Asking a GUY Questions GIRLS are too afraid & embarrassed to ask...AGAIN

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[@Maree_Customs]

Poor guy, he's trying so hard not to give away our secrets and sound credible/honest at the same time

[@whengrapespop5728]

@Josh Lim He might be trying hard, but at least he’s not hard trying

[@iseeicy6154]

@@whengrapespop5728 oml HAHAHAHA

[@akiokoh7481]

my man took one for the team.. respect

[@Maree_Customs]

I wonder how many times he needed/wanted to readjust himself 😂

[@Maree_Customs]

@MI LO actually we're just terrible at attempting to keep secrets 😂 we fool ourselves sometimes hahaha

[@Kevi_-]

"Do guys really talk about girls all the time?" guys in discord: just singing a song and relaxing while playing warzone

[@gabiecv]

yES LMFAO

[@somerandomguy8062]

@@jinhub2175 ............ Why do you think that way? There are people who think the way you told us but not all of them are horny every time, we know how many women go through but we also are not dumb to only think about sex all the time. Don't always come to conclusions which are not true, We very much respect woman and how they feel but that doesn't we also don't deserve respect. As a fellow ARMY myself please understand what I am saying

[@aniljohn8717]

@@jinhub2175 I hope you're joking but if you're not I could say things like I dislike women all they think about are shopping and what they wear and makeup. So don't you dare get offended about anything on this list because I'm not offended by your comment. Also grow the fuck up everyone is different stop generalising😂

[@mellowblueu]

thank you. maybe i'm just surrounded with the horny and dirty ones, at least there's others who are wholesome.

[@yuhansungscoffee4565]

Lol seriously. The music bots or that One guy who sings with the mic on >>

[@Deimos620]

Honest opinion here: Personality is hugely important, but it doesnt get noticed as easily without good looks. you can have two cakes that taste exactly the same and be of the exact same quality, one ugly one beautiful, but everybody would go for the prettier one first. Hell, even if the uglier one tasted better, people would be more inclined to eat the prettier one anyway

[@midnightmafias-shadow3324]

Food is food

[@pubgmtutorials6020]

(2)

[@-zara-9493]

I'd try both

[@justwatch7091]

I'd eat both tbh

[@justwatch7091]

@Abacus I would flip a coin.

[@JasonMoir]

Jaewon is absolutely correct here.

[@aysaiahwu2204]

Facts~ 😂😅🙃aiiii~

[@mick9493]

True

[@mayurgowda8930]

Sorry but I am one of those who only want to sleep with my lover.

[@Roseblueside]

@@mayurgowda8930 it is rare nowadays right ? :/

[@mayurgowda8930]

@@Roseblueside I don't know. I don't think that it is rare....I think.

[@Jontae4288]

I love how he’s telling our secrets and at the same time trying to stay alive lol

[@xenius8422]

◉‿◉

[@abhijeetdayal479]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@hahahappy7820]

when he said "Regardless of what part, I prefer no hair.", I am waiting for the girl to respond "ah.. so you like bald girls, huh." HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHA

[@marine_ate]

i was thinking the same thing 😂😂

[@shaneoh9808]

Korean actually has separate words for head hair and other hair, which is probably why she didn't

[@mynameis_______2242]

😂😂😂😂

[@stevenstone7101]

My exact thoughts. 🤣

[@divya_sancheti04]

🤣🤣

[@AC-gb7do]

My guy Jaewon looking like a deer in headlights!

[@TheBoredKoreansChannel]

this made me laugh unnecessarily hard... 🤣🤣😂

[@hostage67]

