ASSUMPTIONS ABOUT ME!! (these are CRAZY)

[@christinekillen3852]

I love your response to the little girl, that you weren't 'offended' at the thought , just that it isn't true but acknowledging and appreciating her parents for raising her to understand there are many types of families! Love that..and also love that you are just chillin being a single mom and not all wound up about finding someone else. You and Eli seem to have a good situation ! So great for Bexley that there is no drama!! Well done !

[@kaylatheriault226]

Video suggestions: day in your life, cooking, adventures with B!, adventures with siblings!, girls day!, shopping haul, toddler item recommendations, your favorite items you own, your facial routine.

[@christinem9280]

Thanks for being real with us Lacey! Just take it one day at a time. We love you!

[@georgiasam8045]

I agree about taking care of yourself will be awesome and someday it will happen. Yes I took a year or two by myself and found an amazing guy.

[@elliedodajourney25]

You are not alone. Thank you for being you & being real. 🥰

[@peggytippets1634]

More Bexley. Maybe playing with your siblings. Show us Bexley's favorite foods, movies, songs, dance moves. Also if you have pictures of you at her age to see how much she looks like you. Decorating your house with Melinda.

[@agriope2334]

Ooh, loved most of this, you are obviously doing really well and it shows! The only thing was the panic attacks, and I think you should see a professional. For me, I actually started meditating mid-panic attack. I googled something for peace and found a meditation that I said and repeated on the spot and it worked for me. So I've kept at it for years now. There are guided meditations on YT, apps, etc. Even 5 minutes make a world of difference! Also, to avoid sensory overload. We take in so many sensations during the day and can get to where there are just too many sounds, words, videos, lights, etc and panic. For example, you can start dimming the lights at home around 6pm, reading or listening to a book rather than watching YT, a romance movie rather than an action movie, and so on. Over time, with both of these, my anxiety just plummeted. I hope this helps and that you find ways to heal from these panic attacks. Bless you, love

[@ashleyriley1179]

People like vloggers who keep it real where you don’t have to think about acting etc. I like to see real life vloggers not the ones where they have to pretend.

[@iamcalledbex]

You could do a "day in the life of a toddler" video. Like a typical day from you getting up, breakfast, nappy bag packed, coffee on the way, hanging at park or your parents or whatever, treat on way home, bedtime etc. I know you don't want Bex on camera much so you could film/edit it in a way where it shows what you/her have done for a day but without showing her face. You could take a leaf out of your aunty's book and do a room make-over LOL

[@lisacellura1781]

I would watch any video you make but I would love an updated GRWM telling about which makeup/skincare/hair products you use. ♥️ Love you and your family, Lacey!

[@mindybeller6011]

Video idea: get together with some of your close-in-age siblings and/or cousins and share some funny or happy memories from growing up

[@MrsSammieV]

I have a video idea. Maybe do a few parts of a vlog where Bexley hangs out with each of her Aunts & Uncles (maybe two or three to a video) but they each thing of something to do with her. Would love to see how they each interact with their niece.

[@kathrynreed6078]

I recently saw a TikTok that said when you are having a panic/anxiety attack, put a warhead in your mouth or something sour or spicy. Apparently our brains can only handle one emergency at a time, and the sour or spicy item takes your mind off of your attack. The other thing I would recommend is start exercising. My 11 year old used to have panic attacks in the winter, then he started playing hockey. The exercise can improve the serotonin levels in your body.

[@amyrivers4093]

You are incredible Lacey. I remember you from the beginning, way back in St Johns. You were always fun and an amazing sibling. You have always been so open and honest, which helps your subscribers relate to you. Watching you become such an amazing young lady and then a Mum has been a pleasure and very inspirational. Don't worry so much about what we think of your videos because I suspect the majority of us just enjoy hearing about what you are up to. I'm very proud of how you and Eli are raising Bexley even though you are no longer a couple you show that you are both there for her and love her. There are so many people that can't do that. You are very wise for your years and are the sort of mum that everyone wants. I hope that you can feel or sense that my words are genuine and heartfelt. I guess one of my weaknesses is feeling that I may not get my point across and that my words aren't seen as genuine so I over explain. Thank you for another awesome video. ❤😊

[@maceykintigh8601]

Lacey, you are a fun person, you have a beautiful little girl, upload your adventures, just be you. We fell in love with you through your family channel, we all still love you. For the anxiety, talk to someone, find relaxing techniques. You are awesome!

