Ep 13: Pop The Balloon Or Find Love | With Arlette Amuli

Welcome back to my channel! Our first episode to kick off season 2! In this episode we got singles from all across the USA! Pop that balloon if you're not feeling the person or keep it to find out if they're your match!
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[@gtbproductions_]

Is it just me or do i still hear “James, James Gourmet Pie” 😭😂

[@AGtheSOTAman]

😂😂😂

[@soundsfromthealtar825]

😂😂😂

[@champagneliah]

LOLLL this is crazy!!! He was the funniest and sweetest 😭😭

[@rydapin]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 weak af

[@187Blackheart]

😂

[@ThenotoriousAmerican1]

I understand why everyone is single. It’s all starting to make sense now.

[@LilMsMixed52]

American black women!!!!! 😂

[@AbiAkoms]

Right! Lol some of these reasons for popping are so chilidish

[@cdub3019]

They not here for love, y'all! They here tryna get exposure for a little raggedy perfume, promote their brand, gain more followers, get deals, book acting jobs, they are not here for love. I repeat: these women and men are NOT HERE FOR LOVE

[@noblestrength]

@@cdub3019I agree.

[@mimis.201]

It’s really sad, but yes, I agree

[@MerzlakSaide]

I'm 47yrs old. $73,000 biweekly and I'm retired, this video have inspired me greatly in many ways!!!!❤️

[@joselbaink5]

I'm inspired. Please spill some sugar about the biweekly stuff you mentioned

[@MerzlakSaide]

I raised 75k and Christina Ann Tucker is to be thanked. I got my self my dream car 🚗 just last weekend, My journey with her started after my best friend came back from New York and saw me suffering in dept then told me about her and how to change my life through her. Christina A. Tucker is the kind of person one needs in his or her life! I got a home, a good wife, and a beautiful daughter. Note: this is not a promotion but me trying to make a point that no matter what happens, always have faith and keep living!!

[@pardiseofficial3569]

Wow 😱 I know her too Miss Christina Ann Tucker is a remarkable individual who has brought immense positivity and inspiration into my life.!

[@pardiseofficial3569]

I started with a miserly $1500. The results have been mind blowing I must say TBH!

[@HugoRachid]

< I know that woman(Christina Ann Tucker) If you were born and raised in new York you'd know too, No doubt she is the one that helped you get where you are!!!

[@DDT61586]

1M views in a day is CRAZY WORK. Congrats to Arlette. Everyone is addicted to this show because it's genuinely the best. Classy & not trashy. Salute, keep going.

[@JhonnyStone100]

Exactly. 1M on an hr long vid especially on a pop the balloon (over saturated)

[@aaronwalker4719]

💯

[@chellbell7899]

Annoying but addicting lmao. 5’0 girl said they’re the same height 😅

[@Clarkinstructedu]

This is my guilty pleasure. Love this show...immensely

[@Soyosan22]

It is trashy and that's why we are watching it. :)

[@steveesper8265]

The last girl has zero personality 😭 like girl she doesn’t even know what she’s saying

[@gymboy2119]

Thought I was the only that noticed. Absolutely zero personality. She seems very superficial as well

[@anissamarshall4588]

She was so annoying didn’t have a mind of her own she was following everything the other girls said

[@destinyj23]

Right, and when she said she does not smoke "but know people who do I for PTSD", like what? He asked do you not your friends 😂

[@kalisparks3189]

She honestly just seemed really nervous

[@Oxes]

Fax lmaooo

[@HelloKittyDollz]

the last girl's answers are so brain dead. she's so easily influenced by the other girls .

[@whiterussia9232]

Might be the nerves. It looks like it’s hot in there and they are standing in heals for hours.

[@mr_knowitall]

When the one man complimented her for not being selfish and she made it a point to point out that she is selfish.... At least she's honest.

[@alonzoperryman]

Bird brain

[@Craftedbywaltz]

​@mr_knowitall exactly I was like what the hell? She will definitely remain single.

[@ollisfelton3223]

Facts she act slow an boring

[@googleuser6490]

The first man is SO RESPECTFUL and genuine. These ladies don’t know what they missed out on.

[@portiaandrews2996]

Yep 👍 they missed a great man there

[@tabs9183]

Yep, police make great money, have pensions, and this guy is respectful and seem like he was raised right.

[@Soyosan22]

they like thugs and dealers, so it is no surprise

[@Essays4College]

Seems like they don't even know what a good man is. This probably is a result of so many single-parent households with no father. You're seeing it in all the episodes here. The guys don't know how to dress like men and the women don't know what to look for in a man.

[@addictaedtokookie1622]

​@@tabs9183 why was him being a police an issue actually?

