At least 3 dates before you can be intimate! No short men. No men who work at fast food restaurant

[@joanecajuste9800]

"The finest man is the man that treats me the best" great quote Kendra.

[@Nitanota]

@@joanecajuste9800 looks matter idk why women push this message yall got men thinking it’s true lol

[@Mscookie3131]

@@NitanotaThey do but not as much as it means to men. Money and/or security usually trumps all for most women. Of course there will forever be exceptions to the rule. Me personally….will take an average looking man with money over a fine broke man any day. I would even date below average in the looks department if he has the ability to provide. You can’t be broke and ugly.

[@Nitanota]

@@Mscookie3131 😂 exactly there’s levels & I agree but I’m just saying looks matter 2 women 2 like we have eyes

[@nitrafall9533]

@@Nitanota it do matter but how he treat you should matter more i met a tall guy half way cute treated me bad he changed my whole mind on tall guys lol i love the average hieght brothers and then once my crush wore off for him i saw alll he had to offer was his hieght lol

[@TheTrulynice1412]

Y'all nicclets doing want that

[@brianal7143]

Getting a bbl is simply to attract dust attention, not a husband.

[@koolsmoothfan]

bingo

[@DeshaunTellez]

Exactly; marriage is till death do you part. Surgeries require revisions in 10-20 years.

[@paigenicholespeaks6172]

Facts

[@regrich8795]

@@DeshaunTellezyou said it best i met someone before who needed new saline for the girls I’m like nah I’ll pass 😬

[@brendasollers5252]

Bbl is someone that doesn't have a butt or wants this done I would never get surgery to try to please a man

[@Villagegrandma3174]

I hope the ladies were listening when you said, when you lead with your body, don’t be surprised if that’s all he wants!

[@cocolokoflacco]

many of them only think surface-level. so they will hear it, but it won't sink in deep for them to actually change they 304 attention-seeking ways.

[@Natalia-hf3et]

True

[@Reneesaidit]

Yet, she does the same. Her breasts are always out, even at that lady's wedding 😅. She likes the shortest skirts and tight dresses too. So, pot meet kettle

[@cameoh.1771]

That doesn't stop men for wanting you for your body 😅 I dress modestly and still get approached by men in a certain manner

[@BeautyCaveCa]

Facts. I am a married woman, married 15 years to a wonderful man who is a provider and has upstanding character and morals. I have never had surgery. We do workout together five days a week, and we cook 90% of our meals so we can stay healthy. We did not live together before we got married, and 😮 he took me to Cheesecake factory at least once a week during our courtship. 🤷🏽‍♀️ Successful marriages take work, commitment, and pure hearts.

[@shamrockshow8490]

Having married women as friends doesn’t mean anything! You never know what goes on in someone marriage behind closed doors. I never look at other people’s marriages/relationships, I just concentrate on my own relationship. Also, men will cheat on their wife who hasn’t had surgery with women who have had surgery, so it really doesn’t matter.

[@BeautyCaveCa]

@shamrockshow8490 Absolutely, you are correct! However, are you married? The things you just described would be someone who doesn't hold the qualities of good morals and character. If you noticed, I said good morals and character with pure hearts. A cheater wouldn't possess any of those qualities. Man or woman. In my opinion, if it is a desire to be married, it is good to have friends who have an outlook on relationships that are healthy and emotionally stable. Just my opinion.

[@jag2666]

Very good point. You are focused on quality, good, worthy men in your comment and she went to the negative. This often happens when many only experienced the wrong kinds of men. They don't beleive their are good ones out there. You said that you are speaking of men of morals and principles and those husband's that do what she described don't fit that mold.. more need to focus on the good qualities vs the bad​@@BeautyCaveCa

[@shamrockshow8490]

@@BeautyCaveCa Everything I described is the truth! Now, I understand a lot of black women don’t like the truth, but it is what is. People with great character, religious, morals, upstanding citizens, etc will still cheat and lie. They will also put on facades making you think they’re something they’re not. This is something that happens all the time, makes national news too. I don’t put anything past anyone. And, like I said before I don’t look at other people’s marriages because when you do and when something happens then y’all are like “ omg, we thought they were the perfect couple we didn’t know they were going through all that”. You’re the type to think because someone has morals means they’re a perfect person, not. They’re still wearing flesh! Which brings me to answer your question “ am I married”? I’ve been married once, divorced and now engaged to my soon to be second husband. See, people like you think it’s hard to get married and it’s NOT. Yall also believe someone being married validates you and whatever comment that one states, it doesn’t.

[@regrich8795]

@@shamrockshow8490yep most married people are not happy i know plenty who says never again

[@IfOnlyItWasThatEasy]

She is dangerous… Like just empty headed..

