Running a Business with Down Syndrome

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After losing his wife to cancer Tony Sykes raised his four children alone - the two youngest Emma and Nicki, were born with Down Syndrome. Worried about how the future would be for his daughters if he wasn’t around, Tony has used his entrepreneurial know-how to establish a business, which he operates with Emma. Called Downlights - the venture is a shining success.
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@bigsky445
@bigsky445 5 жыл бұрын
This man deserves *FATHER OF THE YEAR!* *FATHER OF THE WORLD!* ❤❤❤❤❤❤
@StarAnnasDream
@StarAnnasDream 4 жыл бұрын
BigSky Family Awesome Dad
@vernitataylor8760
@vernitataylor8760 4 жыл бұрын
@@StarAnnasDream 🙋YESSS AWESOME 🤗💞DAD💯 PERCENT!!!!
@vernitataylor8760
@vernitataylor8760 4 жыл бұрын
@BigSky Family 👏🤗🥰💞!!!!
@maslinechachona7500
@maslinechachona7500 4 жыл бұрын
BigSky Family I agree ☝️ father of the year father of the world ❤️❤️❤️
@wildlifeforagers6515
@wildlifeforagers6515 4 жыл бұрын
also deserves boss of the year
@hirumayoichi21
@hirumayoichi21 5 жыл бұрын
He really is like a candle. Burning himself so that her daughters can shine brightly. He’s an amazing human being. They’re all are amazing
@sophiaforrester5631
@sophiaforrester5631 4 жыл бұрын
They are his children
@disneyfangirl3834
@disneyfangirl3834 4 жыл бұрын
It part of being a parent parents Loves their kids with no words
@Damnto
@Damnto 2 жыл бұрын
I know a neighbor with Down syndrome who only drinks water and eats chicken and rice. He’d throw up if given any other combo of food. Been copying him for a while and I’m super healthy because of it. No sugar, no bad fats and he works as a mechanic helper and believe or not he’s actually doing real work. He knows where all the tools and helps with oil change and fill inflation
@chasingclouds7101
@chasingclouds7101 5 жыл бұрын
I have never seen so much love from one man all my life. God bless you and your beautiful Angels dad.
@StarAnnasDream
@StarAnnasDream 4 жыл бұрын
Ann Ndeke You didn't meet MY Daddy.......
@atartup
@atartup 4 жыл бұрын
@@StarAnnasDream lmao no one cares
@imontosomething2609
@imontosomething2609 4 жыл бұрын
@@atartup You seemed to care since you replied.
@imaculatemponye4171
@imaculatemponye4171 4 жыл бұрын
@@imontosomething2609 , Exactly and her negativity shows that she is struggling with life and unhappy and has no one to give her love like this Dad has given to his kids. And @ miller you will be more unhappy in yr life because of not appreciating the little things in life. Happy people do not show negativity towards other peoples success in life, you should feel ashamed of yr self @ Miller
@colleenperrotte2779
@colleenperrotte2779 3 жыл бұрын
còñfàŕèñçè
@margaretflood-elahwal5861
@margaretflood-elahwal5861 4 жыл бұрын
That woman who helped them start the business really deserves a shout-out! She recognized that it was for EMMA and wanted to give her meaning to her life
@ambergreen6714
@ambergreen6714 5 жыл бұрын
I love the lady that taught them all about candles. So kind. Most ppl would be to afraid to lose money. I love this video.
@crystalriggs9525
@crystalriggs9525 5 жыл бұрын
Loved your documentary about your family, and your first daughter was right, everybody is different.
@gracesmurugi5591
@gracesmurugi5591 5 жыл бұрын
The lady is a bllsd soul
@mrs.garcia6978
@mrs.garcia6978 5 жыл бұрын
Love her accent too lol
@marinalina6348
@marinalina6348 5 жыл бұрын
that's a true Canadian at heart ~
@JimmiAlli
@JimmiAlli 5 жыл бұрын
I love Canadians
@stakknation123
@stakknation123 4 жыл бұрын
RIP to his lovely wife. Hopefully he can find another kind soul to spend the rest of his life.🌷
@parteichhakchhuak970
@parteichhakchhuak970 2 жыл бұрын
Such a loving Father . May God always bless him and his family with good health and in their endeavours 🙏
@lea_theminiaturepoodle5995
@lea_theminiaturepoodle5995 5 жыл бұрын
Wow! that man takes fatherhood to the next level!
@standardweeb4791
@standardweeb4791 3 жыл бұрын
a teal father
@mermaiddirector
@mermaiddirector 4 жыл бұрын
I love that he only depended on his older daughter's help for one year so he could reorganize his life. Some children get stuck caring for their younger siblings and the parent doesn't think about their needs. He actually used that grace period effectively.
