Are We Having Another Baby?

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Austin & Jess

Austin & Jess

Күн бұрын

We hope you have a very blessed and happy day! Thank you for all of your support and for being such great friends!
❤️ Austin, Jess, Micah, Paige, Lucas, and Maple
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@samanthaheizer-metcalf9703
@samanthaheizer-metcalf9703 15 күн бұрын
In my experience, the baby fever and/or that nurturing feeling to want more children didn’t go away. I knew I was done essential, but those emotions/feelings never stopped.
@anneconklin6715
@anneconklin6715 15 күн бұрын
None of my business but Jess and Austin are incredible parents and their children are amazing. I say ...go for #4!
@smithface8791
@smithface8791 15 күн бұрын
Even up with 2 girls and 2 boys.
@lindagentile2380
@lindagentile2380 11 күн бұрын
Me too 👍🧸❤️🤗✝️
@lisatries
@lisatries 13 күн бұрын
I thought I was done at age 29...then had a set of twins at age 38 !! Proud mom of 4 kids!! It all goes by so fast. I'm 52 now and honestly...the earlier years feel like they are so far in the past! Have another baby...you won't regret it!
@carolinepfleuger2522
@carolinepfleuger2522 15 күн бұрын
Honestly, when you have 3 kids, any more is no harder! I know many many couples that have 4 to 10 kids and they all say the same thing. The older help the younger, not in a parenting way but in a loving sibling way. Also it is true that when it's your last baby, you just know it in your heart. I think it's just a mother's instinct that you just know! ❤
@ms.c.2897
@ms.c.2897 9 күн бұрын
IF they are a typical kid. There's always the chance for special needs or medical problems, or twins... which are all pretty challenging in and of themselves
@CindyEvans-kc9vs
@CindyEvans-kc9vs 15 күн бұрын
, Having another child is not just an emotional decision but a practical one too. Weigh up all the pros & cons and consider the impact on the other 3 as well as your body. Once you're over 35 you're considered a "geriatric" mum. I had my last at 36 & worried about something being wrong. He's 34 now,all good. It's completely your decision, but your family dynamic is so great now, seriously consider how a 4th child might change that. I got baby fever when I was 40 ( hormones maybe?) but am so glad we stuck with the 3 we already had. And now we have 3 almost 4 grandchildren. Greetings from Australia 😍
@michellebow3749
@michellebow3749 15 күн бұрын
Im just saying that when Austin brought that up the other day and he said baby #4 coming soon, I swear I had a tingle of "oh she is going to be pregnant soon" !
@starrperry6395
@starrperry6395 15 күн бұрын
You will know when you are done, no questions or doubts 😊. Until then just enjoy this time as a family. 🥰
@jillhobbs79
@jillhobbs79 15 күн бұрын
My daughter and her husband said they were done when their 3rd was born 4 years ago. Now, they are trying for number 4. For me, I knew I was done when I could see a pregnant woman and not be jealous. I absolutely loved being pregnant.
@schrimp05
@schrimp05 13 күн бұрын
I understand what Austin is saying about siblings *but* if you have another child, the 3 you have lose more of you in a way. If that makes sense. You are both awesome parents and I'm sure you would manage. Lucas seems SO happy with his big sisters and being your familys baby. I have 3 boys, I knew I was done when the thought of giving them any less of me or being away from them hurt. Like, I want another baby. I will always want babies. But thats for me. That is not what is best for my family and my existing babies ♡
@jennamurphy9002
@jennamurphy9002 15 күн бұрын
I dont think everyone knows straight away. I certainly didn't, but since my youngest turned 4 I can for sure say no more. It not just about what is best for what the parents want but what's best for each child as well. People still ask me now mine are 9 and 6 if I'm having anymore so don't let others questions and pressure make you feel like you should.
@Tsukonin
@Tsukonin 15 күн бұрын
Jess is still young, anything can happen. It's already great being at peace with not having another child and with not caring for another baby ever again. But if it happens, it happens, "bonus" baby is always a blessing.
