Ramon and Alicia Catch Up | With Arlette Amuli

Welcome back to my channel! In this segment of "Catch Up", we got a chance to follow up with our matches and see where they are today.
Ep 18: • Ep 18: Pop The Balloon...
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[@dariusjporter6325]

Moral of the story is if you got a good relationship stay in it. Ain’t nothing but games and headaches out there for you

[@AB24Shine]

😂😂😂😂

[@AltrinaRenee]

Facts

[@Lynese_co]

This !!!

[@unconventionalandfree751]

Lol sounds about right 🤷🏾‍♀️ black love is not for the weak

[@IloveJesus777j77]

@@AB24Shine Jesus is coming back.

[@iamjustachilldad]

I just texted my wife, "I am sorry and I love you" Just because! I thank God I am not single. Arlette, BLESS your ministry.

[@ericauntraveled8389]

It is hard out here!

[@iamjustachilldad]

@@ericauntraveled8389 FACTS

[@Flashsuccess-t2p]

💯

[@SallyBabyy]

🤣 I also text my husband I love him. Some men are also so toxic. But she’s another level!!!! 😅

[@kikialeaki1850]

Just because? I would think you were offing yourself if you randomly said sorry ily😅

[@BeyondExpectations-]

It's first class effort when a gentleman offers to send a driver to pick you up for a date at a top tier restaurant. Kudos to Ramon for staying head and shoulders above the insults and maintaining his tenor and tone💯

[@africaine4889]

For real

[@JanelleC427]

I agree girlfriend came Off super ditzy and missed out on a good guy.

[@tianashorter1383]

Ijs… if a man offered to send me a car I’m taking it 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@feleshaheaven1723]

Absolutely!

[@tillfilms]

What's so crazy is that she is a very gorgeous gal. If she just matured by 1%, she'd be married with a great guy. But her insecurities and immaturity are too much. The guy went out of his way to book a reservation at her restaurant of choice, but she couldn't do him the courtesy of at least pretending to be friendly and feminine and punctual. That's what's out there fellas.

[@dierdracoleman9386]

He is a communicator with a love language of acts of service. Reassurance is all he needed. I’m team him.

[@truthseeker95-1]

She’s still not in the wrong. The date was confirmed 3 times.

[@Akeela23]

@@truthseeker95-1doesn’t matter that they confirmed prior. He asked her a question the night before and she didn’t respond until 5mins before the date. Come on now. I wouldn’t respond to her either when she didn’t respond and was late for the date.

[@evangelistb2797]

Communicator!??? He's far from it.

[@evangelistb2797]

I'm confused why Arlett asked her why was she upset about him asking her to model for him. 🤔 Any decent woman would have been uncomfortable.

[@Akeela23]

@ yeah especially since they were planning their first date still. It’s different if they were vibing and he asked it naturally and discussed paying her same time not just “assuming she would know that.”

[@evanderwalton4387]

She didn’t respond until 5 mins before the date and expected him to be there. That’s wild

[@MadebyMarisJ]

Yeah that is wild

[@dominicksans7204]

Facts and being that he did not show up apologizing and perhaps making an effort if this is something you truly wanted to pursue and see if it has potential she could have said can I make it up to you and take you out. But this is the entitlement of many modern women today. All the responsibility is on the man to plan the date take her out woo her make her laugh entertain must seem interesting be funny just so you can proceed and all the woman do is show up. This man went even further by his willingness to send you a car/ driver for the date and she can’t see how that could hurt or make him feel like taken for granted. Now a day you don’t get many men willing to do this. And here she is calling him petty. Crazy

[@rashadrandolph5760]

Crazy work!

[@kingsweetz82]

Facts. She didn’t respect his time

[@maceoalsup6223]

Most women have bad communications skills u want him to respond but went quite for 24hrs

[@Ittakesfinesse]

You can tell she is the type to look at her phone. A content creator is always looking at their phone. He stood on business and didn’t want his time wasted. That’s a huge red flag and it was the only one he needed. She’s wearing the perfect color for this episode! 🚩

[@Apollo_Maani]

Thank you 💯

[@ROYALDONTPLAY]

She wanted him to blow her up, she looking for attention *content creator smh

[@beatriceprior8508]

not a literal red flag 😂

[@naomygeorgina4381]

😂😂

[@July-ola]

Idk. I would have to see the texts. But she said they confirmed the date and time three times. And then the day before he asked to send her a car. That’s the only text she missed. I personally don’t think that’s a big deal. I would assume the date was still on. And if I was confused, I would have texted to ask.

[@bruhmanflight]

Shout out to this man for teaching us to stand on business when your time is being wasted!!!

[@dogood3133]

Facts...cause I'm sure most of us be letting woman who are way less fine get away with way more

[@mondomondo9138]

The Simps made it this way thats Y theses women act this way

[@IMaliqueWallace]

Bro ain’t stressin at all, he gone get him another one right after this lil interview. Shorty tripping 😂😂😂

[@prestonrogers8583]

You can tell this man is very successful. And he don’t entertain foolishness.

[@morelife6508]

Facts!!!

[@MrJusice]

that's what I get. Stand up brother.

[@Iamsb2022]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@SoulDisposition_11]

Date a man that has a lot to lose you’ll get no game straight chaser

[@logicalcritik2144]

It appears like she didn't try to work with him and she gets pissed off easily.

[@JC__]

Moral of the story, she lacks communication. Bro set boundaries and she's not use to that. Grow up this isn't high school.

[@blackestknight1.0]

She lacks communication skills and respect for people's reseources.

