asking high school boys questions girls are afraid to ask

hey guys so in this video i asked high school boys questions you guys wanted me to ask!! don't take this stuff too serious i thought it was just fun to hear their opinions :)
social media ~
instagram : abby.gigliotti
✰ common questions ✰
age - 17
camera - canon g7x
editing software - imovie
thumbnails - picmonkey
thanks so much for watching 🌟

[@nirvanaz7493]

“Is it cute when girls wear glasses?” SIS DONT WORRY ABOUT THAT YOU NEED TO SEE

[@michala539]

thank you. I needed to hear this lol

[@meagan3866]

Jordan Thompson contacts... are very expensive

[@mollymt]

Jordan Thompson contacts....can be uncomfortable

[@milkaho]

@@jordanthompson2349 (some parents won't let us wear) contacts...

[@oliviaharris917]

@@jordanthompson2349 contacts..... aren't right for some people's.....eyes

[@brooklynmassey4554]

“i think it’s cute when a girl can write” well i think it’s cute when a guy can read

[@ishredchildreninboxfans754]

Thank you

[@RC-hf5lv]

hi i’m jared i’m 19

[@brooklynmassey4554]

R C ????

[@ellencarpenter7075]

Jared isn't too happy about that comment

[@isimp9231]

@Riley Bryant no

[@Just_stoptalking]

"Starting a conversation is so easy" "Not being confident is unattractive" Social anxiety: *ahem*

[@ames_7707]

This made me laugh so hard 😂 and I love your profile picture Uraraka

[@vigilantic3953]

*Laughs in introvert*

[@user-ul8nv4hn3h]

Me!!!

[@shachartzadok]

Oh nooo😭 me too>:(

[@aeroplaneoversea]

*chuckles in introvert and social anxiety*

[@MalakAhmed-ft6ow]

“Blonde hair blue eyes” *Cries in brown hair brown eyes*

[@Cinnamon_pancake]

SAME

[@laneybishop7094]

red hair brown eyes😢

[@Ruuma11]

Light brown hair and blue eyes! So close!! 😭

[@tink6225]

*cries in black girl*

[@abbagailosborne2035]

Uhhh blond hair blue eyes is hitlers type...

[@mskenziehartnett]

boys: “starting a conversation is so easy just say hi and ask how our day was” me texting any boy ever: “hey how was your day?” boy: “good.”

[@benthompson7495]

kenz72001 well sometimes that’s obvious they aren’t interested

[@benthompson7495]

kenz72001 it’ll kinda show if they’re talkative enough to keep a convo going

[@lemonoats6037]

Ben Thompson yeah i get that but sometimes it really confuses me when a guy says he’s interested in me but doesn’t want to keep the conversation going. maybe it’s just the specific guy i’m talking about...

[@jasminebundy3499]

lemonoats it’s not

[@matilda9466]

@@lemonoats6037 omg I feel that!! I went to a silvester party and a guy and I talked really much and he asked if I had a boyfriend and stuff but now he just freakin' awnsers so dry and ahhh idk, gonna see him again soon and Im really nervous how it'll turn out

[@UstatKaur]

the top left guy is just chilling the whole time and I vibe with it omlll

[@soniaboschsole3413]

X2

[@sammlehman5840]

he’s my favorite

[@alianatheaalvarez34]

He's so cute hahaha

[@kelseybab]

The one with the beanie or the one in the green😂 cause they switched spots

[@nixter.68]

Ustat Kaur he def has a crush on the girl-

[@charkatslife]

“They can wear glasses j not all the time” Yeah that’s fine I’ll j not see on Tuesdays and Thursdays

[@M-yb4kf]

stop stealing comments lol

[@Botanicana]

@@M-yb4kf awkward lmao

[@seblewongelnegash6885]

@@M-yb4kf Oof!

[@Botanicana]

@@localweeb2924 your comment is literally useless...

[@yagirl1457]

Local Weeb ok boomer 💀😂

[@sonjas824]

I had respect for them until they said they wouldn't date a girl who wanted to wait till marriage

[@gabrielasander4820]

same

[@jugraweb]

AGREED

[@hood3352]

Alexa Barajas how so? The same way a person wants to wait for marriage, they don’t.

[@laurenwebb2098]

Like, if you really like a girl, wouldn't you be ok to wait until marriage if the girl you are dating wants to wait? Otherwise you're only there for one thing.

[@hood3352]

Alexa Barajas think of it this way, some people only like chipotle with the guacamole. If they cant have the guacamole they leave to a new restaurant.

[@cher8847]

them: *just say hi it's not that hard* me: *_cries in anxiety_*

[@mortonvideos8024]

I feel you..

[@moon_lyrics]

aphrodite lennon. Social Anxiety really sucks

[@enjo2005]

Never forget, you are amazing 💕💕 its okay to not be okay sometimes

[@fluthyhehim66]

!!!

[@huhkatie6066]

bro the last time i tried talking to my crush my anxiety kicked in and my inner body started shaking so😞

[@oliviakaufman3631]

“the nose has to be normal” aight imma head out 🤚🏻

[@danteanna3688]

Im screwed

[@sylwia3415]

okay, well... same

[@fairoadiary]

Olivia Kaufman I have no idea what he meant about that

[@bellapallan5518]

lmao same. it’s a lil broken

[@lindakrumina6508]

Right behind you

[@dehoneys5945]

when they said they wouldnt date someone if they're waiting till marriage my respect for them went 📉📉📉

[@peptobismol3949]

i got my hopes up. but most guys really aren't into that religious thing? kinda sad :(

[@sena5721]

Especially when they literally screamed “No” without hesitation, as if it was something disgusting, you know what I mean?

