ASMR Southern Hair Stylist w/*Divided* Attention | Playing w/ Your 💇‍♀️ While Talking to Others

[@AmyKayASMR]

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[@jimmydafishy536]

ok

[@hpgirlglaser]

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[@Hastur-1990]

Hastur approves

[@evelyn-qu5ke]

@@jimmydafishy536 1:55

[@NicolaeHolley]

"Did you eat recently? ... You know what, just get two candied pecans." I get the feeling you are actually familiar with matronly Southern women.

[@crinklyonion1410]

Absolutely

[@craigtucker5579]

I cant get over the fact that she's doing it so naturally, while she is literally talking with herself

[@melly_martini5972]

I've learned most with social anxieties and or some sort of attention disorder(ADHD/ADD), are particularly chatty when left to our own devices(aka our imagination haha) (I include myself in this poll btw), I tend to have great conversations with my hilarious dark humoured self (or fake scenario people 💁😂) Amy however is just amazing at this because her Brian is HUGE and filled with giddy glitter goodness

[@bethrose0]

@@melly_martini5972 lol ✨Brian✨ I know you meant brain :)

[@orion8188]

When I know I will a discussion with someone about a subject I'm aware of, I will talk to myself and prepare a 1h response (no joke)

[@Magnivore519]

Unless she's talking to someone to help her with prompts or topics.

[@chrismunoz7859]

@@melly_martini5972 huge Brian you have there lol

[@DJKuroh]

I love when barbers/stylists do this because I am terrible at casual conversation, but it's so relaxing to listen to them talk while pampering you.

[@bluexsurf]

This really could be a learning experience for you. I’m a very sociable person and love meeting new people. But I know it can be difficult to create conversations with barbers. My dad always says that the barbershop is where everyone comes by to chat, talk about someone, or just hanging out. I used to have this one friend who would come to the barbershop every Saturday and Sunday and hang for hours talking about nonsense and it still was funny. This video really could be a great way to improve on social skills. Lol this reply is random but I have a friend who has unbearable trouble talking to people. You’re not alone

[@seignee]

@@bluexsurf jealous ur parents taught u social skills fr

[@bluexsurf]

@@seignee I think it’s just living with a ton of people and genes. I live with at least 5 other people and they always bring their friends to the house and so I have no choice. My parents do teach us to be nice and have generous manners though.

[@seignee]

@@bluexsurf thats fair thats fair :) u sound happy tho

[@bluexsurf]

@@seignee sure am. And I hope you are too

[@AsherLogan129]

Rude or not rude, Amy always sounds so adorable with a southern accent.🤠❤️

[@jimmydafishy536]

Im not a fan of accents but eh idc

[@ultrabigfella]

@@jimmydafishy536 well, I have bad news for you, everyone has accents..

[@genxer_euphoria]

@@ultrabigfella frfr

[@artgirlgracelyn633]

@UltraBigFella 💀

[@purpleishpanda]

@@jimmydafishy536 I don't recommend you travel then

[@nicinat0r]

Im german and never been to the south of the US but the accent just gives me a warm homely vibe instantly

[@croatiancowboy]

There is quite the large german community down in the more southern parts of texas, you should visit some time! Fredericksburg and New Braunfels are good, a little bit tourist-y places to visit

[@jof6619]

Same from Portugal!

[@Ahikasu]

@@croatiancowboy funny enough, i am german as well and i visited texas in june, to see my best friend. she lives in waco because of college. we went to the dr pepper museum and guess what?? there were these two women who spoke german in a dialect i had never heard before. turns out they were texas germans. and the way they speak my native language really reminds me of the classic texas accent, too.

[@gentlenight777]

i’m from the south of the US and i’m learning german!!

[@paladinmaguireofbos3347]

I was born in the west coast, but raised in the middle east. Been living in the east coast most of my life though. Never been south except for traveling across it.

[@Honey_Comb-vh6by]

This is EXACTLY like what happens when I get my hair done. Like literally the last time I got my hair done there was this sweet old lady that they called Miss Mary which is why I felt so shocked when you said that. the stylist that was doing my hair had a country accent (Which is normal from where I'm from seeing as I have one myself) and the hair stylist are always talking to each other, and you captured the experience exactly.

