AUDITING YOUR MARRIAGE | WIFE TALK FT

Hey Fam
In todays Episode We talk about the importance and benefit of auditing your marriage
Thank you to out wonderful guest Zizi Moloko for sharing and dropping gems
follow her here:
IG: / zizi_moloko
KZbin: / @zizi_moloko

[@mathapelomohaleroe1880]

Iam not even married but because Zizi is here, I had to follow bandla!

[@nasiphingceza4627]

Same here🤭🤭😅

[@BuliMakhubo]

And you definitely don’t need to be married ❤️❤️ it’s content for all to watch and enjoy 😊

[@katlegopru]

Nam wethu! Ubeloved bandla 🥰🥰 love this girl sooo much! Her smile? Ghosh!!

[@TalitaMda]

Samee

[@gin.k]

Literally me!😄

[@LefenyoEveryday]

“Don’t expect immediate change just because you communicated once”…I liked that point, people are computers that you can reprogram…they need time!! This was a wholesome conversation ❤

[@mapulemadi262]

I can listen to Zizi talk the whole day bandla! I love her❤

[@boitu.m2080]

Zizi’s face is the moment 😍😍

[@BuliMakhubo]

Her smile is the cherry on top! Oh and you should smell her 😍😍 I say wow 🤩

[@paballopule9929]

Wife talks are truly a blessing to us Buli! I'm not even married, but I'm always camping here! Beautiful conversation as always, love you both😍

[@BuliMakhubo]

Thank you so so much for watching and being so kind ❤️

[@Missjay.Nkuna13]

I thoroughly enjoyed watching this, it’s so amazing to witness young women in marriage embrace and speak so well of being married. We are slowly moving away from hearing young couples speak so ill of marriages and I love it for us♥️As a married woman myself I’m taking away so much from this conversations

[@kudzaifidze6121]

I watched this because of Zizi ❤

[@Kay_H441]

As an engaged woman I am so grateful for this conversation. Thank you ladies❤

[@CCME029]

This is a collab I didn't know I needed!!! I love love love this ❤️ Thank you Buli❤️

[@MrMphongoma]

Hello ladies I come from Zizi’s channel😀.Buli you have scored yourself a new subbie ♥️

[@BuliMakhubo]

Awww what an honor . Thank you and welcome 🥹❤️

[@itumelengmbane5922]

Please ndiyamthanda uZizi dhiye 😍💃🏽♥️

[@tarirompho6074]

Reminds me of a pastor the video was one of those which was seculating on the internet. He mentioned somthing like wen u are a wife and a husband sometimes reason God does not answer neither the wife or hubby prayers is cause ther not aligned. How does one ask a car and another house like who is going to answer so u need to sit or pray and get to the point that u all want a house or u both want a car. Which I think leads back to take stock , have a monthly meeting, weigh in like u weigh weight every month after consistently going to the gym.

[@leratotsita26]

You could not have chosen a better guest, Zizi is such a hun🥰

[@keabetswekhalo8223]

I enjoyed this video so much...watching this as someone who is not married has given me clarity on how I should approach marriage and relationships in general. May God continue to bless you Buli ❤

[@BuliMakhubo]

And that means the purpose of this series is fulfilled! I’m so grateful ❤️

[@zethudhlodhlo6478]

I love how Zizi referred to advisors (pre-marital counselling) because they’re able to provide scenarios you wouldn’t have thought of because their experience guides things to think about and that’s invaluable. Thanks for the video ladies!

[@matodzi01]

Zizi is wise. God bless you guys. 🙌🏾

[@SunshineDeeKay]

Hey Buli. New subbie here!! Marriage glow up on you ladies is so pure. I just love how authentic both of you are respectively on your vlogs.♥️♥️♥️

[@BuliMakhubo]

Thank you so so much 🥹❤️

[@leratoranamane9529]

I love Zizi so much 🥺❤️ Thank you for this video sis Buli ❤️ Take home: Preparation is key - start those conversations earlier on 🌟💯

[@nompilopatience1393]

Buli always puts a smile on my face xem 🥰🥰🥰 Thank you for bringing this beautiful queen on Wife’s talk..ngyamtsanda losisi❤️❤️

[@bangibabs]

Such a beautiful conversation and here’s to speaking positively and realistically about marriage 🥂🥰💯. Marriage is so so beautiful when you are intentional and have a lot of honest conversations with our spouses. Lovely lovely discussion.

