These are the tamest dating stories ever. You should hear some of my friends stories about guys she's dated. Absolutely wild.
@EmuWhispers5 ай бұрын
The trenches 😂😂😂😂😂
@macsasmrx5 ай бұрын
These kinda stories give me life😂😂
@cherrie18_5 ай бұрын
you are so good at storytelling, love this video! similar idea: asmr telling us about random memories from when you were younger?💞
@lizlintonen98465 ай бұрын
this could not be MORE up my alley
@FrancescaRamone5 ай бұрын
When you said "stranger danger" 🤣❤
@Mpilokhumalo8565 ай бұрын
You being single is a 50K puzzle to me. Wish I had a son at this point 🥰🥰🥰🥰 take the break and the deserving man will find you 🤍
@stephenvogt66895 ай бұрын
Thank you for the Date Stories and pure Whispers ❤😊
@mrslischa5 ай бұрын
This was so fun to watch and listen to🤭 I feel like I got to know you a little bit better! I would love to hear more stories if you’re comfortable sharing🙈 the dating scene can be quite interesting🥴
@TiffanyLynTube5 ай бұрын
I know what you mean about not wanting to text too much before the first date however, what changed the dating app game for me was doing phone calls or even FaceTime with them BEFORE the date. It helped us establish if we are even remotely on the same page and no catfishing is going on. Some I even had 3 phone calls with first. If you truly connect well, trust me you would NEVER run out of things to talk about in dates. It saved me so much time and heartbreak. I would marry my current BF from bumble in a heartbeat 💓
@elizabethlearned5 ай бұрын
Dating stories are fun because I have never been on one and at least if/when I get to have one, I know what to look for!
@nickhigh68575 ай бұрын
Love the pure whisper, sooo relaxing thank you 😊
@jayhiggy5 ай бұрын
you are so real for this 😂
@casey1218725 ай бұрын
Finally, getting to bed, and listening to this again….😂 You’re amazing!
@apostolia21244 ай бұрын
"i need a break"🤣🤣oh Sam you're adorable ... and very cool temper, trust me.🥰🥰
@honeyflower61705 ай бұрын
loveddd this video idea & the sound was perfect!!!
@tkermi5 ай бұрын
But there's pretty loud 120 Hz hum constantly on the background.
@RaechsASMR5 ай бұрын
Your ASMR is so calming! 💙
@janessalopezzz5 ай бұрын
i've been crying and upset all day so thank you so much for this video, you just brought me so much peace 🤍
@Moriahg5 ай бұрын
I'm sorry. I hope you have a better day tomorrow.🥺❤️
@janessalopezzz5 ай бұрын
@@Moriahgthank you so much, it means a lot ❤️
@Moriahg5 ай бұрын
@@janessalopezzz You're welcome.🤗
@CarlosP_115 ай бұрын
Hi! I always enjoy your videos and you have a perfect voice for asmr!! Greetings from Mexico
@HannahStanford04115 ай бұрын
I haven’t been on a date yet and I’m excited to go on dates!!
@rebekahremp88612 күн бұрын
The worst ick of online dating is that everyone is obviously chatting up more than one person at a time, maybe making a few different first date plans, that's fine, that's how it goes. But if you slip up and forget which conversation/date plan etc goes with which person, ICK immediately
@MDillonL915 ай бұрын
Laser removal went great thanks for your curiosity
@softasmr5 ай бұрын
Funnyyyy
@MDillonL915 ай бұрын
@@softasmr 😂
@Mishelyo5 ай бұрын
Luna is hearing all the tea 😂 not the hairy back I DIED😂😂😂😂
@hayleighasmr24885 ай бұрын
Being a Patreon was so fun to watch this video bc iykyk😂
@softasmr5 ай бұрын
Hehe
@CritterLover115 ай бұрын
So sweet of you to share your stories Sam 🥰💕 Thank you…
@Oliviap165 ай бұрын
Yeah it’s rough out here. I’ve had really bad experiences on dating apps so I’m terrified of using them again. And I have friends that have met their partners on dating apps so you never know like you said. I’m glad you have been taking precautions and know your worth ❤
@gperez7155 ай бұрын
Sam, I’m curious. What are the age ranges of the guys you’ve gone on dates with?
@Lana4life195 ай бұрын
It really is the trenches it’s so bad omg 😭
@damianedmonds15145 ай бұрын
thank you for the date stories and pure whispers 🙂❤
@beuba59385 ай бұрын
It was a fun video and you were very respectful!
