"Are you somewhere you feel safe?" *looks around classroom and classmates* "...no."
@fivnawk88737 жыл бұрын
Hope Valentine ok, that's good
@roserose46037 жыл бұрын
Whole bunch of snakes
@Sad_nuggie6 жыл бұрын
**classmates look at you and stare** **teacher stares*** **you are red as a tomato** **teacher asks** “Why you so red?” **you panic** “...uhhhh...... I... ummmm.....” **without thinking you blurt an answer** “Cause I farted and it stinks and I hope nobody heard or smelt it” **you sink into the endless pit below you, curl up and die alone**
@Heartsforcopia6 жыл бұрын
Maddy the Squirtle Me
@MayMagnolia066 жыл бұрын
Hope Valentine *THATS A TITLE*
@justnya76167 жыл бұрын
Cardlin: Yes I'm crying with you...because your pain is my pain.. Me: Oh my gosh, Cardlin please d-don't cry! I-If you cry, t-then I'll c..c..cry.. *starts crying*
@kaitlynlancaster46554 жыл бұрын
Literally, though it always makes me cry harder
@togafletcher77364 жыл бұрын
Omg same
@sophiamacgregor20114 жыл бұрын
I'm crying reading this comment XD 😭
@canofsodapop94744 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness I know same!
@enab53523 жыл бұрын
yall so cringy oh my god
@CardlinAudio7 жыл бұрын
Huge credit to the very brave J for breaching such a sensitive topic in such a powerful, helpful way.
@arimartiyeeedgymcmychemica74637 жыл бұрын
CardlinAudio Thank you for this. I don't cut anymore but I wish that I had something like this when I was cutting or anyone to tell me that I was loved. I didn't talk to my parents about it at all and someone that I considered my best friend for nothing to help me. A really good friend of mine tried to make me feel better but he just didn't know what to do and he shouldn't need to and I really hate that I put him threw that . There was a lot going on at the time and I was at my breaking point and I didn't really want anyone else to know. I was too good at hiding my feelings and cuts and if I hadn't slipped up and someone hadn't saw them I think I might be still cutting now. I never really got any professional help but now I have people around me that will tell me that they love me and the good they see on me when I only see the bad . My current best friend is my rock, my shoulder to cry on and someone to help me drown out my demons when they get to loud. I still have my insecurities but now I don't think about them as much as a used to ~ love you cardibear!😘 Arianna
@macki345497 жыл бұрын
CardlinAudio I am in class and I am literally choked up. Thank you and thank you J.
@chantale-michelle10847 жыл бұрын
CardlinAudio I'm the 20th like of this comment, soo...can I have an huge cup of Strawberry Ice cream now? I need it!
@thea71607 жыл бұрын
👍👍👍❤
@repressed_yeeemo94727 жыл бұрын
CardlinAudio why'd you have to make m cry today....god dammit
@jessicamungin98137 жыл бұрын
I'm 5 months clean from cutting😊💕
@xostrawberry217 жыл бұрын
Jessica Mungin awesome job! Keep it up! Keep fighting the negative voices
@SCREAMshhh7 жыл бұрын
Jessica Mungin -- Congratulations. 💙 You're strong, even when it's easier to think the opposite. You're brave; thank you for taking care of yourself! If you ever need to talk... 🤗
@SCREAMshhh7 жыл бұрын
xostrawberry21 -- You're awesome too. ✊
@ss-on3ll7 жыл бұрын
Jessica Mungin congrats :) keep on going
@selinamarie7077 жыл бұрын
Jessica Mungin congratulations! I'm so proud of you even though I don't know you! You're absolutely awesome for doing that! Keep going!