[@Downindeeswampsboyz]

Exactly 💯

[@factsunloaded4808]

Yup...man with shit together can sense that...

[@kwameeblackmon4310]

and she's gonna raise some air headed dumd ass kids 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@guyadelaidekonvolbo-op4ro]

Nonsensical things ,, about our black queens ,,, having one of these , is like getting a bomb 💣 for delay ,, black men do not care about buttocks but intelligence periodddddd

[@tonylee3721]

Eventually she'll settle for a simp and she's going to terrorize and deeestroy him😅

[@ShortKingz2]

Short men all over the world are relieved.

[@ikedaddyluv]

Amen, I’m glad I’m 5’7

[@steelysam7189]

She certainly isn't worth getting leg length surgery over. No woman should be worth going through that.

[@KingDavid0501]

I was about to walk my bird...then I saw all of that ass!!! But I am only 5'7...so now I am about to go walk my gold fish!!! Her mind is on empty 😂😅

[@psyicario8791]

Kendra asked her was that man she slept with was an option but in that man's eyes this woman was never an option for him😂

[@ThunderKat2012]

Translation: he’s better looking then her and he has more options 😂

[@angelabennings8027]

Honestly, she is a prime example of how women really need good friends, mommas, daddies and Aunties telling them the truth and being a living example.

[@AngelPenn]

@@angelabennings8027 YESSSSS

[@jmove6206]

No Dad to protect, guide, and love her into self-love.

[@iwilson3950]

Throw some good, heterosexual men in the mix too! Some of my best advice on men has been from my good guy friends!!

[@angelabennings8027]

Advice isn’t always well received unless the person is ready for change and that’s why the best advice is being a living example. People are watching you even when you’re not paying attention to them so be a living example.

[@Violettawrites]

being a living example, because from my experience not a single woman I've ever known has taken truth, critique or advice seriously or without offense.

[@__TheTruth]

The mall is open but the stores are closed

[@Rainsnowreadysetblow]

Nah. The parking lot is open...the mall doors are closed and chained, chile.

[@chasity1081]

Yall funny❕️ I get it though. 😆😆😆😆

[@itsstilljoose]

The women really dont understand how bad some of what they say actually sounds

[@texasaggieinorlando2396]

The lights are on, but no one is home.

[@MarvelousJP]

@@itsstilljooseI don’t think they care tbh. 70% single parent household in our community I think they’re banking on finding some low self esteem loser raised by mommy who lacks a backbone and will do whatever she says

[@kingpin210]

Not having sexual discipline and lustful desires while thinking sex is a need instead of a want is not good

[@officiallyveeveetv]

🤷🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@standforluv]

I gotta say I truly appreciate Kendra for telling women the truth about themselves and about what men are looking for. Most times we ABSOLUTELY marry the woman who is different, set apart, and adds significant value to us. It’s great if she’s breathtaking and has the body of a goddess, but most women who look like that don’t add significant value because they are empty inside.

[@KendraGMedia]

❤❤❤❤

[@mannyjamms3797]

Not taking no woman with no BBL home to my grandma and mom they will look at me crazy

[@lastdragonx]

​@@KendraGMedia Good job Kendra.

[@cooluser4017]

Kendra trying to give her advice but you know she aint gonna listen

[@gr4267]

This woman is a dating app vixen! Brothers are hitten it and quittin it! All she has to offer is her body and she is dumb as a rock!

[@koolsmoothfan]

they never do

[@cocolokoflacco]

304's will be 304's

[@starwilliams8566]

Straight facts.

[@TRILLTALKTV]

i think she was listening

[@brownmamba6538]

Height is more important than character.

[@brandonleemoss]

The women that call in: Height>>>>>Happiness

[@deeluv6984]

Word! And to us men natural is better than make-up, eyelashs, wigs, bbl etc lol

[@kennethwatts4390]

​@deeluv6984 exactly

[@ejay2075]

I'm over 6 feet, I know

[@koolsmoothfan]

@@deeluv6984 big facts, natural all day everyday

[@gospelbassed]

So ole buddy wasn't even pursing her. She was just throwing free 🐱 at him, and he couldn't even be bothered to call back. I would have kept that situation to myself.

[@TheCreoleSon89]

To be fair, she probably got a few meals out of him. But he definitely just wanted to hit that BBL 🍑 with a 🍆 and run.

[@islandbound843]

Naw folks need to hear the real

[@suckersandmarks4986]

Absolutely.

[@jmoney2610]

How was it free if he took her on 3 dates and probably talked to her for 1 month

[@starbloclocal20]

​@@jmoney2610 my gee 3 date it was free com on..