[@n0limitsosa]

Saying someone is too short for your liking, although he is 8" taller than you is crazzyyyy😂

[@thatboydre8649]

Fr like 8 inches is a lot women out of all ppl should know this

[@alisjay9798]

She’s allowed to have her standards, men with beer bellies say they want a woman that’s in shape everyday lol so what

[@loieltizbedstuyboo3776]

She just likes tall men, taller then me doesn’t equal tall men she may like them basketball player height maily because she’s short. Some just prefer the latter and that’s absolutely ok

[@tylarjohnson6886]

“Sticking to the code” is the dumbest reason in the history of this show smh

[@Dr3ams2rea1ity]

She couldn’t even explain that meant smh

[@jaym9200]

Yea she wasn't saying much of anything and dude had zero personality.

[@dhj_1843]

So annoying

[@Mannykall]

she’s just dumb….simple!

[@Sneakergasom]

Literally, being a follower and still in line

[@steph6084]

FIRST MAN was an absolute gentleman. I know he’ll find his match in the real world one day

[@C_In_Outlaw3817]

Came here to type this. Youre so right. Very much a gentleman. Those women were trippin tbh

[@atfi100]

Yea I think he's a gentleman... ✨️

[@nunyabusiness3516]

Exactly! They're fools. He has a respectable career. Some of them popped balloons because others did. The lady on the end was a complete idiot😂😂😂 he dodged a bullet

[@user-xf7qd6tx6v]

very mature and self controlled. Seems like a good choice, they just couldn't see it

[@tnavywilson]

The last lady that popped because of a code but didn't even know the code was clown 🤡 type shit...

[@KioenYant]

This show unmistakably proves that intelligence and beauty are not synonymous.

[@candicelee4039]

😂😂😂😂 facts

[@ArghRawrWhoa]

Why steal comments?

[@ririlachman7499]

Finally someone who said it

[@1mrsadkinson]

Chile the internet alone proves that! 🤣

[@charlesb3986]

When she says "We have a match!" it fill my heart every time lol

[@shakeahmcdaniel6659]

Yeeesss I be saying it with her I love it

[@teasquared09]

First man was like- “I’m a cop”, and shit started poppin like it was the 4th of July 😂

[@Danieei]

Dead 😂

[@kenyandrama]

But these women are smashing pookies right and left and acting brand new

[@LambTalk-oc5zg]

They said 🤬 12😂😂💯

[@condesabeatriz9303]

😂😂😂

[@damiandennis3740]

No need for that we will just call Aaron😂😂

[@potato9619]

She said “I want you to have a good relationship with both your parents” AS IF HE CHOOSE FOR HIS FATHER TO BE A DEADBEAT 😭

[@TrendingLT]

I think his first response about who he was and his caring for his mother, sister and neice? This outweighed getting along with dad.

[@Savannahjuarez9]

right, I always hate this question. We have no control over who our parents are.

[@rakiyyahboyd7716]

@@TrendingLTit doesnt i promise

[@user-lp2he1md6i]

I mean people talk shit about fatherless women all the time. People can choose to date someone who grew up without a father or not

[@tla0324]

It's not fair but Life sometimes isn't. Of course people with common sense know this basic fact but ppl are cruel and will judge a human knowing it's something they cant control, but i look at it as people who may not want to date someone with a disability (which is also cruel when you think about it) but for some reason nobody focuses on that because we kind of understand and give everyone the choice. When it comes to dating who are we to tell our fellow man not to be choosy? They have every right to be specific about the traits they want when choosing a partner and this is coming from someone who has never had a relationship with my biological father. I can understand not wanting those issues. We need to altogether not get hung up on the dating standards people have for themselves ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY ARE BEING DIRECTLY ASKED.

[@WatsonDimanche]

The dictator looking dude was hilarious.. my boy wasn’t taking no shit! Respect

[@bianca4579]

SHOLL WASNT!

[@toraa6456]

😂😂 my boy got a foot fetish!!

[@rechaddaartist4150]

He loves sum Feet...😂

[@Solutions-xv9im]

No respect. He was butthurt from the start.

[@josepholiver5412]

Fo sho

[@ItzYoGyalCuTiE]

Second guy and that girl with the bucket hat, I already saw chemistry in them. They both got that joyful radiant smile. All of them have beautiful smiles. But those two together seems just so beautiful.❤

[@1N3SOUL]

I said the same thing. I was like stop playing y’all know y’all know each other already.

[@addictaedtokookie1622]

they are so cute together lol!

[@willemdee]

The woman 2 inches away from being classified as a “Dwarf” saying a man who is 5 foot 8 is too short is sad.

[@cierrasworld2001]

bruhhh😂😂😂😂😂

[@quanbee5359]

😂😂😂😂

[@a-sinnersavedbygrace415]

🫢🤭🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@shutupnvibe]

insane! isn’t it?

[@toduno927]

It’s her preference and that’s okay

[@sabadaga1]

Short women discriminating against short men is the joke of the century.

[@androyd87tv]

Very weird

[@secondaccounte1209]

I disagree... Many men love "fun sized" women... However many women don't like fun sized men

[@thetrashtalktvshow]

Only black women

[@androyd87tv]

@@thetrashtalktvshow you must be white?