[@kgomotsomoloto3962]

Started following Zizi'a channel last year and honestly i learnt so much from her and how i want be as wife. Definitely my favorite episode so far coz she is such an apologetic and amazing wife. Love her so much. ❤️

[@BecomingTheGirlOfMyDreams]

Guy's mna anditshatile but I love me some marriage content. Just getting to learn more about the institution as a whole...I'm big on love. I love being somebody's baby

[@BuliMakhubo]

This is why this series exists. Equipping you so that you thrive and do better than some of us when the time comes ❤️❤️❤️ thank you for watching

[@BecomingTheGirlOfMyDreams]

@@BuliMakhubo Thank you for the series sis. It's super educational❤️

[@lindyn4]

Major lesson:Patience when you voice your concerns, I like the point of someone is coming to our place are u happy with that?Thanks ladies I feel like now will follow Zizi

[@Tshego_LIVE]

On the issue of personalities I relate so much. My ex was so extroverted with a big community of friends. I, on the other hand, a homebody. We fought so much because I'd often feel neglected and when I tried to meet him at his level I'd feel absolutely depleted. Thoroughly enjoyed this video. Thank you ladies ❤️

[@refilwemahlanyane8787]

Currently feeling the same way

[@buyisiwembatha6698]

Buli, you are a great host/interviewer.....I love how you listen, allow your guests to speak and also share your experiences respectfully...... Your heart and respect is everything ♥️

[@tshamaanonemurangoni4402]

Zizi speaks with so much knowledge and wisdom...girl you and Buli should host an event were we have such talks love thisss

[@BuliMakhubo]

I’m hosting my first event on the 1st April 2023 I hope you can make it ❤️

[@leratoserwalo9494]

Zizi Gang!🥳🔥

[@mmamolemomodisadife2726]

This was beautiful. Thank you. I have ended a relationship because I pointed out the fact that the person is terrible with money and he got offended. I figured that he's clearly not willing to have uncomfortable conversations. And that's not going to work for me.

[@BuliMakhubo]

This is wise . It’s not easy but it was a wise decision ❤️

[@nzalisekocutu9801]

In your next relationship try and be gentle with your approach. Some people are "terrible" with money because it's their trauma respoce to having grown up in lack. So when you want to address such behaviours, be gentle so that the other person can feel you are a safe place and being a safe place allows the other person to open up easily to you.

[@mmamolemomodisadife2726]

@@nzalisekocutu9801 mm.. Considering the fact that I'm blunt, I will continue to work on how to say things nicely. However, in this case, he grew up getting everything. He never knew lack. He was spending his money on food and not paying rent. That is an irresponsible adult. Not a cross I'm willing to carry.

[@nzalisekocutu9801]

@@mmamolemomodisadife2726 Valid sis!

[@samukelisiwengxongo134]

These conversations are the hill im gonna die on bandla♥️I appreciate you Buli your content is everything.

[@ladye1253]

Lalela Buli, this was the initial reason I loved your channel, I love the content and nawe futhi. Thanks for awesome content.

[@BuliMakhubo]

Thank you sis ❤️❤️

[@shamimnomphelo1628]

I'm here for Zizi ke sana

[@Andy-hz3nm]

Zizi Moloko❤️❤️I love her and i could listen to her speak all day long..Great guest Buli..I am not married but listen im watching this episode because of Zizi😍Enjoyed this talk Buli ,great work mama💐💐💐

[@lindyn4]

I heard it a lot but 9 years later I truely understand and I'm learning that marriage is effort(esp.when there are kids involved) just like any other things u want to grow in your life like money.

[@gugulethumthimkhulu6480]

What is this 😍❤️❤️❤️ so so happy. To see this my favs in one video . Can't wait to watch

[@aliciamudumela1383]

Yes mama ka Esi. Another wonderful episode. Thank you for this; learning so much from this wife talks.