@Isochest
@Isochest 2 жыл бұрын
I admire that. It's difficult but you have to remember to realise all your childrens' needs. He has done brilliantly
@aliyamoon80
@aliyamoon80 5 жыл бұрын
I love the woman who helped them with the candle business! What a kind soul! And what an amazing dad! What an amazing family! Much love to the staff and teachers at the special school! ❤️
@TheJarlath9
@TheJarlath9 4 жыл бұрын
yeah true but she also benefits they helped each other honestly
@karolsjolund8439
@karolsjolund8439 4 жыл бұрын
aliyamoon80 yeah, a true Canadian!
@teekotrain6845
@teekotrain6845 4 жыл бұрын
It was actually very nice. Life changing, with a butterfly effect
@cinnamonlifeministryinthec4067
@cinnamonlifeministryinthec4067 5 жыл бұрын
God bless this woman who had it in heart to help create something for Emma🙏🏽
@trevormann7479
@trevormann7479 4 жыл бұрын
These girls have a lot to track the human race about love. Bless you both
@Bbpierced
@Bbpierced 5 жыл бұрын
My heart just melted when he said he feels lucky to have them in his life. They are so blessed to have him in their lives as well! What an incredible father. I’m lost for words. ❤️
@jamieruzicka6267
@jamieruzicka6267 5 жыл бұрын
What a wonderful story....a father's love knows no bounds differently abled not disabled! Beautiful girls!
@absolutelyridiculous6743
@absolutelyridiculous6743 4 жыл бұрын
Differently abled...I really like this viewpoint. Thank you for your comment!
@janetbrowning9089
@janetbrowning9089 5 жыл бұрын
I love the name, "Downlights"...so fitting and so perfect!
@teresapinho8959
@teresapinho8959 5 жыл бұрын
He is such a wonderful dad and an amazing person!
@mi-thran-dirsbeard.4222
@mi-thran-dirsbeard.4222 4 жыл бұрын
Indeed! A most fitting name.
@Искра-у9ь
@Искра-у9ь 5 жыл бұрын
What a wonderful man. I just want all the best for him and his daughters.
@Landis_Grant
@Landis_Grant 2 жыл бұрын
He needs to get his two daughters to lose weight.
@ahhhlexandra
@ahhhlexandra 5 жыл бұрын
Oh my god . What a wonderful , strong , awesome dad !!!!!! Much respect !!! I feel so sad he lost his wife 🤧
@angelinasouren
@angelinasouren 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah so true. LOL, my dad bless him also lost his wife to cancer but he turned it into a big drama because he was not a very well or whole person. And I fear that all my siblings and I have learned is how to turn things into big dramas, LOL, and not how not to turn them into big dramas. I find this video very touching, the way Tony Sykes decided to honor his wife's memory by perpetuating her positivity. (My dad was always blaming people as a way to deal with his powerlessness. I can't believe that I am writing about this, so many decades later.)
@taltalim18
@taltalim18 5 жыл бұрын
Angelina Souren You and your siblings have the power to turn that around and to try to show your dad how to bring more positivity into his life. As painful and sad as the loss of a beloved spouse or parent is, after the initial shock or adjustment to life w/o them being here physically one can try to transform the pain into something positive.
@youremybiggestfan
@youremybiggestfan 5 жыл бұрын
Right hes truly inspiring. What a lovely dad..
@SuzyQ2022
@SuzyQ2022 3 жыл бұрын
@@angelinasouren It's been 70 yrs and I still have some pain from a mother who ran off with our next door neighbor and left us 4 kids with our father, but I have done my best to move on..... Dad was a wonderful man. Never bad mouthed our mother, and did his best to raise us. He took us to the beach, roller skating, on vacations, was the music director at church -directing on Sun morning, Sunday evening and Wednesday nights, and even put together a quartett with us kids. Oh, what joy we found in music! We always had good meals and clean clothes AND our father had a very big job of supervising over 60 men at work, And his blind father also lived with us, A wonderful kind grandfather! We were very blessed to have our loving, caring father, just as Emma and Nicki. I have learned in life to try and be thankful for what I have and try to look past the sadness, and realize there are many more people in this world that have had a much more difficult time than myself. Looking for the good things that we have brings joy and makes for a much happier life than dwelling on the difficult things! Blessings to this wonderful dad, Tony Sykes. The world needs more men like him and my dad! AND when life hands you lemons, just make some tasty lemonade and move on! :)
@2wiceawitness
@2wiceawitness 4 жыл бұрын
Starting the business and simplifying his own life really helped him to truly enjoy the unique family he has. Instead of the stress of dividing his loyalties. This is so perfect!