[@alyssaisnotdoneyet]

​@thetrashtalktvshow Not true. Stop taking every opportunity to throw dirt on black women.

[@MOUTHWORDsaid]

The second match looked so good together! Their aesthetic matched and gave put together professional black couple🤎

[@bianca4579]

Yes, peep that too, of they outfits match, they a match

[@deenite3207]

Guy- I don’t like smokers Kiana- “I’m not a smoker, but I know a lot of smokers” - you can’t make this stuff up!!

[@cookiemj4]

I'm hollering!! She had my head hurting the entire time!

[@perspe_tive]

The shorter guy being denied for his height by the shortest girl right off the bat was crazy

[@slim9029]

😂

[@Nandi1992]

Right though 😂

[@samathelegend]

😅😅😅

[@Labios_Rotos]

This show is full or irony. The shortest or ugliest women asking for the most.

[@jeromejohnson1526]

Shorty 5 feet. How is she judging his height smh

[@Iam5starc]

As the show goes on you can literally see why each person is single...

[@OozySK]

U can see why they're divorced mom/dads

[@Craftedbywaltz]

Exactly 😂 💯

[@maltarpeddy]

@@Iam5starc I said the same thing. They’ll be single for a while and it’s their own doing

[@jkinsey001]

Comment of the night

[@rauhashagandjua9538]

For real, what do you mean "because he's a police" WHAT? There's so much beyond such. This people aint looking for anything serious there's no way😅

[@ThisIsUCHMAN]

It just seems like Nkiru is on a mission to pop her balloons for all the guys without any solid reason...

[@googleuser6490]

Last girl NEEDS TO FIND HERSELF!!! I can tell she’s very indecisive with life.

[@Amandaronell]

I love when Arlette asks “what makes him/ her not your type” and they just come up with anything 😂😂🤦🏽‍♀️

[@Cashandlivestyle]

Though I was the only one noticing it

[@bamfordblue6853]

Lol right? "Wellll...the day ends in Y...."

[@SportsTalk101_]

“ sticking to the code “ made me die 💀💀💀💀💀

[@lynesec532]

@@SportsTalk101_😭😭😭

[@KevinHunter-jt2rd]

@@SportsTalk101_ what was that 🤣🤣🤣

[@serinaa14]

Lol the last girl is a airhead, definitely giving she only works at the shoe store 😂😂

[@TrunxKraft3000]

EXACTLY 😂😂😂

[@dobia4486]

Yeah no way she's a supervisor at a shoe store and has time for the rest like that lol

[@KEVINJAMES-jp8qb]

So true she doesnt have any great communication skills she is a straight up airhead like she is high or some

[@Browngurl1996]

lol glad I’m not the only who thought about this

[@thekiyahj]

literally! she was sooooo airhead

[@VoVina111]

When the girl said "you're not wearing socks" and another girl popped the balloon immediately after, I Lol'd 🤣🤣🤣 Edit: @ 36:37 hahaha

[@ecclairmayo4153]

That took me out!😂

[@Cloudkiller01]

OMG I JUST SAW THAT NOW 😂😂😂😂 I had to rewind it. Did NOT expect that part to be that funny. Holy shit.

[@VoVina111]

@Cloudkiller01 Ikr she popped it like it was a whole crime 😂 lmao

[@dajaebrown8358]

I’m over here crying in tears after she said you ain’t got no socks and a balloon was popped immediately after that statement 😭🤣🤣🤣

[@assquiat]

“no, he’s a police” she’s HR bro she’s basically the police too tbh

[@pearlpearl3806]

😂😂 you have a point

[@anag329]

Lmaoo

[@thebanksway3293]

Facts

[@growwithwill5070]

Facts lmao

[@cocochanel773]

That girl couldn’t even speak properly. She seemed a bit slow.

[@zion9146]

She made a mess of that answer by saying ‘sticking to the code’ 🤣🤣 she coulda just said no to his job like the others without putting a dark twist on it

[@Ky-xn8ud]

She is odd!! Form your own opinion there is no code!!!!

[@kontroversial_kris]

Yeah she was mad weird anyway

[@mnyhgry74ram77]

😂😂😂

[@JH-zn4us]

Exactly...like are you grown...weird

[@tima.478]

Proof yet again, lots of women roll with a "sheep mentality," and just follow what they see other women doing. Shyt is crazy!

[@TanguDisen]

1 million views in one day is CRAZY WORK. Arlette deserves congratulations. Since it's the best, everyone is hooked to this show. elegant and not risqué. Salute and continue.