[@peptobismol3949]

@@sena5721 Yeah, the part of them not following or believing in religious practice is totally fine, it was the way they said it. They made it seem like it was something weird and unacceptable in a way. Totally agree, you worded that perfectly

[@brynnawhitney4823]

I felt that, I want to wait it’s not even a religious thing for me. I just want to wait and I would hope they accept that and if they don’t then they are not right for me

[@teganfryer9265]

I'm not religious, but if you really like someone you should respect their choices its not all about that stuff

[@lilabarron1685]

"we like blonde hair blue eyes" "don't dye your hair we like it natural" WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM US

[@runningwiththewolves8284]

Lila Barron lol for a few minutes I just forgot that I have dyed red hair... in my head I still think of myself as having blonde hair lmao.

[@Name-gb8nr]

My Hair is naturally blonde but I always wanted brown hair

[@Name-gb8nr]

JEWEL CHANG JIA EN Moe 😂👩🏼🔁👩🏻

[@amppuli]

they want nordic countries girls

[@elizabethhall2047]

sooo typical

[@dianacarolina6433]

They all said that they prefer Netflix and chill and then say that girls have to be adventurous and can’t be lazy? Like what👀

[@priimly7550]

When they said adventurous, they just meant they like girls who are going to be open to going places and doing things

[@angelinasfavs218]

Netflix and chill also means something else 👀 look it up in urban dictionary

[@sage7796]

Angelinasfavs just saw what a Netflix and chill is in the urban dictionary. I um don’t know what to say and think

[@similanscheer2148]

I was thinking the exact same thing😂😂😂

[@Shellbells10]

My like turned 1.9k to 2k and it was very satisfying. That’s all

[@virginialane8847]

them:“not being confident is unattractive” me: “what the hell we gon do now.” edit: why did i just now realize i got that many likes what

[@AleyahK24]

Virginia Lane lmfao just cry in the corner of my room with potato chips

[@rabea284]

Samee

[@kg4life34]

I’m literally dying 😂😭

[@madisonrose6520]

Right😂

[@marissaweyandt1879]

Same. I'm confident when I want to but not when I meet ppl

[@sophiebegun1947]

"like if I have a crush on this girl.." *stares at Abby*

[@majasrheim7674]

@ what time?

[@matea4971]

Maja Sørheim 3:53

[@adinahnourin600]

😏

[@licendia]

he has a gf lmao

[@sophiastella8119]

"stop dyeing your hair ladies we want that natural look" Do your guys really think we dye our hair for you? I'll dye my hair as much as I want.

[@fluffydragon7234]

Sophia Schulbeck bruh he was talking bout his preference nd its like the whole point of the video lmao

[@draytonlinen1518]

@@fluffydragon7234 yessssss

[@sidney8.3.27]

Sophia Schulbeck I dye my hair all the time, and a boy likes me, and asks me when I’m going to dye my hair again. However, other boys in my class think I’m mentally insane because I’ve put natural highlights in my hair and think I’m the most depressed person on earth when I put a strip of blue in my hair. The truth is I just like experimenting. I have a lot of insecurities, but I have friends and family a generally pretty good life. Some boys are great and like you for who you are, while others are just picky and judgmental.

[@charkatslife]

Sophia Schulbeck lol I dyed my hair and all my guy friends were like “gUys dOnt liKe deYeD hAir, u lOok stUpid” I was like bruh I ain’t do this for y’all lmao I was j bored

[@deadinside6590]

Exactlyyy

[@melike5894]

my eyes when they talk: 👈🏼👉🏻☝🏼👆🏼👇🏻

[@rennie707]

omgg lmaoo

[@kculture403]

LMFAOOO

[@annaskerrett1472]

That’s exactly the rotation my eyes keep going WTF😂

[@svdprincess4738]

ikrrrrt

[@emanuelacerneva4389]

Lol true 😂😂😂😂😂

[@mmfb_]

why are teenage boys so weird like they just are different from little boys and different from young adults it’s literally a new species lol

[@blakehyslop2605]

mm fb false we are very straight forward.

[@blakehyslop2605]

Jethro Tull Fr bro

[@maya4054]

@I love Cake Popz Can you take a joke?

[@dylansmith7673]

These guys misrepresent

[@folbfolb]

that could be said about both kids and adults too though?? so ...??

[@penelopeholmes2869]

the guys: blah blah blah blah abby: literally just staring into the camera lens the whole time...😂😂😂

[@abigailm4717]

them: "shy girls are unattractive" "being not confident is a big turn off" oh,,, anyways-- but what do they expect when they have a whole list of what they want in a girl, like ??

[@federicabuso1342]

Say this louder for the people in the back!

[@elenisavva3640]

Im shy like whag am i expected to do?wake up and be no shy anymore

[@sigma959]

They act like we act shy so we can get guys smh😒

[@pikoloksh6195]

It's often not a strict list tho, just mildiling boundaries that are very malleable

[@GavriJ]

@Avery Asselin everyone is. and they really only represent themselves, not the entire gender. This is just 5 teenage boys figuring themselves out.

