I’m aroace and non binary. I need this. Thank you so much!
@mentallyunstable19264 жыл бұрын
ace boys are great. i will say this again, going against the "all boys are hypers-xual" stereotype is a totally valid thing to do. go live your life
@Violets_and_Madness3 жыл бұрын
Omigod, I remember being friends with an ace aro boy and he looked like one of those jock boys you'd see in movies (blonde, blue eyes, tan, muscles to boot) and I was told "he's gonna try to get you in bed and then leave you hanging" and I couldnt stop laughing everytime someone classified him as a play boy based on looks alone because I swear that kid cringed at the idea of dating people. He gave amazing hugs tho.
@mentallyunstable19263 жыл бұрын
@@Violets_and_Madness i’m glad he gave some great hugs. nice to see a “playboy” looking type go against that stereotype too
@CuteLilEldritch10103 жыл бұрын
I personally would love to live in a mansion in the woods baking cake and watching cartoons with an ace boy that’s either a soft boy or a sassy boy
@Violets_and_Madness3 жыл бұрын
@@CuteLilEldritch1010 Why not both? Soft spoken but spits some sweet venom every once in a while
@Violets_and_Madness3 жыл бұрын
@EyepatchBacksoon work it then, boy! Get some of that platonic love!
@aqua.dot9084 жыл бұрын
I remember I said randomly a few years ago "You know, I think I might be asexual..." and the kid next to be got scared and was like "Wait what-" and then I had to explain to him how I meant the LGBTQ+ version and not the scientific version. It was so special-
@taylor414 жыл бұрын
LMAOOO
@lincolnlogsforleeches14224 жыл бұрын
Scientific version?
@ethantawse57394 жыл бұрын
@@lincolnlogsforleeches1422 not wanting to fuck
@lincolnlogsforleeches14224 жыл бұрын
@@ethantawse5739 oh ok ty
@bett18264 жыл бұрын
LMAOOOOOOOOOOO
@DustyLWithHusk4 жыл бұрын
I'm a lesbian but I have met some asexual people and have a few asexual friends and let me tell you HOW FREAKIN SWEET AND FUNNY THEY ARE!!!! 😆❤️
@wwusyaname4 жыл бұрын
I'm pan and I have an ace cousin.Shes so sweet yet she gets bullied because she doesn't want to have sex. No worries!I confronted her bully (she had one the other ones were nice to her and respected her decisions).I told him,"She is VALID!She deserves nothing but love and respect,like your face.It's valid and deserves to be loved and respected by MY FIST!" and then I broke his nose 😃.He never bothered her again,and I wasn't allowed on her school grounds anymore but it was worth it and it was a great save because she told me she tried to attempt su!c!de.She was honest to me and always told me how was school because she knows even if i'm not allowed on her school grounds i'll beat anyone's ass. I saw the video before the comp was made so I memorized it that way I can use it.
@mariafausti31283 жыл бұрын
@@wwusyaname bro you're so sweet :,)
@DustyLWithHusk3 жыл бұрын
@@wwusyaname that's amazing!! 🤩😍
@nezukokamado12713 жыл бұрын
Awww I’m ace myself and I get hate from it... Tysm I love these types of comments🥺
@thedragonsunicorn3 жыл бұрын
im an asexual (specifically demisexual) lesbian! ☺
im grey asexual and grey aromantic pan and nobody even ppl in lgbt understand what i mean when i put grey infront of aromantic and asexual o_O
@0etum3 жыл бұрын
@@semiver2932 yikes, sorry to hear . youre still valid tho!!
@yalikejazz47473 жыл бұрын
Im grey asexual and today actually my friend called me a boring lgbtqia and i just sat there but then my other bi Friend told me i wasn't boring but valid
@0etum3 жыл бұрын
@@yalikejazz4747 dont let anyone ever invalidate you! Hooray for your bi friend
@yalikejazz47473 жыл бұрын
@@0etum Thank you
@rayofsunshine63004 жыл бұрын
Today I read some tik tok comments that made me upset. Said that asexuals aren’t oppressed and aren’t a part of the lgbtqiA+ community. Yeah because the possibility of being assaulted because someone believes they can change your mind about sex, being treated like your sexuality is a mental illness, and being excluded out of the LGBT community which is where you’re supposed to feel safe isn’t oppression :). Anyway thanks for this, I needed the validation.
@The._.Household4 жыл бұрын
You are f-cking valid. -aroace agender
@Tijggie823 жыл бұрын
You are valid, please stay safe 💕 - a cis straight sexual person
@LittleSprout733 жыл бұрын
As well as calling us broken and "needs to see a doctor about it"
@izzyravin97133 жыл бұрын
You are vaild my guy
@DespOIcito3 жыл бұрын
AAA battery
@monochromaticdemondog31704 жыл бұрын
**happy asexual noises**
@thatdisabledprincess3 жыл бұрын
same :)
@arkhamshit3 жыл бұрын
samee :))
@garrfieldfan3 жыл бұрын
Eek samee
@monochromaticdemondog31703 жыл бұрын
@River Rivera y e s
@crescentmoon58593 жыл бұрын
@River Rivera and cupcakes or pies
@thealiencosmo3584 жыл бұрын
say it louder for the people in the back: EVERYONE ON THE ASEXUAL SPECTRUM IS VALID Edit: I have done some soul-searching and have realized I am ace myself :)
@milestherealalpha3 жыл бұрын
I was gonna like but that would make it 169 xD
@humangarbage30193 жыл бұрын
@@milestherealalpha I have done it,like it
@sunnishinesky87093 жыл бұрын
@@milestherealalpha now it's 369 ôwô
@unchartedraider75473 жыл бұрын
YES WE ARE
@fishy50113 жыл бұрын
EVERYONE IN THE ASEXUAL SPECTRUM IS VALID!!!!!!!