1. Do Men want to sleep with someone even if she isn't his lover? - it depends on what you mean by this, but yes, a Man can want to sleep with someone that isn't his lover, just like a Woman can. This is clearly not unique to Men. 2. Men don't like seeing Women losing confidence? - It seems like something was lost in translation here and the real question was "Do men like women who are not confident". Some men will have a problem with this, others will not. I think the key here is that you are being yourself, and not trying to be something you are not. But it is important to note that while being down or sad or whatever sometimes is fine, no one (men or women) want to spend a lot of time with a person that always brings them down. 3. What's the first thing you look at when you see a Woman? - Lots of men have differing opinions on this. Personally I look at the face first, mostly because I want to gauge interest and see how they are reacting. Some men are consumed by Breasts while others are consumed by Butts, and there are many other categories as well though those are the most popular ones. However, science has found that "Beauty" is generally defined by symmetry. Everyone enjoys beauty, but it is important to note that how much weight is put into that one category will depend on several factors. Not the least of which is... are you looking for a long term relationship, or a one night stand. Beauty carries a lot more weight in a one night stand than it does in a long term relationship where you will have to deal with that person on a daily basis for the rest of your life. When its a one night stand, personality matters much less than beauty because there is a fast approaching deadline for the end of your encounter. While for a long term relationship your personality will matter much more than your beauty which will fade over time. 4. Do you prefer hair or hairless? - again you will find men in both camps. Personally I prefer hairless because it is cleaner. A small patch of short groomed hair would also be perfectly fine. But a large tangly bush isn't as clean, and can cause other problems like stray hairs. 5. Do you like it when women touch your butt? - You'll have to gauge this from person to person. Some people don't like being touched at all. If you're in a relationship it would probably be fine, if you are a stranger that would be really weird and awkward. 6. Why do men want to do it most? - Again this will vary from person to person, and is not always the case. But as men are more often stimulated by simple things like appearance, smells, touch, etc... it likely makes them much more easily stimulated than a Woman who requires emotional foreplay which generally takes more time to stimulate. 7. Do you not like seeing women with no makeup on? - No makeup is perfectly fine for most guys. But we also appreciate when you get dressed up. On this same vein, too much makeup is a turnoff for many guys. 8. Is it a lie when a guy says "I don't care about looks"? - It depends on what they're after. Guys are certainly capable of lying, and often will tell you anything in order to sleep with you. That being said, a guy who is generally interested in you for a long term relationship is going to be much less concerned about looks and much more concerned about your personality. However, keep in mind that everyone appreciates beauty. So when he says he doesn't care about looks, that doesn't mean he wants a hideous beast for his partner, it just means that he is putting much less weight into that category and has higher priorities such as personality. 9. Men don't like tall Women? - It depends, but its very much the same question as asking if Women don't like short men. There is a psychological power shift that happens when the height changes from the norm like that. For a small percentage of men they will enjoy that, but I think for most men it is a little uncomfortable. It also depends on how much of a height difference there is. If its a small amount, then the impact would be negligible, but the larger the height difference the more uncomfortable it gets. 10. Do guys really talk about girls all the time? - No. It depends on the venue and who we are with, but generally speaking, no we aren't always talking about girls. But there are certainly times where we do. 11. What if your "thing" suddenly wants to make a statement in public, then how do you deal with it? - Usually the first step is bringing your mental thoughts to something that would squish any desire. If you can't control it, then you do your best to hide it, that may mean remaining seated, or excusing yourself to the restroom or another room, etc... And no, we can't always control it; and no, it isn't always based on sexual thoughts. Sometimes it just happens, and sometimes it happens at the worst, most awkward moments possible. 12. Do you think Men and Women can be friends? - Absolutely, but I also think that both Men and Women are friends with people who generally share the same qualities as someone they would consider dating. So just because they are currently friends doesn't mean they weren't ever anything else, or that they never will be in the future. If they didn't enjoy spending time together, then they wouldn't likely remain friends for long. Being friends with someone of the opposite sex isn't necessarily a bad thing, but if you're in a relationship it would be important to be open about that friendship with your partner, and to make sure you aren't doing anything that could be misconstrued, such as going out to lunch/dinner together. If you want to go out with your friend, you should be sure to include your significant other so the relationship boundaries are clear for all parties.

[@mukilanpandian7645]

Your comment deserves more likes...

[@mgpatry3274]

Well stated!👍

[@mgpatry3274]

Well stated👍!!!

[@davidrozo766]

If this were Reddit I would spend money and give you a gold reward for this fantastic answer sir!

[@ramennoodles895]

Good to know😂😂

[@jamiepaul6305]

I really like the "friendly" chemistry between YuMi and JaeWon!

[@user-bv1ne6st3u]

Same 😂

[@jamiepaul6305]

@blowing trees It can't be any more so than the US.

[@jamiepaul6305]

@Waldel Martell thanks for letting me know. I was confused as to why he would post that on my comment, since my comment had nothing to do with plastic surgery!

[@jamiepaul6305]

@Alexander Murzinskÿ actually the US leads the world in the number of plastic surgeons and the number of surgeries performed (per google).

