Armando And Kenny Clash Over Their Parenting Styles | 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way

Kenny and Armando are finally living with Hanna in their new house. But their first time visiting the local market together might shed light on their different parenting styles.
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[@scootchieandboo7475]

I've been a stepmom for 12 years and my best advice would be step back and observe, ask questions but no assumptions or judgements. Be the child's biggest fan, the parents support, and you will be happier for it

[@scootchieandboo7475]

@Cooper Smith until you earn your place in the family yeah. I'm closer to my daughter now than either of her birth parents, I'm not her mother she has one already, I'm her step mom, I'm a back up or stand in. I would protect her from anyone, I'm on her side and im impartial, it's easy if you Know your role.

[@scootchieandboo7475]

@Cooper Smith she is 18, in university and we are very close, I've raised 4 amazing kids and 2 step kids while working as a nurse, you have no idea what you are talking about. I know my kids very well, I'm engaged and connected but for the mothering it's very unhealthy for a step parent to go in making rules and demands on kids without proper boundaries first, that takes years. How many dumb people bring in new partners as step parents and they are left in charge and the kids beaten molested or killed, seriously I didnt leave my grown kids with my husband for a long ass time til i knew they were comfortable YEARS, And i wouldnt have trusted him as a parent if he left his kids with me or wanted me to parent them. My kids were never molested, beaten, or harmed because i was vigilant, think about how well creeps are at hiding.

[@mars.x]

@@scootchieandboo7475 you seem like a great parent/guardian figure and I am sure your loved ones feel blessed to have you in their lives. Best to you ❤️

[@hb7021]

This is exactly the way to go. It works better than trying to fight for a place as a third parent. The child already has parents there’s no need to be a replacement. I’m a step mother myself.

[@KarenLopez-vi8bv]

My step mom told me and my sister to our face that we were not her kids there for not her problem. And the days we would see our dad all they would do is fight. We asked him not to bring her so many times even my mom told him and he always brought her. We just stopped hanging out and talking all together. My step dad complete opposite, literally feel more comfortable calling him dad than our own dad.

[@FlyingTigersKMT]

This kid is better behaved and more mature than 98% of the adults in this show.

[@GabeThinks]

Lmao right! She's apparently spoiled, but she doesn't have outbursts (that they've showed, at least)

[@FlyingTigersKMT]

@@GabeThinks - Even if she's spoiled, she asks nicely, doesn't demand, pout, throw tantrums, act entitled, or basically act like any other adult on the show. She's a kid... they're going to ask for indulgences. That's what kids do. They want to enjoy every moment. They don't know how to wait yet.

[@sdawsonwarren5051]

Amen to that.. She's so mature for her age, she has had to grow up in a hurry. Because I know how it feels to lose your mother.. Bless her sweet heart

[@moniquemosley2122]

Facts💯

[@jenieveronicalucy5047]

@@FlyingTigersKMT i never really asked things to my parents when i was little... only if it is the time to ask... or i just get it without asking

[@skellingtonmeteoryballoon]

Kenny can't help but reflect on his experience guiding his own children. He's been there, done that and his criticism seems constructive.

[@doravalderas8542]

Kata right , wish i had listened to other parents, but I didn’t this boy now 12 gets what he wants but is in trouble all the time but im alone trying to raise him

[@pamfelix9900]

He needs to make the effort to learn Spanish (Rosetta Stone maybe) so he can truly be a constructive person in his environment, in all situations. Don't put it off, do it now.

[@fawahwahedi1762]

Yes until that one argument of Armando about the major loss Hannah experienced weighs pretty heavy here

[@lizmowrey9866]

Yeah, he wasn't being disrespectful or anything

[@nurtenkocaman1699]

Yes i agree but this isnit his child at the end of the day

[@cutieelise]

Armando may be a cool a dad and lets Hannah get what she wants, but at least she’s 10000x more well behaved than Drascilla. And they’re close to the same age, which is even more surprising.

[@cutieelise]

I’m American, but I love how you’re dissing us. I actually agree with you😂 we spoiled af

[@lizmowrey9866]

Yes!

