ASMR | Positive Affirmations & Stress Plucking

[@nickcunningham6344]

Last night, I really needed the "you deserve sleep" part. As a uni student with adhd I completely feel that, like all the time. Feeling like I didn't accomplish enough that day and like I really didn't give my best. While simultaneously feeling completely unmotivated to do anything, every day. But even so, I deserve sleep

[@addisoneaker8713]

Damn that’s relatable as hell. I keep reminding myself it will be worth it when we have reached our goal ❤️ Proud of you for doing what you can, doing a little is better than doing nothing!

[@bellac9679]

That is so real .. damnn

[@affagato37]

this is the whole reason i started watching this video because exacley what you described. like completely unmotivated adhd trying to study for a final exam that I failed and they gave me a second chance to redo the exam and I can't find the motivation to study for it 😭

[@nyx7361]

i also have ADHD and am in uni, and something i tell myself is "i did my best given the cards i was dealt" and it really helps me because my best isn't the same as others AND it might not be the same day to day, so i did the best with what i have, aka the cards i was dealt

[@miniwolfii17]

Same here. My first semester at uni with ADHD, and I almost forgot I had it. I’ve been super stressed out wondering why I can’t just bring myself to do this. This video is what I needed

[@julialedra]

I just want to say that I loved the "it doesn't matter if you didn't give your best, you deserve rest" affirmation. Because just like you said, sometimes I know I didn't give my best and those "you did your best" affirmations always sounded like me gaslighting myself. So thank you for this, it was really helpful ❤

[@litlaughlore]

"it is not healthy for you to prepare for the worst case scenario" really kicked my ass. my brain always does this and I'm always waiting for the other shoe to drop. this helps

[@SarahLavenderASMR]

I always have to tell myself this, it’s the reason for so many sleepless nights 😭

[@drjonesey5]

The reason you get car insurance, life insurance, health insurance, carry a legal gun, lock your door, get a security system, create a emergency savings, exercise, Keep your resume up to date, wear a seat belt...the list goes on is to prepare for the worst case scenario. Anyone who thinks that's not healthy is a wack job. What actually is not healthy is living in a state of paranoia and fear assuming the worst will happen. That's not the same as preparing for worst case scenario's. You don't wear a seatbelt because you assume you will crash, you wear it incase you do, and you're prepared if it occurs. I live by hope for the best, prepare for the worst.

[@doesitevenmatter7918]

Tbh I feel better when I prepare for the worst, because it 1. Either will be what you've expected and it won't leave you disappointed 2. Or will be better than what you've expected. It can never be worse.

[@joshsipp1116]

Agreed, being prepared is a good mental state ​@@drjonesey5

[@brandondlindner]

I'm on the same page, wishing all of us relief from whatever may be stressing or keeping your mind from turning off.

[@carmennikhol-asmrmore5314]

The idea that "because you've done your best" affirmations aren't for everyone is so powerful and relevant. Thank you!!! I needed that. There are times when I can't, won't, or don't want to do my best, and it may suck, but it is what it is, and it's okay, and it's temporary. Dare I say, it's human!

[@SarahLavenderASMR]

I’m so glad it resonates with others, I was never able to use those affirmations!! 🥺❤️

[@Victor-tl4dk]

@@SarahLavenderASMR I guess that's why you post so few of them.

[@Its_whats_his_face]

I do my 110% ultimate best to 1/2 ass it, and I've nailed it every day!

[@celestica8474]

But it's always your best, the best that you can do

[@katerinas9103]

Thank you so much for wording this Carmen, you are amazing ❤️

[@willamccartney]

it was a real tough month and right as my heart ached with loneliness you said “you are not alone” and were with me. Thank you Sarah, I hope the new year brings you peace and comfort as you have brought me tonight.

[@SarahLavenderASMR]

🥺 sending you love ❤️

[@reenie_yaz]

I felt this way too! This video has been really a gift 🎁

[@country-jewel]

You’re not alone. I’ve felt that way myself here lately. There’s others here that know that feeling. Love and comfort to you. ❤

[@ip3931]

It never fails to impress me how committed,focused and talented these creators are!

