Discipline and Developing the Fear of the Lord in Your Home | Episode 12

Many parents wonder if there is a perfect way to discipline and train their children. The answer is not so black-and-white-instead, it signifies a need for divine wisdom.
In this episode of At Home with the Beveres, Addison, Juli, and John share how to develop a holy fear of God that leads to wisdom in all areas of life-especially parenting.
After 40 years of ministry, John’s heart has a resounding cry for fathers, mothers, sons, and daughters to know and walk in fear of the Lord.
With his new book, The Awe of God, releasing tomorrow, John shares the wisdom gained from pursuing the fear of the Lord-and how that affects how we show up as parents, our legacies, and future generations.
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Chapters
0:00 - Episode Teaser
0:19 - Burning Questions: What is Godly Discipline?
5:34 - Discipline is Showing True Love
10:43 - The Power of Your Words
11:40 - Pause So You Don’t Provoke
15:30 - Fear of the Lord: Finishing Well
26:10 - The Final Move of God’s Spirit
28:08 - Developing the Fear of the Lord in Your Home
36:09 - Closing Prayer
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[@athomewiththebeveres]

Want to dive deeper into this message and discover how to cultivate holy fear in your life? Get your copy of John's newest book, "The Awe of God," here: bit.ly/3jY8uLa

[@Jaiyrz]

Hi Team, do you have distributers in the Philippines for this? Thank you!

[@jeremiahmoody4828]

I just wanted to say what a beautiful I mean a beautiful family ya are. I love you beautiful family.

[@81laurenashley]

Do you have a recommendations for taking our kids (mine are 11) through The Awe of God?

[@taniaevans2721]

John have you thought about writing a book The Awe of God for Kids?

[@DiogoReisBello]

I don't know If he thought that, but i know his wife Lisa Bevere wrote a little book for kids, like "Lisa the Lioness" If i'm not mistaken about the name

[@melaniegenuinely]

The discipline of the Lord is painful but it produces righteousness and holiness. Powerful truth!!!!

[@bellaendale7174]

This word here @6:19 from Addison about stop trying to discipline to correct in 5 mins that may need 5months to correct..I needed that. Thank you all for walking along side this Christian walk of faith marriage parenting and life ❤ your show is so desperately needed in our world today.

[@81laurenashley]

Yes, I needed that too!

[@vaniabatya]

Me too! Phew!

[@meetethan1857]

Jesus is King 👑

[@patricialobos1263]

So blessed by this. I do have the fear of the Lord! I don’t always pray for this but after today I will commit myself to pray this every ❤🙏🏻🙏🏻morning.

[@withthetrans]

The Awe of God has been one of the best, most powerful, most edifying books I've read. I've recommended it to so many people, including our small group. Thank you John for your obedience in waiting for God's call and pouring your life message into this precious, timeless book. I pray our generation and the future ones to come would continue to grow in holy awe and fear of the Lord. He is truly worthy of everything!!!!!!!

[@Jaiyrz]

Like many others, THANK YOU THANK YOU. To some people this is the only training they have received so far on these topics. I'm sure in heaven we will be surprised at how the big the impact was really. Blessings!

[@patriciasheehan5734]

Addison is so articulate. I’m in awe of his memory for scripture

[@deemarble9060]

You are soooo correct, John Bevere... sarcasm IS degrading... there is no love nor mercy, grace in sarcasm. Only degrading, which leaves a person bleeding in their soul.

[@angelashepherd7275]

Your ministry is truly a blessing. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and your hearts with us.

[@melissai4798]

Amazing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Did that come through loud enough?? Amazing guys, you are on the right path, you are on the right highway,, We NEED this!! All of this!

[@dustynsmith3913]

Thank you so much! Looking forward to more of these.

