She found out she was the sidechick in her relationship. The engagement ring was for the other women

[@PrincessLisa2U]

Harmony Harmony Harmony.... no ma'am! You absolutely do not come on this show in your night gown and a bonnet. First impressions matter.

[@Chefcook4it]

The bonnet is the worst!

[@Clearbluesky771]

​@@Chefcook4it the night gown is too, she showing alot. She need to go buy a robe off shein

[@KeshaNance]

She doesn't need a robe but should have worn something more appropriate.

[@7Tiffany]

Homely, too giggly, easily impressed by the bare minimum..dang lol I needed to hear this

[@TheShePill]

Ok so I have a theory that we aren’t always giving off easy girl. Men are looking for easy girls. I’ve had men tell me “ you’re not a virgin. what imma wait for ”. If I was a virgin they wouldn’t wait either way. Fast sex is a trend. They don’t want to wait. Be strong ladies.

[@brianfreckles8542]

My wife was a virgin (we found out what vaginismus was on our wedding night- look it up 😅😅😅) we waited 1yr and a half. She introduced me to the church- I respected her to the fullest- we got hot and heavy once but believe it or not- I stopped it- I felt I had to protect her first as a sister in christ. To this very day, she shares that story with young Christian girls. So I can't agree with you - yes the majority of men struggle, but if we want something bad enough, we will make it happen. Glad we waited, I only wish I could have given her the same, that's why she gets everything.

[@TheShePill]

@@brianfreckles8542I’m happy for the both of you. That type of patience from a man is rare.

[@2023Mermaid]

They try to find a weak spot. It could be money, "sweet talking", love bombing etc. Some of them are also "waiters", they wait a very long time, just to have sex with you, while having sex with other women on the side. It's disgusting.

[@shaypope4732]

​@@brianfreckles8542ur wife settled smdh u know how much offers I get if I didn't have my own money who knows but my exhusband lied about being a virgin too n got too drunk at the wedding so unless he's a virgin too it's no point and yes sum Arab offered me a million so I know ur wife had better options than free used peen honestly

[@shaypope4732]

​@@brianfreckles8542ur wife settled smdh my exhusband lied n said he was a virgin too but ended up getting drunk and telling the truth on the wedding night so I took the car and the money n dipped it cost a lot to ship the car from Paris to New Jersey but I figured it out and I'm sure ur wife had been offered millions by a few Arabs to be settling for free used peen which is crazy asl honestly

[@mytriton54]

First girl was really nice. I pray all the best for her.

[@MrsBDatCreole]

If she’s wearing this on TikTok and your platform, I see why men feel comfortable inviting her over 16:42

[@franny.c.]

I love tuning in to Ashley’s channel! Love her advice and how she treats her guests with patience and respect .

[@RShaun]

I hope the first lady heals and finds everything good just for having reasonable standards for a partner.

[@MikeySlou]

Heal from what?

[@shaypope4732]

​​@@MikeySlouI guess from 2:20

[@RShaun]

@@shaypope4732 Right. Thanks.

[@shawana50j70]

Harmony is a beautiful girl but wearing a lingerie on a KZbin or TickTock channel is a NO! Men these days wants sex asap so if you’re abstinence then you definitely need to show up differently.

[@CinemaDoll137]

exactly! it gives a very bad impression

[@sonimoons]

Anyone notice Ashley’s subtle gestures for the second girl to pull up her top 😂

[@mmarie810]

I thought it was coming !! 😭😅 lol

[@Popcontrol]

She needed to pull it up or put on a robe

[@kimberly329]

My father told me in my early 20’s that men often confuse friendliness as something more, so be careful how you engage with them. Men that are only seeking sex try EVERY woman regardless of attire, personality, or energy. You’re young and sadly, that’s what most guys in your peer group want. Stay the course and just be strong.

[@jayc5756]

That's definitely not all men though. I wouldn't even say most...but idk. Hmm 🤔

[@kimberly329]

@@jayc5756 Definitely most.

[@jayc5756]

@@kimberly329 OK. Idk most men to say otherwise. I know a lot like me who complain about women always assuming that we always tryna holla at women...they even making funny skits about it...cause it's that relatable. So idk. 🤔

[@kimberly329]

@@jayc5756 Well why comment saying, “I wouldn’t even say most?”

[@jayc5756]

@@kimberly329 Sorry. I edited my comment. I wrote it wrong.