@magalinajarian67565 ай бұрын
Hey fellow trench mate here. It is brutal on the apps. It seems like a full time job after your full time job! Thank you for the laughs and if ever you're in Montreal, you should meet my brother 🤣
@peace28085 ай бұрын
Kind different but amazing as always sam i was interested to watch it and it is cool to hear you talk about these things ❤ and ofcourse i was taking lessons😊
@fizzle065 ай бұрын
"Big football guy ?" "No, not really" your face 😭😭😭
@shelbytaylor46055 ай бұрын
Girl I feel you on these stories!!! I feel like I am you in these stories 😩 some men are so clueless
@JenniferRose235 ай бұрын
I relate. SO HARD. To these stories oh my god thank you for sharing😂 it really do be hard out here but I’m patient hahaha
@Zaythemartian5 ай бұрын
Been a fan of yours for years and have never been this early lol. Good content, thanks for your time.
@Cardinalkid985 ай бұрын
Love this, Sam 😂
@corrynaronhalt25155 ай бұрын
It’s crazy for me to hear dating stories! I’ve been with the same person since I was 20. Fast forward almost 5 years and we’re married with a baby boy on the way. I had zero clue it was that hard out here.
@razali47735 ай бұрын
Oh my gosh you are so lucky
@ShiineASMR5 ай бұрын
🍿 + ✨ (entertainment + tingles )
@unfairweather5 ай бұрын
what lip color are you wearing? loooove it
@clairehoskin76325 ай бұрын
Love these sort of videos and Luna is so cute and you’re beautiful and gorgeous as always Sam. Keep doing what you do.
@Nxbodyknows5 ай бұрын
You’re so pretty omg
@asmrcabbage5 ай бұрын
Honestly I think that guy was right! Even if you would never get one, you really would look good with a tattoo sleeve!
@CritterLover115 ай бұрын
Luna is so adorable 😍 She’s getting so big.
@Dr.Sarcasm5 ай бұрын
Hairy back discussion while eating? Some people have no filter. Still digging the jacket, BTW.
@AtenaaaASMR5 ай бұрын
I loved this 😂 thank u
@iolie61825 ай бұрын
Lovely video❤
@BeautyMonster10005 ай бұрын
Love these! Dating apps are tons of fun, lol! 😂
@thesilentknight45545 ай бұрын
Very interesting story: I was on a date with a girl from an app. Movie and dinner. Normal. Fine experience. I paid everything. We spoke before we went to the restaurant. She told me upfront she didn't feel I was financially "secure" enough. But I was a sweetheart, etc. I didn't show it right away, but I was CRUSHED, hard! Before ordering dinner I had to use the restroom. For a little while I pondered, hating myself thinking, is this all I'm worth? I come out of the restroom, & she sees me & her expression goes pale. I didn't think it was that noticeable. How upset I felt. She kept asking what's going? What's wrong. Til my walls crumble down & I tell her upfront, "I can't do this anymore." We skip dinner, & decide to walk & talk at this park. And, I just let go. I cried, alot. In front of her. And I absolutely opened up as honestly as I could. About past failed dates & how alone I felt. After all that even though I felt stupid, even though I was hurting like hell, she kissed me. And tells me, this is ALL I've been waiting to find. Near 9 months later, & our relationship continues to grow. It's odd. It's different how we got together. But sometimes just being your genuine wholesome self is all a partner wants ❤
@ramonmuniz49504 ай бұрын
That's wholesome man. by the way i have an odd question im 26 years old and a virgin what's your advice to me.
@victorplascencia73395 ай бұрын
BEAUTIFUL
@joerochon40585 ай бұрын
Came for the Scripture reading of Job ❤🔥(I am sure we can all identify with Job in some fashion or another...albeit less awful, hopefully) Left with some fun dating stories. lol Also, I went on a Christian dating app 3 years ago (during the Holidays) and 1 year ago (also during the Holidays... 🤔pattern? 😒) Anyway, I ended up with a couple of long distance friends. Not bad. But not what I was there for. I counseled one through a relationship she ended up with locally (in her home state of Texas... I am in California), and another I stayed in touch with until she got engaged to a cool guy she met locally. At this point, I am convinced that the old fashioned way, as difficult as it is these days because no one has to leave their home anymore, is the best. I will never date someone that I don't already love...as in actual love, not the tingly feely love. That comes later. Anyway, that's my two cents. I am happily single for now, and I love it. I am also convinced that one should find contentment in whatsoever state they find themselves...well, also because Paul wrote that to some ancient church. Only then can we bring that contentment into the life of someone who has also found contentment... Ok. That was my third cent. Sorry✌
@islemoot5 ай бұрын
Don't feel bad for looking at that guy's watch! Doesn't even matter if you only wanted to know the time or wanted to leave. It's your life, your choice. Sorry, not sorry!