@avevee97083 жыл бұрын
Oh my god the idea that people wanna legit have sex with celebs is the worst to me. I too thought people just chose them for aesthetic reasons like me. That’s why half my crushes are on vaguely male or male-shaped animated characters.
@_anonymous_creature_3 жыл бұрын
SAME
@Radiant_Allomancer3 жыл бұрын
Oh my god what?? ...well, I guess it’s the same thing as the idea that people could see someone across the street and want to have sex with them. Which apparently they do? I? don’t?? get that at all???
@pencilRC13 жыл бұрын
I don’t understand how people can see others as attractive. I’ve never felt romantic or sexual attraction and I’m like, “HOW?!”
@lcreatesart3 жыл бұрын
Same, for the longest time I knew there was a difference between sexual and romantic attraction, but I didn't know the definition of sexual attraction, no one had told me, so I thought it was really similar to romantic attraction, and thought I felt sexual attraction, but then I found out the definition, soon as I found out the definition I knew I was ace.
@CallmeOzymandias2 жыл бұрын
I guess that's why I always felt uncomfortable when someone would ask who my celebrity crush was. I never understood the concept at all.
@leafbread18114 жыл бұрын
Once I saw a comment somewhere that said aces aren’t human... Guess I’m a piece of bread then
@river4463 жыл бұрын
hello slices of bread, i'm a foot-tall dragon
@celestia53563 жыл бұрын
i am a slice of lemon bread
@pavender30733 жыл бұрын
no we aren't human... we are garlic bread gods!!!!!!!
@pavender30733 жыл бұрын
@Ozzy the Bun ok, I won't
@yalikejazz47473 жыл бұрын
Ima *ace* card t-pose
@neltonslittlesibling28803 жыл бұрын
"My sexuality is "I do not know" and here is my flag." I really felt that.
@ginathecookie3 жыл бұрын
It's alright, you don't need to have a set label or have yourself figured out when it comes to your sexuality at any period of your life. Just do you (i mean not sexually.. i.. you know what I mean.. ;-;) Sincerely, someone who explored a few labels before she found PanDemisexual.
@neltonslittlesibling28803 жыл бұрын
@@ginathecookie Thank you for the support (not just for me but for everyone). :D Update: Right now I use aro/ace and non-binary for me. It feels good for now. Maybe one day something else will feel better we'll see. ;) Nice user name btw. ^-^
@samtheperson90084 жыл бұрын
Honestly, it's so dumb that some people say aces aren't a part of the community. Like, they're not heterosexual, so make it make sense. To all my ace peeps, you're valid and we all love you❤🧡💛💚💙💜
@cyriswinters52334 жыл бұрын
People also out heteromantics and anyone on the Asexual Spectrum. Even if it's demi or grey they're still Asexual. Heterosexual as it is includes sexual attraction and all that. If they're demi they don't have sexual attraction until a strong bond with someone if formed therefore it's not 100% heterosexual and is in fact LGBTQIA+ like the rest of Asexuality. Grey Asexuals are basically the same thing except it's only a little sexual attraction. I don't understand why this is so confusing for some people.
@samtheperson90084 жыл бұрын
@@cyriswinters5233 P R E A C H
@river4463 жыл бұрын
The lgbtq+ community is for sexual and gender minorities, fighting oppression alongside other oppressed groups. Each of these groups experiences oppression in different ways. For example, asexuals have been more dehumanized and ignored than, say, demonized, like gay people.
@cyriswinters52333 жыл бұрын
@@river446 don't forgot the gatekeeping from other LGBTQIA+ people. I think the Asexual Spectrum gets less violence then the others and more verbal oppression but all in all its still oppression (yes I know there's more oppression directed at Asexuals I just see more verbal then anything else)
@AridetothemuseumFtknj3 жыл бұрын
@@cyriswinters5233 p r e a c h. As a greysexual heteroromantic i sometimes feel like im not valid....
@meowforcats66944 жыл бұрын
I’d probably want someone in a relationship who’s not always asking for sex. Also the top/bottom thing should only be used in sex, not the relationship, as it doesn’t have anything to do with that.
@mariafausti31283 жыл бұрын
yeah top and bottom should also be mostly for bunk beds too
@meowforcats66943 жыл бұрын
@@mariafausti3128 LMAO yeah
@Riu000023 жыл бұрын
Me too.
@unchartedraider75473 жыл бұрын
@@meowforcats6694 Or who wants to sleep on whom. For example in this sense I am a bottom
@coolkieyt3 жыл бұрын
i’m allergic to cats I want the top :D
@theahb20474 жыл бұрын
Genderfluid grey-romantic asexual dragon here!
@Jadeigital4 жыл бұрын
Bi-gender panromantic cupio/autochorrisexual(?) hooman here
@sukh_seeding_at_art4 жыл бұрын
Demi boi grey ace omnisexual here
@LittleIcarus4 жыл бұрын
*Marshie_Mellow* What is autochorrisexual?