@MarieWoodward-fs8pq
@MarieWoodward-fs8pq 15 күн бұрын
Hi Spomers. I'm one of four children, and I had three older brothers, and I'm the only girl and the baby. If I had a sister, life would've been different for me. I didn't want my parents to have anymore kids when I was little but as I got older that was all I wished for. Never say never Jess. In time if you have another or not I'm sure these beautiful kids will be fine with whatever you and Austin decide. BTW, Austin reminds me of one of the Monkee's with that hair. Straight outta the 60s. Thank you for sharing❤❤❤❤❤❤
@annamariacantalupo9634
@annamariacantalupo9634 15 күн бұрын
Hi Spomer family... all your videos are super nice and Lucas is a cutie as well as Paige and Micah are, too. Whatever your heart desires whether to have another child or not, rest assured that we will always be awaiting your videos!!!! We love you all so much!!!!! 💙❤️❤️❤️💙
@kaseyrask3918
@kaseyrask3918 6 күн бұрын
We have 3 boys. Our 2 younger ones 14 months apart. Had fertility treatment to get pregnant with first 2. Oldest is 9 and got a 4 year old and 3 year old. Our 3rd baby was a surprise baby no fertility treatment and didn’t find out I was pregnant until I was 6 month pregnant! We knew after the last one we were done. I know a lot of people ask me but don’t you want to try for a girl and honestly first 2 kids had naturally but last one was a c-section and we kind of knew it being our last. In our later 30s early 40s and 3 boys definitely keeps us more than busy. It’s sad and bittersweet at the same time. You think about that you will never feel again having a baby inside you or ultrasounds and delivery rooms. Time is a thief and goes by so fast. Plus as parents our energy levels are definitely changing as well. So yeah sometimes you just know. You look at the kids you have and you feel complete like the final puzzle piece is finally put in place.
@MissYaknoww
@MissYaknoww 15 күн бұрын
Love love love your family! You are great parents and you guys are my inspiration to what I am trying to be for my kids too! My girl always giggle when watching your kids playing together ☺️ I am currently pregnant with my fourth baby and at my third I was always saying I don't know if I want more than 4, I'm not close to more! But right now, even with the beautiful pregnancy I am living I have that feeling of ' oh that's gonna be my last one, I am officially done' and yet I was not sure a year ago with my third! You have the time to think about it, like others said wait till he is potty train and doesn't need you all the time maybe you will feel like you are done done when they are gonna be more responsible of themselves! But for my part I did feel that feeling of my family is officially complete! Do what feels right to you! Of course we would love to follow another pregnancy journey and a new Spomer addition tho! ☺️ Your kids are adorable and very loving to watch grow! Love you guys! xo
@Breezy-bv9te
@Breezy-bv9te 15 күн бұрын
AWW! Lucas is getting so big and I didn't notice he is walking. Way to go Lukas! Paige and Micah are growing so Beautifully and Strong! Austin & Jess your family is just so Awesome. God Bless and if God wants to give you another little one he will put emotion in both your hearts as for now you all seem so Content and Happy! 🥰 And Tired.. 🥱 Thats the way it goes.
@tessar.6360
@tessar.6360 15 күн бұрын
I had 4 sons and I always wanted to go for the 5th (my husband was done) but I'm not sure that feeling of not being done having babies is a feeling that ever goes away. When I had the 3; we definitely knew we wanted a 4th! Lucas is only 2 so relax and give it time. He may be your forever baby or you may decide when he's a little older. Whatever happens - that's whats meant for your family!❤
@amidthephantomsrose
@amidthephantomsrose 5 күн бұрын
You guys are such awesome parents and i love seeing your family grow and all of your pregnancy journey videos. So if you guys want to and feel that it's right, then go for it.
@sheilascoyne861
@sheilascoyne861 14 күн бұрын
Y’all rock, and love y’all. It is where ever life takes you. Austin your hair is a flash back to that 70’s cool boy hanging at the beach look. 63 here and grew up at the beach. Thanks for the memories 🙌😊❤❤❤❤❤❤🙏
@angelariley5163
@angelariley5163 15 күн бұрын
congrats on the coming baby 4
@Momof2_91
@Momof2_91 15 күн бұрын
I can’t think about #4 3 months postpartum. But someone told me to imagine your life 2-4 years from now, what do you see? Think about your ages when they are graduating high school. And then envision your thanksgiving table when they come home from college, how many do you see? I hope this helps!
