Attend a self-defense class in Traverse City held by women, for women

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I hope that the very first thing you're teaching when it comes to self defense is that women need a force multiplier. When you're walking around on average at a 50 to 100 lb weight disadvantage plus a reach disadvantage and a strength disadvantage you need something that will put you on the same level or higher. The only thing that will do that is a firearm. Go get a CPL become proficient with a pistol.