prepared out for customers to reach. Ari was still being a dumbass but it's his fault for losing his rating by not following proper food safety procedures

[@titisr3040]

She gives me the "I'm throwing a fit if I don't get my way" vibe, even in her adulthood

[@luvchloeeeee]

she literally made a song ab being a homewrecker yet yall r suprised..

[@RoxxyQueen]

Exactly!

[@winning3329]

She's disgusting

[@jeng8401]

Ariana doesn't write anything, songs are written for her. Let's not pretend she is a creative artist that produces work. But irony is funny.

[@luvchloeeeee]

@@jeng8401 she sang it. she could have easily rejected the song, but she didnt.

[@jeng8401]

@@luvchloeeeee lol sure if the studio wants her to sing it she sings it, see Kelly Clarkson

[@marielaausher]

I'm not saying the man isn't responsible. Ethan is absolutely guilty of cheating but her stans trying to use this defense of "why we only blame the women" is complete crap. Ariana knew damn well that he was married and didn't care. Both of them are to blame for this. You can like her music but that doesn't mean that you have to excuse her behavior. As for Ethan, I hope that this fling is worth it for him. If he thought he was going to get divorced to start a long and committed relationship with Ariana he's in trouble. As soon as the filming and promotion for Wicked ends, she's going to get bored of the relationship and tell him thank you, next. She seems to only like the honeymoon phase, after that she's done with it.

[@EnchantedStardust]

I agree with this 100%, I’ve always got bad vibes from Ariana but I always gave her the benefit of the doubt (bad idea) but after this, I am so done with her, I love her music and all but im never gonna support her again (never buy her music or form her makeup brand again, even thought I love REM beauty’s lip products :( ) I love her songs but damn, she needs to go

[@raisafonseca2033]

+ she was married too

[@imthecoolest50]

I’m sure he’s smart enough to realise that his relationship with Ariana will not be a committed and a long one. I mean, you know yourself, you couldn’t commit to your wife and babies. Surely he also wasn’t planning to have a long relationship with Ariana, and that he’s fully aware this is just a fling and his opportunity to expand his career. I don’t know why people talk like this “little does he know, Ariana’s gonna get bored and leave him soon” like no shit? Why treat him like he’s some gullible moth flying towards a light, when he’s just as aware and cunning as Ariana in this whole situation.

[@marielaausher]

@imthecoolest50 I fully believe that he believes this thing with Ariana is going to last. You don't divorce your wife and mother of your kid for "just a fling" Just look at what happened. In Ariana's case, her husband filed for divorce first, which makes sense if he found out she was cheating. In Ethan's case, he was the one who filed for divorce first, meaning he was ready to move forward with Ariana, and his wife was getting on the way to make it public. He even got mad that Lilly went to the press before he did.

[@cxri9454]

​@@imthecoolest50what career move is he doing lmao? This is horrible pr, and his rep is trash now. And both him and Ariana are probably gonna fuck up the box office for wicked because people hate them now. This was dumb all around

[@Spacelady0]

If you care about the victims in this situation, unfollow Ariana. Simple. Don’t support her period.

[@kevbo2981]

honestly, I don’t. this is just some petty affair between celebs. I would not care about my neighbors dingy pasta housemaid affairs, cause that shit doesn’t concern me. i doubt this would pamper with anyone’s career. this is just some netflix romance show turned reality which will be short lived.

[@sofi_773]

I've never liked her. She's shown her true character multiple times but her fans are wild.

[@Unavailablea4]

I don't even support her ever since she did mac dirty and Naya Rivera!

[@munchems]

I’ve never liked her and I’ve never listened to her music. I also got bratty pick me vibes from her and especially her brother when I watched him on Big Brother.