[@lgmusic3587]

like you can really tell they're having a "moment"

[@ChaosBlackHawk]

I can't with Yumi's face as she hears his answers ahahaha

[@Why.Just_why]

@Peipei LuWang based on his name, highly unlikely

[@achurockstar6476]

@blowing trees why cant u do then😂😂

[@Ebbsy08]

@blowing trees No shit you think we don’t know that? Too bad for you that topic is irrelevant in this case. You don’t have anything better to do except trolling around and comment the same bullshit on every similar videos? How sad.

[@Ebbsy08]

@blowing trees Lmfao imagine bringing politics into a silly entertainment material, this ain’t the right place.

[@user-iq5iu2tt2h]

@blowing trees So?? is it a problem? if it makes them more confident then I don't see any problem there.

[@gremal2135]

Cheers to the editor, these sound effects are PEAK comedy!

[@lizSqueakers]

Jaewon is so entertaining, the way he sounds so casual talking about such dirty topics. i keep cackling at the shit he says

[@kalmtraveler]

I swear Yumi's mind always jumps to the worst place...she can be my spirit animal 😂😂😂

[@cloudreaver]

She’s secretly a freak in the sheets, even though she looks like a lady in the streets 😂

[@sagekevin6473]

@@cloudreaver bruh this is the first time I seeing something like this 😂

[@Sunny24359]

When I see a girl, I approach her for her looks, I stay for her personality.

[@sagekevin6473]

Amen brother .

[@MiSt3300]

hear hear

[@TechnoSan09]

Exactly

[@Honored_one-oi9ps]

Facts

[@miltonrmrzful]

Yumi es so natural and cheerful always, she ask the question with a bit of shyness but at the same time with curiosity and real interest, love her she is the best

[@MewDenise]

It is okay to have a fantasy - just don't do it for real so no one gets hurt

[@el6700]

Exactly

[@chitrikart2328]

But whats the point if you really want to do it but don't because your girlfriend might break up with you? Is it acceptable too then if women really want to cheat on you but just is not doing it cause you might get hurt? Shouldn't you not feel attracted to Other people at, all in the first place? Or what's the point of a relationship?

[@thirstwithoutborders995]

@That's what makes us different from animals. Our hormones are still on lizard-brain levels, but we have the rest of our brain not to act on them and jump everyone with two legs. What you are saying is that you shouldn't get scared, because you already know that everything will be fine. People are still scared, people are still tempted. Being tempted and staying faithful is a much more romantic feat than just never looking at anyone else again.

[@chitrikart2328]

@@thirstwithoutborders995 how can you decide what's romantically tempting for people or not? If that is so, why are lizard level brain people jealous? And if your partner has a problem with something materialistic and unemotional you do, ie look at other girls why can you not for the sake of romantical temptation, not do it for the comfort of your partner?

[@c0rn969]

@@supermegafoxyawesomehot2042 basically the kind of aspects that causes some relationships to collapse (Not enough trust, materialistic, uncontrolled temptation).

[@forever_moonchild1457]

lol this guy was attacckkked rip man 😂

[@forever_moonchild1457]

@blowing trees ??

[@istankings_ad7303]

How is it possible that there are ARMYs everywhere 😯💜...Btw "BE" is coming 2PM KST -20th November...💕

[@forever_moonchild1457]

@@istankings_ad7303 ikr can’t wait!! 💜

[@arqalxz]

@blowing trees Said by channel with less than 100 subscibers

[@lordabz3161]

@@arqalxz you have 0

[@KonFess]

Yumi is Brilliant, her animation( hand gestures, and facial expressions) are priceless. She just adds value to every segment.

[@ShivamPandey-bs4lq]

Yumi is cute af

[@CountDain7]

Indeed

[@mrowczyk5270]

yuumi is broken

[@GaJiarg]

3:42 Control yourself Yumi

[@harrislam]

LMAO!!

[@coolzredz]

😂😂😛

[@MissMartianDCAU]

I'm the 69th like hehe

[@erenjaeger8202]

Holy shit

[@cloudreaver]

She be lickin her lips like “oh yeah, I wanna see that” 😂

[@byak6687]

"Do u prefer hair or hairless" My innocent brain: bald head ??1?2?3)1?2?1?1? the guy: hairless Me: ...... OHhhHhhHhhhHhHhHhH

[@mbangroo]

I like bald women though, they look so cute. Yumm

[@whysoserious5259]

Really??