[@TheCoolkid789]

Nah for real. I was shook to see it on #18 trending. She is killing it 🔥🔥 So happy for her and BM

[@eriolaakingboye4576]

"Stand by the code", "not even bass in his voice", "Hair at the back not properly cut" ..... lmaoo. Where do they get theseeee🤣🤣🤣

[@TheHealthGuy305]

The voice was valid we all heard it 😂

[@bianca4579]

ashy lips, just all types of complaints, just say he's not your type, and move on

[@ecclairmayo4153]

Nah he sounded like a kitten . Stop playin😂

[@LJMcCrayUofF]

“smoking calms people with ptsd even though i don’t smoke or have ptsd” that woman was givin the dumbest reasons to pop 😂😂😂😂

[@28visions]

😂😂😂

[@hatshepsutiv]

A textbook airhead.

[@meneedmoney]

Yea she slow I’m sorru

[@trezrogers2385]

😂😂😂

[@marlonbeckford4293]

😂😂😂 she a str8 airhead.... I was like wtf she talking about

[@enyce989]

Last girl didn't need to be there. Popping her balloon because she knows people who smoke is crazy 🤣🤣

[@jamaicanqueentv]

She seems high and I don’t know why she was there plus the one beside her from Nigeria

[@denzelwatson3118]

😂😂😂 sticking to the code!!!

[@mcclain449]

@@denzelwatson3118 😂😂😂😂

[@eni4eva770]

@@denzelwatson3118😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@kevin92085]

She makes no sense when she speaks 😂😂I'm confused every time!!

[@phartikus3826]

When the balloon popped and the girl in the green dress jumped…in my head I was like”you sure you don’t need a cop” 💀🤣🤣🤣

[@bianca4579]

she get spooked too easily ! died laughing

[@juicypickle6504]

🤣🤣🤣im tryna figure out how she still jumped even after she looked down at the balloon and saw she was about to pop it

[@storytimewithpretty]

​@juicypickle6504 It's a common symptom of PTSD. She's from another country, she may have experienced/ witnessed conflict in her country.

[@juicypickle6504]

@@storytimewithpretty it was a joke 😂 not meant to be so serious.

[@SheldonDarianRoach]

​@@storytimewithprettyso her ass needs a cop on her side😂

[@KlisrColi]

“smoking calms people with ptsd even though i don’t smoke or have ptsd” that woman was givin the dumbest reasons to pop

[@theresajones431]

The girl on the end is crazy. She's a follower, and she just keeps feeding off of what everyone else says. She's giving me "she went along with her friends because they asked her to" vibes

[@v4l388]

Right!!! It’s so annoying. It’s like she’s brain dead

[@janetics2936]

Yesss she gives off idk what I want im just here to be here

[@sudariel67]

She seems very shallow based on her responses.

[@LiEricc]

She most definitely was high😂😭

[@daveenahrock114]

Yeah she didn’t know what to say most of the time. She was tripping on her words so much & did not seem confident at all. She needs more self esteem. And I have a feeling she’s lying about her career 😂😂😂

[@kristenp-uz5ct]

A 36yr old saying “You’re the first guy, I’m just waiting for the others” is just damn crazy

[@misspapo3444]

Okay!!!! Make it make sense. 😅

[@temickab]

All the women on thus episode seems like they're in their 30s. Her answer was just fucking stupid and immature

[@ShawnKevin-ih6pw]

@@misspapo3444 tbh you can said that about almost all of them because they be giving lame ass excuse to disqualify a man.

[@DealswithDavid]

Literally, like she’s been waiting 36 years already 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@DealswithDavid]

Literally, like she’s been waiting 36 years already 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@Keilakattt]

I don't normally comment but everyone needs to leave the last girl on the right side alone, she was nervous and anxious and I know how it feel's to be out of your comfort zone and have anxiety. I'm extremely proud of her for putting herself on this show to find love since dating now in days is hard. She is drop dead gorgeous and she seems so sweet, humble and genuine! Also, Arlette I love your outfit you look so pretty in purple!

[@neon_zm8917]

"that's your real hair" she buffered for a cool minute 😂😂😂

[@zion9146]

I Like how arlette is getting more consistent with the episodes! Seems like she’ll carry this on till episode 100 🤣

[@diosa.loba333]

Probably because they are getting more popular which means more people wanting to participate

[@bevelynotempong6081]

We love it

[@weareyoungfamily5746]

I might watch this show in parts,but I must finish watching the episode

[@admin6711]

Yes bc I was like another one already 😱😬😍

[@Killyoself]

She has the better production and all-round set up in general. The other ones look like they were shot on a flip phone

[@Angel-oe8ej]

My boy Sid in the all white man #2 is one of the most genuine men I know. He’s a gentleman and he treats his women great. I can’t say anything bad about him! Women are silly and that’s why a lot of us are single lol. Pointing out stupid things 😂

[@freya_oria]

The first man is a gentleman, may God give him a good woman, who will respect and love him genuinely.

[@KGisdaman]

The last girl is a certified airhead. “Im not a smoker but i know alot of people that smoke” huhhhhh

[@bridgetsandy9928]

😂😂😂

[@chrisa6592]

All her answers made NO sense.

[@veristarzz]

She sounded slow and confused lol

[@Playboi_za]

She did say she was a spoilt brat 😅

[@theblacksxz]

She is SLOW. So painful to hear her try to speak.