[@ambergerhelper7852]

@@Unavailablea4Agree. Naya. 🥺

[@kaz1819]

Ariana has always striked me as a insecure person. I felt like her relationship with Dalton went to rapidly because she wanted to be married before 30 instead of actually evaluate whether or not a marriage would work for them. I heard she tried to fix the relationship, hence the Instagram post, because she wanted it to last and put the persona of a perfect marriage life out there. My theory is Dalton wanted to end the marriage after it just wasn't working despite her efforts to fix it. And that would've taken a massive blow to her ego, along with turning 30 since that's usually considered the time for woman to settle and "older" within the industry. So choosing Ethan (- a married man who has been with his wife for 10 years and had a baby) would've been the ultimate pick me ego boost since she made this man leave his hs sweetheart and family. I think this was for completly selfish and insecure reasons on her part. She needs to grow up and stop worry about following social expectations/ beauty standards as it's not only harming her but now wrecking families. (Not blaming just her Ethan is even more disgusting in this)

[@phyllissataylor3447]

crazy thing is that ariana literally hung out with ethan’s wife and i heard she held her baby and shit

[@Katie-bt2nt]

Dalton was been pictured with a ton of girls around him months ago (See TMZ) so lets not juat blame Ariana,maybe she did wanna fix the marriage,maybe Dalton didnt, he is a millionaire in his own right so didnt "need" ari. And maybe ethan did pursue her at at time when she was sad and vulnerable. Who knows? None of us were there. Im just playing devils advocate for a sec as everyone seems to be solely blaming Ariana for this situation when we all know it takes two.

[@katea764]

@@phyllissataylor3447and how do u know that? Source?

[@randomperson8313]

​@@katea764there is no source they made that up like they always do 😂

[@alysssabear]

I will never understand celebrities who think they’re SUCH hot shit that they feel the need to cheat on their significant others then act surprised when repercussions happen.

[@mongdc]

Or even get offended when people calls them out!

[@Augustine0899]

Exactly. The way her stans are rushing to her defense on twitter is actually gross.

[@Cyberianlynx]

She got a lot of work done she doesn’t even look like Arianna anymore. Deeply deeply insecure

[@LukaLolly]

@@Cyberianlynx she literally looks the same lol u need to get your eyes checked

[@Cyberianlynx]

@@LukaLolly compare pictures to her old self. I think you must not have eyes LOL oh wait or was it puberty hitting her in her late 20s?

[@cyanidesidesalad]

Ive been telling people for years how gross that song she made “breakup with your girlfriend cause I’m bored” and yet I feel like only now people are catching on the the fact she’s not only a homewrecker but probably a cheater too.

[@apriscillau]

It’s the “It’s giving Ned Fulmer” for me LOL

[@sanez25]

I have alot of her songs in my Playlist but this one I never added because I can never relate to a song where I like a guy who is already in a relationship. Now that we all know that she was singing from her perspective I don't even want to listen to -thank you next and Dangerous women 🤢

[@sugarplum2467]

While I don't thin Ariana writes her own music I'm amused at everyone going for the obvious song and not 'One Last Time' which is way more morally wrong in its lyrics than Break Up With Your Girlfriend. Also....nobody seems to go after Avril Lavigne for 'Girlfriend' and it's literally the same lyrics. These girls don't write their songs......

[@greenbanana1001]

Same it was a red flag for me when she released that song

[@itsoliviarose]

lol true, like the song wouldn’t mean much if her actions didn’t align with it… i used to have a fan account for her on IG 😭

[@itsnoneofyourbusiness0]

The most fucked up thing is that Ariana spent time with Ethan his wife and their baby LIKE WTTTF

[@gabifgt]

nasty as hell

[@mar1nn998]

Disturbing

[@itsnoneofyourbusiness0]

@@mar1nn998 FRR

[@fIuoras]

She probably wants the wife’s life (baby + marriage) but she’s incapable of staying with someone long enough

[@itsnoneofyourbusiness0]

@@fIuoras yeah might be

[@milkteamichelle]

i’m seeing a lot of her fans being upset over Lilly going to news sources about this. of course she’s upset? her life and family with her high school sweetheart was destroyed. i love Ariana so much and i’m a huge fan but what she did was so sinister. though ethan is the biggest loser in this situation imo

[@raisafonseca2033]

Also, I dont think LJ needs to go to news sources, you can bet they are all actually coming to her for the tea. Ariana's people are so mad that LJ is not going quietly

[@mongdc]

As she should! She was blindsided and they both deserve the hate and a part of the public humiliation she had to go through

[@DeeLite220]

She can talk all she wants. She’s likely the only one without an NDA. Good for her.