[@esophagus3319]

me too lol took me 5 mins to proceess

[@mbangroo]

@@whysoserious5259 ha i mean , maybe i am wrong but idk lol

[@dianaentertainment5271]

It took me like 5 seconds to process

[@tomatosalad4878]

After watching the guy asks and girl asks video, I noticed that girls want to know more about what guys find attractive than vice versa. The guys are more curious about how the female body works and why girls do certain things - it's like humans being puzzled over aliens. It surprised me how little guys know about girls 😅

[@miqhailharraz5236]

@Tomato Salad Well, i would say, its not something we guys usually talk about or taught about even in school. Personally, my family or mom didnt really teach me these stuffs. So yea we're curious,

[@jchongco]

I need more of Jaewon he is so funny espacialy whenever he's with Yumi XD

[@sithlordshaun_]

“Bro! I need to come out for a sec!” 💀💀

[@G31M1]

_Listen here you little shit!_ * controls breathing and tries to relax to reduce blood flow to certain region *

[@0megax788]

The girl is always so funny 😂

[@markdove5930]

@blowing trees I'm in Italy we are number 2 so...

[@riekichicho]

Yumi is that kind of girl we’d like to have as our close friend.

[@leeswhimsy]

I think these two are great together in these videos. Thanks for the honesty, Jaewon!!!!

[@prachethashetty7612]

It was so adorable to see him hesitate to answer.😂

[@FunkyKiwi7]

📝taking mental notes It's great that Jaewon is so open and honest about answering as accurately from his own personal experience.

[@user-gx9go2ne1m]

yumi kinda looks like daesung from bigbang when she smiles 😂

[@kimzaiful]

And beside her is SEUNGRI look-a-like

[@Haeji98]

Once u see it, you can't unseen it 😂

[@mgpatry3274]

This was fun & informative! Jaewon and Yumi ( and PDnim) are so funny! 😂 Thank you Giggle! 👍

[@timtravasos2742]

I love her intensity, attention and expressions.

[@KingNexu5]

Damn , the body language on Yumi to Jaewon when he is talking! I WANT THAT!

[@mj.12l.29]

Yumi has this natural aegyo that is intense. Major props to this guy for not melting under her gaze

[@SavorySakuraEats]

Yumi is so adorable 😭

[@antoinettescott8627]

Damn, he was really on the spot! But I appreciate his honesty with these questions. It was hilarious. Really enjoyed the video. Keep up the good work!!

[@kevinmoppett4760]

Jaewon gets full marks for answering these questions. You really put him in the spot with some of them!!!😂 Hope he gets the chance to question Yumi the same way..

[@johannaadeleke9085]

I'm always looking forward to something new from you guys,love from Nigeria 🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬

[@johanebrown1764]

We support you dude . 😅 this dude is funny keep having him over

[@queenelana9811]

Jaewon is so attractive he gave such honesty in neutral way ... love the edits

[@S1mmhi]

"What if your 'thing' suddenly wants to make a statement in public" I'm dead!

[@koreanpathfinder]

"Look at the middle" Haha that's such a diplomatic way to say it. :D

[@sirmaliodas4363]

Hilarious af🤣🤣🤣 love the guy and editing

[@G31M1]

Just commenting to support the homie! He is absolutely right. Also I want to mention that my friend is very average sized, so that’s good for concealment. It’s a multifit tool that unites performance with concealment. *Perfectly balanced, as all things should be!*

[@iymenabdella1774]

They're so cute with such charming personalities, they should keep doing videos together.

[@kizotayo9993]

"Love is a chemical reaction that compells animals to breed, it hits hard morty then it slowly fades, and then you're gonna get stranded in a failing marriage. I did it, your parents are gonna do it, break the cycle morty, rise above. Focus on science." -PICKLE RIIIIIICK

[@bruceford9413]

These kids are adorable All over the world we are pretty much the same. These videos always make me smile warmly.

[@hylamyc]

Really want a part II, this is too funny LUL

[@willpinkmilkbeback8791]

I really love this pair.... they're so funny😂😂😂😂

[@TaylorCanada]

Appreciate his honest answers

[@lefthandedkim]

This is gold... good editing.. good response.. good answer.