@Jadeigital4 жыл бұрын
@@LittleIcarus omg youtube stop deleting my comments im sick of finding ways to censor them Basically you can get "The feelings" by other people being in 'sEexual" situations but you don't have any interest in being in those situations yourself
@The._.Household4 жыл бұрын
AROMANTIC ASEXUAL AGENDER HERE
@chloecranch22924 жыл бұрын
6:14 - omg YESSS i did know sexual attraction was a thing but when i have a "celerity crush" (that i've only had one of) it was either aesthetics or a person i'd want to marry ngl. when i think of relation ships i think "is this a person i would marry" if no, leave 'em if yes than ig its a crush
@aqvanii4 жыл бұрын
Mhm i agree! Even though i‘m a trans guy and only into girls, whenever i see girls or female celebrities i‘m just like „omg she‘s so pretty 😳💗 / i wanna marry her!!“ Dunno i also might be demisexual because i only think about these kind of stuff when i have a strong bond with a girl Boys though? Yikes, no thank you 👉🚪
@dewdrop35663 жыл бұрын
To this day I am mind boggled by even a celebrity crush. I can't even think would I marry that celebrity because my brain just goes "No, you don't even know them and they don't know you exist". So I have never had a celebrity crush in my life. I think I had a crush once? But that was with a friend I actually talked with.
@livaigranger32503 жыл бұрын
wait what I thought it was a joke, do people really want to have sex with their celebrities crushes?? Aren't they just choosing the prettiest?
@lenkasustackova45603 жыл бұрын
My celebrity crush is/was always "Oh my god they're sooooooo pretty" or "omg their personality is AMAZING" and that's it
@lizbetnoble89884 жыл бұрын
Man I don't think I've been this early before. For me, when I first heard about asexuality, I didn't really go through the questioning phase. I just thought, "Oh yeah, that makes sense, that's me" and that's kind of what it was. I have wondered where exactly I am on the spectrum since, but I'm glad I found out about it before I get to the age of being really pressured to be eager for it.
@LittleIcarus4 жыл бұрын
Me too :3
@creepydorito51854 жыл бұрын
Same except I felt like I was just pretending to be ace because I was told asexuality isn't real and that I'm just too young. Sometimes I still doubt myself but I'm more confident about my asexuality
@rebeccak9184 жыл бұрын
That's exactly what happened to me! I learned about asexuality in middle school and was like "oh, that's me" and moved on. Same thing when I learned about aromantic in high school :)
@thottythanos27933 жыл бұрын
Ayyy another Omniromantic Ace!
@tiandre61593 жыл бұрын
@@creepydorito5185 Glad you’re confident💜
@dawnshade49394 жыл бұрын
This is making my little asexual heart happy.
@Sarah-dk8je4 жыл бұрын
No asexuals don't deserve love and respect They deserve love , *CAKE* and respect 😉
@yalikejazz47473 жыл бұрын
CAAAAKE
@mariafausti31283 жыл бұрын
dont forget garlic bread!
@compassthehybrid65903 жыл бұрын
* me, an ace who doesn’t like cake * yo I’m just gonna like give this to my friend
@yalikejazz47473 жыл бұрын
@@compassthehybrid6590 hi im a 13 yr old ace and i was wondering what an appropriate age go be considered ace is
@compassthehybrid65903 жыл бұрын
@@yalikejazz4747 I’m gonna be real, I don’t think there’s an appropriate age other than anything below 10. So- anything above 9, I guess.
@ash-po4bl4 жыл бұрын
I'm graysexual and I don't get validated enough for this crap. One of my exes would always ignore the fact that I would get uncomfortable. I eventually ended up breaking up with him
@catbatrat17603 жыл бұрын
Well, I'm glad you broke up with him. Ace or not, if something makes you uncomfortable, a decent partner WON'T just ignore it, period.
@robintheenby65283 жыл бұрын
aw good for you! i mean the breaking up with him part. im glad you got out of that
@random_dude12343 жыл бұрын
Good, if they can't respect that then they deserve to be broken up with
@dianasofia73153 жыл бұрын
Me: dressing cute Family: Going for a date? Is a guy? Please take care and use protection! Me: ... I'm just going to a Cafe.
@27ratsinatrenchcoat904 жыл бұрын
My brother thinks hes maybe ace, i agree. He doesn't understand why i think people (especially ✨ women ✨) are "hot", he has never had a crush, and he generally just doesn't understand the concept of crushes. My sister is also pretty sure she's not straight, which would mean my mom has no cishet children. Which is *good*
@lcreatesart3 жыл бұрын
Your brother might be aroace if he doesn't feel any attraction.
@margaritapeggyschuylervanr24862 жыл бұрын
if he doesn’t feel attraction, he might be aroace!
@sagesharkie4 жыл бұрын
my best friend is asexual/panromantic, so it was cool to watch these! sadly, at one point she brought up asexuality/homosexuality in general to her mom, and she was very homophobic and aphobic.
@dovee14 жыл бұрын
Oh that last part's a mood. Tell your friend that they're not alone - there'll always be a place for them in the world and the community. I wish you both the best ♥️ A fellow panromantic :)
@sagesharkie4 жыл бұрын
@@dovee1 thanks!
@satinlucifer77314 жыл бұрын
@@dovee1 I’m also panromantic asexual :)
@dovee13 жыл бұрын
@@satinlucifer7731 Hey! Have a wonderful day you valid human being :) happy ace awareness week.