@thewilytroutesq5260
@thewilytroutesq5260 5 жыл бұрын
Nothing like a man with real balls. Yeah, so I've got a thing for those super-hero types. Even if they don't don Spandex. And kudos to the lovely eldest daughter, a truly honorable woman.
@katjapia8206
@katjapia8206 5 жыл бұрын
Real balls...... 👍❤
@LeoKypros
@LeoKypros 5 жыл бұрын
TheWilyTrout ESQ well said my friend well said.
@someoneinthecrowd4313
@someoneinthecrowd4313 5 жыл бұрын
That guy is practically dragging his balls across the pavement while walking. Too much? Ok.
@LeoKypros
@LeoKypros 5 жыл бұрын
Someone In The Crowd what????????? What???
@CajunRose
@CajunRose 4 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful family. Their Mom's light shines through them all. I truly believe New Zealand has such loving people.
@acobra4174
@acobra4174 5 жыл бұрын
Employer's should always give someone with a disability a chance to work ...can't judge a person's potential. .. they can be a Gem and a fun person and they try their best
@vikki4now
@vikki4now 5 жыл бұрын
Downs kids are very limited in their abilities in the business world. They need regular assistance. I know because I have 22 yr old Downs daughter. Businesses need to hire someone to supervise them . It's not that easy.
@terimkel3
@terimkel3 5 жыл бұрын
viclloyd1 that is very true. We have a program at work that gives young people (they graduate at 21) with disabilities a chance to work and see what they’d like to do, while their supervisor sees what their abilities are and if they can do things on their own or with minimal supervision. Most of the time they cannot be hired for a traditional job for that reason.
@someoneinthecrowd4313
@someoneinthecrowd4313 5 жыл бұрын
A lot of them are capable of much more than meets the eye. No sense to have them sit at home and absorb tax money. I know a guy with a disability that reminds me of down's syndrome in a way, not entirely sure what it is, maybe fragile X. I haven't ever asked him what his disability is... He's closing in on 60 and says he doesn't look forward to getting retired. His day revolves around work and his friends are there, and it's fun.
@RoMayDrako
@RoMayDrako 5 жыл бұрын
You know I work in security and there are some jobs I feel would be well suited for Downs people especially in the office buildings. Some Downs people really routine driven and will see if anything is out of the ordinary. Working with another guard having that type of personality could be very helpful. Sadly I don't know if they could, but if I had to work with someone with Downs as a security guard I would.
@todydn
@todydn 5 жыл бұрын
I've met a person with autism and discalcula Wich is like dislexia but with numbers who is a better carpenter than most guys I work with he could litteraly guess measurements perfectly right to within a 1/16 inch he is an amazing person as well also a staunch supporter of safety first always busting me on my hands being to close to the saw
@poppyjm7739
@poppyjm7739 3 жыл бұрын
He is still wearing his wedding ring 9 years after her death 😭. Now that is real love. Beautiful family too.
@rhondahull7034
@rhondahull7034 4 жыл бұрын
I have a special needs daughter. I love her so much and watching this video has made me love her and appreciate her even more if that's possible. Thank you
@MsDeity
@MsDeity 5 жыл бұрын
Big kudos to the woman that help them start! JENNIFER DEL BEL. What a beautiful soul. I am so proud of her. Sending you lots of love sister. May your kindness come back to you ten fold. 💘 💘 💘
@rosamariamendoza1466
@rosamariamendoza1466 4 жыл бұрын
It certainly will!🙏🙏🙏🙏
@trishawalsh9102
@trishawalsh9102 5 жыл бұрын
What an amazing & wonderful man/father he is. Not many men would of looked after 2 Down Syndrome Daughters and start a business on there own. The heartbreak he is still feeling from his wife’s death is so sad. The girls are a complete credit to him.
@brittneymoreland1610
@brittneymoreland1610 5 жыл бұрын
So cool that the father made his own business to work with his beautiful daughter💗😍
@jessicaj8564
@jessicaj8564 4 жыл бұрын
What choice did he really have unless he'd stay at home with her 24hrs a day caring for her? It's sad cause they are "unemployable" 😕
@grannyqute2273
@grannyqute2273 4 жыл бұрын
@@jessicaj8564 You're showing your ignorance!
@shieh.4743
@shieh.4743 5 жыл бұрын
This whole video is so full of love. I am overwhelmed with the beauty of this family and the candle woman.
@Arkeze
@Arkeze 5 жыл бұрын
What an amazing amazing strong man and what lovely sweet girls.
@janellcrews6108
@janellcrews6108 5 жыл бұрын
He's awesome! My 3 year old has down syndrome and she has such a big heart, but wow some days she can tire me out in a hr. He's such a amazing Dad.