[@hopethani523]

Two of my absolute faves seated together 🥹. I cannot wait to indulge in this match of authenticity🤍. Love you both tons🌸😘

[@nwabisabottoman1812]

I'm at the office ,but only viewing notifications now.. can't wait to watch.. My two favorite wives together😘❤️

[@zinhlelungilegama1049]

Zizi in the building....so excited for this one 😅💃

[@aobakwemoeng8628]

Thank you so much sis Buli for always giving us such wonderful conversations with all these beautiful women 🥺❤️

[@londiwemadondo3350]

Love Zizi ❤ Loved this conversation. Reminds me of how we're early in our relationship and marriage this was kind of revival thank you. Thank you ladies.

[@mhigama9820]

Wow the smile I have while watching is on another level as I love both of you guys ❤❤

[@onenkosisimilemkize3191]

Thoroughly enjoyed this conversation. Love Zizi ❤️ thank you for this video.

[@EverHopeful555]

My girl Ziiiiiiiiiiiiii ☺️😍🥰 love her sana!!

[@HlobeezHive]

Thanks yall this is very insightful for newly weds and people who are engaged. These are things we tend to overlook and this video made me realize how important they actually are.

[@arinahosharon6354]

Yoooh this was soo beautiful hey👌👌yooh as for bringing someone in the house without being told im going through that hey my inlaws even have keys to our house they come as they please 😭😭😭it really kills me inside that i dont have opinion over my home,marriage etc wenever i try to bring it up he gets soo defensive and start to say "you dont love my mom shes old just bare with her also on his pay day she calls 5am in the morning saying you must not dare forget me" ....like she controls everything ive evn decided not go back home on holidays because she will just rock up

[@PalesaMotang]

I love this conversation so much and I think it can be used also in serious relationships and partnerships.

[@aobakwemoeng8628]

These women are beautiful hey🥺🥺, Yoh sis Buli you so gorgeous mama😍🥺

[@letshegomancoe4481]

These conversations are always so good.

[@missauthenticme6390]

What an honest conversation! Thank you for the treat ladies.

[@siziphiwempayipheli2684]

Firstly how gorgeous are you ladies haibooo🥰😍

[@bettygugumoyo8512]

I love Zizi, had to follow her here

[@yethugamedze7317]

Mine ngititsandzela Zizi wami❤

[@SineNkosi.]

Listening to the informed wives. So inspiring even to us who are not married.

[@bridgetgalane2963]

🔥🔥😍Quiet learnt alot especially about communication and Finances in a relationship 🙂

[@cindy_andrews5346]

I love loooove Zizi❤thanx Buli

[@lindomhlungu8158]

This has been my fav video in this series. So relatable and learnt quite a lot from it and a lot to take home. Thank you Buli.❤

[@BuliMakhubo]

Yay! ❤️ thank you for watching

[@katlegomalau6309]

Hosting my fav!😝...beautiful my ladies, really enjoyed this

[@leawilbard6416]

Here for my dear Zizi 😍😍

[@violetmoabelo3083]

I love Zizi so much. I could listen to her speak all day. Loved this conversation. Thank you Buli. ❤️🥹

[@SibuleleTafeni]

Just discovered wife talk and am grateful. The talks are so difficult. I hope one day will reach this point with my hubby...

[@andisiwepikisa3038]

Zizi's gang gang in the house benana 🥺🤗❤️

[@phumezajonas8735]

Zizi 😊💕🌸

[@Sissy_Ngwenya]

Will definitely be implementing this in my marriage. Thank you ladies ❤️

[@nomfundosammy2689]

💃💃💃💃 yazi I was about to ask you to invite Mrs Zizi Moloko, Buli you read my mind🤣🤣🤣

[@matseliso3344]

Buli, only discovered your channel now, my goodness. Totally love it. I'll catch up. Loved this vlog! You both are so warm. Beautiful topic girls❤

[@NandiMate]