@dovee13 жыл бұрын
@@sloanea.5768 The only reason I can think of it being a sin is the quote from the Bible " go forth and multiply" which most Christians see as their duty. They're doing god's work. So if you're an asexual Christian, then the others may view you as not being able to do your purpose. Anyone else who is also ace would probably be viewed the same too by them. That then might've been demonised to the point where it's viewed as a sin, but I'm not sure on that last part. For aromantic, it might be because of the expectation to marry in Christianity. To become "one flesh". Anyone who goes against the norm in a very traditional Christian family would probably have a disproving family. Those who don't get into relationships won't be able to carry out their sacred duty to God I guess, so it'd be like denying that. Again, I'm not a Christian myself, but based around their beliefs this may be a reason.
@random65794 жыл бұрын
Asexual females knowing damn well their period is useless: Me, a lesbian: haha... *same* Edit: i dont identify as a lesbian anymore. Meet me, a nonbinary pansexual. Do yall have any name ideas? Edit2: i came out to my mom! I am a trans ftm guy and my name is lucas! I am also omnisexual with a preference for women. Thanks to anyone who recommended me names and i really appreciate all of you for being so supportive.
@elizatilsizoglou59463 жыл бұрын
Alex is a nice one... i'm so happy you found an identity you like❤ stay safe
@random65793 жыл бұрын
@@elizatilsizoglou5946 i will! stay safe as well and thank you for the name idea and being so nice
@everythingz8883 жыл бұрын
Congrats on finding yourself!! You are very valid :) I don't have any ideas atm, but anything you want for your name? I might be able to come up with an idea
@SCgreat3 жыл бұрын
axel, jaxx, arden, jordan, max, cy, kai? i personally am thinking of using the name rowan. (and im a pan enby too!)
@dramafinn24253 жыл бұрын
I’m a non-binary lesbian... I chose the name Finn just because it was really similar to my dead-name. I always liked the name River though. Also you’re valid as heck! You can choose your name and choose whatever makes you feel amazing, because you deserve to feel that way all the time!
@ellabutworse4 жыл бұрын
My friends health teacher was saying "one day everyone will want to get married and you alll will be wonderful parents, etc." And we were just like- um- whats the fastest way to either fire this man or educate him on ace/aromantic people- because that teacher teaches every kid in the school and there could be an invalidated closeted bean there somewhere-
@snazzical3 жыл бұрын
awh that's really cool!! (that you and your friend were thinking of us aro-aces, not what your teacher said) i also had a health teacher like that back in 5th grade, although then i didn't think i was ace and neither did i really know about other sexualities besides gay and straight lmao so i wasn't really offended. now if someone said that in front of me i'd throw hands 😂 ✋
@ryaruu3 жыл бұрын
If I have a child.. That kid is going to be 100% adopted, that's it
@sydneyashton89212 жыл бұрын
I realized I was ace a WEEK after I finished health and man do I wish I could negotiate the curriculum to fit ALL sexualities but no one would probably listen because it “wouldn’t be applicable to me so why should I care”
@panicked_ghost15784 жыл бұрын
Bruh you can't be fixed, sexual stuff is not love and should never be in the factor of love or a healthy relationship like never in the top 10 goals or expectations of a good relationship, at least thats what I think y'all Valid PERIOD
@The._.Household4 жыл бұрын
My aroace agender a**: -reads this post- My brain: TIME TO THINK ABOUT THAT PLATONIC MARRIAGE FROM YESTERDAYS VISION Me: AAAAA
@skylertherat4 жыл бұрын
@@The._.Household triple a battery!!!
@natalia-vs9lg4 жыл бұрын
@@The._.Household lmao you took everything and just said ✨N O✨
@icicles_wont_kill_you4 жыл бұрын
Hey wait I’m acearo agender too
@Hi-vf9wx4 жыл бұрын
Thank you 💜🖤
@lizbetnoble89884 жыл бұрын
AHH YOU GUYS ASEXUAL AWARENESS WEEK IS THE 25TH-31ST THIS YEAR!!!
@annymus45024 жыл бұрын
I know!!!!
@justaroacethings17014 жыл бұрын
My birthday is the 29th and I'm aroace. Coincidence? **I THINK NOT**
@annymus45024 жыл бұрын
@@justaroacethings1701 My brother’s birthday is the 26th October lol, he’s straight tho Also, my friends birthday is the 11th October and that’s coming out day (however they are non binary and bisexual)
@LittleIcarus4 жыл бұрын
WE ARE THE SPOOKIEST SEXUALITY! WE SCARE BOTH STRAIGHT TIKTOK AND CHRISTIANS WITH OUR POWER!
@axolotl_luvr47704 жыл бұрын
ME AND MY PEOPLE HAVE A WEEK
@carbonatedcosmo76653 жыл бұрын
all this ace positivity is watering my crops and clearing my skin
@DBZ1FAN1GIRL3 жыл бұрын
When the doctor asks if you could be pregnant after you just told them you're not sexually active :🤨
@ladymirth3 жыл бұрын
Remember also that some aces can still get turned on by watching or reading about sexual acts ESPECIALLY KINK (not that kink has to be sexual either. Getting off =|= attraction to individual bodies). Difference is that aces don't want to actually do any of that stuff themselves in real life. Sexual fantasies have no bearing whatsoever on what a person wants to do in real life, ace or not.
