Attorney Shares The BEST Responses to False Accusations (and How to Win in Court vs. Your Accusers)

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@finleyscotland 6 ай бұрын

Narcs are stupid. The now ex actually hand wrote a letter to me admitting physical, emotional, and financial abuse over 10 yrs. He signed it or i told him i was leaving. I figured he might change. My attorney loved all the little notes i saved over the years. I settled out of court for 51%, moved 500 miles away, bought a house, and 5 yrs later...never heard from the mind fuck again. PURE JOY

@bkb2012 6 ай бұрын

They don't like facts, humor, twists, and no's. Given enough time, ... they get tangled up in their own distortions.

@RebeccaZungEsq 6 ай бұрын

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@soozshooz 6 ай бұрын

The key to control is WHISPERING…Next fight,let them scream & be the crazy person. You WHISPER every single thing you want to say back. I learned this from watching 2 Netflix shows: Ozark & The Black List-so I tried it & I ’ll be damned,😅 It worked!

@socom2173 6 ай бұрын

My wife learned this is how to start fights when I had no desire. Just start throwing out exaggerations and flat out lies in front of my daughter. My daughter doesn't know any better then to just accept anything she says. When I try to refute, she laughs, talks over me and insists its all true. Then, I raise my voice and I look like I'm the aggressor. They exaggerate, minimize and flat out fabricate. Anything they can think of, they'll try it.

@howdydocowgirlcowgirl181 6 ай бұрын

They sound like toddlers throwing tantrums. We must remain calm, cool, & collected. The adult in the room. As the saying goes: "Never let 'em see you sweat." Believe me, I know it's not always easy, but, it's the only way. I also try not to be alone with them (& their recruits aka "flying monkeys") especially when "stating my case." We require a "mediator(s)" in those instances.

@RebeccaZungEsq 6 ай бұрын

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@SusanaXpeace2u 6 ай бұрын

my mother did this. Accused me of being angry, detached from reality, sensitive, you name it, and I went nuts (genuinely did go a bit nuts) defending myself, and all it did was give her material for her smear campaign. Not only do my father and brother stand behind her like foot soldiers, but extended family have not replied to simple texts. Not texts to ''get them on side''. Neutral stuff avoiding the subject of my mother. So, I'm out. I either accept the narrative that I'm insane, detached from reality, angry, sensitive, cold hearted, blah blah blah blah BLAH or that's it. Cold shoulder FOREVER. She still feels like the victim though.😪

@jefflehti7954 5 ай бұрын

Dealt with the same thing, absolutely disgusting behavior. So thankful I am no longer in that situation!!!! Glad you aren’t either!!!

@muma6559 4 ай бұрын

@@SusanaXpeace2u that's disaster, I'm so sorry. Try to find a couple good people to have a good relationship with.

@stephenmaas8775 2 ай бұрын

Reading these comments whilst watching the vodeo made me start to feel sick, sick from the memories! thinking of the feeling of deep pain inside, but also the thought that so many people out there! right now! are so confused and feeling sick to the stomach, questioning everything because nothing makes any sense! It never gets anywhere emotionally good and when the relashionship is at a complete breaking point.. you suddenly get the person you always wanted, they say that they are sooo sorry. When you expose the facts it can go real nasty and go all the way to breaking point or physical abuse! but then the tears and the victim childhood suffering and the sympathy that they love you so so much comes out. They give you the closeness and grip hold of you... that they need you! I've never hated someone I loved so much! I've never loved someone I hated so much! I cant believe I ever lasted so many years when it broke me over and over again to the point I didnt recognise myself anymore. The love I always had and handed out in bucket loads bacame hate and that's when it got bad health wise for me... and I had to cut and run and get my stuff out before she got home. Just a shame I left it so long that I will never be the same person again, whether thats for the better.. or for worse? Finding Jesus through GOD's blessing me in guidance has given me a peace and has helped to teach me to forgive and to pray for them also. If anyone can be helped by having that lightbulb moment whilst reading this, then I havnt wasted my time writing. May GOD bless you and bring you peace!

@Sw22944 6 ай бұрын

Ms. Zung, perfect timing! Heading to deposition within the next month; I think I have plenty of documentation. Everything you are saying is 100% spot on. I have a business case and the narc is making numerous false allegations and has their flying monkeys lined up. The narc continues to gas light me and make outrageous comments to bait me. I have not reacted and have remand calm but it is so hard not to respond. Every false allegation they make in an email is truely a gift, I really want to write them a Thank You card, 😂😂😂. Thank you for all your advice, it’s really kept me calm and put things in perspective.