@Shendell6 жыл бұрын
Cardlin: “Are you some place you feel safe?” Me: “No” Cardlin: “Okey, that’s good” 🙃
@RN_STRM6 жыл бұрын
*When the video doesn't go the way you wanted it to go.*
@eddiemunson7482 жыл бұрын
@@RN_STRM fr 😂😂
@osnapitzfx47 жыл бұрын
Not sure who'd actually care or read this, but I've been up all night & now writing this at 5 in the morning because I can't sleep. I'm feeling so morbid and crappy again. I wish I found this video sooner because I relapsed again after being clean for 2 weeks. Yeah, not the best record. To Cardlin, I can't tell you how much this is helping me right now, that as I'm typing this I'm fighting through the tears and literally shaking. We may be strangers, but through the power of your oh so gentle and loving voice and tone, you've made me feel cared for than any other person ever did about my self harm. I don't know if you'll ever read this but you're helping so, so many people and making them feel so loved and cared for. Even though it was a written script (thank you to the writer, btw), you read it so beautifully. With every word you spoke, the emotions felt made it so realistic as if you were actually speaking to us & reaching out to us. Oh I could go on all day about it, but I just really needed to say now that I love you so much for using your platform to help us. I can't thank you enough
@slicerjohn28016 жыл бұрын
osnapitzfx please. please don't hurt yourself. I may not even know you. Just please. please don't hurt yourself. we all love you. you. are. beautiful. so very beautiful.
@savannahwtge5 жыл бұрын
osnapitzfx well done! I’m 2 days but proud! Not amazing but I’m happy cause it was so hard
@jamielynn97074 жыл бұрын
I hope you are doing well. Please keep your head up. We love YOU!
@rityasiwigita7 жыл бұрын
i've been clean for almost three years now and listening to this took me back to those years....where i wish i had someone to talk me out of it like this. im crying so hard right now, thank you so much Cardlin (and the writer!) for this comforting audio, i believe this audio will help your listeners who are going through this struggle. and for those who are going through this, pls don't hurt yourself we love you and we can keep going, one day at a time❤️
@JustCallMeEmily7 жыл бұрын
At least you didn't burn yourself... It hurts like hell... cutting doesn't always... I'm just doing it for an experiment(cutting) because I never really knew it felt like cutting rubber...
@benrea85437 жыл бұрын
Cardlin :wht r u doing rn? Me : studying Cardlin : okay, well let's get it away from you Me : Push my books away Cardlin : Is there any drawer tht u can put it in? Me : Oh god how am i suppose to study now
@reidwill66047 жыл бұрын
RIp
@marsbar63994 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha
@Yournewothermother4 жыл бұрын
Don't then the video speaks for itself
@illusionboy18127 жыл бұрын
Cardlin is like the amazing boyfriend I'll never have
@bellakiller58804 жыл бұрын
He really is thouuu like why is it most guys dont care about the whole girlfriend wanting to cut themselves or even die like do you even love your girl????
@togafletcher77364 жыл бұрын
IllusionBoy 181 cardlin is the only boyfriend I’ve ever had
@_babyfu15154 жыл бұрын
Yap.....
@BeboShenanigans3 жыл бұрын
I hope all of us will get an amazing bf like cardlin someday!
@MOTHMAN125052 жыл бұрын
@@bellakiller5880 JUST CALLED MY BOYFRIEND OUT LOL but they kinda really do!
@beckywilliams30197 жыл бұрын
😢😢😢 Why can't real people do this? They always give tough time. 😓 Thank you for making so beautiful and pretty soothing video. Bless you dear. ❤❤
@Lia-fy7ec7 жыл бұрын
Cardlin:How long is it been since the last time you hurt yourself. Me:Like 2 Minutes Ago Cardlin:wow that's great Me:dafuq
@souaddoot37226 жыл бұрын
same lmao
@ThatGuyKai556 жыл бұрын
Lia every minute counts😁
@softestvine6 жыл бұрын
I dont think its appropiate to make self harm jokes in this situation, if you really are self harming its best if you get help, trust me it really helps
@-.-76756 жыл бұрын
Lia Same
@fidgetypenguin81536 жыл бұрын
My thoughts too. A minute or two after harming felt silly. Lol. But the breathing excercises helped, and his calming voice. I feel a bit better.