[@cccarver222]

Kiana was literally out of this world. like if you watch her answering the questions, it’s like she has to snap back into reality 😭

[@thattallblackgirl6682]

Like… siiiis 🫰🫰 where you at

[@daroonbell]

She high AF😂 Miami cocaine....

[@steventaylor1292]

Again these women wear wigs so they arent pretty in real life

[@ciaralynn3477]

No literally I was like girllll get your words out😂

[@audreysummers8813]

Bruh facts.. why she talk like that? She was somewhere else I'm telling you

[@watchmeconquer9236]

I love when they say “If you give me a reason to leave” it’s such a turn on.

[@TheHealthGuy305]

That was on point!

[@edrop3053]

3rd dude look like he got a elephant parked outside!!! Like come on bruh!!! 🤣🤣🤣😂😂

[@Mybigsissy]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@mikara1121]

Whoever the camera guy is, is DIABOLICAL with the zoom feature 😂 please give them a raise!

[@melvinhhcp3615]

😭😭😭

[@NakiYah7]

😂I hollered each time there was a zoom in.

[@NyNativeTv]

How so? Diabolical means cruel or evil and of the devil. Wrong context hun. They need to just kill that word. Its NOT even being used properly! Just asinine 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@SND3463]

😂😂😂all in that girl lashes!! Messy ass!

[@4theloveoffashion959]

@@NyNativeTvyou are culturally outdated, respectfully. Stick to Mozart and Beethoven.. and you’ll be fine.

[@MisterRemarkable]

Women on these shows tend to disqualify the most qualified bachelor based on the worst reasons

[@ajm7547]

💯

[@mrs.p4349]

It’s so sad too.

[@asvpxslik]

These dudes are well dressed, respectful with great careers/jobs. It blows my mind how a man can hit so many boxes women ask for and it’s never enough, smh..

[@JimmyCrackCorn_]

Our women are single because of their own stupidity!

[@VituKhonje]

It’s because the camera is rolling

[@Unalunallenadeluz]

Arlette’s expressions are the icing on the cake.

[@patrikstar2128]

Lmaooo the guy with the "like the way you moan" and his feet fetish is insane 😭😭 im getting the second hand embarrassment

[@ecclairmayo4153]

It was so cringe🥴

[@ilfouco1541]

I’ve never thought I’d see women reject a man for being respectful and not judging based on appearance

[@RedTopGhost320]

That tells you what type of woman they are & what they like

[@meloran2571]

Wild how women covering their flaws with all that makeup got the nerve. The closeups in the beginning were scary.

[@bamfordblue6853]

Yep. Just shows how wild it is out there being single. Respectful, career, in shape, no criminal record, and a gentleman doesn't go for what it used to lol.

[@gabarbanyasharalla1443]

@@meloran2571 Especially the one in green-she looks like robo cop without the helmet with that cranium. I don't why brothas wanna deal with black women as other women look better and have their real hair and treat u like kings!

[@sandrafernandez3839]

He is not in his job but I'm sure he kicks major ...if you are a criminal.

[@rodneymcstah2973]

The chick that said “ you’re the first guy I’m just waiting” instantly made me think of the “ boyfriend store analogy”

[@Tashasmith7388]

And this is why many women miss out lol greedy and waiting for something better when better already came and passed them by 😂

[@kenb2908]

This happened before on the show. Sad to see

[@yceeii]

😂😂😂

[@Hisnameistruth]

Every time they say that, they don’t end up matching. You’ve seen the show before, if you see someone you like. Go for him, waiting till the end will have u still standing there when Arlette says thank you everyone for tuning in at the end of the episode

[@marlonbeckford4293]

I thought the same shyt too

[@madzwrld14]

omggg the first couple with the orange fits are so cute - the chemistryyyy

[@thatboydre8649]

The lady with the bucket hat was the coolest one out of all the women on the show she seemed so genuine and fun

[@TheHealthGuy305]

I agree they hating on her so bad

[@tinawalker5335]

My man can’t understand why I watch this show but it legit makes me appreciate him and our relationship so much more.

[@NapturallyBeautiful]

This! Cause maaaannnn…

[@samlsd9711]

That's it? That's all what you appreciate a person for?😂😂😂😂😂

[@_MadeJuLook]

@@samlsd9711she said “so much more” 😒

[@gloksta.]

@@samlsd9711dont be dense

[@TheMariemarie16]

Im married and I love dating shows it provides insight to current society and thinking of men and women.

[@alyssiaescalante6119]

the last girl kept giving me second hand embarrassment 😭😭

[@BlossomingB]

Fr! Lol

[@naenae1759]

She seem high. Then when she pop her balloon because other people she know smoke had me lost asf

[@ataylor103091]

@@naenae1759 YES!! I was like girl what!?!?