[@jordan-pt2qo]

The video starts at 1:28 💙💙

[@mikaelag5743]

Bless you!!!

[@CosmicAngel16]

THANK

[@marimbles]

I love your barely audible whispering so much-it's perfect! And I love those first two affirmations a lot. I often listen to your background ASMR videos while I'm working, and in a couple of them you use the "Everything will be OK. The world is built on that" affirmation. That always stuck out to me because I always thought that was such a comforting and poignant phrase. I might like "What's yours will find you" even more for the same reason! I'm turning 30 in a few months and have been terrified by that milestone for years because it feels like a deadline or something and I haven't achieved what I want to yet, and that affirmation feels like just what I need to hear. Thanks, Sarah!

[@soupersleepASMR]

You know the EQ is good for ASMR when the “T” and “D” make the exact same sound. They meet each other halfway between voiced and unvoiced. “D” isn’t pitched or adding its own light vowel to the end, and “T” doesn’t sound like a needle in your headphones. Just the perfect combo of present and clean. Oh so satisfying as it hits the ol’ eardrums.

[@matthewthehuman1744]

Thank you, this was so kind of you. Scalable kindness. I almost cried like a few times. So many men, and people in general, go years without hearing one single compliment, encouraging, or kind word, particularly from a pretty girl. This is so needed.

[@aniek4851]

Hey Matthew, just wanted to acknowledge you, we read your comment and connect. We don't always know what to say, but your voice isn't lost into the void.

[@woodman1701]

I’m a guy and give compliments. I get them too. I couldn’t imagine going years without a compliment.

[@Holly-2023]

that candle really calmed me down a lot, you should try a whole candle video or a crackling fire and the affirmations made me feel better

[@Lou_Lay_]

Thank you for your comment at 15:38. There are days I can't allow myself to relax into ASMR, let alone those types of positive affirmations. Thank you so, so much for saying that out loud

[@leahnelson9636]

Going into my senior year of college, whew, it has been the worst 3 years of my life so far and I’m still in the thick of it. Hearing you share your experience of your dark time and that you came out through the end of tunnel was so comforting I appreciate

[@PeePeePrivate]

God same here

[@thetoysofchildhood]

Plucking and cutting ✂️ is always so relaxing for some reason! Here we goooo 😴

[@mikaelarae9341]

I listen to this video every couple of days because not only are you my favorite ASMRtist but you share some beautiful/much needed reminders in this one. Each listen is just as comforting as the last. Thank you!

[@SarahLavenderASMR]

i'm so glad it helps!! 🥺💕

[@KingCharles25]

Honestly, the only time I use affirmations are when I'm tired or feeling under the weather. I'll say, "you're stronger than this," or "do you think Sailor Moon would let this defeat her?" It usually works.

[@graceisabel3612]

LOLL im def going to be using that second one

[@ericotto314]

I made a version with Liam Neeson’s character from Taken now - “Do you think Bryan Mills would let this defeat him?”

[@PsychoticWolfe]

That last line though 😂

[@jamiebaby93]

Hahaha sailor moon would have a good cry and then get back to kicking ass!! So great ❤

[@HittokiriBattousai17]

Here's another attempt of grabbing Miss Lavender's attention so she makes the 3rd part of the Moody Artist Roleplay! Please help me in my endeavour, my ASMR brothers and sisters. Thank you and have a tingly New Year!

[@MichaelBroer]

Yes, but what about more Spanish teaching? Trying to get better at that conjugation. Relaxing voice to teach.