@jayne-yd6bl5 ай бұрын
I went on a date nearly 10yrs ago I wasn't the best date he was really shy he said he didn't want a gf and just wanted to hang out casually 6 weeks later I got pregnant fast forward 10yrs we are married our son is almost 9yrs old and we have a 16month old son and a 5 month old son 😊 went from casual to boring married couple 😂❤
@FaithAnswered5 ай бұрын
Im looking at the comments & the girls are saying your stories are still mild meanwhile I’m sitting here shoketh! 😂 I have been on tinder but weirdly every date I went on I ended up dating or seeing them long term but I took a chance on this one guy, 2ish years younger typical college guy vibes but I remember saying hey let me give him a chance I never do. Phew no plans for the date so I ended up navigate to a place I thought would be decent, got criticised for liking sweet wine & not beer (his father owned some distillery) he took 5 min examining my nails because he didn’t believe they were mine, quote “I don’t get why girls like putting on all these fake stuff like that long nails” Got back home knowing I was never doing that again just to see a text telling me he had a great time & when could we do it again. I said sir leave me alone the date was horrible 😂 I received 2 request after that for more dates & even to this day he is waiting & watching for his chance. The dating scene can be comical fr 🤣
@bloominghearts5 ай бұрын
Where’s your jacket from?? Love!!😍
@maryjoburgess38925 ай бұрын
Most of my first dates don't even happen because the guys end up ghosting me. But I have three of note. First one was my very first date after 9 years of a horribly abusive marriage and a couple of years being divorced and after talking for months we finally met up. Apparently he didn't like the look on my face when I saw him. But in my defense he also was not honest about how he looked. And every picture he sent me was just his face. He said I had a look of disgust as I looked him up and down. I didn't. He flirted with everybody but me and before I got home I got the let's just be friends text. Which actually we did end up being friends for years. We aren't anymore when he decided that he should run my life. The second one was after talking for a couple of weeks we met for dinner the day after Christmas and I thought we'd had a fantastic time. Even texted a friend when he went to the bathroom telling her what a good time I was having and how cute he was and how well I thought it was going and then at the end of dinner while our waiter stood at our table he stood up and very loudly so everybody could hear and they all turned to look he said to me I'm not a vain man but I know what I like and this is as far as this is going to go. But hey if you ever need anybody to talk to or to kill some bugs for you let me know. He was in pest control. I think he did that to tell everybody that we weren't together. I have a facial deformity and it was just absolutely humiliating and I ran out in tears. Didn't even say anything to him. The third one I ended up getting roofied. After dinner which he was already eating by the time I arrived to the restaurant he suggested we go to a park by the river and by the time we got there I was throwing up everything was spinning. Thankfully I had my wits about me to text my son who realized something wasn't right and he came and got me and by the time I got home I was hallucinating. If he hadn't come to get me I don't know what would have happened that night.
@thenotoriusg5 ай бұрын
You live in new york?! I dont know where I thought you lived or why 😂 I knew America but I didn't get an NY vibe at all. I'm English so idk haha
@loisparsons45195 ай бұрын
16:00 you live in New York?! as in the state or the city?! how am I only just finding out about this now 😂
@poponicardozo92625 ай бұрын
Gracias por compartir me gusto eres una buena compañera
@SoftlySoundingASMR5 ай бұрын
This was funny 😂❤
@Dani-xh6pw5 ай бұрын
so glad i’m not out there dating! there are some wack guys out there that I’m fortunate enough to not have to go through i got married to my only boyfriend at 22
@champagne.lemonadePAPI5 ай бұрын
Them being in your presence was a blessing enough and Lazer hair removal is crazy to say to somebody on a date 😂 and my dad hates church is definitely a no no thing to say 😂 too somebody God bless you Samantha 👸🏻📱🔉😌
@RJCE420Ай бұрын
My first girlfriend after high school tried to fight one of my friends. We went on a four couple date and she got mad at us for washing off our under 21 stamps. My homie mando told her to "Chill TF out Mom" and she lost her shit. Now that was a bad date, LOL!
@arness24265 ай бұрын
I been single for a minute now after I got out my four year relationship. It was a different world out here.
@ariessasmr5 ай бұрын
i literally just stopped talking to a boy who told me that while he was in ny for a couple days he went to see his gf mind you i met him on tinder and he didn’t tell me until i asked him if he’s actually single so yeah dating apps are the worst
@softasmr5 ай бұрын
The audacity.
@megk26535 ай бұрын
Why do people (guys mostly👀) go on multiple dates or even enter relationships when they have no clue what it is that they want??