@jessicac391
@jessicac391 4 жыл бұрын
I’m a Job coach for people with disabilities in USA , they can learn and beak any barriers with love and patience. Great job dad💙🙏🏽👍🏼
@serenew5690
@serenew5690 4 жыл бұрын
You are a jolly good fellow indeed and may Lord God YHVH bless, keep and guide you Always.
@serenew5690
@serenew5690 4 жыл бұрын
@Gregg Venuti,hi brother. You are indeed a very self reliance and independent man. I Salute you and pray God YHVH bless and keep, guide you always. NB : FATHER GOD YHVH, THE ALMIGHTY OMNIPOTENT ONE, CREATOR OF THE HEAVEN AND EARTH HEAL AND DELIVER GREGG FROM THIS ILLNESS OF I CONTINENCE. IN JESUS'S NAME, AMEN AND AMEN HALLELUJAH AND PRAISE THE LORD. SHALOM AND GODSPEED, AGAPE.
@petergayematthews8084
@petergayematthews8084 5 жыл бұрын
My sister has down syndrome and I love her unconditionally 🇯🇲
@petergayematthews8084
@petergayematthews8084 5 жыл бұрын
Shawnee Scorpion likewise.
@moodini99
@moodini99 5 жыл бұрын
People only say the love someone unconditionally when referring to someone nice. Your sister is obviously a lovely person. You wouldn't say the same if Adolf Hitler were your sibling. It's a dumb remark.
@carpediem8752
@carpediem8752 5 жыл бұрын
They are so pure
@petergayematthews8084
@petergayematthews8084 5 жыл бұрын
Hakuna Matata they are ..
@moodini99
@moodini99 5 жыл бұрын
They're just a normal family. Nothing special about them
@shellyortiz1977
@shellyortiz1977 5 жыл бұрын
Bless this man....and best of luck to him and his children.
@patriciacalunniato9173
@patriciacalunniato9173 5 жыл бұрын
Positive attitude sure helped me when I was left with two small children God bless him and his children
@jeffha4057
@jeffha4057 4 жыл бұрын
Tony is an amazing person. He's been through so much, but still manages to stay positive.
@mihaiapostol6423
@mihaiapostol6423 3 жыл бұрын
I think that the people who've been through much are those who're the most positive. Otherwise, I'm asking myself, how could they've made it through :)?
@ailinos
@ailinos 5 жыл бұрын
the scene at the end at the table where Emma and Nicki just start hugging each other is too much -, what a lovely story and family
@williesimmons2090
@williesimmons2090 4 жыл бұрын
LOVE THIS FATHER. THE GIRLS ARE VERY HAPPY WITH HIM. SAD THEIR MOTHER PASSED AWAY, BUT AT LEAST THEY HAVE A VERY LOVING FATHER. GOD BLESS.
@patspencer1071
@patspencer1071 5 жыл бұрын
What lucky daughters to have such a wonderful caring dad. They are precious girls, all 3 of them!
@Juicy-J1118
@Juicy-J1118 4 жыл бұрын
I think God gave the father Emma and Nicky so that he had someone to care for when his wife passed on. Our lord’s plan is much bigger than ours and this is a perfect example. ❤️
@friendlycomment1551
@friendlycomment1551 4 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful and perfect comment! You're right, God has a plan for everyone that believes in Him.
@shaisaunders2979
@shaisaunders2979 4 жыл бұрын
Amen!!!!
@hannahkugelblitz6488
@hannahkugelblitz6488 3 жыл бұрын
i find that thought disgusting. why would a great god even let her dy??
@OHR36
@OHR36 3 жыл бұрын
wow...you spoke we'll...God is love...
@pourPOURpour
@pourPOURpour 3 жыл бұрын
@@hannahkugelblitz6488 I understand where youre coming from. But people tend to see things this way to cope with death. It gives them peace to know that evenally everything will work out because its someone elses power doing it. But yes Its not fair she died in the first place. i can think of many times a good person who worships god gets the short end of the stick. But instead of them seeing the negitives they see the positives and lead a happier life. I dont believe in God but I can see how faith gives people strength in difficult times
@elinomaz1748
@elinomaz1748 5 жыл бұрын
Love that Dad 👍 That's what a real Dad does❣️
@gauravsahu1738
@gauravsahu1738 4 жыл бұрын
When I was in grade 4 I made fun of a guy with downsyndrome and i still regret it. Just telling. You guys are adorable and I love you guys
@GODDESS1966
@GODDESS1966 5 жыл бұрын
This man is a saint! GOD bless him!