@paigeh2878
@paigeh2878 15 күн бұрын
We have 4 and I knew going into my fourth pregnancy that we were done before. But it was completely confirmed when I had a rough pregnancy and said I would never be pregnant again. I love babies and didn't think I'd ever feel that way, but I agree you know when you know.
@rhyblank
@rhyblank 15 күн бұрын
My 3rd is 3 months old and I already want another baby. If we had the space and if my body could handle it, we would have many more. We possibly might have 1 more. I absolutely LOVE the baby stage and can't imagine not having another one. My second is 6 1/2 so the age gap between 2nd and 3rd made it so easy. You need to absolutely be sure you are done. Give it some time
@SteveandJai
@SteveandJai 6 күн бұрын
I lost my third baby when I was about 8 or 9 weeks along. She was a surprise and came into existence at a time when we didn’t expect her. My husband didn’t want any more children and because I don’t take birth control or we don’t use other contraceptives other than NFP every month after when I should have been growing our second daughter I spent in agony because my husband wouldn’t be intimate with me during the time when I most wanted to be close (in my fertile window). This was torture and I cried out to God for Him to change my hubby’s heart toward more babies. There was the darkest moment right before Christmas 2023 when I thought there was no hope and in that time we came to the same page. We didn’t get pregnant right away, but it actually took about as long as it did to conceive our Lena (baby who left). Our 4th babe and second boy (Theodore Ivan) is due in March. My heart is open to as many as God gives us. For me, losing a baby made me appreciate the miracle of life via pregnancy even more. The fact that I can be nearly 33 weeks with this precious darling so healthy after experiencing the tragedy of fetal death is a wonder. I could never say “I’m done” when it comes to having babies because I know that ultimately, these little ones are in His hand and timing. Give me all the babies. I never wanted more than 1, but God has changed my heart. I never wanted a boy, but God knew what I needed. After losing a girl I thought I’d have another girl this pregnancy and God knew better yet again. He really always knows best. He knows for your family too. Lord, bless you and keep you! 🥹🙏
@StefanieA319
@StefanieA319 14 күн бұрын
I don’t have any kids yet but one thing I hear people say is they get to the stage probably where you are now when all three kids can do the same activities now and no one gets left out they are also more independent. Traveling is easier. And then if you add another baby that all changes again. So it just depends on what stage you feel like you guys are in. If your questioning it though one more might be the answer ❤
@OHSloopyIO
@OHSloopyIO 15 күн бұрын
Lucas is soo handsome with that haircut. I think The Trio is perfect. If another baby happens, it happens. Happy Day from Chill ly Ohio. Home of the National Champio Ohio State Buckeyes!! ❤❤❤
@KathilynBigler
@KathilynBigler 15 күн бұрын
Me too!! I live in Kettering Ohio!!
@OHSloopyIO
@OHSloopyIO 15 күн бұрын
@KathilynBigler I'm in Belmont!!!!!!! Centerville native. Hiya!!!
@KathilynBigler
@KathilynBigler 14 күн бұрын
@ Yippee!!!!🙏😘🙏🐾🐾🐾
@SherryBobbins1
@SherryBobbins1 15 күн бұрын
We only had three (2 girls and then a boy) and I've always wished we had one more😊 Give it another year and see how you feel ❤️
@barkleybeers480
@barkleybeers480 15 күн бұрын
We have 2 kids, 10 years apart. Had our first at 29, second at 39. The thing that decided for us was our age, would be way old as parents with a newborn. And mentally I’m at my limit with taking care of two. 😂 Love babies and littles, so I volunteer in our church nursery to get my baby fix. Works great!