@sparkletard91057 жыл бұрын
Cardlin, I was at school today and a bunch of girls came over to me and started bullying me. It hurt... then they started physically hurting me.... that hurt more.... I got home and the first thing i did was lock myself in my room. I had my phone.... I looked over at a glass cup i had and threw it on the floor. I went to pick some up bit i stopped. My phone went off and it was this notification to say u posted.... you have helped me and so many others. Thank you! Love from Katelyn! 💙
@SCREAMshhh7 жыл бұрын
Sparkle Tard -- Woo, that gave me goosebumps. I'm so glad you breached the darkness. 💙
@sparkletard91057 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@Grace-xr8bu6 жыл бұрын
People who bully are just jealous. You're beautiful, don't ever think you aren't. You matter. Stay strong 💕
@crunchymoon34106 жыл бұрын
Yeah.. that sounds a little too fake.
@trisanimates97526 жыл бұрын
I'm glad. Self harm is a mental jail.
@lcyeln7 жыл бұрын
i've been self harming for nearly a decade so wish me luck with this one! this is going to be such a struggle to hear, but whatever you say, i probably need to hear it. x
@crabbycabby39397 жыл бұрын
I have the same problem, girly. We'll get through it 😊
@slicerjohn28016 жыл бұрын
I was six months clean then I figured out my senior friend was leaving and that just sent me down the spiral
@mia_png4164 жыл бұрын
I was 8 weeks clean, yeah i know it's nog the best record but its my personal best and my godsister left me on my grad to high school and it sent me straight back down that wretched spiral of shitty hell again but hearing this...made me feel safer so thankyou Cardlin xoxo~Mia
@1mgr4y4 жыл бұрын
Hey, it’s been 2 years... Are you okay? How’s life going? 🙂💗
@lcyeln4 жыл бұрын
Eijirou Kirishima hello there! i had a minor self harm relapse yesterday (lockdown has been very tough!) but ultimately i’m in such a better place- before that, i was nearly a whole year clean of self harm, i lost nearly 70lb in a healthy way, met the love of my life and got engaged, moved out of my house, found a job and am doing so so much better. thank you for asking! i hope you’re doing amazing!!! x
@Quackiswack4 жыл бұрын
"are you somewhere you feel safe?" *looks at my door that doesn't lock* no- "okay that's good-"
@levi-rentaylor13297 жыл бұрын
This is scary good timing, holy crap. I've been really depressed for the past few days >.
@trashieannie17907 жыл бұрын
Oml same, but on a side note, I hope you feel better and that every day that goes by everything gets better :)
@levi-rentaylor13297 жыл бұрын
Thanks! I hope the same for you too.
@bitsnbobs66347 жыл бұрын
Levi-Ren Taylor *chucks flowers* BE HAPPY NOWWWWWWWW
@levi-rentaylor13297 жыл бұрын
Haha thank you!
@ritateixeira977 жыл бұрын
Levi-Ren Taylor hey, you don't know me, but i just wanted to let you know that your awesome and you can make through anything😊💪
@jazzypup21364 жыл бұрын
"what are you doing right now?" me: drinking iced coffee "ok lets put that away from you. put it in a drawer." me: "w h a t?" honestly tho this audio is comforting and helpful.
@cherrie32687 жыл бұрын
i *really* love cardlin hes my hero
@v4mpirie7 жыл бұрын
kim karhoshian karHOSHIan omfg ily
@Sad_nuggie6 жыл бұрын
*WARNING: THIS COMMENT MAY CONTAIN AUSSIE BEN REFERENCES* Almost better than BATMAN 😏
@oliviayoumans40514 жыл бұрын
he my hero too cherrie
@shadena80797 жыл бұрын
I'm not a self harmer but i just wanna hear your voice I'm obsessed with it
@tashibalampkin85557 жыл бұрын
Same
@Sad_nuggie7 жыл бұрын
Thought this said hammer and may or may not have laughed at midnight. I live with mom, dad, 3 younger sisters (under 11), and pop. God help me.
@ggcookie127 жыл бұрын
Same.
@azriel59436 жыл бұрын
“It makes me sad baby” Goddamn I broke down in tears right then and there.
@macki345497 жыл бұрын
me: CardlinAudio posted! Maybe I'll check it out later- **sees topic** me: sigN ME THE FUCK UP **clicks**
@cinnamonroll71506 жыл бұрын
How did you manage to get every point when I started doing something, panic breathing, not working, crying just everything. And thank you for making this long. My head hasn’t stopped for the last 8 hours trying to get me to. I’m gonna have this on repeat, thank you.
