Autism Mom VLOG #2 | My Methods.

[@danielle5391]

"I always knew that I was never going to Autism proof her life, because the rest of the world is not going to do that." Chileeee! ❤❤❤❤

[@KaRaBelli981]

*Disclaimer* I am not a mom! I never understood how people are comfortable enough to get into children, they don’t know, face. If I see a kid staring at me/in my direction. I’ll wave and smile, maybe say hi. But I NEVER invade their personal space. They deserve the same respect you give (or supposed to give) adults.

[@roslynjones5886]

I agree!!! If anything I just usually say something to the parents ( aka, you child is beautiful or smart, etc). If the child speaks to me I will respond but I’m not going to be disrespectful and touch anyone’s kid. That is just out of bounds. I especially hate when people touch children’s hands!!! Kids put their hands in their mouths. They’re always eating a snack. DO NOT TOUCH THEIR HANDS!!! I love what an excellent mom you are. Ann is such a beautiful child. That place for her to play is awesome!!!

[@roslynjones5886]

K JustTheLetter No, i know you’re not a Mom. I just forgot I was responding to you in agreement and I started addressing Vaughn. Lol!

[@lovejay3157]

I AM UCHE. Young lady that’s nothing to get bothered by. I clearly realized that after she was done agreeing with the other woman comment she started referring to Mrs Vaughn. GOD BLESS.

[@design401]

It's a shame how the world is..... I don't think there is anything wrong with speaking to a child.....they have to learn about other people at some point. American culture is getting so weird.... People don't want you to touch a kids hand and I remember adult relatives kissing me in the mouth all the time.... This has changed. I don't touch other people's children...everybody is so scared all the time.

[@design401]

@@lovejay3157 When my daughter was smaller people didn't really do that..... They would say hello...and ask her name. If they did....I doubt I would have thought it was weird if someone touched her hand. As long as people don't cross any real personal boundaries that made her uncomfortable.....I'm from a different generation..... Things have really changed.... So many young people lack social skills...

[@naturallyrachida9812]

Vaughn I got teary eyed watching this vlog. Was very touching. You are doing a great job with Anne and have a great support system. Stay strong and keep doing what you're doing.

[@jlyndsey1564]

naturally rachida I feel the exact same way!!!

[@BriBooth]

So did I! Anne is very lucky to have such great parents

[@wsbeckett1984]

I agree- they are truly a blessing for each other, she is an incredible mother. 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@1221tam]

I have two sons and remarried when they were seven and ten years old. My husband's son is autistic. He's very high functioning and had more of a pervasive behavior disorder trait. He was four when our family blended. He is now 26 years old and thriving very well The reason that attributes to this is because we never raised him as if he was "handicapped" due to being diagnosed with autism. He has grown out of many of the traits he had as a child like the hand flapping, rocking back and forth, fixation with wheels on a toy and would spin the wheel for long periods of time, etc. It takes a lot of patience and understanding to raise an autistic child. Both my sons were very caring towards him and they all got along well. One thing I can say is it is crucial not to treat the child as if they have a "problem". We never gave special treatment to my stepson where as other folks on the outside who didn't understand autism wanted treat him as if he was disabled and baby him. When he could do anything just as well as any other child. Their brain just processes things differently. Never underestimate children, with or without autism or any other disorder that folks love to label individuals with. I do find it interesting that you call yourself an "autism mom". I never labeled myself in that way...for one, it just draws attention. Negative attention I would think. No offense, but Why not just be a "mom". As a mom we all have challenges. I know exactly what it is to raise a child with special needs and the struggle of finding that support within the school system and just the outside world. I think it's great that you've found support and all the things you are doing to educate yourself and others. My stepson was nonverbal for the first five years of his life but with the right specialists, programs and my husband's and my love, attention, patience and support we gave to him, he flourished. To see him today, you wouldn't guess that he has autism. There are only those one or two specific traits he still displays that one would know ...only if they've been around someone with autism. I usually never comment on videos but thought I would today. Thanks for sharing this private and personal part of your life. You are an exceptional mom to Anne and she is blessed to have you and your family who care so much for her. Just as I know you feel blessed having her as your precious little girl ❤️

[@KailaJ]

I can't tell you how much I enjoy your autism mom vlogs!!!! As a speech therapist who works specifically with children who have autism, it is so refreshing to see how you handle Anne at home. You are so patient and you encourage Anne's independence. You are doing an AMAZING job!!!!

[@stephaniehardge4126]

Thank you so much for these vlogs. My son was diagnosed with autism when he was 3 (he’s almost 11 now). I’ll never forget the day he said “mama” when I picked him up from school. I cried in the front lobby and hugged him so tight. Thank you for sharing your family with us!