@georgiastemmerich7749
@georgiastemmerich7749 15 күн бұрын
Happy Day, Spomer family. Lucas looks so adorable with his haircut. As for having another child. Well, I would say that it would be cool to give Lucas a little brother, but their is no way to make sure that it will be a boy the next time. So what do you do? Wait and let the chips fall where they fall. That is a tough guesting. So all I can say is this. If you decide to have one more, do it soon or just be happy on three. Whatever, I love y'all so much. I think your videos are awesome. They just make this old lady in Texas so full of joy and happiness when I get to see them. Sending all my love to y'all from Texas. ❤❤❤❤❤🐕❤
@PaulaDeBeer
@PaulaDeBeer 15 күн бұрын
It's summer here in South Africa. It's like 104 degrees Fahrenheit or more. Its 9.45pm now amd I'm usually asleep by now but the fan isn't helping much. You are wonderful parents. So organized. It's a tough decision as to how many children to have. Wish you guys all the best. ❤❤
@KathilynBigler
@KathilynBigler 15 күн бұрын
You are the most sensational parents!! Pray about it and God will guide you!!! Your children are just wonderful and beautiful!!! Much Love!!!💕 🐾😘🙏
@dalebecalm3528
@dalebecalm3528 15 күн бұрын
After 3 kids I was told I could never have any more children. I did not feel done but accepted it. Imagine my surprise and the drs when 4 years later by some miracle I was pregnant. But the moment I recovered from the shock. I knew for certain I was done. It was just a certainty feeling that I never had with first 3. Like a calm fulfilment. So you will know.❤
@nolonlindataylor1689
@nolonlindataylor1689 15 күн бұрын
I was hoping that maybe you two wanted one more. I think that you guys are the best parents. Thank God that you two have been blessed with three healthy, adorable children.
@jessicaLo10
@jessicaLo10 14 күн бұрын
It was as soon as I found out I was pregnant with my 3rd I just knew it was my last. So it goes with the idea of people just knowing. I had this overwhelming feeling of, once this baby is earth side, I’m ready to just enjoy them and watch them grow.
@leighhunt8853
@leighhunt8853 15 күн бұрын
Man!!! You just got Love Lucas with his smile 😊
@NancysVlogs2.0
@NancysVlogs2.0 15 күн бұрын
Oh my Austin you simply look so different with long hair! The kiddos are growing up so fast wow live it!! Baby fever is so normal for time to time ❤❤Love you Spomer family
@peggymcdonald3983
@peggymcdonald3983 15 күн бұрын
I would say wait until Lucas is a little further along potty, trained speaking and not so needy of Ma all the time. I think that that will give you clarity on whether or not you wanna go through everything again. But yes, just because your kids are adorable and I love seeing them, but that’s just me.
@Mrs.kDanner
@Mrs.kDanner 15 күн бұрын
I have 3 kids (17b, 13g, 6b) and for me i knew I was done during my pregnancy with my last. My pregnancy was rough. I had HG and was hospitalized 3x and was on bedrest for 7 out of the 9mo. That broke me down mentally and then after I had him... i had a really bad case of PPD. I wanted to give up. So I decided right then and there that for the sake of my family, my children and most certainly myself....I couldn't have another baby no matter how bad mentally I wanted too, especially with my kids age gap. So for me it was not a decision that was easy but one that was rather life or death for me. 😢 Loads of love and strength going forward with that decision and know no matter what you choose.. it was the right decision for you.
@suejames2283
@suejames2283 15 күн бұрын
Geez 3 was enough for me to call it 🤣🤣
@eileensalerno4350
@eileensalerno4350 13 күн бұрын
You guys are such wonderful parents and such a loving family, I say one more to even the score!!
@aileneproutyt.v4766
@aileneproutyt.v4766 15 күн бұрын
Hi, some of us don’t get to choose. I still wanted more and my Hubble didn’t. He has since passed away and I am all alone. No more for me, without getting my chance to choose. 😩. Make sure you are truly done! In your heart and soul.
@smithface8791
@smithface8791 15 күн бұрын
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@lisacobb7525
@lisacobb7525 15 күн бұрын
My sister had her son and was told she was done. Wouldn’t be able to have any more. 9 years later his little brother came along. He is so sweet and loving. Now they’re almost 43 and 34. 😱 Can’t believe it. They come when they come. ❤
@jenniyum
@jenniyum 15 күн бұрын
I had both of my children by age 21 and I knew when they were little that I was done, done. Before I had kids I always thought I'd have at least 4 of them. I'm 40 today and that feeling never changed for me. I was just adamant that I didn't want anymore children, no what ifs ever came about as the years went by. That's the best I can describe it for myself.