@wendiwasden70883 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@aleaa82274 жыл бұрын
Thanks! For the moment I identify as asexual (even tho I'm okay with the fact that I might be wrong, considering that I'm young, but honestly I don't think it will change), and I think it's great to show that we still can love! Wait... I'm aromantic (still questioning tho) and ace. I can't love someone in a romantic way, I can only love them in a platonic way... It was a trap from the start! Edit: I'm still ace, but I don't know if I'm aro anymore. I think I might be demi-romantic, and biromantic when I start feeling romantic attraction :') I'll just say I'm aro-ace til I know. And just leaving that here, do people really have crushes on someone, in a way where they want to have sex with them? I didn't even know that was a thing...
@DustyLWithHusk4 жыл бұрын
Well you are still valid, I myself am a lesbian and we all support you!!! 😁💙✨🏳️🌈
@lizbetnoble89884 жыл бұрын
Just remember, there's so many ways to have love and it doesn't have to be romantic or sexual! You're great for who you are.
@annymus45024 жыл бұрын
Story of my life, ok no But my realising that I'm aroace was very similar to yours
@_thesunflowerfairy_4 жыл бұрын
If you identify as aro would you ever consider being in a platonic partnership with someone who has romantic feeling towards you?
@annymus45024 жыл бұрын
@@_thesunflowerfairy_ That's a tough question It depends on many people For me personally I would want to be Friend FRIENDS of that person, like commited friendship (if I know them well) But not a QPR I suggest you watch "Amatonormativity and Arobuds", I relate to that video Also, I've rejected one friend before and it sucks, hope you don't feel that way too
@ombreflowers68714 жыл бұрын
The fanfiction reading one probably happened to me I read a pjo smut fanfic when I was like 9, and now Im asexual coincidence? maybe, but I think not
@blueghost47693 жыл бұрын
I hate it when fanfictions don't have a warning before a sexual scene. I was already like 15 when i read them but it still made me uncomfortable, and it still does to this day.
@blueghost47693 жыл бұрын
@Jaycee i already knew i was ace but i recently read a fanfic where my favorite character (who i headcanon as ace) came out and i started crying out of happiness, it's so hard to find representation
@roopabrungi49583 жыл бұрын
Can you be ace and you know like smut FIcs... I'll Prolly delete this comment later but I actually like reading those type of FIcs for some ungodly reason... I mean I can imagine ppl having it but I can't imagine myself
@blueghost47693 жыл бұрын
@@roopabrungi4958 yeah it's completely fine to like them, you're still ace
@lexk62033 жыл бұрын
"when you find a cool song and you look up the lyrics and the lyrics are all about sex" got me right THERE XD
@The._.Household4 жыл бұрын
I stopped my Unus Annus spree to watch my family. I was not disappointed. -Rathena Neo, aroace agender
@sagesharkie4 жыл бұрын
hold on an unnus annus spree sounds pretty fun imma go do that
@The._.Household4 жыл бұрын
@@sagesharkie I’ve been doing it at 2x speed to try and watch every single video before the end (I’m a very busy person)
@The._.Household4 жыл бұрын
@@smallgreenflies It’s a KZbin channel by Markiplier and Crankgameplays that is going to be deleted in less than a month. It’s name literally means one year (which is when it will be deleted). It’s all about the inevitability of death.
@russergee493 жыл бұрын
Eyyyyy fellow aroace Unus Annus fan! I’m like 3 videos behind, still time to catch up...
@The._.Household3 жыл бұрын
@@russergee49 I’ve caught up to February 27th at the moment.
@aff771413 жыл бұрын
Society: People and especially women shouldn't be sexual that's bad!! Us: I'm asexual but go off I guess Society: WAIT THAT'S NOT WHAT I MEANT
@critter75313 жыл бұрын
Some person: Sex is what makes us human! Asexuals: *IT'S TOUGH TO BE A GOD-*
@tacosnek8992 жыл бұрын
Same with being a dragon, everybody's terrified alright?
@redangelofpreventingharm4 жыл бұрын
ACES!! Assemble Hey, gang! Hope y'all are doing okay. As always, you are so, so valid. I've got some cookies (several options) and some milk, if you want. Lactose free options available, of course. 🍪🥛 Take care, little aces 💜🖤
@yalikejazz47473 жыл бұрын
Can I have some oreos
@amythistowo83773 жыл бұрын
I will gladly gave a cookie
@caroliner.76283 жыл бұрын
Hold up. I think you mean Ace-emble
@redangelofpreventingharm3 жыл бұрын
@@caroliner.7628 BAHAAA! You're right, my bad. That's incredible, how did I not see that 🤣
@w3irdgirl3 жыл бұрын
Oh, thank you!!
@chloecranch22924 жыл бұрын
thank you brother for this video. i myself am an asexual and this is much appreciated. you are excepted into our wee cult.
@ginnyjacobs994 жыл бұрын
Are you on AVEN?
@The._.Household4 жыл бұрын
I didn’t realize it was a cult as well! This makes my (counts) tenth cult.
@chloecranch22924 жыл бұрын
@@ginnyjacobs99 what's aven?
@chloecranch22924 жыл бұрын
@@The._.Household eh?
@ginnyjacobs994 жыл бұрын
A website created by david jay for asexuals. It has foarms and a chat room. It's like a social media for aces, aros, and allies.
@N0tMune4 жыл бұрын
Ace tiktoks at 1:30 am, lets goooooo
@fish78604 жыл бұрын
I'm watching this at 1:30 too lol.