[@honeychild713]

New subscriber here. I was going to reply your doing awesome as a mother but then I thought this woman is doing awesome with life. Your organization skills are impeccable.

[@kathyw.3146]

God really sent Anne to the right family. I always knew that you guys were blessed the have Anne, but Anne is also very much blessed to have you as her family too. The early intervention that you're doing is invaluable. Keep up the good work.

[@ladreanascott4431]

I agree her organization skills are on point.

[@lolaleo75]

Depending on the situation I would let a person know that my son is autistic!! My son doesn’t respond to people speaking to him right away. Sometimes it takes a minute for him to process it all.

[@dee.b.2210]

I know where you are coming from Yes I let people know also because it takes my daughter time to warm up even know and she is 13

[@JDMNicanGirlSwagg]

How old is your son? I have twin boys that are almost 3 and don't say any words at all or point out what they want I have read about it and the symptoms and I have noticed some of them in my boys.

[@rasheedawilliams4395]

@@JDMNicanGirlSwagg if you have concerns for your twins then start with their pediatrician. Almost 3 is still young so the doctor will probably say that.

[@feefyefofumm]

My children haven't had an autism diagnosis so I can't speak from a space of knowing. However, I don't feel the need to explain or apologize for my children. Sometimes my kids don't want to speak because they're tired or teething or just not in the mood. Just like I have boundaries, I honor their personal boundaries as well. If they don't feel like speaking, they just don't. I don't think of it as rude (as some people will) because they can't communicate in the "formal" or "traditional" way. So to say "Speak when spoken to", imo, doesn't apply when speaking isn't their main form of communication right now (they're 18 mos). It's a little tough to explain this concept via text but my main point is that I don't think there's a need to explain why a child isn't speaking - it's no one's business. Similar when a man tells a woman "Smile". F$ck off. 😂🤷🏽‍♀️ ....and I'm sorry, if someone kept pushing my child to speak when it was clear that they don't want to speak, I would say, "Thats enough" very politely and keep walking. Just like if someone were pushing for a hug or a kiss. No is no. No further explanation needed.

[@feefyefofumm]

And, you are doing an amazing job. Seriously. Inspiring for all of us.

[@Bgal31052]

Thank you for saying what I was thinking. It’s ok for any kid not to speak.

[@ladonna1902]

Exactly! Even some neurotypical children don't always speak. Especially if they have been taught not to talk to strangers.

[@desireemaxwell525]

It’s so hard trying to figure out if I should disclose if my daughter has autism in public as well. Sometimes I do, sometimes I don’t now that she is getting older(4 years) I find it difficult to explain to children because kids want to play with her all the time and they don’t understand how she plays. But that’s just apart of a autism mommy. I believe it gets easier as they get older because they understand more. You got this! She has you for a reason❤️

[@SoRandom2023]

Desiree Maxwell yes same for me and my daughter she bout to 4 next month

[@K_My_Way]

Right!!!

[@lovejay3157]

Desiree Maxwell Hi, if you don’t mind me asking how does she play with other kids? Thank you for sharing. GOD BLESS.

[@desireemaxwell525]

love jay Thank you! And she gets very excited in play setting so she does a lot “stemming” with her hands and kids are like usually curious what she is doing. She wants to play with them but doesn’t no how to invite other to play with her yet so sometimes she gets frustrated or she’ll just play by herself most of time. It’s hard I’m hoping she will have a best friend soon that she can play with because she is my only and all her cousins live in another state.

[@lovejay3157]

Desiree Maxwell oh I see and thanks for sharing that. I’m not sure if she’s in school yet or not but if she’s not in school then that would be a time when she may develop good healthy friendships in school.

[@Ms360sista]

God has entrusted you with such a beautiful blessing. You are doing a great job. It takes a village.

[@pallavigupta6753]

Very cute kiddo😃 My son was diagnosed too at 2 But all hope is not lost....He is doing well now at 4 ....n have started a YTC too..’Naughty Kid and Krafty Mom’

[@IamYim]

She’s becoming more verbal, yes!❤️❤️❤️💜💜💜💗💗💗 your mom is amazing.