@PaulaDeBeer
@PaulaDeBeer 15 күн бұрын
I think it's good to have your children as young as possible. ❤
@marytomlinson290
@marytomlinson290 15 күн бұрын
Lucas is his mommy’s twin, beautiful family!!
@Tabby116
@Tabby116 15 күн бұрын
The kids are cute as always ❤love you all so much sending hugs 🤗
@GayleLazarus-u4o
@GayleLazarus-u4o 14 күн бұрын
Oh my gosh haven’t seen you guys since the baby’s 1st b’day. He got to big and he’s such a cutie doll. I say go for #4. I like even numbers. I have 3- they are grown w/ kids of their own but I always wanted at least 1 more. My husband at that time flatly said NO. I never got over it and I’m a senior now w/3 beautiful grands. ❤gayle
@amyannshipyor4096
@amyannshipyor4096 15 күн бұрын
I have 2 daughters and one son. And I would not want it any other way. I am blessed to have the family that I have. 🩷💜💙
@katrinahempstead7521
@katrinahempstead7521 13 күн бұрын
I always heard “you know when you’re done”. But I never have. We decided we’re done, but my heart always wishes we could have one more. But I completely agree with all you say. It’s the weirdest thing to suddenly be done having babies. My baby is about to be 3. It just goes so fast! I’ve learned to grieve and mourn being done that season of having babies
@Serenity-e8t
@Serenity-e8t 15 күн бұрын
I wanted 5 boys before I experienced being pregnant. I just don’t like being pregnant. I had one more baby boy and we decided that was good. They are now grown and I definitely wish that I had a couple more babies. Raising them went so fast that it feels like it was a dream. You most definitely won’t regret having more. I didn’t think I would regret stopping at 2, but I do. Imagine if you decided to stop at 2. You wouldn’t have sweet Lukas. Who else would you bring missing out on knowing ❤ Ultimately, the decision you make for your family will be the right one no matter what the comments tell ya❤
@Sands86
@Sands86 13 күн бұрын
Here's me miss reading the title and thinking you're have another baby and thinking how nice will another girl be. ❤❤❤❤❤🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈 Either way, another baby or not, I hope the best for you and your family. Much love From Durban South Africa
@RhondaPardee-z8k
@RhondaPardee-z8k 15 күн бұрын
My husband and I had 2 boys. When the second baby was a year old. We gave it one year to decide if we wanted another baby or not.. One year later to the day we held hands and I was really hoping we would be on the same page on our answers. So I said on the count of 3 we will both say out loud are answers. - So I said 1, 2, 3...... and we both said word for word "No more for me" ❤❤❤❤❤
@jmwyvill
@jmwyvill 15 күн бұрын
Our two kids are 7 (almost 8) years apart. When we had our daughter I was like "Nope, never again." lol But then in 2021 ... it happened again unexpectedly lol. 2/22/22 we had our little boy. Honestly, the reasons we decided we were 1000 % done, was 1: finances, 2: my pregnancy/delivery with our son was much harder on me, 3: my age, I was almost 41 when he came along. Even after having my tubes removed, knowing I'm done and that we'd never be able to handle a 3rd, sometimes I think .. but whaaat if? lol. So even when you know, you don't always feel that way.I really think it's just different for every parent, every family.
@candisbar524
@candisbar524 15 күн бұрын
I knew after three that as much as I loved having babies, it's really hard work, and I got tired. Sometimes I wish we had a companion for our son. But I started getting set in my routine. I was glad to be done and enjoy my family.
@Mommaof003
@Mommaof003 15 күн бұрын
That feeling like you cant say 100% you are done, tells me you arnt done. When you are officially done you have that overwhelming feeling of content and peace that you dont want more. But its ok if you are done and its ok if you arnt done either. Seek Gods will for your life and not your own and I always ask God to make my wants His wants and my will to be His will. Praying for you guys in this time and decision making. I will say, I always wanted a brother for my son and we had 2 more girls and then we didnt have more and Ive always been a little sad we only had 1 boy. But I'm also content with the 3 we have.