[@onepunchman4481]

They both so straightforward...I love it😏

[@aibawk-iiaibawk6704]

I love it yumi smile

[@alanherrera5421]

"Yes, we're friends..." *Destruction in seconds*

[@user-hm1pp9km6x]

1:24 Yumi just so naturally leads him to saying "possible", hahaha, and the sound effect after makes it even funnier 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@oryza3711]

I really like his honest and witty answers 💚

[@hieronymousblackmane9152]

Yumi is pretty much radiating through my screen at this point

[@diamondthrust2019]

I hope giggle crew you had fun during Halloween.

[@LineMo09]

Well done for being honest

[@rolandpalmajr5837]

Saw Yumi again. It made my day. 😊😍

[@Ashura_Typhoon]

You've got brothers in the US, Jaewon, we won't let them put you on the spot like that. You were absolutely correct in your answers and delivered them as tactfully as possible.

[@thenameisjohncena2005]

I like the attire yumi has today, it looks pretty cool.

[@joshuafishbaugh1549]

Yumi is beyond adorable!

[@addereal]

Keep up the great energy yumi! Don't ever change. In asia society often pressurises us to conform in terms of behavior and speech. I've held out. Not gonna "act" like an adult and becoming boring af like 90% of the population.

[@akusworld5117]

1. Yes 2. No 3. butts and legs 4. Both are fine 5. yes 6. always 7. no makeup is hot too 8. yes 9. if she is cute, height is not an issue 10. not ALL the time... jk ^^ 11. I do complicated math in my mind lol 12. Yes

[@jeromeund9341]

My 2 cts, for what it's worth 1. Of course; Same for women or you wouldn't have women cheating 2. Depends. It can be cute on small things sometimes, annoying when it's often or if there is not fixing. 3. Face if seen from the front, or butt if seen from behind. 4. Hairless 🍑 5. Mentally yes. Not that it provides any physical pleasure. 6. Morning, evening or anytime I find my girl sexy 😊 If I feel stressed as well. 7. No make-up is fine, unless you usually wear so much make-up that I feel like I am with a different person 8. Yes, it's a lie. IMO, for women, looks is a factor (the better you look, the better you are ranked, but you can compensate its lack with something else -confidence, wealth, charisma, eloquence, humor...-), for men, it's a threshold (the better you look, the better you are ranked, it can be compensated but you have to meet a minimal value on this specific criteria itself or you're out of the picture). That's the basic setting, then there are special people who make you breal this scheme for some reason you won't understand. That's also not the only threshold. I have found a girl extremely pretty and as soon as she opened her mouth, I was like "omg, nope, that's a real bummer but that won't do". 9. Need to be at least a bit smaller than me. A man tiptoeing for kissing, that's just not romantic... 5 to 20 cm (2" to 8") smaller is the confortable range. 10. I don't; there are lots of things to discuss besides girls, come on... 11. Try to sit down and lean forward on my knees or try to distract my brain very quickly with something as bland as possible 12. No. It might be a pure friendship from the girl point of view, idk, but the guy will always have *some* sexual thoughts, even if he is not extremely attracted by her. See point 1.

[@jasmineuelese730]

She’s pretty i like her eye smile there’s something about her that actually reminds me of yeji from itzy when she smiles etc

[@garyr.31]

Both have a cat like look

[@gergerloves]

Love this combi the most!!

[@encly3881]

This was a rlly fun and enlightening episode

[@anassattik2987]

I think they will be together after this episode, they were like so comfortable with each other with a certain chemistry

[@KpopLunatic]

Oh Jaewon is back! Missed him in videos 😊 I was kind of shocked at the answer of the 1st question. For me as a female, I wouldn't want to sleep with someone who isn't my lover. I have to have deep feelings for that person to be able to get physical with them, and not just towards any other guy. But hearing the guy's pov, I'm starting to have doubts on my partner in the future.....

[@Harkz0r]

You say this, but there are no shortage of women who cheat too, and they will often lie to their partners and act as though nothing is different, even having the gall to justify it to themselves when they are called out. That seems especially manipulative because the thought of lying to anyone I was intimate with churns my stomach. From the man's perspective it's especially crushing because they get feelings for their fling while they're still with the first person! Though I'm not saying men don't also gaslight women. In any case, just because the impulse may exist doesn't always mean we would ever act on it or even think it's a good idea. If I acted on every momentary flash of desire I had, I'd almost certainly be in prison right now. And even if I wasn't, I'd probably hate myself. So I'm not going to tell you not to worry, because I think a healthy level of awareness is good, but don't let the thought consume you.