[@buckeyesl5]

The guy that she thinks she qualifies for doesn’t take her seriously. This is what most women deal with.

[@LOSTGPS]

which is why most end up baby mamas

[@Onlyfansera]

It’s a real sad loop

[@florenbaron7111]

Yes, it's sad. If women dated on their own level these women would not have so many problems. Women need to increase their standards regarding good character and decrease their standards regarding looks and money.

[@drecool85]

Women, telling people you used to be engaged but never married is NOT attractive.

[@mybusinessnotyours8166]

No one cares about what you find attractive. That’s why women do the opposite

[@user-gn8to4wj9q]

Why......So what if the shoe was on the other foot...would it be more attractive for a man to be engaged but never married? Make it Make sense

[@regrich8795]

Yep they are trying to feel like someone wanted them but really didn’t

[@missjoy6685]

@@user-gn8to4wj9qit’s not the same. The men are the ones who ask for your hand, spend a bag on the ring and need to propose. To accept all the these things with the intention of NOT walking down the aisle is a major 🚩🚩🚩🚩

[@Flash413]

If walking contradiction was a person…..

[@checkerslane]

"The finest man is the man that treats me the best" Thats a great saying. instead of seeking the man with the prettiest face If ALL women can adopt that saying they will be way more successful in their pursuit of relationships

[@Nitanota]

@@checkerslane if men would adopt that saying as well I truly believe they would be in a better place lol

[@LOSTGPS]

@@Nitanota men are more realistic with their standards.

[@raypope1498]

​@@LOSTGPSnow why u on here lying when we all want a fine slim thick women at least a 7 or above 😂😂 with a big booty which makes her somewhat of a 10

[@lastdragonx]

Blah. Blah blah

[@candyxox]

A bum could treat a woman the best but we wouldn't want him because he's a bum

[@michaele5588]

JUST don't be the SIMP that pays MORE while the POOKIE gets it for FREE

[@PCCity-fl6kv]

Pookie didn’t get it free. He took her on 3 dates.

[@michaele5588]

@@PCCity-fl6kv yeah, cheap dates like Mcdonald, white castle and IHOP

[@PCCity-fl6kv]

@@michaele5588 It doesn’t matter he still spent money and waited over a month. That’s a long time to wait for some 🐱

[@MrTwonetwone]

@@PCCity-fl6kvyo slow ass believe her? 😂

[@Maria-cc6ci]

​@@PCCity-fl6kvamerican women's standards are so low. You bought me 3 meals, so now you can enter my body. It's insane

[@thelessons3768]

The elevator doesn't go all the way to the top...

[@joycec6222]

Something is definitely off

[@NezzyBone-bz4tb]

😂😂😂😂😂 very simply put but makes so much sense 😂😂😂

[@RepentingMan]

In England we say... a couple of slices short of a loaf.

[@itsstilljoose]

The women really dont understand how bad some of what they say actually sounds

[@suckersandmarks4986]

The think that they are having a personal and private conversation with Kendra G. They lose track of the fact that others are listening in.

[@readyredd414]

Dont feed the birds 🐥🐥🐥🐥🐤🐣🐦

[@D20jackson]

Aye Q

[@BrotherMouzone.l]

🎯😭🐦

[@VeeTwelve202]

@@D20jacksonAYE Q

[@patsajak7809]

😆😆😆

[@chefmarco305]

That's my profile picture lol 😂 Aye Q

[@KGriffin34]

As a tall, dark man that is morally conscious, STRAIGHT and have a nice job; everything Kendra said is correct. The pool of women is wide open for guys like us. Women throw their bodies at us as a means of wanting to be in a relationship. Ma’am let me be a real man for you, if you are an amazing woman your body isn’t going to be my primary focus.

[@ejay2075]

Wide open indeed. Don't tell them nothing, let them crash out. Two dates at Applebee's and I'm already bending that azz over 😂

[@koolsmoothfan]

preach, looks fade but personality stays! You can be a dime piece but if you have a nasty personality, you can kick rocks.

[@prettyperfectpagne6226]

Bingo ‼️

[@standforluv]

This comment needs to be pinned 💯💯💯💪🏾💪🏾🫡

[@saharaloveland]

This why when tall dark men approach some women such as myself I don't even bother taking nothing they saying serious lol I like men HIGHLY HIGHLY unattractive nowadays haha but the attractive still be trying to talk too and I automatically assume he have bad intend

[@candacewilliams3285]

They get those bbl's to get men attention. When they get the attention and get used for it, they want to place all the blame on the man, but it's almost like they brought it on themselves. Like Kendra said when they lead with their bodies, that's the results they mostly will get.