@smithface8791
@smithface8791 15 күн бұрын
How many women out there contracept and block out God’s will?!
@leegregory3974
@leegregory3974 14 күн бұрын
Wow has he grown, so darn cute 😍
@Katsnailsnailvideos
@Katsnailsnailvideos 14 күн бұрын
*We said we were done for sure, and the day after he got his vasectomy, I found out I was pregnant with baby number 4. I feel 100% done now. It is alot, but it amazing❤*
@baileyclayton3449
@baileyclayton3449 15 күн бұрын
Austin’s Bieber hair is cracking me up 🤣🤣
@nahlaabu-gusseisa6643
@nahlaabu-gusseisa6643 15 күн бұрын
Yes, he is too old for it. He looks childish
@TiffARMY
@TiffARMY 15 күн бұрын
​@@nahlaabu-gusseisa6643good thing his life is his and yours is yours.
@alisebradley6225
@alisebradley6225 15 күн бұрын
I’m glad I’m not the only one who thought of Bieber
@baileyclayton3449
@baileyclayton3449 15 күн бұрын
@@nahlaabu-gusseisa6643 if he likes it that way then what’s the deal Karen? It’s his hair not yours. 💀
@christinahardin9217
@christinahardin9217 15 күн бұрын
I believe he's growing it out to be able to get a perm on their MenTry channel.
@haven7791
@haven7791 15 күн бұрын
We had 3 kids, girl and 2 boys. While we were thinking about should we have a forth we got twins as a surprise! Whatever you decide will be perfect for you ❤
@hannahbrowngoofball
@hannahbrowngoofball 15 күн бұрын
0:14 that is so cute when a kid clings onto your leg like that it is adorable and cute at the same time! Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰💘💘💝💝💖💖💗💗💓💓💞💞💕💕😍😍
@readingfann
@readingfann 15 күн бұрын
Doesn't matter as long as it is happy and healthy. If you decide to have more. You have a wonderful family as is an one more is just more love.
@baileyclayton3449
@baileyclayton3449 15 күн бұрын
My favorite vlog channel!! 💕💕💕
@sabine46
@sabine46 15 күн бұрын
We would LOVE baby nr 3! My whole heart says yes yes yes every single day! ❤ But i know financially and physically I just can't (I'm also scared after an emergency and selective c section that something might go wrong, and my body already feels much weaker after two pregnancies) And wanting to offer my current two kids everything they want (sports, holidays and everything else) I know financially we just can't, not with how expensive everything is nowadays! It's so hard if the heart wants it but my mind knows I probably shouldn't.
@elizabethkoobs1060
@elizabethkoobs1060 15 күн бұрын
I knew I didn't want more after I had a four-year-old son and then twin sons! Not to mention a failing marriage. I agree that you will know when you're sure. Love and hugs from snowy GA.❤🫂❄️
@kaitlinparsons6556
@kaitlinparsons6556 15 күн бұрын
We have two and my husband is fairly content, but not set against more. I feel like one more is in the cards, but also feel like we have to level it out with 4 if we do a third 😂 it's so hard!!
@ps0726
@ps0726 15 күн бұрын
Remind me never get on the road when he is driving.😂 Kids cute as usual. If having a baby is being thought about, if meant to be it will happen.