[@JoAnnaTheSoulStringerJohnson]

Honneeeyyyy!!! I have two in ABA and when they do things that other people deem as normal and we're super excited because it's a huge milestone for them and we wanna throw a party!!! I get it!!!! I'm so excited when my two year old is using two and three word sentences and my five year old is using any words at all!!! I have to constantly explain to people that he's not flipping people off because he flaps and stims a lot and he postures with his middle fingers. He's being more compliant in ABA now so that's a plus. They both break EVERY toy they get. And the five year old attention seeks like nobody's business. It's tough. But we're blessed no less. I'm gonna tag you in a video of them playing together with a broke piece of toy as a comb. So cute. Thank you so much Vaughn. This means so MUCH!!!! 💕💕💕

[@MsLadytray]

Ok so it's a thing! My son breaks everything and he's 22!!! I learned that when I was today year's old😂... seriously though if he breaks it now I don't repeat buy in 90 days.

[@arianajames2707]

As an ABA therapist at an autism clinic, everything you mentioned about not “autism-proofing” is right on point! We teach kids with autism how to functionally use toys and other things the right way instead of taking it away or out of the room, unless it’s unsafe! I love your vlogs about your daughter! It gives me another view on what my parents of children with autism go through on the daily.

[@rasheedawilliams4395]

I'm a paraeducator and said something similar to students. If they get s job the manager isn't going to say "oh you messed up because you have an IEP". They have to learn have to be less dependent on someone like myself.

[@lillyb3588]

Sometimes I explain to strangers that approach my daughter about her autism. Honestly it all depends on how I feel. My daughter is 12 years old. It’s exhausting always having to educate people and explain why my daughter reacts the way she does. Your house is beautiful! Your bathroom is gorgeous!

[@gathrightrichelle]

Momma is definitely been a DIAMOND IN THE ROUGH...inspite of all she had going on. Her strength and strong position reminds me of my mommy. We are blessed 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🤗🥰🤗😘

[@michellemartin2330]

I’m sure majority of us cried, while watching. Thank You for sharing and providing so much information. Thank You, looking forward to your next videos.♥️

[@marisaford1120]

Yes. I did

[@feefyefofumm]

Absolutely cried.

[@wsbeckett1984]

Yes indeed, I cried as well, she’s such a precious little girl. 💛💛💛

[@MsLavelle76]

I am sending my prayers to you and the family. I have a son (23 y.o.) with Autism. And he is a true blessing. We been there and it will get better . I can tell you some stories. But be patient. You go this ! Good job Anne...

[@Wrappedinscraps]

Thank you for sharing your vlog, I too am a mother, I have 4 girls ranging from 19 years old to 2 years old...out of the 4, 2 of my daughters are autistic ..so I understand the struggle... and understand the feelings, disappointment, overwhelming feelings of what's to come.. and the rude people. I just want to say to you keep up the good work, my girls are 6 and 8 and are both doing a lot better. Neither one of my girls started talking until the age of 5, but now they are talking, reading, spelling, etc... Your hard work won't go to waste, it will get better with time.

[@iammekkb]

You can tell when Anne loves something, she smiles a lot.

[@kalunastewart1970]

I am an autism mom, he is now 18 and there is never a dull moment in my home....drama has been our life good and bad but I won't trade it for nothing, its a true journey.

[@Sarod2023]

Anne is beyond lucky to have you. I am in awe of your patience. I try so hard to be a patient mom and I pray for patience with my toddlers. However, it seems like the more I ask God for patience, the more mess I have to deal with lol! Thank you for sharing this with us. It’s inspiring for all moms.

[@TheodoreBakes]

lilbaby103 same!! The patience is the main hard part for me and then I beat myself up for it because I do lose my cool at times and I know that's the worst thing to do 😔

[@Sarod2023]

TheodoreBakes same here! I’m trying to be different but that’s what I know. I was raised in a West Indian household and I want to be different than my family members. Gotta break the cycle of impatience.

[@Genie2386]

Dammit Alex! I saw her tearing up and I ended up crying, too. 💙

[@ShakiraKGardner]

Miss Raquel Alex!

[@crizzysong1589]

Me toooo😢

[@summerleigh5316]

I’m a Behavior Specialist obtaining hours to become a BCBA. You are doing an amazing job. I thank you for not allowing autism to define her because so many parents do especially when they have little knowledge or are not open to Applied Behavior Analysis. So I want say thank you for being an advocate for your daughter while showing autism should not be used as crutch but used as a gift❤️

[@ashleygonzalez-adams4300]

Summer Fowlkes as a autism mama....it makes me so happy to see more black ABA’s. You guys are amazing and helped my son have major breakthroughs....thank u and good luck ❤️

[@summerleigh5316]

Ashley Gonzalez-Adams thank you so much I appreciate it. Yes, there is such a need for more black people in this small field but the numbers are growing. Thank you for believing in ABA and allowing therapists to help you help your son. Amazing mama...keep it up!

[@jriley6197]

My son is 3 and has ASD. He gets 45 minutes of therapy everyday. I'm so glad I found these blogs cause I feel so alone in this. Your doing great!