@RebeccaZungEsq 6 ай бұрын

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@LearnCompositionOnline 6 ай бұрын

Yes the mails with evidence against them shows that this is their insane level of unawareness and underrating you

@shimidharma 6 ай бұрын

Oh yah I’m tired of these false accusations … lying is so bad with my soon to be x its caused our whole family to breakdown

@imbalancedstatus8824 6 ай бұрын

He was just being uncharitable with the truth...see the difference?

@Finderskeepers. 6 ай бұрын

Do everything in writing with him and as soon as practicable possible, no contact. He will seek to punish you for revenge, no contact makes that much harder and warn mutual friends, good people will see through the gaslighting.

@RebeccaZungEsq 6 ай бұрын

How are you doing now? Hope feeling well and getting your power back! Perhaps my upcoming webinar might help - ICANSLAY.COM

@shrisurya7681 6 ай бұрын

Thank you...yes yes yes....exposing a cult...is traumatic

@carolfcavanagh3835 6 ай бұрын

You’ve nailed it really well describing their behavior. I am very grateful to You for this explanation and advice!!!

@RebeccaZungEsq 6 ай бұрын

How are you doing now? Hope feeling well and getting your power back! Perhaps my upcoming webinar might help - ICANSLAY.COM

@Julie-bj9jn 6 ай бұрын

This is good advice. I lived with a psychopath who burned through eight business partners, and grabbed onto as many enablers to be a part of his 'gang' as he possibly could. There is usually a mutually beneficial financial benefit in it for the enablers. Some sort of bribe. This person was so scary... he swore that he would destroy each and every one of his X partners, after they left his reign of terror. One of them died in a tent, homeless, and drunk- after X stole his business. Since X slept with at least one woman in every business office, he ever worked with, (and blamed his behavior on me- LMAO) I feel that the extra, sex and monetary aspect, added an additional array of emotional impact on their decisions. NPD's form GANGS. Stay out of gang memberships, and think for yourselves. Keep records, and watch Rebecca's videos.

@muma6559 4 ай бұрын

Yes, they form gangs, even in families. Fear reigns, until they run out of steam. The enablers suffer terribly for being caught in their trap and for going along with them. As you say, STAY OUT and away from them. The only things in life they do is compete, steal and lie.

@ralphwchhapman 4 ай бұрын

As far as "reversing the narrative" and "countering the narrative;" What do you do when the agressor is using this same tactic? The aggressor is literally using these counter narc tactics and keeping us at a stalemate. The aggressor is mimicking all of the victims responses and preemptively predicting anything the victim might say.

@LearningloungeNministry Ай бұрын

Or, Even better, switching their actions, and choices in life on the non offending target of the narcissist.

@e.1766 4 ай бұрын

YES!! As an unofficial narc magnet (seemingly), I Appreciate your Advice! My divorce has been over, but Damn, I wish I woulda known Everything you're talking abt just Period....in High School!

@MsBrooklyn62 6 ай бұрын

My first act was to trick my narc husband into traveling across the country to his mom's house. I knew when he would be there and so I went to the courthouse to petition for an order of protection and had him served. He did not show up for court and I did not care because I had all the proof in the world. There was 1 week between when he was served and our court date and he never communicated with me because he was a bully and a coward. I won my case and got my no-contact order for a year but we are still married. North Carolina demands a couple to be separated for 1year and 1 day before filing for divorce. I think every state should stay out of a person's right to get divorced. No one stops you or harasses you when you get married so why is my relationship their business? Well, so far I have got 92 days under my belt, and it's okay because he is out of my house and out of my life. Sadly this is not my first rodeo in getting divorced but it will be my last.

@lilfairycupcake 6 ай бұрын

i round of marriage was enough for me also.

@MsBrooklyn62 5 ай бұрын

@@janetpattison8474 What's worse than stupid NC law is Colorado law. He insisted we get married there. All you have to do is sign a contract and bam! We were married! I don't view it as a real marriage because no vows were taken. Colorado sucks too!

@LearningloungeNministry Ай бұрын

'The STATE should stay out....' sadly, that CONTRACT from the STATE enables this. Even though it's undisclosed, which makes a contract wholly void for lack of disclosures; you are now in a contract with you, that person AND the STATE. That's how this happens. It's best to remain private.