@Solyss016
@Solyss016 15 күн бұрын
I knew we were done at two when I craved another newborn..,but not a new one, I wished and still pine to hold my two again as a newborn. Getting past the baby stages we are getting sleep now, enjoying old hobbies again, travel is so much easier and we can look forward to our little family unit enjoying life together
@furbabies867
@furbabies867 15 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing all the cute moments. Jess- have you ever thought that maybe your hesitation about getting pregnant again has more to do with ptsd- painful pregnancy, surprise illness, medical testing than being done with the size of your family? You may want to look into some therapy to help you work through everything that happened with your last pregnancy and it could help you realize if your done because you are done or if you feel done because of fear or are you just touched / attentioned out. You at this moment can't imagine having another child needing your attention. I don't think you will feel confident in your decision to not grow your family until you understand everything behind your decision to not grow your family. Check your insurance, most plans cover therapy sessions now. ❤
@melissamoon859
@melissamoon859 13 күн бұрын
Yeah I agree with most. I didn’t have that final “done” feeling until my only one was like 3 inching towards 4 years old… and all of a sudden me and my husband just switched our tune to “done.” And it doesn’t mean I’m like, should we have?? But the answer is no. :)
@renee1424
@renee1424 15 күн бұрын
Lucas totally nodded when jess asked
@lamikahawkins9442
@lamikahawkins9442 15 күн бұрын
I've had 5 pregnancies, and four births(I lost my daughter in utero). I knew I was done with my last pregnancy(which was twins), after my birth experience. I had a vaginal and a C-section for their delivery. After that experience, I was done! I now have 4 beautiful, amazing, grown sons (25, 33, 20 & 20).
@sophiaswanberg4742
@sophiaswanberg4742 15 күн бұрын
@shelleyl4117
@shelleyl4117 15 күн бұрын
You are good parents. If you do have another do it now rather than later.
@ItsAMbutyoutubechangedmyname
@ItsAMbutyoutubechangedmyname 15 күн бұрын
Lucas in his new haircut looks so handsome Had to write about how did we know . Well it was mostly an financial decision but we also felt like our age was climbing in to factor we felt like we still want to be able to do things and be there for if we ever get lucky enough to get grandkids. Even though hubby and I was 100% sure and he went under the knife doubt still came for a few years for me had we done the right thing knowing yes I was really done and now my youngest is almost 14 and I can say I’m happy that we made the decision when our youngest was about 2
@DalexVlogs
@DalexVlogs 15 күн бұрын
I think Jess you have a very strong maternal instinct, especially with young kids around right now. That could be why you can’t confidently say, “I’m 100% sure I don’t want more kids."
@babygrunge
@babygrunge 12 күн бұрын
For me with my 4th pregnancy I knew I was done. I knew my body did enough. I knew emotionally and mentally I was complete. The no more babies stage was an adjustment. Now my last baby is about to graduate this may. I feel most people just know. But others need to take time to decide.
@loisenolp4746
@loisenolp4746 15 күн бұрын
We had our daughter and son a year apart. Then 9 years later we had our youngest daughter. Well she is now 22 and when she was younger I wish we would have had another close to her age. It was so nice with our older kids having a playmate always. With our Madi we all had to entertain her. It wasn’t terrible and she is extremely close to her siblings but it’s like she has 2 sets of parents. 🤣 so my advice is just wait and see. Don’t count anything out.
@Mcgahafamilyvlogs
@Mcgahafamilyvlogs 15 күн бұрын
You will know for sure If your done. I wanted to have 5 but unfortunately I wasn't able to have more because I had a hystroctomy for endometriosis and I wish I could have had more but the lord blessed me with 3 beautiful babies a set of twin girls and one boy. You just let the lord decide then you will feel sure. Keep faith for answers. You will know I promise.
@ProV31MaMa20
@ProV31MaMa20 15 күн бұрын
Jess, do you have a link to your zip up? I love it! 🥰
@dhf161
@dhf161 15 күн бұрын
You are a perfect family of five ❤ Lucas should stay the baby. He’s too much of a momma’s boy to share you, Jess, with a younger sibling.
@taniashackleton9789
@taniashackleton9789 15 күн бұрын
It must be cold where you are, Jess has jogging pants on 😂
@sherristyers5627
@sherristyers5627 15 күн бұрын
Have a wonderful day friends.
@colleenfarrell832
@colleenfarrell832 14 күн бұрын
Jess you are so young still, there is plenty of years to decide if you're done. My mom had 3 babies I am the middle and I am the only girl. I'm 31 as of yesterday and have a 6 year old little girl. I hope I can have more but if my zo is the only one then I got very lucky with her. Just see how life goes. Lucas would be an awesome big brother lol.❤
@deborahgerber2894
@deborahgerber2894 15 күн бұрын
Just listen to your heart!