[@farrukhnaqvisyed4094]

i agree with you

[@chantellewestlund1182]

Ever since Ariana released "break up with your gf cause I'm bored" I got a major ick.. glad I wasn't wrong about her

[@munmunil]

i mean she’s telling him to break up before they get together that song has some morality compared to her actions now 😭

[@lysolmyfish]

@@munmunilYOU DID NOT HAHAH 😭😭😭😭

[@Monica3400]

That song should’ve been a red flag 🚩

[@hsuyiymsksps2345]

Its just a song💀

[@Monica3400]

@@hsuyiymsksps2345 Yeah. But the song reflects how Ariana can’t stand being single and wants to wreck relationships.

[@sofi_773]

Imagine cheating on your high school sweetheart, divorcing her, and continuing to see the other woman who literally can't stay in a committed relationship 💀 This was obvious ever since her Australian ex boyfriend called her out years ago when she cheated on him with Nate.

[@drumcapo13]

And it like 1000% out of his league

[@cacia247]

Is she the only one in the wrong 100% no but the pattern of behavior is disgusting. I hope Lilly finds solace in the fact that no matter what, tomorrow Ariana will wake up the same broken person she is now and that Ethan (when Ariana is done with him) will wake up realizing he gave up everything and has nothing to show for it.

[@autumnmoody6221]

I'm glad someone else thought the pattern was disgusting. I get that it takes two to tango but, when you are constantly the girl that someones boyfriend cheated on them with I don't know how you cannot feel bad. LIke its understandable if it happens once or twice but that amount is alarming like maybe we should back away and rethink dating some of these guys. This could be a reason the relationships haven't been lasting long as well since people who cheat often do it again.

[@abbied]

@@autumnmoody6221Ariana is a serial cheater

[@gabifgt]

if you're actively pursuing someone who you know is in a comitted relationship and has a family, you're disgusting. while ariana may not have the biggest share of guilt, she's still guilty. let's not use equality to blame cheaters, especially serial cheaters. this isn't her first time doing this. what makes things worse is the fact that lily just had a child and ariana befriended them. i can't imagine being betrayed by my spouse like this, so publicly, when i have a baby to care for and have to deal with divorce and stuff with the homewrecker's fans invading my privacy and invalidating my feelings. i wish her strength and peace.

[@TheNetReactor]

I can't believe that my girl is a homewrecker. Yikes!!

[@mirandalorincz7530]

I mean, she does have a song that goes “I know it ain’t right, but I don’t care..Break up with your girlfriend, cus I’m boreeeddd” 🤣🥺

[@kayla11585]

​@@mirandalorincz7530😂

[@ilikefood056]

Naya Rivera hinted that Big Sean cheated on her with Ariana. In her book I believe Naya wanted to see Big Sean after being apart for some time for work, but apparently he was being a dick. She had the keys to his house (they were engaged that time) and she walked in and saw Ariana

[@lexipitts3028]

It’s disgusting when someone makes it their goal to ruin relationships and families…what pleasure do u get out of hurting another woman? Or taking the father away from its child???but this is the same girl who wished death on her fans so I’m not surprised

[@sawyer9969]

can u elaborate on the wishing death on her fans part? Not an ariana fan I just haven't heard of this

[@raisafonseca2033]

No one is taking away that father, except for himself. Ariana and Ethan are trash because they were both married, but Ethan is fully and exclusively responsible for his family falling apart. Call it like it is: he ABANDONED his child.