[@Traveler-rf8ye]

@Innaa Dynamitee oh the shade

[@kevinsmoon3257]

@Innaa Dynamitee it’s not a culture thing its a person thing, idk why there is always so many labels on everything and everyone. I am mexican and trust me there is a loot of misbehaved kids out here too it’s not where they come from its how they are raised

[@anandadaquino3604]

I'm Brazilian, so let me tell you something, we might be "spoiled", but if we do something wrong... boy, hahahahaha our parents know what to do. They might stop talking to us for days, or beat us if we disrespect them again 😂😂😂 the funny thing is they dont talk to us, but dont let us "leave the house", they are angry until we know how to say "I'm sorry, I love you", then all the family starts to cry 😂

[@rv264]

But kenny has to realise she is the lone child and Armando knows the girl has lost her Mother ... so he may go overboard in getting her things

[@saurabhgaushal4896]

It is known as guilt parenting and believe me it is not good in the long run.

[@gigi_945]

@Drizzt Fitz totally agree

[@theebaddestbrat9051]

saurabh gaushal whats the definition of guilt parenting i can't find it anywhere

[@ricaivory6571]

I mean, Kenny has a point about Hannah doing whatever she wants but this is why things should be discussed FIRST before getting to this step. However, despite being spoiled Hannah is well behaved.

[@happyhed]

This little girl is so beautiful, a little purse and a snow cone isn't spoiling her. ❤️😺❤️

[@Awsomesism1994]

I get she lost her mother but Armando shouldn't be spoiling her too much. Entitlement is not a good thing once she gets older

[@saurabhgaushal4896]

Yes I agree with you. It is known as guilt parenting and believe me it is not good in the long run.

[@yesseniaayala2664]

She’s a little girl at the market! Hello 😒

[@tinadraper9143]

It would be cruel to take a little girl to the flea market and not let her get anything, alot of things are cheap, I give my 2 kids 5 to 10 dollars each and let them decide what they want, we only go maybe twice per year.

[@rainbowalincia3152]

Armando is such a good dad 🥰

[@KA-eu9sy]

Daughter so sweet. When asked what she thinks of having 2 daddies. She says double the love!

[@arturohuertaperez]

The father has the final say about it. Not the step parent 🙄

[@katianaarrindell7478]

And that's why you don't have kids, keep thinking this way and you'll be single forever. A relationship is supposed to be a 2 partie decision not 1 sided.

[@leximonson6517]

My father did the same thing when my mother passed away. He spoiled me and spoiled me...and till this day he does. He says I remember him of my mother so much. I used to sleep with him also all the time cause I was scared to loss him. This scene made me cry tbh.

[@samuelsam523]

This little girl is a good girl what the problem with kenny

[@belindasandoval8157]

He’s just watching out for her in the future.

[@abigailmarshall5302]

He is just giving sound parenting advice. Spoiling and coddling one's child does not produce a good adult

[@babytroll559]

He's jealous of the lil girl 😒

[@theonlyjoiaa5800]

I need their communication skills

[@alicemazzucco2345]

I love this couple hanna is adorable I think that these two will be great together raising her it will work out I believe in these two God bless them

[@sxox9086]

I think hannahs dad is an amazing dad, he's doing a very good job bless him,

[@onenonlysash1590]

Yes but you can't parent out of guilt

[@BTS21LOVER]

Happy Thanksgiving!

[@ashleyelizabeth538]

Happy thanksgiving!

[@bornrich9264]

I don’t like Kenny but he was just suggesting the idea (he actually made a fair point), some of y’all act like he is forcing Armando to change his parenting

[@jamiethegemini5409]

How could he not learn Spanish before he moved?!?

[@charlessmith5605]

How can people not learn English before moving to America?

[@williamkiesling6207]

I think these are the most sane and sensible persons in the whole entire show history and my favorite

[@maiyang430]

I love that they can communicate as adults especially infront of a child❤️

[@sarahmartinez1529]

Love Kenny an Armando!!.... Kenny is a good step parent!!.... and Armando is an amazing parent

[@motherhoodsbeauty9279]

They both should know that this little girl won’t be kid forever. Giving her ice cream won’t hurt her

[@gabriellapollard5417]

U cant spoil a child like that. Ur a parent not a friend

[@zlatkajupe]

Oh my god they are all so sweet this is definitely my new favorite couple

[@Eritreands]

I understand this little girl has lost her mother but it doesn’t mean she can be spoilt as much as she wants. You have to teach children that they can’t always have what they want. I’ve had two children and yes we treat them but they also know no means no

[@Reshme77]

Elder parent=kenny Newbie parent=Armando

[@J0ki]

So refreshing to see actual adults on this show.