[@Alkiel]

@@JC__ actually I felt the moral of the story is there’s a whole lot of ppl running around with bugs stuck up their ahhzzes…and they be in the comment section too! 😳😳

[@gerardcuriel7880]

Moral of the stoy is that she had no interest in him. choose him in the show because she did not want to go home empty handed in front of the cameras

[@mzermichaelterungwa7904]

@@Alkiel 🤣🤣🤣

[@DaTrUtH969]

@@JC__ she’s used to simps. He really threw her off and she thinks she’s right

[@zion9146]

Notice how real entrepreneurs just state the businesses they own instead of saying entrepreneur 😂

[@REPENTFORTHEKINGDOMISATHAND]

Theres some broke people saying it to make themselves appear better. I rather them list the businesses then like that one plus size girl that said it but was actually not

[@phalajae]

Absolutely, a real business will drop that name for marketing! 😂😊

[@IloveJesus777j77]

@@REPENTFORTHEKINGDOMISATHAND Jesus is coming back.

[@IloveJesus777j77]

@@phalajae Jesus is coming back.

[@user-vj1rx8kn5f]

@zion9146 yup. And he didn't have to pause and think about it either. He was also very straight-forward on the show about his businesses.

[@msmime35]

This show proves compatibility is MORE than physical attraction.

[@TaylorTenienteGonzales]

They argued this much before even GOING on a date. Imagine how bad their arguments would be if they actually started dating. Dodged a bullet fr

[@bernztati1449]

Failed b4 it start😢

[@antoinette2730]

Absolutely!!!😅 Couldn’t say it no better💯

[@serge9166]

It’s hard to watch !!!

[@rufixlegacyproductions2001]

On whose end specifically?

[@Bittertokken]

They?? I only saw one person arguing blocking and calling the other persons insta corny; like how is that even relevant to why she didn't confirm the date. She's goofy af 🤡

[@NTX_Dad]

If she didn’t look at his message till 5 minutes before the date; she isn’t really interested. That isn’t picky; that’s understanding engagement and interest in you.

[@jesstheromantic]

She legit didn’t wanna go because of how she felt about their previous interactions.. but just say that instead of playing victim

[@aasay412]

@@jesstheromanticexactly. The comments section is clearly one sided cause its a bit odd asking someone you’re courting to do business with you

[@thadonjuan2339]

​@jesstheromantic that makes no sense. Then why would she agree to the date. That's what you call dumb

[@jesstheromantic]

@@aasay412 I don’t think it’s that weird. Your purpose partner should help you better yourself in all ways I think. The “bring your friends” vibe would’ve thrown me off tho. She could’ve just said “hey what’s your budget” instead of getting super offended.

[@Chi_di]

She wasn’t interested but somehow she’s the one who showed up?? Y’all sounds so dumb

[@iamrare83]

I’m a woman and he’s not wrong. She’s annoying and he dodged a bullet

[@TheeGirlKB]

Factssss and blocking him on Instagram after the fact it’s so petty lol you mad because he returned the energy

[@kingsweetz82]

@@TheeGirlKB facts

[@Marvelous4rmTexas]

💯💯💯💯

[@AllegedlyMe79]

She's REALLY annoying... when pretty privlegde goes wrong

[@shellychell8636]

Ok Arlette hook him up on your other dating show seems like a good man

[@solo4l105]

He’s an amazing guy that’s crazy imma work on myself to build up my character traits like this gentleman. Amazing role model of how us men should act and carry ourself. Bless that brother

[@MistresstheMediator]

💯💯

[@punanimonsta]

Arlette and BM been working overtime for us. We deeply appreciate y'all.

[@ifeanyimba6301]

Their work rate needs to be studied

[@IloveJesus777j77]

@@ifeanyimba6301 Jesus is coming back. Repent

[@kobehendrix3911]

Y’all gonna comment this on every post? They get paid per upload, they ain’t doing it just for yall 😂

[@itsmetheinterrupter]

THIIIIIIS! thank yall

[@JayJay1988]

@@kobehendrix3911we finna comment this on every single post and you’re not gonna do nothing about it. 😊

[@witnessdupu9751]

He seems so humble and good mannered. Youll truly find the love you are looking for.❤

[@jinmi7832]

He didn't carry himself with dignity and grace if he stoops so low to go to such shows to find love.

[@mzlove4121]

He's so handsome, we'll spoken, and respectful. He dodged a bomb. 👏🏾 Great job Sir! He definitely knew his worth and what time it was. KUDOS

[@M_m810]

Facts !

[@iloniad35]

Exactly

[@Allyssa-v9p]

watch new ep with his new match !! love em think they'll work.

[@noneya1238]

Well spoken?

[@PleasantSmith]

Did you watch the whole video?!?

[@Racquel7555]

He came back on a recent episode and got himself a beauty

[@audreyb9736]

what episode please

[@TheLearnedScribe]

@@audreyb9736the latest episode

[@stargirl.958]

I think it's episode 31, most recent!​@@audreyb9736

[@nyokajohnson4998]

Episode 31 I think

[@xbreezy9843]

​@@audreyb9736the episode before last

[@jilllicatTTV]

I really applaud him for standing up for himself and enforcing his boundaries. He saw right thru her word salad and mental gymnastics 😂😂😂

[@lucyaudrey733]

I love this show because it teaches me what NOT to do

[@TNS_Mafia]

95% of womin on her show have masculine behavior & pure bird brainz. A feminine , submissive & cooperative lady wouldn’t even b there at all

[@mucleboy0151]

You should just be yourself and fw people who like that f bending n twisting to fit other peoples standards and ideologies

[@lucyaudrey733]

@@mucleboy0151 I’m focusing more on the communication aspect rather than trying to change myself .