[@crispyyrosee]

​@@sawyer9969earlier in her career, she was overwhelmed by the number of fans at a show or meet and greet, and she remarked to her staff "I wish they would all just die!" 😑

[@sanez25]

Just looking at her face disgusts me now and I am sad that half of my Playlist is her songs. And what's more effing disgusting and screwed is that fact her fans will defend her,this isn't her first time,she hurt so many women and still their pain is not justified just because of the fact that she got more fame and power. The world is messed up

[@MikelleG]

@@crispyyroseelmao real ones remember this I 100% believe she said this. Ironic that her fans died in manchester. My mom always says “watch what you say, it could backfire.”

[@Halite47]

Her next hit single “Divorce your wife, I’m bored”

[@Laurens_World6]

next single correction:” I’m a home wrecker but don’t care!”😂

[@randomperson8313]

​@@Laurens_World6lmao you weren't wrong 😂

[@Kim_Kardashi-un]

I have seen Ariana's fans joining to cancel other women like Selena, Taylor or Miley in a heartbeat yet they are still silence about the fact that she has not only wrecked a home once but actually multiple times, the hypocrisy lol

[@eliralsei]

It's so embarrassing to be an Ariana Grande fan now 🥲

[@mar1nn998]

Her music quality and her talent have nothing to do with her personality

[@Unavailablea4]

Yes I'm so glad I was never a fan of her lol

[@nasagrande9986]

She is free

[@excusemeum.iloveyou]

I’m not embarrassed. Wear her merch loud and proud.

[@eliralsei]

@@excusemeum.iloveyou Girl, her merch is fucking expensive and it's not even available in my country. How can I be proud of supporting a homewrecker?

[@suan333]

Lilly seems so classy. I'm pretty sure she's gonna meet a good guy someday and her son is gonna grow up to be a good man, too. Ethan... Well. He f*cked.

[@LuanaCaps99]

If a guy would cheat on his gf for me i would not feel honored, its an immediate turn-off! ariana made the concious choice (repeatedly) to only date men who are in relationsips. Both are at fault, 100%, but this is not arianas first rodeo... How hard can it be to not flirt with men who are in relationships? lets switch roles: If it were a guy serial-dating women who are in realtionships and then left them, would you still blame the the girls who cheat or the manipulator? If you ask me, ariana has a serious mental problem if she only dates men who are already in relationships. Its not like it happened only once. its literally every single guy she dates. Thats more than evil.....especially since ariana looooves her "classy girl, good girl, good manners"-vibe. Fake :/

[@crisspena2211]

Exactly 👏🏽

[@julesoxana]

Exactlyy

[@miapet1358]

I hate cheaters. Ariana’s behavior (and that of her partners) is terrible, but I almost feel sorry for her. It’s just palpable that she has a very low sense of self worth and is trying to fill the void by taking other women’s husbands.

[@ineedacoffeee]

Yeah, Ethan is the man and should know better, but Ariana allegedly was friends with Lily & Ethan as a couple….she KNEW he was married it seems like she didn’t care because the attention felt good. 🤷🏻‍♀️ they’re both a-holes in the situation. Lily and the child suffer the most.

[@rlx1473]

I'm do glad people are starting to acknowledge this. Particularly that she was the other woman where Mac Miller is concerned. She massively contributed to his decade long relationship ending, then cheated on him and then he spiraled dramatically yet some people still talk about her being some love of his life. She was detrimental to his life in a literal sense. She's got so much bad karma due, I'm glad it's finally coming around to her. I'd love to be able to hear Naya's thoughts on all of this. R.i.p

[@aksharaanand1034]

At this point, I consider "being an Ariana fan" a red flag

[@Unavailablea4]

It has always been she's had a history of taken women away from their bf and breaking them up

[@evette2946]

She has millions and millions of young and impressionable fans who haven’t even had their first kiss yet, let alone have the maturity to understand the concept of cheating, relationships, and marriage. Also you’ll always have people who could care less about the morals of celebrities and still listen to /watch their work regardless. Kardashians are still successful abs doing just fine. R.Kelly still has fans, etc.