[@loststay1040]

Kenny and Armando will be the only couple that will survive this season istg

[@AamuAurora]

I mean, call me crazy, even as an adult I would have an issue falling asleep knowing that there's an entire filming crew in my house.

[@nicolemarie3037]

That lil girl knows exactly what she’s doing

[@Inadisguise]

wot no snide comments about the age gap as with sumit and jenny? there is only three years in it

[@MrBeard-ig5zc]

Trouble in paradise? You are not doing your child any good by letting them rule.

[@LoveAlwaysAlwaysLove]

They're both right. I hope they are opening more to learn from one another. Two good adults and a good child can become even better ~ Better gets good and good gets better! 💓💖💓

[@colie2020]

I don't like Kenny the way I first did. But I do the love the portrait of Armando as a father. I just hope Kenny is the right choice for them.

[@LeandroVelez7]

I’ve worked with children in a professional capacity for most of my adult life. Giving parents advice on how to raise their kids is a big no no for me. Even if it were my own family. Parents ego’s are wrapped in how they parent and if you poorly traverse that conversation it can go bad real quick. It’s extremely important that you have that conversation with your spouse, about parenting styles and expectations, before you start a family with them. Shit, even if you do have that conversation, you won’t know your parenting habits until you have a kid. Also doesn’t he realize that no amount of gifts will fill the hole that was left by the loss of her mother? I’m hearing that he’s buying out of feelings of guilt for her loss. That, to me, is extremely dangerous.

[@tibicenlinnei4014]

Anti-LGBTQ+ parents just yell in front of their kids, give them a bunch of physical and emotional trauma, then kick them out when they're not Fair Isle sweater wearing muppets. It's the insecurity over healthy parenting for me.

[@burymebelowawillowtree9243]

I can see teenage Hanna and Kenny hating each other in the near future....

[@saurabhgaushal4896]

But she will realize later on in life...that kenny was doing it in her best interests.

[@elisamondragon2849]

Hope not

[@evalu3260]

The real parent makes the decisions. That’s that.

[@kimmccarthy5097]

Extra love is what will help this child cope with the loss of her mother, not material things. That's what Armando needs to remind himself when Hannah asks for things. And Kenny and her extended family will do just that.

[@alexandrathearmy4773]

Kenny,tienes que aprender español.No puedes olvidar que estás en Mexíco y la gente hablan español 😡😡😡 Is it weird that I have no one in my family who speaks fluent Spanish? While Kenny has Armando and can't say a thing in Spanish. And also Kenny,until you learn Spanish,keep your mouth shut.

[@Pnwliving3392]

Very.

[@joelnegrete7556]

Girl stfu everyone is different

[@alexandrathearmy4773]

@@joelnegrete7556 make me shut up

[@realvictoria5970]

I have a daycare. I am very very stricked but teachers can recognize students that came from my program. I was showing 5 year olds how to do taxes and I got a call from an angry mom saying I need to stop. I also tech gardening, alphabet an numbers, colors and different languages too. Why would someone want to put a cap on education. The mother said she wants her little girl to stay a little girl. I softly said I want her to be an educated little girl.

[@caritovizcarra6995]

This is funny to watch and I know they will work it out I wish the best they will do better everyday 💕🙏🏼✌🏼

[@alexandrahenderson6659]

Hannah looks just like my friend amairani and her daughters. Muey bonita. I understand both Armando and Kenny's side in this disagreement

[@dianemorris5816]

Kenny, Hannah's mother died, it's a little different. Learning Spanish is a must yet he doesn't seem interested. Armando is the main parent and he should do the disciplining. Hannah is a beautiful little soul.

[@christophergarza210]

I’m always thirsty before I go to bed. Then I wake up while my grandmother is dragging me inside the house after I passed out in the yard. Now that’s what I call quenching my thirst. 😂

[@RagbirJuillet]

Great couple and communication. Very mature!