[@riohamilton4467]

She seems dumb AFFF

[@OddTemp]

Same, I had to pause and kept saying wtf every time she spoke 😭

[@mrdjordan5]

“The lame took me!” Haha hella funny. He sounded like he from The Bay. Kinda look like 90s Too Short mixed with Lupe Fiasco. Seems like a cool guy to talk real and share funnies.

[@specialk1373]

This show is part of the reason why I’m fighting so hard to keep my relationship.😩

[@bklo3249]

The last girl on the right with the colorful dress is the definition of a follower, why did she LITERALLY follow everyone else

[@JB-iu4ir]

Almost every time 🤣

[@lydiadennard9383]

Agreed

[@princessnifah]

She has me feeling like she rode the little bus to school😊

[@PurpleStim]

She was on sum shit 😂😂

[@ff4irydimples]

she can’t think for herself embarrassing af

[@naimjustjokin_]

Arlette’s style of pop-the-balloon is truly the only way I can enjoy it.

[@PASTOENT]

Literally

[@kellykebo3497]

Can’t even get through the first 5 minutes of any other pop the balloon.

[@Lamere86]

Facts because Every Other version is Insufferable and Unnecessarily Ghetto

[@RedTopGhost320]

I swear cause I've seen over a dozen other content creators use the same content but their shit is mainly ratchet & ghetto which kills my interest

[@laurenclark4252]

Agreed!

[@AyeshaBreannah]

The first match was everything ❤

[@carlottascorner]

Arlette - it's time you take this show on the road honey. The east coast is calling your name!

[@junko_enoshima]

I am so sick of adults, in their 20’s and 30’s, using things like star signs to determine life decisions

[@jewel77jewel14]

It's crazy... 🤣

[@blaklightroyalty]

It depends. Knowledge of Astrology is simply just an aspect of self like any form of information we learn on our jouney

[@Malravenous]

It just lets me know that you're not for me 😂

[@Mr.LevelUp.]

Someone said it!!😂

[@call_me_olusam6588]

Reality has not dawned on them

[@fundz7322]

When the 36yr old popped her balloon and said “you’re the first guy, I’m waiting for others” I said to myself “she’ll be leaving this place with no one” 😭

[@Lolabammy]

It was very crazy to watch. Cos the 1st might have been one of the best

[@WiseAilbhean]

@@Lolabammy That lady is an airhead slash dingbat

[@whatyoucookingvicky9119]

I said the same thing 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@Genesis.007]

Probably gave her number to multiple man after the show

[@dre22]

She’s petty if you are talking about girl left of green dress. 36 and still has a juvenile mindset

[@sashadavis3813]

Wow a million views in 24 hours, go Arlette, go Arlette, go go🎉. Love this for you. Your presenting skills is TOP notch.❤

[@omarmcintyre5309]

That's due to Turtle Guy, Aaron!

[@aydapadistudio]

I died when that girl said, “You look like ‘Coming To America’ right now.” 💀 💀 💀

[@divanessak4]

A 5ft lady calling a 5’8 man short is absolutely diabolical 😂.

[@nbflilwon7081]

He not 5’8

[@cashruleseverythingaroundm6160]

I’m crashing out

[@Christopher-tr1xu]

@@nbflilwon7081 then she must be 4'6.

[@kbis2cold]

@@nbflilwon7081 she not 5 ft

[@Christopher-tr1xu]

@@nbflilwon7081 if he not 5'8 she is 4'3

[@williamjamison9018]

Arlette is sooooo funny brah when she was like “srry im a lil confused” with last girl first guy I lost it 💀💀

[@D.walker87]

I was just as lost

[@karmachappell5692]

She's a follower, she wants a man that other people want

[@gboii08]

I like how she makes them expand on their responses because she knows those responses be bogus AF!!!

[@NsmithLove]

She said what I was thinking 😂

[@kvmmv]

yes like as a man i wouldn’t want her anyways, beauty no brain can’t think for yourself

[@Clarkinstructedu]

Some of these single ladies are really looking under qualified and don't understand that not every single box will be checked when finding a partner... Communication, sincerity, respectful, caring, professional career and employed.... everything else is a bonus

[@Rodayeboss]

'Feeling friendship, family vibes and age difference' is the reason alot of people are single and not finding good partners.

[@lola_Edd]

When Arlette says “We got a matchhhhh!” I be smiling HARD like I just got a match myself. 😂😂😂😂

[@Thatdude-tp7xs]

Arlette be so thirsty when they match you know she probably getting a bonus

[@ChristTompkins]

Fr 😅 I’m way too invested in this damn show!

[@Thatdude-tp7xs]

She gets a bonus of the matches

[@ChristTompkins]

@@Thatdude-tp7xs understandable also she’s the one playing matchmaker so it suck if the people she thought were good for one another never match

[@Vivensguillaume1]

Exactly!

[@Powernab]

This show illustrates how difficult it is to find someone that truly matches you.

[@Keiaradise]

This!!!! Finding someone truly compatible on both fronts is seemingly a miracle

[@rarevinylvault432]

No this show is a microcosm of how immature, dumb shallow, macho and disingenuous B women are.