[@aksharaanand1034]

@@evette2946 I'm not talking about young kids who can't differentiate between right and wrong and don't have that kind of emotional and mental maturity. I mean adults who now have clear morals.

[@moka_dotz3149]

I’ve been a fan of Ari since I was in elementary I went to her first world tour concert. I’m super crushed to say the least but yea I’m not a fan no more.

[@evette2946]

@@aksharaanand1034 I also stated that some adult fans will still not care because of the concept of separating the artist from their personal life.

[@little.heathen]

Ariana is known to be rude and she doesn’t care about other people. It’s not surprising.

[@ayshayates2596]

“It’s giving Ned Fulmer” Me: SPITS OUT WATER IN LAUGHTER BAHAHAHAHAH😂😂😂😂

[@minxiimayhem6781]

It really feels like Ariana has a pattern of just seeing someone she thinks is cute and instantly needing to jump into relationships at any cost. It's sad to see this woman be so boy crazy and I feel so bad for this new mom who now has to go through all of this. Let's all just hope this is a blessing in disguise for her and her child. And as for Ariana... she's accountable for her own actions, fame and money don't absolve you of being a crappy person

[@flightofthexwings]

100% agreed - it takes two to tango and there's not one single person to blame for this. Because if they both went from marriage to other people to dating each other, it's both of their faults.

[@Flynn-eh8hv]

the only reason people are targetting ariana more in this situation is because the pattern of behavior is right there... her boyfriends were taken from their respective partners and she is now Allegedly stealing someone else's husband away from his family. who would want to support that kind of person? :/

[@baneyney7002]

I don’t get people bringing up the men in this situation. Yes, we all know they are scummy and are cheaters as well. We get that and they deserve heat for it. But so does Ariana. She literally preys on taken men and consciously ruins relationships, which is just as if not more scummy. We know the men cheated too but were talking about Ariana here and she’s a homewrecker. Plain and simple. Don’t try to divert attention away from her scummy actions by talking about the cheating men.

[@rewdskwid]

Exactly, women who go after taken men are not victims. Yes, the man takes most of the blame because he's the one with the relationship but women just shouldn't do that to other women, no matter how much the man wants it. Girl code, we need solidarity.

[@aspireistoinspirebeforewee3519]

She can’t prey on men if they don’t want to cheat it’s that simple. Y’all are holding her to a higher standard than him because she’s a women

[@xelmx123]

No. The person who made the commitment should be flamed. Ariana ain't shit for this let me be real clear, but she does not owe anything to Lily, the person who made a commitment should aka Ethan. Idc if I marry someone, women will dangle themselves like carrots in front of u which is disgusting but if u fall for it YOU are in the wrong mostly. again Ariana is not clear but it is def ETHAN who broke his commitment

[@eli6821]

it's the "boys will be boys" ass phrase for me? Who was the one with the commitment?

[@baneyney7002]

@@eli6821 literally both them cheated on their partners for each other??? And where is the "Boys will be boys" phrase. Can you not read?

[@Ginn823]

I feel for the wife. It hurts same thing happened to me with my ex hubby when our son was 3 after a decade long marriage straight outta high school. Prayers for her and that cute lil baby! It will get better! She's so pretty and he's a short apparent shitty ogre so yeah she'll come out better than they do on the other side of this!

[@aiyanari41]

I’m so sorry that happened to you 😢😢 I hope you and your son are doing well and I also feel bad for the wife and the child I really hope things get better for them

[@emiilyrachael]

I feel for Lilly Jay. Especially since there’s a child involved now. So sad :(

[@r577-v9s]

this girl has done so many shady things, probably more than we know but she always get away with it bc of her popularity. is she 100% evil? no. but i think she only apologized once for her mistakes (the donut incident) and that apology didnt even sound sincere. she thinks she can get away with everything bc she is used to being spoiled and getting everything she wants. i feel so sorry for the woman who has to raise her son by herself now just bc of a fling.