[@TheLulumarvin]

Yes I believe my children are coming back

[@mei.mei1]

Thank you for all your godly content and teachings you put out there, John. I esp love when you have conversations with your family, because that's often an indicator if someone practices what they preach (feedback from those who live with you). The Awe of God is def on my list of books to read. All that being said, I still disagree with spanking and don't believe in it, at least for myself. Just like how everyone has their own generational curses to break and personal sins they struggle with that don't apply to their neighbour, physical, emotional, and drug abuse runs in both my family and my husband's family. I grew up with a narcissistic father and bipolar mother, who used psychological manipulation and physical beatings as their main tools of discipline. That's been passed on to me where bipolar tendencies cause me to lose consciousness in anger/mania WHILE I beat a person/animal until I snap out of it and realise what's happened. So for me and my family, I don't even want to go there with the rod. Just like you wouldn't drink around something who's alcoholic. This is my chain to break, and I wish this generational sin ends with me. Pray for me, my family, and for godly wisdom. May God continue to bless you and your family.

[@thecurlywarrior]

God is good. I just downloaded the book in audible. Praying my fiancé and son come to Jesus 🙏🏽👑♥️ It’s beautiful the hope and faith I have in the Lord to save my family.

[@Nddad7777]

🙏

[@adriamcfarland6032]

I am praying today would be the day of their salvation. They are loved and called and I pray they give their hearts to God and experience knowing Him ❤ God bless you!

[@richardfrank4647]

Love this form of teaching just precious 🌈🌈God bless you saints 🌈🌈

[@MiquelDancy]

this is good and very eye opening 🙏🏾

[@agapeoguntolu8864]

Thank God and thank you sooooo much for this. This is a REAL BLESSING and very much needed.

[@lukemorgan-courageofthesoul]

13:52 I really love all of the wisdom & truth. I certainly don’t want you guys to have to caveat everything, but as an adoptive mom, it could be good to acknowledge some kids who come from trauma…spanking is not an option. But I love what I heard a pastor say that we can’t raise godly kids without the Holy Spirit. Keep all the truth coming! ❤❤❤❤❤

[@mjalphonse]

I received the Awe of God book for free on the Kim Walker/John Bevere tour, and it has completely changed my life! Thank you John!

[@gardenjoy5223]

What an extraordinarily beautiful woman Juli is. From every angle. Don't know why I write this now. Perhaps others in jealousy have made her feel insecure at part? Juli, you are extraordinarily beautiful from every angle the camera shoots you. It's nothing to be proud of, for it's a gift you were born with. It's nice nonetheless :) You are also beautiful on the inside and it shines through your eyes and demeanor. Now, that is an achievement, since we are all born to love sin and self above God. So thank you for the discipline, that you are disciplining yourself with to become beautiful on the inside as well. May God bless you and enrich you with even more wisdom. May the goodness and the kindness of God radiate through you to lift Many others up. Love, a sister in Christ.

[@monicajohnson4855]

Though I'm late to this episode...this is SO TIMELY 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@johannabezuidenhout4252]

Thanks for the word of wisdom how privileged is this generation to get teachings like this young people apply it it works. God's blessings to you all.

[@viviannyii]

Thank God for the treasure of His Word!!! And thank God for you guys, the Beveres!!

[@katyb2793]

Thank you Julie for always asking how we can practically apply things to our lives! ☺😄

[@magdalinemwangi4189]

Always a blessing, Beveres!

[@sarahbirdsall2305]

Got my book and am excited to dive in! Very timely message! God is so good!

[@freetobe15]

Thank you, guys, for sharing these episodes and conversations. They are an encouragement and strength to others!

[@Anehita]

God bless you guys. Such an important teaching. I pray for the fear of the Lord to finish well. Can’t wait to read the book!

[@ingrideksteen8457]

😢😢Omw guys, this is more precious than gold. You guys have really spoken into my heart. Thank you for your effort to record conversation like these.

[@jessicafoster3142]

So good! Thanks for allowing the Holy Spirit speaking to my soul. God definitely spoke into a place He's been pruning in me and it was in a kind yet blunt and direct way. It was a great example of His discipline and how I can discipline my children in a godly way. Blessings to you and your families.

[@veronica.aztxco]

This one stirred me so!❤️‍🔥Thank you all so much 🥹

[@reneeorsak1144]

Thank you for the sarcasm conversation wow.