@themisjohannesen6310
@themisjohannesen6310 3 жыл бұрын
This was really terrible to see and hear. Not the two children with Downs, but their mother dying from breast cancer. The whole family are everyday heroes! When you know their life history, you can see the sorrow in his eyes. I hope for a good life for them, and for everybody else in a similar situation.
@hananbenazize1536
@hananbenazize1536 5 жыл бұрын
perfect father and perfect family ...I really love them ...god bless them
@klsdisney
@klsdisney 5 жыл бұрын
This dad is the father all fathers should aspire to be like. Wonderful man and beautiful girls. ❤️
@TheKeitia
@TheKeitia 4 жыл бұрын
My heart, this is one of the best videos I've ever seen, so much genuine love, these girls are this man's blessing and he is theirs. Love this
@kennedyeggert8503
@kennedyeggert8503 5 жыл бұрын
This dad is amazing ❤️
@devynglass3781
@devynglass3781 5 жыл бұрын
My jaw dropped when he said he lost his wife. My hat goes off to this man. What a wonderful person and fantastic father! Very beautiful family ❤️❤️❤️
@shareenwood5665
@shareenwood5665 5 жыл бұрын
There is so much love in this story,I cried thank you for being such a great dad!
@sweetf3311
@sweetf3311 5 жыл бұрын
Shareen Wood balling my eyes😁😭
@sarahalscof1771
@sarahalscof1771 5 жыл бұрын
13:07 I almost cry..I feel his pain.so proud of u ..(dad)
@lifeofaimee6259
@lifeofaimee6259 5 жыл бұрын
Everyone in this story has such a beautiful soul - so glad I watched this..
@marymojsovski7666
@marymojsovski7666 4 жыл бұрын
His daughter is just like me when my mother got sick. I did everything.
@HelenaMikas
@HelenaMikas 5 жыл бұрын
A video which brings more light to the world .What a terrific family *
@Jojoyou628
@Jojoyou628 5 жыл бұрын
God bless and help this man. My husband abandoned me and our 2 small daughters meanwhile this man lost his wife and raises his 2 daughters with DS, alone. I am glad to see there are still real men out there.
@redevous
@redevous 5 жыл бұрын
Stop being so bitter
@celesteenglish4924
@celesteenglish4924 5 жыл бұрын
I love this story. This dad and the lady who helped the dad with this candle company is "AWESOME". God Bless this family.
@tammychapman2176
@tammychapman2176 5 жыл бұрын
I'm a mum of six my youngest has downs syndrome this made me cry happy tears . I'm so happy i saw this. 👍💛
@lifesong8484
@lifesong8484 5 жыл бұрын
@Mel-pb5xw
@Mel-pb5xw 5 жыл бұрын
Wishing you & your beautiful family all the best!🔆
@moodini99
@moodini99 5 жыл бұрын
Six? Bit greedy. The world's only so big. If everyone had six, society would collapse in a few generations. Three is plenty. Anyway, you're lucky to have a child blessed with Down's Syndrome. I've never met anyone with Down's who isn't lovely. But plenty of people without it who are unkind.
@tawkischeap1
@tawkischeap1 4 жыл бұрын
Awwww rest in love to your precious wife. You are doing an amazing job for your family. Much respect also good on your eldest daughter for being much help as well she's amazing too.
@janetbrowning9089
@janetbrowning9089 5 жыл бұрын
I love the name, "DownLights"...perfect and so fitting!
@melissagreenwood8636
@melissagreenwood8636 5 жыл бұрын
Janet Browning I’m so high and this really made me laugh
@MAGNUM05
@MAGNUM05 4 жыл бұрын
This man should become World's Greatest Father
@maricellimpin9668
@maricellimpin9668 5 жыл бұрын
I can’t stop crying and admiring of how strong of a dad you are! You are so blessed in many ways! You got 2 angels that love you so much!
@heathermari83
@heathermari83 5 жыл бұрын
This warmed my heart so much..... What a beautiful person this father is and what a lesson he teaches all of us. Thank you for sharing this story - much love to this family!
@DaliwolfBacon
@DaliwolfBacon 5 жыл бұрын
This was easily the most positive and inspiration thing I have seen in a LONG time. Thank you for the reminder that we have a choice to be positive or negative...and I am going to choose to be positive! Tony Sykes...you are a an amazing Dad! Good on you!!!!
@williesimmons2090
@williesimmons2090 5 жыл бұрын
He should get the FATHER'S AWARD for being such a wonderful loving father. So sorry for the loss of your loving wife. GOD BLESS XXX
@ReggieTime
@ReggieTime 5 жыл бұрын
Ive heard from a special ed teacher, that DS kids are so very loving & honest w/their feelings & also physically stronger than others.... . Its fascinating how this dad has done so well.....the girls are blessed.