[@mucleboy0151]

@@lucyaudrey733 you shouldnt change how you communicate to appease others all i was saying

[@ROYALDONTPLAY]

@@mucleboy0151if you communicate like a asshole that needs to change, what do you mean?

[@Lwelchjr]

I dont think we are compatible.... Arlette "Yeah I am seeing that play out!" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Rain_dear]

She let's her instrusive thoughts win sometimes 😂

[@Ms.Nicety]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@ForeverLuckyLika]

Right! I’m sure she has a headache too cause I sure has a headache listening to them

[@punk.rock.hippie]

Team him all day. She’s projecting everything but it’s her doing it!

[@trey8792]

I would’ve left her goofy ahh on “read” too texting me 5 min before a date. Bro dodged a bullet fr.

[@mizzmention8555]

And telling you she gonna be late too 😂😂😂😂

[@irGuilty]

People in the comments really trying to defend this behaviour 🤣

[@etruscancivilization]

She dodged a bullet from not getting with Mr. Clean 'MonK with the beard.

[@mucleboy0151]

​@@irGuiltybecause they do it too

[@northendken3083]

She's a full grown bird. A teradactyl.

[@Stay_woke12]

She speaks with such teenage vibe like... ughh. Whaaaaat😅😅😅😅

[@thehardtruth3027]

Because you are used ro ratchet chicks that have to slang their way through a conversation

[@Ayomide-nn4yn]

True 😂

[@ItsNeezy]

All that "not giving" and "it's giving" stuff is so childish. She's a motormouth as well.

[@publicityco]

Fr that “blah blah blah” shit is a nuisance.

[@THEBlose]

This is the comment i was looking for

[@withlovebyads]

I love how this man is quietly successful. He doesn’t brag and boast, he’s getting his things done and doesn’t have time for nonsense. Simple.

[@Notnd_99]

did u watch the video? he cut her of countless time then when its his turn to speak he goes "not gonna do the back and forth"

[@OptimusPRIMEJudah]

My FAVORITE PART is Arlette saying .. "GoodLuck with School & All Your Content Creations" 😆😆😆😆😆😆😆 Arlette seemed Tired of Her EARLY 😂

[@aliasgoodz7844]

This just shows you have to be more than a pretty face . She was argumentative, defensive, wasn’t listening and playing victim . I’m exhausted watching this

[@wisdomwombpodcast]

Exactly!

[@mikeprice8307]

Looks and fast talk is all she got!

[@R3Fitness42]

She was very annoying to me also

[@R3Fitness42]

I can see why she is single and will probably be for a long time. She is very entitled and thinks the world revolves around her.

[@royalefazeentertainment]

As a woman saying what you said, I really appreciate you...N she even said she's an adult because she didn't wanna model...but at like a kid when it comes to dating😂 I agree with everything u listed

[@MercurialMann]

These catch-ups are turning out to be better than the main show 😊

[@uploadvidz4490]

Fr

[@keithj2010]

they really are....this one and bluetooth speaker couple are entertainment gold

[@Ralph_Kreutzberger-Blumenfeld]

I don’t even remember this couple

[@1KAMS_LIFE]

Lmbooo facts

[@eddielyrics]

I feel like the lady wants to put the blame on the guy but he surely tried

[@onlymxmbi]

She is so EXHAUSTING. He reciprocated her energy and now she mad 😂 Girl GROW UP.

[@MichaelDorival]

Corny instagram lol fellas stay away from

[@thepositivespin48]

Very childish.

[@ValenciaGamble]

Wow I don’t understand how she doesn’t see that she’s wrong in this situation. If he texted 5 minutes before the date I’m sure she wouldn’t be there either. Why would she expect him to be there? And calling him an opportunist for wanting to PAY her to model for his company is wild!

[@truthseeker95-1]

He is wrong. She could’ve texted him back about the car, but the date had been confirmed 3 times. He should’ve showed up. This is all so immature.

[@Whatwedoinhere]

@truthseeker95-1 Irregardless of the confirmations prior, the day before the date she didn’t respond to him.. who’s going to assume that she’s still going to go, unless you’re the type of individual who goes above and beyond for people you don’t know? I’ve seen you comment a couple times and I’m almost positive you follow her on social media and are either attracted to her or see yourself in her. Either way, the immature one is the young lady with all her mannerisms and TikTok lingo but I digress

[@johnaboshim9881]

Arlette is simply exposing the dating culture out there. This is content creation!

[@byBrieMoore]

"I blocked you on Instagram, but you could have called." We can see what kind of games she's about. It's giving teenage silliness. Bless, good luck to him in finding love. A whole lotta talking from her, and saying nothing in this one.

[@roymuhumuza7735]

His "corny" IG was the problem to her, I guess...she likes to stalk her dates 😅

[@misshouston8104]

Word salad

[@biggerthanlyfe9853]

She wants someone to chase her and make her feel like she means more to the person than they do to her. It’s sad, such a beautiful woman and she’s corny af at her big age.

[@ahmedhaji1951]

​@@biggerthanlyfe9853 that's a worldwide problem right now, she just acting

[@maizelinefrazs6493]

Facts

[@JesusIsLoooorrd]

Heavy on " I saved my money" 😅😅😅😅

[@Bittertokken]

HEAVY!!! 🤣🤣🤣

[@beautypure9527]

THICK!! 🤣🤣

[@kaylathomas4542]

lmfaoooo that was too funny!!