[@dellaweddle680]

I just love 💕 ❤watching yer channel and yer family’s to an yer aunts channel to ❤❤

[@nonondriessen]

Well done Lacey, addressing these assumptions with integrity and intelligence. I like that you are open-minded and have a sound sense of humour. I'm sorry your anxiety transformed in panic attacks. I read some good advice about the inner child related trauma in the comments. Maybe get help, if you didn't already. I have to commend you and Eli on the positive and caring way you choose to co-parent Bexley. Would it be an idea to vlog about this aspect of your life? Your experiences might be inspiring... I enjoy your vlogs ☺️

[@darci5604]

I give you massive props for being you and putting yourself out there! ❤ I have to say it’s so funny on those assumptions, like can’t us women have friends that is another woman?! 😂 Also completely understand your panic/anxiety, I’ve dealt with it my whole life, and the only thing I can say is take it a second at a time, surround yourself with great friends/family and for me many, many years of therapy has been amazing! Video ideas: just fun to see day to day life, Autumn brings such a light to you and all of us, do some crazy (or not so crazy 😜) challenges, show the fun with your family if your comfortable, those of us that watch can’t even begin to understand what it’s like to be on social media and the things thrown at you. Best advice I’d have is to be yourself, you’re wonderful, beautiful, smart, great sense of humor and that what we love to see you! I know you can’t dismiss/ignore negativity but also take the good and hold onto that! Sending you much love and I love to see you happy finding yourself again!! 💕💕

[@opalmoon6667]

Lacey so proud of the mind space you're in as far as being single and no rush to get into a new relationship.

[@kristiphillips7783]

You seem to be doing great!! Your arraignment with Bex dad seems to be working. Just be happy and be/do you!!

[@hopemags9642]

Lacey, you are amazing it’s great to see you growing such an amazing daughter sister now amazing Mom, follow your heart and intuition you know what is best for you and Bexley. Great video ❤

[@janwagner7818]

Lacey, I have watched you grow up to beautiful young lady. I know first hand the public is the worst to deal with. You my dear will find a job where you feel comfortable in, and as true fan of you and the Crazy Middles you have a lot of support, so keep your head high and remain who are. Enjoyed watching and thank you for sharing ❤❤

[@Otters-fu4wh]

Can you do what you got your toddler for Christmas /stocking stuffers. I would love to see what you got her for Christmas!

[@nancyconca9892]

Lacey I so agree with everything that Darci(above) said 👏🏻🤩‼️ Please ignore any negativity/hateful messages sent your way🙏 Some people can be very mean spirited and try to make others feel bad so just erase any of that you may come across🤞

[@karenwilds512]

As a mom of young adults, your family is NOT getting sick of you! ❤

[@tamaradargusch5413]

10:39 would love to see a video about Bexley and all the milestones she is reaching. Ie first word, does she know colours, favourite foods, favourite shows.

[@noraredpath8194]

You are such a lovely person, and a lovely wee mum… hope you have a great week

[@garypeterson4483]

Great job Lace. It's really nice to see you with the family so often.

[@Momma413]

I love your vlogs! You are a wonderful mom and thank you for being real and honest with us. As for your panic attacks go to your doctor and let them know what is going on. Ideas for vlogs how about what you do with Melinda and Bexley and Scarlet, also if you being at your parents house, your daily routine, Bexley’s favorite foods, toys, her milestones. I love watching your vlogs. I don’t think your family will ever get sick of you I love how your family is so close to each other.

[@PWBNP1965]

You are a wonderful mom and I love your vlogs. As far as anxiety goes talk to your doctor he will lead you in the right direction . Take one day at a time and just enjoy your daughter and yourself.

[@lizregan1949]

You are so sweet I think of you as a really good Mom. Daughter. Sister and Friend. I had panic attacks for years it is so hard to live with panic attacks. I am not sure what happen but it seems to be a caulture now when you have a BFF people assume there is more to it.

[@aotearoanz1283]

Lacey, you beautiful soul, as I am a person who suffers with anxiety but not as much as I use too, all I can say is what I had learned for the past three years is meditation and to breath. Take your time every day, time goes by but don't let the good things in your life go by too. love you and what you're doing, keep shining bright with your beautiful little girl and keep sharing your awesome vlogs. Love from a CrazyFamily Fan in Aotearoa a.k.a New Zealand.