@jessicaj8564
@jessicaj8564 4 жыл бұрын
They are but that unfortunately won't help them getting a job :/
@wsarahw94
@wsarahw94 5 жыл бұрын
this makes me wanna fly there (i live in germany) just to go into the mall and buy a candle to meet them in person.
@janicemetzger6338
@janicemetzger6338 5 жыл бұрын
Me, too!
@Mel-pb5xw
@Mel-pb5xw 5 жыл бұрын
I’ll meet you there! (I’m in the US) ✈️
@emmiatmheyl6677
@emmiatmheyl6677 5 жыл бұрын
Janice Metzger ôkiokiokpikkkto oòpjoiuuuu
@TigerBudgie
@TigerBudgie 4 жыл бұрын
When Daddys are the BEST ... what a wonderful family😘👍🏼😍
@senseofwonder4734
@senseofwonder4734 5 жыл бұрын
I won't forget this beautiful family. This man's strong attitude and enornous heart will live in my mind and inspire me.
@dolleanhunter9813
@dolleanhunter9813 5 жыл бұрын
Love
@porschialauren
@porschialauren 4 жыл бұрын
What an incredible human being. His wife is looking down on them and would be so proud of what hes done. Beautiful story, brought tears to my eyes. GOD BLESS YOU ALL! love from florida!!
@fayjohnson9891
@fayjohnson9891 5 жыл бұрын
Best scene: that warm genuine hug between the girls on the bench on a windy day,🤗
@Wasabi253
@Wasabi253 4 жыл бұрын
Speechless. That man is the best part of human being
@sadieandbean
@sadieandbean 5 жыл бұрын
This makes me really happy. As someone who has a disability (Autism) and is young like Emma and Nicki (I'm 21 like Nicki), this is such a good thing for them. Schedules and consistency are essential but also they are learning to make their own income and have their own freedoms which is priceless!! When you are told by doctors and other people the things you can't do it feels so good to do things like working, starting a business, being creative, and traveling.
@justanotherinvisibleinfp1410
@justanotherinvisibleinfp1410 5 жыл бұрын
Amanda Charlebois Wow...........
@naomiemoore5725
@naomiemoore5725 5 жыл бұрын
@Amanda Charlebois Not necessarily. In families like this, they make arrangements with the older children, aunts, uncles, etc. The families that I know, made sure the family home was paid off and that there was money in trust for the children to live in the same house, keep it properly maintained, etc. so they never had to be institutionalized and neglected. Where I live, several businesses make it a point to hire developmentally challenged individuals and pay them a proper wage. They are so proud to be part of "regular" society, make friends, have some money to spend, it makes an enormous difference in their psyche and development. People need to see the positive and this gentleman is doing everything in his power to make this happen and deserves mountains of respect.
@maobfh
@maobfh 5 жыл бұрын
Amanda Charlebois - I don’t want to sound insulting or condescending and it might be that you have a learning disorder and don’t realize how much you missed here. It appears that you got the surface of the situation but didn’t grasp the details, thus leading you to a conclusion that is, in fact, grossly incorrect. As he stated in the first half of the video, Emma knows her duties well enough that he only now needs to point her to the next job. And she is still learning. If, God forbid, something were to happen tomorrow then I can think of about 3 people who would continue his legacy. The girls will get to where they need less guidance and can manage most aspects. As far as being burdens on the tax payers, this is not the problem that misguided people might suggest. My cousin is a 65 year old man with Down syndrome. He moved into a group home at 20, when he graduated from high school. My aunt and uncle had bought a large home and had it modified to host 8 special needs individuals and a caregiver of sorts. Additionally, he began working at a greenhouse which also employs special needs individuals. They know their jobs well and the business takes care of itself and has expanded. My cousins, the 2 younger boys (all boys) oversee the trust and their big brother is a huge part of their family and holidays and all that the word family implies. As far as a burden to society? Being in my 60s, I have voted in favor of several special projects’ funding and the money came out of our pockets. Some continues to come out of my pocket. And it comes out of the tax paying special needs individuals pockets. If a program loses its funding, even when we vote that it should not, the money does not stop coming out of your pocket. It gets siphoned into less honorable.....pockets. But even so, maybe you prefer money set aside for special needs situations be shifted to your pockets or someone else you know. Then get back in school and study then run for office. Are you a college graduate? Is your future funded and guaranteed? If not, you might want to look at your own situation and get your ducks in a row at least as well as this man is lining up his daughters’ future. Because you don’t know what tomorrow will bring.
@gwenscott535
@gwenscott535 5 жыл бұрын
@Amanda Charlebois the biggest disability in these girls life is all the people who under estimate their ability.