[@vaniabatya]

I cried. I felt convicted and inspired and encouraged! Thank you so much for these talks! It’s not too late!

[@keyshaallison9378]

Love this message. We are a blended family with a newborn baby added to the mix and have had an uprise in behavior and I have been lost on how to discipline. The idea of it being discipleship helps me so much! Thank you all!

[@jonaportillo2806]

Thank you for this, it was a great blessing! Greetings from Cordoba, Argentina!

[@stephenlewis9436]

Truly loved the book and looking forward to the videos!Also Thankyou all for your heart for the lost and Believers alike! Love and Appreciate you ALL!❤

[@iliyanagabrovska4569]

Hi Guys,thank you so much for the wisdom words🙌👐👋❤️❤️❤️I have three children and we are trying to teach them God's ways but it's very hard😲The biggest one age 9 boy has a problem with the anger and following commands any.He speak rudely to us and sometimes even try to hit us.We use all methods of discipline like talking explaining,also smacking and shouting ,taking things away but can't see improvement 😢Please pray for us God to give us wisdom,self control and love 🙏🙏🙏Thank you,love you

[@VB-gh6ry]

I pray for you. Have you ever consider to fast for your children?

[@joyhoward0423]

I am reading this book and as I read I can feel the presence of the Lord...the anointing that John carries is astonishing. Thank you for the sacrifices made to bring this book about.

[@DiogoReisBello]

Read "Breaking Intimidation", "Relentless", "The Holy Spirit An Introduction" and this "The Awe of God" by John Bevere! Also, read "Holy Spirit The Bondage Breaker" and "Carriers of His Glory" by David Diga Hernandes, and "When Heaven Invade the Earth" and "Hosting the Presence" by Bill Johnson!! I know it's many books, but it will powerfuly bless you!! P.S. I also recommend you to fast for your kid, Lisa Bevere's books like "Strong" and "It's Not How You Look But What You See" or something like that (this book talks about fasting as well If i'm not mistaken!), and there's also the 2 books she wrote with her husband John, "Pathway to His Presence" and "The Story of Marriage"!

[@dinagoddard1306]

Please check out the little skunk by Sue Banks. Life changing realities. They have a book for parents too. Please make the time.

[@rjh5435]

Thank you. This was a great discussion on something that's not really discussed. Loved the correlation between Discipline and Disciple.

[@graceurassa-xk1dp]

Saints family God bless you from Tanzania

[@saved9511]

Yes KZbin please which can be forwarded all over the world. God will bless you abundantly.

[@camcardinal8048]

I grew up without a father or pastor and it would be helpful to know what the father and pastor had said that helped the seventh grade boy...

[@stephaniegiron9882]

I loved the awkward Outro 😅 😂 but it was a fantastic message thank you 🙏

[@ileana.e.jimenez]

Yes please do a part 2 of this video. I’m learning so much

[@berlindakwafo8509]

God bless you for these wisdom

[@Mukria-2024]

So far soo good. readdy beautiful

[@savedbygrace8833]

Thank you Lord I needed this message for parenting my teenage boy.I m a single mom .Need guidance about parenting .Can you make a video about this

[@DiogoReisBello]

Lisa Bevere (John Bevere's wife) has videos about that, the series of vídeo is titled "Moms of Men" and i believe will bless you powerfuly

[@user-el1lo8eh8l]

hello there GOD BLESS YOUR MINSTRY .

[@RaymondMorris-Divineorder]

Powerful truths...amen

[@reneeorsak1144]

Please do the series!!

[@sarafernandez6837]

Consequences doesn't always mean punishment. Consequences just means there are effects to to your actions they can be positive or negative

[@jasmynngilger9983]

Thank you so much for your messages! I have been so blessed! I actually bought the audible book The Awe of God and then found out about the videos. Since I don't have the physical book, I didn't get the QR code. Is this available for audible purchasers? Thanks so much!

[@therhoadestotaiwan]

Great!