[@brianfreckles8542]

Harmony is a natural beauty (love the skin and eyes) - you can't mix with men in the world as a chaste or abstaining woman. It's tough as many women are attracted to worldly men, but you have to fight your inner desires

[@osograteful]

This video resonated deeply with me. I’m in my late 40s, and growing up, my mother had to work two jobs, which meant I was responsible for cooking and cleaning for my older siblings. My mom was very traditional-she didn’t wear makeup or emphasize physical appearance. Since I wasn’t exposed to many men, I was never taught to dress in a cute or attractive way, and neither was my mother. Women like her shaped my experiences. I often felt unsupported by friends who didn’t want me to look better than them, especially since I had a naturally nice figure. Ashley is truly a blessing to so many women who, like me, may not have had these lessons passed down to them.

[@ShaylaBaker-xh5it]

So inappropriate to show up on the internet dressed like that. Ofcourse the men are talking about sex on the first date i mean she's willingly showing everyone her twins smfh

[@SkynByPri]

Agreed! The twins aren’t for everyone lol

[@riosworld700]

@@SkynByPrisay that again 😅

[@marciascott5314]

She must have more pride in her presentation! I can’t believe she thinks it’s appropriate to show up dressed like that!! Shameful!!

[@pabi889]

She follows Ashley, she knows she is going to be on the internet and doesn't think a shirt will be more appropriate?

[@MoiraPraline]

😂😂😂

[@sonimoons]

I found it funny how Ashley kept gesturing for her to pull up her top a bit 😂

[@StylezOfCole]

Seriously 😢

[@Nature-ep5cu]

2nd girl needs help dressing and how to present herself

[@Damnsaburna]

Did the Second Lady really think that bonnet look better than her beautiful Afro 😮

[@chiefqueef1591]

We all have reprogramming to do

[@brittanyb5942]

The bonnet did her no justice! Her natural hair is beautiful!

[@Chefcook4it]

The answer is yes.

[@aprilwoods6923]

I’m very annoyed that the lady in the orange negligee thought it was appropriate to come on looking like that and then pretty much saying men specialize her. Ma’am you are inappropriate on social media live, I wonder what vibes you’re giving in person.

[@mogetit5999]

9:09 Thank you Ashley for addressing the attire on a public platform with lots of followers talmbout I’m abstinent! Girl stop! Of course they wanna taste looking like that! Stop the Delusion!

[@waddellcarissa]

We all been there before. She’s young. It’s good someone told her.

[@mogetit5999]

@@waddellcarissa you right!

[@RShaun]

Second Lady lesson, if you aren’t meeting the people important in their lives, you probably aren’t important either. Harmony had a wonderful energy.

[@m-6560]

Idk some people will have everyone and anyone around their family 😂 them and their family knows it won’t last long

[@RShaun]

@@m-6560 Yeah. I wasn’t saying that if they bring you around you should marry them. But if you are never a part of important parts of their life, there’s an issue.

[@m-6560]

@@RShaun I didn’t say that either. I’m saying some people will bring you around their family as if you are important. When it’s just a tactic to get you to trust them faster…..or they really do trick them selves every few months into believing that after a month that “this is the one”

[@XxMercuriiXx]

@@m-6560 True, meeting the family means nothing nowadays unfortunately

[@Blackertheeberry]

“Maybe you’re psychopath” 😂

[@invadingminds]

Wearing a promise ring while presenting yourself in this manner makes you look like you aren't serious or a woman of your word. Pick a side and stick with it. You either want to be a secx pot or you don't but being in the middle is a no go.

[@mytriton54]

Excellent comment!

[@dorothymatthews6690]

Absolutely!

[@pickmeisha]

When you show up half naked with a purity ring on men get confused. Try again.

[@shaypope4732]

Shouldn't matter everyone should have self-control

[@pthesmith]

@@shaypope4732👎🏽

[@XxMercuriiXx]

@@shaypope4732 that’s not the point

[@idontplaygames3k296]

​@@shaypope4732You're also turning their statement into an extreme when it applies to everyone.🤦‍♂️

[@MsE711]

Unfortunately, she will get her heartbroken again to change up her ways and stop being so nice to men. As a reformed nice person, this may have to happen for her to change.

[@malcolms3220]

15:10 Perhaps she’s dealing with men out of her league? Possibly subconsciously leading with what she thinks her best asset is (Body).