@jewelsann4399
@jewelsann4399 5 жыл бұрын
@@gwenscott535 But the sad truth is, without their dad, they wouldn't know what to do. That's not underestimating them, it's just stating facts. If the dad just up and left one day, those two girls would NOT be okay by themselves.
@sharonristau2475
@sharonristau2475 4 жыл бұрын
Turning a situation into a positive giving a helping a helping hand. And to your surprise the are giving something to you. What a great attitude.
@janicemetzger6338
@janicemetzger6338 5 жыл бұрын
What a joy to watch! Wouldn't the world be an amazing place if every child had a father like Tony? In his eyes, I can see God.
@reubenz1480
@reubenz1480 5 жыл бұрын
Man, they are all inspiring people: the dad, the girls, the candle lady, the sister, the supporters, those bikers. Great example as to how humanity should act. Love the video, more like this we need. Thank you for sharing this video to the world.
@2ndhandSue
@2ndhandSue 5 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful family! And Dad's brilliant idea for a business that Emma and Nicki will have an income for life from is amazing. And the fact that they will hire workers with disabilities is awesome.
@vikki4now
@vikki4now 5 жыл бұрын
What makes you think they will have an income for life. This isn't a Disney movie. This family will continue to have challenges as time goes on.
@2ndhandSue
@2ndhandSue 5 жыл бұрын
@@vikki4now - Are Disney movies the only things you respond positively to? FFS - get off your high horse. How about a high-five for a Dad who's thinking outside the box and trying to come up with a creative solution to help his challenged daughters to be somewhat self-sufficient.
@robertachaitov1789
@robertachaitov1789 3 жыл бұрын
The girls are so lucky to have a wonderful dad like that, who truly loves them and is doing so much for all disabled kids & adults. You can see how full of love the girls are, & how joyful they are. They're all blessed
@sonjam314
@sonjam314 5 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful but heartbreaking story. I am so sad he lost his wife!!!! What a beautiful family!!!!!
@saverns
@saverns Жыл бұрын
These girls have so much hugs and loves to give. And so are all of Down syndrome individuals that I have met. They do not judge. They are so loving and I can’t say that about normal people. Amazing father and such a beautiful family. Wish u all the best. 💕
@rose-bk4cx
@rose-bk4cx 5 жыл бұрын
"This is what you call unconditional love 😍"
@cottoncandy4486
@cottoncandy4486 3 жыл бұрын
What a dad, this is a man full of so much love. He is a treasure. Like the candles he makes he shines a soft and gentle light. Cudos to the lady helping with the candles
@zoeesperanza6704
@zoeesperanza6704 5 жыл бұрын
Just beyond sweet, and amazing. Greatest father
@lakshmimuralidharan8294
@lakshmimuralidharan8294 4 жыл бұрын
Amazing father! I bless all of you with love and light!
@GOGOSLIFE
@GOGOSLIFE 5 жыл бұрын
Heaven had some angels needing a home, and they found the perfect family for them. Way to go Tony, your 3 daughters and son, may you have everlasting peace.
@anniebentley9111
@anniebentley9111 3 жыл бұрын
Oo
@the7thwreck
@the7thwreck 5 жыл бұрын
My cheeks hurt I could not stop smiling! Love you Emma and Nicki, you are so pretty! Good souls all round. x
@ashleyburries1822
@ashleyburries1822 5 жыл бұрын
When Emma walks up to her Dad for hugs and kisses is the sweetest thing ever 😍💚
@riverrues2880
@riverrues2880 5 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad I found this video. What a beautiful family and an incredible father 🥰
@MrJmen71
@MrJmen71 5 жыл бұрын
Dad. You are beautiful. You are amazing. I had a baby sister with down syndrome who passed away recently. I miss her dearly. Most people do not know what a true blessing it is to have someone with down syndrome in their life. They are so full of innocence and love. You have my love and respect!
@wes-leighhensley1327
@wes-leighhensley1327 4 жыл бұрын
You are a great example of the unconditional love you should give to children.
@pinkrainclouds2190
@pinkrainclouds2190 5 жыл бұрын
The amount of love in this family is too much too handle. Anyone else find themselves yelling “cut it” at the screen when he asked them to cut it and they took their sweet time? Also when he was in the middle of the interview and his daughter came up with the suitcase, she sounded like a minion and it was the cutest thing!
@meganwebb3521
@meganwebb3521 5 жыл бұрын
What an amazing dad, if only every man was like this x
@estrellacoors3505
@estrellacoors3505 2 жыл бұрын
Tony, your story is not only inspiring it is a living proof that positive attitude can make miracles happen. I am moved with an enormous feeling of compassion, love and perseverance that your video showed from start to finish. Your late wife is beaming from above with her light illuminating every candle you make; may those who have it share the light. Emma and Nikki are truly blessed for having an amazing Dad that you are.