[@karenb2873]

Hi Mom, I’m curious, do you feel the therapy has helped your child improve? Some parents feel as if it really doesn’t make this much better.

[@Titus2Chic]

I've said this before in other videos for other reasons but it's worth stating again b/c you continue to prove over and over again that you're just simply amazing ... all around ... as a woman, a wife, a mom, a sister, a daughter, a friend, an influencer, in every aspect of life ... it's just who you are. In a future video, do you mind discussing some of the initial signs that alerted you to seek medical answers? I've read that early diagnosis can help tremendously with development. The fact that you noticed some things before Anne was 1, without having any other kids around to compare her to, is remarkably intuitive. I have a couple of friends who have kids with autism and I don't recall that either was able to pick up the signs so early.

[@ltarleton7527]

I know you didn't address this to me but I'm a teacher who has had to talk to parents about what I see in the class as well as the step mom of an autistic child who is now 7. This isn't in all cases but in my experience verbal delays, not making eye contact, socially awkward with peers, overly obsessed with a particular object, and many can be extremely intelligent in a particular subject or in the arts. When I taught kindergarten, I had an autistic student who read near a 3rd grade level, but he struggled socially and had a hard time transitioning from one thing to another. Hopefully, Vaughn can add to this.

[@ltarleton7527]

Oh and I noticed it in my husband's daughter when she was about 3/4. She never made eye contact and expressed herself via grunts and screams. Also, she was extremely sensitive to noise like the hand dryer in restrooms, vacuums, ect. and was a VERY picky eater. We're talking more than the norm for a child. She was obsessed with Mickey and electronics. I hope this helps.

[@Titus2Chic]

@@ltarleton7527 Thank you for your response, truly appreciated. I can totally see how the signs become more obvious the older a child gets, especially at that age where you expect communication. I believe this is where my friends noticed their something in their kids as well. Vaughn was able to discern before Anne was 1, I'm not sure I'd even know what to look for at that age. Now that you've mentioned eye contact, I can see that one.

[@stephaniewilliams5753]

For my daughter, she was around 1 when we knew. She was diagnosed with ASD a year later. She wasn’t imitating speech, she wouldn’t respond to her name. She would do repetitive things like open all the cabinets in the kitchen, would not play with toys, extremely sensitive to sounds/noise...

[@ltarleton7527]

@@Titus2Chic you are welcome. Unfortunately, I wasn't around my stepdaughter until this age when my husband and I started dating and of course with school not until 5. Someone else responded about the eye contact and sensitivity to noise at age 1. There are also many books and articles if you suspect a child is autistic. I always say, if you suspect anything, take your child to the doctor. Again, I hope this helps you. It's so great to be able to inquire and learn on this platform. 😊

[@lorinelaloir]

Beautiful vlog. I love the fact that you dont deprive her of anything. You allow her to be her self, learn, and have choices. All children are special in their own way and as parents we have to be patient with our children. It's not only us teaching them but they also teach us.💙

[@YT4Me57]

I'm a retired speech language therapist and I am so excited to see that play center. When I began my career, the Jose P law had just been enacted. Before then, children with disabilities weren't entitled to be educated, and for all but the wealthy, there was no options available for parents. It's a joy to watch Anne smiling and engaging while playing. You are an awesome parent. It's a learning process. Don't be afraid to gently educate people about Anne. You don't have to go into details but simply thank them for their interest and compliments on behalf of your daughter. One thing that I have learned about children on the spectrum is that failure to respond doesn't allows mean failure in awareness. I suggest that you read up on Temple Grandin (if you haven't already done so), who is a person with Autism and a wonderful voice for those living with Autism.

[@mzbeyoutiful4691]

You are doing an amazing job with your baby. My cousin’s son was diagnosed with autism at about 2 years old. And just like you, she said it wasn’t going to rob her of motherhood. So she worked hard to rear him to be as normal as possible. He’s 16 now, speaks intelligently, extremely smart, and he’s well behaved and has always been. You’d never know he has autism. I don’t know what being an autism mom feels like but I do understand. Be encouraged Vaughn💖

[@Tayishas_Facts]

So beautiful I'm crying too because she's so happy you're a great mom ❤️ I look forward to more videos I've been watching since 2012 and I am so happy for you. Have a great weekend to you and everyone in your family

[@assataacoli]

When moments happen with strangers that they may not understand, I smile and say, "Autism is her Super Power."

[@TYXOXY]

It's the "little" things that make us special needs parents smile. Gratitude keeps the best attitude. Congratulations Anne for making choices😍

[@sonicmariodonkeykongzelda8466]

I'm on the spectrum of high functioning, as well and people who have any level of it are very unique. We all have our own battles.