[@topshelfmike]

She spent that gas money too 😭

[@kalembaabasi9550]

She is very entitled and she met the boss😅.

[@ChocolatStarrDust]

I lik this show it’s good to see wat happens after the match… the set is beautiful 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@user-vp7nt9zu2b]

he’s a great guy and knows his worth and has boundaries may God bring him a woman who brings him peace

[@Allyssa-v9p]

watch new ep with his new match !! love em think they'll work.

[@r-w2233]

I like him. he's strong and sets boundaries. she's not uses to that. Arlette, have him back on the show please x

[@natelewis3166]

Punctuality is big to me too. Never played about that. Respect for ones time is a reflection of maturity.

[@REPENTFORTHEKINGDOMISATHAND]

I agree but I find it weird that she went and he didnt even show but was reading the messages. Its petty

[@jonathan7936]

⁠@@REPENTFORTHEKINGDOMISATHANDlol I’m definitely not replying to you if you go MIA on me for 24 hours before our date. Especially on a Saturday. She’s a walking red flag, wanted a fancy free Sunday Brunch

[@jg97911]

@@REPENTFORTHEKINGDOMISATHAND i agree. she was in the wrong up until that point when she sent that text and was waiting at the restaurant. he should have responded and said he is not coming

[@jonathan7936]

If you’re genuinely interested in someone, you’d check your phone after a certain amount of time to see if the person replied. We live in an era where we always have our phones with us. Those were all excuses. She went out the night before with someone else💀

[@REPENTFORTHEKINGDOMISATHAND]

@@jonathan7936I check but ive made that mistake and if you are a busy person like her in school and doing content and editing time can get away from you. He should have let her know instead of putting her on 'read'--she was right about that. He wanted her to know that he was leaving her on read purposely.

[@janaefoster9011]

MY BOY DODGED A BULLET

[@patrickatangana9374]

Protect this man at all cost. This woman is a player.

[@margostephenson8214]

The WALL is waiting for her.

[@Okieant]

A player? No. She’s just immature and doesn’t understand how to respect someone’s time or take proper accountability. She half heartedly admitted she screwed up but that particular mistake is a glaring red flag and sign of disrespect which she fails to realize. And then gaslighting him and trying to say that he was trying to get his lick back because he left her on Read was the icing on the cake

[@abigailnamunyola8024]

He’s so calm , we’ll spoken he deserves better

[@luvlui3]

He kept interrupting her? 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@gee9342]

So being call and well spoken makes you right ?

[@Mayyia254]

​@@luvlui3like you interrupting him when he wasn't done typing the comment.

[@EmresMommy]

@@Mayyia254that didn’t make any sense

[@pollytopps3540]

And Handsome❤

[@MizzyXGamer]

U can always tell by they face if they still talk or don't mess with each other when the videos start

[@buki2006]

Right based off body language I already knew 🤣🤣🤣

[@queallure4240]

LMAOOOOOO fr

[@careerkitchenshow]

Bro got his back turned to arlette 😂

[@jaronvenable4241]

Lmao facts

[@SuperWarpath]

Lol the runtime as well

[@MistresstheMediator]

I really didn’t see the episode with them. I jumped straight to this reunion and I’m so happy I clicked on it because here I am self loathing like wow they’re gorgeous, They must be super happy and super successful and then, I see that this is totally diabolical. And I don’t feel so weird for being single now😂

[@xxIkobexx]

Dude is completely right, cause if you waste his time you don’t respect that man.

[@misstiff29]

Then you communicate that, not ghost on someone because of miscommunication.

[@Martin199320]

​@@misstiff29who ghosted who, im not watching this. You saying he ghosted her on the date?

[@Blackhomeking12]

@@misstiff29 Just a reminder she was late and never called to apologize. She had the option to call but didn't it was obvious he wasn't going to text back and instead she blocked him and waited for him to call, which why would he call when she was the one who initially didn't respond? And couldn't take 2 minutes to call, apologize, and set something else up. He shouldn't have to get on his knees and beg her for attention.

[@millweabrooks6317]

Stood on business 💪🏾✊🏾

[@Mdieiwnsndke]

Bro stood on business. This chick is a knucklehead. She doesn’t follow any man’s program.

[@busymike]

She wasn’t responding to his texts or calls yet she’s twisting this into her being some kind of victim. Then she brings up that he offered her work as if that makes him a bad person or something? This chick is insane.

[@gonaedeath2]

Yup. She wants to be in the right

[@CoffeeCrazy]

Yeah, I don’t understand her getting upset about being asked to model. Folks are ultra sensitive about stupid stuff. 😂

[@jornhub2]

🎯🎯🎯 Pretty privilege. I'm not here for it either

[@da_jamaican]

Lack of accountability

[@LouisLark-by7rb]

Very delusional this female is.

[@alexanderthegreats9011]

24 hr ghost treatment, then showing up at the reservation 10 minutes late with expectations is nasty work….

[@JocTillery]

It's women and a few men in the comments saying he wrong

[@blackjoy9079]

Because she's human and life happens. If he's too sensitive for human mistakes. he's not ready to date.

[@One-rr8um]

​@blackjoy9079 24h for responding to a date while being content creator is crazy. A content creator is always on the phone.

[@tinybeka]

She already said she used Siri to type the message and it never sent. She wasn’t ghosting him.