[@SarahLavenderASMR]

Noted!!! Keep an eye out for her soon 😁

[@HittokiriBattousai17]

@@SarahLavenderASMR YESSSSS I love you, Sara

[@vloggergamer6831]

@@SarahLavenderASMRayyyooo a responsive creator

[@DoodooSwaggy]

​@@SarahLavenderASMR Sarah I got leprosy, and my peepee falled off

[@haseogames]

whoever is reading this ❤️🎀 everything is going to be okay. It may not happen now or in a few months or maybe in a few years- but as long as you allow yourself to feel things and move on from things and allow yourself to love others and allow others to love you- it will happen. Things will get easier even if they fail to disappear completely. Goodnight and 😴💖

[@Noidentity-bf2sd]

Both of her old and new videos are soo good!!

[@SarahLavenderASMR]

thank youuuu 🥺💕 !

[@rexewilde]

Grateful I found your channel today, really love your healing style of videos! And I LOVE that you’re not calling it “reiki” because too many ASMRtists call their therapeutic sessions/energy work “reiki” even though they are not reiki practitioners! And I also love getting a similar healing style without the energy work cuz sometimes I need a break but still want the good feels! 😅 thank you beautiful soul, this session was so lovely 🥰✨

[@SarahLavenderASMR]

Thank you!! 🥰 funny enough my video will be an energy cleanse video hahaha I just love them every once in a while 🫶❤️

[@mm42rn42]

This made me feel really relaxed especially amidst such an anxious time. Thank you

[@naturalkimaASMR]

Yesss the whispers are super crispy love

[@SarahLavenderASMR]

💖💖💖

[@markcafebrown2883]

M’s. Lavender can do anything and I’ll be watching. She is who I get the most calming effect from and the only ASMR creator I get warm tingles from. I love her eyes and her expressions. I get more ASMR from visual than audio

[@marthaespitia514]

Thank you for your affirmations! You have no idea how bad I feel but your words help me

[@MK22t]

Whenever I’m having really bad anxiety, I always watch your videos. You’re the only ASMRtist that can calm me down. Thank you for being here 🤍

[@leetuhoasmr]

I'm gonna sleep well tonight, thank you Sarah, you are the first ASMRtist I discovered and still my favourite 😊💤

[@SarahLavenderASMR]

Aw! 🥺💖 thank you!

[@Ksawier2137]

I started to watch affirm asmr to sleep and i feel much much better! 🍀 Thank you and everyone for just being here

[@xo_lexie]

i was super anxious until I watched this. your vibes are positive and sincere. thank you so much for this- words can’t express how much it helped ♥️ you are a blessing

[@SpiderMan24Amazing]

Thank you Sarah! You’re a great person to be reminded of what life is all about!

[@mattmurphy9346]

I'm going through a really hard time separating from a partner of almost 12 years and knowing there's a chance they could choose to be with someone else and our chapter will be over for good. I appreciate this bit of peace of mind. Thank you.

[@3haljordan]

Your advertisements are the only ones that I don't skip on all of KZbin. That should tell you how good you are at making these videos and how much I love your content. Happy New Year Sarah!

[@SarahLavenderASMR]

Aw thank you!! 🥺💖

[@imanni_music]

I am grateful for this video 🙏

[@daisydargan9336]

Just stumbled on this video, Never heard of ASMR before or what it does but my god your voice has calmed my anxious mind right down to nothing. Thank you so much and i cant wait to binge on all your videos and this asmr thing

[@SarahLavenderASMR]

Aw!! I remember when I first discovered asmr and thinking it was so weird but then getting addicted 😝 I’m glad this helped with your anxiety though ♥️

[@WinterGuardNerd]

i watched asmr for the first times as a joke and got tingles THEN i knew i was hooked 😂

[@happysmiles4339]

I would love a whole video with the plucking and cutting (a bit more of the snipping)!

[@Abdirahman767]

Thank you Sarah for being always there for your second family you are truly Amazing person, God bless you 😚🥰🥰🥰

[@ericotto314]

My favorite affirmation: "I am made in the image of God. Therefore, I can do anything."

[@jorgegaytan3012]

Sarah,you have such a beautiful soul, your positive energy is so contagious ,thank u for your dedication, you have become part of our lives, all of your subscribers wanna thank u from the bottom of our hearts,,lots of love...