@helenroberts1107
@helenroberts1107 15 күн бұрын
You could get Paige some polymer clay then when she makes something nice you can bake it and she can keep it forever
@smithface8791
@smithface8791 15 күн бұрын
Have you heard of the Radford family in the UK? What a family!!! I would love to have been a member of a large family.
@mariemarshall5082
@mariemarshall5082 15 күн бұрын
I had three girls, after each of them I craved another, finally the fourth was a boy & my craving for another wasn’t there. Love watching your vlogs xx
@karenselogic7742
@karenselogic7742 15 күн бұрын
austins hair cut now reminds shaggy from scooby doo.
@tammyflanigan6218
@tammyflanigan6218 15 күн бұрын
Happy Day Everyone!!
@debbiedavis265
@debbiedavis265 15 күн бұрын
Is Austin’s going through a midlife crisis…. The hair style is giving 18 yr old boy band style 😂😂😂
@lpxoxo374
@lpxoxo374 15 күн бұрын
Love you guys soooo much ❤
@user-zq7gl9tx3y
@user-zq7gl9tx3y 15 күн бұрын
I thought I had a forever baby o e time lmao , then he went to kindergarten & that very week , I found out baby # 4 was on the way ! I was absolutely shocked as was my husband !.we had taken every precaution and well, life had other plans !
@madelineharden-cv1hu
@madelineharden-cv1hu 15 күн бұрын
Early happy day to everyone 🎉
@MsArizonaGrown
@MsArizonaGrown 15 күн бұрын
We are pretty sure that we want one more. We currently have two girls and we just really want a boy. I know if we have a boy we will definitely be done but if it's a third girl I feel like I might want one more. I am scared of the point in life where I will have to say goodbye to this phase because growing up as a little girl this is the part of life that we most look forward to.
@shirlynb148
@shirlynb148 14 күн бұрын
Just watched Lucas’ haircut video………Dad’s next!
@Breatheintomeandmakemereal
@Breatheintomeandmakemereal 15 күн бұрын
Hey Austin! Tony Robbins was on the Dr. John Delony Show.
@jaimebh30
@jaimebh30 15 күн бұрын
I am currently pregnant with my fourth and waiting for my body to go into labor any day. I am done growing babies this pregnancy was harder on my body, and I am ready to have my last unmedicated birth. I think you just know, and I do not want to be pregnant at 40 (37 years old now). I currently have 5yr, 2yr, 1yr, and soon newborn. A girl and 2 boys so if we have a third boy it will be a lot of fun chaos. You guys could adopt in the future. I hope you and your family have a great week!
@CCChellex
@CCChellex 15 күн бұрын
I don't think it's a feeling of you know when you know. We're done at two (6 yr old (girl) and 2 yr old (boy)) and while I can't rule out a 3rd ever I can say at this point in my life We're happy with our family, the balance we have, and the routine. Plus our 2 year old is so much energy if we're tired now I can't imagine how tired we'd be with another baby lol
@joankgillette
@joankgillette 15 күн бұрын
I personally think you’ll have one more. If we could afford more and didn’t have such financial troubles I would absolutely have one or two more!
@lindalaframboise8444
@lindalaframboise8444 15 күн бұрын
Well you'll both will know when the time is right for another or not and if it does happen accidently it will be a blessed child in the family anyways, you both will know so just enjoy your family now and relax and take it one day at a time.
@vickiepatterson2604
@vickiepatterson2604 14 күн бұрын
When I was pregnant with my 3rd I totally knew I was done. So I feel if you are having doubts at all wait a little bit. But therefore it's not my decision nor my business.
@courtneymitchell8439
@courtneymitchell8439 13 күн бұрын
I knew i was done after having my third child from 6 pregnancies back in 2018. However, this past year I have become extremely clucky and thinking I would love to have another baby. However, I know mentally and physically my body couldn't handle another pregnancy. So, for me, knowing you're done, is when you know without a doubt that mentally and physically you can't do pregnancy anymore.
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