[@RochellB46]

Wow ! This was a breath of fresh air coming from Kendra Gs show lol new sub here ❤

[@opinionatorX]

Yeah KG platform and comments section is low in tier ...

[@dentreveal3820]

same low quality babymamas on here too

[@RochellB46]

@@dentreveal3820 at least it sounds like this woman is giving them advice on how to be better and if I was you I wouldn’t look for a wife on KZbin 🤣 find one in the real world

[@RochellB46]

@@opinionatorX Entertaining 🤣

[@dentreveal3820]

@@RochellB46 My point still stands: the same low-quality baby mamas, regardless of whether she's giving them hope. No Man with a right mind is trying to find a wife on KZbin; this is pure entertainment - watching all this dysfunction and delusional women.

[@breanna2159]

Ashley I really appreciate your take on the nice thing. That’s always been my struggle. Very interested in hearing more on how to address this issue 🙏🏾

[@cassadiesmith4645]

Her look tells it all

[@brittanyb5942]

Shes at home about to go to bed! I see nothing wrong with it!

[@Clearbluesky771]

​@@brittanyb5942😂 umm it's very wrong. She is on a live camera with other people looking at her. Just like if someone knocks at her door, is she going to go open the door showing all that or cover up with a robe or tshirt

[@moblack5883]

Unemployed and wanting to date 😳 priorities all wrong

[@brittanyb5942]

Harmony is beautful! She didn’t need to cover up her hair! 😍

[@tinawalker5335]

Bonnet girl is gorgeous

[@brittanyb5942]

Yes and beautiful hair!

[@pabi889]

Bonnet girl needs to do better. Start with wearing a dress.

[@void________]

Now, why is u lying like that. That thumbnail did her dirty.

[@tinawalker5335]

@ don’t do me 😭

[@void________]

@@tinawalker5335 😂

[@courtneyemm8894]

Unpopular opinion but…. Audacious men will be audacious. I think women can date better, but I think men aggressively pursue sex because it’s worked with someone else.

[@victorlewis7635]

Women move their goalposts for good looking men so the man usually doesn’t have to pursue sex to get it. They throw themselves at him purely off attraction but they never want to admit it.

[@tmcurly]

Put on some clothes!? Traditional mindset where??

[@pickmeisha]

Nowhere lol

[@brittanyb5942]

She’s at home about to go to bed.

[@Ria19907]

​@@brittanyb5942For the viewing audience, she still needs to cover up

[@lastdragonx]

​@@brittanyb5942Nonsense

[@Sweet_Southern_Pecan]

Harmony, please learn the difference between nice and kind.

[@prettiilexii672]

Best of luck to Shan! ❤

[@nvital9671]

Harmony's skin is beautiful ❤❤

[@ms.rivera7898]

Great advice, Ashley!

[@kaysessence8308]

We love you Ashley! 💕

[@fitzgeraldsemelfort3938]

What does she do🤷🏿. Say what sounds nice I guess

[@yvetteshokere7818]

Please cover the girls, too much

[@genovasquez8361]

i perfer women who are nice. Too nice is such a turn on. im from stl missouri im always smiling.

[@jclark377]

The second girl will get it figured out with time

[@Bluntgirly]

Harmony needs to level up her looks and then guys will take her out the fun girl category (dumpster)

[@riosworld700]

Traditional mindset with modern woman behaviour. Having 1.7yrs of not having sex but using your rose every other night doesn’t mean you’re a virgin again.

[@aniiyarai]

She never said it did when a woman says she’s abstinent or celibate. It means she’s not connecting new soul ties. What does using her rose? Have anything to do with anything? She’s not laying down with a body.

[@TabithaTemple]

I love the little sister's confidence. ❤

[@lashonyahutton148]

That second one a hot mess Look like she selling something

[@melaninandaura9713]

I know what she means about not knowing how to be mean. Of If I even try it it either corks off as sad because honestly me TRYING to pretend to be mean or stuck up DOES make me sad, ORRRR it’s like they see right through it.

[@Popcontrol]

I think it’s more so about having self respect and being able to say no. Saying no to something you’re not comfortable in doing and making it known that it’s offensive to invite me to your house like a common SW

[@cornycollins12]

Harmony, baby listen. Ashley told you to stop smiling and you had excuses…you do have some stuck upness because you had to combat what Ashley was telling you about smiling.

[@jayc5756]

People focus on being "nice" nowadays...instead of just being a good person. SMH 🤦‍♂️ But Whatever

[@cjdiva6440]

Something tells me that maybe Harmony needs to open up her dating options, possibly divesting maybe?