[@katc.6922]

I can’t imagine Lily’s pain

[@sisterstrange78]

I have low self esteem too, but I’d never steal someone’s man. I have abandonment issues, but I would never hold the baby of a woman I’d betrayed so royally. Unresolved trauma makes you do all kinds of things, but it doesn’t make you a bad person. Ariana is a bad person, her behavior is proof of that.

[@osnapitzem]

Why do y’all believe this so much y’all are so gullible

[@recreatio]

@@osnapitzem oh, so, did she not pursue a guy who was already married with a child?

[@markramos1216]

September 2022: Alex cheats with “The Wife Guy” July 2023: Ariana Grande cheats with “Broadway SpongeBob” _”You like Krabby Patties, don’t you, Ariana?”_ 😂

[@StahseedRainboWarrior]

Why does your language say SHE cheated with him, when ALL involved are cheaters...? And I'm not justifying ANYTHING, but Alex wasn't the one who was married with a kid.... 🤷‍♀️ They ALL suck and bear responsibility.

[@mariella2884]

You have that very backwards. Ethan is the one leaving a 10 yr relationship and new child. Ned was the one who used "the wife guy" narrative to profit for years to then cheat with an employee under him. Everyone involved is wrong but these men are never called homewreckers or sluts. How do we know that ETHAN didn't wreck Ariana's marriage.

[@stayrigo]

More like September 2022: "The Wife Guy" cheats July 2023 : "Broadway SpongeBob" cheats They both were in long relationships and have children

[@noelfluffy_lee9140]

She saw it, she liked it ,she wanted it, she got it... literally. She really did herself dirty this time...a homewrecker isn't actually a pretty title

[@peekaboots01]

Getting what she wants seems to be her life.

[@sophiaisabelle027]

If only Ethan Slater knew this wasn't gonna last, he wouldn't have reached this point of constantly pining after mega popstar Ariana Grande. She's still going through a divorce, and I bet so is he. Basically there's an overlap between the two marriages. Got everyone's eyebrows raising when these two are now confirmed to be dating according to multiple source outlets. As a result, Slater's child would have to face the harsh reality of his father moving so quickly to ending his marriage with Lilly Jay. It's one of the messiest Hollywood scandals we've seen so far in 2023, that's for sure.

[@mery11._11]

A lot of people (especially the stans) forget her messy past and that everyone under the sun called her a bitch at least once. They focus on her success when in reality she really is a horrible person she’s the type of person to say the n word and then fool everyone into thinking she’s the most sweet little kind girl there is and that she has many black friends. I hope more people see her for who she really is now

[@lquidore]

Whole situation makes me so sad and is so disappointing

[@rimshakhalid787]

Fr

[@cupcake8905]

As a Ariana Grande fan, I cant even express anything anymore about the things she did because I used to love her so much when I was very little. This actually makes me genuinely hurt because I trusted her.😔

[@SoSquadOfficial]

same using up the the perfumes rn and scatching recording and tearing posters

[@cupcake8905]

@@SoSquadOfficial I missed the days when I thought she was a good person.😢

[@gxorgiex]

Same I was at her Manchester arena concert in 2017 I used to love her so much, her music got me through my deep depression and I really looked up to her for that, now I am just disappointed but unfortunately not surprised :(

[@SoSquadOfficial]

@@cupcake8905 same:(

[@SoSquadOfficial]

@@gxorgiex yeah her music also got my thru a lot but if you think abt it there been many people trying to tell us who she really was they just weren't trusted people wrong messenger right message

[@leahwalker192]

UMM "stop putting all the blame on women"? Stop going after men in relationships! The feminine audactiy is ludicrous.

[@gotalotofpencils]

I feel like Ariana is one of those people who are just in love with the honeymoon phase in the relationship. Like she loves to have someone be absolutely head over heels over her and the second it starts to become a "real" relationship and things kind of come to a normal stand still, she opts out of it. I feel like that's why all her relationships come to a close pretty quickly, because she refuses to let the relationship move past that.