[@JoannaCali-l2d]

@@candacewilliams3285 It's actually opposite a friend of mine who married an amazing man, And even gave me advise on my former marriage . . She girly is proof when a man wants you, he will wife you. And, she married him a month after they met.

[@Nitanota]

@@candacewilliams3285 she said she had a bbl or are you projecting?

[@jim3565]

@@Nitanota17:02

[@Nitanota]

@@jim3565 kk thanks for the time stamp

[@victoriafrasure148]

​@@Nitanota Lol 😂 u can tell she has a bbl.. they booty be a little boxy up top

[@nickij8464]

Kendra is sick of her.

[@cocolokoflacco]

noooo, it's more seems like Kendra feels srry for her cuz shortie looks like she was abt to cry when she finally realized she took the wrong route. but she's not wifey material anywayz cuz she puts too much importance on secks. many women want to be a wife doesn't mean they wifey-material

[@lastdragonx]

She gonna be a baby mama. Watch

[@etuitivemillionaire]

My spider senses are telling me she's on the spectrum. 🧐

[@Yobachi2007]

On the flight spectrum. She's just a bird!

[@JUWLZ777]

Pleaseeeeee 😂

[@etuitivemillionaire]

@@Yobachi2007😂😂😂 Comedy 🎭 Gold. The lion 🦁 goes after the slow zebras 🦓 with a limp. He doesn't try to eat the strong 💪 elephants 🐘 who will fight back

[@ShaneusSnake]

Autistic people are usually consistent. She’s all over the place

[@TyroneDewayne]

She said the dog was talking and had a serious face while not being able to focus. Definitely not all the way there.

[@wiljonson2744]

Ladies, if the dates of that last relationship and the last time you were intimate question don't line up, you are probably better off not answering that question.

[@mybusinessnotyours8166]

@@wiljonson2744 oh please! Y’all judge women who don’t answer too

[@kimberly329]

If a woman says it’s been 3 years y’all call her a liar. If she says 3 months she’s for the street. If she declines to answer then you assume last night. Can’t win for losing.

[@jaigeils1096]

​@@kimberly329 that's true whateva answer ya"ll use .. So,, don't answer the inquiry. Capeesh ms?😮😄😉

[@kimberly329]

@@jaigeils1096 Why? So you can assume last night? 🖕🏾

[@jaigeils1096]

@@kimberly329 nah, as we both know what it means to 'assume', besides. It wouldn't benefit guessing. Time would tell 😏

[@gr4267]

Three dates and ran through by a lot of brothers. She is living on dating apps and is auditioning many men in her bedroom. SMH 304 without the money

[@jazzy18]

Ouch

[@GodmadeJesussaves]

I’m sorry, but 27 where? 🤔 I would expect this from a 19 year old. Girl, stop telling these guys the blueprint in getting into your drawls 😭 you’re making it soooo easy

[@gliboperuta9213]

men love when its easy and simple

[@GodmadeJesussaves]

@@gliboperuta9213 especially if she’s bad! I would love it too 😭

[@vereen70]

Spoiler alert: We already know…

[@AngelPenn]

Oh little sis…your standards or lack thereof….. I don’t know your full story but it sounds like you’ve got some healing and growing to do.

[@StrongerThanSorrow]

Having self-worth is lonely. Knowing your worth is what keeps you grounded and helps you get through those moments. I’m glad she knows she needs to work on her self-love. Best wishes. Sadly, some women think being a “wife” is the end all be all. Self-love, self-worth trumps being the wife to an underserving man. She seems open to learning. A mentor will help.

[@fitzgeraldsemelfort3938]

Not a wife she is everything else

[@waltslife155]

If most men you sleep with are not calling you after they get the cookie, either you're choosing badly, or the men don't think you have much else to offer

[@handsomebastard305]

Or maybe her sex isn't good, and he moved on. In the same way they look for good sex as part of a relationship with us, men do the same thing. The music hype these girls up but in reality most of them are not as good in bed as they may think. We know all men are not as blessed, but I've never met a woman who does not feel like she doesn't have the world's best W.A.P😂

[@trombonefellow]

She's probably not that good in bed either

[@njpme]

The 🐱 isn't good 😂

[@The_Ndegwa]

Pookies prize on full display.

[@loyalqueen676]

This interview saddened me😢

[@GoofyFlan]

Oh, my Lord! She actually said she doesn't want a man who has a job a 16-year-old can do. Correct me if I'm wrong but does anyone have a 6-year-old who can't bathe a cat and brush the flees off a dog? The NERVE!

[@Nitanota]

Ummm 😂 you’re upset she doesn’t want to date a fast food worker? Like what lol swear yall be trolling

[@GoofyFlan]

@@Nitanota I don't get upset. She's begging a "good-looking man" for a jump who doesn't even call her. That's LESS than any honest worker.