[@casst2890]

These comments are so toxic and colorist

[@brittanyb5942]

They are!!

[@melaninmonroeeee]

Where ? There are literally no bad comments about skin color in these comments…

[@fitzgeraldsemelfort3938]

@@melaninmonroeeeehas to be some victim energy

[@cindymann3673]

And from the profile handles I read, it’s women who commented the silly mess.

[@MSDIVA-rp3ov]

That’s why for the first girl you need to be dating other people. That doesn’t mean that you sleeping with everyone but meaning that person who is not making you his means priority are enjoying other people and allowing them to date you. I really believe you when to say on your terms and need to know what you want. And basically if that person don’t want you in the same manner move on. I think harmony knew exactly what she was getting into. It’s just that he didn’t choice her that’s all. Another think I don’t understand why she on there with her nigh clothes and acting like it’s her regular clothes. Overall she don’t have no boundaries and that’s not good.

[@dianjohnson7390]

She should have put on more clothes😮

[@doll.ov.poetrii4682]

I think she should put on general day clothes, this is a nightgown. Presenting herself this way doesn't do her justice at all; it doesn't do ANY woman justice.

[@jayc5756]

You 5ft...why do you feel that you need someone 5'8 and up for?? 5'3/5'4...not even 5'5?? Thats a Whole 5 inches taller than you ma. Cmon now.

[@lastdragonx]

Social Media.b

[@leah8112]

She should take the purity ring off her wedding finger if shes single

[@yerushalom87]

I get Harmony on some points; like her personality. 😊 I am bubbly too !!!

[@_vibeswitht]

They just got scalp 😂😂😂😂😂

[@habiba4518]

😂😂 she be cracking me up but be so serious lmao

[@srw817]

Harmony Is Beautiful! Lets not forget she's 25, (ie: taste in clothes) Girl enjoy life an that 25yr old body!

[@doll.ov.poetrii4682]

There's definitely a tasteful way to enjoy a "25 year old body". Decorum should not go out of the window just because we're young ladies, but I absolutely agree that she's beautiful.❤️

[@almondy1963]

Was the third girl going to bed or just getting up? Gotta come better than that ladies 😓

[@blacktinkerbell2324]

How do women talk to her or request up and look crazy

[@CHASECOM3]

the twins are lovely!

[@drob691]

Finally a woman willing to date a shorter guy

[@marilynseptember21]

House coat?

[@nakedalewis01]

New here ❤

[@ablkberri9581]

Aww the second girl is young minded she will learn she definitely gotta put her foot down....

[@markdavis7118]

Harmony is celibate but out here dating non-celibate men😂😂One of her 1st questions when getting to know a man should be, “are you celibate”, if y’all don’t align on that don’t waste his or her time! Non celibate men want s3x😂😂

[@dondattaford5593]

When women say what are we doing for the guys it means leave cause im doing what i been doing

[@void________]

Harmony presents herself this way bc it's the only way she gets attention, by showing the "girls". She needs to set some goals and achieve them to build her self esteem.

[@pabi889]

That gal with the purity ring needs to stop coming on the internet with her bonnet and night gown. She has done this before. You don't have clothes ma'am!! The audacity to say she is having a fan girl moment, how? Clearly you don't listen to Ashley!

[@karolinakartagena4627]

Harmony you can already tell why she having issues dating

[@Peacefulblissorelse]

Bonnet girl seems really nice but really kinda clueless

[@Clearbluesky771]

Harmony you know that cutout ain't slight. I like the dress but just say it has a cutout

[@1120forevrr]

Wait did TikTok lie??? Do the lives from TikTok get posted here y’all or no? Lol thanks in advance

[@annaanderson655]

No worries my sweetie

[@jayc5756]

They dont do bonnets on here?? Mann

[@Chefcook4it]

Yay!

[@vanillaconover3484]

Gym person? Stop the cap

[@themoonbleu627]

Try older guy too she’s mature

[@themoonbleu627]

It’s the bad guy not her try different race

[@jonnyseablue6911]

Splash of stuck up 😂😂😂as a man that’s bad advice y’all better take her advice with a grain of salt..demanding/requesting 50/50 is not optional for you

[@rootedhabits]

17:40 A white ‘golden retriever’ is the type of man she needs. He would treat her very well!

[@theresemuj]

I was thinking the same