[@christinatyree521]

omg this guy is hilarious I'm dying I'm laughing so hard😁😆 he said it's not a lie, it's a ******* lie... lol

[@adarshsirsat9110]

Man did a fantastic job tryna represent the bois. Respect

[@chongyaolim3011]

Jaewons personality 😍

[@Blank..26]

A man of culture 😏 he ain't wrong - I totally relate. Want to go back to Korea asap 😫

[@dakaodo]

The tight editing was hilarious and well done, but props must go to MVP trooper Jaewon for providing tons of great sound bites to be mercilessly used out of context.

[@sumeghzimba359]

This dude is the man.. Honest and funny..

[@denzelrj428]

8:00 lmao I laughed so hard when he (whoever) did.

[@KoZeroSM]

Wow, she got a very unique and cute look. I think I found my type.

[@pumagutten]

Yumi is so adorable. She reminds me of Emilia Clarke. That smile can melt anything.

[@tatianacostley3110]

Whoever edits these is amazing

[@remozhang1754]

4:11 instantly recognised the piece lol... its Gymnopédie No.1 btw

[@gooeylife]

Jaewon looks like he is caught between a rock and a hard place.

[@giantdvl]

First time viewer. This gal is so cute

[@rizkip9859]

This bro went full "sweating peele" from the first question. Lmao Land mines everywhere XD

[@joanna8761]

Honestly i'm always curious about men, but my male friends are so shy and afraid to answer me TT

[@kokiladharsiniselvaraj6697]

Came here only for Yumi❤❤... Love from India 🇮🇳 [South India (TamilNadu)]

[@UchihaItachihd]

The sound effect and edit got mee😂😂

[@lelmdrWHO]

This duo is hilarious!

[@vanajaff337]

4:10 his hand lol 😂 😂😂😂

[@svenillionaire974]

Holy loaded questions hahaha When do men want it, what do women have to be doing? Men: Breathing... Even then. Don't forget to like subscribe hit the bell 🤣

[@hendraardi]

Yumi really fits.. XD love that passion

[@vishnuprasad2884]

Indeed... Guy stood tall.. Proud of him

[@user-bz8di7io1m]

I mean for the first question I always kind of knew that thats the case.And I know everyone isn't like that cause thats a massive generalization.But from my experience I've told myself that men can't love that easily.And if they can then they probably wouldn't want to have sex with just the one they love but with multiple women too.I don't know if thats an instict or something else but I'm still disappointed by how this is kind of true.Like it makes me think that even if my crush liked me or loved me back he would still probably have the "instict"(?)to do the same stuff with others.I cant help but think about this cause I've been noticing so many boys my age being like this.A lot of people I know have also told me upright that thats the case.And ofcourse I'm not talking about all men,but like a vast majority of them or at least at my age.

[@NICOeiko24]

same. Just like how i see there are many married men would still sleep with others just bcs of this “instinct” they have. I believe for men sex is rly just sex. they dont need any kind of attachment to sleep with someone. they would do it just for the pleasure, and not out of love. But for women, we love to put emotions into it. Also, imo men are just so easily seduced. It’s very hard for them to control their “instinct” once seduced :(

[@guilhermevianabarbosa803]

I'd say it's unfair to say we "can't love" or that we "can't love easily"... I've read some articles about research on the effects of testosterone in the body of mammals (including sexual atraction/activity), and, according to those studies, when most male mammals (men included) are exposed to various females there's usually - though not always - a natural increase in sexual hormone rates; so that's probably something genetic we share in common with other mammals. This is more easily observable during puberty, when your body is exploding with hormones and trying to make you engage in as much sexual activity as possible - supposedly - to define your preferences for a partner. But it's also noticeable that when a man falls in love that our testosterone levels actually tend to go down a bit (while, insterestingly enough, it's the opposite in women). It's as if your mind were telling your body "Hey, I already found a partner! So, can you please tone that hormone crap down now?..." lol. As a man, I started to read about all this because I wanted to understand myself better. Because there was a point during my teen years, among all that crazy and confusing stuff going on inside my head and heart, that I wondered if I knew what it truly meant to love someone, in fear of never being able to have a long-lasting, healthy romantic relationship with a woman. Now - at the age of 22, being past puberty, more informed and aware of my thoughts and feelings - I understand, though, that despite our technological and scientifical advances, the human body itself hasn't changed that much through the course of time, being still a very primitive machine. One designed to turn our attention into basic survival aspects, such as "eating", "running away from possible danger/predators" and "making babies". xD And it also doesn't help that our society is normally "structured" to turn men into pervs. Seriously, it's ridiculous when you think about that... I realize that I was probably making it worse by judging myself on those things, than I'd be on simply letting go of them, since they weren't really "my own" thoughts and feelings in the 1st place. Don't know if you'll get what I'm saying here lol. I mean, I can't speak for every men on the planet but, at the very least, I can speak for myself and the majority of my male friends when I say that, when it comes to romance, women and stuff, we usually just want a stable, durable relationship with someone we love, and can trust on, and rely on! So don't fall into a huge pit of disbelief yet! LoL Also, it's like not being unfaithful is something exclusive to men, either, there are many women who cheat on their partners too! And, statistically speaking, their numbers increased significantly in these past 2 decades (or at least the number of women who admit what they did grew a lot... lol). So girls aren't the only ones with those kinds of worries, trust me! I've still never had a girlfriend, though 🤣🤣🤣 But, ya know what? I'm not in a hurry for that right now, I'd rather finish college and get a job first :p. Sorry if this was a bit too long! I tried to express myself the best I could! Haha