[@moblack5883]

@@Nitanotashe literally has a fast food level job. She washed animals rear ends for living.

[@e3xiii315]

Dog grooming is something you need a license to do and its more than washing a dog. Its a very lucrative business. I guess a barber would be the same as a burger flipper with that logic.

[@Nitanota]

@@GoofyFlan you’re switching the subject 😭

[@thankthelord4536]

BBL BABES.

[@brianal7143]

Just to attract dust 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@ES92-]

@@brianal7143The Wild West💀

[@cocolokoflacco]

​@brianal7143 the thing is......when will these bbl shorties realize "the dust" is their level of men lol. when do you ever see high value men in suits with a woman with a bigazz bbl. they be so slow yo

[@ElaynaAlexander-z5r]

Was thinking the same

[@Richard-Reloaded]

BBL BRIGADE

[@missjoy6685]

Not the dog talking to you but the guy that hit it won’t 😂 Whew chile!

[@pharos529]

🤣

[@Blair332]

I got to this comment and burst out laughing.😂😂😂

[@realerthanrealdealholyfiel4028]

Lmao!!!

[@WarriorMentality82]

😂😂😂

[@roadking3844]

😂😂😂🤦🏾‍♂️

[@controllingourimage]

This is the definition of what a poet named Project Pat said and I quote, “Don’t save her, she don’t want to be saved”. It’s heartbreaking to see what this broken culture has done to the young ladies. The devil has a plan fathers it’s time to have a better one to protect our daughters from this mess.

[@deeluv6984]

Amen!

[@controllingourimage]

@@deeluv6984the culture here is breaking the young ladies. That video was every father with daughters nightmare.

[@UBeesh10]

2 things I ain't ever in my life seen befo' Is a U.F.O And a heaux that wouldn't go -Project Pat

[@SegunOpebi]

@@controllingourimage - There’s nothing heart breaking about the consequences of this culture. They actively fought and demanded a deregulated “segual” market and they got it. Fk em. Fellas, enjoy the buffet and protect yourself at all times.

[@controllingourimage]

@@UBeesh10 one of the most underrated albums ever.

[@brandonbrown6918]

Besides being ditsy, she seems really chill, and understanding. This the first lady on here, who didn't fight what Kendra was saying, and seem accepting of it , and honestly concerned about how to change her outcome. She just seems misguided, but is flexible in her mindset. 6:05 was hard to see. She just needs a good men to come into her life. Theres nothing wrong with her, she seems the type who would mold to whomever takes her on. Actually rooting for her🙏🏾👌🏿

[@fitzgeraldsemelfort3938]

The problem is she is not going to attract the man she needs she will be 35 in a blink and she will be a dime a dozen

[@PFlaw317]

I was dying when she was describing the guy who doesn’t call her in that exchange with Kendra . That was funny AF 🤣🤣🤣

[@logicalcritik2144]

It was booty call sex and he was done 😂

[@JamFanHot]

The tight clothes she wore online, she won't attract a high value guy. She needs someone to guide her. All those tattoos on her arm won't help.

[@lomaxlomax6152]

The outfit was not a good move.

[@ZanderLovesYou]

Dog grooming is NOT a career and I know a few 17 year old dog groomers 🤦🏽‍♂️🤣. These women are nuts …

[@Janet-rg4di]

😂 l know, l mean where do you move up to after being a dog groomer 🤷‍♀️

[@standforluv]

She slow bruh

[@MrsBDatCreole]

I was trying to find out if she owns a dog grooming business or she’s just the dog groomer. lol.

[@suckersandmarks4986]

@@Janet-rg4di She doesn't want a man who works in the fast food industry but her last position was bartending and now she's dog walking.

[@Maria-cc6ci]

Lmao literally!! Kids can pick up a shift as a dog groomer after the school day is let out..i can't 😂

[@sidehustlevikki1066]

When will people learn that unattractive people can make the best partners. Attractive people get chances simply because people are attracted to them. Less attractive people have to rely on their personality and people skills and are often times more enjoyable to be around

[@myeshabrown9114]

Okay, I’m love me an “unattractive”, good heart, and morals man. I don’t care about sex or if it’s good. Sex can improve

[@sidehustlevikki1066]

@@myeshabrown9114 so many of us will be single and lonely bc we got superficial requirements on how a person should look. Give me the ugly person who is nice and fun to be around.

[@iwilson3950]

My Father had a saying, “A person can’t help how their face looks but they can help how their body looks!!”

[@JayG-u5d]

@@sidehustlevikki1066 Why does it have to be either or? A person can be attractive and fun.