@c63977 жыл бұрын
Your audios are based about the most different mental illnesses. I love that ❤
@noram45827 жыл бұрын
If u want to cut u can cut ur hair, if u wanna die u Can dye it too! Red and green and purple, blue. Do do do I 💖 you!
@slicerjohn28016 жыл бұрын
Nora McNamara This made me smile
@canofsodapop94744 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness everyone need to hear this!
@ellie-uj6cj4 жыл бұрын
i’m bald and blonde however ion feel better 😸😞
@SSSORENSWORLD4 жыл бұрын
Awwww thanks
@batteredbat75003 жыл бұрын
Tbh I just cut my hair an dyed it to distract myself from ya know.... That.
@elizalynnАй бұрын
I'm glad that even in such a dark moment, there's something like this to help pull people through
@CardlinAudioАй бұрын
I really hope it helps. =]
@Rafaela7237 жыл бұрын
I am 23 years old, and i started to cut myself when i was 14. I tried very hard to stop this, but i couldn't, so i live my life dealing everyday with this serious issue. But i am very happy to listen some kind audio about this topic. Thank you. When i think to cut, i listen asmr audios to make me feel better. sometimes it doesnt work, but today i did not cut myself. so thank you, again. love from an old lady in a young body. xoxo
@itsjustjacie81504 жыл бұрын
Hai i am 20 I have been doing this since 13 and I want you to know that you are more than your scars and you are not alone. Your story will impact someone one day. So stick around for it The light inside of me loves the light inside of you 🌼✨ my snap chat : fkthisisnotfb
@kaylasettle4467 жыл бұрын
I really wish I would have found this a few hours ago.... 5 months down the drain and back at square one. I missed too many therapy sessions and I stopped and the 5 months just passed and I really wanted to tell my therapist, and maybe make him proud, but, I guess I have to start back and square one. Thank you Cardlin....... thank you for being there (even if it’s jut your voice) even when i can’t even be there for myself....
@MayMagnolia066 жыл бұрын
"Are you somewhere you feel safe?" *Depressed Me: No* "Well thats good!" *Depressed me: *sigh**
@andrielisilien7 жыл бұрын
Thank you... I have been using the rubber band technique today and needed to hear these encouraging words.
@katsukibakugou35454 жыл бұрын
I’m almost a year clean! I went through a really tough time stopping and I had been cutting for about 10 months until I was caught. Eventually my friends helped me take my life back and I’ve been getting a lot better. A few times I’ve tried to cut again but I have found that I’ve been making a habit by calling my best friend and telling her. I am so great-full for all my friends help to get though this and these kind of audios that help me fight. Thank you
@trashieannie17907 жыл бұрын
You posted this on a perfect day, I haven't been feeling well and I was about to cut but then I went on youtube and I saw that you posted. This video made my heart melt and I can't thank you enough for posting all these sweet and captivating videos.
@smashingtulips7 жыл бұрын
Dear Cardlin, I somehow found you yesterday and I haven't been able to stop listening to your audios, whether it be one of your silly rambles or your erotic roleplays that make, well, *all* of us quiver. You remind me of Cryaotic, the KZbinr. Both of you have nice tones to your voices that give me and many others goosebumps. Please keep up the good work. At this time, I cannot pay to support you on Patreon, but I hope a sub will be good enough for now. Much love.
@19112008z7 жыл бұрын
10:11 .. you made me cry ... I needed this so bad
@Demh8ter7 жыл бұрын
almost a year clean. thank you God.
@RAREMEMEBERSONLY4 жыл бұрын
Great job 👏 👍 👌 🙌 😀
@EK___003Ай бұрын
This one has always had a special space in my heart. It's one of the audios that I found you. It helped me a lot back then, still does. Thank you. ❤
@CardlinAudioАй бұрын
You're so very welcome! Thanks for finding me in the first place =]
@HappyFeetAudios7 жыл бұрын
Just when I think your audios can't get any better, you go and record this masterpiece! What a powerful audio! You my friend are amazing!