[@hadow7655]

Armando you are the father I wished I had God bless you🙏

[@Mrbiscuit70]

Kenny is right in this one.

[@lillianjessepe7808]

Hannah is actually very well behaved. She is a good girl. She has a good daddy.

[@LG-nx3fe]

Kenny has a point! This guy don't know how to raise children! 🙄

[@ing9545]

Two men raising a baby girl is sweet and funny . A Hispanic mum would have put her to sleep like yesterday

[@waspian]

Kenny...cut that hair dear GOD

[@ashleyrodriguez8143]

Step parents need to stay in their place and mind their business.

[@lakshmir7616]

The older u get harder its to learn another language.

[@missqueen80ssa42]

Kenny lives in the Spanish speaking county and he wants him to speak spanish but yet the Spanish come to USA and we are English speaking and they don't wanna learn english

[@privateemail5870]

Beyond disgusting how, after losing her mother, that guy drags that poor little girl to be gathered by an old gay queen that doesn't want her dad to spoil him. Poor little girl

[@y2jasmilan]

wow, a normal adult conversation, on 90 day...unbelievable

[@wafaahassissi2460]

She is sended by God to stop this wrong relation

[@c7po457]

@Drizzt Fitz still doesn't make it right.

[@c7po457]

@Jasmilan Lehal why are you surprised? They're guys, not women. Lol

[@ose3291]

@Drizzt Fitz omg 😂😂😂

[@Armaelzennur]

Because both are men 😂😂😂

[@hannahthomas5609]

I love how they handle conflict. calm cool and collected. No yelling no screaming.

[@anandadaquino3604]

Yesssss!!!! It's literally two parents disagreeing how to raise a kid hahahaha, it doesn't matter their sexuality

[@Tobstarrilez]

Its almost too civilised for this show haha

[@anandadaquino3604]

@@Tobstarrilez hahahahhaa totally!!!! They dont deserve to be in the show

[@navyporpoises108]

Yeah, it's on camera and everyone shows restraint or TLC pays them less

[@straitjacket231]

It's called men

[@sweeterthanhic6430]

“She deserves an ice cream cone, that’s all I know” 😭😭😭😭😭 WHAT A GOOD FATHER IM CRYING

[@JT-xj1pg]

Sure make her fat 🙄

[@SP-uw7bq]

@@JT-xj1pg I hope your joking lol. She not gonna her fat

[@emmjay551]

😂😂

[@hellohernandez5297]

Lol that's my husband with our daughter 🤣

[@doggytheanarchist7876]

@@JT-xj1pg why are you being disgusting? Talking about a child's body like that? There's nothing wrong with being fat, but there's definitely something wrong with you.

[@ritikamarjara3215]

The only behaved child on this show. Dracilla can learn a thing or two from her Edit: tysm for the likes guys

[@kimstar4532]

And deaven can learn from Kenny and Armando 😂

[@amyturner-solis236]

@@kimstar4532 period!!😂😂

[@firststar5809]

My best guess, you're missing a couple kids. That kid had a camera crew, new brother, moved. Don't expect anything less than a little out bursts for attention since she can't communicate her feelings yet.

[@ritikamarjara3215]

@@firststar5809 well that certainly doesn’t mean running wild on streets and sticking your toe in the food and throwing a puppy in the air

[@brendablu88]

Don't throw shade to a kid.

[@indiangirl_in_30s]

The poor kid, lost her mother at such a tender age,living in a completely different place, house and even with a new parent now. Such massive changes happened so early in her life. Hope Kenny understands it..

[@saurabhgaushal4896]

It is known as guilt parenting and believe me it is not good in the long run.

[@black-db2my]

For long term I agree to Kenny parenting cz kids knows how to manipulate the more u give them the less they appreciate.

[@bornrich9264]

Don’t let emotion clouds your judgement

[@pamfelix9900]

So true, and all parents have their own technique, it's something that has to be discussed and any changes should be "gradually blended in after" they have come to an agreement.

[@c7po457]

@shrey my mom died unexpectedly when I was 4. It's not good to spoil the child for any reason. He should focus on moving forward with her and not feeling guilty.