@dantangelo 4 ай бұрын

She must be empathic giving so much advice away. Thanks dearie

@DonnaBlair-r9e 3 ай бұрын

Thanks!

@JimsFastbackGarage 6 ай бұрын

I just lost my father over a year ago. He always made me feel like I was the problem. We didn't speak for the last 6 years of his life. He jumped my case at a birthday party and caused me to melt down and never answered my question about what I did that was so wrong. I told my aunt (his sister) that I wouldn't put up with this with anyone else, and as I grew closer to her husband, she did the same thing to me. Only she accused my wife of being "not very nice." I asked for details, and she said," Why don't you ask your wife." I said you are just like my father and that I would never darken her doorstep again. I have my own family to love, and I'm done with the narcissistic people in my family. I'm also trying to recover from being raised by a narcissist, meaning I have to recognize my own narcissistic behavior and stop hurting others around me. I make KZbin content now and it is therapy but then you have to deal with comments from people that are "experts". They can't accept that some channels are for entertainment. When will the nightmare end?

@Ohhhoneyyy 5 ай бұрын

When you decide that these people no longer have control over your life and the person you are ❤

@evesfirefly 3 ай бұрын

I have been getting accusations and false allegations against me from before the divorce. We’re seriously coming up on a decade. My ex and his family took a grain of truth and wrapped it up in so many lies. You couldn’t tell what it was anymore. The only thing they wanted was so physical and legal custody of our kids.

@LearningloungeNministry Ай бұрын

* coercive control 😢 using the court venue to further multiple controls for MULTIPLE abuses.

@daxhunterjordan 6 ай бұрын

Absolutely excellent articulation and strategies in here. 11:11 is my relationship with my wife so YES.

@GraySky9 29 күн бұрын

They speak in very broad generalities which is good for you when you ask them who, when, what where they’ll squirm with lack of details because their whole life is one just big generality.

@michaeleckert5877 6 ай бұрын

This is great advice.I always have good attorneys,because sometimes I can't believe the things that happen to me.Yeah ❤❤

@RebeccaZungEsq 6 ай бұрын

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@NancyBrown1975 6 ай бұрын

Thank you so very much Rebecca. You are so helpful and very smart.

@GodsChildMetal 13 күн бұрын

Thank you so much for the video, itsverry helpfull 🙏🏻

@EcoVintageArtGifts 26 күн бұрын

Yes! This was helpful.

@athomas3754 2 ай бұрын

Thank you Rebecca, you've strengthened me.❤

@Northern_Grit 6 ай бұрын

Thankyou for these videos. I’ve been in and out of court with my abuser for 10 years. I’m headed back for a mobility hearing in August to determine where the kids will live.. I am Self represented as I could no longer continue to afford a lawyer. The kids are preteens and don’t understand the abuse that happened but are convinced they want to stay with their father. He’s a really bad guy and I pray that I can hold my own in court. *sigh.

@RebeccaZungEsq 6 ай бұрын

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@MsBrooklyn62 6 ай бұрын

self-representation is called pro se. I had to become a self-taught attorney in family law. The battles will rage on till those kids turn 18 regardless of custody.

@LearningloungeNministry Ай бұрын

@@MsBrooklyn62 the appropriate term is : In Propria Persona. * In your own person.

@CorinaEllis 6 ай бұрын

Yes! I currently have to contest a restraining order; my evil, narcissistic mother filed false claims against me. Thank you for your help and encouragement.

@imbalancedstatus8824 6 ай бұрын

Unless you live with her.. I will just let her win this one and go No Contact

@melanieholmes6726 2 ай бұрын

@CorinaEllis i have a mother like that to unfortunately I'm stuck my 15 yr old and I live in a house on the same property as my parents and I can't currently move because I've been having health issues and am 30 miles away from the closest ANYThing and no working vehicle no place to find a job and when I was working I had been investing and saving money well my mother got ahold of my phone when I lost it on the property working with my dad and she was able to get into my accounts and stole give or take about 30k in less than 20 min but waited almost 2 weeks before she supposedly found phone in dad's work truck smh she didn't even try to hide it she transferred all that savings straight to her cashapp acct. Smh and there's nothing I can do because I'll never get it back

@LearningloungeNministry Ай бұрын

One does not want R.O.s on their record. It will barr one from living arrangements and potentially career opportunities.