[@DaeMurda]

@@blackjoy907924 hours go by and no response says you don’t care and you immature

[@biserattedros6992]

She feels inferior, because he's got himself together and is atill humble. Everything he offered and tried to do as a real man, I truly believe she felt like he is giving her handout. He was being a man who likes to treat his lady regardless of what the outcome would be. Ramon you truly look humble, that you were raised well and even though you have become successful you don't allow it to cloud you being authentic. Please don't change, you are perfect in many ways even with the flaws that you may have as a human ❤

[@Bittertokken]

This man stood on business, and I respect it 100%!!!!!!!!!!!!! She tried all how to bend and twist what actually happened so she could look like the good guy. The amount of mental gymnastics she attempted is HILARIOUS! Even trying to make him look argumentative when my guy was chill as a cucumber, articulate and respectful. Get her outta here!

[@dre22]

She’s entitled and has never been checked

[@tmston2]

yhea he stood on business alright

[@KeishaJohnson32]

Like seriously, just skipping over every which away the fact that she didn’t send a simple “I’ll be driving myself” on SATURDAY or even Sunday Morning. Like come on, Sis!

[@jay-ks4jc]

He was also petty asf

[@rohang3105]

@@KeishaJohnson32 It's wild forreals

[@BLackPEsa777]

Wow she Pure Drama... you dodged a bullet my brother.. rolling her eyes every sec

[@Smoove2010]

Like a child

[@esang117]

He dodged a huge bullet. She’s gonna be “rot to a man’s bones.” Dudes get fooled by the outward appearance but underneath all that makeup is a narcissistic personality type.

[@Vexed711]

Biggest red flag behavior in a women Rolling eyes Excessive sassy neck movement Pointed hand gestures Stay awayyyy

[@AP-rv1qn]

Yeah I felt the toxicity off her immensely.

[@MsBizzyRae]

Exactly!! She seems like a problem and trying to put it on him smh

[@BrennonSimmons]

When she said he's older then her... I knew she wasn't mature. You're a grown lady. It's maturity at this point. Not age.

[@TheRealLeonardWashington]

Exactly. She tried to gas light him with that BS instead of taking accountability. She was dead wrong for hitting that man up 5 minutes before the date. I would’ve swerved her too and turned on NFL Redzone like my man did 😂

[@onusdigital]

Spot on

[@Dawgyjoe]

@@BrennonSimmons 💯

[@agadonk]

So he figured out early on he did not want to date her anymore but wanted to use her and her friends as content creators.

[@TheRealLeonardWashington]

@@agadonk why not? Just because I don’t wanna date you anymore doesn’t mean I can’t still get a bag off you? And he wasn’t trying to just use her and not pay her like the picture you’re painting. She’s a content creator too so why not offer her a gig? 🤔

[@JhonnyStone100]

16:44 “damn. that’s aggressive..😅” IM STEALING THIS 😂😂

[@blaze18206]

He didn't play her but he did watch her play herself 😂

[@Amarie077]

@@blaze18206 woooo l you are good at analyzing. Watch her play herself which is true. She responded 5mins before the time.

[@sunsetnwaves]

😂😂😂 facts

[@Jaddy_42]

Facts

[@PSHOW]

That part, bih sending vns instead of just calling she real goofy 😂

[@wickedtowise]

Straight on right to the left 🙂‍↕️

[@lastdragonx]

Instagram has got these chicks gassed up.

[@TheeGemstone]

You mean simps

[@luxuryap4337]

Y’all hype lightskin women up so here’s the product you created

[@tinawalker5335]

Agreed, I can tell these women really believe dms equal interest. They get on the show and are so picky but most are single moms, with basic jobs, and mediocre personalities. If guys were interested in real life they’d have a man.

[@mikeprice8307]

Of too 😂

[@lastdragonx]

@@luxuryap4337 lol

[@davveKE]

If the egos can't be checked and you can't compromise, it will never work out

[@bmzansi]

Right because it actually happens when you type a message and go on with other stuff thinking you have sent the message.

[@maryelizabethprice896]

Amen 🙏🏾

[@TNS_Mafia]

Masculine chickz will never work out

[@LUKECAGEPOWERMAN1]

Couldn't of said it better myself! Absolutely 💯👊🏿

[@unconventionalandfree751]

Best comment yet.

[@mommajonez31]

Ramon if you see this… you did everything right Sir.. 👏🏾💕

[@mts4611]

Arlette sitting there letting them argue back and forth is funny AF. LOL!

[@Orgizo08]

What else she gonna do? Lol

[@Chill_Son]

CRYING LMAO

[@ReeliaNafi]

@@Chill_Sonam screamingggg😂😂

[@a.alphonso6193]

​@@Orgizo08literally 😂😂

[@11simonjr]

It wasn't back and forth. It was just the girl being childish and entitled.

[@dracobeasttmg3586]

She got a problem with a man with boundaries and not gone play with his time

[@IloveJesus777j77]

Jesus is coming back.

[@da_jamaican]

None accountability woman major red flag

[@shiningstar6470]

Maybe bcoz she’s used to men paying for her time 😅 and that’s why she didn’t take him seriously

[@Sh1nebr1gh7]

But she should have said that in the beginning or called him.

[@AaronLove980]

I agree with all the comments great conversation

[@Manzychiwa27]

Guy stood on business 😂 we're proud of you 😅💪

[@Escobardiablo]

He’s a real nigga for that 🙏🏾

[@Hains22]

Remember that guy in the white hat? He was right about her all along! 😂

[@lyfeofbill2764]

​@@Hains22 I'm going to have to go back and watch that episode

[@stylecheckbydee]

He's a gentleman, and he's serious !