[@precioustormale2895]

@@KeiaradiseI don’t think that’s necessarily true. It seems most people today have ridiculous “standards” and not willing to give suitable partners a chance. It’s more superficial (aesthetics and what not) rather than seeking for genuine connection and values for a lasting relationship.

[@kingKwab91]

@@precioustormale2895ding ding ding

[@Lewash24]

Nah, this illustrates how difficult and picky people actually are nowadays... Back then people didnt even have to match and date to get married and those marriages lasted decades.

[@mikebongani7178]

The lady with three kids expecting men without kids to not want kids is a bit selfish.

[@Noexela]

Yall did my fellow Trini wrong! He was very respectable! Did I mention he is very respectable 😎🇹🇹 🤣🤣🤣

[@emily-x5r]

“Sticking to the code” girl just saying she doesn’t like thinking for herself. Brothers, this is the type of girl that gets influenced to do her man wrong because of her friends.

[@amirmiller1037]

Like what code? I was thinking are they criminals lol

[@Locochon1]

​​@@amirmiller1037 Girl code. Pre - selection. Meaning Nobody before her chose him so she decided to not break girl code and didnt aswell

[@eternalvibes6858]

@@Locochon1 I thought she meant street code

[@alistaton7667]

Okay bot

[@theblacksxz]

She’s a follower forsho

[@sallysampson1327]

I love how the girl in red pants was so happy for everyone’s interaction! She genuinely seems like such a sweet soul ! And nice person

[@salonegal4024]

Yes and I loved when she said she refused to be someone’s last option !

[@AmberSantana-is3dq]

She’s a Gemini we read people a lot

[@yourriderdie8472]

Yes she was! I wanted her to get a match so bad. They should bring her back

[@official_theo5671]

Exotic dancer but calling men for their preference, okay 🙄

[@cboy-ou2hr]

The finest lady in the room

[@RudyAli-cd5ec]

The man said I see you’re used to dealing with peasant so you don’t know when you’re dealing with the king my gosh 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@therealmrstaten1]

And he meant that shit lol

[@user-pm1qu1ls9j]

Although most of the women if not all says that being a police and a problem, and most of these women ain't Hood women, but they know😂😂 so big props to all the women from this point on

[@micahthemessiah1222]

“We’re almost the same height” but looking up to him plus tall heels on is crazy 😂😂😂

[@smileycakes9593]

She’s an i d i o t. I’m 5’2 and his height is fine with me

[@derrickmason7457]

Delusional

[@evilcapcap4262]

I guess wearing heels is the new tall 🤷

[@ramblingmillennial1560]

I've gotten pretty tired of it tbh. Wanting your man to be taller is fine but stop with the 4-6 inch heels if you want to look up at a man wtf. Average female and male height in the US puts us 5 inches apart. Most men are not 6 feet so get over it already and wear shorter heels or flats or accept that you will be about eye to eye with a lot of guys if you wear heels.

[@TatyanaBuie]

She said she’s only 5 foot, the heels had to be a least 3 inches, and still there was about 4 inch difference between them so 5’7-5’8 makes sense

[@abigailaddoh9348]

I saw a clip of the show on random on instagram, and came to KZbin to check it out I binged watch all the episodes this month and now I always look forward to tuning in every Wednesday or whatever day it’s up currently my favorite channel to watch

[@HermosaCattelya]

A man not wanting his woman to work in a strip club is NOT insecure. 💀

[@Mintjulep3]

That’s her way of coping with her poor life choices 😂

[@EnterTheReign_777]

Thank you mam

[@imagegotbeats]

According to your female counterparts it’s a problem 🌚

[@lizanal1521]

You know that’s why he popped her balloon LOL

[@alcoballic9593]

Agreed. A person is secure when they know what they want and have the confidence and conviction to pursue or wait on the right one. Insecurity is when you accept someone you don’t want just bc you don’t want to be alone.

[@Easyreel]

It’s how Arlette gets genuinely excited when there’s a match

[@salonegal4024]

Ikr !!!

[@Saph_Adams]

She’s knows just like we do that a lot of the people who come on her show have ulterior motives

[@condesabeatriz9303]

I love that!

[@Nestle245]

It's fake almost like a news reporters voice. By now she knows nothing will come from it, but it's her job to act like she's actually excited.

[@baldcheddar]

And the match goes absolutely nowhere 🔥🔥

[@ikobengmathambo]

There is so much growth from the 1st episode up until now. Great job Arlett

[@westwrld3322]

Genuinely surprised Tiffany didn’t get a match especially at the end, she’s perfect

[@TheHealthGuy305]

😂😂😂 yea ok

[@westwrld3322]

@@TheHealthGuy305 What would you change?

[@candice446]

I like the first guy. He handles rejection well, he seems level-headed, and handled himself with class. & chapped lips can be due to being nervous.