[@kccsmith820]

You are doing an excellent job! She will be well prepared for preschool. How about a small vacuum so she can help with the clean-up if she is not afraid of the sound.

[@kristhequeen]

Ann is so adorable & calm. Thank you Vaughn for sharing this journey with us. My girl is not autistic but she has oral, facial, digital syndrome & it has caused some developmental delays. So its so great to have a community of support.

[@Darknlovelyone85]

Kris The Queen 🤗

[@snewo]

I think people need to take cues from parents when it comes to their kids. Most toddlers don’t want to be bothered by strangers.

[@vmgh3119]

I am a mom of an autistic son who is now 20 years old. So glad you are vlogging this.

[@JaneraRose]

So glad to see Anne making strides in her journey! You're very kind and patient with her and it's been wonderful watching you grow in mommyhood! ❤️

[@taneishajohnson3790]

I so admire you as a woman and mother. Watching you for years and just wish you all the best life has to offer for you and your family.

[@margarethall569]

Your daughter is so beautiful and you are so blessed that God gave her to you and your husband. God knew you would take care of her and love her

[@MzFine1]

The love and support of your entire family is what most black families lack. This was just so emotional for me in a really good way. Anne is thriving from all the love and protection she receives on a daily basis. You're awesome Vaughn. Your mom is truly a gem.

[@pnkpixie84]

Watching vlogs like this brings back memories💓. My son used to scream when cashiers or waitresses would say "Hi!" to him😂 It was soo embarrassing, but I never let it stop me from taking him out to eat, or to go grocery shopping. Now he won't stop saying "Hi!!!" to people 😂 I used to get so anxious when we would go to the park, because I knew the other kids were gonna ask him why he doesn't talk or be confused when he can't keep up with the games they're playing because it involves following directions and role playing. Now instead of being anxious at the playground, I just keep a watchful eye and let him enjoy his life😊 I used to make him stop stimming in public because I hated when people would look at him while he was doing it or ask, "what's that sound?!" when he would vocal stim. Now when he stims in public, I don't even bat an eye. BUT, I will give a stink eye to people who gawk or try to laugh at him.💁🏿 Being a shy, introverted person, I hated getting unwanted attention, but because of my son being autistic, I have grown soo much! And in ways I'd never imagine💓 Some days are hard, but being an Autism mom is definitely worth it.

[@beautifullymastered1914]

Such a great mom ❤️I just love how you plan I want to do the same whenever I have kids❤️

[@nikkinicole5327]

And you should be so proud. Being a mother is hard work, however being a mother of an Taking care of Autism children can be really hard work. ( my best friend has two children) Hats off to you and others out here. Education is key.. keep making these videos and I am so happy for Anne for making her own choices. And just know that you are loved and we are so happy and proud of the hard work. You add to my happiness and all your suppies lives 😘😘😘😘

[@Luv2shop803]

You’re a great mom and so patient. Loving your new haircut and your dark floors.

[@Ms.NIkaDM]

I remember these days. She is so blessed to have you all! Both of my children have Autism. My son had no Speech at 3 1/2. When I heard him say "mommy" for the first time, my heart physically squeezed in my chest. He's 13 now and talks non-stop! Be Blessed!!!

[@curvysophisticate]

You’re doing such an amazing job with Anne. I’m sure it’s exhausting at times but also very rewarding. Kudos to your mom for all she does. Family is everything. ❤️

[@ellet5693]

Alex wasn't the only emotional one here. I've been crying the whole video. Hearing about the milestones from picking her own food, calling you "mom", getting individualized therapy, your decision to not deprive her of things because of her autism, and the color wheelhouse! I'm just an emotional mess over here. You are doing a GREAT JOB!!! God bless you all and also Grandma and Auntie Alex for being a great support system.

[@TiffanyHoy]

This blog is amazing Vaughn, it's amazing how much you get done in a day. These blogs are helping me become a more patient mom. Thank you. 😘

[@MsVaughnTV]

Tiffany Hoy Thank you so much Tiffany!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@jennapitts8373]

Hi Vaughn. Ann is beautiful and is doing so well with all of your love and care. Wayfair sells a standing stool called a “Kitchen Helper so kids can stand at the counter to help or just watch and eat their snacks

[@mamaguile7587]

My child doesn’t have autism but I find it takes the pressure off when I disclose what her disability is to strangers. I also see it as part of raising awareness.

[@kae6250]

I smiled this entire vlog! Ann is so awesome! Vaughn, you and your family are doing so well raising little Ann.