@DustyLWithHusk4 жыл бұрын
2:35 am UwU
@N0tMune4 жыл бұрын
@@fish7860 Am or pm?
@fish78604 жыл бұрын
@@N0tMune Am
@N0tMune4 жыл бұрын
@@fish7860 We have the same timezone, thats cool
@scotlandtheseer3 жыл бұрын
Okay but the one where the girl was being 'questioned' on if she would date an ace individual and was just throwing the lack of sex back warmed my heart. I may be aro-ace, but I like seeing other people be happy and that level of open-mindedness restores a grain of faith in humanity for me.
@maxskellington9103 жыл бұрын
Reminder that asexuals can still have sex, and even enjoy sex, it's just that they don't experience sexual attractions, though there are a lot of sexually repulsed aces Also you can be sexually repulsed and still not be ace, I'm bi and mlm and am sex repulsed, there's a lot more to being asexual than just hating sex
@lesedintuli14643 жыл бұрын
Very true
@worldkitemuseum3 жыл бұрын
My mom told me once that people in a healthy relationship have sex once a month or more, and that just made me sick to my stomach. I am definitely not asexual but I hate that even my mother told me that the key to a happy relationship is sex. Asexuals in relationships prove that you can be in a happy healthy relationship and still not have sex. When I start dating my first thought is never going to be: “What is she like in bed?” It’s weird that people say we’re to young to know about this yet it’s constantly being shoved down our throats.
@kaishapage36759 ай бұрын
I agree with you 100%. My aunt keeps assuming imma spread my legs for some dude who I barely know. Especially when she forced me to take pictures with Dwayne johnson on the walls of the Nike store. I never had a crush on him at all, FYI. Please let me be in the friend zone and let me live my asexual Christian life In peace.😒
@fictional-girl_053 жыл бұрын
Literally I was about to cry during the one where it was all the people ripping the things people say about asexuals and Scars to Your Beautiful was playing... thanks so much for making this. ~A very happy and touched aro-ace
@enjjuuu14643 жыл бұрын
me and my best friend are asexual, and its funny to think that when we first met, we didnt know we were ace lol when i came out of the closet to him, he was like "oh i think i might be ace too"
@reagan48883 жыл бұрын
lmao that happened to me too (except I was the friend lol)
@smolplush72554 жыл бұрын
oh my god thank you SO MUCH for doing some asexual tiktoks, it really made my morning! i am indeed asexual and have only come out to two of my close friends, so seeing tiktoks like these really make me feel valid and i cannot thank you enough!!!!!
@phemegreek60543 жыл бұрын
8:34 "And I got the SODA'
@Julia-ml9jb4 жыл бұрын
Im asexual thank you! 🙂
@VampiricMedicc3 жыл бұрын
i told my friend i was asexual, then a lil while later i told him i liked him. then he said "i thought you were asexual" and i had to explain it to him.
@sparklepool1013 жыл бұрын
Y’all, just to let you know, the Aces officially own Halloween now :P (Jk lol)
@Nakia117983 жыл бұрын
Can we though? I love Halloween and think sexy costumes are ridiculous.
@ryaruu3 жыл бұрын
I'm not gonna complain. Cosplay is my hobby and I love Halloween *Stonks*
@aluminium74992 жыл бұрын
Funny thing is I’m ace and was born on Halloween
@zoesbabyalives56152 жыл бұрын
@@aluminium7499 you were destined to be ace! /joking (slightly)
@aluminium74992 жыл бұрын
@@zoesbabyalives5615 haha, true. And my best friend is also ace and he was born on april 6th (ace day!) baha
@rozieredz3 жыл бұрын
15:51 My first appt with a gynecologist, I told her I was asexual and she said I shouldn't hurry to identify myself, and to this day I'm unsure whether she was being encouraging by saying "take your time, there's no rush" or if she was being rude and saying "it's just a phase, don't declare anything you'll regret"
@achicken213 жыл бұрын
DAMN WHY 2:10 SO ON POINT THO during my questioning phase I remember literally thinking "wait but I've read sm*tty fics since I was 12 I can't be asexual" lmaoooo
@nicedragon29343 жыл бұрын
Wait... Is that a common thing for asexual people? I don‘t mean to offend anyone but I‘m just interested. Do a lot of asexual people enjoy reading porn? Or is it just a thing you do to explore your sexuality?
@julianfranciscocastaneda3 жыл бұрын
This is really awesome! I'm non binary aromantic asexual, not everything needs to be romantic ❤️ or sexual.... Platonic relationship are important too Thank You so much for this 🖤⚪🌚💜 we're not broken and of course we're not going anywhere
@dewdrop35663 жыл бұрын
Me: I should wear the black ring to show I am asexual since I ain't allowed to have flags because of my family Also me: Too much work. I don't even like wearing rings.
@beatm69483 жыл бұрын
Since my parents don't know what the flag is, I can use the color combination EVERYWHERE MWAHAHAHAHAH
@dewdrop35663 жыл бұрын
@@beatm6948 My parents don't know what the flag colour is but they are far too good to technology so it isn't hard for them to search up what the flag represents. Especially my dad who loves flags. So as long as I don't have an actual flag I can use the colour combination. :)
@dewdrop35663 жыл бұрын
@Emma Todd I am blessed to have the reverse. My parents would also question me wearing jewelry when I don't regularly wear it, especially rings. But my parents actually tend to ask me to leave places by myself more often....but I don't feel too comfortable being alone in crowds unless I absolutely have to. Don't know if it helps. But my parents always gave me the chance to wander around the same shop they were at as they needed to buy something else etc. Perhaps there is an opportunity for something like that? If it's a mall they would allow me to go out and check certain shops while they shop at others albeit me telling them which shop I needed to check out. Either way, I hope you get the chance to wear one soon. Not for anyone else put you. :)
@dewdrop35663 жыл бұрын
@Emma Todd Will be cheering you on across the interweb!