[@lianswarens]

“oh ladies ladies the fake tan has got to go PLEASE” had me dead

[@Emma19]

🤣🤣🤣

[@Blackberry13]

500th like :)

[@loulouguzman6162]

But people out here lookin orange fr 🚫🧢😂

[@breanna8183]

but what if i’m a ginger and i’m P A S T Y

[@lujain961]

I even hate sun tan :( but i get it everytime i go to the beach :/

[@kailajensen1021]

“Favorite activity to do with a girl” Ben: “I wouldn’t know” I felt that

[@abigailperrin9291]

I feel that too lol

[@aightsis5825]

all the singles felt that

[@elizabethmarie2407]

In my bones sis

[@conradjiggsushi1665]

bone up

[@witchyyycat]

oof yeah same

[@scoopy3810]

The boys: Just say hi it’s not that hard Me: I said hi once and asked how their day was. He told me that his basketball practice was cancelled due to snow, I said oh my play rehearsal was cancelled. He responded “?” I replied, I was going to rehearse for my play. He responded, and I care why? He then unfriended me and that’s why I’m scared to talk to boys. Edit: Later he told my friend that I blocked him and I was like, okay buddy. Another Edit: I also have SAD and GAD. It also doesn’t help that I’m a introvert and socially awkward.

[@kikyostan9102]

Damn that's messed up..

[@sterredoeven1893]

Camille Gourley not all boys are like that! Usually people don’t even remember what you said the other day so don’t be scared :)

[@scoopy3810]

Sterre Doeven Thanks for responding, I know not all boys are like that. I come from a small school and so does this boy. I’m saying this because it just shows you some examples of how harsh boys can be at this one school. I have lots of guy friends at my school. The part about me not talking to boys was kind of a joke. Anyway.

[@aightsis5825]

what a joey

[@thenightbringer9770]

I’m sorry

[@txufanvanslover3653]

Her being by a lot of boys: acting normal Me being by a lot of boys: umm

[@maddy1255]

”we don't like one word responses” boys: ”k” AKSSLFJAHXJ I come back and see 8.5k likes??!

[@quebeclover7648]

Quesadilla_Queen lol ikr

[@hopevanriesen8225]

So true tho

[@pili3282]

I am the 1k like jsjs

[@supraaaaaaaa8266]

Quesadilla_Queen this is. Low key all that my straight friends complain about lmao

[@keighley_404]

Right

[@jiminiesheart2134]

“Why don’t you tell us that you like us?” The same reason you don’t.

[@zeoceania2765]

Exactly

[@wamtaani11]

Ayeeee. Clap back. Best comment I've seen

[@KimNamjoon-vy7pq]

@@dokidokitodoroki5180 stop talking about bts now

[@jiminiesheart2134]

JiminGotJams Yes

[@jane8557]

Me who’s plus sized, wear glasses and has both anxiety and depression: well then 😑 (edit: Thank you all so much for your sweet comments, I'm happy to know a lot of you relate and I want you to know you'll find someone that does not care about any of the things like the boys in this video did. Just be yourself and love who you are. Have a lovely day everyone :)

[@jacquelinep8311]

I mean this just means you're gonna date a KING YOU QUEEN

[@user-mk6fg6zl3c]

haha sameeeeeee

[@averyrose6505]

Bro me too

[@paula2761]

💞

[@tribenysaha8365]

I hope you are doing fine. Don't give up and don't let people bring you down❤

[@sarahgupta9467]

“Everyone’s gonna have their own opinion about how they feel”...yes that’s how opinions work

[@gabrielaferhen9383]

Imagine a girl from their school is watching this and has a crush on one of these guys 😶 SHE GONNA HAVE AL THE MOOOOVES.

[@abbie4857]

Pahahahhaa omg bro stop I'm laughing too hard

[@gabilovecraft]

Lmaooo

[@montyroni]

Gabriela FerHen Oh shit I hope that’s not true, they would be really pressured 😰

[@jennapastore3315]

She talking all the notes

[@wamtaani11]

Watch it be the girl in the middle😶

[@my_wifi_went_out3633]

“THE FAKE TAN HAS GOT TO GO LADIES.” “We can tell! You look like an Oompa Loompa!” That’s on periodt honestly

[@mollienisiamore5576]

PROBLEMATIC .exe. I dont have fake tan im as pale as snow

[@carolineyoung3804]

this is the one 🤣

[@niamhh333]

PROBLEMATIC .exe. Very true and they end up looking like a homeless Donald trump with money

[@camilleeve4525]

Let people do what they want and what makes them feel confident... and THATS on periodt

[@benthompson7495]

camille eve were just saying most girls aren’t getting a guy when they have created a new race of orange people

[@avakinalice1228]

No one: Not a singLe souL: The guy in ur right: *playing with his hair for 15 minutes straight*

[@taetaesgucci3044]

That's my weakness

[@majasrheim7674]

It’s his strength though

[@gr4v3flow3r]

Guys: Being unconfident is unattractive Me with depression and very low self esteem: 👁👄👁

[@jjyyuu757]

lmfao same

[@coc034]

I hope you're doing okay. It's really hard. I will pray for you and remember you are loved!! Have a great day and you are beautiful💕

[@roisingriffin8291]

Hope you are doing ok. But if you don't love your self you can't love anybody else. They are talking about people who won't take complements. It is annoying to watch beautiful people bring themselves down when you think they are pretty

[@Jusdari]

samee tho

[@jerald9739]

i like shy girls

[@leahjames7369]

Abby *taking notes in her head the whole time

[@crustynarwhal8456]

The amount of times everybody interrupted each other stressed me the frick out

[@applebottomjeans3284]

Lol 😂

[@applebottomjeans3284]

@the burritø gone incognitø Ikr!