[@shelbycarvalho5294]

Omg the audacity of her saying is it her turn to talk when that’s all she has been doing 😂

[@beautypure9527]

Yes 🤣🤣🤣

[@braveheart9097]

He was kind of cutting her off though but I think that was because she wasn’t actually being truthful. He was trying to hold her accountable and she tried her best to dodge every point he made

[@MotivationFoo]

right running her mouth like pac man

[@tyronejohnson6834]

She'll say anything to deflect and protect her image at this point.

[@traycebunche4714]

She's ill mannered acting like she's proper. This is a girl not a woman

[@Bernice2021]

The guy looks calm and collective I pray he finds someone who truly deserves him such a nice guy

[@Notnd_99]

he was literally cutting her of at the start

[@faronjoseph84]

​@@Notnd_99here's a gold star for being a simp.

[@tengkuhasnizam7063]

He deserve much more better than this girl honestly..😅

[@kbjones4854]

Because she’s pretty, she may be use to some guys dumping over her but this man stood on business! Nice job sir👏🏾

[@beyourself2444]

The world has a lot of pretty girls...

[@That_ez]

​@@beyourself2444 yet some don't have common sense or certain ones feel like it's my way or the highway

[@britneylucky7845]

What a nice voice 😮 sooo smooth

[@RokSkywalker]

No women forgets to text back a man she's into, Txts 5min b4 the date, yea she lying about her being close, valet, I'm here, & he's smart he knew to leave it & don't respond!

[@Ghostaredead]

Exactly a woman will be looking forward to your text ! I had a woman give me a similar response like she or thought she texted back and I never replied back just like Ramon did 👏

[@Teo.1236]

Bro you hit the nail right on the head i feel the same as well

[@juicediy2495]

None.

[@lovelygirl7123]

She said she thought she texted him back but never sent it….if that was the case she would have been looking up for a reply from him and then she would have seen that she never sent that text…. She was never at the valet she lied…she probably went out with someone else…

[@Wease11206]

She's an air head. Hats off to this brother for setting his boundaries and dodging a bullet.

[@jetcrews97]

Yeaaa im wit him on this one

[@brandybrown9889]

Yes I agree

[@JustCuz...]

🤨 dude could have given her some grace, considering what she did was unintentional. Walking out after a day is crazy. What she did wasn't that deep.

[@thermologo3451]

​@@JustCuz... she is disrespectful and will not be taken serious by any man she actually liked

[@JustCuz...]

@@thermologo3451 what exactly are you calling disrespectful about her? I personally don't think her actions were all that disrespectful, they seemed more human than anything.

[@amytsiga8047]

😂😂😂😂😂😂 I ‘ m supporting the guy 100% on this one . I don’t joke with my time either 😂😂😂😂

[@secreteobsession3584]

But at least she made the effort to turn up.

[@truthseeker95-1]

The entire thing is silly. He was in the wrong for ghosting her on the date after confirming the date 3 times. His text about the car shouldn’t led to a ghosted date. It’s immature.

[@TTXX455]

Loving the support he’s getting from the comments

[@francinethompson5225]

OMG....WTF did I just watch? LMAAOOOO....Kudos to Ramon...He handled it very maturely...I almost got a headache watching this.

[@averychilco]

Those bi-racial women (especially in Washington State) think black men are their foot stool. The fact she was in the military should have been a red flag to him.

[@nicolestacey4480]

I'm embarrassed as a woman listening to her silly self

[@guguthabapelo4952]

I almost stopped watching 😂

[@JocTillery]

@francinethompson5225 why so many women in the comments don't think she did anything wrong. I think she pretty too but damni can say she did some bullcrap at the sametime. These folks don't think a woman do anything wrong if she look good, that's wild

[@touchtone101]

I like how he didnt argue or go back and forth. Its not masculine to argue with a female or go back and forth. I stopped doing that long time ago because i realize 99% of females dont listen but interpret serious information and really put weight on how something is said vs the facts. I accepted this fact and its okay. I even avoid having a reasonable conversations altogether, because you cant force people to do whats best for them. And thats okay too. I just show by example and thats all. If she chooses to follow me then ill be extremely appreciative because thats extremely rare but if she doesnt its okay too😊.

[@_benny_gee9608]

The more and more I hear Alicia talk and her way of carrying herself Ramon is Lucky and Dodge a Bullet with Miss know it all🚩🚩🚩🚩 . Thank you BM & Arlette for the show consistency 🙏

[@user-vj1rx8kn5f]

Her voice was annoying. Who could listen to that day in and day out? Lol

[@blackjoy9079]

*know it all

[@LOSTGPS]

She the type to weaponize a kid against the father out of spite

[@D0ntW0rryAb0utIt]

​@LOSTGPS yup I can see that 💯

[@Marywa_]

Bingo

[@wallaceisking]

24 hr. ghosting and then showing up at the reservation 10 or more minutes late and expecting me to be there is SUPER delusional and disrespectful. Another thing, she is constantly talking about content creation which is ALL about interacting with her Phone which means she DID make time to respond to SOMEONE on that phone, just not HIM... yea alight. These are the types of women to not take seriously. Salute to ole boy. He did the right thing and dodged a bullet.

