ASMR Whisper Ramble "Life Advice 2024"

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@Marco-ih2ru 4 ай бұрын

I just turned 18 and graduated high school and I don’t plan on going to college. Thank you for the advice I really needed this.

@TallieStevens 4 ай бұрын

Not a young man, a 51 year old woman and long time listener. I have noticed that a lot of your advice videos gear a lot towards sacrificing hard in the early years of your life. Sacrificing is essential to get ahead but it needs to be in moderation. A long life is not guaranteed, unfortunately many won’t live to see 50 or 40 or even 30. While I appreciate hard work, living life and enjoying the NOW is essential ❤ after all, if you work your ass off and don’t enjoy life until you’re 40 and then die at 45. Did you really live?

@ASMRReality 4 ай бұрын

You sound just like my mom. LOL! I respect the heck out of you for saying this. The sacrifice is certainly a gamble but I believe you have to play the odds. Odds are you aren't going to die when you are 30. If you are born into poverty like I was, there really is no other choice other than to stay poor or work like hell to get out of it. I listened to my mom week in and week out telling me I should slow down but today, she acknowledges that I was right. I have bought her a new car recently and spent $5k landscaping her home. I make it easy for her to admit she was wrong. HA!

@TallieStevens 4 ай бұрын

@@ASMRReality Well, there’s a first, I’ve never been told by someone my age that I sound like their mom🤣🤣 I totally get your mindset on this subject, given your upbringing..

@ASMRReality 4 ай бұрын

@TallieStevens Obviously I don't relate you to being my mom, of course. Its just that I spent my whole life listening to her caution me about working so much. I understand that if I would have died at 45, it would have all been for nothing but given that I did not, I am super happy I endured the misery of all of it. I also think about what if I hadn't done it and then I woke up today at 52 and was broke and struggling to pay my bills....quite certain I would have massive regrets and likely end up doing something drastic like making it all end...if you know what I mean.

@TallieStevens 4 ай бұрын

@@ASMRReality I get it :)

@blank27035 4 ай бұрын

When you enjoy what you do, working your ass off doesn't feel like work. I work 60 hours a week and I love it. I love my work and I'm so thankful. I think that's the key...love what you do.

@joshuasmith4979 4 ай бұрын

This is a freaking great channel, man! You have an amazing attitude. Love your stuff. The abundance starts inside, then shows up outside. You are living proof.

@MrCrow2014 4 ай бұрын

Keep speaking the truth. Thank you for the inspiration. Seriously you can take credit for changing and improving my work ethic and finally getting my sh*t together. The grind is tough but I love it and reaching my goals is what brings me joy in life.

@Big092MLBOA_ Ай бұрын

Just got my license, you’re videos motivate me 🙌

@ASMRReality Ай бұрын

Thats great news! I'm always here if you have any questions. Congratulations!

@garrettbock9841 4 ай бұрын

Your production quality continues to excel with every video you release! Thanks for the great content and advice. Cheers!

@ElBakovitj 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for yet another great video! This is such an important message! I try to persuade junior colleagues to not expect "rewards" immediately all the time, but to put in the work first! People are far too short sighted, in my opinion...

@johannaavila2173 4 ай бұрын

You are a very driven, motivated, wise man. Thank you for your advice. I needed this video ❤

@ASMRReality 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for this comment! I was hopeful it would reach people that needed to hear this.

@Duustin Ай бұрын

Sup dude I’m 16 don’t really wanna go to college and I hate sitting around and not working and I fear not working hard enough I don’t know what I’m gonna do for work exactly but I give 100% In what I do do and it inspires me to see how far you’ve come from working hard

@ASMRReality Ай бұрын

Its all about picking something and doing it well. Saw this article recently that showed how plumbers are becoming millionaires. There are so many different ways to succeed. I trust you will find your way! www.wsj.com/business/entrepreneurship/plumbers-hvac-skilled-trades-millionaires-2b62bf6c

@sj_ash472 26 күн бұрын

Study for certifications or learn a trade. Getting IT certs has worked for me. Don't be stagnant. U owe it to yourself to keep learning if ur not in college. College be a scam for most