[@SophiaMcCaffrey]

Crusty Narwhal omg yesss. My heart is racing

[@lauratuckey8260]

omg same, i was all like shut up

[@joemama-nv2tt]

exactlyy

[@kaity4956]

me realizing they’re just describing white girls 😗✌🏼

[@leleohanmu8142]

FR

[@sigma959]

When you're a person of color: 👁👄👁

[@yesterdaytheattic]

When your mixed: um oof

[@dontask3699]

Define white? Do u mean the actual color as in like pale? Or UK kinds

[@malaika7241]

When you're black 👄

[@royal.chelsea]

Listening to these boys describe their perfect girl, as a dark-skinned girl, is literally so dehumanzining (even though I've been dating a white guy for over 7 months now), because it makes girls of colour watching this feel unattractive to white guys and that's a huge self esteem killer. EDIT: I'm perfectly happy as a black girl, my boyfriend is a white Irish guy who loves me for me. I'm not insecure, my statement was just to say how girls who are coloured can feel insecure because believe it or not but even men of colour can find women of colour undesirable.

[@jojobl5411]

It’s just a question of preference. I do t see anything wrong in them discussing their opinions and they really seem to be honest without discrimination so I don’t agree with what you’re saying. Maybe you don’t feel well about what they are saying but I don’t believe that’s what they’re trying to do. Edit : Girls do the same when they say they want a 6ft tall man that is ripped, etc. That makes other boys less confident as well.

[@charlotteswift6182]

It’s really about preference I believe. There is a lot of people that are attracted to people of a different colour to themselves. It’s just as if someone were to like blonde hair over brown hair or blue eyes over green eyes, it’s small details people prefer not because it’s any less beautiful just that it’s what they are drawn to. Don’t feel any less about yourself because a select few guys prefer an appearance you can’t relate to because there are millions of people in the world with your appearance as their ‘type’. Everyone is beautiful

[@user-mk6fg6zl3c]

It really hurts =/

[@shania1586]

@@user-mk6fg6zl3c ikr

[@shania1586]

My exact thought lmaoo

[@kylieegreer]

Them: “not being confident is unattractive” Also them: complaining about girls looks and wanting to wait till marriage and making girls feel more self conscious about themselves

[@phemiaa]

Kylie Elizabeth ok they did say you could have your moments but when your just constantly being unconfident and self conscious 24-7 anyone can see how that could get annoying. Also i mean maybe i didn’t catch it but i didn’t see them complaining about girls and i’m sure their intention was not to make you self conscious. I respect your opinion and i’m not trying to start any fight but we asked them questions they gave us answers in a nice way ( it’s not like they insulting everyone, they just gave they’re opinion) and if you don’t like their answers then they’re not the right guys for you.

[@zeoceania2765]

Ikr!!!

[@ronjasmile7946]

Le Le totally agreed but when they talked about weight and the waiting till marriage it was kinda insulting

[@diora266]

says the boys who ain’t got any looks..

[@savannamackie3720]

@@diora266 Literally if your complaining about how they did that how are you going to comment on this women's post and say they are ugly. You are completely contradicting yourself.

[@MariaTorres-mb2yq]

use this as an “I love her button”

[@rosanoemi6360]

maria torres So she loves herself haha, me too abby, love u too !!

[@itzfrken]

👀

[@katiekelly6580]

T Dedor so

[@lilyz5945]

maria torres I bet the top left guy used this

[@naima2627]

them: just like start a conversation its not that hard me: *cries in social anxiety*

[@gabrielasander4820]

When they said they wouldnt date a girl who was waiting til marriage, my appreciation for these boys dropped instantly. it's actually kinda disrespectful in a way

[@marceisenhardt3594]

No, not really. Its just as much of a personal decision to wait till mariage as it is not wanting to wait.

[@user-li5qu2gg8t]

@@marceisenhardt3594 I get what your saying everyone has their own opinion.. but, the way they immediately and aggressively said "no" made it sound like it was disgusting or inhuman :/

[@leleohanmu8142]

A 1 exactly

[@monokuma9028]

iammarc muslims are supposed to wait until marriage before having sex. we don’t have a choice.

[@Chloe-yc7dc]

oh girl you should prepare yourself for all them people who attack anyone who express the disrespect they feel. ya know its society, who cares hAhA

[@beckyb5273]

guy: a girl can wear glasses just not all the time well are we just supposed to designate tuesdays and thursdays not to be blind

[@benthompson7495]

Becky B contacts

[@sunnymeadows676]

@@benthompson7495 Contacts are expensive though

[@juliagoesfrugal]

Ben Thompson Not everyone can wear contacts, mate.

[@baileecolley3327]

Becky B they said only wear glasses if you actually need them not the fake ones

[@addisonfreeland5741]

Literally made me laugh out loud

[@soobs3rdtoefromtheright]

The guy in the green champion hoodie is the most genuine the other guys ain’t it

[@brennadaniellex]

When they all said "netflix and chill" and he says "I wouldnt know" ); poor dude.

[@nuha.810]

Trueee i agree 💯💯💯

[@juliac6239]

i also feel like he isn't straight but idk

[@nuha.810]

@@juliac6239 i mean we can't assume... So let's not think that

[@hannahkrystyn5947]

fax no printer

[@alicebiella6504]

"it's really not hard to start a conversation" YES BUT PLEASE COLLABORATE

[@bluej3d158]

U kinda right tho

[@sonjas824]

"I think it's cute when a girl can write"😂😂😂

[@naomicarr4462]

The guy in the top right really standing up for shy girls ✊🏼

[@chynnarodriguez928]

Naomi Carr yah wish there were more guys like that😩

[@abby-ic3ov]

guy: starting a conversation is so easy me: ever heard of *social anxiety* ?