[@beckscroft18]

You are an amazing Woman, Mommy, Friend and so very real, raw, kind, beautiful and caring. Please don't think anything other than this & more good about yourself, we LOVE seeing you vlog. As someone with an Acute Anxiety Disorder and has to be medicated for it at times I can tell you now, you thinking people don't like you, are talking about you etc is your Anxiety talking, it's NOT the truth!! You can and will beat this and if you need any advice or just a rant please feel free to reach out to me! Sending you love and hugs ❤🫶❤️

[@michellesteffen6332]

❤we miss you lacey your an amazing mother🎉. You can play cds in your DVD player.

[@RachaelDOnofrio]

Awesome video I really like it lot it was cool and you made awesome videos and you are my favorite KZbin and you are best KZbin channel

[@maryhopcroft9946]

Does Autumn hang out with your family also? I'd love to see her vibing with them❤

[@samsipes2180]

You could video you and Melinda decorating the tree . Or get baby B a tiny tree and her decorate it !!

[@pamelakandikisseskerns5701]

I agree ... I feel it I worked in a deli in a grocery store for 10 years! I go to counseling and take meds for depression and anxiety ❤

[@ciaramarvin2995]

For the anxiety, I just learned from my therapist that if it gets really bad that could be your inner child freaking out. Try placing your hand in the middle of your chest and just tell yourself I hear you I feel you. And than breath slowly and deeply. Sometimes I have to do that multiple times in a day. Or something a little different I place my had on my chest and than slowly go into a crouch basically kneeling on the ground. And repeat process of the first thing I said.

[@jessicalewis4025]

I like it when you vlog! I always smile when I see you pop up!

[@shanezazem7804]

girl you look like a Disney princess! your eyes are beautiful

[@thebestwillow]

Auntie tumtum! That's so cute!

[@thebestwillow]

It's a very complicated world lately, so it is probably hard for anyone to know what to post on KZbin. Don't beat yourself up about it. Chances are, other youtubers have this same problem.

[@Mammaj1963]

Just keep doing assumption videos, we all love you Lacey ❤

[@angelahandy4119]

Thanks for your vlogs lacey ❤you have a great personality 😊lizzie is great too and cody❤

[@abigailbailey6849]

I feel like you’re in a really wonderful mindset right now! :-) What if you do a day in my life versus being with Bexley and not. Because I remember at one point you said you kinda do things a little bit different when you’re not with Bexley just because you have your free time and you’re just live in your life, and then you also live your life with Bexley too so if you do like a comparison . I hope that makes sense.

[@edwardleecaliforniausa]

Good morning all happy Saturday morning and I loved your vlogs and you all amazing Supporter

[@Naamy19X9]

Lacey, have you considered doing therapy? I've started and I am learning how to handle my anxiety and panic attacks in therapy. It also sounds like you've experienced a lot of trauma when you were young...it won't hurt to attempt to work through them.

[@susiesantino5625]

Lacey, me and my best friend always get questions asking if we're a couple or dating. Most of the time I laugh it off or just say No were just besties/soul sisters!

[@sharonwhiteford9399]

Lacey you could vlog about anything and I will watch ❤

[@aleenahalls5850]

Love u, loved this vlog Miss u when u don't post any vlogs Would love to see more of u and bex and more shopping vlogs Christmas 🎄 putting the tree up with bex that would be so cute 😍 Santa visits , cooking (just watched your family channel u are an amazing cook) I would watch any vlog of yours ❤ Keep being you there is no other you and you are Amazing ❤️

[@idkjillian]

You answer these assumptions so wonderfully! So I’ve had panic attacks since I was in Kindergarten and was finally diagnosed with an anxiety disorder when I was 15. (I’m 25 now) I understand the feeling all too well. When my medicine just doesn’t feel like it’s cutting it that day, I’ll take one or two capsules of lemon balm. It’s a natural supplement, but I swear by it. It helps so much with mine if I have more anxiety than normal. I’d definitely give it a try 😊

[@MsDawnnee]

I am nearly 60 and suffered all my life with anxiety and depression, plus panic attacks and PTSD, following a serious train accident years ago, which I was involved in, It takes time, but you learn how to handle them, and they become less and less. Read self help books from the library, I found them more help than shrinks I saw on the National Health Service, seriously! xx

[@chrishassel-ns4oh]

Would love to see Bexley at playgroup or Bexley clothing haul would be fun, just a thought. I love watching you. It’s such a shame the way you are feeling at the moment but it will pass. Get some professional advice about anxiety and panic attacks because that would help you. You don’t have to live with it. God bless you a little Bexley xx

[@mladenasibinovic2845]

Love your videos, Video idea the different Morningroutin when your kid is there and when it isn't I would love to watch more videos .