[@ambabey0330]

as an autistic person that doesn't like being the center of attnention this is literally my favorite asmr video i fall asleep to it almost every night. i just like being able to. listen in and not being the focus

[@zero-braincells]

She actually kind of sounds like my hairdresser when talking with the customers who come really often. That makes this even more comforting. Amazing job!!!

[@ashcarter-]

I was missing the thick accent I usually get from my home town in Texas. I just moved a year ago and I have been missing the hospitable accent I felt all the time. This made me so happy, sounds stupid but I teared up. Love this so much Amy! Thank you!

[@Dirtybongwater.8703]

Oh it’s not stupid, I still cry bc I miss Texas and I moved 7 years ago 🥲 hope you’re doing ok 💙❤️

[@peach_lipgloss]

im not from as deep south, but im from north carolina & all my family down there sound just like her. it makes me realize how much i miss home, all her mannerisms are spot on

[@BigD8404]

@@peach_lipgloss Hi from NC!!!!

[@crystalbernal7328]

moved out of Texas about 8 months ago. definitely miss it too! can't believe she mentioned buckees lol 😆

[@Thepwett1est]

I don’t come from Texas but I’m from Mississippi and I currently living pretty far from there and I also found this being extremely comforting

[@JorisJoestar]

The divided attention is so comforting. I don't need to participate, I'm just happy to be here 😄

[@pixlluv]

i greatly prefer this over the stylist trying to make small talk with me 😭

[@orchididol]

true!! i'm so sad it's not more common but i was so happy to see this video

[@allyhawkins6888]

I always forget she’s the only person in the room. It honestly feels like she’s having a full on conversation with real people and not herself

[@marni1338]

“You know I look young but that’s all the Botox” when I tell you a burst out laughing 😂 amazing video as always Amy!

[@Jose-jh4xb]

Sweet southern woman cutting my hair with divided attention is such a niche and specific sub-genre but you emulate it perfectly! I’ll put this on every night from now on. it’s just so comforting

[@jadetheace]

I’m really excited about this because I have social anxiety and I love when people pay attention to me but also don’t ☺️

[@churro7344]

EXACTLY i lov friendly ppl like this but at the same time i feel so guilty i cant return the attitude 😭

[@MothTheChaotic]

SAMEEE 😭😭😭

[@AlishaDear]

This is the most realistic stylist roleplay I’ve seen. My stylist used to spend half my appointment talking to everyone else in the shop. Which was fine with me because I’m not a huge talker.

[@mariisverysad]

As someone who has a friend who's mom is a stylist and is southern THIS IS SPOT ON their (at least in my case) so friendly and a lil overwhelming with the affection.

[@eiIlenn]

Congrats on the sponsor, love seeing my favorite ASMRtists sponsored 🥳

[@ribbon9187]

I love the divided attention trigger. it’s my favorite thing when you’re listening to someone talk to someone else, like a teacher during class or something. the hairdresser idea was great too because they tend to know all the gossip!

[@Kylie_Anne.]

I find myself coming back to this video over and over again and I have no clue why! I’m from Texas though so maybe it’s the accents that are so comforting 💞

[@crackerjackson]

This is one of my all time favorite ASMR videos, and I'm tickled that someone else keeps keeps coming back to it, too. ❤

[@strawberryfrog.illustrations]

“She’s goin to Bucees you want anything?” That’s the most southern form of love and hospitality

[@hauntedmushroomsasmr7716]

Having you do this character with “divided attention” with a photography session sounds AMAZING!!!! ❤️

[@Mombie4]

I'm loving these southern ones. We need a whole series of them. Too perfect and so tingly!

[@bread5938]

those types of southern women are always the nicest, i love this video so much, i literally couldn’t help but to go “eeeeee” this is my favorite video you made edit:Ty you for the likes, and oh my god she actually hearted my comment

[@roxxxydubois]

No theyre not, you just think they are

[@himitsychan]

the southern accent is so strangely relaxing to me on Amy, and it was really sad that the only roleplay with it was rude, so I'm really happy about this one!! Also why does the gossip about Angela and her husband sound like that same story arc in The Office💀

[@wanderingwallflower5126]

I think it’s part of the lore…

[@Unknown-mk2wq]

Angela was the cousin, Angela's coworker was the B with the gay husband

[@rainn1738]

@@Unknown-mk2wq the rude southern woman from the other video?

[@sydliminal]

the _second_ I heard "candied pecans," I knew this was gonna be good, lol. I'm more familiar w the slow georgia drawl than the texas southern accent, but that's one thing in common. they're a real workout to make, too when they start to thicken and you gotta stir them to keep them from sticking/burning to the bottom of the pan!