@mindhunterasmr 4 ай бұрын

Wow Derek!! Another great video - thought provoking as usual. Thank you so so much for putting out such impactful content. One book/movie philosophy I really like goes something like this: “there are two kinds of people, those chasing pleasure, and those running from pain.” What happens to us in our childhood goes with us and shapes the rest of our lives. I think some people are more prone to “sacrifice” and favoring their career over personal life. Some people are here mostly for a good time, others never had a family growing up so it became their main goal, some are workaholics or just eternally searching for that sense of security in the financial aspect. But I genuinely believe that some people are simply unable to sit back, relax and bask in all they’ve achieved *so far*. It’s a blessing and a curse, constantly chasing the next challenge. Ultimately, it’s what elevates and separates the ordinary from the extraordinary. And to achieve that, you have to make sacrifices. ❤

@fabsoir2548 2 ай бұрын

Ooo an asmr channel about life and advices. Just subscribed!

@ASMRReality 2 ай бұрын

Welcome to the club and thank you:)

@bloop6930 4 ай бұрын

The audio is so crisp I love it ❤

@auggieboyy 4 ай бұрын

love this camera angle! glad to see another great upload!thanks.

@nihilisticnirvana 2 ай бұрын

You look great for 52! I am almost 18, taking a drop year to study for a competitive exam. That's where I'm at in my life

@ASMRReality 2 ай бұрын

Appreciate the compliment and glad to see you are already looking for advice as you prepare for adulthood. This tells me you are well on your way to success!

@daleyjohnson229 4 ай бұрын

You’re a great man to listen to Derek, your a highly intelligent interesting man and a great role model to young men like myself, I’m 28 living in the U.K. and your videos have helped me think longer term, also to stop being so hedonistic and indulging in drink and drugs and start to plan a future for myself, going on holiday to Peru and Ecuador in September and that wouldn’t have been possible without your guidance, I grew up with a heroin addicted father who used to rob my mum for welfare money so I resonate with your life a lot, thank you for these videos and helping me get on a path to a good future ✌🏼❤️

@ASMRReality 4 ай бұрын

Brother, you couldn't have made my evening any better than by saying what you just said. This is a two way street....I tell about my journey and you tell me how it has helped you...you are just as helpful for me as I am for you. Thank you so much!

@Joshg875 4 ай бұрын

He really is such a great man to listen to

@Rich9milly 4 ай бұрын

Great video!

@spaz1375 4 ай бұрын

That’s extremely inspirational thank you

@ASMRReality 4 ай бұрын

Really glad you liked this one!

@AlwaysOmnia 4 ай бұрын

Hello Derek, I enjoy your videos and think that your clicky whispers are some of the best. You mention that you believe that you'll live until you're a 110 years old, are you changing anything to do with the way you eat, sleep and train at all? Maybe a video of you explaining your thoughts would be a good idea 👌 I believe genetics are a big factor in longevity, you could be the healthiest individual and your organs could still give out. Although, eating unhealthy food, smoking, drinking alcohol on a regular basis wouldn't be beneficial towards living longer either.

@AntTalksCeltics 4 ай бұрын

such a quality video as always

@torbothy 4 ай бұрын

amazing video

@jorgesasmr 4 ай бұрын

Needed to hear this ! Great video as always 🫡🙏

@ASMRReality 4 ай бұрын

Make it happen bro!

@msw1shes 4 ай бұрын

Almost at 11k🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

@ASMRReality 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for noticing! Definitely getting close!

@linasutcliff4221 4 ай бұрын

Looks like one of us will live to be 100 😂

@Sa17648 4 ай бұрын

Hi, hope you’re well, it’s been a while since you’ve popped up on my recommended ! Last time we interacted we spoke about Palestine and Israel, and I was wondering if your thoughts have changed over the last few months, that the oppression is a lot more one sided than previously thought? Also you just seem really well versed on ethics and life in general so I appreciate your outlook. Hope to see more of your vids again, take care

@ASMRReality 4 ай бұрын

I have not changed my choice of sides. When it comes to a battle of anything versus countries that abide by Sharia law and kill anyone that doesn't sign up for their religion, I will always side with the other. Happy I still am popping into your recommendations occasionally and glad you still support me in spite of our occasional differences.