[@maritwyss]

Y E S! finally someone who UNDERSTANDS ME!

[@DanielaLopez-zc1dz]

fr

[@allybeek6246]

Same. If it's soooo easy why don't more boys start conversations or ask us out. It goes both ways...

[@hood3352]

In society guys generally start the convo and trust me its really scary and hard for us too. Us guys would love to even that out and have it be more equal.

[@sophiekelly3857]

Exactly I’m anti social

[@3bellam]

My real question is how the hell all these people have so many guy friends. I have like aprox. 0 guy friends, and it's depressing.

[@user-mk6fg6zl3c]

Dw it's not what everyone makes it look like. Boys are huge babies and it's like babysitting half the time 😅

[@elisacolgan4828]

I have more guy friends than girls

[@elisacolgan4828]

And like I act like them

[@abigailgrace4303]

sameeeee

[@Isabella-cm8wr]

Ahh the sweet reminder of why we shoudlnt worry about highschool boys at all, such simple, clueless creatures lmao

[@bluej3d158]

Ain’t gonna lie. You’re not wrong. You could count our collective iq points on 1 hand

[@sw4ggynutz466]

Lmao

[@joeschranz4525]

We are pretty simple creatures

[@naomil9471]

“Girls need to be more confident” *talks about unrealistic body expectations for women*

[@ishredchildreninboxfans754]

Yay we have the same name. Sorry if I annoyed you just a cool fun fact

[@naomil9471]

I shred children in box fans haha, not annoying at all. I’ve never really met another Naomi :)

[@ishredchildreninboxfans754]

@@naomil9471 ok thank goodnesa i got truamatized when i told someone i had their same name and they said "lol i dont care" have a good day

[@irmak3553]

@@ishredchildreninboxfans754 wow thats so rude for someone to say you seem really sweet I'm sorry that happened

[@fluthyhehim66]

exactly. Our society is stupid

[@sheridanwang9764]

That guy who said “I have ocd about snap and have to open it” like same.

[@emilyparsons18]

Sheridan Wang haven’t related to something more haha

[@penelopelucas7942]

Sheridan Wang bruh same I can’t not open lmaoooo

[@gizellejubeili8839]

Sameee

[@ariisaway]

Omg litterally same

[@KetziahTumbles]

Sheridan Wang not what OCD is lol

[@carafryer9965]

Good lord did these boys momma’s ever teach them manners dang

[@Skeatsies]

High school does things to you that not even your “momma” can fix...

[@user-hz9uk7yx1u]

ur saying that cuz their types aint you

[@bgos4727]

​@@user-hz9uk7yx1unah it's just facts bro

[@Rose67237]

How do you impress girls Boys: We don’t need to change anything about ourselves Literally this whole video: Girls trying to figure out how to impress guys

[@AllyPuskar]

She legit reminds me of Rowan Blanchard from Girl Meets World no cap

[@suruj5652]

I thought it was only me

[@carolinec31]

Oh shoot, I see it now

[@lucirose2762]

Now I can’t unsee it lol!!!!!

[@gloria5658]

🚫🧢

[@sophiew4371]

Bruh y is that so true

[@mew3790]

"would you date a girl who wants to wait for marriage?" "what?? no." boy i-

[@sam-ps6wd]

exactly that’s literally for religious reasons for some people

[@Subuzgreatest]

@@sam-ps6wd No it's MORAL REASONS for me. Religion has nothing to do with it.

[@sam-ps6wd]

@Subuzgreatest i said some people not all but you get the point. they should respect other people’s opinions

[@annar220]

I think the redhead in back would

[@charl7346]

For some people they’d rather have their first one to be their last one and marriage is a good way to ensure that

[@tressablomberg7779]

"Starting a conversation is so easy" "Its unattractive when they're not confident" Me: Silently cries in social anxiety

[@THEcoolestRIP]

Just power through anxiety dog, if the aint natural then that aint the one

[@Skeatsies]

Easy for you to say...

[@marlamager4706]

the look that owen gives to abby when he says "I have a crush on this girl" Edit: 3:53 my baddd

[@jacindadelgado4351]

me *watches whole video again to search for this moment*

[@majasrheim7674]

Jacinda Delgado did u find it? I remember it, but not when it was said. And I want to see it again:(

[@kittymoir4599]

“stop dying your hair ladies we want that natural look” has it ever crossed your mind that not everything girls do is to impress guys?

[@fluthyhehim66]

yes

[@fluthyhehim66]

I've read that about 80% of what girls wear is for themselves and 20% for other girls.

[@fluthyhehim66]

I've read that about 80% of what girls wear is for themselves and 20% for other girls.

[@kyraclarke3559]

yeah but if girls are actually taking note from this video then they ARE obviously trying to impress

[@fluthyhehim66]

@@kyraclarke3559 in what ways do you try to impress?

[@ellalocke3569]

“don’t dye your hair” me: *looks down at my faded purple, soon to be dark red, hair*

[@isabellabean1933]

I love hair dye

[@normanreeduslvr]

Omg I have faded purple hair too and I'm gonna dye it dark red next after wtf

[@anoukf9455]

Bruhhh same I dyed my hair it should be dark red turned out purple

[@courtneyanne7053]

“Don’t dye your hair” Me: looks at my cut bangs and half black half blue hair..

[@egdspam6964]

ikr like why should that define u

[@EmDoesArt]

You should ask about what they think about girls with depression/anxiety/etc.