@ncredbird3998
@ncredbird3998 5 жыл бұрын
Although my heart hurts for the painful struggles this family has faced ,I also smile seeing how inspiring they are as a whole. Each a very important piece to make the whole family. Each precious, each important and the love that brings each through. Truly an amazing family. I'm sitting here smiling, tears running down my face watching these young ladies do such an amazing job at work and school. It's touching seeing how the father is doing so much to set both ladies up with a future, a self purpose that help them feel good about themselves. This has been a feel good video that has helped start my own day with a calm sense of thankfulness, endless possibilities and reminding myself of so many blessings I have.
@brat8360
@brat8360 5 жыл бұрын
This video is so inspiring! It's so heartwarming to see this father step up and be an incredible parent after losing his wife, he is so attentayive and loving to his children! This video is Amazing!
@leighvaabbie7721
@leighvaabbie7721 5 жыл бұрын
An absolutely amazing soul... He accepts his negatives, who wouldn't struggle losing their soul mate, he is heart strong 💪 ♥ and what an amazing effort he's making. Beautiful beautiful beautiful ♥
@sharonfloyd6288
@sharonfloyd6288 5 жыл бұрын
What a bitter sweet story. I just love your family. Because that’s how family should really look and be. You Done a great job raising your family. Your wife was beautiful and sweet. We never know what tomorrow holds. But you have given your daughters a future forever. You’re a great father. I was happy to hear your story. you live in a beautiful area. Many blessings to your family. 💕💕
@moquilla1
@moquilla1 3 жыл бұрын
This man is legend. May the lord bless his family for all eternity.
@corinnaQueen
@corinnaQueen 5 жыл бұрын
This is an amazing family. I am so sorry for their loss. I wish them all the good in the world; that all their wishes will be fullfilled :) By their example you can see that a positive attitude attracts positive outcomes.
@kathymathers1611
@kathymathers1611 4 жыл бұрын
I cried tears of pure joy! Because my daughter has two baby sisters one with down syndrome. And one with another mental illness. She holds them and rocks them. Just like big sister does here. I'm so glad to see I'm not the only parent that gets to see this every day. Faith is her name. And by faith she loves them dearly. And NO ONE picks on or hurts her baby sisters, she's very protective of them. And they are all gown. In their 20's faith is 33. They are very close. Always have been and always will. She even takes them out one at a time, to have just a me and you sisters day. I'm very proud of my girls. I'll not change a thing if i had to do it all over again. I'm glad no one told me to terminate my baby inside me. Or else i'd probably kick them. My beautifull down syndrome girl is very pretty, And very smart in science. Math. Down syndrome does not mean they are dumb. Because they are not. Common since deprived yes. But inside their mind isn't dumb. I love my girls more then i love being alive. . God bless you dad! For staying and loving your girls. Amen
@naisulusaukelea6853
@naisulusaukelea6853 5 жыл бұрын
You can just feel the love all around 😭❤️
@Aman-yv5uf
@Aman-yv5uf 3 жыл бұрын
The most beautiful and loving people. I’ve got my brother with Down syndrome love him to bit God bless the incredible dad for doing amazing job .
@nikitanair6566
@nikitanair6566 5 жыл бұрын
These videos are very important to me. I have a brother with learning disabilities and I know how much a parent depends on the other siblings in these cases. Helping my brother grow has been my privilege. I'm honoured to be able to help him because he's so talented with his hands and I've seen him pick up skills without even being able to read so I believe he's a superhuman. Thank you for giving me the inspiration to keep going. And for giving so many others both the inspiration and the incentive to keep trying. ❤️
@luchiboy
@luchiboy 3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I get random recommendations I usually ignore. This one is a gem and admire the dad and people involved. I have a little cousin with ds and he is very particular with everything. Bless you guys
@RolandaBoutiqueLondon
@RolandaBoutiqueLondon 5 жыл бұрын
Great story Mummy is looking down. There is a African proverb that a child choose thrir own earthly parents from heaven. And they could not have chosen better. Love and blessings
@robinjohnson2749
@robinjohnson2749 5 жыл бұрын
I agree
@LorraineIwakashdan
@LorraineIwakashdan 4 жыл бұрын
I am a disabled lady and full-time carer for my son with autism and learning delay. I love this guy - so upbeat and professional!
@janetbrowning9089
@janetbrowning9089 5 жыл бұрын
I love the name, "Downlights"...so fitting and so perfect! Such a great older sister...I was so proud of my sister too...she was such a light and had so much love for everyone.
@michellebremner7991
@michellebremner7991 4 жыл бұрын
Inlove with dad n the girls wish I had a guy like him
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