@audrey156 6 ай бұрын

This is a great reminder. Just what I needed to hear, thank you! I have been dealing with this situation of false accusations for over 2 years. I try to apply these techniques when communicating with the narc. 👍🏼

@RebeccaZungEsq 6 ай бұрын

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@sarahwaldron976 8 күн бұрын

Yes, very helpful

@pitasag123 6 ай бұрын

Ty for this. I'm so glad I've never deleted ANYTHING. There's so many texts and e-mails etc that I have. 7:50

@danettewilliams351 Ай бұрын

I have delt with all of this and i did not handle it well. I lost everything but my judge was a drunk and a bpnsrc who hated pretty ladies too and had a rep for beibg crazy unfsir anvd hated! Now we are going back its been ten yeprs but they screwed me so bad i get to reopen my csse and get a do over so im happy i found you all!

@therollingstone9701 Ай бұрын

Wonderful advice. I wish i knew that sooner. It is a very difficult battle.

@kariesheilen 2 ай бұрын

This is so helpful for me in this moment. Yes!!!

@rrehnquist Ай бұрын

Yes, divorcing a Machevallian covert bi-polar Narcissist bled me dry emotionally physically and financially . Recently my health has been declining and struggling to try and get through the process. Originally uncontested paperwork she lied and changed financial portion and settings not letting me change it back. Had help from online company for paperwork needed filled and served via post office. She’s moved lied and said she never received, then said she doesn’t want to sign or get divorced all the while getting engaged by two others. It’s a joke I’m over, since broke into my home stole artwork and several other things while the bf I’ve got into 2 fights with(he was charge by DA, still on probation) . Overwhelmed and need consulting for direction to complete this sh.. show. I appreciate you and the information you provided

@danettewilliams351 Ай бұрын

Yes!! And this is exactly how it went! We are going back now.. My turn in chsrge composed. Not crazy!

@CookieMonster-hm8hx 4 ай бұрын

I was led to this ‘episode’ from another recent important clip I just watched. I needed to see this so much, and will use it as a ‘guidebook’ for professional development, which will also help me overall in life.

@Purposely365 6 ай бұрын

Yes, yes, and yes!!!!

@58Jezzz 9 күн бұрын

Awesommme thank you thank you

@AllyEnergyReadings 5 ай бұрын

Yes I’m hearing you… slayers unite!!!

@IzabelaWaniek-i1x 6 ай бұрын

Thank you for great advice 😊

@bonnieinthespirit6373 3 ай бұрын

Rebec! This is the best. ..

@mrhookswordkabal 2 ай бұрын

You are so good

@DonnaBlair-r9e 3 ай бұрын

Thank you Rebecca

@TracyClostio-lc9vq 5 ай бұрын

Thank you .

@gil-adisrael 2 ай бұрын

Yes, this is helpful

@Ben99-o-v21 4 ай бұрын

YES I understand so far

@msshan-l1y 6 ай бұрын

This is absolutely true❤ thankkkk youuu

@JankaLeucorrhinia 6 ай бұрын

Interesting 🤔 that example of the tire slashed - strategy #5

@RebeccaZungEsq 6 ай бұрын

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@Beastmode-t5q Ай бұрын

YES YES YES!!!!!

@JanPenix 6 ай бұрын

Love you Rebbeca!

@JavierOchoa-y6y 5 ай бұрын

YOU ARE AWSOME !!

@victoriakabel7319 4 күн бұрын

Yes ❤!!!! 13:17

@doranvee5944 6 ай бұрын

How does a man refute accusations of physical abuse toward his wife when there was none? She smeared me around our town as a "wife beater" and then submitted an affidavit to court to get me thrown out of our home. So sick and wrong.

@doranvee5944 6 ай бұрын

@janetpattison8474 Her lawyer and, as I found out too late, my lawyer, had been friends for 20 years. Her attorney (overt narcissist) took over. He was friends with the judge. I was disabled for 13 years and removed from the home. My wife and her lover got the home, and I got the street. A travesty of justice. She can have the affair, smear me hard, ruin my life, and keep our belongings? Crazy! Found out she is a covert narcissist. She was the strongest, fiercest fighter, posing as a victim.