[@rnlrogers3769]

i honestly can't understand how amy isn't the favorite asmrist of all the asmr community seriously it should be a universal thing 🧍🏽‍♀️☝🏾

[@boioioiiioioing]

EXACTLYYY 😍😍😍

[@nattryyann]

I mean everyone has different asmr preferences, but she is definitely tied with another asmrtist as my fave 🥰🥰

[@bugglemagnum6213]

@@nattryyann she used to be tied to goodnight moon for me but theres just something about how nice amy is I think she might be pulling ahead just a hair

[@amonrawya3064]

​@@bugglemagnum6213 I feel like Amy also interacts with her subscribers a lot more, too. I love Goodnight Moon to death, but over the past few years her connection to the community has gotten thinner. (Just my opinion, I might just be too used to small channels).

[@bambisbluebell]

The talking on the phone is officially my new favorite trigger, it makes the whispering sound so natural

[@SilverGlows]

I swear that accent is so well done, and the speech patterns, cause I was getting deja vu listening to this! I have extended family that sounds exactly like this.

[@camhotaf7238]

3:29 as a girl from the south who is also always on the road the Buc-ee’s is so real I love stopping down there during road trips

[@courtneygooris]

As a woman who lives in Texas, this is pretty accurate LOL. This video was also so funny!! Thanks Amy! 😊

[@friedrice4015]

This whole divided attention thing is so good but it's also so hard to find!!!

[@ashleesouthern691]

This legit reminds me of going to the salon with my grandma, they all talk to each other like this; so friendly and warm. Truly loved this; well done! 🥰

[@marabellejudd8904]

when i tell you i have never been so satisfied and relaxed. as a person with major social anxiety i always get kinda stressed with personal attention and feeling like i have to talk and be social outside of my comfort zone. this was amazing! i’ve also been super stressed lately with starting highschool and haven’t been getting much sleep. this was a saving grace and so needed. thank you amy🤍

[@KatieOrrett]

The “I’m gonna be BAAAAAAD” sent me-my MIL is from MS and says it that exact way

[@MrFISHAFERISHAROO]

Southerner who can confirm this is some accurate southern tea spilling and hair salon talk. Excellent work 👏

[@nothanksimnot]

This gave me the best of tingles and I love the roleplay.

[@0kieD0kiee]

“You don’t want anything?….ok just get like two candy pecans” such a southern tradition to make sure everybody is full fed regardless of if they know they’re hungry or not 😂 this is giving me major southernsoundsasmr vibes!

[@elevenelevens]

it's been about 6 months since uploading and as our hairdresser said, we gotta get a trim every 6 months or so! i'd love for her to make a comeback, this is definitely one of my favorite videos and i watch it all the time. the divided attention + southern accent is so comforting

[@bluedayyy]

it is INSANE how natural this is 😭

[@_._valrose_._3474]

As a person who can’t make any conversation with anyone while getting my hair done I adore this-

[@itsameashaley]

So maybe TMI, but my old hair stylist passed away suddenly a couple of years ago. It was so sad. She did my hair along with my mom and sister's for about 10 years, and even did my hair for my wedding. She had the same energy as this character of taking care of everyone and just being such a bubbly person with everyone who walked in. I remember she once did her priest's hair while my color was setting, and she never charged him. She became my friend, and I miss her a lot. But thanks for bringing her energy Amy!

[@matildarowan7227]

This was literally so wholesome and relaxing. You must be such a kind soul as you nail that gentle, kind positive regard every time!

[@churro7344]

why do i lov this so much 😭 like her conversations and everything feel so accurate and real to me im genuinely smiling thru the whole thing

[@churro7344]

she feels like the type of person i’d absolutely lov being around but also feel so guilty im too awkward to return the friendliness

[@churro7344]

“gee aye why” 😭

[@sailorchiaki]

Can we have a follow up appointment for this one? I love this character and the welcoming friendliness of it 🥺 I also love hearing the gossip 👀

[@ItsKeyboardCat]

I SECOND THIS ✍️

[@dramabelle1]

Wait you got sponsored by Briogeo?! Amazing! I love their curl line! So glad your getting the sponsorships that you deserve!