I am definitely pinning this. I know I will need to come back time and time again to soak up the knowledge. Thank you Mrs Moloko love you and Mrs Makhubo

[@pontshophilathole3253]

This was so needed. Also you ladies look stunning

[@BuliMakhubo]

Thank you

[@Prism446]

M here coz of Zizi ,her aura is on another level .Love you Zizi 😍

[@FAYWACHO]

I just love zizi, she is just likeable

[@akhoyengama8501]

Zizi is such an elegant lady yho

[@thembiditshego6924]

Oh Zizi, so much wisdom wethu. Love you loads ke my dhiye ❤️. Thoroughly enjoyed this video ❤️❤️

[@Chidzy.M]

Phakhathi inside!!!🙌🙌❤

[@BuliMakhubo]

Let’s go 🚀❤️

[@prudencedantye9297]

Beautiful conversation guys! Definitely took mental notes lol. Had to watch coz Zizi is a fav❤

[@natooshzucherro7250]

My cutie @zizi is here no way I'm here too

[@olwenenenoncokwana8943]

I feel sooo bad that all this time I have not subscribed, I feel like a criminal. Zizi kaloku is gorgeous and looking happy as always😍😍🥰Buli such a sober and lovely lady😍

[@ladye1253]

Ohk my dear, the bandla is here to support uZi.

[@Andy-hz3nm]

And we inside bandla to support our girl❤️

[@ntombizandilesontashe7940]

@zizimoloko said "Watch Here" ndathi say no more ke my Diye..MoloKqueens in the building.

[@mpoomzadube1429]

Not married yet but these talks are definitely needed i feel like I'm growing

[@mothebaagnes7377]

Marriage embrace, what a fruitful conversation. keep the fire burning Ladies. Lenyalo kela Modimo.💌💌💌

[@thobekab4285]

I love Zizi please

[@Kamogelo_Langa]

Wow!!! What an eye opener, thank you for this Buli and Zizi.

[@phumzamayekiso5156]

Owww I enjoyed this conversation between these two ladies, very educational and learning other things about marriage. Nice work Buli and keep it up, girl.

[@angantontela2493]

I am here because of Zizi😊❤

[@moomangena457]

I could listen to zizi the whole day hle

[@BuliMakhubo]

Same ❤️🥹

[@muswa3805]

Thank you for Mrs. Moloko. We love her so much!!

[@ChefSharon263]

Zizi is so beautiful shem.. thank you for this video ladies! Learnt a lot..

[@emihleemihle1897]

Zizi is amazing & is sooo pretty yho😍

[@BuliMakhubo]

Yup! Agreed 😍

[@thelivingexperience5323]

I absolutely lovvvvve this segment. Thank you for bringing such conversations to us.

[@naleditendanimoloi]

I absolutely love these conversations 💕

[@thembiditshego6924]

This will definitely be my go to video, all the time ❤️❤️❤️🙌🏽

[@NkosiLee]

Followed here because of Mrs. Moloko ke sana😂 love you babes.

[@Lerato_M]

My Zizi bathong❤❤❤❤❤

[@strawberrygumede4831]

Lalelani ndiyanithanda

[@phumzaradu9674]

Mrs Moms

[@Thembs_b]

Not me enjoying this conversation in my single state bethuna..I guess ke "Timing " as Zizi mentioned

[@kgomotsomoloto3962]

Honestly the best collaboration that i needed. Love you Mrs Moloko.

[@Prism446]

I also don't like having people in my home for long & I equally don't overstay my welcome when visiting

[@roselineuiras8603]

Information well received. Thank you, ladies.💖💖🌼🌼🌹🌹

[@lethabomaebela5074]

Thank you for the marriage content Buli, I love it here😍😍😍

[@tebalelomarobane8496]

I think you are my homie 😁😁😁are you for burgersfort 🙈

[@tebalelomarobane8496]

@@lethabomaebela5074 ke txwa moroke

[@lethabomaebela5074]

@@tebalelomarobane8496 lol yes 😍 where in burgersfort do you stay

[@wewemhlaba7593]

My girl Ziz❤❤❤Well done Bulz for this segment