@JulietCrowson 5 ай бұрын

Get her analysed by a therapist, poss family therapist and yourself...personality traits might reveal true nature to a court

@doranvee5944 5 ай бұрын

@@JulietCrowson Thank you. It's all over now. Sad situation when she decided to have her boyfriend move into our marital home. She was willing to do whatever it took to kill me off. A true covert narcissist.

@JulietCrowson 5 ай бұрын

@@doranvee5944 hope you recover ok and stronger eating well will help I've found praying daily helps a lot Take care

@1Airwaving 6 ай бұрын

Document everything!!!! At some point I realized I wanted to keep track- dates, behaviors, etc& especially whenever possible: “Witnesses”: No matter how seemingly unimportant at the time. Neighbors who heard/ saw etc. School personnel who may recall. for example, a time I came in to my kid’s school, frantic… Long story > short, Though I didn’t have a court order Y E T!- they would not release my kid to crazy narc husband, but they would/ and did!! cooperate by stalling if he showed up before I got there.

@RebeccaZungEsq 6 ай бұрын

@1Airwaving 6 ай бұрын

@@RebeccaZungEsq 💐Thank you! I was remiss by not sharing the better stuff: I’ve been free of narcissus for ~20 years already, and if it weren’t for my lamenting over wishing my kids -now adults-had had a lovelier (free from chaos, traumatizing events) childhood, I’d be even happier than I am. In my favor, apparently, turns out I’m what’s likely described as resilient. -which I do not take for granted, as I think it’s probably as much ‘ natural’( genetic?) as it is a function of ,effort of my part. A while back, I found & watched lots of Dr Ramani’s vids on narcissism, especially in relationships. “ Helpful” “ is an understatement.By the way, it was through those that I learned about you, bc you’re in a few of those vids. What you say about courts/ divorce experience is pure gold.💐Thanks for all you do!💐 ~~~>🗽& ⚖️

@benniecampbell3973 3 ай бұрын

Yes!!! YES!!!

@janjans1178 3 ай бұрын

YES! 🙌

@cgreenwitch 4 ай бұрын

YES!

@petemorton8403 6 ай бұрын

Talked on phone to a different lawyer. He said what went on when at the hearing when it was placed or extended. My reply, what hearing? I think more are complicit in this. Been arrested twice now in a 10 year period. Both times over nothing. Yet what happened was right. The judge on the last appearance bond, started threatening me. Ive never been fingerprinted eye scanned voice recognition or jailed before this crap. She is 10 years of Wont Pay ordered kid support. Nothing is wrong with that though.

@RebeccaZungEsq 6 ай бұрын

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@BAKER22-l4u 6 ай бұрын

The best response is NO response..

@imbalancedstatus8824 6 ай бұрын

That will elicit Narcissistic Rage. I know...been there

@RebeccaZungEsq 6 ай бұрын

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@BAKER22-l4u 6 ай бұрын

@@imbalancedstatus8824 And? The rage WON'T bother you if ypu simply DON'T respond

@imbalancedstatus8824 6 ай бұрын

@@BAKER22-l4u It never bothered me.. I always grab a beer and start drinking.. Cant talk if your mouth is full with beer.

@BAKER22-l4u 6 ай бұрын

@@imbalancedstatus8824 Drinking is NOT the answer..It's a crutch and you need help

@GenevieveLabelle 6 ай бұрын

Your the best gitl❤🎉

@RebeccaZungEsq 6 ай бұрын

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@Matthew_Eitzman 6 ай бұрын

I don’t contest false accusations, especially those made by anyone that plays golf with the boss or hangs out in their office. If the accuser is loud, melodramatic and tells their side of the story first, I have no chance of being believed. Unless I have an audio or video recording, I can’t prove anything. I can bust liars sometimes by using voice notes recording on my iPhone. I put it in my breast pocket, microphone facing up, and It doesn’t appear like I am recording them. The next confrontation I record, I will use the video recorder, keep it in breast pocket, but take it out and pretend to take still pics to document something visually all the while making a continuous audio recording. I just bought 3 hidden cameras at a spy craft type store. I can’t use any of them or hook them up with IPhone or 2 laptops. It was a waste of $326.

@benjamin734 6 ай бұрын

🤬 What they say 🗡️, and the games.J3 👍

@RebeccaZungEsq 6 ай бұрын

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@themakuachronicles 3 ай бұрын

Yes!!!!

@dennisgodaire485 6 ай бұрын

Thank You .l..