[@evelyngrace9954]

I understand where Armando is coming from but when a kid ask to buy something in almost every stall she encounters.. thats when you learn to say no sometimes..

[@jenieveronicalucy5047]

true

[@martaflorcremades1128]

She is on TV and there are a lot of changes around her. It's a one day thing.

[@chrisjackson6149]

He likely feels guilt over how much his daughter has had to endure, so he's trying to make up for it by purchasing everything she wants. I understand it's not the best thing to do as a parent, but he feels pressured : (

[@robind5576]

Off topic but I love Hannah being like “do you wanna buy me a purse of a snow cone”

[@arwenrosalie3031]

Omg ai flipped I guess I am just strict with my kids but how dare she ask me what I want to buy her. I would tell my kid Well now since you feel entitled you get nothing. She knows shes spoiled, what she actually wanted to hear was “oh baby I can buy you both”

[@Apartmenttherapy333]

@@arwenrosalie3031 weirdooo !! That’s soo wrong that you feel entitled to act soo ugly towards ur kids for simply asking for something but My babies deserve the world ❤️✨🌎

[@arwenrosalie3031]

@@Apartmenttherapy333 that not a damn baby thats a little monster he’s making. I am kind to my kids but they are not allowed to play “games” like that.

[@annamay1966]

Kenny needs to learn Spanish! Not just like a beginner's lesson, he has to try to get as fluent as possible. He needs to get more independent, but it's also disrespectful to the stepdaughter bc she dosn't understand most of the conversations.

[@Maya-dw5jz]

This! I would never move to a country where I don't know the language. How can I even communicate with people or understand them. Especially if I kkow the said person I am gonna be a step parent to doesn't know English I would learn Spanish to communicate with her. I felt awkward myself just watching them not talking and waiting for Armando 😂😂

[@beccasmithers2672]

I think he'll learn Spanish in time

[@beccasmithers2672]

I really think he actually will want to. I see Kenny and Armando as good guys

[@Maya-dw5jz]

@@beccasmithers2672 it's good he will, and he kinda has to he is in Mexico and that's a Spanish speaking language, but he should have learned Spanish before going to Mexico so that he is able to speack to Hannah, communicate well and express his emotions etc well in Spanish for Armando to understand. (I know Armando understands and speaks English) But Kenny and Armando are really good together!!! :DD

[@Maya-dw5jz]

@Cooper Smith for sure, Hannah should also learn English, it will be beneficial for her to. But I'm saying zkenny should learn is bc he will live in Mexico no? So

[@jaipnet8479]

I think kenny might be moving a bit fast with the co-parenting, I think he needs to easy into it

[@mars.x]

Seriously...he can’t even speak Spanish or communicate with the girl yet and he’s already trying to parent her

[@monikstar09]

That’s definitely agreeable. however, the longer you wait to correct behaviors, harder it is to stop them. I think he was just giving advice, as a partner.

[@naylas3908]

@@monikstar09 , hé was just giving advice, however, he should step back. Being a stepparent means you are backup. It’s not the same as co-parenting your own child. He seems to not have read up on the differences. I know it’s hard to switch off the parenting when you have raised many kids.

[@mariawalker3388]

Absolutely agree with you 😊

[@flimcomedy7667]

Nah he's right this child does not know the concept of money you cannot spoil a child rotten I love my little sister I would not have bough her icecream because they already bought her a meal

[@yourhusbandismyboyfriend1714]

Kenny should have learned Spanish before they moved to Mexico. I would never move anywhere, where I didn’t know the native tongue.

[@anarchist_parable]

Cooper Smith Come on now. She's a child and he's moving to HER country. He had years to learn the language. It's a matter of communicating with ANYONE. Instead he's making Armando responsible for translation.

[@KRL1999]

@Cooper Smith Yes! I don't think Armando really appreciates just how difficult it is to learn a language as an adult (most people who learn another language as children don't understand). It's totally possible, but it won't happen overnight. However, since he's perfectly bilingual, it would be easy for him to teach English to Hannah, and she would learn so much faster than Kenny. It takes effort from both sides here, it's not fair for all the blame to be placed on Kenny.

