Autism Helps & Tips | World Autism Day Collab

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[@Jen-Chapin]

You are such a good mama. I have no reason to watch this video other than I’m a mom too and I can tell you are doing a great job!!

[@BlessedJess]

You the sweetest! Thanks so much, friend! 😘

[@sidneyfranks4334]

Stop you're making me cry! You are an inspiration to others with in the same situation. Also thanks for letting us know how we can support others with austic children!!! 💜💜💜💜

[@BlessedJess]

Thanks so much, my friend!

[@roserive9688]

We have a supermarket (uk) that has introduced a 'quiet hour' for those who struggle with all the hustle, bustle etc.

[@BlessedJess]

I would like that too! Haha

[@stefaniaaghadi1524]

I love this video. Thank you for being so transparent and real. Nate is certainly blessed with the best. You are such a wonderful Mama. ♥️

[@BlessedJess]

Thanks so much!!!

[@amazinglifeinchaos9151]

With a 15 year old on the spectrum, we have been through many avenues of sensory issues. It takes time to sort out the child's needs (as you stated) and it changes as they get older. Your emotional state brought back memories of many issues past and present in thinking I was a bad mom also. It's hard not to have that thought but always remember you are not alone. I hear so many stories with our support group when it sounds like my story. Keep up the good work mom! You are making a difference for Nate and other families watching! Thank you!

[@BlessedJess]

Thank you so much! ❤️

[@sandyseibelhager7131]

Love the sound machine. I started using one years ago and now I can't sleep without it.

[@sweetmelody1017]

Thank you so much for sharing this video! I enjoyed learning so many things about Nate. You're such a wonderful mom. Keep up the great work! 😍

[@BlessedJess]

Thanks so much, Kristi!

[@amandadonaldson5576]

You are doing great momma! Thank you for doing this video. Some of the stuff you spoke about has explained to me why my 9 year old autistic daughter does some of the things she does and how to deal with those issues!

[@BlessedJess]

You are so welcome! Thanks so much for watching!

[@jems1018]

SO helpful thank you thank you thank you

[@joannsalas7015]

Hi Jess! You shared a lot of great tips and suggestions! Thank you so much for this collab with me! You’re an awesome mom and Nate is lucky to have you by his side!

[@BlessedJess]

Aww thanks so much! Thanks again for collabing with me!

[@vekimmie]

Loved this video Jess. I love being able to understand how people with autism feel/react...hiw i need to act to gelp domeone out. Education is key. Thank you for opening my eyes a little💜 much love to Nate,he really is growing so fast!!

[@katinic3125]

You’re making me cry! ❤️❤️❤️

[@BlessedJess]

[@janineholley7980]

Excellent! Thanks for sharing your heart! ❤️

[@BlessedJess]

[@jessicabejarano6065]

Watching you help Nate helps my fiancé understand me

[@BlessedJess]

I am so glad, that's awesome!

[@denisesovay2139]

I know you did this for world Autism Day but honestly I just enjoyed learning more about Nate. Other than his favorite and least favorite foods! Thank you for sharing!!! L💙ve you, Nate!!! L💖ve you, Lucy!!!

[@BlessedJess]

Thanks so much!

[@gidgetwatkins]

Jess this was great! I have a niece with Autism. I as well have been guilty when in public saying the same exact you did when seeing or hearing a child act up. I no longer do that I feel so terrible about doing it before. Hugs to you! You are a GREAT MOM!! 💕💕💕💕

[@BlessedJess]

Thanks so much, friend!

[@brynb1325]

Great video Jess. Your videos have been so instrumental in teaching my kids about autism and I have seen them interact with special needs children with grace they have learned from you. This Christmas I bought my friend’s autistic child one of those foot roller/massagers. He’s so in love with it and pulls it out when he needs to calm himself. Momma loves it too 😉

[@BlessedJess]

That makes my day! Kids are so awesome and so teachable!

[@Flareontoast]

I have not finished the video yet (watching as I comment) but I was thinking I should add my own suggestions from my experiences: -Chewable jewelry. If an autistic person needs lots of oral input or chews on stuff like clothes, it's worth a try. You can start with baby teething necklaces since they're more readily available and cheaper. But once you figure out if you like something, chewigem, ark therapeutic and stimtastic have great chews. (just 'cause i'm at that part right now: jumping does not only feel good on the legs/feet, but also gives vestibular input - the same input we get from rocking and spinning!) -having sunglasses, ear defenders and anything like that available. I have these in my backpack usually. -For those around an autistic person, it can be useful to tell the difference between a meltdown or a shutdown. Most people know about meltdowns. Shutdowns are kind of a coping mechanism as a response to overload where some senses shut down, as the name implies. That makes you less responsive, either super sensitive or not sensitive at all, moving can be hard. -what you mentioned about staying calm is a great example of how autistic people actually can have A LOT of empathy! Mirroring other people's emotions - even if it's an animal, or a character on TV - is actually pretty common with autistics. It's awesome to hear you talk so fondly of things that help your son. Lots of parents of autistic kids see these things are "chores" and "burdens" :( sorry this is late, But hey, all month is autism acceptance month :D

[@BlessedJess]

Thanks so very much!

[@cateburritt4295]

Happy World Autism Day! I love watching your videos and this one was a great one, my daughter Lily was diagnosed with autism at 14 months old and has a lot of similar sensory issues your son has. My daughter is now 4 and it's fun to see what works for other kids on the spectrum

[@BlessedJess]

Thanks so much, Cate! Sending love!