@RebeccaZungEsq 6 ай бұрын

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@heathersoper6923 Ай бұрын

I have just received 19 pages of lies and fantasies of lies that look plausible to the court.

@tamraholland2285 5 ай бұрын

yes

@Doodlefisher 6 ай бұрын

Good advice! 🙏

@RebeccaZungEsq 6 ай бұрын

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@Dawnarow 6 ай бұрын

Any suggestion for one that's bound for self-destruction? I dont long for her apology or love, but I have a savior complex knowing full well that she wont change unless she wants to (never happening). She's got about 500 more excuses than most, but it's also tangled in a web of typical behaviors of someone childish/entitled. These excuses are all informed through religion which renders her incapable of seeing reality. I was her only good friend for years always nudging things in the right direction, but she'd go around stacking more rejections and traumas. She eventually tried to be with me and I refused to kiss her (after she cried) then called her 3 days later only to see that she had been kissing another dude. I asked and she waited 3 seconds to respond [confirming my presumption] and simply lied. I mean... all of it is very simple and I"ve always known, but never tried to remedy it past 1/5th the rate (what good would it have done?) I would succinctly call it out, but the 4/5 left of that time she spent on her phone or seeking more noise so that her mind wouldn't have to address any of these issues. Now she has found a means to "exploit" the system (which I've encouraged for years because it was the only spot she wouldn't be taking advantage of people without offering something in return) and has enough money to pretend nothing is her fault it's mesmerizing, but exacerbated the materialism and vanity aspects of her life and behaviors she emulated/became her whole identity (nothing to lean on, really). Everything hurts her and she stacked so many trigger words that she basks in her fight&flight responses. She - inadvertently - told me that a part of her does it on purpose ("she has mastered clashes".. it was as she was answering another question, but wanted to give herself a bit of value so she wrote it quickly before responding to an offer of watching one of the movies I had listed as a counterpart to her insane conditions for us to marry (context: I used myself as bait offering what she wanted in order to determine what was missing since I knew what I was getting into after 9 years of just seeing her as a kid.. never learning the notions I would bring her to formulate, herself

@RebeccaZungEsq 6 ай бұрын

@charlettecook-yo7zg 4 ай бұрын

Yes. I control my emotions more often then in the face of their flying monkeys

@almor2445 6 ай бұрын

I'm at the point where 'the most honest, boring woman I knew for 6 years' was lying and cheating perfectly all along.

@RebeccaZungEsq 6 ай бұрын

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@jamesdalton7191 5 ай бұрын

Yes! But it also helps when you don't have a corrupt judge violating your Due Process and 4th Amendment rights. Contra Costa County Martinez court system has a corruption problem with the district Attorneys office, attorneys and some judges.

@AriaPlez 6 ай бұрын

I got mitigation next month and my narcissistic baby mother falsely filed child support on my to exploit me for money despite me caring for my daughter. Cause i didn't want to put up with her falsely accusing me of cheating cause she was the cheating on me with her ex. I got proof of child endangerment by her having the guy she cheating on me with playing step father to my daughter. Literally he tried to knock down the door down where she stayed that I moved out of threatened suicide with a gun despite being a felon around my daughter. Which by the way she still has around my daughter despite being a risk to her safety. So hopefully it goes well next month. It's just hard coming up with 2k for a lawyer cause she trying to financially ruin me cause i don't want to be with her bitter cheating unfit mother 🍑.

@RebeccaZungEsq 6 ай бұрын

@58Jezzz 9 күн бұрын

YESSSSSSSS YESSSSSSSSS

@pitasag123 6 ай бұрын

YES! 12:28

@RebeccaZungEsq 6 ай бұрын

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@stevox9615 6 ай бұрын

Yes

@RebeccaZungEsq 6 ай бұрын

@brightpage1020 2 ай бұрын

A woman I know who is struggling with this told me today her husband accusses her loudly - in front of their young children - of having a boyfriend. Repeatedly. She doesn't have time for a boyfriend even if she wanted one. She's a MSM (married single mom) Bending over backwards to meet an inhumane level of demands to try and please her unpleasable man. she doesn't want a boyfriend. She wants her hubs to treat her and their children with a level of respect he either isn't capable of or isn't willing to return. She doesn't want a divorce but really doesn't want this unhealthy model of conflict without resolution for her children.

@sandywatts2649 6 ай бұрын

Yes!