[@KRL1999]

@Cooper Smith Right. And the whole reason they chose to stay in Mexico was because Hannah doesn't speak English. Kenny literally gave up his entire life to move there in order to be with Armando. Some patience is the least he should be afforded. It would have been a lot easier for Armando and Hannah to move to the U. S., since both Kenny and Armando speak English and Hannah is a child, who would learn the language very quickly.

[@yv6958]

At least learn even a little of the language. He knows nothing and that’s kind irresponsible of him lol

[@andreacarrion6462]

People who spoil their kids usually are a bit lazy. They are showing love via buying them things.

[@posarandposer]

If Kenny wants a voice to Hannah he should learn the language.

[@EllinasUniverse]

it will take him a lot of effort and time, but yes he should

[@posarandposer]

Effort and time is worth a family.

[@EllinasUniverse]

@@posarandposeryep :)

[@Janedoe0193]

She's in a completely different place now, I'm surprised she's not crying more often, I think he's doing a great job of making her feel calm

[@JamileSimao]

Even when arguing they are wholesome

[@gray333]

Honestly that little girl isn’t even that spoilt it’s a hot day so why shouldn’t she get a little ice cream treat you know lots has changed for her

[@AF3NI]

@Cooper Smith understand your stand of point. But some things need time. They have been doing it before Kenny was around. I also think he feels guilty and sorry for her, that the mother died etc. this goes deep... so of course they need to find a way in the middle. He could talk about it with Armando before giving these low. Blows and complain. Just because someone wants something doesn't mean it goes natural.. lmfao Co parenting isn't easy let alone in their situation. The way you say things it is very important. This has nothing to do with him not being mature because he sees what he's doing. He just loved his child so much and need to. Learn that saying no doesn't mean you don't love her.. Kenny can't compare his situation on raising his child with him raising his. Also there's a big cultural diffrence and they hae diffrent characters ..

[@SP-uw7bq]

@Cooper Smith Kenny needs to shut up and stop tripping over stupid things

[@ayleneperez5254]

@Cooper Smith but kenny has to learn Spanish if hes going to be living in Mexico...but I agree with u on hannah not having to get whatever she wants even though she lost her mother that's no excuse she seems like a good kid but not setting those boundaries will become an issue as she grows older

[@AF3NI]

@Cooper Smith yeah he complains way to much about all kinds of shit. and Armando wil get tired of it.. He's always on his high horse. The way he's sending his message 😂😂 A lot has changed in this little grils life. Imagine living there and having two dads. I dont think I can call someone a step dad just because your dating someone. It takes time, love effort and understanding.. Of course she will act like a brat some times. It's a kid. At the end of the day he gave her ice cream so he also gave in. 😂 😂 😂It's smart so now he's the good guy. Kenny is manipulative.

[@AF3NI]

@Cooper Smith Kenny should accept that people raise their children differently..and that you don't become step-dad overnight. He gave her ice cream at the end of the day.. Practice what you preach.. 😂 😂

[@TieuMa24]

Spanish is easy to learn, so start practicing it, it a beautiful language 😉

[@inniekuteyi2096]

Yeah exactly i remember some spanish from 4th grade and now im in 10th grade

[@saunsiaraybroussard9967]

@@inniekuteyi2096: What you learn in a text book isn't the same as the native language!

[@saunsiaraybroussard9967]

TieuM: Yes Spanish is a beautiful language! For some people learning Spanish isn't very easy! Textbook Spanish isn't the same as they speak! Yes he needs to learn it especially being in Mexico where it's their native language! Armando could even teach him! I learned from an ex boyfriend whose from Mexico 26 years ago! In fact each state has their own slang!

[@mars.x]

Kenny is like 50+, Im pretty sure it’s not as easy to pick up languages the older you get, so it might not be as easy for him. BUT I absolutely agree. He should have learned at least enough to get by before moving to Mexico. He can’t even talk to Hannah

[@elisamondragon2849]

Fafafafufufu

[@lizmata6546]

I think Kenny needs to realize he should be the one to adjust to his new surroundings, I mean he is in Mexico 🇲🇽, he can’t expect people to take his order in English 🙄🙄 lol 😂 and he also has to step back and realize that the poor little girl has been through a lot she lost her mother, moved to a new home new area and now has two dads instead of one. It’s a lot for a child to process, so she may be asking for things buts he shouldn’t be bothered , maybe going bow shopping was something she did with her mom ? 🥺 I agree he should grant everything to a child but she’s been through hell and back at such a young age

[@saurabhgaushal4896]

Yes I agree with you. It is known as guilt parenting and believe me it is not good in the long run.