@duskdragon_55463 жыл бұрын
I literally just asked my mom for a ring, which is jewelry I never wear, and she’s asking why I wanted a ring all of the sudden and I have no idea what to say.
@teacherdemon4 жыл бұрын
It's 2 AM UwU. BRING THE BRAND BACK
@adelstewart53834 жыл бұрын
It's 7PM here
@ohthefun4 жыл бұрын
I have lost all track in time
@teacherdemon4 жыл бұрын
You and your time zones -_-
@zeerealpotato84684 жыл бұрын
@@teacherdemon it’s 2 am for me Too hehe
@ikea66524 жыл бұрын
it’s 1 am here
@cloudly_cane15343 жыл бұрын
That one dude who just whipped out his deathnote after you said some acephobic shit tho-
@mochibabi22674 жыл бұрын
Well I’m one of the A’s. I’m agender😂and also omnisexual. All asexuals are valid, I can respect/understand that even tho I’m a very uhhh....yea😅anyways Everyone’s valid!!! Love y’all!!❤️🏳️🌈
@The._.Household4 жыл бұрын
A fellow agender. -Rathena Neo, aroace agender
@mochibabi22674 жыл бұрын
@@The._.Household hiii
@mariafausti31283 жыл бұрын
@@The._.Household YOU ARE A GOD
@caroledwards11823 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this compilation. I am 63 and just discovered the term asexuality and realized that I fit into this category. It was like a weight was lifted off my shoulders knowing my disinterest in sex was not because there is something wrong with me (which I have been thinking for the past 40+ years). It also helps knowing there is a whole asexual community out there (though I didn't know until now we had a flag).
@Alexa-rg7dd3 жыл бұрын
Mom: one day dear... you’ll find somebody special... just not now okay? My asexual ass: uhm mom-
@At0mic_Asteroid3 жыл бұрын
I love the tiktok near the end where everyone is tearing apart terrible messages. *And then you have the one dude with the death note*
@Malakai__WeLoveYouMafumafu3 жыл бұрын
9:32 the fact that they included Luffy and Saiki made my weeb heart soar because I love them both so much-
@zephyrtheone7743 жыл бұрын
I’m an artist and I identify as an asexual . I don’t understand why People say I can’t draw barley suggestive things. I just find the human body fascinating and I want to draw my pretty girls!
@ivyclaw82633 жыл бұрын
People: ”Asexuals aren’t humans” Me: I am... Garlic bread
@Saturnaous3 жыл бұрын
I’m not Ace, but I really like them. I dunno, I find this nice, cause you can’t find many Aro tiktok things(that I know of) so this is probably the closest I can get. I dunno, but please, keep making stuff like this!
@macc73003 жыл бұрын
14:00 when my dude pulled out the death note I bout died! Seriously it's so lovely to see this video in my recommended, thank you for making this and I wish you all the best💜
@allybratz3 жыл бұрын
2:01 why ya gotta call me out like this?In front of my salad?!
@katherinehoward39504 жыл бұрын
14:05 Me: *screeching in Death Note fan*
@meowforcats66944 жыл бұрын
Me who wants to cuddle and watch Pokémon instead of Nemo: 👁👄👁
@justanonion51263 жыл бұрын
These comps have made me feel so loved 😌 I have been questioning my validity, being as I'm a heteroromantic cisgender asexual, but watching these comps make me feel valid.
@rys_undr13283 жыл бұрын
Today I came out as asexual to my brother. I was so nervous that that I can't even talk, so I just show him a lot of videos and articles. I was thinking that he wouldn't understand but he was really supportive and I'm so happy rn!
@aceofspades76293 жыл бұрын
2:18 I feel so called out rn edit: ... I feel called out the whole time tho,, yeah, maybe I *am* asexual
@user-io5hr9iq1x3 жыл бұрын
me running around as a aceassin and bi-pirate: AHHHHHHH
@CRR21113 жыл бұрын
2:32 got me. The echo was just- perfect
@iKozmic3 жыл бұрын
6:14 Oh damn you aint gotta call me out like that
@xeoney3 жыл бұрын
Recently found out I was asexual (but still romantically attracted to women, because have you seen how amazing women are?) and I've been obsessed with videos and posts on asexuality ever since. I feel so accepted and happy, even if I can't come out and probably won't be able to soon
@karkatandsolluxmutant43174 жыл бұрын
13:31 made me cry- That's the kind of stuff us ace's need to hear right now. To everyone that's ace, you are amazing, respected and valid as all hell. Dont let society try to make you feel bad for the way that you show your love. You are amazing.
@sparklefairykitten3 жыл бұрын
15:17 This is exactly why I don't tell doctors I'm ace unless I have to.
@littleskeletondudeman503 жыл бұрын
4:26 oh yeah ace self defense kitty
@ollow_is_sad53733 жыл бұрын
2:50 This TikTok, this TikTok right here was everything I needed to hear. I've found put who I am. I am an Asexual. And I may or may not be wanting to find a way to bind my chest so people aren't sexualy attracted to me. Plus it's easier to cosplay that way.