[@barbaraunderwood1762]

U be u. I never thought of u & Autumn being a couple. U & Eli r doing a good job keeping things out of the court concerning Bexley. When it’s time for a new relationship God will provide. Take care of your mental health. Maybe go see a doctor about the anxiety. I dealt with depression when my mom & husband died. On my days off I stayed in bed other doing what I needed to do. Christmas presents weren’t wrapped nor a tree put up. Mom died n June, my husband died September 9, 2001. Both a couple of months apart. Bexley is adorable. We all ❤ u

[@wanupgirl]

For your anxiety try looking up breating techniques also maybe therapy would help you? someone to talk to?

[@stephaniemoore2385]

I love watching your KZbin channel

[@stephaniepapich8045]

Hey Lacey I'm glad that you are doing better I get anxiety also where my arms would shake. How about make a fun blog about you and Blexy I'm sorry if I spelled her name wrong or something that you enjoy doing like making your punkin rolls that you used to make. Maybe find a different job that you would enjoy working at bc working in food can be stressful at times and don't let those people get to you just bush them off .

[@stephaniepapich8045]

I watched your video first before the video with you and your family for Thanksgiving at the crazy pieces when I messaged about making your pukin roll

[@thebestwillow]

I'm glad you and Eli are still on good terms.

[@reapwhatyousow9163]

Sp proud of the progress you are making. You will never find Mr.Right if you aren’t comfortable with yourself!

[@dennishite1991]

U R A friend to your You tube followers 🎉🎉❤❤❤

[@sandi.huskisson]

Love the realness!!! As always ❤️🇿🇦❤️

[@Borderlinegoldenretriever]

You are such a lovely and inspiring young woman. Just take life one day at a time.

[@frankiecarrel9794]

I am very glad that you need to find time For You and realize Who You Are and what You WANT out of Life.😊

[@cherylfields9159]

You can do video on what you do from morning to night with your daughter. I would like more videos of your adorable daughter.

[@belindabrown6844]

It would be so lovely to see Bexley and your siblings playing with her

[@meirahfischer3036]

Would love a vlog on how.is Bexley? What's she up to? How's she developing? What's her antics and the cheeky things she says or does? Would love a vlog on her at least once a month. How's Ely? He started his own channel but never posts. Keep strong I'm a single mum of an older teenager. Been single since she was 5 years old. You're luckier than me. My nearest family member lives about 8 miles away and I don't drive.

[@lisafrom-indy3618]

I started having really bad anxiety attacks about 10 years ago. I cut out most caffeine with the exception of chocolate and I have not had any problems since. So you might wanna look at how much caffeine you are consuming. If they don't go away soon, please talk to your doctor. It's been great seeing you in more videos again.

[@neurodivergentwolf]

Yoga, vagus nerve techniques and meditation all good long term solutions as they calm your nervous system. Look up somatic healing as well. Trauma is trapped in your body. The shaking is your bodies way of dealing with the anxiety as you've triggered the flight or fight response. Breathing and acceptance in the moment of a panic attack is useful. Al I haven't had panic attack in years and my anxiety is significantly reduced with all the above.

[@lindaholt5462]

Honestly if you have panic attacks that bad I would seek out a therapist that can help you sort through whatever might be at the core of your attacks. At the least they can help you learn to manage them in a healthy way. Loves!

[@edickerson4004]

I would love to watch you make a pumpkin roll from start to finish. Include ingredients and methods. Also, the same ideas as to how to make break-up cookies on another video. You like to make these things and we can learn from you. 🧡

[@terrymeagley8196]

I also have anxiety it is not good I feel your pain

[@michellebrooks424]

Hello Lacey you are amazing I love watching your videos thank you for sharing ❤❤

[@whitneyb6647]

Vlog more at your parents house or vlog when you do things with your family!