[@bornrich9264]

Lol yeah Typical Americans, they expect everyone in the word to adjust for them.

[@LA3STR3LL]

I agree but like that whole “now she has two dads instead of one” was pretty shitty of you to say....

[@gabriellejosue5140]

@@LA3STR3LL how is that shitty she does have 2 dads now lol

[@margaretramirez7278]

If he can afford it and she's being a good girl not throwing temper tantrums why Not?

[@margaretramirez7278]

@Drizzt Fitz you must have not read my comment correctly I didn't say give her everything she wants! I said if she was good why not let her pick something out. I do have 4 kids and 2 are grown and I Never got woken up in the middle of the night to police calling me telling me to come get my kids! They don't do drugs my 22 year old barely tried weed when he was 20. They graduated high school and have jobs. So I must have done something right.!

[@margaretramirez7278]

@Drizzt Fitz I accept.

[@DemonicEmbrace]

She might get spoiled and have a nasty attitude when she grows up. I’ve seen this happen to kids who get spoiled and get everything. Kenny is only helping out and can see more in the future. His daughters are grown, mature, and very respectful.

[@justinflanders7754]

@Hello It's K They already raised kids who aren't entitled -3- read their replies

[@naiadolling]

I agree. It's hot and she's being very well behaved- so why not let her get an ice cream cone? He made a deal with her and it's his job to keep it. It's not as if he's just giving her whatever she wants, just because. I do the same thing with my baby sister and she's very well behaved. People need to chill some.

[@elisamondragon2849]

*Kenneth didn't raise his voice, Armando is used to spoil his daughter because the little girl's mom passed away*

[@LSan-kd5pw]

I don’t see anything wrong with how Armando tests his child. She’s way more behaved and well spoken than any child and adult on this damn show!

[@michellestella7477]

They both need to adjust their parenting styles. Meet in the middle. But you can tell they both have her best interest at heart.

[@valeriakamneva2677]

I really like the fact that...they KNOW how to communicate . Which a lot of couples don't. Communication is everything in a successful relationship..so good for them!!!🥰

[@xxmelaniexx101]

Kenny really needs to learn spanish. If you’re going to be living in a Latin American country long term, you should do your absolute best to learn the native language and learn to respect the culture around you

[@chizesaikanodlt4904]

True

[@Kanal7Indonesia]

So do the Mexicans in the USA

[@agirlybeat4697]

I can tell she is so confused maybe they should go easy on her,this child lost her mother and all of sudden she is living with two dad's

[@lisawhitten8400]

Hannah is adorable. She is such a well behaved child.

[@merber6070]

Armando loves his daughter more than his own life 💗💗💗💕

[@ggrlrox1]

At the end of the day she isn't his kid. He keeps say "co-parenting" but I kind of feel like he's using the wrong word for it cause thats usually a term used by divorced parents and he's the step-parent so he's gotta realize that he's got certain boundaries that he's gotta respect

[@saurabhgaushal4896]

It is known as guilt parenting and believe me it is not good in the long run.

[@nurtenkocaman1699]

Agree his not her parent im sorry you cant just walk in to a childs like and act like the parent there has been big changes in her life too

[@Idsih]

The are at the market, of course the kis should be able to get some ribbons and ice-cream

[@shaynadesiree5278]

Imo, Only children are raised a little different than those with multiple children families.

[@gigi_945]

A think A LOT, at times.

[@JesPulido]

So is he just not gonna try to learn Spanish?

[@alexandrathearmy4773]

No,he told Armando Hannah should learn English.What a douchebag.

[@bongowrld]

Spanish is easy to learn too

[@LanaRioss]

@@alexandrathearmy4773 maybe he suggested that because kids can pick up a new language faster than an adult. But I definitely think its a two way street!