[@purekillah]

💯 absolute buffoonery

[@KINGOFBROOKLYN3]

C’mon bro… it was “Less than 24 hours” 😂😂 shawty is crazy

[@WhyDeannaWhy]

​@@KINGOFBROOKLYN3Big crazy 😂 and I'm a woman! She's a nut case

[@JenniferRenae]

🕛🤏💯

[@truthseeker95-1]

He was immature. Yes, she could’ve responded to the text about the car, but they had already confirmed the date 3 times. He should’ve been a gentleman and showed up. This is why people are finding dating difficult.

[@20pths12]

He dodged one heck of a bullet. She is insanely defensive and argumentative. She's exhausting honestly 😂

[@troybrown9241]

She over valued herself thinking he would chase her.

[@coldtruth17]

Yep, she couldn't fathom not being fawned over

[@Prissytown]

Left his number unblocked to see if he would reach out and apologize... lmao craziness.

[@belvy2012]

This the one !!!

[@anthonyburgess1684]

That’s it.

[@Oakland510]

as i keep saying;. these woman are only head over heels for Hood Tyrone. no other man will ever get the full devotion nor love. why do you think Hood Tyrone has 5-10 baby mamas ? they will let him go in raw and give him whatevr he wants

[@shay9993]

Communication is key, ladies and gentlemen. No one is too busy not to communicate, especially when we are glued to our phones!

[@blakedawg8242]

This is my motto and I always get gaslit about it

[@Muhyee00]

Facts! They only text and send voice notes 🤦🏾

[@shynebayarea510]

9 to 5 people not too busy and glued to their phones not bosses. Only workers make this statement

[@nadeenzamora]

This can go 50/50, it's possible to have a text written up and not send it. It happens. Plus, they confirmed the date 3 times. How much more confirmation did this guy need? But, all that aside. They genuinely do not along. They both dodged a bullet. Lol

[@blakedawg8242]

@shynebayarea510 hit dogs will holler. You can tell by how you tried to diss "workers". This is 2024 I don't care what position you are in you know how to communicate

[@randystewart6494]

At this point, these reunions turn into a comedy show😂 But yet, this is the best pop the ballon show ever🎉🎉 Who else agrees with me?

[@IloveJesus777j77]

Jesus is coming back.

[@bussey302]

@@IloveJesus777j77 indeed He is!

[@albrat1563]

Yes I agree

[@darkglobe406]

yeah for sure it is the best and most professional one out there . but this is what you get when you are inviting clout chasers on your dating show . these reunions are embarrassing . these girls don´t really care about "matching" with someone , they are just here for the drama and publicity . arlette needs to start inviting more "average" and normal people who really are there to find someone and are not on social media or have minimum followers and also have a regular 9 to 5 jobs - enough with this entrepreneur b.s.h.t - like we all know half of you saying that are either unemployed or own one vending machine and calls it a bussiness . also enough with "content" creators , single mums with multiple baby daddies and "exotic" dancers ...

[@AS91252]

Seems like Ramon was more serious than Alicia and he doesn’t have time for games. I like his seriousness, swag, he is tall, fine and seems to have his life in order. She ain’t ready!!! Alicia get you together if you looking for love. Ramon points were valid in how Alicia handled communicating back to him once the reservation was set. You never responded! He was acting like a man who was interested so, with that being said he acted/reacted how he was suppose to.

[@gracelong3975]

Absolutely agree with you 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯

[@brittthecancerqueenempress9137]

Exactly!!!

[@deannamason1576]

He understands his value!!! God worked it out for you sir!

[@gurudagr8estoverall604]

"God" had nothing to do with the situation😂

[@deannamason1576]

@@gurudagr8estoverall604 God has something to do with every situation...in my opinion!

[@mikeryce1926]

@@gurudagr8estoverall604God made this bird brain broad fumble a “provider” 🤣

[@gymboy2119]

@@gurudagr8estoverall604God very much did…😊✝️

[@myeshaspeaks1]

It sounds like Alicia decided she wanted to hang out with him last minute and expected him to drop everything for her cause that’s what she’s used to. They both could’ve communicated better but she was playing games with a grown man and learned a hard lesson that day.

[@mizzstizzie]

periodt!! He said baby I ain't no option BUH BYE!

[@dtunes77]

I like this comment. So true. she’s definitely used to getting her way bcuz of her looks.

[@tahmiratobler-mosley4450]

Well said.

[@braveheart9097]

Yeah she clearly has no respect for another man’s time and yet she requires respect of hers…. She wouldn’t have still went to the date if it were the other way around.

[@Clintonhill722]

@@myeshaspeaks1 right her main options pulled out, that’s all that is.

[@ager1968]

Wow from a European angle - This Seems a bit like two teens - well shout out to Mrs. Arlette for a good show!!.

[@lamarlps]

The people in the comments siding with her are wild. He is a businessman; his time is money, and she was wasting it. She is a content creator. She knew she hadn't texted that man back, and even if she didn't know, she is wild for thinking he should have shown up and even wilder for thinking she deserved an apology. She was defensive from the beginning and went directly into trying to shift the blame and paint the picture as if he was the bad guy. She used to men chasing her for miles, and he showed he wasn't going to be one of those men.

[@LovelyCeee]

Right! A bunch of feminist in the comment section. She is dead wrong, period! I’m glad they didn’t work out. She’s ditzy!

[@africaine4889]

That woman never went to that restaurant

[@pro-muffins2721]

She a peeyon!!!!😢

[@soundmagixsongwriters8980]

I believe you, she didn't ​@@africaine4889

[@Ayomide-nn4yn]

You said what's on my mind 💯

[@Engr_Halcyon]

Bring this guy’s back button!

[@Ayomide-nn4yn]

Beep!

[@sassygirl340]

Yassssssss!!!!!