[@saang.4031]

😂😂😂chap lips 💋

[@WonderManFlex]

A man not wanting his girl to be an exotic dancer does not make him "insecure". It actually makes him very secure because he knows exactly what he wants. He doesn't want his girl around promiscuity.

[@evilcapcap4262]

I thought I was the only one who caught that

[@WonderManFlex]

@@evilcapcap4262 That’s what I’m saying man. Women always try to belittle men for having standards in a woman. I don’t wanna be with no stripper wtf. Imagine pulling up to a function with yo girl and niggas start saying “ain’t that so and so from the club”. Man hell nah

[@allenh3072]

Exactly these women be lost

[@comeatmebro8120]

Thats why he popped her balloon I bet but didn’t want to say it

[@naturalmommy6152]

When I was a dancer I had a couple maybe like 2 men say that. You can’t do anything but respect it. And I completely understand. I can’t debate someone’s preferences and I didn’t. I had a bigger picture and dancing got me there. They definitely respected me and my hustle and my plan but they couldn’t be in a relationship with me while I was dancing and I completely get it. I would never call them insecure. Just respect each other. Name calling and assuming someone’s mindset is so immature.

[@JenniferJeffers-jx7qy]

Arlette is an amazing host. She is classy, kind, patient and articulate which truly reflects positively on her show. Keep up the great work💯

[@ReneaReads]

Arlette's excitement is infectious.

[@koffingkoffing5654]

Shorty in the tropical dress is an ABSOLUTE AIR HEADDDDD!!!!!

[@chilijordan8524]

!!!Omg what tf was she even saying most of the time. It’s almost like her brain understands logic but she can’t express herself properly.

[@jaycee1529]

She sounded slowwww

[@Booksandarts]

I am getting nervous vibes from her. Some people can’t think clearly under nervous and stressful situations.i don’t think she’s an airhead. Please have more compassion and grace for others

[@charlottesmoviephile8924]

Florida..

[@ashleymay4280]

😂

[@cierradenise7202]

I love Arlette’s lavender outfit! 🤩😍 she’s always dressed so elegant!

[@igotatheory876]

Right!! Sis be dressed like she’s the one on the date.l

[@KamikazeSP06]

She really don’t miss. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@fktherim1411]

Facts I wish she was in the lineup herself😭

[@Craftedbywaltz]

I agree & her aura is magnificent. You can really see that she's a serious wife

[@JohnBaptise-v9b]

I'm ngl the host mad cool lmao and she really be cracking tf up which be hilarious

[@milleniadavis]

I must say these ladies are put together well!!! Loving the different aesthetics😍‼️

[@TheHealthGuy305]

You a real one!! I agree

[@archwodrichemond-fils6187]

“Sticking to the Code” “I’m very respectable” This show is gold

[@BTwine]

lmaooo

[@sks7438]

Wth

[@KayNneka]

lol so dumb

[@enhancedpeace]

i think one of the dumbest reasons given lmao

[@kimspann9033]

Yes she high or sumn 😂

[@genevier11]

The camera man always understands the assignment 🤣🤣🤣 with the pans and zoom ins 😅🤣😭 gets me every time

[@mikelarobinson2348]

Yes, remind me of the Wendy Williams show😆

[@shaypurvis9149]

So perfect, each episode lol

[@villano_gringo_negro]

Facts😂

[@theblacksxz]

Not the cameraman zooming into the lady's eyelashes 😭😭😭

[@kierrajefferson5987]

I understand exactly why these women are single.

[@seaneejackson3449]

I hate comparing creators but Arlette you are KILLING the pop the balloon videos. I find myself trying to watch others after watching yours and they’re just so disappointing. Your videos feel so professional and like you actually care about people finding love and not just a money grab because this is a trend right now. Thank you for the content! And please keep these coming!! I think you can go big with these. You have THE BEST set up.

[@sistshwanelo]

Disqualifying someone because their father chose not the be in their life is so insensitive.

[@eddiecampbell9663]

Facts and not to sound mean but I bet some of those ladies have experienced daddy issues

[@MosheXX]

Not really. “Coming From a Good Family” used to be a metric used when deciding to date someone once upon a time.

[@snapbrosphotography3972]

@@MosheXX but you can't blame someone for their father not being in their life it wasn't their choice their father is the one that walked out

[@1845hunt]

I agree with you. You could come from a 2 family household that was toxic af and a single parent with lots of love. Doesn't necessarily determine how you'll turn out..

[@snapbrosphotography3972]

@@1845hunt fully agree

[@micah4494]

Anyone else low key addicted to these videos

[@aj6761]

Arlette's, definitely

[@double65]

Yes

[@sahra8935]

It's like a comfort show for me now

[@Miauhh158]

I'm high key obsessed

[@nebiyahhoyt1588]

I swear the last girl is literally the definition of an airhead. What does she mean "I know people suffer from PTSD" have to do with you personally? The answers she was giving was like her brain has been cooking in the Miami heat.