[@alexandrathearmy4773]

@@LanaRioss she'll learn English as she goes,but he needs to realize he's in Spanish speaking country.

[@LanaRioss]

@@alexandrathearmy4773 I kind of said that.... not in those exact words but I did say it's a two way street, meaning Kenny needs to take initiative

[@omadjourney]

Step parents need to do just that....STEP back and let the parents parent. I don't know how much Hannah knows of her mom and dad together so this could be new to her and lead's her to being clingy to her dad🤷🏾‍♀️,so he needs to step back and let him introduce his kid to their new normal.

[@disabledbabe]

That's why people don't want to date people with kids, you can't just sit there and allow your partner's kids disrespect you, your partner and the household and tell them to step back. It doesn't work like this, my step dad disciplined me and my brother, he clothed us, fed us and we lived in a house he paid for and for someone to say step back it's a no no. The kids will feel not welcome if the other partner doesn't take an active part in their upbringing.

[@omadjourney]

@@disabledbabe OMG all in time!!! Those two are still getting to know each other themselves and they don't even know what kind of parents the other is, no one is talking about disrespect here but do step back and watch/learn how the parent does it,you don't just come into a situation and want to dominate the situation...it won't end well because kid's are not stupid actually.

[@omadjourney]

@Hello It's K he is a step parent and there's no shame in being a step parent but that's just what he is, I'm sure I don't have to explain to you all the other ways people get to be parents outside of being biological. She has two biological parents dead or alive so I don't see your point 🙄.

[@cupcakescouture32]

Kenny is sort of right she need to learn the word no honey maybe next time . I feel like ppl are mentioning her mother's death we understand that but that does not disregard knowing the word no and not getting everything you want

[@Cosmosandchisme]

1000% agree with you.

[@MsThing-lz7zr]

Exactly

[@cari08100]

I see big problems coming up. Kenny is so judgemental.

[@Eric26lux]

He's American, going to be good way or the highway, name one couple where it was any different

[@cari08100]

Hopefully the highway. Armando can do better. Kenny beaches too much. Kenny had plenty of time to learn Spanish to communicate with his little girl. Maybe it's a good thing that he don't speak it. He would have her crying all the time. He talks rude.

[@cari08100]

Once the communication start she's going to tell her daddy she don't like him

[@cari08100]

His kids are already grown. He wants Armando all to himself.

[@TheVenessa7485]

Even when they have a disagreement, I love this couple so much. Very real situation and relatable issues for blended families.

[@beccasmithers2672]

Plus he must remember shes young shes gonna want things he just had to put a limit on it.

[@beccasmithers2672]

But he's prob just trying to go more easy on her Armando is be ausr she just lost her mom

[@nurtenkocaman1699]

Dont like that Kenny is full on he needs to give a bit of space to daughter and dad

[@tyresmith9833]

While I get Kenny’s advice, Armando spoils her because her mother is no longer here and she is the lone child.

[@caligrl2098]

As a stepparent, I think it’s best to not overstep your role. It causes resentment and anger. Especially considering she’s so young and adjusting to big things. He needs to understand that trust and his role as someone to govern her life is earned not just given because he’s married to her dad. He definitely needs to learn to communicate with her in order to grow a relationship with her. With that being said she’s a well behaved child so it’s ok to let her be spoiled modestly. It doesn’t ruin her character unless you over do it.

[@drewchase6577]

*If I marry someone from a different culture, I'm definitely going 2learn the language... just out of respect (& 2 overhear if they're creeping😉🤷🏾‍♂️)*

[@shruti8271]

Parenting from guilt n overcompensating isn't good in long run

[@Kiboratedr]

I did the same when my son lost his Dad I give him everything and it's not good in the long run he's 13 now and I wish I could go back and do things differently

[@bskilla4892]

People that keep picking on Dracilla need to chill. It's not the kids fault. It's the mother's.

[@Ariana-fr4ky]

👍🏼

[@rachelwhite3286]

kenny doesnt even try to learn spanish and it annoys me especially when he had time to practice before he even moved there. It's mexico you need to learn their language

[@dianemorris5816]

Exactly

[@magpieonline4801]

I feel that way about most couples on this show. Lol Like Jenny and Sumit. In 10 years, she never bothered to learn Hindi???