[@hannahlynn3]

This was so comforting

[@naggy3087]

The only issue I have is that I want to watch your videos but end up falling asleep after 10 minutes already 🤭 great job and thank you so much 👏 ❤ Have a great start into the new year, Sarah 😚

[@itoshirunin]

ive been struggling with insomnia yet the asmr was so good that i didn’t realise when i had fallen asleep the next morning

[@emmalizzotte4119]

For anyone that needs: Goodnightttt

[@AdamFishkin]

Fell asleep from another comfort overdose. Woke up an hour and a half later. Happy new year to my favorite Lavender.

[@EsotericaStudies-4u]

Worse case scenario hardly ever happens, you are right about that. Love your videos!

[@elysianfrequencies]

you’re so prettyy

[@naturalkimaASMR]

Your background is so pretty 🥹

[@SarahLavenderASMR]

Thank you! 😁💖

[@Victor-tl4dk]

37:59 I love the wooden scissors 😊🙂

[@IAMCOACHFLOYD]

Best positive affirmation ASMR experience ever

[@jinxpatrovna707]

The part where you said we might not feel like were doing our best really meant a lot to me i needed to hear it right now thank you

[@naturalkimaASMR]

The promo videos be always lit I love seeing unexpected ones ❤️‍🔥

[@aswimwhitey]

I always come back to this vid for the visual triggers and those scissor snipping sounds! Hearing affirmations on top is also a nice additive!

[@nikkogeyer]

I felt like you were speaking to me directly. This was so helpful

[@uhhidk7892]

affirmations start at 11:57 !!

[@ioanaa179]

Love this video I’m always looking forward to them! Highlight of my day! Would you be able to do a close ear whispering and saying Spanish triggers or a salon spa and makeup role play? Hope you’ve had a lovely Christmas week! ☺️

[@massivematt3113]

I listen to this literally every night (about 2 weeks) as i go to sleep. I’ve yet to finish the entire video before going to sleep. Did your job!

[@floozle702]

The Gold Standard in ASMR right here

[@Madeline2812]

Not this video making me cry 🥺

[@riamikaella2626]

Intro ❤ 1:26

[@Hotwheels5482]

Plucking and face touching are SO tingly ❤

[@123colt]

I had an idea for a video after watching a guy doing hardwood flooring in fast forward. The little scratching and drawing with pencil in fast forward was really tingly. 👍🏻

[@johnhensley9272]

The promotions give me tingles

[@babyhandmgee2353]

This video really helped me today calming my nerves after a scary interaction, love how calming and soothing this is.

[@SarahLavenderASMR]

I’m glad it helped!! ♥️

[@ratro8208]

I actually really love hello fresh I highly recommend the Shepard pie my favorite hands down

[@surgezoom7079]

You're the best Sarah 😌

[@naturalkimaASMR]

I hope you have a great New Year ❤

[@pepperoni__5]

you said who feel defeated and that's exactly how I feel. I appreciate u very much for making this video for making me calm even tho I'm having lunch in my desk and being unemployed atm. I know that everything will be better because is a sad and tense moment not a sad and tense life. I hope u Sarah and everyone that read this have great happy days :)

[@berthasbeauty]

Happy New Year Sarah! You are by far my favorite ASMRist. I am grateful to have found you this year. Your voice keeps my cortisol levels under control😅 Thank you for doing what you do!

[@TavLand]

Fantastic! Have A Happy New Year!