[@majasrheim7674]

I get why, but they’re just gonna get so much hate no matter what thy say

[@uj12678]

that’s so unattractive lol just get serotonin

[@supercoolpossiblythecooles9677]

i mean it is lol i have depression n anxiety it isnt a good thing it is unattractive

[@dd-oe5tu]

6:36 "I have like OCD about that stuff" this kid-

[@dd-oe5tu]

@@Lola-bk4wb YEAH IK AND THEY JUST THINK ITS LIKE BEING ANNOYED AT IMPERFECTIONS

[@emmaolleres5541]

THATS NOT OCD UGHH

[@Skeatsies]

I mean, he’s not exactly wrong. It may not exactly specify as OCD, but it is still very obsessive, and very compulsive, coming from experience, I sometimes physically cannot stand it when I have over a certain amount of notifications, and I used to have to make sure every discord server I was in was completely read before I could move on to anything else, but that stopped after I joined more than, what? 50 servers?

[@dd-oe5tu]

@@Skeatsies it may be obsessive and compulsive but everyone has those symptoms. ocd is much more complex than just "oh i cant stand it when things aren't organized" because then half the population would have ocd. it just doesnt make sense in this context for him to use ocd as a way to portray his "icks" for lack of a better word.

[@Skeatsies]

@@dd-oe5tu I wasn’t saying that they legitimately have ocd, I’m just saying a lot of the stuff he was describing has similarities to the dictionary definition of OCD, so I can see how people substitute the word, plus the fact that there really is not good word to describe what he was explaining.

[@ayeshabahl964]

“girls need to be more confident” but thne one of the unattractive qualities is being confident... and girls r the confusing ones okkk

[@jokesonyoubuddy2526]

what you talkin' about, they said no confidence is unattractive but you can have unconfident moments

[@keighley_404]

If they did say that they meant TOO much confidence is unattractive

[@dina-rf3ol]

I think you’re mistaking confidence with OVERconfidence and cockiness, there’s a big difference.

[@baileybooth7902]

“u can’t b lazy” aight imma head

[@StrayyedAJ]

Bailey Booth you took the words straight out of my mouth

[@ayleeyunnix]

Does sitting in my basement painting all day count as lazy?!?!?

[@angeliegarduno3756]

Back to bed

[@lilys.2651]

“after you tell them you like them it’s over” but like... dating..?

[@dustienelson2179]

Like I’m a shy girl I literally never talk but like when someone talks to me I WILL talk not gonna lie these guys aren’t the nicest boys I have ever met

[@everytay8191]

"is it cute if girls wear glasses" "if they dont wear them all the time" *cries in blindness*

[@mikaeltruelove]

EveryTay me, who has worn glasses full time since age 7: *cries in blindness with you*

[@maya-wd3sx]

EveryTay contacts

[@mikaeltruelove]

Maya Gal fun fact: some of us are so damn blind that contacts literally don’t work properally lmao

[@aightsis5825]

*blurry tears*

[@leeparrish6094]

I have a thing where my eyes are different shapes so I can't wear contacts 😭😭

[@frieda8768]

One guy: “don’t be lazy” Me, who’s been laying in bed all day: ehhhm okayy then edit: thanks for all the likes haha now I don’t feel like I’m the only one lmao

[@ghostly7995]

don't feel guilty!! so have i lmao

[@zoemacdonald5443]

Me: only being lazy because I have nothing to do

[@galacticlavalamp6338]

Tbh do whatever tf you want

[@Verystrongman84]

Frieda 876 same tho

[@kajaaki8422]

tbh I'm lazy but I'm always down to hang and go places..

[@kaync]

“Girls need to pay their part” 100% agree as a girl

[@isabellaross8740]

The boy in the green (in the back) is the only one I’d date he isn’t embarrassed and truthful everyone else wasn’t as open

[@emilybmusic3304]

Facts I was just about to say that. He was the only one that seemed like a genuinly cool guy and not just a 'cool guy!' ya know?

[@parps6dita290]

Same you got to appreciate guys keeping it 💯 with us

[@shyahheremia625]

his name is ben :)

[@ayaabbas2526]

He seems genuine

[@peachvendetta7032]

he seems like a guy i would want to be friends with, he’s honest. legit the level headed one of the group. i like how he’s open and sweet, like even if what he says may offend others, he’s being honest in a way that doesn’t attack the fundamentals of female self esteem

[@urbanremi2659]

girls would be more confident if they didn’t feel pressured to have natural hair, a skinny waist, and perfect nose lmao

[@mynamo12]

urbandolliesAG Yup.

[@ekohw]

You wouldnt feel pressured if you could validate yourself. Humans crave validation from others to make themselves feel better. Sure someone giving you a compliment is nice, but you need to be able to look at yourself and not doubt that YOU like what you see. You'll never be happy if you rely on everyone else opinions about you.

[@saigie3908]

AND to be a specific race

[@leogene7255]

It’s not bad

[@gabbymatheney3958]

exactlyyyyyy

[@emilystanage4611]

“Favorite activity to do with their girl?” Ben: I wouldn’t know 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@yippilish]

“If they’re like not confident that’s a big turn off” Oh I’m sorry that it’s not that easy after years of being told all your imperfections and how ugly you are to except a compliment. Same with society constantly telling us to change ourselves.

[@katieloomis5706]

bro when they said shy girls are unattractive that hurt my heart like sorry i have anxiety it’s not my fault

[@mgrace9542]

Ikr!!

[@account10558]

They didn't necessarily say that but honestly who cares what they say, they come off like they have big egos and want the type of girl who has to act a certain way for them to like her. Like the virgin question kinda disrespectful tbh.