[@trombonefellow]

In my experience unattractive women have the worst personalities.

[@jossangeles4011]

She said she wants a man with common sense, but I'm not seeing it from her particularly when it comes to dating and sex.

[@moblack5883]

Gotta love how Kendra is now using Kevin Samuels talking points. “Y’all all want the same man “

[@Nitanota]

@@moblack5883 so don’t all men want the same woman according to him 2 ?

[@fredm.2699]

@@Nitanotadumb comment…the SUBJECT is kendra using KS talking points…not whether the talking points are accurate or symmetrical…this is a basic concept…but yall love arguing

[@Nitanota]

@@fredm.2699 stop being disingenuous 😂 “gotta love” . Idk who y’all is & the topic is KS & his talking points just because you don’t like my accurate statement doesn’t make it off topic. Y’all literally can’t handle facts lol

[@shaunlawton5550]

@@Nitanotano men don’t actually want the same woman. Swipe data from dating apps shows us that men swipe on nearly half of all women but women swipe on a small percentage of men. Men like all different types of women, the ladies all want a 6’5 man in finance with blue eyes.

[@Nitanota]

@@fredm.2699 btw welcome to the internet 🛜

[@yahmadoss6860]

I agree 💯 with Kendra. The couple of Wombmans that i know that got those BBls a couple of years ago are STILL Single and can hardly get a Date. So you have to Wonder what was the Goal when you spent all those $$ to do That?😮

[@Fabrizio7171]

Never ending supply of new attention.

[@HoldenMuhKnutz]

27 and still learning? The Grace women give each other. Wow.

[@moblack5883]

To think at 27 I was a home owner, acquired 2 degrees, and had started on my career.

[@lesliemarshall88]

Heterosexual men don’t date other heterosexual men. Trust me when I say, prior to meeting and marrying my husband, I met more than plenty of men who were in their 30s, 40s and sadly even 50s that sounded and acted immature and would actually say “I’m still learning”. It’s slim pickings on both sides. Thank God I met my husband right before I decided to give up.

[@Tricey.89]

Everyone is still learning even at 50, but this one has no discernment on who she is trying to get in a relationship with.

[@Richie-xr7zb]

Because you dont meet her requirement does not mean she not worthy. Learning is a life time process.

[@moblack5883]

@@Richie-xr7zb a woman giving away her youth and body like that doesn't have requirements

[@lomaxlomax6152]

She said she dresses to impress 😮??? Ain’t no way she wore that on a dating show talking bout I dress to impress

[@Smileychild22]

Still showing off her body with that dreadful bbl 🥴

[@bruh-in-I.E.]

3 dates = open the kitty's gate!

[@etuitivemillionaire]

Flewed out bros assemble. You only need to wait 3 dates to glaze the yams

[@Feed-My-Mind-Not-My-Ego]

"Flewed?" 🤦🏾‍♀️ I hope you all work on your grammar 📚 before flying out. ✈️

[@etuitivemillionaire]

@@Feed-My-Mind-Not-My-Ego"Flewed out" is a slang term that means someone was flown to a place, usually by plane.

[@etuitivemillionaire]

I'm too cheap to cheat. Only people I purchased airplanes tickets for: Wife, kids, Sisters, and mother.

[@JustBree716]

​@@Feed-My-Mind-Not-My-Ego it's not even that serious Mr grammar person 😅

[@Feed-My-Mind-Not-My-Ego]

@etuitivemillionaire I don't think you understand. Is "flewed" another ebonics word made up by the uneducated and accepted by the black community? I just don't see that word anywhere in the dictionary. I see the word "flew," but not "flewed."

[@twashington9983]

I would say she's broken, but I don't think she was ever put together.

[@Armyvet55]

😂😂😂😂😂😂facts

[@standforluv]

Exactly

[@Tricey.89]

😂😂

[@takinganewapproachpodcast2994]

That's mean lol

[@melvinbarnes6652]

Props to Kendra on this one. She really did pass on some solid advice this time.

[@jim3565]

The crazy thing about this is a man can check all her boxes but if he under 5”9 she wouldn’t give him a chance…🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️and we wonder why marriage is low in our community.

[@mybusinessnotyours8166]

She doesn’t have to. You wouldn’t date a fat chick

[@leataylor9277]

@@mybusinessnotyours8166 Means they don’t care about themselves, and health. Height can’t be changed.

[@suckersandmarks4986]

The impact of social media on culture.

[@missnene6879]

I have a female friend who is 6'3 . Very successful, attractive. Men prefer women who aren't 6'3 . People have preferences.