[@konstantinospsallas9320]

i remember a couple of months ago an extra from victorious made a video on tiktok and said that one time Ariana came up to a guy backstage and asked him if he had a girlfriend, he said yes and she replied "let's take a picture together and make her jealous". She's been like this since her nickelodeon days that woman is disgusting.

[@magicraccoons]

I find it really sad because Lilly Jay was with Ethan even before he got famous. She wasn't some old flame who reappeared once he hit it big trying to take advantage of the fame. To go through all that just for him to ditch her for Arianna which he probably thinks is an upgrade is awful. I wish her the best and hopefully, she'll find happiness with someone who will appreciate her the way she should be.

[@captainfoxheart]

There is no possible overlap that was overlapping every relationship she's ever been in she's literally cheated to get them and on them after she had them. She's The village bike

[@discobones]

Absolutely WILD how she's willing to out herself as the homewrecker and throw her reputation in the trash by going public with this relationship that probably won't even last 6 months.

[@captainfoxheart]

Even in theory Ariana tried to backpedal and say she was leaving them be to work on things. He literally abandon his wife and newborn baby nothing in the world will save his reputation as a human being or hers

[@kaiipop4762]

As a fan since victorious era I’m disappointed and don’t think I can support her anymore, I hope Lily is ok because this is a messy situation overall

[@kachiggabro]

Ethan isn't even attractive and he cheats on his beautiful wife for Arianna 😭😂

[@Blast2224]

Ariana: Sings about destroying relationships Fans: YAS honey slay girl boss werk queen okurrrrr Ariana: Actually *does it* Fans: Wait…but like….

[@JamyangKingYoesel]

I guess she wasn’t joking around when she said “ I like it , I want it , I get it “

[@cathoffmann9353]

My God poor Lily...can you imagine being with a guy for ten years, and having his baby only for him to not love you anymore and start dating another woman before you are officially divorced?

[@atheistium]

Imaging breaking your marriage for serial-dater Ariana

[@rachell71]

Ariana is the common denominator in too many problems. And I’m sorry - but you’re too wealthy for distance from London to LA to be that much of an issue. They rushed into their marriage and couldn’t handle marriage problems. Ethan is also just absolute trash. He went for something he perceived as better IMMEDIATELY with no regard for his wife and baby.

[@ayah2114]

my grandma recently taught me how to clean rings specifically a diamond ring with a toothbrush and bar soap it took like 40 seconds at best that whole getting it cleaned thing is so unnecessary and doesnt even sound like a real excuse now that everyone uses it

[@DeeLite220]

I can’t get over her pompous English accent 😂. Is she Brit-fishing now?

[@cassoIa]

@@DeeLite220omg I know! She’s had a tonne of accents over the years, it’s wild

[@EliseArtology]

Her songs "Break Up with Your Girlfriend, I'm Bored," and "Thank You Next" take on a whole new meaning...

[@ioanzatui]

Ariana looks so different, her thin frame is becoming skeletal, and her face is so altered by cosmetic surgeries that I didn't realize some of her pics were actually her. Along with the rumors of her pissy personality and these cheating accusations, it's a big yikes, Ariana. What is up?? 😬😵‍💫

[@bhargavipba]

Also the blonde look does not suit her. I know it's for a movie, but she looks even more sickly.

[@toribarnes8]

it looks like she’s doing hard drugs

[@sunspot5530]

the way people are trying to take the blame off of her by making this an “all men” situation is insane

[@Journey58000]

The fact I chose to do my research on this today and you posted 48 minutes ago… MADE IT EASY! Thank you!!

[@Jpn82]

I have a coworker that is a young, beautiful blonde bombshell who is quite successful with her career too. However she solely goes for married men…I think there must be something fundamentally wrong with your self esteem to choose to destroy a family/ couple?? I feel so bad for the women who’s now a single mum to a newborn child 💔

[@johnq4061]

Or she’s just a bad person.