[@jacquelinediaz1685]

Excellent video

[@maddthexdcdancer]

I’m currently in school to be an SLP, so this video was so great!!!

[@BlessedJess]

That’s awesome!

[@Jen5914]

These are great tips for my son! He doesn’t have autism but I found these tips helpful! Esp the sleep tips, like calmly walking them back to bed

[@BlessedJess]

Yes, I learned that from the Super Nanny. Haha. It helps a lot! Thanks so much for watching!

[@lowderra]

Oh my God yes. Mini trampolines and eReaders saved our sanity. I don’t worry about screen time either, both of my autistic kids are doing well academically so I’m like “meh.” Oddly, we have always had better luck at senior restaurant (like Dennys) or ethnic restaurants. They figure out my kids are different and accommodate.

[@BlessedJess]

Haha. Yes!

[@mommaA505]

My daughter was diagnosed on April 3, 2019. She is going to be 3 in Sep. this video is very helpful. Thank you for making it. I am going to try the sleep suggestion. The scariest thing she does right now is run. She has ran in the street several times and doesn’t seem to understand that it’s dangerous.

[@BlessedJess]

That is scary! Nate has gotten better with time on that. I still hold his had whenever we are out in a parking lot or on the street because I still don’t fully trust him. Prayers for you guys! A diagnosis is scary but awesome! It opens doors for help.

[@MamaBowles]

Loved the video Jess. I cried when you was talking about potty training and you started crying. I'm having trouble getting my daughter potty trained she's 5years old. She hasn't been diagnosed with autism yet but we know she has sensory issues. We went back in November for an austim test but i feel like they rushed us though the test and didn't really listen to me. I told them how much trouble I'm having potty training her and they said since she don't hold her pee for long periods of time she's not ready to be potty trained. How can a 5years old not be ready to potty train? Something has to be going on somewhere. They said at the testing that they don't think she has autism then when I got letter in the mail from testing place it said they believe she shows signs of OCD. I haven't seen any signs of OCD, I have talked to her Dr and friends that has kids with autism and they all say they believe she has autism. So I have talked to her Dr and we are getting a new autism test at a different place.

[@BlessedJess]

I'm so sorry, Mama. I am praying for you have a better experience and doctors that listen to you. I am here for you. Potty training is so so hard. Just keep being patient. She will get it. It just may take longer for her. HUGS!

[@rachelday9585]

My kids don't have autism but still have meltdowns in public sometimes. It's just part of a kid being a kid. I was literally standing in line to check out once and someone told me I needed to leave with my child.

[@BlessedJess]

Oh goodness, how rude! Yes, for sure, all kids have meltdowns. I'm so sorry that happened. :(

[@ACGNikki]

I have gotten more mindful about people in Walmart when I hear a kid screaming now... before I'd get so aggravated and be like "good lort, can you not teach ur child any better than that.. little spoiled brat..ridiculous" (in my head, or under my breath). Now, I'm like, "well, idk the situation, i'm sure the mom is doing what she can - and this is just a couple minutes of annoyance in my day.." (I have to work in retail stores.. the joys)

[@BlessedJess]

Yes, the same for me. Being the mom in that situation will give you a whole new viewpoint! Haha. HUGS!

[@briegarseeuh777]

Wow, thank you for sharing this very informative video. My son has mild autism and ADHD and has so many similarities to Nate. I love hearing about your experiences and learning more from you! We don't have much help here where we live I PA so I'm learning as we go & from my own research online!

[@BlessedJess]

Sending hugs!!! Thank you so much for watching!

[@gigimc2494]

My daughter is the same way with the bathroom thing. She never has a problem with going #1 but she has a little something in her undies at school from #2 but no problems at home. I ask her if she needs to go but she always says no. Some days I use to have her sit on the toilet for a while because I was so worried she wasn’t going for long periods of time. Also don’t worry about the people staring. I deal with the same stuff and u are not alone. My sister in laws sister always tells me I need to spank her butt and this and that. I ignore them. My kid is mine and I’m her mom and I know her best and what she needs. And you know what your Nate needs so ignore the mean people. You’re a great mom and I’m right there with you. Much love. ❤️

[@BlessedJess]

Hugs! You are doing a great job too, Mama! The support and love means the world!

[@karamelkay6684]

My son school do special things for world autism day and my mom works with autism kids

[@BlessedJess]

That's awesome!

[@marshaice8985]

You are doing a great job Mom ♥️ I have a special needs child and I’m going to try some of your tips ❌⭕️❌⭕️

[@kimberlyniewiadomski9272]

My son is 11. He was diagnosed with Autism when he was 3.

[@BlessedJess]

Thanks so much for watching!

[@tatianarogers7400]

Hi Jess how you and the kids I have special needs and ADHD and I hate loud noise and I try quiet space in the school wander the hall and it is a safety issue and I might get hurt and it been happening since I was in 2rd grade and walk out of the room and school and people have to chase after me and do you have that issue with Nate because has autism and how do you and David keep Nate safe

[@BlessedJess]

He wonders off sometimes too, we always watch him close when we are out in public.

[@tatianarogers7400]

@@BlessedJess my grandma have to keep a close eye on me because of my ADHD and ask me what I am doing all the time she 70 years old and is taking and meds for sleep at night

[@heatherzehm1479]

Thank you so much for shareing this my daughter is not special needs but I work with adults who all have wide verity of special needs and they are so awsome and and amazing and sweet and my 8 year old and I love them all.

[@BlessedJess]

You are such a blessing to them and their families! I am sure of it!