@darthcarrots25813 жыл бұрын
Recently went through a breakup that came about due to my partner being a very sexual person and being unable to accept my asexuality. It was mutual, but it has left me feeling like...i was just a body? In the relationship? Like, I understand and respect sexuality in all forms, but when the only issue was a sexual one in the relationship it doesn’t leave much for me to think about. Makes me feel like I’ll never find a partner who can accept me and my love without having a sexual aspect. I appreciate this compilation so much
@yunagamerz73363 жыл бұрын
6:40 Wait, people want- people feel that with celebrities? That's what celebrity crushes mean? I just thought it ment you like their personality and maybe how they look aesthically-
@jan-pi-ala-suli6 ай бұрын
SAME MY CELEB CRUSH WAS ARIANA BECAUSE LOOK AT HER AHFHEVF
@Jessica-rz7zw3 жыл бұрын
Guys I’m going to my friends house this week and making a ton of garlic bread like a whole loaf worth
@morbidfem3 жыл бұрын
Hi, asexuals! Just want to let y'all know that you're all loved and respected and should NOT be forced to have a sexual relationship! Love y'all. - Some demisexual lesbian.
@rinrxl3 жыл бұрын
Thanks! Btw I love your pfp.
@morbidfem3 жыл бұрын
@@rinrxl Thank you!
@rinrxl3 жыл бұрын
@@morbidfem No problem
@desihirohamada3 жыл бұрын
Thanks! ^^
@victoritochip34524 жыл бұрын
If my crush was ace I would definitely say "What can I say except AAAAAAAAAAA-" and then be super embarrassed and sad of the thought of never cuddling. Anyone who says aces aren't valid can meet in the back of the Denny's parking lot.
@Paçocaloverx063 жыл бұрын
12:46 As an ace girl and an assassin's creed fan i loved that part uwu (Sorry for my bad english ;-;)
@starrsynth3 жыл бұрын
As an ace person, it took me *years* to realize the song Cake by the Ocean wasn't about eating an entire cake on the beach (-_Q)
@zoe_moth3 жыл бұрын
I only just found it out and it crushed my childhood
@necronwarlord91883 жыл бұрын
Wait what, I didn't realize until your comment
@necronwarlord91883 жыл бұрын
Seriously what is it about tho
@vintagelover22113 жыл бұрын
WAIT WHAT?
@d0llheart3 жыл бұрын
i was literally on the first tok tok her and i started crying cuz i feel so damn safe here
@chalk8694 жыл бұрын
13:32 absolutely beautiful 🥺🥺🥺
@ghostmoran32273 жыл бұрын
As a wise man once said: Sex is great, but you ever had a pie?
@nicolevanisher_12894 жыл бұрын
As an asexual, Thank you Thank you! I love seeing Ace compilations!🥰
@oatmilkzombie4 жыл бұрын
Yes, yes it is and I also forget so...Hello my fellow acespecs all across the globe, just a reminder that you are loved, you are awesome, keep eating cake and have a good day :D
@Kate-yw7wy3 жыл бұрын
15:50 dude.... i stg i was just chillin like at midnight thirty and like.... i got a lil pissed bc i felt invalidated in that moment and i paused so that wouldnt affect the rest of the video but then, i got triggered into an endless loop of “well... i mean is she wrong?” And ‘yes.... she’s very wrong.” And like..... i just kinda wanted to talk about how easy it is for people to feel invalidated and to get really self-depricting and introspective abt this stuff. Someone could probably say something three yards away from me.... to someone else..... not even about me.... about asexuality not being real and I’d probably be in a spiral for the rest of the day You’re all loved and valid and so am i 💜💜💜
@cerealonmytoast46633 жыл бұрын
can we all just appreciate how funny and creative asexuals are...i fucking swear to god yall are just born comedians and artists
@soapdroap14324 жыл бұрын
One time my parents and I went to a bird store and one of the workers had an ace flag pin on her lanyard and that just made me really happy
@sstta4rr3 жыл бұрын
6:30 i just thought that it was the same thing as romantic attraction, and my dumbass when i found out said "I'm gonna need to get to know them first to feel anything" but didn't know that would already put me on the ace spectrum o.o
@NoxAtlas3 жыл бұрын
Aphobes: Sex and love is what makes us human Me (aroace): OK, then I want to be Explosion Murder God Dynamite, muahahaha
@areafire13 жыл бұрын
15:35 Oh gods! Fuck! I wasn't expecting to be hit with the "should'a known I was ace when" like this. I've had that look from doctor's. The "wait, your how old and haven't had sex" look is so weird. Like, yeah, I'm not interested! Please stop asking!
@blueberry_borb3 жыл бұрын
I just discovered that I'm asexual a couple months ago and these TikTock compilations plus Ace Awareness Week has made me the happiest I've ever felt.
@bluekalmbach16084 жыл бұрын
I was gonna go to bed but...
@The._.Household4 жыл бұрын
Mood
@lizbetnoble89884 жыл бұрын
same... or was i?
@dreadfuIdoII4 жыл бұрын
Aroace dude here- TY FOR THIS I FEEL SO VALIDATED :))). Keep up the great work bro!!
@erickasilva47093 жыл бұрын
The one where they ripped the papers with Asexual-phobic (?) statements was very beautiful for me. Especially the guy who opened up the death note😂