[@LegendOfKellda]

Please make another one of these divided attention with the southern accent… I’ve watched this video so many times I love it 😭😭

[@Allanime1221]

Oh my gosh Amy i loved this so much, the hairdresser character gives off such warm vibes and I genuinely adored the attention/lack of attention we got from her such a tingly video as well like the texting noises are so tingly and the up close ear to ear whispering was next level

[@digiparkz]

being from texas this put a big smile on my face!! i love your southern accent and the diet coke and buccees talk had me laughing in the best way 🥰 i hope we see this character again soon!!

[@rabbitmoonrise]

This is perfect. The divided attention while you perform the personal care tasks just makes me melt after being comforted by this accent. Would love to tune into more content like it. You are so talented 💖

[@roadkillr2]

bro.. I literally do not have the words to describe how accurate she is. good job!!

[@amampathak]

the interactions with "other" people really adds to the atmosphere!

[@Phrancieee]

Divided attention always makes me so tingly because it reminds me of being a kid and sitting while my mom brushed/braided my hair and talked to other adults in the room.

[@falstad7711]

When you apologized for your language it broke me lmao, that whole story was so good I wonder if it was improv or not.

[@25RoseAshley]

This is one of the best ASMR videos I have ever listened to. I'm surprised it doesn't have over a million views, it really deserves that and more. You play this character so organically---I would love to see her again one day !!

[@cwin101]

Your southern accent makes you sound just like my therapist. It’s oddly even more comforting.😂

[@Akiko7919]

This makes me so happy, to hear that someone who does asmr has a southern accent! I love it when people have certain accents, and decide to do asmr with it! Just brings me so much joy!

[@purpleishpanda]

she's faking the accent, but she's doing a damn good job

[@supersingalong1]

I genuinely LOVE the divided attention in this. It's so nice and low stress.

[@rubylovesbooks]

this one and the bridgerton seamstress are my top 2 favourite asmr videos of all time, comfort videos i always come back to thanks Amy Kay! would love more content of those two characters!!

[@IAmAnonymous2002]

I'm from Texas and this pretty accurate. I've got a cousin with the same accent. And BUC-EES??!! That takes the cake.

[@CalebBASMR]

I can’t believe you made a full video with my favourite trigger 😭❤️ Thank you it’s seriously underrated

[@shimmerback]

It's comforting but also terrifying just how accurate this is. This brings back a lot of feels from growing up in the heart of Georgia.

[@shimmerback]

@@Emma_Mae_ Family holidays, Thanksgiving and Christmas food, being outside with my brothers, stuff like that.

[@bugglemagnum6213]

ive never felt more cared for in my entire life than when you got an extra candied pecan because you wanted me to try it 😩

[@elainimiranda]

A year later and I still love this one. The accent is perfect and so cozy and caring

[@ebonylass7272]

As a southerner, I can say that you had the perfect southern accent. It wasn't cartoonist or anything. Great job.😊😊❤️❤️

[@cathybrokeit12]

Man I don't know what it is about the naturalistic vibes of this one but the tingles were excellent!!

[@robind5962]

I love this accent it’s so comforting like she sounds so nice no matter what she says hsjsbdsj

[@leannaabraham4481]

She's just so good at these roleplays , it's amazing ❤️

[@idiosyncraticessence]

wow this divided attention trigger is exactly what i’d been looking for in asmr and I had no idea until I saw this thank you! love it sm

[@hailybillig1589]

I love your videos! You should do more of the personal assistant series, but with the divided attention! You’re such a good ASMRtist and you’re my favorite creator! I love you

[@Lily-wn6up]

Thank you so much for this, it’s my new favorite asmr video, you are so comforting, I have frequent nightmares and am sometimes afraid to fall asleep and your videos make me feel so safe ❤️

[@nunbeam]

YES FINALLY I'VE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS TRIGGER TO CATCH ON!

[@ImAMischief]

Bro, candied pecans are actually so good. Also this character reminds me immensely of my "aunt".

[@dawn2697]

I don't usually get tingles easily but this gave me a bunch down my neck and the southern accent is so relaxing to me for no reason lol ❤️

[@elly8211]

The Bucees name drop 😂 the ultimate southern lady here

[@leechilton7684]

i love the accent. these types of women are always so funny and sweet to you. they have some crazy stories and they have some of the most contagious laughs in the world. these southern women are gifts from above

[@ainsleys314]

cannot tell you how much this means to me and how comforting this was, thank you !

[@Tells.]