@ayyyimmaninja7 жыл бұрын
I was so happy when I woke up and realized it was Wednesday and looked forward to you uploading! Yay!
@barbarasupremacy44883 жыл бұрын
Hi Cardlin, I know this video is old and I doubt you’ll see it but I just wanted to thank you. You have literally saved my life more than once, I have no one at home that cares about me so having your audios makes me forget about any pain or loneliness I previously felt. I’ve watched most of your comfort audios multiple times and the effects of them never wear off. Thank you, truly for everything. Because of the positivity on your channel I have come out of my depressive state more and more each day. I truly thank you for helping me even though you don’t know me. I used to think my feelings wernt valid or I’m overreacting but because of you I’ve found more confidence In myself and have been able to fight my abuser so he doesn’t hurt me again. I wish you a truly happy life cause that’s the least I can do for saving mine.
@ss-on3ll7 жыл бұрын
I've self harmed in the past and this hit home for me. This makes me wanna cry. Thank you for making these kinds of audios, it really helps me cope and I'm sure it helps many people too.
@thrashedcherry89637 жыл бұрын
it's heartbreaking that people actually go through this..i wish everyone the best. remember you are loved & worth it.
@claidybeauty43537 жыл бұрын
Your voice can heal so many broken heart . Thank you so much for your work you deserve a lot more. God bless you . Kiss from Martinique
@payplooffyy62176 жыл бұрын
Claidy Beauty i did my french project on Martinique
@rachelx53927 жыл бұрын
Just got out of my second day at a new school, such great timing!
@kac53957 жыл бұрын
Rae Jae same!!!
@eccentricxswan7 жыл бұрын
1 year clean and I almost gave up 😟 but after listening to this I was able to calm down and breathe. I really wish I had someone that would talk to me like this when I feel like giving in to the urges. What I mean is.. Your audios really help me feel better whenever I feel stressed, anxious or depressed. Thank you so much ♡
@rivergardner64975 жыл бұрын
I'm here for you ❤
@shaniepeters85407 жыл бұрын
I've been clean for almost a year.. I'm really proud of myself. It was really hard getting through not cutting this year because all the bullying and family problems but listening to Cardlin helps me through that and i'm really thankful for him for doing this. also the thank you for the writer.
@SCREAMshhh7 жыл бұрын
Shanie Peters -- Congratulations on nearly one year in battle! You're courageous. Stay strong. 🙂
@madtingbruv90033 жыл бұрын
i just hit 17 mins clean thank you cardlin i’m now 8 days clean and this audio still helps me when i feel this way
@dragonbeasts74687 жыл бұрын
I love your videos cause I can’t tell people this kinda stuff. There is literally no reason for me to feel the way I do, or do what I do, but I do. If I tell people they’d probably not take me seriously cause I really wouldn’t have a legitimate reason to give them. Heck, my mom didn’t take me seriously in the middle of a panic attack cause there “wasn’t a reason for it” and kept telling me to stop pretending
@dragonbeasts74687 жыл бұрын
Update: So I called my bf... he’s being silent in what I might guess is self pity? I dunno. I’m back to the video~
@dragonbeasts74687 жыл бұрын
I was seen om-aaaaaaaAAAAAAA
@DECAFINATED7 жыл бұрын
I was really close to cutting tonight, I felt so guilty about everything. but this actually helped me over come it and keep on going. thank you... so much.
@graceskalicky2764 жыл бұрын
This actually helped me a lot I was looking for a reason not to relapse i have been clean for 4 months, i was in a really abusive relationship, he would rape me and hit me, he would also call me names and he came into the store I work at today and I was the only one in the store with him and he started to call me names and say he was going to get back at me for going to the police. I was going to relapse and cut once my parents went to bed and my new boyfriend went to bed and this really helped me not to do that. I love these audios, i don't think you guys actually realize how much these help.... they really do help a lot. These videos have saved me in the past that is where I got the idea to come and listen to these videos. Thank you so much you guys!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@samanthaa5574 жыл бұрын
ily :(
@Pinklola9117 жыл бұрын
I needed this last night. I'm happy you uploaded today. You're my Most favorite.