@softasmr5 ай бұрын
I ask myself this everyday
@vickyb99185 ай бұрын
I’ve had laser hair removal on my legs. It works. That was a strange thing for the dude to say about getting laser hair removal on his back hair. Gross!
@victoriamovsisyan5 ай бұрын
😂 What a stories 💕
@ashlen87175 ай бұрын
The trenches!!! lol!!! 🙋🏻♀️🙋🏻♀️😂🤣
@PostAlone005 ай бұрын
This is really off topic buuuuut as I feel like you enjoy traveling…It’d be cool for you to visit Texas 🤠🤠
@haley_grace5 ай бұрын
What is your expectation/ boundary when it comes to who pays for a first date/ date in general?? Newly back into the dating scene and I find this hard to navigate for some reason!! 😅
@softasmr5 ай бұрын
I’m an old fashioned gal. Also if he’s specifically asking to take me out, I always appreciate it when they offer to pay
@Arditt15 ай бұрын
@@softasmr you should come to Albania . We never let anyone pay and we also can fight if someone offer to pay before us 😂
@elec22475 ай бұрын
girl if these are the trenches i am in the middle of a minefield
@turner45305 ай бұрын
I went on a date from a site and he said he was 5’9 and I’m 5’6 so I’m like yeah that’s cool… I walked in and he was 5’6 best but he was wearing platform shoes … I was taller then him I felt awkward . Disclaimer just tell the truth , I would have still went but it was a little bit of a shock! The real funny story is he fell asleep watching tv because he worked all day that was my cue to leave hahaha
@mtndewmonsta93765 ай бұрын
Also you deserve the best and I wish you the best. I'm still looking and haven't gotten anywhere😢. Real men need real women like you. 👌🏾🤞🏾🤗
@borregoexpiatorio5 ай бұрын
i can confirm that it is the trenches out here. 😅
@RetroidRelle5 ай бұрын
You actually would look cool as heck with a sleeve lol
@horeamarinescu10164 ай бұрын
Agreed, it is the trenches. Would love an impossible chance of getting to know you xx
@Angeintheworld5 ай бұрын
Luna 🥺🥰
@ZackyASMR5 ай бұрын
Hi soft ❤❤
@NKBB97945 ай бұрын
As a Christian man and a husband, I definitely agree with how you feel on every date you had. Are you pursuing men that have God in their lives? Because obviously, you know that if they’re not on the same page with that, then it’ll never work out.
@adamhodgson41855 ай бұрын
so you cant fall in love unless they believe in the same religion as you ? lmao
@haelolleuc5 ай бұрын
Sam I think you meant stories and not stores in your title
@softasmr5 ай бұрын
lol ty!
@autumnmoonASMR5 ай бұрын
You are so gorgeous! The perfect partner will come when it’s time ❤
@mtndewmonsta93765 ай бұрын
Girl???? 😮😮😮 You've been through some things 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@lyniepennie5 ай бұрын
❤
@Meghan_Elizabeth5 ай бұрын
What’s your lip color?! 😍
@AlexPfeiffer844 ай бұрын
Didn‘t you just had a boyfriend? Who was in your videos? When did you broke up??
@BigPoppa_5 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@mendymyhill24175 ай бұрын
Was the texting guy very busy with his work, or just busy with nothing? Asking for a friend...
@Ljenn_865 ай бұрын
Oh GODDD a back-waxing story while EATING🤮🤣🤣🤣🤣. It should NOT be funny but… 😝
@brandonoliver53045 ай бұрын
I mean I’m single if you want to come back to nashville!
@brandonoliver53045 ай бұрын
* username is bones2173
@thatboyquasi34955 ай бұрын
Imagine fumbling sam… 🙄
@ricolives11665 ай бұрын
Your ex was very lucky
@swingnamiss81305 ай бұрын
Tats are a major red flag! Sleeves especially! Gotta keep it classy!
@ThePathOfLeastResistanc5 ай бұрын
Why are tattoos a red flag and not classy?
@unfairweather5 ай бұрын
untrue
@weaponX145 ай бұрын
yet if the person was famous with money to blow youd be doing the discovery channel dance by the end of the nite. pipe down 🤡
@joshpickup25815 ай бұрын
heaven forbid you should have to pay for a drink. Yikes. Thank God they accepted Apple Pay right
@softasmr5 ай бұрын
Yup!
@bme74914 ай бұрын
holy cow thats irritating
@sperez41895 ай бұрын
She’s been around 😔
@bbloodyangel15 ай бұрын
these are so funny lol. wait til you move below the trenches to jungle warfare🥲. I was asked once if i could wear my hair in a ponytail for a first date. 👍 times are tough out here.