[@b.k8051]

None of us had heard of Ethan Slater before Ariana decided to steal him. Great career move

[@smathened]

i wouldnt say none of us, im a theatre nerd so my jaw fucking dropped because he is the last person i’d expect to cheat with ariana grande

[@gwenn7748]

even if more ppl knew about him, his life is destroyed. he ruined a 10 yr marriage where he had a kid. this may also cause ppl to boycott the movie too lol

[@K5YA_]

It’s just the fact that apparently, lily didn’t know. She found out just like how everyone found out, at the SAME time. That’s just terrible.

[@saran4783]

“It’s giving Ned Fulmer” LMFAOOO

[@AliSakurai]

She's(grande) 30 but perpetually a teenager who thinks that she could do whatever the hell she wants. The best revenge Lily can do right now is make sure that her son never sees that sperm donor again. And I am 100% against keeping a child away from their father if they love them. I'm just makin an exception because that child doesn't deserve a father like that.

[@erikandchristine102]

These musical theater tenors man 😂 There is so much going on

[@flightofthexwings]

As an alto who dated a musical theater tenor, can confirm 🤣

[@adorableaaliyah7004]

She is a homewrecker. This girl needs help. Its not normal for her to constantly steal bf's/husband.

[@yatoswag]

while i DONT excuse Cheating whatsoever, *if you are in a relationship - BREAK UP before anything new, if you meet someone that is in a relationship - LEAVE them ALONE and find someone thats single!* it must be hard to be a celebrity when strangers and everyone else is in your business ._.

[@luciacastillo1420]

Lmao at "it's giving Ned Fulmer" 🤣

[@bonza8438]

Not the first time she did this. Remember big sean and Naya. Shame on Ethan, but it takes two.

[@bethebong]

"...Your loves not too kind, to me ..." -Mac 💔

[@lambulance]

Anyway. I hope Lilly Jay and her baby are having a good day 💗

[@elizabethhodge2335]

They'll have a wonderful life. She's beautiful and I know she'll do much better...now

[@sugasarmyyy7437]

I’ve never liked her. She always gave off “mean girl” vibes to me.

[@tom_j.]

I didn't like her ever since I found out how she treated Pete, so I'm not surprised if it's all true🤷‍♂️

[@6yeesus9]

Omg what happened with Pete?

[@mongdc]

Spill the tea ☕️

[@MillieRolph]

Spill the tea please

[@sydan-wv9tm]

pete deserved everything after he joked about that bombing in her concert

[@LuigiCroissant7579]

@@sydan-wv9tm Imagine going out of your way to embarrass your ex (Nationaly) to saying you dated them because you were bored. He has every right to throw shots back. I never once heard of him making that joke.

[@melovetolaugh6417]

The tiktok video where she mentions why she’s not wearing her ring…. I was surprised! Not only she changed race but also accent??

[@MsNoMeGusta]

Elizabeth Taylor would be proud. She can rest easy knowing she has found a worthy successor 😂

[@Ashbrash1998]

Nah Ariana would have to marry Ethan like 4 times or something

[@plexigirls101]

the fact that there are actually people out there defending her?? it takes two to tango she knew what she was doing going after men who are in relationships just to drop them once she’s bored 😒

[@yasveck]

the comments are mostly about arianna rightfully so but look at the guy who left his POSTPARTUM WIFE. he betrayed her in such a deep level. theyre both awful people.

[@Onederland2319]

And once filming is over…the relationship will be over.

[@kuuipo823]

It takes 2 to tango. The husbands/boyfriend are guilty for cheating as much as she is for even involving herself and going forward with the relationship IF she knew they were taken in the first place.

[@sparklyunicorn5431]

she did... she held their baby and went out to eat with them.

[@kuuipo823]

@sparklyunicorn5431 oh I know,I meant by her past relationships. [Malcolm,Big Sean etc.] I have no clue if she knew they were already in a relationship prior or married with someone else,I don't know her track record,I just know the guys from the songs and that's it lol don't know the back story,in fact I didn't even know she got married,divorced too.

[@Kass29]

OMG IVE BEEN WAITINGGG FOR YOU TO COVER THIS!!!! Thank you😍😍