@deadinside20707 жыл бұрын
When cardi crys I cry 😭
@plentyoflovehugsandkissesx25356 жыл бұрын
TootsiePOP _games saaaame I sob so badly
@luca127634 жыл бұрын
Its been 3 years since this was posted but I keep coming back to it. I'm only 1 day clean but its a start. If anyone sees this we all start somewhere and you are always a valid person
@akumainferno53484 жыл бұрын
Well it's been two weeks since you wrote this, are you still clean?
@luca127634 жыл бұрын
@@akumainferno5348 it took a while but now I'm only at 10 days but its okay it something to grow from. Thanks for checking. How are you
@that_one_fluffy_unicorn26455 жыл бұрын
This calms me whenever I feel like self harming again I always feel better❤️❤️ I’m 1 and a half months clean and I’m proud! You can do it too!
@khaiwicks41697 жыл бұрын
Thanks you so much cardybear, I've been wanting to cut for a while but I have forced myself not to because I have loving friends and this made me convince myself even more not to. So just thank you again and I love your audios so much and each one has helped me more than you could imagine.
@yonipanda92707 жыл бұрын
Nononononononono don't cry! It'll make me feel bad. I'm sorry, Please don't do this to me sir! (Also don't stroke my hair its a mess😊😥) and then he made me smile. TOO MANY EMOTIONS!!
@canofsodapop94744 жыл бұрын
I know same!
@laurahill75687 жыл бұрын
This is great timing. Ive been clean for two years and relapsed three days ago. I loved listening. Great job.
@dxssip75227 жыл бұрын
Cardlin reminds me of a journal that loves me the way i am and can talk to me when i need him.
@twentyonechemicalromancesa28447 жыл бұрын
You put this up at the perfect time.... I was just getting the urge to cut again. Thank you, Cardibear!
@firefox9235 жыл бұрын
I've struggled with anxiety and body image issues since I was little. I have a skin condition called eczema and it itches and looks bad most of the time. I would scratch and pinch the skin on my shoulders and arms, wherever I would find the bumps. Often I would leave my skin more itchy and irritated. I've never cut myself, but I've thought about it. It's pretty scary when my brain goes down that dark path and it takes such a long time to pull myself back. These audio shave helped me so much. Thank you Cardlin.
@kyellejohnson43824 жыл бұрын
omg same i started self harming bc of it. my eczema makes me really self conscious.
@beetle_mp3Ай бұрын
this is really sweet i know a few people that could benefit from this talk 💜
@CardlinAudioАй бұрын
Feel free to pass it along, if you think they wouldn't be weirded out =]
@CardlinAudio7 жыл бұрын
If you made it through this one and need another, here you go. kzbin.info/www/bejne/i6modYd5grl2gM0 Also, do me a favor and read the description this time, at least the first part.
@amberjay49714 жыл бұрын
I don’t know how long I’ve been clean for but I’m watching this because the thoughts came back, thanks for being here
@elliottlikesbirbs2904 жыл бұрын
No matter what those thoughts are, u are worth it u matter and i love u so much for being able to stop :) make sure to drink some water and have a little snack! I gotta take care of yourself once in a while
@samanthaa5574 жыл бұрын
i’m so proud of u!
@kawaiikaci39757 жыл бұрын
why did this hit me and make me cry
@kaitlynlancaster46554 жыл бұрын
I just wanted to say thank you so much. This audio has really helped. I don't physically harm myself but I have endangered myself in the past in other ways. Tonight was a weird night my friends were discussing something one of them did while under the influence of alcohol in a group char and it triggered me. I had to mute the chat and back out of social media for a bit to calm down. I was later listening to this audio and the messages within it and the questions you asked the listener really helped.
@owltime26117 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this If been having problems and these kind of videos really help❤️ thank you so much 😊
@EmYu037 жыл бұрын
ARMYYYYYYYYYYY :3
@salma29007 жыл бұрын
Armyyy
@MrsB_on_YouTubeАй бұрын
Such an important audio! So glad it's here 💔
@CardlinAudioАй бұрын
Thank you, MrsB!