[@mybusinessnotyours8166]

@@leataylor9277 doesn’t matter what can be changed if no one wants it, in this case she doesn’t want short men that’s her choice

[@demuntresmith6666]

No disrespect to my black queen, I think she needs some therapy

[@Smileychild22]

None taken..and we agree. She needs more self love too❤

[@KidFromQueens]

First 30seconds watching I saw she was off and/or dead inside and the comments didn’t disappoint!😂😂

[@Janet-rg4di]

😂😂😂 Me too, clearly not all there.

[@warrenbagby6749]

She is goofy.

[@Ms.NeverPlayPretty]

Why the hell do they always answer when the last time they had sex was, although Kendra tells them, they DO NOT HAVE TO ANSWER! Then when they answer it and start explaining it just gets worse and worse!

[@PFlaw317]

Because they think it's 'empowering' to be open about their sexual exploits

[@Ms.NeverPlayPretty]

@@PFlaw317 delusion at its finest! Smh 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@EezeeGroover]

LOL. These women are tragically hilarious 😂 🤣

[@Rainsnowreadysetblow]

Animal groomer? Who's trusting her with their dog. Whoo, chile.

[@brandonleemoss]

A project groomer for project pets😂

[@Naeemah_79]

😂😂

[@phytgurloptimalhealth1527]

You know how your pet groomer conducts themselves at home?

[@drecool85]

YOU CAN GET YOUR BBL REVERSED! NOTICE ALL THE KATDASHIANS DID IT, BLACK CHYNA , LALA, K MICHELLE, ETC… that’s why it’s important not to follow trends!!!

[@cyes1156]

Facts....Even Dream Doll the rapper (32yrs old) said that she regrets getting her BBL too on a podcaat...Dream Doll also said she wants her natural body back......Wow.....Notice that all of their regrets surface when they turn 30 or in their 30's smh

[@zeezee990]

The way you will know.., is DONT GIVE HIM SEX… until he treats you like you’re in an exclusive relationship.. that means he dates you and courts you consistently … introduces you to his family/ friends… is consistently pursuing you for at least 6 months with NO SEX… If he only wants sex, HE WILL NOT stick around that long and pursue you

[@eprophil]

He can wait for sex and still don’t call you after he gets it.

[@IAMHERE486]

Yup and all of them won’t stick around and that’s why more women are choosing to be single and celibate.Or they may just sleep with someone else until you give it up.

[@johnjay3308]

Horrible advice ma'am. 6 months? Nonsense. Sounds like you've read the Steve Harvey manual... of relationship failure.

[@zeezee990]

@@johnjay3308 6 months is not a long time… he can just keep having sex with the women he dated before he met her…

[@mrmoe110]

The problem is the guy women are most attracted to isn’t going for that. He’ll just move along to the one who’s gonna give it up. The guy who will actually do what you said is probably a guy who doesn’t have a lot of options when it comes to women.

[@AyooMurray]

Not gonna lie, Kendra dropping some real good advice. I was nodding my head to about everything she was saying.

[@JustBree716]

I don't think some of these young ladies understand what dating is. She specifically keeps referring to one guy that ignores her or only responds to late night messages. He's not her man which means she's allowed to date a few guys and narrow it down. If she has anything of substance to offer the right guy will return the calls and be consistent. I mean this is the time to get it done. Aint that much dog grooming in the world. As women we put more time and effort into random BS than who we want to spend a lifetime with. Its really quite sad.

[@rahh3602]

3 stops at McDonald's and im hitting. 💪🏿

[@GoofyFlan]

Whoooa,Bruh! Show that Queen some respect. Throw Popeye's in there somewhere.🍗

[@ES92-]

@@GoofyFlan😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Tricey.89]

😂

[@rahh3602]

@@GoofyFlan 🤣🤣

[@ukan.536]

You've got low standards.

[@latashap222]

The hair with the highlights compliment her skin tone. I wish her all the best finding love.

[@Noir_Nouveau]

Her mental will keep her from finding a good husband. Change your mental baby girl while there is still time but the clock is ticking.

[@cecilealleyne7836]

GREAT advice to this young lady Kendra

[@lilmotown8109]

I’m calling from Michigan 😂😂 next video 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Terencew101]

Don’t save her she don’t want to be saved.- Kendra

[@theguyshepassedupfortyrone]

If you follow Kendra's advice, you'll end up like Kendra. That's free game.

[@irvinkaleb]

27 and still learning? Men repeatedly say this ish all the time. And women get mad when we say we dont wana do more work than the last guy. 13:30 - 14:35 kendra couldnt be more accurate

[@MrDee001]

Dang, I'm 6' 2", well built. But own a small chain of food franchises. I guess my "fast food" job is not good enough for her. 😢

[@leataylor9277]

You don’t want her anyway 😂

[@MrDee001]

@@leataylor9277 I mean, she was going to be my queen. 🤣

[@mkmeabeliever]

​@leataylor9277 I wouldn't either. She had sex 2 wks ago and she can't even wait 90 days! And.....she seems kinda off. She's just a "jump off".