[@Jacob-ic8nb]

Honestly it varies from person to person, personally I know a lot of guys the are into girls that happen to be shy...

[@aru5730]

Aw not every guy thinks that way sweets

[@emilybrown_04]

same

[@elliepearse3145]

“don’t dye your hair we want that natural look” shame we don’t dye our hair for you

[@reddie_spaghetti2712]

Ikr!

[@mimoexists3109]

I'm glad you exist

[@reed4333]

Good cause we don’t like it

[@Paige64388]

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@Shultzchet]

I'm going to use an example of blonde hair because that's what they preferred, if we prefer blonde hair we would still rather have a natural brunette than one who dies her hair blonde.

[@alessiarosselli6239]

Guys: “Have to be natural” “Be smart” “Glasses only if you need them” “Blue eyes” Girls. ”I’ll take anyone” Guys” YOUR TO COMPLICATED” “Blonde hair”

[@sigma959]

We literally just want a dude that respects us, they think we're complicated because they don't respect us

[@svetlanagomes8568]

@@sigma959 True...

[@onyxdemeraude2412]

《Girls: I'll take anyone》? I mean.. It can also be reversed.. I'd say 50/50 of my friends (Boys, obviously. And I'm a boy too) have, well, pretty low standards(Myself included).. Don't get me wrong, I know there's also girls who think that way, but ya.. It's as much on one side as it is on the other, I think. Obviously, this is only my opinion based on what I know 😅 Hope you all have a great day!

[@pikoloksh6195]

Well these aren't strict boundary lines tho, they are malleable

[@connielopezdangelo6617]

When he said “anything with foods good” I Felt that😂😂🤦🏻‍♀️

[@name6818]

I love how there all yelling and she’s just like “yeah, really, oh” lol she so calm.

[@emilyfrancis3933]

Especially Ben. He never stopped.

[@octobervegas814]

them: "be yourself" also them: *telling girls how they should change themselves for boys to like them more*

[@aightsis5825]

i mean they never said to change urself they were stating they personal type

[@user-it7ss8lj9m]

Literally none of them said that

[@benblanc2483]

They were just saying what they prefer

[@benblanc2483]

@@clodu2433 yeah i see what you mean but its not like these guys represent every guys preferences.

[@imperfectninja6291]

JessWorks how is having a preference offensive; everybody has preferences if someone doesn’t fit that preference they don’t fit it that’s it. It’s not telling you to change it’s telling you to find someone else.

[@paulineamanda714]

"Blonde hair blue eyes" Cries as a black person

[@-0-361]

Don’t let the opinions of a few teenage guys put you down, people just sometimes prefer what they’re used to. Everyone is beautiful in their own way and there will always be someone who thinks you’re astounding. Keep that head up gorgeous!

[@chiara9195]

@@-0-361 true!!

[@xoxosalma6303]

they're the ones missing out

[@clarasantiago6442]

Me too

[@paulineamanda714]

@@-0-361 Thank you

[@maggieredmond825]

For all the girls in high school taking this to heart: guys don’t mean shit. I used to try and please every guy that looked my way and it never worked out. The moment you just embrace who u are is when you’ll find the right guy :)

[@julee7730]

Maggie Redmond SO TRUE! If you can’t be your true self around your significant other-then it’s not going to last

[@pandagames8625]

I’m in middle school and I don’t really *need* a guy, I just want someone to cuddle and love I couldn’t get one anyway tho because I’m really ugly and nowhere near confident

[@maddyiliffe751]

Panda Games don’t give ur love to other people until u can give love to urself☺️

[@pandagames8625]

Cool Billy Bill Guess who never gonna be giving anyone love then ✌🏻

[@maddyiliffe751]

Panda Games nah that’s a shit outlook. confidence isn’t about looks it’s about urself...if u gotta bad attitude and give up quickly, then that’s why ur never going to be confident

[@unknownforgood7048]

"why when u like the girl u don't tell her? " "because we know she doesn't like us" TRY ME

[@kristenmckinney3771]

Same!

[@caratea6643]

Haha exactly

[@muhammed_219]

Umm I think u guys aren’t correct. You took this out of context, yes they said this but then they said but then it would just end everything it’s more fun and cute in a relationship when it escalates slowly. I don’t think it’s normal just to be like: boy:hey girl:hey. Boy: I LIKE U That’s kinda weird

[@unknownforgood7048]

@@muhammed_219 and you took this comment too seriously too :(

[@muhammed_219]

@@unknownforgood7048 was it not meant to be?

[@CamilaGarcia-vp4ro]

“If you’re not acting dumb and you just are I guess that’s okay sometimes”

[@claudiae264]

boys scare me even more after this💀

[@Skeatsies]

I would say don’t be, but that would be a lie. Most guys scare me, and that’s coming from a guy...

[@meganfairchild548]

them: “stop dying your hair! we want that natural look” okay has it ever occurred to you that not everything we do is about you and that some of us want to feel more confident about ourselves?

[@leogene7255]

Stop moaning they jus have preferences y u so mad

[@meganfairchild548]

Leo Gene it’s fine for them to have personal preferences but sometimes it’s nice to make someone feel good instead of putting them down for something they could already be insecure about.

[@leogene7255]

Megan Fairchild stop taking so much offense if your that insecure then don’t watch these vids when you know what we prefer you can’t chose what they like

[@zeoceania2765]

Ikr!! I want to dye my hair for myself not for boys.