[@MarniMoon11.11]

Yup!!

[@lorenzosmith5932]

Lol Whaut?😂

[@lorettaboakye2735]

He got back n got himself a beauty

[@zhivargomuzic]

He kept it really classy. Good job, king.

[@angelwilson4135]

@@zhivargomuzic he did not It was a cat fight

[@Fudge_Fantasy]

He could have turned up they don't respect either way.

[@corasbloom]

Right. She is very childish and speaks like she's 17.

[@luvlui3]

Did we all watch the same video? He was interrupting her..

[@angelwilson4135]

@@luvlui3 right! These people are delusional. They only have 2 types of people on their heads and try to make everyone fit a description.

[@Simsdee]

Oooohhhh lalala... GUY UOU DODGED A DARN BULLET.

[@dreaminbronze9189]

Alicia is self absorbed & entitled. He was right to have boundaries. She kept digging tryna wrangle him into an argument & being “guilty”.

[@misstiff29]

I highly disagree, his boundaries is wrapped in vengeance. To be his wife would be insufferable!!!

[@prod.gregupnext2958]

@@misstiff29stop defending this behavior

[@KINGDEE2]

@dreaminbronze9189 14:48 , if you are real man is where the BIGGEST RED FLAG is😂😂. She tried using his age as an insult. A massive manipulator trying to emasculate a man who has boundaries and dont play her games. She hurt real bad😂😂

[@KINGDEE2]

@@prod.gregupnext2958 I am sure she is like her😂😂

[@olanrewajuquadri5873]

@@misstiff29you a red flag too

[@miantejoshua1286]

He’s lovely !! He gets my up most respect. Right man wrong woman !!

[@feministawry1600]

She's a professional blame shifter

[@etruscancivilization]

That guy had a attitude problem, as if this beautiful woman was going to chase after him with his baldy head and pointed beard, while looking like a bearded Monk...

[@Majinchip87]

Girl shut your slo riri azz up. If you cant see how she acts and bro is calm asf you delusional asf

[@Dhunt17]

@@etruscancivilization u sound like a hater its cool tho

[@bryansageart]

@@Dhunt17the person you responded to is in other threads on this video calling him Mr. Bald Head and comparing him To Mr. Clean, An actual hater 😂

[@traplordso985]

@@etruscancivilizationyou definitely a gay dude

[@Lesg25]

Im with her. This guy is definitely opportunistic 😮

[@jonathankabasele985]

She played hard to get and failed miserably. That is a proper man with boundaries

[@B3STK3PTS3CR3T]

Ramon you saved yourself a headache big dawg. She just wants to argue!

[@mik342000]

Yes, she wants to argue with a smile on her face because she thinks she's cute. I don't think she was even serious about dating they way she was making fun of how ditzy she is.

[@Ayomide-nn4yn]

​@@mik342000😂

[@jerellivey2768]

She is a big RED ass Flag!!!

[@etruscancivilization]

She need a really good looking educated man who will love her like no other in the past or the future..

[@powerplantkitchen]

@@etruscancivilization A high valued man got too many options. He ain’t putting up with no headache.

[@JusCallmeMsAmerica]

That’s why she wore red

[@wizzle7162]

Like her outfit

[@beautypure9527]

Exactly, red flag just like that red dress she has on

[@reginabrooks2893]

Good job Ramon…True beauty awaits you…you’re beautiful, calm, kind and respectful…that’s what you deserve in return…you’re a true class act…

[@PHARAONICORP]

The appropriate thing for her to do after not seeing his text was to call. That would have solved the entire date problem.

[@MorningsWithMaria]

I agree I would have called as soon as I realized my message didn’t send

[@IonaPortugal]

Yes.

[@eligo3143]

Does it seem like he would’ve answered?

[@kazzykaioken8873]

​@@eligo3143Does it seem like the earth is round?

[@mucleboy0151]

Naw the issue is she wasnt interested and just led bruh on for her ego its corny

[@diamondnicoleofficial]

I don’t even think she really went to the restaurant 😂

[@Ty-Carm]

I don’t think she did either

[@mrstl3000]

Facts

[@Radiance230]

Me neither

[@mucleboy0151]

Of course she didnt lol

[@holywomenofyah]

I was looking for this comment. I don't think she went there either.

[@omnib.135]

Alicia is the opportunist! She thought Ramon was the big fish. She threw her hook but he didn’t bite. She’s not ready yet for a man who wants to court her. So, she shows up unsure about herself. She needs to grow up, as she doesn’t see that he is matching her energy. She wastes her time, so he reflects back to her own energy. When people start dating with intentional energy geared towards peace, love and mutual respect. Only then will they be able to build and find love ❤

[@Tweety0139]

Boyyyy he dodged a HUGE bullet!

[@tillfilms]

He was standing on business. I love it.

[@jtag9807]

The different perspectives never cease to amaze me. It's truly fascinating.

[@djskinz]

She calls him picky about timing when it takes her over 10 hours to reply to his message😅

[@beautfulbriana]

Omg I love Ramon! I lowkey want to go on the show

[@TheRealStackola]

She’s the source of the fabric where they make the red flags.

[@Holamiamigos777]

😂😂😂

[@rugburnstudios]

i’m using this 😂

[@MsMVP]

I love this 😂❤

[@Ayomide-nn4yn]

😂

[@kialii3271]

Waaaaaaiiii😂😂😂😂😂 her being in red makes this extra funny asf 😂😂😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 I’m cryiiinngggg😭😭😭😂😂😂😂