[@ES92-]

Damn Bro, too bad for you. What a Catch ur missing 😂

[@takinganewapproachpodcast2994]

Sorry for your loss. 😂

[@patrickdickson7220]

Wow. I never knew women count engagements as marriages.

[@ES92-]

3 proposals equals a marriage 😂😂

[@johnjay3308]

Our women do more than any other race on planet earth

[@shaun901d]

Do she know that a 16 y/o can also do pet grooming.

[@ES92-]

Woof

[@lorenathorpe8909]

The best married woman to give a single woman advice would be her successfully and happily married mother.

[@Shaolin80000]

Husbands don’t want their wives to have new single BBL friends. Ya heard!

[@S0.3]

Shes a sweetheart Im glad big sister came out in Kendra Destiny needed it She may not realise rn but hopefully it'll hit home

[@jwill6008]

Safe combination: 3 dates within 2 months. If not, must be 5'10" and make more than a dog groomer. Got it 👍🏾 Kendra killin em w/ game. I think she's tired of hearing this BS every day but it makes money.

[@kaykaye]

12:56 Her: I don't have that type of time, I am busy at work........(to go on serious dates) Me: so be ready to be a side chick for life

[@Fatfacetony]

She don't have time to go on 3 dates in a week, but go to the gym 4 times a week smh

[@kaykaye]

@@Fatfacetony she has no concept on what to prioritize

[@megalodon1726]

It takes 2 months to go on 3 dates with her and she wonders why the men don't stick around. 🤔

[@JTSBMW]

Bad wig, bad BBL and let's not forget, the big tats.😅

[@rlmiller2010]

Missing the nose rings.

[@JTSBMW]

That part

[@florenbaron7111]

Choosing a man based on character is the best advice. Women need to do this so they can avoid trauma or at least reduce it.

[@gemeaux2000]

" The men who will want to know her DEEPER" ? They have done that already..DEEPER IN HER GUTS😢

[@dailygrinders89]

Tell me that body count high without telling me 😅

[@Feed-My-Mind-Not-My-Ego]

Did I miss something? What does she want? Why did she call in? Im so confused. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@JustBree716]

She wants to get married but has to test out each one of those 🍆 before she makes her final decision

[@regrich8795]

The definition of a fun time 😮

[@Nubian11]

I’m a woman. My advice, to the young lady in the video dress more modestly. Save that luscious body with BBL for a man who deserves it, IN THE BEDROOM and when time comes, that is after you assessed him and he’s worthy. Let men come to you and court you the proper way, have stimulating conversation first, let them talk about themselves and their family background to get a clear understanding and view of their character, morals and goals. And of course make sure the right man is financially stable, and especially loyal and reliable, keep his promises. It may take some time, a couple of months, or a year but it’s ok, your body and mind is not a dumpster so you owe that to yourself.

[@AngelSoft15]

This comment deserves ALLL THEEE LIKES!!!❤

[@ericacollins1985]

I Feel bad for her. BUT SHE HONEST YOU GOT TO ADMIT LOL

[@phillipsimmons5586]

Listen long enough... It's coming 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@nicolesnotebook]

The girls question to Kendra at 18:36 broke my heart 🥺 poor girl

[@djymbelpow]

KG was trying so hard..unfortunately those women dont listen

[@geminimac613]

No substance here…. Just wait until the third date and you’re golden fellas 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@YValentine79]

I’m traditional… I have a bbl👍🏽

[@Caram3l_Bombsh3ll]

Baby girl gotta wise up.

[@edithandlez]

How come the “traditional” ones never dress traditionally????

[@YTguySmithy-lk6go]

1:40 " I'm looking for an ambitious man." That's just code for.. "I wanna rich guy." 🤭

[@cewilliamsable]

She a 🐦... 2 months is all it takes. Imagine how many dudes put in that little bit of time and bailed out. Body count in the dirty dozens

[@TRILLTALKTV]

at the end kendra made her wish she didn't get a bbl

[@Lucas-Mckenney]

She is Air Head with a BBL 😂😂😂

[@KickzNHarleyz]

I’m glad Kendra talked to her but this is really sad. You can feel the low self esteem through the screen.

[@jeremyheard2348]

If she has a bbl it's a no for me.

[@adams8830]

BBLs don't look good in person.

[@jeremyheard2348]

I agree. I dont want a woman that didnt work for it in the gym or inherit it from her mom and that goes for tits too. If I can't be fake then she can't be fake either.