@RebeccaZungEsq 6 ай бұрын

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@angelameyer3709 Ай бұрын

Make sure you ‘screenshot’ all their comments and responses to you.

@PhuongNguyen-pc9hj 6 ай бұрын

Yes ❤❤❤❤❤

@Acomoleinviertenenvermwjodido 5 ай бұрын

Do you have an associate lawyer or could you recommend a lawyer that handle narcissist cases in Mexico? I appreciate your answer

@LearningloungeNministry Ай бұрын

So, this is a legitimate querry: HOW are the multitudes being falsely accused in these venues are to effectively protect oneself against the corruption of these cases? All too often, they ARE flavouring the Abuser, Even WITH EVIDENCE. TIA

@StealthOrb 6 ай бұрын

YES!!!!

@RebeccaZungEsq 6 ай бұрын

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@dianalafferty9456 4 ай бұрын

YES YES YES

@braveheart6850 3 ай бұрын

My spouse filed for divorce. We have attorneys. We are still in the discovery stage. Ive been told, . I have been told by my attorney that, NY law is an equitable distribution and the court just sees the divorce as a business transaction and that they do not take theses types of accusations into account. It's just a matter of decided assets. Is this True? In regards to custody of children we do not have that issue, we have two adult children who live on their own. Thank You in advance!

@rosaperez9689 4 ай бұрын

Yes yes yes

@salaramirjalali6201 5 ай бұрын

I’m currently dealing with this any help any one I can talk to ?

@benniecampbell3973 3 ай бұрын

Yeah I had to deal with many many many false allegations but I could not do anything about it because I had no one on my side, I had no witnesses, I just had to cope until I found an Beautiful Powerful Angel 👼 Queen 👸 that took me thirty five years to find her as my first Therapist!!!

@vtamilka 3 ай бұрын

The false allegations simply disappeared... problem: the judge of the family court used them to argument her "judgement". Appeal is about to come... And the same person blocks another case of the same appeal court.

@Sandyvalencia-t1m 2 ай бұрын

They always win we can't beat them it's better if they win blind

@imbalancedstatus8824 6 ай бұрын

In my case, out of the blue, she accused me of cheating and being a compulsive liar. I said to her okay. What else you got ? You guessed it. She ended the ephemeral relationship right there and then. I went out to do a belly dance in the rain.

@RebeccaZungEsq 6 ай бұрын

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@LearnCompositionOnline 6 ай бұрын

16:08 😂 ohnyeah

@margiechism 6 ай бұрын

"No." Is my response. ■ I may offer what is true. I leave it there; they will have to 'own it'. M

@imbalancedstatus8824 6 ай бұрын

They hate short answers! Sorry for autocorrect

@margiechism 6 ай бұрын

@@imbalancedstatus8824 James 5:12 KJV ■ But above all things, my brethren, swear not, neither by heaven, neither by the earth, neither by any other oath: but let your yea be yea; and your nay, nay; lest ye fall into condemnation. BLB

@imbalancedstatus8824 6 ай бұрын

@@margiechism i was saying they, the Narcs, hate short answer... because they are lookng for fight and blame shifting.

@RebeccaZungEsq 6 ай бұрын

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@Truthindependentjournalist 6 ай бұрын

yes YES YESSSSS

@RebeccaZungEsq 6 ай бұрын

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@duelde-consulting6403 6 ай бұрын

What happens when a narcissist not only withholds pertinent legal information from you, but somehow convinces the legal system to do the same as well?

@deniseek7944 6 ай бұрын

YES

@RebeccaZungEsq 6 ай бұрын

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@ladybaabaa3294 Ай бұрын

I have a good friend whose adult daughter has NPD and BPD, and she is always trying to control, manipulate and isolate her mother. This daughter has been telling my friend for over a year that I am a gossip and that I am "always" talking to a certain person and telling him all my friend's personal information and that I am not to be trusted. HAH!!!! 😂😂😂 Luckily, my friend knows her daughter is a pathological liar, but it's just SO ANNOYING. I have never spoken about my friend to anyone else behind her back. I haven't seen the person the daughter says I "always" talk to in over 2 years. I don't even know where he lives! And how does the daughter "know" this info? Besides the fact she doesn't, all it says is that SHE is the person doing the talking. So basically, sorry, incorrect. I cannot and will not prove or explain something I did not do. YAWN.