OMG!!! YOU WERE SO GOOD AT SPEAK TO ‘YOURSELF’ 😍😍🤩💕 I loved loved loved this video, your accent was so much fun!!! 💕You have a major talent!! You made the conversations flow so well! ✨Thank you!!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@marrymetaylor]

I’ve watched this video everyday since it came out😭

[@ClairDeLume]

One of my favorite ASMR videos ever!! I love the fact that this feels so familiar to me, (since I grew up in the south) so its very comforting :)

[@ebugsme1219]

i was writing while listening to this, so i wasn’t really paying attention, and the one thing i manage to hear while typing is “sometimes i just wonder, what would jesus do if he had a deadbeat boyfriend”. comedy gold, thank you so much, 10/10.

[@livvstrilogy]

as a girl who comes from a southern family, your accent is spot on.

[@honeychanel2973]

This is so comforting🥹 maybe it’s because I’m from the South, but I’ve always felt so cozy around southern women that are so caring it’s almost mother-like.

[@quixtangle]

I love the divided attention! Personal attention always gets me, but there's something so much more calming in real life about someone who isn't laser-focused on me, and this mimics that perfectly.

[@alyssamcfarland4747]

Girl I am so excited you nailed the Texas sound, the motherly southern mom, love the Buckees mention! Took me back! I would die for her!

[@elebonnypan]

I'm so happy I was literally thinking the other day that the part from your last video where the assistant talks on the phone was soo tingly! And this captures that energy too

[@theweirdfaucet8854]

i love the idea of different accents! You do it so well, I would love to see more videos with this accent

[@Paige_bloop]

15:44 - love the little Easter egg to the prev southern video 😂❤

[@kmjc1213]

If I weren't wearing my glasses I would've sworn I was watching a SouthernSounds ASMR video! That accent is awesome.

[@CookingWithCatie]

As a girl from Tennessee the accent is spot on! You portrayed the accent so accurately ! 🌈🌈✨️✨️

[@isabellp.5730]

fr this is exactly how my grandma in Clarksville and my family friends down there sound. I live in WA now but I was born in Nashville and this is so spot on! Ugh, making me homesick for some humidity, thunderstorms, and fried green tomatoes.

[@CookingWithCatie]

@@isabellp.5730 yeah i would miss the fried chicken the most and the green bean casserole and the homemade dressing , my grandfather didn't like to go over to my great grandmother on my grandmother's side's house cause she was from up north and he didn't like how she made her dressing 🤣🤣🤣

[@isabellp.5730]

@@CookingWithCatie uGH green bean casserole 😫🥰 I may just have to make some now

[@MadeOfConfusion]

​@Isabell P. I'm going from WA to TN in the near future, can I just take some stuff from here and trade you back whatever you want- 😂

[@caffechaz]

This character is definitely my favorite... I am both triggered *and* tingled by the voice/scenarios and *I am here for it!* Thank you, Amy! 🧡

[@isabellp.5730]

the “I just want to make sure my clients are fed” is the MOST accurate part of this video. my southern grandma would sooner faint than leave ANYONE without “asking” if they want anything to drink or eat and running down an entire menu off the top of her head. the answer is always “yes i would love some, thank you!” resistance is futile 😂 gods I love her, ms allyne

[@freshlypickedmint]

amy i’m curious about the process for recording these! do you have a script or even just a general outline, or is it totally improvised?

[@Mymy-nw9zg]

I love you 💕❤️ and

[@rafaeljoestar224]

Gosh. Just finished work and classes for the day and I needed something to have in the background for homework. If even the ad it’s tingly, can’t wait for the video itself.

[@parkerwilliams3843]

I was so ready for her to say, “bless your heart” Because that was a phrase, I remember, so vividly from living in Georgia. You really got the accent going on. Like when you said,” haIeR” instead of “hair”. Love your work, girl 💅💅

[@worm7899]

This is legit my favorite trigger! I am so happy! Thanks so much for the amazing video!!!

[@LEYSV1B3]

Omg I'm only 10mins in and already feeling so many tingles and relaxed Tysm Amy 😍❤️

[@canunot8586]

I love that others have this trigger too!! I find it so relaxing 🥺

[@pbvibes6789]

I keep coming back to this one, I LOVE it😚

[@Darksphere101]

You even nailed the facial expressions! Honestly I wouldn't be surprised if I saw you in a movie someday.