[@jenherring]

My 3 year old is non verbal as well and I politely tell people my daughter has autism to prevent any meltdowns. My 7 year old is also autistic but she’s high functioning and can be overly excited or too friendly. I have to explain to others as well. It’s a process but the girl’s therapist gives us cards to carry just in case we cannot explain. I totally understand. 💙

[@karenb2873]

WOW

[@brendashort3294]

Hey, there Ms.Vaughn love your go it attitude you have for taking care of your daughter Anne. Your patience you have for your child is awesome. I know it took time for you to have this type drive in you. Your mother is such a blessing to your daughter Anne. The way she interact with Anne is incredible. Then your sister came along with you and Anne to the kids play gym for Autism and that was so cool. I see some growth in your child and I'm praying that Anne will continue to make great progress this year. Ms.Vaughn keep your spirits up and continue to have hope in Anne will talk more and understand things as she gets older. My neighbors next door son has Autism and just like Anne he didn't start talking until he was 4 or 5 yrs old. He didn't talk a lot at the time but over the years he speaks now. That was years ago now he's 15 years old and he's taking driving lessons with his dad. He helps with the yard work...yes, girl he cuts the grass and does the neighbors next door grass too. So, what I am trying to say is children with Autism do grow out of the things they go thru but, it takes therapy, time, patience and lots of prayer. I really enjoy talking to the young teen next door and he is so polite and respectful towards adults. Been to his birthday party and I had a wonderful time with his family and friends. His parents was surprised I came but, I been around children with different way (inability) of doing things growing up as a child. So, now all this is nothing new for me. Growing up my parents didn't shield me and my older siblings from playing with kids who were a little different than us. So, happy Anne is making great progress. Take care Ms.Vaughan and be blessed. 😃😃😃👏👏🙏🙏💖💖💖 P.S. I hope this message gives you some inspiration to dream that one day Anne will do great things in her life. 👍👍😇😇

[@DreyaMay]

I have 2 kids with autism, I totally relate to you!! Especially with your comment about people trying to talk to her. You are never alone, even when u are feeling like you are!! You are doing amazing, and so is she! ❤

[@Ahdhsnakadcjh]

Vaughn keep pushing God knows that you can handle this with grace which he made you Anne’s mother ♥️ side note: Can you decorate my house 😭😂

[@MsLadytray]

I'm an autism mommy. My son is 22, some days I disclose other days I don't. He is verbal but may have difficulty expressing himself. Hats off to you and the entire family, it helps when everyone is onboard. My children help out tremendously. We all make the sacrifices to ensure his care because I don't trust anyone with him my husband is ALL about that baby just like yours. I love that you're sharing this because it's hard no matter where they are on the spectrum! Go Anne! P.s I hollered when I saw that little hand stick out and that cap hit the ground. Anne said you can keep the cap just ride me momma😂

[@reginahoggan227]

I've been watching your videos and you're a GREAT Mother/Wife and am so sorry for your lost but the love is so deep and strong and God will watch and protect Ann at all times as well as your husband.

[@fredinestmartin5039]

I love watching you Vaughn you are a strong,kind ,and phenomenal woman and most importantly a mother. I wonder sometimes how you able to stay so positive despite you having to do so much and you still have that smile . You are an inspiration to me in so many ways my son is not diagnosed with autism but he has delay in his speech that stresses me sometimes but watching you give me hope and courage .

[@melaniemcgee6272]

I am ao happy I found your channel. My son is high functioning three year old and I am not coping well at all. I am overwhelmed many times and I often cry and wonder why did this happen. He is an amazing boy but no one understands until they live with it. You are amazing and you make me feel like I am not alone in this world.

[@etjfan32]

❤ Sending love & good vibes your way.

[@Bgal31052]

And he has an amazing Mom!

[@margarethall569]

You are such a sweetheart and so patient. I believe Ann is going to be ok, because you will see to that

[@moneatnina]

HELLO VAUGHN, I’m and Autism Mom also I can relate to the people in public places talking to your child and your child not responding. It takes everything out of you not to tell them they have Autism. Yes I have been there too so I can relate. My son is older than Ann and he has improved greatly, so I know with prayer, you, therapy, and your support system those verbal skills will improve tremendously as she gets older. Other parents would look at me crazy or sideways when I told them my son said a word. They would look at me like “it’s just a word” But to me it feels like I have hit the lottery. So yes get excited about her calling you mommy and all the other milestones she is going to overcome. Your a great mom doing a great job with Ann and kiddos to your mom for being a loving, supportive and great person to all of you. God Bless #AutismMomsRock

[@HelloNatalieK]

Wow, so this is your calling, educating youtube about autism, what a wonderful mission✨

[@vernellharris5278]

Vaughn and all your viewers I always tell my coworkers you never know what someone is going through outside of their job. Vaughn until you told your viewers about Anne autism I never would have guessed you and Anthony were going through anything other than everyday life sending nothing but love and prayers that the Lord continue to strengthen and bless you and your beautiful family and everyone involved in Anne's life!!