[@SarahLavenderASMR]

Thank you! You too! ♥️

[@chinanmathur1401]

Sooo calm and relaxing 😴🥱

[@thedenverhapa]

One of my favorites is “I am safe and secure. All my needs are met

[@Dom.777_]

I just want to take the time to let you know that everything you do for us is greatly appreciated and that you deserve the biggest hug ever. You’re a life saver❤

[@itszara457]

I would love to have a friend like you You seems so positive and happy person your smile is contagious. Your videos relax me, when you say you are not alone I feel like you are my friend and taking care of me 😀. 💟

[@AYE.CT_]

its gonna be the best year yet baby

[@r_dreamer5462]

16:24 thank you for this

[@breeeeeaaathofthewild]

this was so helpful, thank you so much, you are the best at this. sending all the love and positivity to you 💜💜💜

[@walterc77]

Thank you Sarah. You look great btw.❤️

[@Xbl-matrix]

I’ve been in a lot of pain recently and your videos have helped to take my mind off it thank you

[@laurenj5483]

Hey Sarah! Thank you for the video❤ first of all you are soo beautiful! I have a request! Love this video but wondering if you could do a part 2 of positive affirmations & say the affirmations in 1st person (I like to repeat what I hear) & only keep it mostly to the affirmations vs added insight . Your voice and technique and microphone is soooooo good. You just talking gives me tingles and most people do not. Just a preference request , love you!

[@justinhawsakajaybird]

I could listen to your nails tap the ipad screen for hours 😊😊😊🙏 Thanks so much Sarah 💜

[@SarahLavenderASMR]

i love screen tapping!! 😍 thank you 💜

[@teen1208]

Oh my goodness God. The tapping on the iPad screen was heavenly!

[@I_AM_Jac-117]

When she said, 'you are..' my "96 brain went straight to, "my fire... the one... desire.." haha 4am! -.-

[@paper-qq9pe]

*me casually listening* "It's going to be okay" me:😭🌊🌊🌊🌊

[@haaawwaaaaa]

dark screen!!! hopefully this works, have a good sleep everyone! ❤

[@dresarcade8074]

I fell asleep to this and had an abundance dream. You're the best

[@FF-po2xi]

First tingles in over a year thank youuuuu

[@ArtCoven]

Falling asleep & waking up to “I’m going to grab it here”& “I’m going to grab my scissors” was terrifying 😢 plus I think I heard some other stuff as well

[@rayyysmr]

Side note- that lip color looks so good on you!

[@allisonm13119]

this is super relaxing sarah 🥰 also what lipstick shade are you wearing? it is so gorgeous!!

[@elements970]

I am here with you because I have every single thing you said at the start. SERIOUSLY THANK YOU BEAUTIFUL SOUL 🙏🙏💜💜

[@Michaela2420]

Sarah is the only person I’ve never met and would trust with my life haha literally an angel 🥹🫶🏻

[@viable_option]

Oooh that sound where you grab the surround of the lens as you pluck. Love it!!!

[@isabellw1004]

Great video already and perfect timing for my sleep right now 🥰😊

[@shreyaar]

I love the fact that I was actually beginning to fall asleep but then you said that undertale's your favorite videogame and I immediately jerked wide awake because I was so pleasantly surprised that you're a fellow undertale fan hahaha

[@SarahLavenderASMR]

ITS SUCH A GOOD GAME!!!

[@pgmap]

you’re incredible. thank you 🤍🤍🤍

[@johannaspalding5140]

Thank you Sarah, you are the only reason I can fall asleep while I am weaning off seroquel

[@skewperman2056]

The only advertisements I refuse to skip.

[@nikkibiswal5375]

Thanks Creating a black screen for myself❤

[@richardatha6860]

Hey, I'm not a regular viewer or a fan, which I hope makes this a but more important. Congratulations on being the first person to ever say anything about affirmations that didn't immediately push me away They always just seemed like lies to tell yourself in a mirror "you are beautiful, you did your best, you're fine like you are" They aren't true. I'm not beautiful. I didn't actually do my best, I remember each little shortcut and cheat I took. It's not ok to be who I am right now. But some of the things you said Were true this time, and that's amazing. Great job.

[@kiml9723]

The nails and sweater are giving very Valentines vibes! ❤️🥰 Great color on you!

[@JohnnyL619]

This was just amazing. We need another!! ❤🎉

[@josiahstrachen]

You’re a true artist I love your style thank you!❤❤❤