[@teniaf1495]

Lacey, I have severe anxiety and depression. Please take medication if that's what you need. If it's not, that's fine

[@sophiastern3739]

Starting out college two years ago I began have severe anxiety I had to force myself to see a psychiatrist and get a therapist if you don’t wanna try meds try a therapist through you health insurance if you don’t mind starting meds a little go see a psychiatrist and see what they can prescribe you your primary doctor can also prescribe you meds but sometimes insurance doesn’t accept certain meds from them I hope this can help cause I get the panic attacks and losing control and it starting to be physical and not just mentally don’t be afraid to take something or get help

[@theresavirgilio2662]

I have really bad anxiety myself. I do therapy for it. Take care of your mental health.

[@MariaGC]

You not only suffer panic attacks you 4 deep beneath seconds you be fine. That helped me.

[@Stephrp613]

aww don't think that people don't like you, you have a wonderful personality don't be too hard on yourself. Take care of yourself with your anxiety!

[@laurenavery1111]

Lacey - have you had your hormone levels checked? Hormone imbalances can cause depression and panic. I've seen this first-hand, and it can be easily remedied. You need a good OBGYN to do this for you.

[@skypie5374]

Girl the internet is wild. Keep doing what you’re doing it’s your life and people will say literally whatever these days. Always take care of your mind and health we love you Laci take all the breaks you need! ❤

[@elizabethtaylor3328]

Lacey do you have the Amazon link for your bed

[@conniemckenzie7801]

Lacey, try taking Magnesium, most of us are lacking Magnesium. It helped me with anxiety.

[@CrazyGoodLife]

i am!!

[@conniemckenzie7801]

@@CrazyGoodLife Good!

[@YcatsVlogs]

i love anything you post even with your kid.

[@susanmcgregor6902]

Amen on people not treating food service employees good. I work at a fast food restaurant Thursday we were open for 5 am to 11 am . When i left at 1140 people were getting angry with me because i wouldnt let them in the store. And sittingbat drive thru waiting for someone to answer then cussing at me when i was kind enough to let them know we closed at 11 40 minutes ago.

[@natashaw401]

Enjoy when you vlog. See ur videos

[@gingercollier7949]

Lacey, your a great hostess on your KZbin and your family KZbin. Maybe you can ask your mom, Kylie or someone to help you brain storm ideas. In my opinion your cousins YT are ok.

[@shebacat565]

Your hair looks great. Love the Swift movie w/the sissies story. Completely understand the need to be at the concert, but whew lotta money for nosebleed seats. My wish for you is based on what I see as your greatest gifts/skills. You are very charismatic and engaging on camera. You speak very clearly and articulate well. Because this comes naturally to you, you prob. think=No Big Deal. But it is a Big Deal! Not many have it. It would serve you well to develop this gift/skill into a well paying career for yourself. I see you as an announcer: news/sports, on TV? Check out your Comm. College for media or journalism program. Go out and take on the world. Build your confidence by further developing yourself, it may result in less anxiety. (sorry so long)😄❣

[@alisahummel7442]

I love your honesty. Maybe you should talk to your cousin Hallie she may be able to share with you her coping technique. I was a single mom not because I was confused on my sexuality. I just put my son first❤

[@dsawyer4292]

Sweetheart it all depends on where you're working on how you're going to be treated by your customers now if you were to go to a family restaurant and work there I guarantee you with your attitude your smile and your personality you could make a killing because you are the sweetest kindest person I

[@jeanmariecuevas8702]

I love you❤You are amazing

[@rebeccacattell310]

I ❤ u and so dose Ur family and most importantly Ur beautifull girl ❤❤❤

[@natashaw401]

Cool u went to the movies w Aneveah, Brinley and Addison to see Eras movie and fun

[@NeuroTherapeutics]

Thank you for sharing your life with us ❤😊

[@veronicaftiernan5956]

U need too try and figure out if there's something triggering your anixty people places things,or a time of day it helps alot and helps u deal with it

[@ΕλένηΓουρουνά-δ2π]

Try to write down your thoughts it will help you to manage your anxiety And talk to a therapist.

[@lifewiththem9822]

I love watching your videos

[@tomcomstock1213]

Love u sis ♥♥

[@julieward9950]

A how you do your makeup!!! Like make up for dummies. I would totally watch that! I'm terrible