@it.is.virginieАй бұрын
I feel the same way, MrsB ❤️🩹
@muwolvr4 жыл бұрын
I’m 2 weeks clean IVE NEVER BEEN SO PROUD thank you cardlin you really helped me tonight -love Maya🥺🥰
@samanthaa5574 жыл бұрын
i’m so proud of u!!🤍
@whewchile86464 жыл бұрын
i dont think you realize just how much this helped me 🥺 i will be having it on replay for the next few hours maybe days maybe weeks
@elliottlikesbirbs2904 жыл бұрын
It’s been 3 years and I’m now 2 years and 3 months clean :) it gets better! It just takes time patience and acceptance. And if no one has told u today. I love u. I matter and u deserve to be happy💟🌸
@Yournewothermother4 жыл бұрын
Good job its been 1 year or so for me
@samanthaa5574 жыл бұрын
omg i’m so proud of u!!
@samanthaa5574 жыл бұрын
Eri Chan i’m proud of u too!!🤍
@annabiancarose22003 жыл бұрын
Cardlin: How long has it been? Me: says amount of weeks Cardlin: wow! that's great, no seriously! you worked so hard for that. Me: *starts crying happily* thank you so much
@valeriebevill64217 жыл бұрын
This definitely helps I've been struggling with depression. But I'm alot better if anyone is struggling. Please don't give up on life. Your not alone, their is so many like you. Maybe not same situation but still. Reach out to your friends and family. Or you have people here.
@lilly_the_boss70467 жыл бұрын
I've self-harmed before and sometimes still do but listening to these make me really happy and i don't feel down as much. Thank you for making me smile and want to live a while longer.
@amandasmith49985 жыл бұрын
Him: put it in a drawer so your not looking at it Me: the drawer is TrAnSpArEnT😂
@kenz63443 жыл бұрын
the amount of times ive watched this i- its really helped and i thank you for this video. i showed it to my partner and now some of these mechanisms are in our list of coping (such as the drawing on your skin with a red marker) the way we do it, is one of us goes into the bathroom and the other person sits on the other side of the door. the person in the bathroom draws while we talk, and eventually, they come out and we discuss why we would put it there. it helps us bond and also shows each other where the other is likely to do it, so we can check after attacks and stuff. (i wouldn't recommend if you aren't uncomfortable with each other, but we are very close and we both support ourselves on our bad days)
@plentyoflovehugsandkissesx25356 жыл бұрын
Cardlin: *starts to cry* Me: *Chokes on a sob* I-I hope... T-that I'm doing better...I-I think? Thanks again Cardlin and J this is awesome! It-its been a month...since you k-know... *bawls like a baby* the fact I know I will probably never have a bf like this in life even if I keep praying/hoping/wishing for it... 😳😒😭😓💕👏✂🔪💉
@kac53957 жыл бұрын
HOW DO YOU KNOW EXACTLY WHAT I NEED ? I LOVE THIS ALREADY! Thanks for recording and thanks for this amazing script J
@ally_chan53217 жыл бұрын
This actually made me cry because no one told me to quit talk about what goes on in my mind. I hide it because people think that I am just wanting attention but I just want someone who is there for me(it made me more distant that I actually did self-harm and actually sad to say i actually tried to starve myself)But this actually helps me
@crow96444 жыл бұрын
1 hour. I... this really helped after, thank you
@teheestreams76174 жыл бұрын
...4 months Clean From Self-Harming the body..And Starting to eat again..Yayy I'm not proud of what i did..but i'm trying
@samanthaa5574 жыл бұрын
omg i’m so proud of u!!
@spacetrash18974 жыл бұрын
Cardlin walks in: Me: 👁👄👁🔪 Him:👁👄👁
@nevaeh91713 жыл бұрын
I-
@fart34817 жыл бұрын
Thanks you so much my Cardlin. You don't know how unhappy I am these days. But watching your videos make me feel so so happy. I'm so glad that a person like you actually exist on this earth...I will love and support you forever Cardibear
@lindasalter60916 жыл бұрын
I just wanted to say thank you, listening to this I was able to cry for the first time in a while, I felt like I finally had someone there for me through all of this, irl, I feel like I have no one I can show, so thank you.