[@lisaessien2408]

Anne is such a sweet heart ❤️ and you are doing amazing. Well done, love your vlogs they are so educational. Thank you

[@jills911]

Aaaawww! I feel so proud of you and Anne. My heart is so full that she called you mom. I LOVE the Colorwheel Playhouse!!! It looks very similar to the sensory room in the school where I teach. I wish we had one in my city. The number of children with Autism has skyrocketed here. I'm a teacher in an Inclusion school and this will be my 5th year as a teacher of students with Autism. I would love to take them here bc some our field trips don't meet their social/environmental needs. The number of autism centers needed within our public schools has hit an all time high, so that now schools are moving toward inclusion in my city. It's common on the East Coast, everyone else is catching on.

[@etjfan32]

You expressing your gratitude for your mom has me on the verge of an extremely ugly cry. The fact that she took it upon herself to get educated shows just how deep her love for you, Anthony, and her grandbaby runs. I can only imagine how great that support must feel. ❤

[@blazebrown9102]

Y'all are incredible parents to Anne & have a good support system! Anne seem to try new things & at the same time do what toddlers do, tear up a room.😅🤩💖 Early intervention makes a difference. My grandson graduated this year to High School & early intervention made remarkable areas in his life. His vocabulary... is amazing, always melts me when we talk on the phone. He lives in a different state. When he was about 3 years old I introduced him to games to his liking on a computer, today he's tech savvy. The teachers were surprised he was advanced technically. I don't believe in saying what a child can't do without them trying, but maybe later when their ready.

[@annhuff3300]

Wonderful things are happening to Ann. Great job Mom!

[@curlyhairmommie]

You are doing an amazing job, your videos are so inspiring. Providing balance and normalcy in Anne’s life, and watching you not show a difference is a refreshing experience. I appreciate you for sharing your life. Thank you Vaughn 💕

[@sharifabell1151]

I LOVE this series. ❤️❤️❤️ You’re truly an amazing mommy, it’s like you were born for this. I mean, what a beautiful family.

[@lucky30402]

So proud of you as a nurturing black mom...and the transparency of ur vlogs is inspiring...Bravo MsVaughn♡♡♡

[@fhermendoza7421]

She acts the same way my daughter does 😭 we have faith she will talk soon 🙏 when they gave me the news I cried for three days straight!!

[@karenb2873]

Hi there, how is your daughter doing now?

[@Justme68ification]

Thank you Vaughn for sharing your life as a mom to an autistic child. I love how excellent of a mom you are and might I add that allowing Anne to be as independent as she can be is paramount to her cognitive well being. ...can I just say, to see Anne's beautiful smile speaks volumes. 💞

[@Klove514]

I recently discovered you guys and I’m loving it. I love seeing her progress. Awesome mom award! 🥇

[@zigizagano]

Autism has different levels. My son is on a high spectrum. He is non-verbal, very destructive, doesn't sleep, wears pampers 24/7, which needs to be changed 7-10 times a day no matter where he is. He is almost six and you can imagine the level of stress on the family. He has an older sister who is going to be 10 in a couple of months. We are all carers in the house. As a father, I love him a lot and pray and cry for him all the time. There are things I wish we could do together which are not possible. Is like my whole world did not only stop but is upside down. I struggle to focus at work or go for trainings to enhance my career. It is really difficult, only someone who is experiencing it can relate. Our marriage is suffering as well as there is hardly any time to relax as a couple.

[@karenb2873]

Sorry to hear about your troubles. Has a things gotten better?

[@alc1602]

As someone who works in special education, I absolutely love and admire what you are doing with Anne!! You are doing a wonderful job!!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@TheEagleslover]

Just made my heart feel so warm to see Anne's progress. You as well Vaughn. Being a mother of any child is a challenge, but, our special children need special mothers as well. Sending hugs and love.

[@hjlindsay]

This video is on such a different level!! Thanks for sharing

[@NYMahogany]

Real Life Vlogs is so fitting! I love how candid you are w/sharing all of your journeys. My best friend has 2 kids w/Autism. Her son is now in college & daughter in High School. They are wonderful kids and thanks to the patience & love from their parents they are doing awesome. You guys are doing a wonderful job.