[@ashbash2892]

@@leogene7255 that is the stupidest thing I've ever read

[@nataliegonzalez1995]

Their answer for everything: “dEPeNdS”🤦🏻‍♀️

[@andyho6504]

Natalie Gonzalez it really does though. most likely said it to not generalize girls lol.

[@ewiciolkowski8811]

everyone’s different so

[@fluthyhehim66]

often, yes.

[@nataliegonzalez1995]

Ik🤣, honestly kinda love them for that I just wish they would expand on that don’t come at me🥺😂

[@kaitoeiscool]

"You have to be Adventures, not lazy" Me: what if am both :0

[@jenee4209]

if they just answered more respectfully...

[@Skeatsies]

What do you expect from hormonal 16 year olds whom half of which are affected by bad breakups/never being in a relationship? Mature responses?

[@mishalkhan4096]

the one with the stussy sweater has some oppppiiinniionnnsss

[@owenflynn3567]

Mishal Khan sorry

[@ev7227]

He cute tho

[@mK-yt9ok]

facts

[@lillytaylor2351]

So cute ❤️

[@mishalkhan4096]

@@owenflynn3567 lmfaoooo

[@val2988]

Abby, how the hell did u get all those boys to film with u?😂

[@haleywrob9063]

Valen Lopez I feel that😂

[@aayahaslam]

probably food

[@victoriagrana9056]

Honestly tho 😂

[@Nikki-pu3se]

Fame lol maybe

[@pablocalisto6963]

they're called friends

[@ashleymcvicker9534]

they need to understand not all girls dye their hair for guys

[@peytonharrell1740]

they didnt say they did they just are stating that its unattractive to them, which is relevant to the video

[@katedickman9409]

you say all of these unrealistic body expectations (which is what causes us to lose confidence and self esteem) while telling us to be confident. i’m getting mixed messages.

[@user-wq6bf4sv2t]

Boys on the front left: annoying Boys on the right: low key mood Other guy: *is there*

[@cadencetriplet1223]

That was my exact thought well watching tho

[@Shultzchet]

The other guy is the silent majority just out of shot

[@casispiller5778]

“it’s not that complicated” *says really complicating stuff*

[@maeghanmalone3607]

That really be facts tho

[@rybachman]

THIS VIDEO WAS SO CHAOTIC 😂 THEY KEPT ON TALKING OVER EACH OTHER AN U WERE SITTING THERE LIKE :)

[@fifii07]

Boys: ok but lady’s be confidant it’s unattractive if your unconfident Also boys: ok so she needs to look like this, act like this, and if she’s like thisss we don’t want her What do you want from uuusssssss :(

[@zoeallen6734]

True. Every gilr is insecure so if they re insecure sometimes you don't want them. This is the diffrence bewteen high school and college. High school buys are just lloking for something to do for fun, college boys are actually for an relationship

[@Supermax2206]

I wouldn’t worry about it too much, they’re just trying to answer the questions plus everybody is different in what the like in a person

[@natalia-uv1hh]

The girl: “So like in snapchat?” the dude: “Yeah just show ur face” ight imma head out

[@emilyanne7134]

Imma “head” out

[@Hi-lv1jc]

Emily Freaking Anne ha. ha

[@zeoceania2765]

@@emilyanne7134😂😂

[@honeyluv287]

@@emilyanne7134 xd

[@monicaa2176]

nataliazh 05 I don’t even use Snapchat anymore😂

[@jasonchen8759]

the two boys in the back look like their whole life has been behind a screen and has never talked to a girl lol

[@Skeatsies]

If we’re being honest, that’s a good majority of high school guys...

[@danigz]

Fr

[@elianelatreille6090]

i love how patient and calm abby was during the video...

[@pinkmash399pinkdonuts9]

“Even in real life, it’s not hard to start a conversation” BISH YOU DONT EVEN KNOW-

[@aduuhmaree]

i get happy nervous around the dude i like💀💀 and i cant start a convo

[@chiflor3295]

Big Father social anxiety boo

[@madilynn_rocky2644]

@Big Father it is tho for some ppl....

[@morladarling3319]

@Big Father that's not how SOCIAL anxiety works. Everyone has anxiety, but social anxiety is different.

[@morladarling3319]

@Big Father Everyone will experience anxiety from time to time. The demands and stress of college life may even make experiencing anxiety more frequent. ... An anxiety disorder, however, involves intense and excessive anxiety, along with other debilitating symptoms. I knew this before I found the right words to explain this. But yes, everyone does. oml you're probably diagnosing yourself as we speak.

[@zakiyaadams5244]

Me: a black girl Them: Blonde hair, blue eyes Me: AIGHT IMMA HEAD OUT

[@henna_w]

Contacts and bleach are the move💀

[@katieturcotte4239]

When your blonde and have blue eyes 😂😂😂😂 me

[@-moonman-8612]

I have a dIsGuStAnG mop on my head and blue green brown and like goldish eyes lmao

[@aptdccvii]

me: an asian girl

[@reda9960]

I'm hispanic...

[@evelyngrizz9946]

At 12:32 when he says "Psalm 4234" I looked it up as Psalm 42:3 and Psalm 41:4 (bc thats how it works) and it says "My tears have been my food day and night. All day long people say to me 'Where is your God?'" and "When I remember what has happened, I tell God all of my troubles. I remember how i used to walk along the crowd of worshipers. I led them to the house of God. We shouted with joy and gave thanks as we went to the holy feast." Just in case you were wondering :)

[@wolowolowolowolowolowolowo2417]

for the 2nd one, I imagined the boys convincing each other to go eat breakfast at the school and cheer