@jonathonredacted3396 2 ай бұрын

My grandpa worked in the carpenters union, hes 8 years older than you. He was asked to do very very shady things and he eventually left bc they asked to vandalize the vehicle of another man. He said it was basically mafia type of environment. Hopefully ita changed by now lol it sounds so weird.

@ASMRReality 2 ай бұрын

I think there is still a lot of this going on at Unions today sadly.

@adilmait6005 4 ай бұрын

I always say the best part about growing up in poverty is that the only way you have is Up

@ASMRReality 4 ай бұрын

So true, my friend...so true!

@jayjay9778 4 ай бұрын

Hey Derek im a young European who's in between start in as a real estate agent or as a car salesman. Wich one is better from your point of view? I know you where a manager at toyota and now a real estate agent. Is because real estate is better? Thank you in advance.

@ASMRReality 4 ай бұрын

You need a database of customers to be able to be successful in real estate. Starting in car sales will allow you to build up that database of customers. At a car dealership, people come to you. In real estate, you have to find customers. Car sales is much easier to start in than real estate. Definitely start with cars!

@jayjay9778 4 ай бұрын

@@ASMRReality Thank you, do you have a video explaining why you transitioned to Real Estate?

@ASMRReality 4 ай бұрын

@@jayjay9778 I did go over it in one of my older videos but I will make an updated one soon. Truly I did 26 total years in the car business and just wanted to do something that did not take so much time. Working at a dealership is like a typical job. You have to be there at a certain time and can't leave till your shift is over. Its a lot of hours. I wanted more freedom in my life and real estate afforded me that. I would never be as successful as I am today in real estate if I didn't have my client base from selling cars. You need to prove your success in sales before you try to sell real estate. It is much more difficult to start in real estate than any other sales industry. If you are successful in cars, you will be successful in real estate but you need to save about a years worth of income to get started because it takes a long while to start making money when selling home.

@Noname-vw7vj 4 ай бұрын

I was born 2004.

@ASMRReality 4 ай бұрын

I remember being 20....I'm excited to see where life takes you! Keep me posted along your journey!

@Lukes_ASMR 3 ай бұрын

same let’s live a happy fulfilling life

@alexislopez-yt6rx 3 ай бұрын

What is some advice you could give me on saving money

@ASMRReality 3 ай бұрын

eat meals at home - cut any subscriptions you have - no cable - get a nest thermostat to lower home heating and cooling expenses - stop shopping for clothes - don't use a credit card use debit instead - primarily just spend less than you make and invest whatever you can save in a place where it makes interest

@alexislopez-yt6rx 2 ай бұрын

@@ASMRReality thank you that actually helps a lot

@justinslocum1664 4 ай бұрын

noice

@lyniepennie 4 ай бұрын

❤❤

@oceaniccamel1000 4 ай бұрын

Hey Derek, whats your take on Ethereum ETFs?

@ASMRReality 4 ай бұрын

I would just buy Ethereum rather than the ETF.

@Light-__- 4 ай бұрын

Hi man i dont comment usually, but i thought i could suggest a asmr account for you, hes quite small but i compare him to you. ASMR Millionare Money Mentor.

@ASMRReality 4 ай бұрын

I have watched sme of his content. Not sure why he hides though.

@Light-__- 4 ай бұрын

@@ASMRReality Haha, yeah he does sometimes but also some videos he doesn't bit confusing.

@ASMRReality 4 ай бұрын

@@Light-__- I've never seen one that he wasn't hiding. Yeah that is weird if he showed himself and then hid again. Strange. I'll go try to watch one where he shows who he is. Maybe I know him. LOL!

@Rivers9679 Күн бұрын

Revisited your channel, great video👍 I kept thinking about a channel by the name of Team3DAlpha. He preaches 3D -Dominance (expertise) -Discipline (Progress vía daily routine) -Direction (vision and mission toward the world) Be the best at what your doing, be at the top, as a garbageman or a ceo of a company, be at the top Throughout your video, I was reminded of him.

@ASMRReality Күн бұрын

I'm glad to hear others are out there speaking on similar topics. We fix this world by fixing ourselves. I'm just trying to share information that I think will help make us all better people!

@Rivers9679 Күн бұрын

@ And I appreciate it 🙏