[@sharon33375]

You have a beautiful daughter and you are a very good mom and a beautiful mom. 😊

[@MsVaughnTV]

Thank you very much that was so sweet and means a lot.

[@nkirukauguru401]

❤️❤️❤️ lobe Vaughn’s attitude and baby girl is beyond precious

[@brittanydavis1512]

I’ve been watching your hair/beauty videos sporadically for years. But the Autism mom vlogs compelled me to subscribe. My stepson is autistic and I really want to create an environment where he can flourish when he’s with us. Thanks for these videos.

[@joylynne8]

Thanks for sharing. I am learning so much. Your patience is exemplary!

[@gloriaharrison6346]

This information regarding Autism is much needed. My niece is autistic, starting high school in the fall. Her growth has been absolutely amazing. Tremendous thanks to you, Anthony and all Autism families that are doing it right.(doing ALL you can) Thank you for your love, patience and care. May the Lord continue to bless you, real good!

[@tiffanyperkins3301]

I got emotional too! You can totally see the difference in Ann playing at Chuckie Cheese and playing here. Such a great place!

[@threejeans6084]

New autism mom here, our son was officially diagnosed a few months ago. My sister in law, recommended I watch your channel. Thank you for sharing this experience, because one thing I've noticed ( people don't talk about), I often times feel lonely in this new experience. It's refreshing to see someone sharing about many similar experiences we go through with our son (now 3 yrs old). I recently had a similar encounter while out and like Anne people (including kids) come up to our son and want to speak/engage with him. He is also nonverbal, and I fight the urge to share about his diagnosis for better understanding on their part. I know this is an old video, but what do you do when people try to speak with her today? I struggle with this often, because our son is a little cutey 😊 and people want to speak with him. I truly want to use these moments for awareness and to educate, but don't know what/how to say...please share your thoughts. Again, THANK YOU for sharing!

[@Linetteavril]

MsVaughn I have a couple of family members who are now functioning adults that have autism. I helped raise my nephew and we just kept talking and stimulating him. He eventually became his own person and works. My cousin also has it and with therapy she now sales jewelry and work a full time job. I hope this encourages you. Keep going. They definitely now show love in their own way.

[@TheMsjade1984]

Anne is such a wonderful little girl. I really enjoy your mom vlogs. I hope more people discover your channel and see all the amazing things your family introduce to Anne. I really appreciate you for showing us Autism moms rock 🧩

[@jamieflowers546]

That was our biggest fear when we first got diagnosis, Jase not answering people or responding like other children to hello and other social cues. We, well mainly me would tell people that he was on the spectrum. Some understand, some don't. My husband did not tell people and would just say he was tired or not interested. Now at age 8 he speaks to everyone, introduces himself and everything. Progress is always out goal and the smaller the accomplishments that more excited we are. Awesome job mommy!

[@MoeJoKnow]

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[@crazy2bdenisse]

This video is pretty much what I go through with my 4 year old son. Now that he’s older I definitely disclose his autism (when needed) just because I feel better and can continue what I was doing without overthinking. I always smile and carry on because I dont want pity, its not the end of the world for us! Thank you for this video we need people to understand us and especially our little ones💜

[@brittneyk0158]

THANK YOU for sharing what a day-in-a-life of unconditional love is! You and yours are TRULY blessed! 🙏🏼

[@ZeeChick2014]

Aww I love her! I remember those toddler days.. My son is 26 yrs and has Autism and he is the sweetest person i know! It does get Easier... You are doing a great job with her Mama!!!

[@SoShayyy]

Vaughn, I am super duper PROUD of you!! I remember looking up to you during my SIUC years. You are such a GREAT Mom. You make the most challenging things seem easy and effortless. May God continue to Bless you and your family. THANK YOU for doing these VLOGS and sharing parts of your world that you aren’t entitled too. #SuperMom ❤️

[@iammekkb]

Good job Anne, Mom and everyone else, you guys are doing great.

[@Wnderfullymade]

Such an awesome vlog, thank you for sharing your journey💜

[@leeblessed7498]

Beautiful. Your such a GREAT Mom. I love how proactive you are with Ann. I wished they had that 23 years ago, where I lived. I had to be creative and purchase everything, I thought he needed and more. Keep being GREAT. GOD BLESS

[@gasweetness21]

My son has autism and it's definitely challenging I think the hardest part is the people that aren't educated on autism and moms that feel like cause they have/raised children they know what's best for your child. But girl I had anxiety when she started running probably because my son is a runner and over the years he gave me numerous amount of scares lol..loved this vlog

[@TheFinespice]

Excellent vlog. Not an Autism mom but love your patience and tone when speaking to Anne. Weldone Mama you are doing an excellent job. More grace to you.