@jinxeddd79433 жыл бұрын
I just wanna say thank you for doing this audio :)) you really saved me
@mads72493 жыл бұрын
20 minutes clean, i feel good about myself 😼
@bowrosewood28817 жыл бұрын
Thanks cardlin!! You help so much when I feel down. ❤️
@alisa8183 жыл бұрын
4 years clean and nearly relapsed today. thank you for helping
@koresephone48517 жыл бұрын
this helped me a lot, I was thinking on cutting myself due to very bad anxiety, my depression, also my bipolar disorder, also stress with family issues and it really just hurts to the bone emotionally
@mattimoodle3 жыл бұрын
I was clean for about 2 years until I relapsed sometime in 2020, and then again this year. It sucks, but I'm trying every day to get better. I've been finding healthier ways to cope, and I have an amazing friend group to support me and help me through my ✨trauma✨
@thalila7 жыл бұрын
1 week clean...
@violetsturdy6 жыл бұрын
Me it a 1 minute
@savannahwtge5 жыл бұрын
2 days! So proud!
@canofsodapop94744 жыл бұрын
Congrats!
@jaedrawsanime14383 жыл бұрын
I'm so proud of all of you, keep going! u got this!! ❤❤❤
@hannahbradley1713 Жыл бұрын
i’ve been clean for three years and over the past week i’ve been through the lowest lows and think about self harming at every point of my day now. this definitely calmed me down, i’m hoping i don’t slip up :( thank you so much for this audio
@riokad58636 жыл бұрын
I thought this video was going to be 26:01:00 long. I was like "This is going to be an adventure"
@beefythanos81297 жыл бұрын
I've been really struggling with my depression lately... I really needed this. Corny as it is, the impact you've made on my life in incredible Cardlin. Thank you so so so much for doing what you do :D
@mylovelydame217 жыл бұрын
Oh man, this is really affecting me today. Lots of tears. But it's a good thing. Sometimes you need a good cry to feel a little better. Thank you, Cardlin.
@AnnetteEAdy3 жыл бұрын
“How long has it been since the last time you hurt yourself?” 2 hours and 30 minutes ago “Wow, that’s great “
@kristenlizotte71247 жыл бұрын
Having a hard time today...so listening to this...
@theweirdgirl24796 жыл бұрын
Thanks Cardlin for making this because I was about to self harm but I couldn't do it because I know it would just make more pain even thought I self harmed before and the scars will stay as long as I keep doing it the harm that people do to them selves will just make more pain even if it was in the past or now the pain and the scars will stay there. Sry trying not to be all dark right now but thank you Cardlin lots of love to you and to the people who self harm
@mermaidnextdoor51725 жыл бұрын
Him: is there a drawer you can put it in? Me: no Him: ok put it in there.
@jamy73443 жыл бұрын
whenever I have the feeling of wanting to do self harm, I come back to this video and try doing everything he says, cause it ends up helping so much.
@miaishere44944 жыл бұрын
Cardi: how long has it been since you last.. hurt yourself Me: ten minutes.. Him: woww great!!
@cherrybumpaudio64906 жыл бұрын
I was actually cutting a few days ago...I feel so ashamed of the scars on my wrists, arms and thighs. The reason I did it. Well, my cousin lives with me. She yells and screams at me. It scars the crap out of me. She also physically hurts me, like punching, kicking and slapping me. Thank you for this Cardlin and J. It was really nice to listen to this.
@KarmasEnergy7 жыл бұрын
This Helped Me Not Hurt Myself
@CassandraTheAuthor3 жыл бұрын
I've been clean for gosh I dont even know at this point. Maybe 3 years now. It's a struggle every day. Somedays I dont want to even get out of bed. But things have gotten better. Yeah I'm still depressed but I'm not nearly as bad off as I was 3 years ago. Life is hard and there will always be hard stuff but it does get easier over the years. No one is alone. You can do this. I believe in you. Cardlin has been such a big help. I only have one friend and we dont talk about this kind of stuff. So it really truly helps to have someone I can cry too without shame. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.