[@donnahodson508]

Wow…I was such a terrible parent. I was a screamer and originally not a spanker. If there was one thing I could change, it would be to be in Christ and raise my children with Christ. I was raised in a sarcastic family as well.

[@lindsayrobie]

I love a lot of what these podcasts have to say. I did personally decide not to spank my kids. Does this mean I do not discipline my kids…not at all, but I do think there are other ways in which to shepherd kids. I was spanked as a child and initially thought I would spank my kids. Then after I had mine, I began praying and doing more research leaning that the staff was used to guide and the rod to redirect. Learning the physiological impact of spanking and how it actually causes damage in the brain made me really think twice. Not spanking sometimes makes discipline harder as you have to be more thoughtful and creative as to what will work. I am curious your podcast into spanking as I really have a gut feel that it isn’t the right way for my family. I don’t think I am wrong in this nor do I think it is wrong if someone feels that is what the Lord has called them to do (to spank or not spank). I just think there is too much weight given to “the rod” in passages that are meant to talk about discipline as a way of guiding/teaching/redirecting….love how you mention this, but I also don’t think spanking has to be a part of the equation.

[@doseofdoug8871]

First time watching this podcast.. the subject is fitting in this time of lawlessness in our society.. the closing video of another guy is funny or it needs editing..😂😊

[@actionjacksonmightymax722]

Yes, now parenting lessons.

[@ellenmensah6624]

This was a really great talk. It spoke to me personally on a level. I am always inspired and jn awe of your love, fear and respect for GOD John! You should have been born in biblical times! I wanted to ask about the Awe of GOD book. Can you get it in the UK?

[@KelceyG2019]

👏🏼

[@taniaevans2721]

Have you thought about writing a book The Awe of God for Kids?

[@runningwithfire7]

Hey guys, your podcasts have been SUCH a blessing and has answered questions I've wrestled with for a long time. I have a question though! We don't allow our kids to watch movies with magic, unicorns and mermaids or listen to worldly music - not in a controlling way, just because we don't want to open any doors and if we allow one mermaid, they will want all of the mermaid things and some things are crazy our there! If we arrive at someone's house who has any of those things, one of our kids will sneakily go play with those things if they're in that person's house and that child will fixate on it. How do we create a healthy balance and stay firm in our conviction when those around are open to anything? And how can we encourage our kids to pursue holiness and not even desire those toys or movies etc? Would love to hear your thoughts!

[@thej-dacademy6225]

Hey thank you so much for that talk! Can you please share the study/research of that Dallas seminary Professor about the 75% of biblical characters not finishing well? Would love to read through it! Thank you so much!

[@phyllisscanlan5404]

If you read Psalm 34 King David teaches us the fear of the Lord.

[@runningwithfire7]

Also, how do we maintain a home where our kids only want Jesus and nothing else? Obviously as little kids they want toys and get distracted, but what does entering into the presence of God with little kids look like?

[@nikkikauffman28]

I bought the Audible book. How do I get the code for the 48 videos that accompany them book?

[@SeanVplayer]

He explained that you can scan the QR code to receive it.

[@nataleeleon7740]

I think it’s a difference between beating your child or hitting your child out of anger without the teachings of the Lord rather than doing it with intentionality if that makes sense? I didn’t believe in hitting my future kids but in a dyer situation where they weren’t learning I feel like I would hit them with a wooden spoon or something but not on the bottom as idk where that stemmed from I just always thought hitting on the bottom was weird but if my toddler was going to burn their hand to touch the stove n didn’t understand what a stove was I think I would gently hit their hand or hit it hard enough where they no it’s bad but not where they cry. Idk I’m not there yet. But I plan on disciplining out of love and keeping my cool or trying to for sure

[@stephane9291]

Olá! Tem previsão para o lançamento do livro em português?

[@i.was.the.joy.set.before-Him]

🔥🙌🔥🔥🙌🙌🙌

[@littlehouseinthebigwoods9968]

It's killing me that you didn't tell us what wwf means 😅

[@zeenkosis]

Right? I’m scared to google it 😅