[@shwetatiwari7235]

@@guilhermevianabarbosa803 I'd love to have discussions with such an introspective and honest guy..lol

[@guilhermevianabarbosa803]

@@shwetatiwari7235 Typically, I don't talk to anyone about this kind of topic. It makes me feel uncomfortable and confronts me with a part of human nature that I'd much prefer didn't exist at all. In fact, if you tried to talk to me about anything alike in real life, I'd probably just ignore you and walk away. I've done that before. I guess the anonimity of the internet gave me some feeling of safety to try to express myself. But these videos broke me from an emotional point of view. It was as if they were saying that no matter how much I wanted to change, how much I wanted to be different, to be better, I'd never be more than the perverted sociopath society wanted to shape me into. I cried so much after I watched these videos. I felt miserable, ashamed and embarassed, and I hated myself for being a man. Writting my previous comment, deep down, was mostly a way I found to try to cope with what I was feeling, although it didn't really help that much at first. I had an emotional breakdown. I even asked God if my life could be just taken away that moment, because I didn't want to live the rest of it being disgusted at myself. But that's when God gave me strength to say "No, I don't accept this". I delved deeper into meditation practice, which was something I was already experimenting with back then, and I also had the opportunity of studying a little bit of psychology in University this year, as part of a mandatory academic complement for my grades. I acquired much better understanding of these matters and I'd put a lot more emphasis on the psychosocial aspect of all of it now than before. Society shoves a lot of trash into our heads every day ever since we're young, which molds very unhealthy mindsets and toxic behaviors. It's even worse now with the internet making it easier to access and propagate content such as porn, and this crescent culture of stimulating sexual activity among younger ppl. It's as if we were going back to the medieval age, when kids (specially boys) were forced into having part in sexual practices, it's completely ridiculous! Anyway, I didn't think I'd get any notifications from this ever again. I told KZbin to never show me anything related to this channel while I lived, but I guess that doesn't apply to comment notifications lol.

[@shwetatiwari7235]

@@guilhermevianabarbosa803 well..I love how you think..it shows you are a really mature person...I had started thinking that all people of my generation wil never ever understand deeper things than these superficial things (but you changed my perception) ...now a days, people have made this all so...how do I explain?...like ...simple human nature into some kind of saga..etc.. And don't be ashamed to be a man..cause you are a true man!

[@CottidaeSEA]

The first thing guys look at differs from person to person. In my case it's the hair. After that I don't really know, I don't really think much about it. I just know that the hair is the first thing I look at, because it can often say a lot about the person.

[@mita1109]

Interesting answer.. may I know what you think about 'the hair says a lot about the person' What kind of things is that

[@CottidaeSEA]

@@mita1109 The best answer I can give you is that people with similar personality traits tend to make similar decisions. It's similar to reading body language.

[@raymondhartono]

happy birthday favourite GIGGLE human

[@rosey5357]

Hahaha love these videos!

[@trodat07]

She likes him... or she plays like she likes him for the cameras. With Yumi you can't never know.

[@fjildeth]

lol, was wondering why the views were only 280, twas cuz its been only 6 min. went to early🤣

[@makoshark2001]

Yumi is just adorable.

[@spacebatstuckonearth8888]

Well said man !